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КОМЕНТАРІ • 284

  • @DontDooTooMuch
    @DontDooTooMuch 2 роки тому +639

    Just love yourself so you won't feel like you need someone else to love you and you won't put up with anyone's mess.

    • @margaretmiller4718
      @margaretmiller4718 Рік тому +40

      Nonsense, it's only natural to want a man doesn't mean you don't love yourself.

    • @haniasobieski8679
      @haniasobieski8679 Рік тому +8

      Truth! Needing someone to love you is different than just wanting that in your life ~ very sensical

    • @asmrfitness2
      @asmrfitness2 Рік тому +20

      This is dumb, no one wants to be alone, I prefer to love another person. Just loving yourself is boring doing things alone is boring.. unless you're a narcissist who cannot love anyone else, that's the only way what you said make sense!

    • @miabailey2798
      @miabailey2798 Рік тому

      ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @abigaildavidholistichealth5878
      @abigaildavidholistichealth5878 11 місяців тому

      💯

  • @susannaleesings
    @susannaleesings Рік тому +295

    Toxic relationships involve pain. When you grow up & realize real love doesn’t hurt, you aren’t attracted to those who hurt you.

  • @herbalistblends499
    @herbalistblends499 Рік тому +142

    When a person is ready and needs you in their life, he or she will let you know. No games, straight talk and a plan. I met the love of my life and we both knew. Be honest and you will find that person that is right for you.

    • @vs_vs16
      @vs_vs16 Рік тому +13

      Most of these videos are also to protect yourself also.

  • @superpoodlehead
    @superpoodlehead Рік тому +292

    Yes, I believe this Father Alex. Pain makes men feel alive. Women already know physical and emotional pain very well-bleeding monthly, childbirth, etc. Men’s feelings are shut off at a young age. So a chance to actually FEEL something in an acceptable way through pain or violence, is a relief to them. Part of their fascination with women is women’s ability to easily and openly express feelings like pain, sorrow, etc. Many men are obsessed with suffering emotionally.

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers 6 місяців тому +16

    *I have learned not to worry about love; but to honor its coming with all my heart.*

  • @iamgoddessoflove
    @iamgoddessoflove 2 роки тому +331

    In order to attract the love that you desire, you must take care of yourself first. When you love yourself, accept yourself and put yourself first, everything falls into place. The one thing that blocks you from manifesting a healthy relationship is when you put everyone else before you.
    💙UA-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

  • @annaisis7510
    @annaisis7510 Рік тому +63

    The guy I'm hooked with has been using most of these techniques on me for a long time and I never knew . I never really paid attention because I made it clear from the beginning I didn't want any serious relationship and stuff. Its just now i realize what's he been up to with all this crazy and incomprehensible behavior. Damn this dude has been strategising for sooo long trying to get me hooked.

  • @pallysupatra
    @pallysupatra Рік тому +17

    I tried this method that you said to tell the guy that you're not just out here dating no expectations and it works!

  • @sasorah6414
    @sasorah6414 16 днів тому +1

    The "focus on them" is so true.. people get attached to someone when they can talk about themselves

  • @Dejavu20248
    @Dejavu20248 Рік тому +42

    Omg I really fell in love with your manipulation tactics when you said “imagine someone says to you ,I don’t want a relationship and then they give you a flower” . That’s definitely mind F*** someone. I wonder how that can be switched when your dealing with men. Can you give us an example how a woman can use that tactic with men.

    • @SR-mv2mf
      @SR-mv2mf 7 місяців тому +5

      This is what I was wondering too

  • @ametrineambrosia4929
    @ametrineambrosia4929 Рік тому +16

    It's not like we autistics don't know how to talk. We just are fucking blunt. Some of us are brilliant poets and writers!!

  • @linam.4383
    @linam.4383 2 роки тому +36

    He put a sock on the microfon 😃😃🤣

  • @born2-4jesusbianca8
    @born2-4jesusbianca8 9 місяців тому +7

    His puppy hair style makes me smile. Keep it up! I love your humour 😅🫣

  • @alexajackson8227
    @alexajackson8227 11 місяців тому +13

    Great advice for someone with NPD. Otherwise this is garbage if you want real connection. Only a Narc would use this info to con their way into someone’s life/mind.

  • @billyzoet
    @billyzoet 2 роки тому +128

    Haha yessss! Watching this makes me realize that I am really so naturally toxic 😅 breaking promises, going cold, than act sweet. Say i dont want something serious but then giving them a lot of love and affection and appreciation. but I have to say, doing all these things don't give long term results. It will also attract unhealed man who dont have enough selfesteem and who got time for that really? So if you want a fanbase sure, this is the way. Make them obsessed, break their heart, become their fantasy.
    But to find real honest sweet love than this isn't the way to go i learned. It's super inauthentic and manipulative being so calculated with everything you do. No idea how to do that healthy secure stuff though, maybe I should watch more Matthew Hussey content instead 😜

    • @Katzc22
      @Katzc22 2 роки тому +23

      Neither all this is about mind games true love is so different from what these coaches teach and this guy doesn’t even have a loving relationship himself neither does Matthew so I will listen to someone that knows about healthy relationships not mind games. When you find that special someone there is no mind games no need for all that garbage. Plus it’s so much effort to be so calculating cold and manipulative better to just be yourself and learn to be the best version of yourself and attract an equal

    • @Mothermochi
      @Mothermochi 2 роки тому +10

      Yep! This is toxic relationship 101 😂

    • @ciara98208
      @ciara98208 Рік тому +8

      Now Mathew is a cheater.... Kevin Hicks is good though

    • @annaisis7510
      @annaisis7510 Рік тому +11

      Ikr? It's really not going to give you the healthy secure loving relationship you deserve. That's why I quit my ex. He's toxic because he hasn't healed and won't realize / admit it either. I can't save everyone in this life. I am responsible for saving myself.

    • @heymilli
      @heymilli Рік тому +13

      I recommend Stephan Speaks.

  • @ltetobago
    @ltetobago Рік тому +37

    This was pretty good and much so common sense, I fell off because i started being too real and forgot ppl still need a little mystery lol, TY

    • @TyHarrodTX
      @TyHarrodTX Рік тому

      This is so true so true!!!

  • @a.b.creator
    @a.b.creator 2 місяці тому +3

    I have always functioned Friends first. There is no friend zone as everyone has to start out being my friend. If a man can't be my friend then he would make a terrible partner.
    I want my playmate for life , we can earn together.
    I had a healthy relationship with my dad, so i don't need any controllers as a mate.

  • @itsabbymarieb
    @itsabbymarieb Рік тому +27

    he pulled out the DEEP voice for this one ya'll lol

    • @ultravioletpisces3666
      @ultravioletpisces3666 Рік тому +1

      I noticed!! Right at the beginning but then he dropped it 😢😢😢

  • @cherrylane79
    @cherrylane79 2 роки тому +64

    Mindf*cking people is not nice and causes a lot of suffering too, to the other party involved. When someone says they don't want a relationship, believe them. I'm done with people who play games.

    • @vhayashi7369
      @vhayashi7369 Рік тому +24

      Men started the games to begin with and they're not nice and screw with us whether we want that or not. You can be nice all you want but you will get played. I've been authentic my whole life and been played every time. I'm done being nice. I refuse to be played. When someone shows they are genuine and committed then you can mirror that back. People will use you up and throw you away if you let them.

    • @vs_vs16
      @vs_vs16 Рік тому +2

      ​@@vhayashi7369❤❤❤ so true atleast we can save ourselves from their initial games

    • @sasorah6414
      @sasorah6414 16 днів тому

      ​@@vs_vs16exactly, in today's world. It's either you play the game or get played. I'd rather play the game

    • @sasorah6414
      @sasorah6414 10 днів тому

      @@user-go8vi5lb6u I think mind games is ok in the beginning for like a week and then later you can show your emotions... It's overwhelming pouring out all your emotions to someone you just met.
      Play mind games and figure out where you stand

    • @sasorah6414
      @sasorah6414 10 днів тому

      @@user-go8vi5lb6u it doesn't make sense being friends with someone you obviously have feelings for. And also, wouldn't that be playing games too? If I have feelings for you but I decide to lay it low and be your friend first so you don't think I'm rushing you.

  • @a.b.creator
    @a.b.creator 2 місяці тому +4

    Uh...i am not competitive at all. I am me. I like me the way i am and what so and so is doing doesnt concern me a bit. Ive always been that way. This is the third video ive heard you say that everyone is competitive..and no, not everyone. I just live peaceably. I walk away from competitiveness. It's too much drama.

  • @kittygomah
    @kittygomah 2 місяці тому +5

    I have this autistic trait no good with flirting at all or sharp tounge. My Dad is the same, very good memory but he's not very witty.It's all about emotional intelligence, commenting on what's going on at the moment in a playfull intelligent way.

  • @tootiefruity77
    @tootiefruity77 Рік тому +19

    You are very intelligent. Emotionally intelligent to be exact. I love it 😬

  • @colleendeis928
    @colleendeis928 Рік тому +8

    Damnnnn. 😂 You sir have won over my subscription. Although I won’t be watching this video, I have watched several of yours. I fall into the slightly Asperger’s category. I’m taking your advice and using the power of my silence. I am worth having a partner who accepts me and my social challenges/disadvantages and is willing to be patient and understanding. Anything less will not work. Plain and simple.

  • @cubanadiense
    @cubanadiense 3 місяці тому +3

    Thing about this is that having to power play and manipulate situations is fcking exausting and not worth the cost. There’s trully authentic ppl out there who can be part of your life without having to use strategies, life is too short for that amount of work not worth it, unless you get fun with it, which is what makes dark triad folks tickle. And still, nothing beats the joy of healthy and authentic , vulnerable connections, better to use our energy nurturing those than creating and feeding unhealthy ones.
    This, however , would be a useful tool to deal with politician guys , and trashy ppl who deserve it

  • @DJ-fh7xn
    @DJ-fh7xn 9 годин тому

    Alexis you are a character and a half. A game man however not lethal. You are an original friend.

  • @jmjohnson2306
    @jmjohnson2306 Рік тому +6

    This is exactly what I need to see more of. What to actually say!! Just hearing the words gives us better understanding

  • @SKOLAH
    @SKOLAH 10 місяців тому +6

    Let's be honest - if you let the other person speak more than you do, encourage them to talk through questions, they also tend to like you more. They walk away feelingvthat you like them and the interaction went well.
    🤷‍♀️

  • @elizabethseiden9938
    @elizabethseiden9938 Рік тому +9

    Most guy’s put on a big facade with women about how they’re really plotted to objectify women. The conquest is a cover up to heal the wounded ego/inner child.

  • @LucianaNogueiraFotografia
    @LucianaNogueiraFotografia 6 місяців тому +3

    What a video! I've never heard people talking about this topic so clearly.

  • @Poodle_Gun
    @Poodle_Gun 6 місяців тому +1

    Demi here, God bless you for saying "friends first."

  • @Poodle_Gun
    @Poodle_Gun 6 місяців тому +1

    Here are the compliments that get me from least to most: beauty, smart, hot, funny, nice/good/ sweet. Yes, being seen as a good person is the biggest reward in my life. Being told that I'm helpful is my weakness. It's definitely a hangover from childhood.

  • @Qweenk23
    @Qweenk23 2 роки тому +116

    Can you teach me how to be classy for the next topic please? Daddy- I mean Father Alex?

  • @angel33333333
    @angel33333333 2 роки тому +40

    This was the one video you did in a long time that was actually different than the typical stuff you usually do thats a bit more repetitive.
    You should do a video on how to find someone's insecurities in order to pinpoint complements on those

  • @nthokwaselekatlomatsana3197
    @nthokwaselekatlomatsana3197 Рік тому +3

    The good looking kids thing really really got you harrrd! 🤣 Its in every video??

  • @emesehoffmann4838
    @emesehoffmann4838 2 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for that special kind of intro dedicated to women clumsy in communication ❤

  • @BernadetteMontoya-t6o
    @BernadetteMontoya-t6o 5 днів тому

    I just subscribed to your channel but I’ve been watching your videos for a couple yrs already. Just wanted to say I appreciate your advice about men.

  • @devika_25
    @devika_25 Рік тому +36

    I made notes out of this video.
    (As I mostly do )
    The information is unique and valuable.
    The depth of the understanding you have is unparalleled, Alex.
    Respects 🙌

    • @va1uefry
      @va1uefry Рік тому +11

      well what are the notes. whyre u holding out lol

  • @Dimples423
    @Dimples423 Рік тому +10

    Alex, i appreciate all your hair styles lol somebody tag me when he get dapper !

  • @realthing1859
    @realthing1859 2 роки тому +18

    That content is genius!

  • @lizanal1521
    @lizanal1521 2 роки тому +11

    This was a really good video, you’re information and delivery of information has evolved,it’s great

  • @Dimples423
    @Dimples423 Рік тому +25

    i’m not trying to make someone love me by my words or anything, im tryn figure out IF they actually wants to be with me or are they saying they never want a relationship with me to temporarily confuse me, or do they say it to convince themselves so they will easily act accordingly

  • @liline1ctou
    @liline1ctou Рік тому +5

    Please make a video for how to talk when u been in a long term relationship and he lost a bit of interest.. but the connection and attraction is still there however u can feel they are taking u for granted. To reactivate the beginnings fire :) ty!!

  • @jazzynikkipromotions
    @jazzynikkipromotions Рік тому +3

    Great info! I kept getting distracted by you drinking the coffee on the mic

  • @mayoufhadil8653
    @mayoufhadil8653 2 роки тому +8

    6:45 hey little Tyrone 😂

  • @dylanpringle4314
    @dylanpringle4314 Рік тому +3

    Yes silence 🤫 mindfulness be the strong calm person in the room

  • @sasorah6414
    @sasorah6414 16 днів тому

    About pain. It's so true but be careful not to do it too much if you really want them

  • @LucidQueen
    @LucidQueen Рік тому +2

    This dude I work with has DEFINITELY been watching your channel lol 😆 that's crazy that I recognize too many things in your videos 😭🤣

  • @tmidontexist8319
    @tmidontexist8319 Рік тому +2

    The beginning got me crying but atleast you honest 😂

  • @mariepetterson7281
    @mariepetterson7281 Рік тому +24

    This is very insightful and well articulated. One of your best videos.

  • @vhayashi7369
    @vhayashi7369 Рік тому +21

    The guy I am dating doesn't want a relationship but he did give me flowers! 😂🤷

  • @threenorth8416
    @threenorth8416 Рік тому +1

    The fact i do
    All these already unconsciously clearly shows i been a subscriber way too long 😅😂 Love u Alex

  • @MsGelen
    @MsGelen Рік тому +9

    Do you realize that if women and men play the same game with each other it will be a complete mess not a propering relationship? 😃

  • @winxclubstellamusa
    @winxclubstellamusa 2 роки тому +36

    The descriptive word you were looking for is neurodivergent. And us neurodivergent people (adhd and autism) do indeed struggle socially, unfortunately…

    • @UnpredictableAri
      @UnpredictableAri Рік тому +6

      Yeah he uses the autistic word in a lot of his videos and it seems misplaced, misused and insensitive.. glad you provided a better word, quite ironic too since this video is about using the right words smh

    • @ultravioletpisces3666
      @ultravioletpisces3666 Рік тому +1

      @@UnpredictableAriwhat’s wrong with using the word autistic?

    • @UnpredictableAri
      @UnpredictableAri Рік тому +1

      @@ultravioletpisces3666 it’s nothing wrong with it, if used properly. You can’t be calling people autistic loosely and not knowing if they’re clinically/diagnosed as that. Currently, the word retarded/retardation can’t be used publicly because it is deemed insensitive and misused

  • @Suckafreevibes
    @Suckafreevibes Рік тому +5

    lol you are too funny man but all facts! Crazy thing is, I do all of these things naturally 😂😂 guess its the Scorpio in me🙌🏽

  • @sxpanthersanctuary
    @sxpanthersanctuary 2 роки тому +14

    Dying, I automatically scrolled to halfway of the video and you said b*** dont you know Im going to be here, it hurt😂

  • @Dimples423
    @Dimples423 Рік тому +10

    i’m beginning to think my friend takes your advice 😂

  • @sunnyday3117
    @sunnyday3117 Рік тому +5

    Your hair is so beautiful

  • @starchildgoddess_3335
    @starchildgoddess_3335 2 роки тому +12

    I enjoyed this one

  • @mchristpmc2152
    @mchristpmc2152 Рік тому +17

    Mindfucking can cause some1 to get hurt. "Play dangerous games...win dangerous prizes."

    • @mysticpaths7751
      @mysticpaths7751 Рік тому +2

      Yes he doesn't care about his female audience. Gives them advice so they can get beat up by their significant other

    • @palapalak.8907
      @palapalak.8907 Рік тому

      I love it!!!

  • @tinawilliams919
    @tinawilliams919 2 роки тому +6

    Fall in love ,leader or as a Partner ,interesting

  • @shahdr7354
    @shahdr7354 2 роки тому +6

    man i just hate that friend zone shit idk how to break it really

  • @pennir8834
    @pennir8834 2 роки тому +5

    Love the long videos thanks Alex 🤓

  • @aliciahall9553
    @aliciahall9553 Рік тому +2

    Hey I know I’m late to the game I just discovered your channel two days ago and I’ve now formed an addiction 😂. I know you mention about being into art and everything you literally remind me of a modern day relationship coach “Basquiat👑’ ❤

  • @lindalim5901
    @lindalim5901 2 роки тому +50

    Love these toxic titles 👌

    • @QueeninMe
      @QueeninMe 2 роки тому +1

      Facts. It’s a must I click 🔥

  • @BereniceBerenice-hq4xq
    @BereniceBerenice-hq4xq 2 роки тому +40

    This is easy when you don’t even have any interest in them in the first place. I trap any guy easily because I’m confident. I learn that was my #1 secret. Now words come out easily 🤭

  • @dayc801
    @dayc801 2 роки тому +12

    Oh you didn't. Not the dad went to the store brb noooo
    Too real man too real

  • @melissaparsons-shallow3751
    @melissaparsons-shallow3751 2 роки тому +7

    Great video alex

  • @cmwmn9514
    @cmwmn9514 11 місяців тому +4

    Damn, this is too much game playing. What is going on with this generation? Can a real man and a real woman please stand up and be real with each other?!

  • @lotusgsxr750
    @lotusgsxr750 Рік тому +2

    This is simply wonderful, but to a point.... don't get me wrong, this shit is putting the icing on my Aries moon/venus in Gemini placement, but tactics are temporary.... real is forever! But thank you for adding to my insight refinement. Very needed.

  • @irenpetrosian6580
    @irenpetrosian6580 2 роки тому +11

    Thank you for this video,it’s amazing

  • @gud6823
    @gud6823 Рік тому +3

    bro you playing with these girls emotions talking bout daddy not comming back hahahaha

  • @juliethkontos
    @juliethkontos Місяць тому

    You're a genius! Where have you been the last 48 years of my life?

  • @Godbody321
    @Godbody321 3 дні тому

    This man is a GENIUS. Wow. I am glad to have been born and on earth the same time as father Alex lol dead ass

  • @dantoinettetaylor1663
    @dantoinettetaylor1663 2 роки тому +15

    @0:14 Funny you should mention Asperger’s - I was dating an Aspy and it was funny & hard AF at the same time. Sometimes he was totally unfiltered and I was not used to that and I tried to focus more on his non-verbal. I was truly heartbroken when we broke up

    • @cherrylane79
      @cherrylane79 2 роки тому

      Asperger-people don't usually mindf*ck anyone, they say how things are and also they usually don't lie.

  • @eveheart2876
    @eveheart2876 Рік тому +2

    Games tactics is a lot of work 😂 😂 just be genuine and take ur time to know them

  • @mrichards7849
    @mrichards7849 Рік тому +2

    You make me laugh Alex, you’re so smart and such a good communicator! Love you so much homie!

  • @anicialugo8997
    @anicialugo8997 11 місяців тому +1

    You are a wise individual

  • @TheMoonRain
    @TheMoonRain 2 роки тому +16

    I’m going g to lose my natural ability to seduce if I listen to you.

  • @ITellTheTruth298
    @ITellTheTruth298 Рік тому +6

    Your entire channel is based on Robert Greene’s “The Art of Seduction”.

    • @ultravioletpisces3666
      @ultravioletpisces3666 Рік тому +2

      He does study that and he quotes it often. But I don’t think he just stops there. And he also includes some spiritual aspects that are definitely not in that book.

  • @ToReall
    @ToReall 2 роки тому +6

    Are you really this funny in real life 😂

  • @rozdevin2468
    @rozdevin2468 2 роки тому +12

    Alex, You have a white film on your tongue, This means there are vitamins your body needs

  • @meganlucas9941
    @meganlucas9941 Рік тому +2

    SUGGESTION! -- the coffee slurping is a huge turnoff while trying to listen to a youtube video. thanks.

  • @magbambamilymember
    @magbambamilymember Рік тому +7

    I loooove your messy locs 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @librascorner2271
    @librascorner2271 2 роки тому +24

    Ok i see he just used the art of seduction tactics on me. Now what do I do?? It worked! I feel dumb AF 😪 🙃

    • @ksmith9262
      @ksmith9262 2 роки тому +7

      😂. Read the book. Knowledge gives power.

  • @dn4081
    @dn4081 7 місяців тому

    I just liked the video bc of the opening ! Lol so true!

  • @latoyabrown7983
    @latoyabrown7983 Рік тому +2

    I miss watching your videos Alex

  • @annasoszka1758
    @annasoszka1758 2 роки тому +3

    Alex, his friend, who know, he likes me told us in the restaurant, he want to be very honest with us, we should get married, he sees here a big potential. And then happend that, what you said. This guy kept looking at me and smiling. I think, he was imagine me beeing his wife. So it works, what you say. For sure, he was imagine us togehter for a moment like you said. And he likes me, maybe thats why.

  • @mitsumiko
    @mitsumiko Рік тому +1

    That's fire Alex 🔥

  • @meechelle
    @meechelle Рік тому +2

    That natural inclination to believe in something you speak of is called agent detection bias and it’s an evolutionary byproduct of humans. I learned that in a course recently. I know you know this

  • @qosaghcalnan1045
    @qosaghcalnan1045 6 місяців тому

    The master !!! You really know you're psychology ! THANK YOU FOR SHARING & BLOWING MY MIND LIKE ALWAYS .

  • @samanthabarron8481
    @samanthabarron8481 Рік тому +8

    This is super toxic advice. You are literally teaching people how to inflict narcissistic abuse on people. Just because something works to rope someone in, doesn’t mean it’s right and doesn’t mean it’s going to lead to long term happiness. As a victim of emotional abuse, I can’t believe that “resources” like this exist.

  • @magbambamilymember
    @magbambamilymember Рік тому +2

    Ong i love ❤️ this video tooo much !!!

  • @anniebootboot
    @anniebootboot 11 місяців тому

    The YES ladder is crazy

  • @angrydoll4478
    @angrydoll4478 Рік тому +3

    Translation: "fulana de tal" = the supposed woman who we might be referring to but in abstract because we don't know her. Made me lol.

  • @iStorm-my5fp
    @iStorm-my5fp 2 роки тому +9

    Alex you are a genius

  • @wowstarhookz1234
    @wowstarhookz1234 Рік тому +2

    Can you please create a podcast so I can close the UA-cam app lol

  • @shekitalloyd93
    @shekitalloyd93 2 роки тому +2

    Can you do a coarse on how to date and what a women should be looking for in a man while dating alot of times we don't know what we should be looking for or a clue of what we should be our expectation from the man that we are interested in

  • @divafever6239
    @divafever6239 Рік тому +1

    I am grateful for ur existence ❤

  • @martastroinska1916
    @martastroinska1916 2 роки тому +10

    Father Alex your voice is perfect to record slef love meditation 🙏❤️🍄please 😁

  • @christina7645
    @christina7645 Рік тому +3

    Damit my person must have watched this 🤦‍♀️ Now tell me how do I counter act this type of treatment?