thank you for sharing this, real strength is found in vulnerability, Many of us relate - as a woman I believe society has put alot of pressures, restrictions and expectations on men that are counterproductive - your current state of being is not permanent , nothing is, BREATH, one day at a time, you got this !! hug ur kitties !!
It is completely understandable that you feel like this. It's not your fault, your surrounding is unnatural. Society nowadays is unnatural. Don't bash yourself for feeling bad. Don't force yourself to "Wubba Lubba Dub Dub" and "I don't care" because you know you care. You can't force emotions. Saying you don't care when shit goes wrong will set you up for not caring when shit goes fine. You care, of course you do, and if you have to feel bad and crash, do it. Puke your emotions out when you have time and just sit in silence and think it through. Try to replace your addiction with a less harmful/positive addiction (games, food, music...) for now. You're not a slave. Nice cats btw I have 2 too, animals are really cool.
@@johngutierrez3991 Thanks, man. Thankfully I have enough friends to share the weirdness of our time with. I do have some friend who tries to force himself to "not care". That's why I said that. A couple friends, a place where you belong and healthy body & mind is key, even in tough times.
you're very young and the brain has a fantastic capacity to adapt and bounce back from abuse if you keep at it. It's true that you don't have all the time in the world but your time is far from over. Exercise, stay off the weed and keep at it and your life will improve. Weed is like living with a weighted backpack on wherever you go, being off of it will make your life significantly easier.
Praying for you. You seem like a good kid and I’m happy you are getting clean. Everything will be ok. You’ll look back one day and it’ll all make sense. Find small challenges to conquer so you can grow as a person and feel that sense of accomplishment. (Hugs)
It takes about 21 days to fully get pot out of your system. Depending on how frequently you used it. The first two weeks are the hardest for people to have their body get back to normal.
Some life advice for u U gotta get up and go get it nobody owes u nothin and ain't nobody gonna give u anything get up out of that chair and go get after it and don't be afraid of failure if u do fail at something don't quit get up and go get after it again all u gotta do is get up and get whatever it is u want put the work in and whatever your tryin to accomplish will happen
I feel like that all the time and I am 10 years older than you. Things can get better with a positive mindset and taking care of yourself. Exercising can help with that and eating right. Hope you feel better.
stop counting the days. sobriety will come and go, its a daily choice to be better. make that choice every day. its not easy to pull yourself out, to make the effort is the hardest part. you'll see the positive soon.
dude good luck with quitting, if you feel like marijuana is not for you than cut that shet out of your life. i tried quitting for over 10 years just to realize a life without weed is not a life for me, everyone is different.
thank you for sharing this, real strength is found in vulnerability, Many of us relate - as a woman I believe society has put alot of pressures, restrictions and expectations on men that are counterproductive - your current state of being is not permanent , nothing is, BREATH, one day at a time, you got this !! hug ur kitties !!
Proud of you brother
It is completely understandable that you feel like this. It's not your fault, your surrounding is unnatural. Society nowadays is unnatural. Don't bash yourself for feeling bad. Don't force yourself to "Wubba Lubba Dub Dub" and "I don't care" because you know you care. You can't force emotions. Saying you don't care when shit goes wrong will set you up for not caring when shit goes fine. You care, of course you do, and if you have to feel bad and crash, do it. Puke your emotions out when you have time and just sit in silence and think it through. Try to replace your addiction with a less harmful/positive addiction (games, food, music...) for now. You're not a slave. Nice cats btw I have 2 too, animals are really cool.
Cheer up brother every breath is a restart❤
@@johngutierrez3991 Thanks, man. Thankfully I have enough friends to share the weirdness of our time with. I do have some friend who tries to force himself to "not care". That's why I said that. A couple friends, a place where you belong and healthy body & mind is key, even in tough times.
I'm on the same path as you on this Quitting Journey, and trust me brother, it only gets better ♥ much love and support from Portugal
Every day is new❤
you're very young and the brain has a fantastic capacity to adapt and bounce back from abuse if you keep at it. It's true that you don't have all the time in the world but your time is far from over. Exercise, stay off the weed and keep at it and your life will improve. Weed is like living with a weighted backpack on wherever you go, being off of it will make your life significantly easier.
Praying for you. You seem like a good kid and I’m happy you are getting clean. Everything will be ok. You’ll look back one day and it’ll all make sense. Find small challenges to conquer so you can grow as a person and feel that sense of accomplishment. (Hugs)
It takes about 21 days to fully get pot out of your system. Depending on how frequently you used it. The first two weeks are the hardest for people to have their body get back to normal.
You have time to do whatever u want as long as you will it
Some life advice for u U gotta get up and go get it nobody owes u nothin and ain't nobody gonna give u anything get up out of that chair and go get after it and don't be afraid of failure if u do fail at something don't quit get up and go get after it again all u gotta do is get up and get whatever it is u want put the work in and whatever your tryin to accomplish will happen
I feel like that all the time and I am 10 years older than you. Things can get better with a positive mindset and taking care of yourself. Exercising can help with that and eating right. Hope you feel better.
amen to that, exercise changed my life. eating right is a big complicator for me, but i do put in the effort. appreciate u
It's tough out there. Take care of yourself.
@@dialdown6184 thank you ❤️ am a month out now, feeling a lot better.
stop counting the days. sobriety will come and go, its a daily choice to be better. make that choice every day.
its not easy to pull yourself out, to make the effort is the hardest part. you'll see the positive soon.
dude good luck with quitting, if you feel like marijuana is not for you than cut that shet out of your life. i tried quitting for over 10 years just to realize a life without weed is not a life for me, everyone is different.