Stop Chasing LOVE & Do This Instead To Find Love! | Martha Higareda & Lewis Howes

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  • Опубліковано 6 чер 2024
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    Martha Higareda is a Mexican actress, producer and screenwriter.
    In this episode you will learn,
    How to attract a healthy partner. Stop chasing them and do this instead.
    How to identify your attachment style and why we’ve attracted toxic people in the past.
    How to heal your inner child wounds and the amazing benefits of talking about values and vision before you start dating
    How to set healthy relationship boundaries
    Why “love is not enough” in a healthy relationship
    What most people misunderstand about manifestation
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 3 тис.

  • @lewishowes
    @lewishowes  Рік тому +413

    www.netflix.com/title/81398899 - Watch Martha's new film Queens On The Run!

    • @marialara2648
      @marialara2648 Рік тому +3

      I am watching it today

    • @deesmoon3845
      @deesmoon3845 Рік тому +4

      It’s on my Netflix watch list!

    • @imyourvenus5480
      @imyourvenus5480 Рік тому +21

      What a Lucky Man, Lewis!!!!!!!!! She's Beautiful and Talented? What? You hit the Jackpot ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Cravenn5
      @Cravenn5 Рік тому +3

      Watching on Sunday relax time❤️

    • @dublingirl1691
      @dublingirl1691 Рік тому +2

      Just started watching it!! ☘️😁

  • @mkarasfilms
    @mkarasfilms 8 місяців тому +259

    "If you want to control somebody, get a dog." - She couldn't have said it best! I love her energy and wisdom!

    • @estherhirsch4460
      @estherhirsch4460 2 місяці тому

      Martha is so articulate and authentic. You've had the most amazing people on your program, but Martha is #1. Happy for both of you. Every person dating should hear Martha'swisdom.

  • @haifa7292
    @haifa7292 7 місяців тому +75

    Dear Universe, a relationship like this 💗 thank you 🙏🏼

  • @pinktink77vp
    @pinktink77vp 2 місяці тому +35

    I love this. I used to work with relationship coaches and I said it years ago, over a decade, that "you complete me," is SO Co-dependent it is NOT healthy. The healthy relationship is comprised of 2 independently complete people who love each other, get along, want to grow together, and CAN live without each other but don't WANT to. I love you guys. Thank you for spreading the healthy relationship message. We need more of this❣

  • @leahcarandang9592
    @leahcarandang9592 5 місяців тому +82

    I wish for someone to look at me the way Lewis looks at Martha. This is so inspiring. 😊

    • @tanyaangel142
      @tanyaangel142 4 місяці тому +2

      Yes, truly amazing. And she deserves that look completely! ❤❤❤

  • @lopezmartosl
    @lopezmartosl Рік тому +330

    I loved the way he introduced her and the way he stared at her 😊❤

  • @ashlynnleray5640
    @ashlynnleray5640 Рік тому +460

    Mature love is deep, healthy, and intentional. You guys have done a fantastic job highlighting this fact. What a beautiful conversation!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Рік тому +20

      Thank you!

    • @7775OMEGA
      @7775OMEGA Рік тому +9

      Totaly agree, such a nice points of view. helping other to grow.

    • @catherinedao1592
      @catherinedao1592 4 місяці тому +1

      That is s greatest ideas of Healthy and Mature Love.
      You have to be happy yourself then you have happiness to give to someone you love. Someone comes to your life just makes you happier not take away your happiness. You have to feel freedom in love not prison.
      Wonderful couple. Congratulations guys

    • @mariaandres2422
      @mariaandres2422 2 місяці тому

      What a great conversation it makes me feel grownups.. I'm single and I'm not looking for love just waiting for the right time. God bless u both 😊

  • @angelieavenie5741
    @angelieavenie5741 2 місяці тому +10

    He asked her, "why do women go out with the troubled man...as opposed to the healthy man?" A, she replied,, "I think it has to do with your past, it has to do your inner child...it has to do with unresolved trauma.... You start lookinng at your past". That is so relatable for me. Just recently, I reflected on my past fails and relationships & I realized the problem....that I never learned early on in life how to maintain a relationship.

  • @Alexaofearth
    @Alexaofearth 8 місяців тому +98

    I am Mexican and I love this woman! And I appreciate you two. Y’all make me believe in love again.

    • @JGallis
      @JGallis 6 місяців тому +1

      Love is always there, we just have to 🐝 mindful of who we choose to share it with.

  • @carlareginaga
    @carlareginaga Рік тому +526

    Look at your face Lewis 😍 you are so much in love. We can see it and it’s beautiful 💖✨

    • @LejlaEnigma91-oy1mj
      @LejlaEnigma91-oy1mj 9 місяців тому +15

      She is Amazing woman ,has a beautiful aura

    • @ABC-here
      @ABC-here 9 місяців тому +13

      They look so adorable together, were glowing and it looks just so perfect!

    • @malawigoldelephantmarsh6578
      @malawigoldelephantmarsh6578 8 місяців тому +13

      Exactly what I felt! I realized when I was smiling ear to ear. I love that for them. 💗

    • @dusicaisalov5186
      @dusicaisalov5186 8 місяців тому +7

      We want part two of this episode:)

    • @hiroko_tarot
      @hiroko_tarot 8 місяців тому +7

      i like the monent u two say i love u to each other...😂🎉❤ makes me cry.

  • @Elizakmx
    @Elizakmx Рік тому +271

    1.Rejection
    2. Abandonment
    3. Humiliation
    4. Treason - Betrayal
    5. Shame
    Inner child wounds.

    • @speakintothemicb
      @speakintothemicb Рік тому +26

      Crazy when you deal with all 5 from childhood but are required to work through it alone as an adult.

    • @PatriciaTrueTh
      @PatriciaTrueTh 11 місяців тому +5

      ​@@speakintothemicbthat is so true, I have always try to do the oposit in regard to hide who really am, I don't want suppleness to lie to me, therefore i son lie to them, i want to know the goals, the values, and with all that I'm struggling with the rejection i suffered as child

    • @MariaStFleur
      @MariaStFleur 7 місяців тому +8

      How to heal? Can I have her therapists information?

    • @shoirayusupova2198
      @shoirayusupova2198 4 місяці тому +3

      She said that her therapist is Nilda. Could be Nilda Chiaraviglio.

    • @lb1798
      @lb1798 2 місяці тому +1

      4:00 The concept of YOU COMPLETE ME IS WRONG‼️‼️❗️‼️
      5:40😆🤣😂🤣

  • @DeniseShannon-sl6tc
    @DeniseShannon-sl6tc 9 місяців тому +78

    Thank you, Martha and Lewis, for sharing of yourselves so vulnerably, authentically and
    honestly. Please, please, please continue your conversation with Part 2. The example of your conversation: you "see" and "hear" one another. Beautiful. Thank you, thank you, thank you! The world needs to see what a healthy relationship between two responsible adults looks like and is possible for each one of us when we CHOOSE to work on healing ourselves, first.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  9 місяців тому +9

      Appreciate you and your support. 🧡

    • @happilydivorced3235
      @happilydivorced3235 6 місяців тому +8

      Nothing is as beautiful as a healed couple.💚💚💚

  • @blissfulbaboon
    @blissfulbaboon 10 місяців тому +52

    I'm so glad Martha emphasized how important healing your inner child is.
    May you both have a long and meaningful experience together😊

  • @mtaya97
    @mtaya97 Рік тому +311

    “You’re not my whole world, but you are a big gigantic planet in my solar system.”
    “You don’t make me happy. You make me happier.”

    • @carloss2202
      @carloss2202 Рік тому +2

      Lewis had to say exactly the same about she... but for a woman around 40 years old there is few chance to build a real family with sons only Cats and dogs

    • @teachyoureasy
      @teachyoureasy Рік тому +1

      Yessss those parts!!!!

  • @aleidagonzalez9558
    @aleidagonzalez9558 Рік тому +182

    "When you're trying to change someone else, it says: YOU DON'T LOVE THEM DEEPLY"... I got the chills.

    • @theresacameron107
      @theresacameron107 Рік тому +9

      Why I am sending this podcast to many women I know! I’m all about not trying to fix or change others.

    • @aleidagonzalez9558
      @aleidagonzalez9558 Рік тому +4

      @@theresacameron107 Well, you may be trying to change the women you know? Nah, maybe it's just me projecting... it's a great podcast, share it to everybody.

    • @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool
      @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Рік тому +1

      SO true :)

    • @2009baglady
      @2009baglady 7 місяців тому

      I’m shooook!

    • @ivannagutierrez1009
      @ivannagutierrez1009 6 місяців тому

      Naahh mija la persona juzga no accepts y Esta solo usando su ego y el ego no ama es el opuesto Al amor 😅😅

  • @anamadrigal1111
    @anamadrigal1111 11 місяців тому +137

    Que alegría años de seguir a Lewis y saber que comparte una historia de amor con Martha Higareda VIVA MÉXICO !

    • @yarahingutierrez6006
      @yarahingutierrez6006 11 місяців тому +6

      ❤❤ viva México 🇲🇽

    • @anasifitthesmarteatingcoac1441
      @anasifitthesmarteatingcoac1441 11 місяців тому +6

      Omg I didn't knew you guys were together! Totally awesome!

    • @lillyrocks82
      @lillyrocks82 8 місяців тому +8

      Porqué dicen "Viva México" por cosa que no. Pues si no se trata de la nacionalidad ,sino de lo persona, algo independiente, de dónde se sea. Él está enamorado de ella, como ser humano, no por una nacionalidad.
      El nacionalismo de algunos es irritante en un país donde mucho más de la mitad de la población vive en pobreza, el narco está a todo lo que da, gobiernos de gente ignorante, egoístas, corruptisimos, pero algunos viven en la burbuja de "no pasa nada"
      Mientras eso no cambia el "viva México" sale sobrando y es hasta ridículo.
      Y no es contra de Martha, porque ella sí es una buena persona, pero da pena cómo tienen a México la gente que ha gobernado y gobiernan (todos los partidos la misma mentalidad de robarnos,tener mucho poder y empobrecer a la población).
      Así que un "viva México" sale sobrando.
      Yo diría "empobrecido y corruptisimo México, no lo merecemos!!"

    • @claudelatorre6818
      @claudelatorre6818 4 місяці тому

      Que chingon!!!

    • @claudelatorre6818
      @claudelatorre6818 4 місяці тому

      Que chingon!!!

  • @PameHdz13
    @PameHdz13 Рік тому +54

    I’d love a part 2!! Martha is soooo wise and I don’t think we in Mexico acknowledge it enough 🥹

  • @pattynguyen7167
    @pattynguyen7167 Рік тому +332

    Would definitely love a Part 2. I didn’t think I’d enjoy this as much being that I’m single and assumed it was content made for couples. But I took away SO much valuable information and insight. The world desperately needs to see/hear more stories of truly healthy and authentic relationships.

    • @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool
      @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Рік тому +3

      Yes! part 2 please ❤

    • @karlamerriam
      @karlamerriam Рік тому

      I echo this response to the T.
      Thank you!!!

    • @genna2586
      @genna2586 Рік тому +1

      Totally agree with a part 2! Very inspiring and heartfelt messages that really resonate. Please do a second part to include your 3:04 thoughts on how your journey is going.

    • @gabrielacastro6727
      @gabrielacastro6727 Рік тому +2

      Exactly!!! Really worth content ❤

    • @stephtoledo2327
      @stephtoledo2327 Рік тому +1

      Part 2 pls ❤

  • @karissajones2294
    @karissajones2294 Рік тому +153

    I’m only 23 minutes in, but I’m so happy for both of you to find this type of love, connection and maturity. The fact that you’ve both worked on yourselves as individuals is evident. ❤

    • @Jay-ef2ii
      @Jay-ef2ii Рік тому +1

      @karissa Jones: Are you crazy?! I was into the first 5 minutes and I got the full picture of this messed up relationship. That woman will only drain him mentally and heart-wise. It's not about them but it's about her only. I believe that both parties have been married before, but it's a bad move. It's best if this host ends up with someone Young. Some one unmolested! California has so many women to date especially young ladies and he ends up with this old foggie. Really?! This is a joke! It's bad comedy. April 23, 2023. USA.

    • @DeniseShannon-sl6tc
      @DeniseShannon-sl6tc 9 місяців тому

      @jay-
      It's obvious, Martha's vulnerability intimidates your insecurities about who you are. Stay exactly who you are. What we don't change, WE CHOOSE. You will attract exactly who you are, which is the OPPOSITE of who Lewis and Martha are: a manipulating, controlling, dominating, insecure adult, reacting as a traumatized child in an adult body. I wish you the happy, fulfilling life of your dreams you so deserve!

    • @lb1798
      @lb1798 2 місяці тому

      Are they married?

  • @eugenierunner7988
    @eugenierunner7988 11 місяців тому +7

    You are both unique! You can feel the kindness and the warmth in Martha! Two beautiful souls who finally meet! Yes, to a part 2, please, cz I learned so much in this so needed, (especially in today’s world), deep, conversation! All the best in your endeavours and thank you!❤😊

  • @SoNiiCkx
    @SoNiiCkx Рік тому +4

    Bring on Part 2!! Wow what an amazing conversation. Made me realize so much and reflect on all the entire conversation!!

  • @amyg-money1892
    @amyg-money1892 Рік тому +124

    Lewis & Martha, my biggest take away from this Interview is the Values & how we love ourselves first and also that without that Growth, maturity, experiences and alignment, it's almost impossible to have a Loving Balanced relationship. I related to the both of you SO much and I am grateful for you both!!! I am proud of you both! ❤️💜

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Рік тому +12

      Thank you for taking the time out of your day to check out the interview! So glad you enjoyed it🧡

  • @michellethechallenger747
    @michellethechallenger747 Рік тому +325

    Love this conversation!! As a Mexican I admired Martha a lot as an actress, however as a person a lot more 😘 Amazing couple 👏🏻❤️

  • @lilmermaid2930
    @lilmermaid2930 5 місяців тому +18

    Everything she said resonates deep within my soul!! Values are so so important!! I always try to change the person thinking I’m helping them! I want to love someone unconditionally and for who they are! I am manifesting someone who loves me for me! 💙🌌💫

  • @JenniferLett2011
    @JenniferLett2011 Рік тому +20

    Bawling my eyes out at how open and loving this was. So helpful and absolutely life-changing for me to see two independent people love each other so openly and in such a dynamic way. Really inspiring conversation with two humans who have learned to love themselves, help others, and align with their person. So cool.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Рік тому +3

      Thank you so much for your kind words 🧡

  • @4evercath
    @4evercath Рік тому +71

    Please invite Martha to your show more! She's so wise, eloquent and on the point! I learn so much from her, maybe even more than from some of the other guests. :) It is also very sweet to see how a successful relationship/marriage actually looks like through both of you when there's such a marriage avoidance culture among men in the US with the 50% divorce rate like a horror fable story. I love her metaphor of having your own universe and the love partner is just one of the bright star in it, at the same time, we need to accept to just be a bright star of our partner's universe as well, not the sun, or the whole world to our men/women, so very different from the dragon slaying stories/movies where men have to risk their life to save us.

  • @rainbowtouch797
    @rainbowtouch797 11 місяців тому +4

    I want to have relationship like Lewis has with Martha.
    Thank you for being constant role model and sharing timeless truth

  • @sarinagold1869
    @sarinagold1869 8 місяців тому +12

    Her voice is so sweet! Love the healthiness of this relationship

  • @elisaramosrodriguez3212
    @elisaramosrodriguez3212 Рік тому +176

    He seguido a Lewis ya por varios años y me encanta su programa y sabía que tenia una relación con una Latina ❤ pero jamás creí que fuera con Martha Higareda 🥰♥️ Felicidades a los 2. Que orgullo que una Latina sea pareja de este hombre increíblemente talentoso que nos trae siempre información invaluable al alcance de todos. Martha cuídalo!!!! Ya me siento súper orgullosa de ti ♥️🥰

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Рік тому +26

      Appreciate you and your support🧡

    • @jacquelinereyes5109
      @jacquelinereyes5109 Рік тому +10

      On the contrary he got way lucky with Martha. Either way, I wish them the best of love. It is cute to see Martha with a man that enjoys learning to be a better person, and that too has his own podcast. Please treat Martha right. I want to see her live the happily ever after!

    • @NathanlovesAna
      @NathanlovesAna Рік тому

      Muy bien dicho Elisa! Pienso lo mismo ❤

    • @aracelihernandez5221
      @aracelihernandez5221 Рік тому +3

      😱😱😱No sabía esto que dices,neta, qué fregón esto ,Miles de bendiciones para ellos .Me tiene con boca abierta la Martha ,muy bien ella ,él ,súper genial ,ya lo veía antes ,ahora lo veré más a este hombre divino .

    • @patriciareddy
      @patriciareddy Рік тому +11

      No se dice Martha cuídalo, sino "Lewis cuida a Martha", más bien debe ser mutuo.

  • @lotusdedart
    @lotusdedart Рік тому +159

    I loved seeing her love for you Lewis, everyone deserves love, but you especially Lewis. You've given so much to people and are always growing into an even more amazing person. Thanks for the interview Lewis ❤

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Рік тому +12

      You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡

    • @win05
      @win05 Рік тому +4

      Yes I do. This is very informative and both of you are open and honest 😊

  • @jenn2025
    @jenn2025 8 місяців тому +10

    Yessss please!!! best interview on Love and Relationship ever listened. There's such a higher sense of self in both of you that makes it enriching and so potent. We want more #2 for sure. Thanks Lewis Howes grateful for you

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  8 місяців тому +1

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching. 🧡

  • @jam20230
    @jam20230 Рік тому +3

    We are so honored to hear Martha's input. Thank you Lewis for another wonderful interview. She is a sister, a friend, a mother for all of us who dont have such a figure in our lives. What a beauty with brains! And what a great looking couple you are.

  • @dimcg7445
    @dimcg7445 Рік тому +83

    I met this two at the Dr Joe Dispenza's retreat. I get the chance to hug them. Both of them are humble. Martha is super sweet! I manifested Lewis to see at the retreat and it happened with the plus. So grateful to see them! 🙌❤️🙌

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Рік тому +5

      🧡

    • @ceciaosorio2331
      @ceciaosorio2331 Рік тому +1

      I would love to go to those retreats!

    • @dimcg7445
      @dimcg7445 Рік тому +3

      @@ceciaosorio2331 You won't regret it! Best happened to me!

    • @1216miriam
      @1216miriam Рік тому +1

      Do you recommend the retreat?

    • @dimcg7445
      @dimcg7445 11 місяців тому +1

      @@1216miriam i would! It help a lot of making the right decision. When you're there, you will be sorrounded with so much energy and love. You will heal that way coz everybody is in the same page!

  • @tnns4l287
    @tnns4l287 Рік тому +78

    I did not have any idea how much this episode would help me as I navigate my own life... please part 2. Martha is amazing with her words

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Рік тому +4

      Thank you!

    • @antoniavasile63
      @antoniavasile63 Рік тому +3

      Yess I clicked on the video out of curiously and ended up going back several times, taking notes and realizing my wounds and those of my loved ones 😮❤

  • @itzaliadenizard1933
    @itzaliadenizard1933 Рік тому +5

    I wouldn't have never guessed that these two would end up together. I am beyond happy for both of you. You're the perfect match made in heaven ❤ Keep up the great work.

  • @14tintsstudio
    @14tintsstudio 8 місяців тому +3

    Yes!! Looking forward to part 2.Thank you for this amazing episode Lewis and Martha! So much to think about! Would love to hear more.

  • @johnlombardo7816
    @johnlombardo7816 Рік тому +87

    Yes!! Not only do we need a part 2.. this needs to be a regular segment please !! So amazing! You guys are a wonderful representation of the meaning of love. ..matter of fact ... .please get you Two and jay and radhi together for a monthly episode please ❤❤❤

  • @soulprintslifecoaching
    @soulprintslifecoaching Рік тому +55

    I don't understand how this doesn't have a million likes and views yet. Thank you for putting this out there. It has helped me tremendously!! Definitely want to see a part 2.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Рік тому +5

      You're welcome,thank you for watching🧡

  • @dharaneemartinez4796
    @dharaneemartinez4796 Рік тому +23

    I was so happy to see that you’d be interviewing one of our great Mexican actors and ecstatic when I learned of your relationship 🎉 I rarely post comments, clearly I had to make an exception. The love is off the charts! 💕 Thank you for this and all of your interviews 😊

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Рік тому +1

      You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

  • @monicadinca2821
    @monicadinca2821 11 місяців тому +7

    I am on this journey to discover my self more than 11 years and I am extremely grateful for this amazing podcast, where is condensed years and years for healing, Lewis and Martha, both of us you helped a lot of people with your beautiful story.
    Thank you so much!
    Be blessed with LOVE ❤

    • @lilmermaid2930
      @lilmermaid2930 5 місяців тому

      GREATNESS ❤ THIS WAS ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL!! Thank you!!

  • @stephaniearistei
    @stephaniearistei Рік тому +14

    Yes, we want a part 2!!! Pretty please, this has been so insightful! Thank you both so much for sharing your experiences!

  • @consummatel
    @consummatel Рік тому +35

    Yes part 2 please! What a beautiful example of two humans loving each other deeply and supporting each and choosing each other to adventure in life together! I was emotional at the end when they spoke in gratitude of each others love ❤ what a beautiful example to follow in my own relationship❤

  • @RayshofSunshine
    @RayshofSunshine 8 місяців тому +4

    This is an eye opener for me but will surely be for a lot of people. Thank you for having this deep and authentic conversation as a couple, and as individuals, sharing both your experiences, values, etc.
    Makes me want to know myself and work on me more before thinking about getting into a relationship.

  • @StephenScoggins
    @StephenScoggins 9 місяців тому +1

    Man Martha!! Lewis Randy said she was awesome, but “seeing I love you through the eyes of another” dude! Powerful ! Much love you too. Congrats to you both !

  • @tHiSfUgGgiNdUdE
    @tHiSfUgGgiNdUdE Рік тому +6

    Yes! I definitley want a Part 2 to this conversation please. Listening to the two of you discuss these things has really helped me re-center myself for my own growth. The journey has been rough lately and this helped me to keep pressing on. Also, just hearing how much she loves you is really wholesome and beautiful. So yes please. Part 2 ASAP.

  • @mp7140
    @mp7140 Рік тому +9

    What a wonderful conversation and how sweet and wise Martha is.
    Also how well she can express herself. It was a pleasure to listen.

  • @user-pk5pl7ox1e
    @user-pk5pl7ox1e 5 місяців тому

    I think when you give and recieve love in certain ways and it matches organically for the other person is just BEAUTIFUL

  • @Ayesha-bz6ng
    @Ayesha-bz6ng Рік тому +10

    such a beautiful podcast. heart warming. got teary eyed at the end when both Lewis and Martha held hands and affirmed love for each other. lovely and truly awakened couple. blessings x

  • @cynthiatat
    @cynthiatat Рік тому +36

    YES - I love Martha's insights. Please bring her in for a regular segment 😊

  • @Starofdaseea
    @Starofdaseea Рік тому +6

    Martha is such a sweet heart, you can tell she’s done a whole lot of inner work& other things to grow as a person. I love her heart based words!

  • @user-ze6mf8ni8s
    @user-ze6mf8ni8s 11 місяців тому +22

    I am Mexican married to an American woman. Same like you, but the opposite. The biggest challenge we have had has been the cultural differences. I was raised and educated in Mexico City and she in the USA. I would love for you guys to do a show about cultural differences and how to deal with them. How have you done so that your cultural differences do not affect your relationship?

    • @KarlaGarcia-rs3oi
      @KarlaGarcia-rs3oi 4 місяці тому

      I totally agree

    • @Majesty12-12
      @Majesty12-12 4 місяці тому

      Cultural differences will be just that always different, unchanging. You just adapt to that and go with the flow of things. People always identify with their cultures and upbringing, its not something that changes overtime. This is why its important to first evaluate if cultures differ if that's something your willing to be accepting of in the other person. Tradition and culture always shows in people. It's best to refrain from getting involved with someone that you can't accept their culture because there's always disagreements that will happen and you can't change someone else for yourself to be pleased.

    • @aplik881
      @aplik881 4 місяці тому

      Hi friend, it is not something easy to anticipate contrarily to what the other answer said. We learn on the go, feel stressed, misunderstood or whatever by thw other person reaction, and it takes time to figurw out that these oppositions are in dact different perspectives. However this is cultural and this is as well individual, becaise ain't each if us building our own culture in a way, even inside one or several culture. So it get ti the same point, see the other person take away as alternatives in this world and not fundamentally something against our views or personal. How you guys have been doing with tjese differences? One love. We are on one Planet you know,we can work it out

  • @brendal971
    @brendal971 Рік тому +18

    She made many great points🙂! Made me reflect and think on areas I need to continue to heal and grow as a person 💕. Thank you for posting this. Saludos Martha ☺! Orgullosa de que nos estes representando a todas las mujeres Mexicanas! Mucho exito en todo lo que emprendas! ♥

  • @adrianaaagaardsommer3466
    @adrianaaagaardsommer3466 Рік тому +16

    Martha for president!❤
    I’ve learned more about the way I react in relationships from this conversation than I have during the last twenty years and I have worked hard on myself. This conversation explained so much for me. Thank you love birds ❤

  • @zealiabella8553
    @zealiabella8553 Рік тому +63

    It was just so inspiring to see the two of you reaping the fruits of your individual inner healings. You both have modelled what a healthy relationship looks like. Two people building each other up and celebrating your own uniqueness. I would love to see another video of you both sharing your experiences and wisdoms. All the best to you both.💜

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Рік тому +5

      Appreciate you and your support🧡

  • @grisarevalo8491
    @grisarevalo8491 Рік тому +9

    Ví la conversación doblada al español, me encantó y también la tuve q ver en su idioma original para no perderme ni un detalle.
    Felicidades a Lewis y Martha por su hermosa relación.
    Me hubiera gustado tener ésta información tan valiosa hace muchos años atrás, pero aún es muy útil en mi presente, mil gracias.

  • @drchen6424
    @drchen6424 11 місяців тому +3

    She is one of the most insightful relationship experts I’ve ever seen you interview. And she wasn’t even introduced as a relationship expert! Thank you for sharing her greatness with your audience. I feel that could have been somewhat scary and intimidating for you too. It took real cajones to expose to the world what a smart and wise woman she is.

  • @cindygonzalez5052
    @cindygonzalez5052 Рік тому +19

    Going through this process it’s crazy how she literally put in words everything I have been thinking and healing. Amazing! I feel very identified and it’s a confirmation I’m on the right path. 🙏 blessed and refreshing to hear all this. ❤️‍🩹

  • @virginiaherrera9321
    @virginiaherrera9321 Рік тому +20

    You guys give me hope and faith that real love does exist. Please do this more!

  • @kimberlyrowell6812
    @kimberlyrowell6812 Рік тому +1

    YES YES YES.
    The content was exceptionally relevant, helpful and authentic!
    Your on screen chemistry together is infectious!
    More please!

  • @darkkemy
    @darkkemy Рік тому +2

    Yes please to part 2. Thank you both for taking the time to share so much valuable information around forming and building healthy relationships

  • @techevelyn1
    @techevelyn1 Рік тому +5

    This video helped me so much to understand and accept so many things about my life and my process of healing and acceptance. I love the way you two love each other and the honesty you share with each other. These videos are life changing! Thank you!

  • @v9b23j
    @v9b23j Рік тому +12

    What a beautiful and mature conversation. Lewis and Martha, you embody the conscious couple.

  • @yimon582
    @yimon582 5 місяців тому +1

    Just loved part 1 so much !!! Waiting for part 2❤❤.

  • @dianabrenes777
    @dianabrenes777 Рік тому +12

    Martha!!! You go Girl!!! You are my definition of an "EVOLVED WOMAN"
    THANKS FOR BEING YOU ❤!!!!

  • @talhyoblitas1602
    @talhyoblitas1602 Рік тому +13

    You guys are great together!!.....this episode is fantastic 👏🏼, so many of us thinking about finding our other half 😢 when in real life first we have to find ourselves ❤

  • @mangalyamadhu5735
    @mangalyamadhu5735 9 місяців тому +3

    What a beautiful and meaningful conversation! This video has helped me get into so many levels and insight. Thank you so much. I will be genuinely greatful to see the second part.

  • @Von_RX
    @Von_RX 4 місяці тому

    We need a part 2 with Martha! Excellent conversion - very impactful.

  • @jessicahe7535
    @jessicahe7535 Рік тому +9

    Encore please! Part 2, 3, 4, 5, and so on!! We need more conversations of knowledge and wisdom with Lewis and Martha! Thank you for sharing your healthy love relationship

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Рік тому

      You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

  • @LL-fc5fo
    @LL-fc5fo 5 місяців тому +10

    Hour 1:20:32 WOW maturity is clear. No need to fight for being a priority. Your cup is full and is willing to give naturally. ❤❤❤ best convo guys! Thank you!
    Martha explaining the protection and safety is so true! I am in charge of my safety no one else!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  5 місяців тому

      Thank you so much for watching!

  • @denismulatiah
    @denismulatiah 7 місяців тому +1

    We've been waiting for part 2 for 6 months now. When is it coming up? This is such a healthy conversation👌... I've replayed it more than 6 times and it always brings a fresh perspective every time. Part 2 pleaaase!

  • @tnyqueen
    @tnyqueen Рік тому +7

    I'm watching Martha's interview of Lewis and it's so good. Can't wait to watch this one too!

  • @alexvaloficial
    @alexvaloficial Рік тому +32

    ¡Ustedes son una inspiración de verdad! Qué relación tan bonita y sana. Me encantan los podcasts de ambos. ¡Qué viva el amor! ❤

  • @flowershop7443
    @flowershop7443 8 місяців тому +2

    This episode was AMAZING! I can feel the love between you two and it was so refreshing to see two people appreciate each other fully for who they are! Blessings to you both😊

  • @drfannyyacamanDentalSolutions
    @drfannyyacamanDentalSolutions 9 місяців тому +5

    OMG!!!! I LOVED THIS INTERVIEW!!! Amazing tips for everyone to know! Martha and I think similarly and of course YOU NEED TO MAKE PART 2 of this Interview! I learn so much thank you! You both are the best together! ❤

  • @maribelmarini2819
    @maribelmarini2819 Рік тому +11

    1:37:13 I’m 55 years old, married and with 2 children and I never realized how important was to work in knowing myself before get to know a partner. The key work in the art of happiness and in the successful life is working in our inner child wounds and be clear who you are before to choose anyone to share the life with you. This was kind of masterclass for teenagers to adults to thinking seriously how to build healthy relationship . Felicitaciones a los 2 por su excelente ejemplo!!!!

  • @LoveeeeelyM
    @LoveeeeelyM Рік тому +48

    Absolutely we need a part 2 pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
    I loved this episode! Sent it to a bunch of people and took notes. Thank you so much for this incredible gem 💎♥️🫶🏻

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Рік тому +7

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for listening.

    • @PatriciaTrueTh
      @PatriciaTrueTh 11 місяців тому +1

      We will love the second part, certainly is plenty of wisdom, and for that i want to thank you for helping this human to be a better person. ❤

  • @lemondedansmavalise22
    @lemondedansmavalise22 4 місяці тому +1

    Yes!!! "Don't die with your music in yourself." I cried at that one ❤

  • @Mgenao76
    @Mgenao76 Рік тому +4

    So Amazing!!! Love this content!! Would really appreciate a part 2 on inner child wounds and healing process!!! ♥️

  • @aysandunga_3762
    @aysandunga_3762 Рік тому +118

    Vine aquí a decirte que este es el amor que todas merecemos y me da mucho gusto que lo estés viviendo!!!

    • @plentyoflife
      @plentyoflife Рік тому +7

      el amor, las finanzas, las casas, autos, ciudades, sociedades, TODO SE CONSTRUYE, nada se merece

    • @gra_mandalasmandaleandoando
      @gra_mandalasmandaleandoando Рік тому +3

      Todo lo que podemos ver dentro de nuestra realidad es porque es posible, y ellos vienen a mostrarnos que es posible para el que lo ve ❤

    • @ivyfariassantos
      @ivyfariassantos 8 місяців тому +1

      Sí! Todas nosotras merecemos ese tipo de amor. Eres para nosotras tambien. Universo, mostre para nosotras.

    • @mar_dma
      @mar_dma 7 місяців тому +1

      @@plentyoflifetienes que saber y sentir que lo mereces antes de construir, si no se derrumba.

    • @dididodi652
      @dididodi652 5 місяців тому +1

      Espérate que huela el primer pedo asqueroso que se tiren y veremos si aún siguen así.. Ellis están con la enfermedad del amor. No ves defectos . No ves más allá del futuro.. no ves cosas que te molestan del otro y el otro no lo he en ti.. aún ella tiene progesterona y están en la etapa de procreación... Espera pase eso y muy muy pocos se quedan juntos.

  • @kellytaylarkarim1608
    @kellytaylarkarim1608 Рік тому +51

    Loved this talk! Martha is a freaking boss standing in her personal power in a way that awes me!!! Yesss please to parts 2,3,4,5!!!

    • @marthahigareda8
      @marthahigareda8 Рік тому +4

      Thank you Kelly!

    • @claudiafegari5116
      @claudiafegari5116 Рік тому +1

      I second that, Kelly!!! :)
      I would like to add the end brought tears to my eyes, when they expressed their gratitude, sharing what they have learned from each other so far... :)

  • @110alt
    @110alt 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much for sharing this. It was so revealing to me, especially while undergoing my own healing journey. Much love and success. Your relationship is what I aspire to have one day ❤

  • @floravalle1625
    @floravalle1625 2 місяці тому

    We need more videos like this one. You both are great at communicating and listening to each other. Great job!!❤

  • @margueritebaca3921
    @margueritebaca3921 Рік тому +4

    So many takeaways. Martha's 5 basic wounds was great for identifying myself and others. I definitely spotted mine and could see how I played it out. What a masterful beauty Martha is. Thank you for bringing her on your show Lewis. I learned a lot from you. Your common value of commitment to growth is something I've dream of and you show me that it 's possible.

  • @anchaleeintac.2195
    @anchaleeintac.2195 Рік тому +12

    MY take aways: 1. Put yourself first (specially your health), 2. When you don’t feel secure in your relationship, you begging trying to control the other person, and that may come from not feeling good enough yourself, if they betray you, they weren’t the person for you, 3. Everything is information, is not personal.

  • @julianneway
    @julianneway 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your love dynamic with us.

  • @roslyndowning8808
    @roslyndowning8808 11 місяців тому

    Enjoyed Marya's insightfulness. She and Lewis seem to be a GRATEFUL combination Their interaction as their authentic selves is admirable.

  • @anaisaerksen
    @anaisaerksen Рік тому +12

    What a great conversation, thanks for sharing!
    I'm 38 and just got out of the most unhealthy/toxic relationship I've ever been in and find myself in so much of what you're saying.
    This gives me hope.
    You seem to be a wonderful couple. All the best to you!
    Would love to hear more.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Рік тому +1

      You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

  • @natashascott5685
    @natashascott5685 Рік тому +4

    Beautiful connection!! So happy for the both of you!! Much wisdom in this conversation!! 🥰🌟🌸

  • @carmenjohnson9747
    @carmenjohnson9747 Рік тому

    Loved this so much! Even though I cried like 4 times… my question is though, how DO you address your baggage on your own before you involve someone else? I have always been driven by hope for the future, set my sights on things I wanted to change about myself and my circumstances, and I actively and thoughtfully intended to operate in a growth mindset. I tried my darnedest to be self aware and address my issues head on, but there have always been plenty of blind spots, and some of those have taken a decade for me to recognize through reflection of multiple encounters that I only recognize as a pattern in whole in hindsight. The struggle is real, but vital. Of the utmost importance! Thanks, Lewis, for all the wonderful value, transparency, and life-changing content! I am so grateful for you ❤

  • @Just.b302
    @Just.b302 6 місяців тому +1

    Yes. You guys are great together. Communication is the key 🗝️ with Kindness, Respect & Love

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you! Appreciate you!

  • @lauragonzalez7400
    @lauragonzalez7400 Рік тому +8

    Yes part 2 please 🙏 Martita, muchas gracias por este hermoso y increible podcasts. Esto definitivamente me va ayudar yo por el momento estoy soltera, tengo un año y medio trabajando en mi en sanar todos mis traumas y herridas y esta clase de podcasts me ayudan para que el dia que encuentre a la pareja que quiero sea mas facil. Congratulations on your beautiful relationship ❤️

  • @PennyNelson
    @PennyNelson Рік тому +33

    Thank you both. What an extraordinary conversation! We should be taught this in school. ❤ So many people are children of dysfunctional relationships. How far we have to go.

    • @ainatler
      @ainatler Рік тому +3

      Agree! We need this type of education in the classrooms.

    • @yvettesantillanes
      @yvettesantillanes Рік тому +3

      Same thing I said! This would be great in school.

  • @selfloveroweena3886
    @selfloveroweena3886 5 місяців тому +1

    Love this episode. Thank you

  • @billychouna4276
    @billychouna4276 Рік тому

    Thank you Lewis and Martha🙏🙏🙏 WE are waiting the part 2... Thank you very much🙏🙏🙏

  • @lizparenzan4761
    @lizparenzan4761 Рік тому +4

    Lewis' best podcast. Brought tears to my eyes regarding the love between these two.

  • @jef9688
    @jef9688 Рік тому +4

    What a privilege to listen to you two talk about your very thoughtful relationship.

  • @laurashaw3940
    @laurashaw3940 Рік тому

    Yes to a part 2 with you and Martha!!! To answer those questions!!!

  • @vickig6080
    @vickig6080 3 місяці тому

    Abandonment can also be not getting emotional connection or validation even if both parents are present. Thank you for your candor, openness, and wisdom. Healing and communication is so important. ❤

  • @latisalserica6393
    @latisalserica6393 Рік тому +4

    yes part 2 would be great. was brought up an old fashion way by my mother and previously I thought I had changed many of my faults but realised that I still have more work to do on myself ♥we never stop learning and to be humble and vulnerable.

  • @nehedhassan1059
    @nehedhassan1059 Рік тому +5

    Great podcast, inspirational, educational, eye opening. Sincere, honest & informative conversation. Thank you