STORYTIME: Our Coming Out Story & How We Met

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  • Опубліковано 10 гру 2018
  • We’ve been getting a lot of request for this video. It’s not something that is easy to just tell the world but we are in LOVE & happy now we have eachother!

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  • @bigboii2709
    @bigboii2709 5 років тому +72

    Ppl do need a push to move out I can agree on that, because ppl start wondering about different things. For me I moved out at 21 and tbh it's not as bad as I thought well it haven't been bad at all honestly. I been out this year will make 3 years but this year will be a the year of moving into a house so I can nervous but not too bad because imgood with managing money so my advice to anybody that's thinking about moving out.
    1 found somewhere in ur budget, don't look at what ur friends who have already moved out has because u don't Kno their pocket so think about it for urself
    2 make sure u good with managing money. When I say managing money I mean make sure u Kno to pay ur bills first, Kno which bills are more important like cable bill r light bill bitch light bill because without light shid it's no cable u can't cook and more so just Kno it's important
    3 don't depend on ur bf r gf money. If that person was to leave right now could u pay those important bills by urself. Are u financial stable for take on those bills of not going a place u can keep up and it saves money
    4 have someone u can call on for help that will try they best to help u if u need the help. Most of the time it's someone who's older and been out on their own for a while and can guide u into the light when u feeling like u don't Kno what to do
    5 make sure u feel safe in that environment because if u don't feel safe then u always wondering what's going on r if someone broke into ur place. So make urself u feel safe there.
    6 save as much money u can B4 moving out. Because getting things turned on and ur credit isn't good r u don't have any is going to cost maybe not much but u want to b able to have the money to turn it on right then
    7 don't worry too much about furniture ppl ( family) give u things and tell u deals for furniture.
    8 make sure ur mentally ready. U can have all the money in the world but if u not mentally ready then u moving out really isn't no point. Mentally ready means u seen what ur parents r parent been thru and u ready to go thru some of it because my mom was very open with me and my brother about bills and wats to get some bill paid and maybe going without sometimes ( clothes, shoes, maybe even a hair cut because ur light bill 100$ and u got 80$ for ur light bill and $20 for a hair cut. I mean u can pay that 80$ on the light and next check r cycle for lights u pay the $20+ late fee and the original bill)
    9 don't let everybody over r send the night because u moved out for a reason and it's not because u want all ur friends over everyday. Enjoy ur own place. Do u Kno how wonderful it feels to come home and chill and not hear ur parents talking shit r telling u wat to do because u in their house.
    10 just live and Kno times get hard sometimes but it teaches u how strong, mature, and how strong ur support system is behind u are.
    These are the same 10 things I tell everybody when they think they ready to move out into their own place. No matter if they in a relationship r not because u have to understand that person u moving out with may not be there forever. And whoever end up staying there after the relationship has to Kno they can handle it all on their own

    • @bleu1306
      @bleu1306 5 років тому +2

      Thanks for advice!

    • @chipz4277
      @chipz4277 5 років тому +3

      Thank you for this list of advice, I will take heed to all the things you said!

    • @bigboii2709
      @bigboii2709 5 років тому +1

      @@bleu1306 u welcome

    • @bigboii2709
      @bigboii2709 5 років тому +1

      @@chipz4277 u welcome

    • @Theefinestpapi_
      @Theefinestpapi_ 5 років тому +3

      Big Boii yes yes I needed this, I appreciate you!

  • @755johnboy
    @755johnboy 5 років тому +27

    You two are really great guys and compliment each other really well! The fact that you guys are so young and living together, WOW! I'm A Fan! No, don't every worry about how long the videos is, because you guys are so entertaining an fun and not dull or boring! You, guy kept us on the edge of our seats and we listen to every word and enjoyed what you were saying. Your videos are so enjoyable, the word is going to get out on you guys and before you know it; y'all be at 1,000 subscribers! Good luck, keep making videos and I am A Fan! Do a part 2 on how you met and how long y'all been together, just talk more about y'all! So, Meek is the athlete and Ryan is the book worm! Tell us more!

  • @theclassicmannpat.9713
    @theclassicmannpat.9713 5 років тому +1

    Hey guys ! I Came across your channel and Im impressed. You guys have the world at your finger tips ENJOY IT , EMBRACE IT AND LIVE you best life ! Be ready and willing to fight for yours and do the work to see it to the finish line. I moved into my own place at 19 when i lost my mom and since then life has been an adventure that is yet to stop . Between falling in love being engaged , working in my career , calling off my engaged, selling homes , loosing friends and family its been a lot but I say all that to say this YOU BOTH have the chance to create your future now and you have each other to do it . MAKE IT PERFECT FOR YOU .

  • @deonbrown2475
    @deonbrown2475 4 роки тому +2

    Glad I found you guys channel very mature for your ages! Keep being great fellas

  • @meandyouii1984
    @meandyouii1984 5 років тому +2

    I’m glad you see the blessing when your father pushed you to another level in life

  • @chipz4277
    @chipz4277 5 років тому +2

    Thanks for sharing y’all. By sharing your experiences you help those that are younger than you.

  • @me2ubabes
    @me2ubabes 4 роки тому +2

    Great watching you guys, so inspiring and giving other people hope to a relationship and being themselves. Great that u guys have each other and two young people to motivate and push each other. 🇯🇲 one love.
    Watching all the way here in Korea on deployment.

  • @princetruth8923
    @princetruth8923 5 років тому +1

    Thanks for sharing your story, you make a very unique couple, I love watching your show and I'm learning a lot from you two concerning my own relationship.

  • @antoinetteevans1437
    @antoinetteevans1437 3 роки тому +1

    Awwww I'm so Happy for yall. Keep up the great work. just remember god is with you.

  • @BETHStaR1Tv
    @BETHStaR1Tv 5 років тому +3

    I'm so happy for you guys, keep it moving, communication is the key, that's all it takes , then everything will fall in place.

  • @timmycollins6145
    @timmycollins6145 5 років тому +2

    Believe it or not you two gives me life you like a gift that keeps on giving !

  • @itsdomoniccc4198
    @itsdomoniccc4198 5 років тому +5

    You guys ! Are awesome! Can't wait to see what's to come! 💯❤

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому

      it'sdomoniccc We have a lot on the way. Stay tune & thanks for the love and support! ❤️

  • @waltersuggs1501
    @waltersuggs1501 5 років тому +9

    I started watching MEEK & RYAN and I was hooked. I love those two, beautiful men.

  • @hosinw
    @hosinw 5 років тому +3

    It's hard to believe it when someone says they love you but but they don't want you in their house. They are conflicted and will come around and see how there actions have pushed you both away and come to regret it. You guys are great.

  • @LeroyThompson462
    @LeroyThompson462 4 роки тому +1

    What a powerful story from both of you, extremely brave as well, I admire you both

  • @antonioizquierdo5818
    @antonioizquierdo5818 5 років тому +2

    I’m glad that your coming out experience was violence free. I like that you guys have a very positive outlook on life. I wish you all the best.

  • @welforddabney925
    @welforddabney925 5 років тому +5

    I think people would love to hear how you'll made the decision to move together and how you'll manage your bills and the house hold together! And as a fan of you'll I love the longer videos especially when it is entertaining as you'll definitely are so continue to post longer videos! 12

  • @oketchfaustine4330
    @oketchfaustine4330 5 років тому +9

    Yes, I really enjoyed it. Much love from Uganda

  • @darrylb9872
    @darrylb9872 5 років тому +3

    Keep living, learning and growing. I enjoyed your story-time. Remember it's not about the material things that you acquire (a bigger apartment etc). It's about the experience and the memories that the two of you share together that you'll remember the most. Save that money for the bigger apt. and take trips. I guarantee you'll grow individually and as a couple in ways that you could not imagine. Stay strong, Love ya both.

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому +2

      DARRYL B I was thinking the same thing! 😭

    • @darrylb9872
      @darrylb9872 5 років тому +2

      @@meekalphonso Thanks for taking the time to reply. Big things are ahead for you two. Stay grounded.

  • @productorbrand8455
    @productorbrand8455 4 роки тому +1

    Love the story time, can y'all do and update where each of you are with your family's now in 2020 and how they feel about y'all relationship now since y'all been on your own ? ✌💜

  • @barbaracampbel554
    @barbaracampbel554 5 років тому +3

    I loved the fact that you guys can relate to one anothers situation i wish u all the best n i ll be watching all the time to see how u guys doin ...god bless u n ur love n relationship

  • @robertfaison3977
    @robertfaison3977 5 років тому +2

    Great video young brothers! There is potential in both of you as individuals and as a couple.

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому +1

      Robert Faison thank you so much! ❤️

  • @johnward5723
    @johnward5723 5 років тому +4

    Both of your parents should be proud! Two young self supporting men! I think it’s a shame how some parents forget that God in trusted them to raise healthy independent children’s s that their job is done! It’s obvious to me that that’s exactly what they’ve done! Men their age are falling out of clubs at 3am! Bravo and I pray you two a long and happy life together!

  • @dontemannings5336
    @dontemannings5336 4 роки тому +1

    Love both your story time. Much thanks my bros

  • @vincentjohnson5694
    @vincentjohnson5694 5 років тому +10

    Aww I am new to ur UA-cam channel and I love ur Bond with each other and can’t wait to see more wish u much love and more

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому

      Vincent Johnson thank you so much for the love, we will be dropping more videos SOON!

  • @nazielpierce3533
    @nazielpierce3533 5 років тому +2

    Ayee !! Y’all lit asf !

  • @josephedwards5872
    @josephedwards5872 5 років тому +1

    I am listening to your coming out story. DO NOT LET OTHERS DEFINE WHO YOU ARE. KEEP YOUR PERSONAL CIRCLE TIGHT AND SMALL. I HAVE 4 CLOSE CLOSE FRIENDS. KEEP PEOPLE OUT YOUR BUSINESS EXCEPT YOUR CLOSE FRIENDS YOU TRUST. KEEP YOUR BROTHER IN YOUR CIRCLE IF YOU CAN AND HE'S WILLING.

  • @LT-900
    @LT-900 5 років тому +3

    This was very beautiful to watch!

  • @josephedwards5872
    @josephedwards5872 5 років тому +2

    Thought for you guys:
    If you want to be taken seriously be consistent. I love you guys

  • @rmronalda57
    @rmronalda57 5 років тому +3

    BEAUTIFUL STORY. I WISH U GUYS NOTHIN BUT THA BEST. CONGRATULATIONS FELLAS😚😙😚 LOVE ON THA ROCKS PURRR

  • @NetiNeti-gm5bz
    @NetiNeti-gm5bz 5 років тому +66

    Gay boys are the cutest 💖 🏳️‍🌈

  • @joemoe4152
    @joemoe4152 4 роки тому

    I’m so happy for you guys you guys look amazing

  • @tokarahtabron2917
    @tokarahtabron2917 4 роки тому +1

    Y’all so cute ❤️

  • @curtisantonio
    @curtisantonio 4 роки тому

    I’m so happy for them 💕

  • @johnedwardjones999
    @johnedwardjones999 5 років тому +4

    Keep talking and representing. Helps you and so many others. Good all over both of you.

  • @KingDeon
    @KingDeon 5 років тому +4

    I just released my video and it was so hard. But I’m extremely proud of you. It takes a lot to what we did. ❤️ New Sub!

  • @zacksimmons7630
    @zacksimmons7630 5 років тому +1

    😍😍😍😩 y’all are so cute

  • @timmycollins6145
    @timmycollins6145 5 років тому +2

    Beautiful just a work of art passion and love just love your energy and peace with in you your soul mind body and soul peace .

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому +1

      Timmy Collins thanks a lot! ❤️

  • @Kimsegel
    @Kimsegel 5 років тому +6

    You got a new subscriber from Sweden 🥰🥰keep loving ❤️❤️❤️

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому

      jawdey kim thank you so much! ❤️

  • @stevenbrowne4066
    @stevenbrowne4066 5 років тому +24

    Fellas, came across the page and enjoyed the story time. New Subscriber

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому +3

      Steven Browne thanks a lot! Make sure you hit the notification bell so you know when we post our next video!

    • @LeroyThompson462
      @LeroyThompson462 4 роки тому

      Steven, I like your comments

  • @demarcusjohnson4371
    @demarcusjohnson4371 5 років тому +1

    Y’all story slick remind me of my own. Will subscribe.

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому

      DeMarcus Johnson Hopefully we can encourage some people to share their story one day! 😇

  • @sylvesterhood5390
    @sylvesterhood5390 5 років тому +24

    Hey guys just stumble past your channel. I stopped in for a minute quite entertaining I enjoyed you both thank you so much for sharing all right have a great one👍👍👍❤❤😊

  • @gerobinson9471
    @gerobinson9471 5 років тому +5

    I'm bisexual as well. I enjoyed watching/listening to the video. Thank you for sharing! You two very handsome young men were and are brave. Kool! It's always good to live your truth and live IN your truth! I wish each of you all the best in your respective lives and in your relationship. Peace.

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому +1

      Thank you so much! Thanks for the support ❤️

  • @snowyowl7042
    @snowyowl7042 3 роки тому

    Wow, cute couple 💋 Wishing you love and happiness ❤ Be yourself, live your life, follow your dreams

  • @DonaldSmithphoto
    @DonaldSmithphoto 5 років тому +4

    Wow soo awesome...i was really inspired by yal's story...amazing

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому

      Glad we could inspire you ❤️

  • @3hotpocket
    @3hotpocket 5 років тому +16

    New subscriber to you . I like the chemistry you guys have . Good luck on your channel

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому

      3hotpocket thanks a lot! Make sure you hit That notification bell for our next video!

  • @patricksmith2274
    @patricksmith2274 3 роки тому

    There's certain circumstances that people needs a push but in your case it definitely wasn't right. I can totally relate because I was told to leave home when my parents found out I was gay from the streets. I wasn't prepared, there were no college dorms to go to. I was a 19 year old homeless person. After a couple of months in the streets and shelters I joined the military. My goal was to go to college, live in the dorm and find a career. That was taken away because my parents refused to support any child of theirs that was gay. I haven't spoken to them years. I tried twice but their response was don't come back to the family until I'm straight again. I'm not going to get into the suicide attempts I made. I'm glad to hear your stories that resulted in a happy ending. BTW: This is the first time I watched your video and I think I'm going to start following the two of you.

  • @nyasiamarie8129
    @nyasiamarie8129 4 роки тому +3

    i just discovered yall a month ago and i love yall. im here for it but i thought Ryan was definitely older then Meek.

  • @Polex12345
    @Polex12345 5 років тому +3

    Nice one....love u guys.

  • @jtcohen921
    @jtcohen921 5 років тому +2

    Hey Guys!
    Thanks for sharing :)
    What are each of your education and career goals?

  • @millionairemama1311
    @millionairemama1311 5 років тому +2

    You're right sometime people do need a push. Wishing you much success and many blessings. Keep pushing. We're new supporters. 👍🏾❤

  • @josephedwards5872
    @josephedwards5872 5 років тому +1

    Have you met each other's family members? How do they feel about your relationship?

  • @GulleyFam
    @GulleyFam 5 років тому +2

    I'm new to y'all channel I love y'all both 💙❤️😘

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому +1

      Thank you so much! Hope to see you around in the comments !

  • @elytestatus
    @elytestatus 5 років тому +6

    Meek&Ryan... Take it from someone whom knows what it's like when it comes to family acceptance. It gets better with time. I applaud the love you two share, keep it always. When I came out, I received a lot of "WE ALREADY KNEW THAT" responses from my family. I just didn't understand the whole I DON'T EXCEPT YOUR MAN attitudes from some of them. They knew I was gay, but don't except my relationship with a man??? What the hell y'all thought I was gonna bring home a girl? I like GOOCH, not COOCH😎

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому +2

      Lmao exactly.... like they need to get over themselves. Thanks for the comment! ❤️

  • @s.j.5481
    @s.j.5481 5 років тому +2

    Hi i'm new to your channel. I enjoy this video beautiful relationship😍❤️ one love.

  • @josephedwards5872
    @josephedwards5872 5 років тому +1

    How old are you Ryan? You are very mature and level headed ...
    Is Meek your first serious relationship. How did and do you know Ryan is for you?

  • @maichanel8998
    @maichanel8998 5 років тому +2

    you both are cute.. and a great couple

  • @timmycollins6145
    @timmycollins6145 5 років тому +2

    ONE MORE THING AND THIS IS IT LISTEN TO BETTY CARTER THE SONG LOOK WHAT I GOT BEAUTIFUL LOVE YOU GUYS HOPE TO MEET YOU IN PERSON ONLYS IN A LIFE CHANGING ENCOUNTER SO BE SURE TO LOVE EACH OTHER SO STRONG THE LOVE IS THERE SO DON'T STOP KEEP IT MOVIN BABY I'M ALL FOR PASSION , LOVE PEACE , UNDERSTANDIN GRACEFUL OR JUST PLAIN BEAUTIFUL LOVE MEEK AND RYAN !

  • @donovanmattox432
    @donovanmattox432 4 роки тому +1

    Rewatching after breakup news!

  • @JayyVell
    @JayyVell 5 років тому +2

    ❤️🙌🏾🤞🏾 New subscriber

  • @msrocky3292
    @msrocky3292 5 років тому +3

    I New To The Family I can't wait to see more videos from yall I can see y'all be good people and down to world on UA-cam we need more like that💙❤💙❤💙❤

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому +1

      Racquel Mcgee we have so much more coming, stay tuned & thanks for the supoort

  • @samafishamamabolo3917
    @samafishamamabolo3917 3 роки тому

    This is one relationship I truly believe is not done yet.

  • @oxsutton6175
    @oxsutton6175 5 років тому +2

    I want both of yall

  • @beaux1798
    @beaux1798 5 років тому +2

    Wow. Thanks for sharing

  • @josephedwards5872
    @josephedwards5872 5 років тому +1

    Are you ever going to have your brother on UA-cam with your brother. Is your brother seeing or dating anyone? Is your brother I e of your encouraged and supporters.
    Whose choice was it to move in with Meek? How long had you been seeing meek b4 you moved in. Were you compatible b4 you got serious ?

  • @barrygreen4980
    @barrygreen4980 5 років тому +3

    Y'all guys are cute couple video are nice first time seem it ☺👍

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому +1

      barry green Thanks! If you haven’t already... make sure you hit the notification bell for more videos!

  • @lessazorae5468
    @lessazorae5468 4 роки тому

    Meek looks so handsome with sideburns 😻

  • @trevonsaddler1304
    @trevonsaddler1304 5 років тому

    All everything is ok with you all

  • @wilfredrussell5089
    @wilfredrussell5089 5 років тому +2

    Awesome storey I just discover this UA-cam couple I will subscribe to y'all

  • @ralphcooper3208
    @ralphcooper3208 5 років тому +2

    what up man when are you guys doing another video I miss seeing you guys.

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому

      Ralph Cooper we have another video coming really soon! ❤️

  • @josephedwards5872
    @josephedwards5872 5 років тому +2

    How did you meet Ryan? And how did you know Ryan was the one? What were instincts or signs that you are gay or bisexual. Did you start off bisexual first and then become gay?

  • @aitegoniloics8732
    @aitegoniloics8732 5 років тому +1

    ❤️#COUPLEGOALS😍

  • @justblazz9
    @justblazz9 5 років тому +1

    Adorable

  • @jjbad7883
    @jjbad7883 5 років тому +1

    Good for you 👍🤗😍

  • @trevonsaddler1304
    @trevonsaddler1304 5 років тому

    Hey guys long time we donot see you all post videos

  • @fabeonshaw3666
    @fabeonshaw3666 5 років тому +1

    Lovely video

  • @josephedwards5872
    @josephedwards5872 5 років тому +1

    You are great together. Try the yoga challenge b 4 the track competition. The no hands challenge and a make up challenge.

  • @kaharold
    @kaharold 5 років тому +1

    I Just Subscribe to Yall's Channel... I Applaud Yall Coming Out At These Ages 19, And 21 Good For Yall... I'm 45 AND Still Not Completely Out Yet BUT Now I'm at the Point IF You know Fine IF you don't know Still Fine. I Have the Most Judgemental Ass Family Members in the USA.. I'm NOT in No Relationship But Once I get Into a Relationship I Can Give 2 Fucks What Anybody Says OR Thinks.. SOME of My Family Members have an Idea BUT That's All they have is an idea.. I Just Feel that Its NOT Really None of Their Business, The World Wont Stop Revolving IF THEY Know or Not...

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому +1

      Its not the easiest thing to do but love make you make crazy decisions lol

    • @kaharold
      @kaharold 5 років тому

      @@meekalphonso Yess AMEN, Very True Indeed

  • @etamlous
    @etamlous 5 років тому +32

    It doesn't sound like your dad is really accepting though. Some level of tolerance is not enough; there is still underlining homophobia if he was angry at you bringing a boyfriend home. It's unfortunate that this struggle for true acceptance continues.

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому +7

      etamlous Hopefully it improves in the near future 🙏🏾

    • @marcwilson6716
      @marcwilson6716 5 років тому +5

      bringing folk to the house can be a touchy topic period..

  • @sharonhall3552
    @sharonhall3552 5 років тому +2

    I'm the first one here to like the video

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому

      Sharon Hall You’re the best Sharon ❤️

  • @kingstonsanders9495
    @kingstonsanders9495 5 років тому

    Hi, ok first you guys are so cute! Second of all that you for making this channel. Where I come from all the niggas in the hood use gay as a bad term. Calling litrally everything bad gay. I'm gay but I can't say anything because the literal shit will get beaten out of me. So thank you for making this channel..in a weird way...its helping me.

  • @loganbenjamin7053
    @loganbenjamin7053 5 років тому +1

    When are you guys going to go live and answer questions?

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому

      Logan Benjamin we go live on Instagram sometimes

    • @loganbenjamin7053
      @loganbenjamin7053 5 років тому +1

      Meek & Ryan I deleted all social media except UA-cam 4 years ago to focus more on life and my goals here in New York but I’m a big fan of you guys so far keep up the good work my dudes 🙅🏾‍♂️🧢

  • @raymondjohnson6217
    @raymondjohnson6217 5 років тому +3

    YASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

  • @friendforlife8729
    @friendforlife8729 4 роки тому

    What a nice couple. I could never do it. It was another time. 50’s 60’s.

  • @DDominoGeronimo
    @DDominoGeronimo 4 роки тому

    Happy one year posting anniversary

  • @jamesmondsexperience
    @jamesmondsexperience 4 роки тому

    Ryan are you a Scorpio?

  • @mr.johnallen9827
    @mr.johnallen9827 4 роки тому

    How old r u both?

  • @cherubicnerd
    @cherubicnerd 5 років тому +1

    Ryan, I’m bisexual (pansexual) too!

  • @dawayyne1
    @dawayyne1 3 роки тому

    Man I still can't believe you two are no longer together. Is there a chance in the future?

  • @deshawngreenwood2219
    @deshawngreenwood2219 5 років тому +1

    wow this is something special I'm very experienced in to know good everybody has there own way of how they went through coming out to they parents family and friends and also how they took it differently because I know mine did my mom was cool about it but my dad was a little too mad and furious about it that he talked to me later on some months later and told me he cool with it too but just don't bring it around him and to be safe because he had a friend that was gay and caught a n died

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому +1

      Deshawn Greenwood thank you 🙏🏾

    • @deshawngreenwood2219
      @deshawngreenwood2219 5 років тому

      Meek & Ryan y'all welcome I just wish I have stopped hiding it in the early age like in my high school age to where I could have been something like that and found Love cuz right now it's been hard to find someone that's cool like me and that's not afraid to come out and they have my back like I will have theirs like right now Im with this DL guy but he's a pastor and he's afraid to mess up his reputation so he's asking marry because they have him like that because he's a pastor so I don't know how to confront him and tell him that I don't want to be with nobody that's going to hide and hide me behind them like I feel like we should be able to do couple things like kiss make love feel comfortable hold hands and the open in public but he don't want to do that so I have a question should I wait or get rid of him n let him go but he say you love me but I'm not sure because he's not making me happy at all so what should I do

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому

      Deshawn Greenwood honestly... I would leave... there comes a certain time in life where you get too old for certain things. Love is a crazy thing and if he says he loves you but doesn’t want to let the world know he loves you then its a no for me 🤷🏾‍♂️ this is meek btw and sorry if my advice is too blunt lol

    • @deshawngreenwood2219
      @deshawngreenwood2219 5 років тому

      Meek & Ryan now to be honest thank you so much Meek for your advice and for keeping it real with me because I thought I was the only one that felt that way a lot of people that I have asked their opinion on that said the same thing some said he might just love you because of the money and not for you and he trying to keep you around because when I tried to bring up stuff like why we can't do this why we haven't did that or the s*** that couples supposed to do and he be like don't want to hear that talking about it's drama and that for this year he told me if I'm not on the same page with him about getting money and that's it man I can leave him alone he said that's for everybody so when I heard that I really want to leave his ass alone but I was trying to give him time to make up for what we have not did since I met I met him in August and it's fin to be February and nothing has not changed yet so I think my next move is to let him go I'm going to trying to wait for the right time but I'm going to talk to him n warn him if he don't make a change or a choice I'm going to be done with him

  • @cayemitte3017
    @cayemitte3017 5 років тому +8

    Meek you have some nice brown eyes bro!!!

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому

      Thony Cayemitte thank you lol 😆

  • @cherrelle8468
    @cherrelle8468 4 роки тому +1

    Oh shit, y’all from Maryland 😱😱

  • @TheJds1993
    @TheJds1993 4 роки тому

    This so beautiful lovely story it's to bad they are no longer . But I hope they can make a back together video they where my favorite UA-cam gay couple and I don't want them to break up

  • @charleshoward8534
    @charleshoward8534 5 років тому +2

    Maybe its true that things happen for a reason. Its sad that so many people don't understand homosexuality, people think that its a choice, but its not. People are born gay think about it what are the benefits of being gay? I learned that from my psychology class. People need to respect and treat others fairly. Do to others as you want done to you. Moreover, I wish the both of you the best of luck and much success on your UA-cam channel to my brothers in my backyard. I also live in Maryland, as a matter of fact, I graduated from Bowie State University in Md.

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому

      charles howard thank you so much & my hometown is Bowie lol

  • @fallondavis8877
    @fallondavis8877 5 років тому +1

    I'm new to yall channel

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  5 років тому +1

      fallon davis Welcome! Make sure you hit the notification bell so you can see our next video!!!! ❤️

  • @ScoG33
    @ScoG33 5 років тому +4

    Omg y’all in MD?! PG here!

  • @marklouis1890
    @marklouis1890 4 роки тому

    Our coming out stories are similar Ryan

  • @cooliosiata2323
    @cooliosiata2323 2 роки тому +1

    Became official on April 4 yeah thats my birthday 😊😊

  • @timmycollins6145
    @timmycollins6145 5 років тому +1

    Meek and Ryan please listen to raheem devaugh song ridiculous and Matt Albert song end of the world . Please peace with love simply Tim .

  • @zakeebanks9757
    @zakeebanks9757 4 роки тому +4

    I’m praying that I will never hear another coming out story, but that everybody will be excepted for who they are an no one will automatically be pigeonhole regarding their sexuality.