I echo these sentiments and while I know it is not that important, you would communicate even more effectively if you would stop using the word "like" so frequently - 27 times in a little over the first two minutes.
@@gemini3392 communicate more effectively to who? it's how I talk and how a lot of people like me talk.. i'm not particularly going for perfect king's english
I'm a black woman who appreciates black men who own their truth and not hide behind us because he's too scared to face his true self. I've had enough of these downlow black men using us to keep their insecurities hidden away.
thank you. & they are hiding behind women, because they don't know any better. & our community (black) can be very homophobic. It's tough. It's the whole point of me making this video.
What does being black have to with this guys comming out story. What is up with Americans and race. This bro is just telling us a unique story. Leave race out of it.
John Kimber another hateful bitter black gay man blaming women for everything. Get over urself. U all are causing us TRAUMA emotionally and health wise. She has a right to speak out.
Your coming out story is AWESOME as fuck! I loved it!!!! It’s one of the best I’ve either heard or read in recent years. As a Black, masculine, bisexual person, I can relate to many of the aspects of your story. Thank you for sharing it. You seem Ike a very intelligent and smart individual and I hope for you the very best life has to offer. Bravo, g, bravo!!! Continue to live your truth and live in your truth! 👍🏾👍🏾🏳️🌈
Loved your coming out story. Sorry to hear how low people are outing you. My mother outed me and told me she loved me and to live my life. But being gay 40+ years ago wasn't easy. I wish you well
Still one of my fav coming out video out here. I remember watching this like over a year ago. Thank you for sharing your story! It takes a lot of courage and I’m sure you’ve helped a lot of people :)
Sorry you got outed like that. That was horrible. Glad things worked out for you. Living a double life isn't easy. Honesty is really the best way to go. I dated a senior in college when I was a freshman and we kept it secret and he always had a girlfriend and I accepted that because I loved him so much. I couldn't live like that today. This was over 40 yrs ago but it sounds like things haven't changed that much hearing your story. Best Wishes!
Really great advice about sharing who you really are with somebody. My 15 year old has told me he is gay and I'm happy he knows who he is. But I was really surprised how many years he had been hiding this. Luckily, he had 1 friend that he talked to all those years, and I'm really glad he wasn't going through this on his own. Thanja fir sharing your great story. Xx
My brother outed me as lesbian to my mom. I wanted to tell her but I wasn't ready to tell her. I hate him now. Luckily my mom is bisexual so she fully supported me.
Thank you for mentioning therapy! I have several black friends who refuse to go ‘cause they think that it’s only for crazy people, and that people who go are weak. They way I explain it is that I have a degree in kinesiology and my cousin has a degree in clinical psychology...so she comes to me for advice on health/fitness/food since I went to school for it for years...and I go to her for mental coping plans and other psychological advice since she went to school for that for years.
Great coming out video. It is very much like my own experience, but that was 50 years ago. So sad that young people like you are still having to go through this shit. All good fortune
Honestly, thank you for the assurance. It’s nice to hear someone besides my boyfriend validating that this shall past. I recently came out to my Africa parents and they are taking it really hard and personal that I have “decided” to be gay and though I did come to terms with the fact that I might be disowned by my parents before telling them, it is still hard dealing with it. But like you said talking to someone really helps and I appreciate you for sharing this.
Dude I came across this out of no where and I'm not even into guys but this has to be the best one I've ever seen because when the popular youtubers do it it's cringe and they drag it for way too long and they're horrible but I respect you for coming out
I think you’re an incredible, charismatic, brave, and beautiful person. Always stand in your truth and let ABSOLUTELY no one make you feel inferior about yourself.
Hey Tradell, was walking in the city before Christmas and passed Joseph Banks men's store and saw your picture staring out at me. So handsome! Happy New Year.
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!! This is so very familiar to so many people. You are strong and regardless of how it happened (though very messed up) it happened and it's made you the strong, handsome man you are!❤
I came out to my mom and sister as bisexual in 2019. My wife is also okay with it as well. More people are more accepting now days because back in the day not so much. Thanks for sharing man 🏳️🌈
Very transparent. I don't think some people will ever understand that you don't CHOOSE who you are attracted to or how you feel. But, at some point, you have to move on with life.
When u say over compensate it reminded me of a good friend of mine. He would constantly...more than the other guys comment on girls. After he came out we were watching tv and a girl came on and he was quick to comment. He stopped himself saying.."oh that's right I don't have to do that anymore".
ENJOYED YOUR STORY OF YOUR COMING OUT JOURNEY. I AM SURE IT WAS HELPFUL TO MANY. HAPPY THAT LIFE'S SITUATION'S WORKED OUT FOR YOU. LOOK OUT WORLD YOU ARE THE TYPE OF PERSON WHO CAN MAKE THING'S AND SITUATION'S CHANGE FOR THE BETTER. PROUD OF YOU! MORE LOVE*
Thank you for sharing your story with such grace, eloquence, openness, and honesty. You look like a model. It is definitely okay to be bisexual/biromantic with a preference for the same gender. I believe that is considered to be a #4 on the Kinsey scale of 0 to 6. Glad to see you have accepted yourself!
Well done, I applaud you. Not only did you tell people on here your Coming Out story, but you did it in your own words. You stayed true to you. You spoke the way Your age group speaks, the words/vocabulary. You hit the key points on, if you aren't supporting yourself yet, then guard that truth about YOU. Tell others when you have the means to somewhat support You. The bit about the fluidity of sexual relations, you touched on that well too. Again, I applaud you. (by the way, as you can see. I am a middle aged man. A middle aged white man. I belong to a Support Group in Columbus Ohio, and hearing black men speak there truth is rare. So hearing you speak so well and so freely, that was refreshing. I am impressed by you. We need more men like you, to speak their truth)
Wearing a mask. So many don't have to ask. Some are killed by the past. Few words will last. Stay strong enmass. Future is to last. Stay forward and cast. Hold waisted. Stand tall and stand for your call.
I really enjoyed yo coming out story. I'm will b following yo channel. U made a point so clear about these folk supposed to b yo friend. Stay strong fella. Appreciate yo content
I'm listening to your story and you are a STRONG young man. I really enjoy listening to you. Now, you look at you know...Successful and doing your thing. God bless you my brother!
I hid out in the Baptist and Pentecostal churches for decades! It’s hell when you allow outside forces to determine who you are and your destination! I grew up in Chicago and can relate to midwestern homophobic overbearing complexities! So much time wasted! The rest I commit to healing!!
I was browsing through UA-cam and happen to run across your video I really enjoyed listening to your story you can help a lot of people that are going through what you have been through hang in there keep up the good work I am now a fan
Thank you so much for sharing your story, i admire your bravery im 52 and never came out like you im masculine but i live in the hood of the Bronx where most dudes are highly insecure, and every second word is" no homo" i envy you im sure it wasn't easy ...but glad you've come through it well i might add, best wishes in your future
Wow you went through it all! I'm bi but prefer guys. I didn't really date girls because i didn't want to play with people's emotions like that knowing i wasn't super into them. I haven't dated guys either. I avoided fraternities because i didn't want to overcompensate. I've started coming out to the gay community and my parents and sibling. Most people assume I'm straight becuase I'm masculine. I would love to find something mutual since I've never been in a romantic relationship.
JUST got an opportunity here you're coming out story... Hadn't heard of youwe have something in common. I'm from Michigan State as well I now live in Buffalo Buffalo... Thank you so much for sharing and you will help a lot of people, My Man
Very nicely done Tradell! What you said about accepting yourself is so true. You gotta accept and love yourself first. That maybe the biggest part of the struggle.
My friend and I was laying in bed watching your video and thought you were very strong and courageous what you said the fact that you stood up for yourself and you came out to your was very good and we know that you have a big weight lifted off your shoulders now. Thank you for sharing your story with us and be blessed
Tradell, just found you and subbed. Thank you for this video. As a counselor, I can assure you that you are helping people and saving lives with your honesty and openness. You are awesome. Thanks, man...........Ray
All I can say is that you won me over as a subscriber ..... your story is so right on .... I'll be looking forward to your post and I will be checking out the videos that you have posted. Have a great weekend!!!!
Waoh... Really loved listening to your story and I'm glad you've made peace with who you are. You are definitely right about having good friends. By the way you are fine in a very unassuming way. I'm glad I clicked on your video in my recommends
What an amazing story. It was so familiar to my own experience. I'm so happy the younger gays have this new freedom. It let's me know that the all of the abuse we suffered had meaning. Be free, love who you all want to love and remember your older sisters and brothers love you and have your backs. I only pray that the now ancestors we lost to the A.I.D.S epidemic can see y'all. They would be sooooo proud of this generation. God bless!!!!
Coming out can be different for everyone. You had some negative experiences with friends but you were lucky and had a very good experience with your family. Enjoyed your story. You are right this will help other. Thank you for sharing.
I'm glad you pull things together and hope you very happy now. I can't stand when people out another person. I came out at 20 yrs old in college. I told my grandparents first than my mom. My mom said the usual I love you and always will be happy and be safe. When I told my dad he didn't talk to me for three weeks except for good morning but one day he came in and said just remember you're a man first and things have been very cool with my family.
I stumbled on this quite by accident, but I must admit your story was truly engaging and SO familiar to my own journey. The struggle to love one's self and be at peace with who you are is real! Finding the pathway through the jungle of judgment, rejection, and the fear from others is victory. Thank you for being so authentic and for showing others that it really does take "courage" to be happy... You've gained one more loyal subscriber!
Well I ran into your coming out story by a fluke. You are just a unique person. Just so awesome and different to everybody else . I guess it’s just your upbeat and masculine personality. Sorry I live till on the other side of the Atlantic in South America. Hats off to you though you really captured my❤
...and the way you are soo ROMANTIC. I'm happy for you that realised that there's "nothing is wrong with you". That's how you did yourself a favour. You became good to yourself. "WE ARE EVERYWHERE " Love from Kenya.
Hey, I enjoyed your coming out story, at one point in your strory you said people( still in the closet) need to find some one to talk to. That's the thing, there aren't too many people out here you can trust to talk to.
there's someone. You find trustworthy people, by being trustworthy. If you find that you can't trust the people in your life, make some changes and start building new relationships. Spend more time with family members that make you feel good. You will find someone in your life, that accepts you and you can trust. Also seeking a therapist, as just someone to vent to helps.
You are very brave coming out... You're looking great there & you look happier & with lot weight off your shoulder after you came out.. I'm gay deaf man myself too, I'm also out as well.. I really enjoy your video.. Again keep up with all videos you been making.. I enjoy them... 😊
Thanks for sharing your fascinating story. Getting outside help was key and I am so happy that you took that step. You are a great example and your story will help many. Best wishes always.👍
Thank you so much for sharing your coming out story. Your story was very captivating and in so many ways I could really relate. Respectfully, you are the most beautiful and well articulated man ever. I’m so thankful that you survived your college experience and completed school. Thank you so much for finishing school and believing in yourself enough overcome the challenges that you had to face among your peers at school. My graduate school program was a much better experience than my undergraduate program due to a lot of the similar issues that I had to face in which you shared. You are most sincerely the kind of guy I wish to have in my circle. Again, thank you so much for sharing your amazing story.
Just be your self Donot live your life for people Live your life for you Because if you live your life for people You not gun reach no where in life Never ever let nobody tell you You cannot do it all you have to do just put your mind to it and everything would work out good for you trust me Life is just a journey just have to make used of it
Despicable how people invade others' privacy by looking at phones: ALWAYS KEEP YOUR PHONES LOCKED: it's no one's business but yours. Have we not moved on - being gay is nothing to be ashamed of and should not be an issue.
Hey good story I think u did a good job with it. Hey I been out for years I had to tell my family wasn't to bad. Luck to u more power to all the people who needs help defineing them self. James.
It's crazy and ashamed you got outed. No one should've took that right from you. It's your life and you have to make correct decisions for your life. Stay strong and walk in your light.
Best come out story I’ve heard to date. Honest, authentic and concise. Truth to power...love it.
thank you!
Absolutely the best story 💜💜💜💜
Wow.
That right.
I strongly agree
I’m so glad that more people are becoming aware that gay doesn’t equate to being super feminine.
That's Hollywood's fault of a very narrow & close minded focuse on the LGBT community.
Keep Rocking! how is voice feminine? I can understand that he makes a lot of hand gestures but even that isn’t really feminine.
Latte Cliche Exactly!
@Keep Rocking! This man is not fem at all, Your reaching big time
@Keep Rocking! You obviously have issues... I'm a grown ass man And i know what feminine is... And this man is not it!
You are BAD: beautiful, articulate and dignified.
thank you!
Wassup Bro, Just here to support your channel ya Dig? Live your Truth 💯
I echo these sentiments and while I know it is not that important, you would communicate even more effectively if you would stop using the word "like" so frequently - 27 times in a little over the first two minutes.
Gemini3 Who cares let this brother say whatever he wants on HIS channel 🙄
@@gemini3392 communicate more effectively to who? it's how I talk and how a lot of people like me talk.. i'm not particularly going for perfect king's english
I'm a black woman who appreciates black men who own their truth and not hide behind us because he's too scared to face his true self. I've had enough of these downlow black men using us to keep their insecurities hidden away.
thank you. & they are hiding behind women, because they don't know any better. & our community (black) can be very homophobic. It's tough. It's the whole point of me making this video.
Y'all black women love gays but hate bi-men
What does being black have to with this guys comming out story. What is up with Americans and race. This bro is just telling us a unique story. Leave race out of it.
John Kimber another hateful bitter black gay man blaming women for everything. Get over urself. U all are causing us TRAUMA emotionally and health wise. She has a right to speak out.
John Kimber not reading all tht rubbish.Scram.
I'm a pretty masculine guy, but its fun to queen out every now and then
be yourself! ❤️
You're bi?
its. every now and then. 100%
@@Honest_Man he could be gay
@@Honest_Man oh no, gay af
Your coming out story is AWESOME as fuck! I loved it!!!! It’s one of the best I’ve either heard or read in recent years. As a Black, masculine, bisexual person, I can relate to many of the aspects of your story. Thank you for sharing it. You seem Ike a very intelligent and smart individual and I hope for you the very best life has to offer. Bravo, g, bravo!!! Continue to live your truth and live in your truth! 👍🏾👍🏾🏳️🌈
thank you ❤️
Loved your coming out story. Sorry to hear how low people are outing you. My mother outed me and told me she loved me and to live my life. But being gay 40+ years ago wasn't easy. I wish you well
Richard Matos-Haile thank you!
You are beautiful black man! Congratulations on your courage and your strength!! Continue to hold your head up!🌈💖
thank you!!
Still one of my fav coming out video out here. I remember watching this like over a year ago. Thank you for sharing your story! It takes a lot of courage and I’m sure you’ve helped a lot of people :)
Sorry you got outed like that. That was horrible. Glad things worked out for you. Living a double life isn't easy. Honesty is really the best way to go. I dated a senior in college when I was a freshman and we kept it secret and he always had a girlfriend and I accepted that because I loved him so much. I couldn't live like that today. This was over 40 yrs ago but it sounds like things haven't changed that much hearing your story. Best Wishes!
thank you! and yeah man.. i hope things are changing more and more!
You are one ADORABLE wholesome, articulate, handsome and highly intelligent young man. What a strong inner beauty!👊🏼🙂
thank you!
Absolutely true 💯💯💯💯
Really great advice about sharing who you really are with somebody. My 15 year old has told me he is gay and I'm happy he knows who he is. But I was really surprised how many years he had been hiding this. Luckily, he had 1 friend that he talked to all those years, and I'm really glad he wasn't going through this on his own. Thanja fir sharing your great story. Xx
My brother outed me as lesbian to my mom. I wanted to tell her but I wasn't ready to tell her. I hate him now. Luckily my mom is bisexual so she fully supported me.
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Thank you for mentioning therapy! I have several black friends who refuse to go ‘cause they think that it’s only for crazy people, and that people who go are weak. They way I explain it is that I have a degree in kinesiology and my cousin has a degree in clinical psychology...so she comes to me for advice on health/fitness/food since I went to school for it for years...and I go to her for mental coping plans and other psychological advice since she went to school for that for years.
Great coming out video. It is very much like my own experience, but that was 50 years ago. So sad that young people like you are still having to go through this shit. All good fortune
thank you!
Real talk from the ❤. Love this and you are a wonderful and genuine soul!! Keep being you!!! ❤❤❤
Big thumbs up for sharing your story!!! Well done..these types of things makes a huge difference for people that are struggling with coming out.
I appreciate you finally living in your truth.
Honestly, thank you for the assurance. It’s nice to hear someone besides my boyfriend validating that this shall past. I recently came out to my Africa parents and they are taking it really hard and personal that I have “decided” to be gay and though I did come to terms with the fact that I might be disowned by my parents before telling them, it is still hard dealing with it. But like you said talking to someone really helps and I appreciate you for sharing this.
awesome you had the courage to tell them man! they will come around! strength your way!
Tradell Hawk Thank you!
Dude I came across this out of no where and I'm not even into guys but this has to be the best one I've ever seen because when the popular youtubers do it it's cringe and they drag it for way too long and they're horrible but I respect you for coming out
thank you bro!
I think you’re an incredible, charismatic, brave, and beautiful person. Always stand in your truth and let ABSOLUTELY no one make you feel inferior about yourself.
Adrian Small thank you!
Hey Tradell, was walking in the city before Christmas and passed Joseph Banks men's store and saw your picture staring out at me. So handsome! Happy New Year.
You're being true to yourself and thats the best gift of all. Best of luck to you
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!! This is so very familiar to so many people. You are strong and regardless of how it happened (though very messed up) it happened and it's made you the strong, handsome man you are!❤
thank you!
I’m so happy you made it through all that. Look at you now. Thanks for sharing so authentically.
I came out to my mom and sister as bisexual in 2019. My wife is also okay with it as well. More people are more accepting now days because back in the day not so much. Thanks for sharing man 🏳️🌈
Kavita8 ignorant.
When did you come out to your wife ?
How is it wife your wife. And being bi
just jamal you said how is it?
Byron Whitley yess
You are a beautiful guy. I truly like your story. I can see why guys like you.
💯💯💯💯💯
Amazing story, you hit some emotional moments with me... you were my psychiatrist today, thank you Dr. Hawk for this session of truth......
thank you!!
Very transparent. I don't think some people will ever understand that you don't CHOOSE who you are attracted to or how you feel. But, at some point, you have to move on with life.
When u say over compensate it reminded me of a good friend of mine. He would constantly...more than the other guys comment on girls. After he came out we were watching tv and a girl came on and he was quick to comment. He stopped himself saying.."oh that's right I don't have to do that anymore".
Leslie Sherman 🤣🤣
I def appreciate the honesty. Your facial features are amazing bro, keep being you!
Thanks bro for your story. You encourage me. You also a great story teller and beautiful spirit.
Thank you! The means a lot! ❤️
Smith, hello boy
This was so nice glad you appreciate yourself❤️❤️. I also had a hard time coming but I had to come out and be myself
thank you! Glad you was able to do it bro!
ENJOYED YOUR STORY OF YOUR COMING OUT JOURNEY. I AM SURE IT WAS HELPFUL TO MANY.
HAPPY THAT LIFE'S SITUATION'S WORKED OUT FOR YOU.
LOOK OUT WORLD YOU ARE THE TYPE OF PERSON WHO CAN MAKE THING'S AND SITUATION'S CHANGE FOR THE BETTER.
PROUD OF YOU!
MORE LOVE*
Great video, Proud of you and stay strong. Much Love from Chicago.
You're a very handsome young man. Be proud of yourself. Stay strong and live your life.
thank you!
Thank you for sharing your story with such grace, eloquence, openness, and honesty. You look like a model. It is definitely okay to be bisexual/biromantic with a preference for the same gender. I believe that is considered to be a #4 on the Kinsey scale of 0 to 6. Glad to see you have accepted yourself!
thank you for this!
Well done, I applaud you.
Not only did you tell people on here your Coming Out story, but you did it in your own words. You stayed true to you. You spoke the way Your age group speaks, the words/vocabulary. You hit the key points on, if you aren't supporting yourself yet, then guard that truth about YOU. Tell others when you have the means to somewhat support You. The bit about the fluidity of sexual relations, you touched on that well too. Again, I applaud you. (by the way, as you can see. I am a middle aged man. A middle aged white man. I belong to a Support Group in Columbus Ohio, and hearing black men speak there truth is rare. So hearing you speak so well and so freely, that was refreshing. I am impressed by you. We need more men like you, to speak their truth)
Wearing a mask. So many don't have to ask. Some are killed by the past. Few words will last. Stay strong enmass. Future is to last. Stay forward and cast. Hold waisted. Stand tall and stand for your call.
Much respect man! Loved everything about this.
I must say that this is a great story and I can feel for what you must having been going through.
The only “coming out” story worth hearing. Super relatable.
I really enjoyed yo coming out story. I'm will b following yo channel. U made a point so clear about these folk supposed to b yo friend. Stay strong fella. Appreciate yo content
James Cartwright thank you! 💕
I'm listening to your story and you are a STRONG young man. I really enjoy listening to you. Now, you look at you know...Successful and doing your thing. God bless you my brother!
I hid out in the Baptist and Pentecostal churches for decades! It’s hell when you allow outside forces to determine who you are and your destination! I grew up in Chicago and can relate to midwestern homophobic overbearing complexities! So much time wasted! The rest I commit to healing!!
I was browsing through UA-cam and happen to run across your video I really enjoyed listening to your story you can help a lot of people that are going through what you have been through hang in there keep up the good work I am now a fan
thank you so much!
Thank you for sharing your beautiful journey! Validation seeking is the number one worst thing you can do!
Thank you so much for sharing your story, i admire your bravery im 52 and never came out like you im masculine but i live in the hood of the Bronx where most dudes are highly insecure, and every second word is" no homo" i envy you im sure it wasn't easy ...but glad you've come through it well i might add, best wishes in your future
Good talk bro! Keep educating the ignorant to the facts.
You're only real job in life is to be true to yourself.
Say it again !!
Wow you went through it all! I'm bi but prefer guys. I didn't really date girls because i didn't want to play with people's emotions like that knowing i wasn't super into them. I haven't dated guys either. I avoided fraternities because i didn't want to overcompensate. I've started coming out to the gay community and my parents and sibling. Most people assume I'm straight becuase I'm masculine. I would love to find something mutual since I've never been in a romantic relationship.
Appreciate you sharing your story I enjoyed it. It was authentic and real I loved it hope to hear more from u honestly
thank you!
Life is so much better on the outside of the closet. It usually just takes a lot of heartache to get there.
JUST got an opportunity here you're coming out story... Hadn't heard of youwe have something in common. I'm from Michigan State as well I now live in Buffalo Buffalo... Thank you so much for sharing and you will help a lot of people, My Man
thank you!
Very nicely done Tradell! What you said about accepting yourself is so true. You gotta accept and love yourself first. That maybe the biggest part of the struggle.
My friend and I was laying in bed watching your video and thought you were very strong and courageous what you said the fact that you stood up for yourself and you came out to your was very good and we know that you have a big weight lifted off your shoulders now. Thank you for sharing your story with us and be blessed
Good for you. What maturity you've shown.
Tradell, just found you and subbed. Thank you for this video. As a counselor, I can assure you that you are helping people and saving lives with your honesty and openness. You are awesome. Thanks, man...........Ray
thank you! ❤️
Thanks for sharing bro. Much luv ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
All I can say is that you won me over as a subscriber ..... your story is so right on .... I'll be looking forward to your post and I will be checking out the videos that you have posted. Have a great weekend!!!!
Waoh... Really loved listening to your story and I'm glad you've made peace with who you are. You are definitely right about having good friends. By the way you are fine in a very unassuming way. I'm glad I clicked on your video in my recommends
thank you!
He's fine in every way. He could drop a spoon or do dishes and I'll still watch him 💯💯💯
This was helpful to me (I work with young people) I had not realized that this could be the cause of depression and low performance.
Thanks for sharing... Your story is interesting. When I was your age times were really different then.
dana t.
Love your authenticity and Honesty!!! Thank you for sharing!!! Loads of love
What an amazing story. It was so familiar to my own experience. I'm so happy the younger gays have this new freedom. It let's me know that the all of the abuse we suffered had meaning. Be free, love who you all want to love and remember your older sisters and brothers love you and have your backs. I only pray that the now ancestors we lost to the A.I.D.S epidemic can see y'all. They would be sooooo proud of this generation. God bless!!!!
Coming out can be different for everyone. You had some negative experiences with friends but you were lucky and had a very good experience with your family. Enjoyed your story. You are right this will help other. Thank you for sharing.
I'm glad you pull things together and hope you very happy now. I can't stand when people out another person. I came out at 20 yrs old in college. I told my grandparents first than my mom. My mom said the usual I love you and always will be happy and be safe. When I told my dad he didn't talk to me for three weeks except for good morning but one day he came in and said just remember you're a man first and things have been very cool with my family.
I stumbled on this quite by accident, but I must admit your story was truly engaging and SO familiar to my own journey. The struggle to love one's self and be at peace with who you are is real! Finding the pathway through the jungle of judgment, rejection, and the fear from others is victory. Thank you for being so authentic and for showing others that it really does take "courage" to be happy... You've gained one more loyal subscriber!
thank you!
I love how real you kept it .
Confident, courageous, brave...I wish you all the best. Live your life the best way you can... subscribed✌️🙂
Great Story Tradell! I think hearing your story more guys may feel a sense of relief.
Broo this was literally a therapy session for me i took in so much from this and learned i really want you to know this helped alot
i’m from chicago too. but you’re so smart and intelligent new subscriber
Your story was so eloquently spoken it inspired me to subscribe. Well done to you. 👍🏾
thank you! ❤️
Well I ran into your coming out story by a fluke. You are just a unique person. Just so awesome and different to everybody else . I guess it’s just your upbeat and masculine personality. Sorry I live till on the other side of the Atlantic in South America. Hats off to you though you really captured my❤
...and the way you are soo ROMANTIC. I'm happy for you that realised that there's "nothing is wrong with you". That's how you did yourself a favour. You became good to yourself. "WE ARE EVERYWHERE " Love from Kenya.
What an awesome guy you are. Thank you for sharing your story. Wishing you lots of love.
Hey, I enjoyed your coming out story, at one point in your strory you said people( still in the closet) need to find some one to talk to. That's the thing, there aren't too many people out here you can trust to talk to.
there's someone. You find trustworthy people, by being trustworthy. If you find that you can't trust the people in your life, make some changes and start building new relationships. Spend more time with family members that make you feel good. You will find someone in your life, that accepts you and you can trust. Also seeking a therapist, as just someone to vent to helps.
God bless you and your family buddy. Stay healthy and safe. Peace.
Nice one....I can relate to your story very well.👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👋👋👋👋👋👏👏👏👏👏👏👌👌👌👌👌👌
Wow ...man it was great listening to you. You don't know how many people you help...Thanks!
Corey Corbett thank you!
You are very brave coming out... You're looking great there & you look happier & with lot weight off your shoulder after you came out.. I'm gay deaf man myself too, I'm also out as well.. I really enjoy your video.. Again keep up with all videos you been making.. I enjoy them... 😊
You remind me of myself.greetings fyom Belize.
Well spoken.handsome and not defensive at all.
Listen to him many times.
Thanks for sharing your fascinating story. Getting outside help was key and I am so happy that you took that step. You are a great example and your story will help many. Best wishes always.👍
thank you! ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing your coming out story. Your story was very captivating and in so many ways I could really relate.
Respectfully, you are the most beautiful and well articulated man ever. I’m so thankful that you survived your college experience and completed school. Thank you so much for finishing school and believing in yourself enough overcome the challenges that you had to face among your peers at school.
My graduate school program was a much better experience than my undergraduate program due to a lot of the similar issues that I had to face in which you shared.
You are most sincerely the kind of guy I wish to have in my circle. Again, thank you so much for sharing your amazing story.
thank you bro! appreciate the words! ❤️
Tradell Hawk
You’re welcome! ♥️
Just be your self
Donot live your life for people
Live your life for you
Because if you live your life for people
You not gun reach no where in life
Never ever let nobody tell you
You cannot do it all you have to do just put your mind to it and everything would work out good for you trust me
Life is just a journey just have to make used of it
Major cities like NYC is very open, you can be what ever you want to be
Despicable how people invade others' privacy by looking at phones: ALWAYS KEEP YOUR PHONES LOCKED: it's no one's business but yours. Have we not moved on - being gay is nothing to be ashamed of and should not be an issue.
Amen to real friends whom you can confide in and will always have your back no matter what.
It was cool hearing your story. Thank you for sharing. 🖤
Thank you for your honesty.
Love your story. You're a beautiful person inside and out❤❤❤
thank you! ❤️
Absolutely!!
Dude you are a V.I.P.( Very Intelligent Person)
Much respect my guy ✊🏾
Be Strong, be yourself, oghhhhhh DAMMMM U R GOOD LOOKING,
Randomly got this recommendation, must be a sign. Nice story though, happy you're living your truth.
Hey good story I think u did a good job with it. Hey I been out for years I had to tell my family wasn't to bad. Luck to u more power to all the people who needs help defineing them self. James.
It's crazy and ashamed you got outed. No one should've took that right from you. It's your life and you have to make correct decisions for your life. Stay strong and walk in your light.
thank you!
Yeah. Doing that is just bad. Bad enough it can kill the person. In some places that can be considered attempted murder.
You were transparent and I loved it 💜 !
Take care of you, and be yourself Tradell.👍🏾