Why Are Men No Longer Obsessed With Women?

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  • @julesb2415
    @julesb2415 8 місяців тому +996

    Men were never obsessed with women, they had easy access to them and women had to play along to survive.

  • @PhotoJeticPoet
    @PhotoJeticPoet 8 місяців тому +950

    Obsessed? They don't even like us 😂

    • @levtieart3409
      @levtieart3409 8 місяців тому +197

      They obsessed with hating us
      And blaming us for their issuws

    • @InternetNonsense
      @InternetNonsense 8 місяців тому +1

      Exactly, there was ever little love, mostly lust and social games how to bed and control women. Self-help, independence, being a good partner and father? Very few exceptions interested in that. Most are avoidant, indulgent, neglectful, abusive, antisocial addicts of some form of escapism. Their obsession was never healthy so it's actually a relief if it's diminishing. Obsessed men are dangerous, controlling, stalkers that may end up harming you. They are natural predators of women, most women dying unnatural early death die from their hand, the men they know. Biggest risk while pregnant? Murder. That's all that needs to be known.

    • @dkingpin05
      @dkingpin05 8 місяців тому +5

      @@levtieart3409 I agree. vice versa unfortunately

    • @girly.mimi00
      @girly.mimi00 8 місяців тому +17

      FACTS !!!!

    • @jfreeman2422
      @jfreeman2422 8 місяців тому +11

      At all lol

  • @PinkSpice19
    @PinkSpice19 8 місяців тому +1243

    After listening to the first woman, I’m glad I de-centered men because being a pick me in 2024 is embarrassing 😂

    • @WeMustAllStandAsOne
      @WeMustAllStandAsOne 8 місяців тому +144

      It's so embarrassing 😂😂😂. Like it makes me cringe so bad sometimes

    • @Aniexo_
      @Aniexo_ 8 місяців тому +94

      Embarrassing asf 😂😂

    • @peachesandpoets
      @peachesandpoets 8 місяців тому +72

      Seriously. If I were a man I'd be like wow, cringe. 😂

    • @coleyboot1
      @coleyboot1 8 місяців тому +80

      You are stating facts it was so sad listening to her I almost clicked off

    • @SkarGig
      @SkarGig 8 місяців тому +78

      After half listening to her, I had to pause the video and turn my volume all the way down because of the rabid yelling. She's straight foaming at the mouth, but, why?? 😮😮😂😂

  • @copperredd
    @copperredd 8 місяців тому +165

    Screw what men want! They r constantly contradicting themselves because they do not know what they want themselves... Caring what they think is pointless. Do u!!!

  • @ulquiorraisawesome
    @ulquiorraisawesome 8 місяців тому +568

    Ya know, I don't care if they're not obsessed with us, because honestly I don't think we're obsessed them anymore either, and I think that's a good thing.

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 8 місяців тому +49

      Right there should be no complaining from men about women 😅

    • @InternetNonsense
      @InternetNonsense 8 місяців тому

      Yup, it's refreshing to see women take notice how they've been groomed to chase this non-existent ideal of man prince charming and in reality they don't like us at all. Thousands upon thousands find abuse, disrespect and exclusion of us so funny and titillating. The internet opened women's eyes to all the "locker room" talk, the sheer amount of hate and expectation to treat us as cattle, servants, punching bags. Is this what we doll-up and give up our time and bodies for? Not worth it.

    • @copperredd
      @copperredd 8 місяців тому +7

      This

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 8 місяців тому

      These men if she talking about black men they dont marry as a collective is 20 something percent they don’t marry the church girl or stripper women Ned to focus on their needs not what these dusty men think

    • @marissa._
      @marissa._ 8 місяців тому +19

      Agreed. 💯
      There's people calling the initial girl a "pick-me" because she said what do women bring to the table?
      The thing that stuck out to me the most is when she said there's women that are using men to fund their lifestyle while not having money of their own! I agree! Why the hell don't you want to spend your own money? Why the hell do you wanna rely on a man to fund your lifestyle?!?!
      There's nothing to be obsessed with! Quite frankly, being obsessed sounds dangerous!
      I'd rather be independent, free, self-sufficient, self-reliant and have MY OWN!
      MY OWN money AND bank account that ONLY I have access to, that ONLY I manage! In the words of Miley Cyrus, “I can by myself flowers.”
      Its weird to be a grown adult that WANTS to rely on another grown-ass adult! That's abusive! Men are known to be abusive! Physically, financially, emotionally, verbally, mentally, sexually, etc! Why the f*** do you want to rely on man and spend his money and be "lead" by a man?!?!

  • @Caramelboii91
    @Caramelboii91 8 місяців тому +537

    No one should be “obsessed” with anyone.

    • @traceylennon1204
      @traceylennon1204 8 місяців тому +13

      THANK YOU!!

    • @marissa._
      @marissa._ 8 місяців тому +39

      EXACTLY! 💯
      Being obsessed with someone sounds dangerous as f***! It gives, “if I can't have you, no one can!” vibes. 🙅

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 8 місяців тому +4

      l Agree 💯

    • @jungersrules
      @jungersrules 8 місяців тому +2

      💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @Definitelynotabot4
      @Definitelynotabot4 8 місяців тому +2

      YESS

  • @moonlightstargem1006
    @moonlightstargem1006 8 місяців тому +415

    The moment a woman has freedom, people get angry and judge her for it.
    Ladies, do what you want & feel no shame. In history we never got to do these things. Enjoy it while it lasts!!

    • @marissa._
      @marissa._ 8 місяців тому +22

      YES! ❤
      AGREED! 💯💯💯
      We JUST got rights back in the 1970s! That WASN'T that long ago!

    • @west913
      @west913 8 місяців тому

      Bingo! They hate women who are not male identified.

    • @somebodycomelistentothispo7217
      @somebodycomelistentothispo7217 8 місяців тому

      Right because males are rapidly changing laws to subjugate us as we speak. We better be ready. We are in for a fight

    • @thegayestgoth
      @thegayestgoth 8 місяців тому +1

      While it lasts? You just LOVE being a victim.

    • @titanblooded6222
      @titanblooded6222 8 місяців тому +4

      No one ever got to do these things because we all had duty to our societies, families etc.

  • @Vee_Davis-wb9wd
    @Vee_Davis-wb9wd 8 місяців тому +253

    the thing about obsession in men and women ...more often than we care to admit...when men obsess a woman ends up harmed....so yea we women folk dont care if they arent obsessed...thats basically saving a womans life at this pt

    • @sharronmccombs1716
      @sharronmccombs1716 8 місяців тому +15

    • @Bigbethie
      @Bigbethie 8 місяців тому +12

      Thank you for saying this because 😂

    • @traceylennon1204
      @traceylennon1204 8 місяців тому +11

      PERIOD‼️

    • @Aja-Christian
      @Aja-Christian 8 місяців тому +28

      THAT👏 FREAKING👏 PART👏!!
      A lot of women out here romanticize the idea of a man being "obsessed" with her and totally look pass the reality that when a lot of men cross over into obsession territory, it's not the cute, schoolboy crush version they get. There's endless news stories and movies based on true stories about men who were obsessed with women and it ended in tragedy.

    • @shaypope4732
      @shaypope4732 8 місяців тому

      So true we don't need them fucking up the world more than they already have

  • @toyin2376
    @toyin2376 8 місяців тому +431

    Men should just go ahead and marry each other

  • @only1adrienne
    @only1adrienne 8 місяців тому +470

    I don’t understand the black men that do the passport bros thing. How is it a bad thing for black women to want a provider without being called a gold digger, but a Spanish or Asian woman demanding the same thing isn’t a gold digger?! They are submitting because they want the men to get them out of their poverty, not because they love the men so much. These men will spend thousands of dollars to go abroad and be one big trick but convince themselves that’s not what they’re doing.

    • @candygirl1990
      @candygirl1990 8 місяців тому +89

      So true. Passport bros are pathetic in my opinion

    • @scorpionmish
      @scorpionmish 8 місяців тому

      The worst part is that they don't even do the research to know that unfortunately it is not acceptable for those cultures to date black people. I'm born and raised in NYC and many Hispanic and Asian girls who have dated black men have been put through the ringer with their family because they do not accept it.

    • @88QueenOfHearts
      @88QueenOfHearts 8 місяців тому +70

      My favorite is the men going to Japan. Video after video about how these women are ok with cheating due to the cultural difference. Not realizing that means using brothel like places, and she can access them too!🤦 They really think just them, though🤷

    • @mscece1900
      @mscece1900 8 місяців тому +43

      This!!!!! 💯 Best believe those women are looking to be provided for too

    • @shaypope4732
      @shaypope4732 8 місяців тому +50

      This is why gold digging isn't as insulting as they think I rather that than the salvation army line or dust digging

  • @Ehlaar
    @Ehlaar 8 місяців тому +301

    with all of these podcasts Men literally still are obsessed.

    • @briskettacos
      @briskettacos 8 місяців тому

      Mgtow stands for Men Getting Triggered Over Women in most instances.

    • @Veracityseeker7
      @Veracityseeker7 8 місяців тому +47

      Facts. They say they're going their own way, while constantly talking about women.

    • @shaymalchione809
      @shaymalchione809 8 місяців тому +31

      Right how many videos are they going to make about leaving us alone? We dare you at this point😂

    • @Ehlaar
      @Ehlaar 8 місяців тому +21

      @@Veracityseeker7 right women are talking raising awareness, awakening. Men are trying to damage control.

    • @tinyking11
      @tinyking11 8 місяців тому +8

      😂💯🤧💀 They stay having a the word “black women” in their mouths.

  • @studiosandi
    @studiosandi 8 місяців тому +288

    A masculine man would never feel "out masculined" by anyone woman.

    • @Gem-n-life
      @Gem-n-life 8 місяців тому +23

      Yessss! This comment needs to be pinned!

    • @PettyIsMyMiddleName
      @PettyIsMyMiddleName 8 місяців тому +24

      Yep !
      No man I’ve ever dated was intimidated by my little coins and I make 100k a year.
      They were PROVIDERS and honestly didn’t care what I made because they had it 💅🏽 and I dam sure better not even think about paying ANYTHING in public with him 😂

    • @cassthegrimm8522
      @cassthegrimm8522 8 місяців тому +16

      Literally lol and im a big girl talk wise and im heavy set typically men r intimidated by my height but yo there are them ones that will really ☠️ baby girl my ass 🤣 im like ohhhhh ok big boy lol i see u being a mans man😝 and they be shorter and taller then me its just energy they give
      Like a real man walks in the room and is a man regardless of the situation

    • @123redrasta
      @123redrasta 7 місяців тому +2

      @@cassthegrimm8522no man is intimidated by a woman lol. That’s just cope. People get “intimidated” and “turned off” mixed up too much

    • @cassthegrimm8522
      @cassthegrimm8522 7 місяців тому +8

      @@123redrasta spokem like a man who could never relate🤌🏾 and thats ok go find some security within yourself so u can be a worth while man to some women some where

  • @ARCHOUSE5150
    @ARCHOUSE5150 8 місяців тому +126

    To the first woman: males see pick-me's as MULES.

  • @nikkimonroe1982
    @nikkimonroe1982 8 місяців тому +135

    And that first girl is still probably single....

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 8 місяців тому +22

      Did you see what She was wearing 😹😹😹🤡🤛🏾

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 8 місяців тому +3

      did you see what she was wearing 😹😹😹😹😹🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @chayo4537
      @chayo4537 7 місяців тому

      OK so which one is. It? Yall calling her a pick me but saying she's still single? You're not serious about decentering men and neither are the women who liked your comment. You guys expose yourselves. Telling another woman "and that's why she's single" as if dick is the prize. Ridiculous

  • @loveyourselffirst549
    @loveyourselffirst549 8 місяців тому +130

    I'm obsessed with myself... maintaining my peace, being whole, and getting the bag. Men are not on the priority list 😅😅😅

    • @Liz-wz8dh
      @Liz-wz8dh 8 місяців тому +8

      This. Let's have a great 2024!

    • @keracancook
      @keracancook 8 місяців тому +1

      💯

    • @wonderwalledit
      @wonderwalledit 8 місяців тому +7

      Good for you! Me too💖👌💯.

  • @tanyadelaney8455
    @tanyadelaney8455 8 місяців тому +101

    Men the talk out both sides of their mouth. What their opinions are, is no longer relevant.🤷

    • @Sadune85
      @Sadune85 8 місяців тому +12

      😂😂😂 both sides of their mouth

    • @copperredd
      @copperredd 8 місяців тому +18

      This!!!! Constantly contradicting themselves ...

    • @schuylergeery-zink1923
      @schuylergeery-zink1923 8 місяців тому

      You mean both sides of their ASS

  • @missme4862
    @missme4862 8 місяців тому +373

    We don't care about what men think 😂

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 8 місяців тому +18

      This right here 😹😹😹💯

    • @rainbeauxunicorn5237
      @rainbeauxunicorn5237 8 місяців тому +9

      😂I’m sayin!!!! Tell’em again till it sticks.

    • @loveyourselffirst549
      @loveyourselffirst549 8 місяців тому +27

      THIS!!!!! We don't care! I can't wait until more women become unbothered.

    • @hanatirk4375
      @hanatirk4375 8 місяців тому +6

      Exactly 💯💯 we can't say if enough. No one cares 🎉

    • @Grahh777
      @Grahh777 8 місяців тому +4

      Period 😂

  • @wrappedaroundmyfinger
    @wrappedaroundmyfinger 8 місяців тому +95

    Good. When the obsession ends the environment becomes safer for women and girls

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 8 місяців тому +1

      💯💯💪🏾

    • @uriahreed9363
      @uriahreed9363 8 місяців тому +2

      And little/young boys

    • @chayo4537
      @chayo4537 7 місяців тому

      It will never end. Just like how women will never really decenter men.

    • @edt4080
      @edt4080 6 місяців тому

      Ok if men fully decenter women it's over and that's happening now

  • @FearfullyandWonderfullyMade.
    @FearfullyandWonderfullyMade. 8 місяців тому +132

    Carry on modest women, this is not for us.

    • @julesb2415
      @julesb2415 8 місяців тому +11

      Good girl, stay in your place

    • @RareJewel777
      @RareJewel777 8 місяців тому

      Exactly

    • @schuylergeery-zink1923
      @schuylergeery-zink1923 8 місяців тому +29

      Yah it’s just never been my vibe. I tell people be yourself - don’t do what other women are doing to follow the crowd (esp young impressionable women). Listen to yourself and work on yourself. You will become a better person over time and you want to attract a partner at your maturity level who is also bettering themselves so you can grow together. It’s best to be patient. It’s also better to be single than give access to your energy and skills to someone ungrateful, or just wants to use you for s e x.

  • @lohnson3880
    @lohnson3880 8 місяців тому +99

    Sounds like for some of them, a woman is only in her "masculine energy" when a woman is doing something they don't like or doesn't directly benefit them.

    • @bre3756
      @bre3756 8 місяців тому +27

      It's too convenient that the qualities that could help women get the life they want are considered masculine.

    • @skarbuskreska
      @skarbuskreska 8 місяців тому

      ​@@bre3756it's also extremely turned on the head. What they mean when they say feminine energy, they mean a young, naive girls energy. Go into the world, you can even leave out the civilized if you think it's screwed, take a woman, not a young girl still in puberty, a mom, a grandma, none of them act in that "feminine" way these guys talk about. Better even, if you see a natural birth, there couldn't be anything more feminine in a womans life than that, do these women look soft, quiet, taken back? Real feminine energy is freacking STRONG, and those little boys are scared to the bones of it.
      I've worked in the development aid field for a while, and nothing was ever more powerful than meeting black women, native woman, latinas, asian WOMAN of all sorts of shapes and walks of life and be blessed with these womens energy. THAT is what healthy feminine energy feels like, it's af if they could rip out trees, you just have to be in awe. They are determined, they gave goals, they speak for whole families and communities, they are for sure not quiet. What those little boys don't want is a real feminine women, they want one of those expensive sex dolls, nice to look at and quiet, and always willing if they want. But that's not women.

    • @miovicdina7706
      @miovicdina7706 7 місяців тому +6

      Absolutely 💯 percent!
      You hit the nail on the head there.

  • @patty-pat-pat
    @patty-pat-pat 8 місяців тому +257

    the internal misogyny on the first girl is unreal. It's so sad to see, yet these types of girls can be dangerous. The contempt she has for herself and other women is painfully obvious.

    • @Its.giselle234
      @Its.giselle234 8 місяців тому

      She thinks she is better because she is a prefference by dressing sexy and casting stones at women but ignore what men have done to women because they are blameless in her eyes.... that is not cute, many pick mes never get picked in the end.

    • @epiphanyarina366
      @epiphanyarina366 8 місяців тому +45

      With no ring on her finger either

    • @patty-pat-pat
      @patty-pat-pat 8 місяців тому +46

      @@epiphanyarina366 she doesnt know yet that they dont want a girl like that. They want the ones that dont want them.

    • @Gem-n-life
      @Gem-n-life 8 місяців тому

      In the car, with a crop top, zipped in a manner you can see cleavage, and tights 😂. Like, girl if you don’t put the pickmeisha speech down, and just do you!

    • @tinyking11
      @tinyking11 8 місяців тому +17

      She wants to be picked so bad. 🤣🤧🤧🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @ousontmeslunettes9891
    @ousontmeslunettes9891 8 місяців тому +53

    They are not obssessed anymore. Oh really!? Finally 🙏🏾 No more catcalling, no more following in the street, no more r... Are we really safe now!? Let me doubt it. But sure I hope for that day tho. Even women young for longer time, baby mamas they claim they don't want them are not safe. Don't believe them. Be safe out there. They are still obssessed and acting out.

    • @JennyferPepin
      @JennyferPepin 8 місяців тому

      It's funny because if they aren't obsessed and lusting over women, they are obsessed and hating women.

    • @shans1986
      @shans1986 8 місяців тому +1

      They even feeling Women ip on planes. Its ridiculous how obsessed they unfortinately actually are.

  • @SteganDaMallion
    @SteganDaMallion 8 місяців тому +90

    I always say there wouldn’t be a supply if there wasn’t a demand.

  • @Grahh777
    @Grahh777 8 місяців тому +46

    Caring about what a man thinks in 2024 just seems wildy irrelevant 😂Great content as always! ❤🙌

  • @Age_Of_Aquarius84
    @Age_Of_Aquarius84 8 місяців тому +124

    You mean to tell me there was a time when men were obssessed with women???? 🤯🤯🤯🤯
    I missed the boat.

    • @ihmasAnna
      @ihmasAnna 8 місяців тому +38

      ikr, like the only thing men were for sure obsessed about in all history, was themselves, not women lol

    • @kokopuffs1986
      @kokopuffs1986 8 місяців тому +3

      😂😂😂

    • @uriahreed9363
      @uriahreed9363 8 місяців тому +9

      @@ihmasAnnaand the 🐱

    • @123redrasta
      @123redrasta 7 місяців тому +1

      lol aren’t yall DMs filled with obsessed men?

    • @ihmasAnna
      @ihmasAnna 7 місяців тому

      nope @@123redrasta

  • @Hopdog230
    @Hopdog230 8 місяців тому +41

    Who cares? Does anyone care what men think or want? Tragic.

    • @schuylergeery-zink1923
      @schuylergeery-zink1923 8 місяців тому +5

      This is important bc WOMEN think about the long term for humanity. This is why we choose who gets to pass their lineage on. Men tend to think short term (provide for immediate needs and pass on MY genetic line via sex). So women set the dating market and we must have foresight as to what we’d want our sons and daughters to be and do then we must be and do that presently, or work toward it. If we demand good outcomes for ourselves, future, and children, then ONLY partners who can fulfill those outcomes can be with us (or at least the majority of us).

  • @godlovesusall8115
    @godlovesusall8115 8 місяців тому +171

    In this queer age, whenever someone tells me I'm acting like a man, I hit them with the "because I am a man. I'm gender fluid." Repels the idiotness.

    • @BP_Excellent
      @BP_Excellent 8 місяців тому +20

      😂😂

    • @NicholsKT
      @NicholsKT 8 місяців тому +13

      lol

    • @marissa._
      @marissa._ 8 місяців тому +10

      Lord. 🤦😂

    • @LGrian
      @LGrian 8 місяців тому

      I hit them with that too. It filters the insecure and homophobic ones. Im a feminine cis woman. That is plain to see. I like masculine men, but I care nothing for others’ perception of my gender identity.

    • @thegayestgoth
      @thegayestgoth 8 місяців тому +3

      Man and gender fluid aren't the same thing.

  • @peachesandpoets
    @peachesandpoets 8 місяців тому +89

    Good! Please. Literally, the less they want us the more we stay alive and the less we are abused.

    • @notyet2345
      @notyet2345 8 місяців тому

      Here's how you can tell if men are no longer obsessed with women....when .the rates of violence against women have dropped.

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 8 місяців тому +2

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💯

    • @uriahreed9363
      @uriahreed9363 8 місяців тому +4

      And traumatized

  • @77kc_77
    @77kc_77 8 місяців тому +87

    After realizing men and womwn arenr compatible MGTOW and leaving women alone is awesome !

  • @preciouslyunhinged
    @preciouslyunhinged 8 місяців тому +41

    The most embarrassing thing is some dudes saying"u cant be too masculine or boss babes" 😂 sirrrrrrr's if holding a job, a career, ambition and knowing what u want in life,striving for a better healthy respectful relationship is masculine then dudes who say this are freaking loosers😂😂

    • @BabalonNuit
      @BabalonNuit 5 місяців тому +1

      So they are saying there's something wrong with masculinity? Because we all are both "masculine AND feminine"; why do we women have to pretend to be constantly "feminine"? So men don't feel threatened? LOL If "masculinity is that fragile, then it's all just a lot of nonsense anyway and we women need to STOP taking our "cues" from MEN.
      If we are going to "decenter" them, then we need to ACT like it. Because SAYING but not DOING just gives MEN more ammunition against us: "Oh we knew you women were all talk and no action...AS USUAL!" Also, it must be pointed out: if you claim to want to "decenter men" but still DRESS in a way calculated to attract their interest, can you truly say you have "decentered men"?

  • @Legendaryhead
    @Legendaryhead 8 місяців тому +41

    Because they have to respect us now. And they don't like that.

  • @Veracityseeker7
    @Veracityseeker7 8 місяців тому +95

    Self-hatred, is also why they hate high value women. They know it takes more to level up to be worthy of them, and they know they just can't cut it. Everything is divided and conquer between women. Yes I keep commenting I know, but I'm really thoroughly sick of this crap.

  • @zanelesiko5997
    @zanelesiko5997 8 місяців тому +34

    Imagine shape shifting my whole existence to please some oga. God forbid o😂

  • @Veracityseeker7
    @Veracityseeker7 8 місяців тому +192

    The first woman does annoy me. Despite this fact she makes a lot of good points (about specific types of women); but it's one sided and she's missing some crucial points here. First off, when I was coming up in the '90s and 2000s; women who were modest, and not putting out right away were made fun of them called and high maintenance. Next, the women that exhibit the traits that they claim to value; modesty, femininity, vulnerability, and chastity, are often cheated on and abandoned for flings and escapades, with the lewd and lascivious women that they complain about. This is why women just gave up and decided to do what they want to do for themselves. It's not like men are upholding the types of women that they pit against the women that they are complaining about. They're not treating anybody well. Do you know how many times I've been passed up, because I won't put out right away? I do not have a fake Instagram body, I wear minimal makeup, I dress very feminine and modestly, I don't put out right away, and I am actually waiting for a commitment; and dudes will originally pass you up for the easier woman, only to try to circle back after he's done with her. If men want this to change, they will need to stop watching OF and related content, then they will need to stop dealing with the women they complain about.

    • @emem6935
      @emem6935 8 місяців тому +68

      They don't treat anyone well ...period! And they're not planning to. Just keep doing you, girl

    • @88QueenOfHearts
      @88QueenOfHearts 8 місяців тому +34

      Saddly this was like reading a chapter from my youth. I chose to get my dog training certificate and saving up for traveling with a protection pooch instead of a man. I was that never been kissed virgin until my early thirties. Waiting was a waste of time. I'm done too!

    • @thegayestgoth
      @thegayestgoth 8 місяців тому +17

      Only Fans has been popular for barely three years. Gross boys existed for MILLENIA. This is the most chronically online thing I've ever heard.

    • @mercedesharrison5550
      @mercedesharrison5550 8 місяців тому +39

      Waiting was not a waste of time. You got to not give yourself away to someone that more likely than not was going to treat you like trash. I was a woman that lost her virginity to my first at 17. I was waiting for marriage. My ex harassed me for S for 6 months straight. I finally gave in and he broke up with me a month later for someone else and still tried to come back and play with me. All S does is create premature attachments to people that you probably wouldn’t like if you really get to know them but you keep seeing them bc the S is good or you don’t want to be alone. Nothing is worse than giving a man your body and him treating you like you’re worthless. Majority of these men do not value women. You did not miss out on anything. Trust me. In fact the guys that couldn’t wait for you showed you what they were about and what they really wanted.

    • @mariaGonzalez-le4lh
      @mariaGonzalez-le4lh 8 місяців тому +1

      Good points!

  • @edithart5753
    @edithart5753 8 місяців тому +22

    Mens fixation on women being single is really weird, they take glory in tell women why they are single

  • @frostmaiden85
    @frostmaiden85 8 місяців тому +55

    I read this somewhere: "People become more of what you reward them for being."

  • @Daug555
    @Daug555 8 місяців тому +48

    Ooof girl we get it, you want to be picked 🙋🏾‍♀️.
    It’s giving embarrassing 😳

    • @chayo4537
      @chayo4537 7 місяців тому

      And so do you? Cause yall are the same ones who say to other women, oh- "that's why you're single" so you guys are walking contradictions. You're only "decentering men" by default because you've been through the wringer with them and haven't found one yet

  • @Definitelynotabot4
    @Definitelynotabot4 8 місяців тому +27

    I feel like the obsession of the past came from viewing womsn as a fantasy rather than a person the men i think had a script in their heads of what women are but in this day and age when you see a woman who has a personality it kinda ruins the fantasy

  • @TaharaLovemy3
    @TaharaLovemy3 8 місяців тому +115

    The girl speaking so badly about women was ugly 😂 not every woman presents that way

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 8 місяців тому +27

      She is begging for male attention. Did you see what she was wearing 😹😹😹😹

    • @kokopuffs1986
      @kokopuffs1986 8 місяців тому

      ​@kayshawnsimmons5585 EXACTLY

    • @epiphanyarina366
      @epiphanyarina366 8 місяців тому +13

      I don’t think she was ugly but I noticed that she had no ring

    • @Gem-n-life
      @Gem-n-life 8 місяців тому +1

      @@kayshawnsimmons5585-I just mentioned this in another comment 🤣

    • @mercedesharrison5550
      @mercedesharrison5550 8 місяців тому +3

      I mean she was attractive but her mind and attitude wasn’t.

  • @guinealove3744
    @guinealove3744 8 місяців тому +35

    I'm not even religious but when the first woman was speaking, this came to mind " Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?" Kiss curls, outfit, and Derrick Jaxn voice tone and gestures, all signal clout chasing. Geeze, ladies! Sometimes the biggest threat is among us.

  • @User53123
    @User53123 8 місяців тому +50

    "Angels don't live in hell". I like that, so true.

    • @Gem-n-life
      @Gem-n-life 8 місяців тому +8

      But they do 🥴 Granted they’re fallen, but they’re still angels.

    • @chayo4537
      @chayo4537 7 місяців тому

      ​@@Gem-n-lifetell em gemini! Yall be knowing lowkey 😂 lol ❤

  • @randombooze
    @randombooze 8 місяців тому +28

    This video is wild 😂😂😂😂. 30% h*e😅😅😅😅 wtf am I listening too

    • @1nekiss
      @1nekiss 8 місяців тому +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 8 місяців тому +4

      The ignorance of the XY'S 🤦🏾‍♀️😒😑

    • @lynnharris9454
      @lynnharris9454 8 місяців тому +3

      ​@@kayshawnsimmons5585 Ha! I call them that too😂😂😂

  • @thesilentdiva
    @thesilentdiva 8 місяців тому +31

    3:00 is he following them...lort
    The guy at 14:30 is such a dweeb. I hate when people say things like that as if we are not all out here working. When he says I'm out here grinding doing this and that news flash almost everybody has something to do...... Having a job or grind is not unique to being male

  • @NamasteInYourLane
    @NamasteInYourLane 8 місяців тому +28

    The first lady doing all that talking and all that pandering and she still doesn't have a ring on her finger. smh
    If you have all the answers, why haven't you been "picked"? 🙄

    • @RDJO88
      @RDJO88 8 місяців тому

      Why does it matter is she’s married, or even straight for that matter? Married women say the same shit, just focus on the message.

  • @BP_Excellent
    @BP_Excellent 8 місяців тому +33

    Priscilla, I was thinking the same thing about the way the first girl was dressed while sitting on her soap box.

  • @horizonrising3216
    @horizonrising3216 8 місяців тому +18

    Me after reading the title and before watching the video: "Because they're actually in love with their homeboys instead 🗣🗣"

    • @Gem-n-life
      @Gem-n-life 8 місяців тому

      This is soooo true!!!

  • @M_SC
    @M_SC 8 місяців тому +49

    Obsession is only for things you don’t know very well.
    She’s right that men are more obsessed about “exclusive” women, just like most people are more fans of celebrities than they are fans of people in their real life. If you actually know someone you like them or dislike them, you don’t obsess or fan out over them.
    Idk why she thinks it would be good for men and women to be more distant and objectify each other. That’s something we’ve overcome.

    • @hardcandy71287
      @hardcandy71287 8 місяців тому +8

      that was my take away. it seems like she thinks men are only into women who are hidden away. ones that other people don't have easy access to. the allure of who she might be, not who she actually is. but then when a man learns who she is, he dumps her to chase after someone else he doesn't know. men like the IDEA/FANTASY of women. not the reality.

    • @objectiveintuition77133
      @objectiveintuition77133 8 місяців тому +2

      Right. Like Id like an exclusive man too, 😅 and I don’t think I’m the only woman that does.

  • @SkycometAnimeVamp
    @SkycometAnimeVamp 8 місяців тому +26

    These guys going over to other countries to find wives when they know nothing about their “bride’s” culture… is just embarrassing

    • @Liz-wz8dh
      @Liz-wz8dh 8 місяців тому +8

      Well they already think we're all interchangeable so...

  • @nawal10
    @nawal10 8 місяців тому +21

    I'm single and I agree with decentering men. Never really centered them to begin with and left all my exs. But I can't relate. They're more obsessed. In a toxic negative way. Even disrespectful. That's obsession still.

  • @cclemmson6418
    @cclemmson6418 8 місяців тому +25

    Shouldn't we care about ourselves more than someone else

    • @marissa._
      @marissa._ 8 місяців тому +2

      YES! Thank you! 💯
      It should be about independence, freedom, self-love, self-sufficiency and self-reliability!

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 8 місяців тому +2

      YES! That first girl is reaching for something males will never give her

  • @Gabster1990
    @Gabster1990 8 місяців тому +30

    We are all human at the end of the day.

  • @Goddess_Infinity
    @Goddess_Infinity 8 місяців тому +15

    It’s 2024 CAN WE STOP LISTENING TO THEM PLEASE !!!!

  • @fluff4730
    @fluff4730 8 місяців тому +16

    The first lady said that women are leaving "nothing to the imagination" whilst wearing a tight crop top and leggings? Make it make sense

  • @rainbeauxunicorn5237
    @rainbeauxunicorn5237 8 місяців тому +13

    If this video don’t show women they need to CENTER THEMSELVES, I don’t know what will.

  • @gloriajose3088
    @gloriajose3088 8 місяців тому +47

    The guy in white shirt at 13:30 is VERY ORALLY/VERBALLY ABUSIVEE..I’m glad the BW held fast to her stances..

    • @hurtingfeelingsdaily
      @hurtingfeelingsdaily 8 місяців тому +8

      Right!

    • @winxclubstellamusa
      @winxclubstellamusa 8 місяців тому +1

      Yes! And he had no clue that the most feminine thing is to TEST men and have them prove themselves to us and EARN access to us, and to stand up for ourselves when non-masculine men try to tear us down, which is how all of the warrior goddesses are still completely feminine.

  • @Fitnessefficient88
    @Fitnessefficient88 8 місяців тому +16

    The first woman got her certification from pick me university 😂

    • @yoloti9993
      @yoloti9993 8 місяців тому +2

      And the problem is, that certificate aint got her no man yet. She literally a masculine mule to these ninjas

  • @ccannon1
    @ccannon1 8 місяців тому +19

    1:11 I hope she gets picked by whomever she wants

  • @zoejaiattoh1243
    @zoejaiattoh1243 8 місяців тому +13

    At the of day just be urself.. cuz they be broken .. mentality..

    • @janaebrionna
      @janaebrionna 8 місяців тому

      Physically,spiritually,financially 😂😂

  • @gravityclarity
    @gravityclarity 8 місяців тому +12

    No, they're obsessed. That's why they have so many podcasts dedicated to hating us. But idgaf😂

  • @shhhperry9852
    @shhhperry9852 7 місяців тому +10

    Let her live long enough… she will learn that the “good girls” get treated just like the bad ones in the end. Ask all the good girls who did everything the right way, and their husbands left them for the bad girl. Check back with us in 20 years boo.

  • @krisw.5025
    @krisw.5025 7 місяців тому +6

    If men weren’t obsessed with women, they would not be all over the Internet talking about us! Don’t even get me started on how we have to give out fake phone numbers or start running to get a man to leave us alone. Where is she getting her information from???

  • @maryjane2965
    @maryjane2965 8 місяців тому +18

    😂😂😂lmao at the first woman!!Girl who are you trying to convince!?We see through your act because we are all FORMER pick mes and thought we weren’t 😂😂Now I can only laugh at this fr fr!But lowkey these women piss me off more than the dusty men!!😩

    • @thegayestgoth
      @thegayestgoth 8 місяців тому +4

      Speak for yourself. Accept your embarassing past alone instead of trying project to onto others because you feel stupid about it.

    • @RareJewel777
      @RareJewel777 8 місяців тому +4

      Yea, go ahead and speak for YOU. I NEVER was a pick me and never will be

  • @Sisa_Limpson
    @Sisa_Limpson 7 місяців тому +8

    If they went for girls in their league, there would be no issues…

  • @julesb2415
    @julesb2415 8 місяців тому +53

    Hear me out, men should marry men and women should marry women. Keep things simple.

    • @marissa._
      @marissa._ 8 місяців тому +20

      Or just stay single all together. 🤷
      Even more peaceful. 🧘

    • @thegayestgoth
      @thegayestgoth 8 місяців тому +3

      Marry who you want.

    • @eviezekiel1328
      @eviezekiel1328 8 місяців тому +9

      Or don't marry at all

    • @Veracityseeker7
      @Veracityseeker7 8 місяців тому +3

      No, I'd rather just say single over that.

    • @UnsortedSeeds
      @UnsortedSeeds 8 місяців тому +1

      I'm aroace, so I'm not itching to marry anyone.

  • @Peachyqueen23
    @Peachyqueen23 8 місяців тому +13

    I hate when people look at social media and think that's what the real world is like🤨

  • @rosebellewaihenya4888
    @rosebellewaihenya4888 8 місяців тому +23

    Living in the English countryside it’s really hard to find the type of woman she’s talking about. People in the cities think everyone is like them

    • @schuylergeery-zink1923
      @schuylergeery-zink1923 8 місяців тому +8

      Yah I was thinking… that’s who she hangs around. Bc I very rarely went out to clubs, more so just drinks when I was younger but I never dressed in revealing clothes. That just wasn’t my vibe. I’m 31 and married - we drink wine with dinner and hardly go out. That’s mostly what I did when I was younger, too. You attract what you are and do, the lifestyle and people you are around. My husband and I bought a house outside the city and love slow living, making our small affordable house a HOME, and just caring for each other well.

    • @skarbuskreska
      @skarbuskreska 8 місяців тому

      Also f her, seriously I LOVED dancing, couldn't care less if there were guys around, could have neen just women. If I went to clubs, it's because I wanted to dance, and guess what, that's where the music plays. I even tried to tell honestly to guys that circled around me, that I'm not interested and they should save their time and energy, because I'll just go home at a certain time. They never listened and always went 😮
      As for clothes, I'm just a summer girl, the less clothes touch my body the better, I literally suffer in winter and could probably never survive in northern countries, already Germany is a hard thing, I wanted to retire somewhere in the south. But no, apparently it's always looking for attention 🤷‍♀️ and women policing woman are the worst

  • @Crisjola
    @Crisjola 8 місяців тому +21

    As someone who is a tomboy who _very much_ has an BF/SO who fits the stereotype of “well presented nerd in a 1940s suit” without the… actual s^xism of _Mad Men_ to go along with it, I don’t think it’s the “women’s fault” for A) some men hating themselves, and B) _men_ showing up, in _other_ places (that none of the women have any control over) to try and take advantage of women like you can just… get a “mail away bride.” Because that is how Passport bros are presenting it.
    (Also, this only matters because of the clips used, and I’ve seen some… insane hate for my darker skinned sisters who are also _remotely_ “masculine” or “tomboy” after the age of like… eight, but my BF is mixed and by rights I am as well, just I’m the “acceptable” kind ((the kind that gets called exotic)) and he’s always done his own thing because he never quite fit in with _various_ guys. I mean, we met due to a shared pass time, and if you don’t care about ethnic groups, and are a tomboy over the age of 18-20, of any skin tone, you _can_ find a guy who will like that you’re a tomboy and won’t immediately attempt to shame you for it on date #2. Just… don’t be surprised if they’re comp-sci majors who like reading poetry-that stereotype does exist for a reason, and boy do I feel it 😅)

    • @schuylergeery-zink1923
      @schuylergeery-zink1923 8 місяців тому +7

      Yah I’m a lawyer by training but really a creative entrepreneur girlie and my husband has a Masters in Library Science but does IT bc there’s a bigger market for it. He likes that I’m feisty, ambitious, and creative. I love girlie things and I also love making money by creating the things I love. He makes a stable income but really just wants financial independence to volunteer in the community. He has a big heart and is a hot nerd in my opinion :3

    • @Crisjola
      @Crisjola 8 місяців тому

      @@schuylergeery-zink1923 I… I honestly don’t know what it is but I’m a year out (ish, medical) from starting Law School, so this… is both “same hat” _and_ really funny to me.
      So: same hat.
      XD
      Anyway, yes, that’s… sort of where I come from as well, with my background being a _very_ weird mix of arts and sciences (you get into odd stuff when you start off in physics, finish undergrad in history/anthropology, and get the MA in English/creative writing) I wouldn’t say I’m actively “I want to sell what I make” because I have a lot of hobbies that could be monitized-jewelry making, scrimshaw, art/digital coms, leather working, hunting… etc.-but I don’t really want to. I _am_ however wanting to sell _stories_ (hence the MA).
      And my guy is less… about “fiscally independent” (but we both have, let’s say, bearcats for mothers and crap fathers/stepfathers so we plan on keeping separate accounts for a set amount of time. It’s… a thing a lot of people think is weird to have planned out when you’re not married but it works for us, ^^; ) and more about how the joint future we both want, together, kids (hopefully, there’s reasons why “no kids” is also on the plan as a thing), a house _away_ from people in the middle of a literal swamp, land, and just… a lot of things. Which is what I really like about this channel? Like I completely get where you are coming from and really respect that/think it’s neat and also feel like you understand even though the community is less of a personal focus for us you still got my point.
      I guess this is one of the few places on YT that really doesn’t have much/any women-shaming-other-women. And that’s really nice. :3
      Also lol, yeah, mine went comp-sci/English minor because he saw where it was going years ago but also has an obsession with folk tales and short stories. I’m pretty sure at some point his current (surprisingly stable and well paying) job will become something he gets away from to do his own thing (been basically dragging my historical butt around FL and LA and throwing local legends at me for script ideas for a folk lore podcast for a while now. Again, had to stop, due to medical). Or the gas makes the commute absolute garbage _despite_ the pay, and he has all the recording equipment to basically never show up if need be and do his own thing. If he didn’t want to have a year’s worth of scripts written, I’m pretty sure he’d be weighing it a lot sooner, just from what we’ve talked about. I think it’s very amusing that the “strong independent woman” and “tomboy4life” have the overlap of “hot nerd bfs/husbands [in our opinion]” XD
      Or maybe it’s “women who went to/want to go to law school.”
      Honestly it could be either. XD

  • @SweetLily007
    @SweetLily007 8 місяців тому +12

    They don’t do anything but talk about how much they hate or love women. I think obsessed is an understatement.

  • @toribabe1000
    @toribabe1000 8 місяців тому +9

    Where is the first girls ring 💍

  • @MelissaThompson432
    @MelissaThompson432 8 місяців тому +8

    I certainly hope men are not obsessed with women. Obsession is a mental health condition, not a compliment.

  • @kp8972
    @kp8972 8 місяців тому +8

    The girl in the skin tight lycra preaching about letting everything show is sending me LOL

  • @jasminevermellwilliams4062
    @jasminevermellwilliams4062 8 місяців тому +6

    How many times you gonna tell us..we dont care..get the passprt...dont date ..dont get married..we dont care.....quit making ur announcements ..they want us to care

  • @212Brittany
    @212Brittany 7 місяців тому +4

    12:55 Everybody always talking about how masculine the BW is but no one talks about the abandonment issues, the unhinged and unhealthy trauma BM put onto the BW.

  • @KerryDoesIt
    @KerryDoesIt 8 місяців тому +22

    And neither are we! Women who keep having these conversations need hobbies. Chileeee! 😅

  • @karmAnonymous
    @karmAnonymous 8 місяців тому +7

    that first girl gave me deeply troubling 2nd hand embarrassment.

  • @lobutternut9773
    @lobutternut9773 8 місяців тому +14

    Men who think they are judging a woman's feminine nature should first become men and accept the masculinity that women expect. And then you realize that there is no such thing and that you have to have lower expectations because you are not and cannot be everything as a man. It's better to bring what you expect to the table first. You attract what you are. Then you can stop complaining as a man. That didn't work in the Garden of Eden with a perfect woman either.

  • @lfcatchall
    @lfcatchall 8 місяців тому +10

    Girl this was so good,. Really well done. Love the different perspectives. I love how you encapsulated everything together. Excellent.

  • @keracancook
    @keracancook 8 місяців тому +4

    I really hate to say it but I’m starting to severely dislike a lot of these men. De-centering men is best

  • @FindYourFree
    @FindYourFree 8 місяців тому +7

    these pick-mes be cape-ing so hard and these dudes still don't want em. sad

  • @sherienichol1580
    @sherienichol1580 7 місяців тому +3

    They are obsessed with each other and anything under age. Let’s keep it real y’all!

  • @JustMe-zc5qj
    @JustMe-zc5qj 8 місяців тому +9

    I really hope it's true because them obsessing about us has always been and still is scary and even creepy most of the time. I consider this to be a very good not to say an excellent new for women. Hurray, finally they leave us alone ! Thank God 🙏🏾

  • @SkarGig
    @SkarGig 8 місяців тому +7

    Most of* these point are so wack 😂😂😂😂

  • @MamaBulgaria
    @MamaBulgaria 7 місяців тому +3

    The truth is - women want to be heard for who they are to say what they think, but men want to put them in the template of their imagination. Because they do not sound like the template - men don't accept this.

  • @KanezaMac
    @KanezaMac 7 місяців тому +2

    Omg 🙄 my mother is a “boss babe” and mom and dad have been married almost forty years now! Gtfoh . We can be bosses TOGETHER. Ugh. What happened to couples GROWING together? Jeez.

  • @AndyCroat-v6d
    @AndyCroat-v6d 8 місяців тому +4

    The problem may be that men keep repeating the bs that they are the hunters and women are the prey. Now, what is it that hunters do to prey? Uh huh. Miss me with that.

  • @humanbeing8948
    @humanbeing8948 6 місяців тому +2

    Men use women to impress other men. Laws are changing where men can finally be with their homies. Men can be themselves to love their male friends. Change my mind.

  • @OnlyLilynn44
    @OnlyLilynn44 7 місяців тому +3

    Eww dude at 2:55 talking about “You know I gotta get this” to the woman walking in front of him is absolutely disgusting.
    He’s talking about her as if she was a product he could just pick up off the shelf and consume to his leisure, he’s not talking about her like the human she is, even referred to her as a “This”.
    Freaking gross 🤮

  • @Morozova48
    @Morozova48 8 місяців тому +7

    MEN ARE LOST 🎉😂

    • @Morozova48
      @Morozova48 8 місяців тому

      @nubieblack886 yeah you're a pick me

    • @Morozova48
      @Morozova48 8 місяців тому

      @nubieblack886 yeah either pick me or red piller cr3tin, either way ur embarrassing

    • @Morozova48
      @Morozova48 8 місяців тому

      @nubieblack886 stop telling me what I want
      Not everyone is like you
      I have a good career and don't need a promiscuous rich man that all weak girls lust after. Some of us actually prefer a man on our wavelength. You sound chronically online, touch some grass, pick me

    • @Morozova48
      @Morozova48 8 місяців тому

      @@nubieblack886 stop telling me what I want
      Not everyone is like you
      I have a good career and don't need a promiscuous rich man that all weak girls lust after. Some of us actually prefer a man on our wavelength. You sound chronically online, touch some grass, pick me

    • @Morozova48
      @Morozova48 8 місяців тому

      @@nubieblack886 stop telling me what I want
      Not everyone is like u
      I have a good career and don't need a promiscuous rich man that all weak girls lust after. Some of us actually prefer a man on our wavelength. U sound chronically online, touch some grass, pick me

  • @brittanybinger3215
    @brittanybinger3215 6 місяців тому +2

    It’s even funnier that the women who they kill themselves over find them creepy too 😭

  • @vertanishock7900
    @vertanishock7900 7 місяців тому +3

    My ex was dangerously close to being one of these guys. My 6 month rule didn't make him drop so I thought I could trust him. 6 months after we begin to be a couple, we can have our first kiss. We can bone 3 months after that. Because I'm worth it.

  • @LoveSierraAnastasia
    @LoveSierraAnastasia 7 місяців тому +2

    They are obsessed just not in a positive way😂 they're obsessed with what we're doing and how free and happy we are. They hate us but keep talking about us

  • @kylamyette
    @kylamyette 8 місяців тому +2

    We still listening to men and pick me’s in 2024 ? Lmaooooo

  • @KayNaude
    @KayNaude 8 місяців тому +3

    People who are chronically online are exhausting. She sees these things because she’s online 24/7 or lives in an area where such behaviour is prevalent. She needs to log off and change her location.

  • @TexasGal.
    @TexasGal. 8 місяців тому +4

    Excellent conversation. Commentary, and editing. I thoroughly enjoyed this entire video. Awesome job!

  • @marleyex2695
    @marleyex2695 8 місяців тому +4

    I've always been like this but I never cared what men was obsessed with. I was never solely focused on men. If they were around fine, if they didn't that was fine too. They've never been my main focus.🤷🏽‍♀️🙂

  • @aliciahughley7508
    @aliciahughley7508 7 місяців тому +3

    This first woman spoke to all women as if we all neatly fit into a stereotype. We do not.

  • @carolynwebb8726
    @carolynwebb8726 7 місяців тому +2

    Video games and porn period.

  • @IraSol37
    @IraSol37 6 місяців тому +1

    All the videos in which men expose their true nature confirm what Princella - Queen Maker - has been explaining to all women. And yet, women cling to the delusional Fairy's dream that one day they will find "The" man who will love them infinitely and unconditionally..... 🤔🤔🙄🙄🙄

  • @rainbeauxunicorn5237
    @rainbeauxunicorn5237 8 місяців тому +2

    💁🏾‍♀️That first lady need to stop worrying about what men want and worry about repairing the relationship between her and her edges. Sculpting the teenage hairs that’s a half inch BEHIND her ears is not fooling anyone.

  • @NiobeNeo
    @NiobeNeo 8 місяців тому +3

    Hahaha 😂😂😂😂 and they bother us everywhere 24/7
    Saying they are not obsessed, but they are!!!
    Projectionssssssssss.
    Please keep it moving!!