STORYTIME| My Coming Out Story + How l Got Kicked Out 🏳️‍🌈🥺 | DVMIQUEE

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  • @rhuggu
    @rhuggu 3 роки тому +81

    The struggles of being a Jamaican bro...felt like you just told my story. Continue being an inspiration bro.

    • @Xxx-y9d
      @Xxx-y9d Рік тому

      🙏🏿 🙏🏿 🙏🏿

  • @chiloehill6408
    @chiloehill6408 3 роки тому +11

    I really appreciate your story. Im from south Carolina. And my southern family was not having any of that. My mom took me to church and embraced the hell out of me. We have 30 minute testimony time. And my mom stood up and told everyone my business. And then put me out the house . I will never forget that. We are cool now. And i promise myself support my 13 year old son if he ever tells me he is gay.

  • @TerrellFuller973
    @TerrellFuller973 3 роки тому +26

    Yeah parents never really know, my mom said the whole "Oh I kinda knew" yadda yadda lol. Then, said maybe you're not what you said you are I said what gay??? I knew I was gay since I was 12 😂. Most moms are supportive though, so shout out to them.

    • @tyralikadiamondstar8960
      @tyralikadiamondstar8960 3 роки тому

      My mom was not when I told her I like boys and she was mad at me for little bit till i induction her to my boyfriend and she like him

  • @brucejordan8274
    @brucejordan8274 3 роки тому +9

    This video has made me respect you differently and more positively since your separation from your ex. Stay positive. You seem to have tremendous potential in many areas. Keep THRIVING and STRIVING!

  • @trizzytroy69tolbert75
    @trizzytroy69tolbert75 3 роки тому +13

    Young Meek mad props to you. I was wondered what happened to you bro. People don't understand coming out in different cultures can be deathly. Right here in the US there are so many youths thrown away out on the streets bcuz of their sexuality. In 2020!!! That's crazy. I'm older 40s came out in the mid 80s in NYC. It was wild BUT its crazy that certain things never change. Anyway I hope n pray you hold onto your strength and island pride. PS you are a sexxy young bul

  • @drummerboy7380
    @drummerboy7380 3 роки тому +12

    I'm glad you're ok. Hope life gets better. Love ya!!!

  • @MarkusInTheMixNow
    @MarkusInTheMixNow 3 роки тому +4

    I like it when u talked about having sugar in your tank. For real, all dudes, str8 or not, have some sugar in they tank, mostly because we have half our mother and half our father's genes. Depending on the society or culture you live, you can somewhat freely express both BEHAVIORALLY, or only one thats preferred by the culture ( for example, in western society and those nations influenced by it, if you are VISIBLY male, your ass BETTER act masculine or else.) Anyway, I like to say im 30 per cent sugar and 70 percent gunpowder (it took me a while to admit that to myself, no lie). This one of the best coming out vids bruh. And i love them sexy, full lips...

  • @curtisjohnson9907
    @curtisjohnson9907 3 роки тому +5

    To you my beautiful king 👑 I appreciate your honesty and courage.I see you it takes a real person to embrace ones truth. I let people into my world 🌎 when I was 16 I was confronted by my mother. My mother and father told me they knew and was just waiting for me to tell them all stories are different when coming out. I’m now 42 yrs old and my father just passed away but he became my advocate and wanted me to live my life. My mother is super cool with my coming out but I’m gay not bisexual so I know your journey is different but I want you to know it’s gets better with time. I thank you for sharing 💯💜❤️🌎👑🙏🏿💯💯💯💯💯✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿 Always Remember you are Enough and a light in this 🌎.

  • @JustJRR
    @JustJRR 3 роки тому +17

    That's really messed up of your parents & can be incredibly traumatic. They suck. Hope you healing. 🙏🏾❤

  • @Shaneodell35
    @Shaneodell35 3 роки тому +2

    So happy you decided to live your life for you. Everyone should live their authentic life. Being upset with someone because of their sexuality is like being a diabetic while furious at your neighbor for eating cake. It is the ultimate form of lunacy. Hope that the lunacy veil is lifted for all those that matter to you.

  • @welforddabney925
    @welforddabney925 3 роки тому +6

    Yoooooooo, I truly love this video! Way better and more details in this version! 12

  • @Vharry25
    @Vharry25 3 роки тому +5

    Welcome back, from one island boy to another. Missed you so much. Do you as you are the person that matters Yes have some respect for your parents and ex but no one but you can make you happy. Hang in here and you will be good. You have a good head on your shoulder and you will be good.

  • @jamesdepugh7163
    @jamesdepugh7163 3 роки тому +31

    People dont understand being u is a challenge, when people want u to be them ......BIGUPS TO U BRUH

  • @johnmccall1142
    @johnmccall1142 3 роки тому +7

    Its good to see you Meek. Be blessed.

  • @samiyahjones97
    @samiyahjones97 3 роки тому +5

    Meeeek it’s so good watching your video . Missed you and your videos . Thanks for sharing your story meek it very inspirational and a life lesson video . Thank you so much . Your biggest Fan Sa’miyah 💙

  • @tb22terrell14
    @tb22terrell14 3 роки тому +5

    So good to see you Meek! Keep doing you and living in your truth. I been missing you . Glad to see your doing fine. ❤️❤️

  • @rodneytyson8680
    @rodneytyson8680 3 роки тому +10

    Some parents really do know. People just wont label their kids.

    • @rottie615
      @rottie615 3 роки тому

      I’d say most know

  • @sithabelamandlawenkosiwodu6298
    @sithabelamandlawenkosiwodu6298 3 роки тому +7

    I can see what your mum meant when she said she knew. It's hard to explain but there's just something about you and trust me, parents can always tell...well...the attentive ones at least.

  • @percygilbert2974
    @percygilbert2974 3 роки тому +8

    It’s the reason why I’m afraid of coming out, I’m bisexual I love both men and women, I just wanna live a normal life but I’m so afraid of being prejudice and making fun of by people who absolutely don’t understand what I went through the moment I discovered that I’m bisexual

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  3 роки тому +6

      Don’t be scared Percy, just wait til you are ready! We stand with you 🏳️‍🌈✊🏾

    • @percygilbert2974
      @percygilbert2974 3 роки тому

      @@meekalphonso thank you

  • @markson6726
    @markson6726 3 роки тому +5

    Meek thanks for sharing, and the putting the info out about dl guys was very important..

  • @Asakhalifshow
    @Asakhalifshow 3 роки тому +3

    Stay strong bro..welcome back!

  • @itscocoaa
    @itscocoaa 3 роки тому +3

    I follow you on BIGO 💙 You should make a vid talking about your personal experience w/ BIGO, how it’s affected you positively + negatively and bring your YT audience over there too. That’d be fab.

  • @brettbaker4189
    @brettbaker4189 Рік тому

    thanks for sharing your story, you are so right to be true to yourself and authentic not hiding your life as I had too. I love your brothers response, it melts my heart. I hope your parents have come round by now. Best wishes to you from an older guy from another time and place x

  • @bigboii2709
    @bigboii2709 3 роки тому +6

    Honestly when I heard the first coming out story and u had touched on u getting put out ur parents out. I knew it was something about that first video. I still remember that blue hair. Yeah I came from the couples channel. But honestly some parents do Kno because my mom always use to ask me when I was younger are u gay do u like boys. But now she don’t ask but she know. I kept it to myself because I just never knew how my oldest brother would react. But he Kno too they just don’t speak on it. I’ll played around on it and I never got a bad reaction about it but everybody went to calling my ma said did u see what yo son posted r yo son posted this. She didn’t say nothing but she always told me no matter gay r straight I’ll always love my kids.

  • @julianwalton6157
    @julianwalton6157 2 роки тому +1

    This video made me so emotional. King you really inspire me.

  • @zyverre
    @zyverre 3 роки тому +4

    Mannn your such a inspiration ! Deff gotta subscriber

  • @robertgeffers4652
    @robertgeffers4652 3 роки тому +2

    You're a real man, stay strong !

  • @jameshayes7937
    @jameshayes7937 3 роки тому +20

    It’s funny when the people in the early twenties say way back cuz they ain’t even that old

  • @dereknewbury163
    @dereknewbury163 3 роки тому +3

    You been through a lot, but feels like you are master of your own ship now and able to live your full real life. Wish you well. I think you are well cute but sadly I was 50 years too early

  • @DeeStarHairstylist
    @DeeStarHairstylist 3 роки тому +5

    That explains that gap in between videos after the 1st 2 videos back then. 🙋🏽‍♂️A1 Day1 right here 😁😉🙌🏽👍🏽

  • @DUNGEONDRAGON1000
    @DUNGEONDRAGON1000 2 роки тому +1

    IT'S SO SAD THAT MOST PARENTS DO THIS, WHICH I THINK IS SELFISH AF ......just for their own satisfaction!
    I feel like mostly EVERY GAY person experienced these types of comments:
    (1) *"IS this the life you want to live?"* ,
    (2) *"This is just a PHASE"* ,
    (3) *"You should just keep dating men (gay) or woman (les)"* ,
    and the one that baffles me that MOST is
    (4 ) *"THIS IS A CHOICE"* like wtf!
    *Why would I choose to be gay on purpose and go through this, make it make sense! GaY is a sexuality not a choice >> Get OveR IT* !!! I enjoyed your story bro!

  • @welforddabney925
    @welforddabney925 3 роки тому +4

    Man, I love your opening theme song and video! 12

  • @warrensheppard7706
    @warrensheppard7706 3 роки тому +3

    thanks for sharing meek! i love ya bro....period.

  • @jaazz_
    @jaazz_ 3 роки тому +22

    once you said your parents are from the islands i knew what was coming 😭

  • @DRthistle
    @DRthistle 3 роки тому +3

    Parents talk about consequences and then they are the main consequences. That's bullshit.

  • @deedystv
    @deedystv Рік тому +1

    Most fathers take it differently that others some can be easy to talk to and some can make you feel unloved

  • @Dspw0800
    @Dspw0800 3 роки тому

    Mique, I haven't followed you since you and Ryan broke up. You guys actually had everything to do with my decision to come out, even in my 50s. But I'm glad to catch up. I, too, moved to Atlanta. Thank you for the encouraging videos. I'm glad you are happy. I will continue to follow your progress.

  • @sunfyah268
    @sunfyah268 3 роки тому +8

    Same here caribbean love bro 🇦🇬🇩🇲🇯🇲🇹🇹

  • @56chrsbri
    @56chrsbri 2 роки тому +1

    Yes you are adorable young man🙂. But remember being young and gay is just the beginning of the journey. Five years from now that sparkle may not be there. Then think of how you may feel. I try to all young gay blk guys the best wisdom I know from personal experience. Notice young people have a tendency to only live for the moment. Far as your friend (exposed/outed ) who did that to you. That is no friend you could have been hurt or killed. Not to mention the emotional damage that doesn't show. From a older Gay blk male (me). I am from NY

  • @garycopeland1675
    @garycopeland1675 3 роки тому +1

    It's really good seeing you back. 👍

  • @tazzlp6915
    @tazzlp6915 3 роки тому

    Great story & inspirational I did hit you up on IG on your graphic page . Keep up your great work !!

  • @tyralikadiamondstar8960
    @tyralikadiamondstar8960 3 роки тому +5

    Hey Meek, it's good to see you back. Glad you tell your side and your truth to coming out as well. My question for you is do you talk to your parents and your siblings still? You are so fine too. Would you ever date a trans oerson?

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  3 роки тому +3

      yes, l still talk to my family, actually spending the holidays with them still

    • @tyralikadiamondstar8960
      @tyralikadiamondstar8960 3 роки тому +1

      @@meekalphonso Happy that your spend it with them. Happy hoilday

  • @LifeOfMelissa
    @LifeOfMelissa 3 роки тому +4

    loving your channel!

  • @TheJds1993
    @TheJds1993 3 роки тому +1

    Interesting story many people are afraid to come out for various reasons but I think at some point we all have to grow and be our true selves or we'll never truly live I came out last year and yes it was hell with my family and church but I had to get through it but I feel much better now that I don't have to be DL no more I could be myself

  • @rmronalda57
    @rmronalda57 3 роки тому +5

    KEEP IT REAL BRO BE URSELF KEEP SMILIN AND ROCKIN GOOD LOOKIN BOO😙😘😙💗✌ HOLLA 🗣

  • @user-if4df7lk1z
    @user-if4df7lk1z Рік тому +2

    This young man is very handsome.

  • @deedystv
    @deedystv Рік тому

    Every parent take the truth of their child sexuality differently some take it hard and some is understanding I’m happy your able to be comfortable within yourself

  • @kyleslabbert1916
    @kyleslabbert1916 3 роки тому +3

    Im sorry things didn't go down well with your dad man ... so sad 😔 but thanks for posting and sharing this man.
    Pity things didn't work out for you and Ryan but it is what it is and the best thing one can do is learn and grow from their experiences. All the best Meek! 😉

  • @jodykessly8696
    @jodykessly8696 2 роки тому +1

    I am literally crying listening to your truth....

  • @craigmerkey8518
    @craigmerkey8518 3 роки тому

    Awesome! Love the strength and courage you display!

  • @deedystv
    @deedystv Рік тому

    Nice story remember be happy with yourself I love you

  • @jf8947
    @jf8947 3 роки тому +1

    Good to see you again. Don’t be a ghost!

  • @charlesyost8507
    @charlesyost8507 3 роки тому

    First time viewer
    I think your Coming Out Story will help others.
    Will be looking for more.
    Love From Orlando

  • @matheuscorsino3644
    @matheuscorsino3644 3 роки тому +1

    I knew it since u was a child. Y'all do not be knowing nothing. LOL! I laughed so hard, I love African Americans.

  • @joellandeau-pierre168
    @joellandeau-pierre168 3 роки тому +1

    I enjoy watching you you speak so good you are a true Trini

  • @pgemini75216
    @pgemini75216 3 роки тому

    Glad to see you back. Hope you doing well

  • @darrylatkinson6185
    @darrylatkinson6185 3 роки тому +4

    Hey Meek. I miss you. Glad to see you're doing well Shawty. Are you still living in my Hometown? (ATL)

  • @kenardowellington8179
    @kenardowellington8179 3 роки тому +2

    Nice to u back brother

  • @davida.butler2180
    @davida.butler2180 3 роки тому +10

    Hey Alexa,
    Play “I’m coming out”🤣

    • @meekalphonso
      @meekalphonso  3 роки тому +3

      lmfaooooo

    • @lamontwoods9720
      @lamontwoods9720 3 роки тому

      @@meekalphonso hey man how's it going i'm older guy and a fan you are very handsome too

  • @brandonjackson131
    @brandonjackson131 3 роки тому +2

    I really loved this your so brave !

  • @DeeStarHairstylist
    @DeeStarHairstylist 3 роки тому +5

    Yes 🙌🏽 👍🏽 finally a video I thought we had to wait until 2021 Lol 😂 glad to see back on the YT #Meek

  • @Nando0706
    @Nando0706 3 роки тому +6

    I’m happy that you didn’t delete your videos tho and please don’t take this as a sign that you should lol

  • @lance_9018
    @lance_9018 3 роки тому +3

    Glad you’re doing ok bro!! 💪🏾🤟🏾🙏🏾

  • @ladyt8266
    @ladyt8266 3 роки тому +4

    I finally watched this, and gave it a like.

  • @ralphcooper3208
    @ralphcooper3208 3 роки тому +4

    Meek and Ryan both of you guys was a beautiful couple together 👬.

  • @DeeStarHairstylist
    @DeeStarHairstylist 3 роки тому +4

    Lol 😂 I definitely remember both videos

  • @actereighty4776
    @actereighty4776 7 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing. You have my respect and wishing you all the best.

  • @ELVIification
    @ELVIification 3 роки тому +17

    the lips tho ....i cant stop staring

  • @royeb63
    @royeb63 3 роки тому +2

    Haven't watched the video yet. Just wanted you to know that it's great to see you again. :)

  • @jodykessly8696
    @jodykessly8696 2 роки тому

    You Islander men are so beautiful.....your body language is so nice too!

  • @willarroz6703
    @willarroz6703 3 роки тому

    YALL !!!! if a guy is dL keep him close but don’t have sex with him, don’t give yourself fully to him, let him know it’s okay to not only be gay but to also to “just be yourself”. Know your strength fellas. Your stronger than you know out and DL

  • @KANTV1
    @KANTV1 3 роки тому

    Love you 💞💝💝
    Keep being true dear..
    I'm glad you're back for us..

  • @rickycrawford2938
    @rickycrawford2938 3 роки тому +2

    Meek I miss you. Stay Strong

  • @ariseaman390
    @ariseaman390 Рік тому

    Coming out is like taking 1000 piece puzzle, throwing all the pieces out of the window and telling yourself: "Go! And put it all together."

  • @skirk19
    @skirk19 3 роки тому +4

    liked your story. I miss you and Ryan but I understand you have to move on. Hope you guys still communicate at least

  • @TayTay06
    @TayTay06 2 роки тому

    props to you because coming out is a big thing and its hard but yea glad u overcame u cute btw

  • @conversationswithhart
    @conversationswithhart 3 роки тому +1

    Welcome back

  • @dontemannings5336
    @dontemannings5336 3 роки тому +4

    My heart goes out to you bro. I am from the islands too so i do know what patents there can be like. Do stay strong and keep on doing youn. Much love from N.Y

  • @whodis5503
    @whodis5503 3 роки тому +7

    Sir, you're so beautiful, I can't even watch the video properly, I just be staring at you 😂

  • @marlonmalcolm1738
    @marlonmalcolm1738 3 роки тому +8

    BUT I DIDN'T HEARD ANYTHING THAT YOU COULDN'T HAVE SAID IN THE FIRST COMING OUT STORY 🤨
    I'M I MISSING ANYTHING 🤔

  • @loganbenjamin7053
    @loganbenjamin7053 3 роки тому +5

    I remember when you guys were apartment hunting

    • @loganbenjamin7053
      @loganbenjamin7053 3 роки тому

      My name is Logan I hit you up on Instagram I sent you a direct message

  • @andrehambri6821
    @andrehambri6821 3 роки тому +1

    we and l will all ways have your back what you did will help others not commit suicide them self and come out and make them very strong like you or a role model to others to be them self and now they really coming out hey hey it's great what you doing

  • @herroywhite7437
    @herroywhite7437 3 роки тому +1

    Awwwww lovely brother wish I had a family member I can tell to you motivate me to come out

  • @bigboii2709
    @bigboii2709 3 роки тому +20

    U look different. Idk what it is but u look different

  • @kendrickf614
    @kendrickf614 3 роки тому

    Stay Beautiful Bro, Because You Are Beautiful🙏🏿😌, I’m Actually Still Working Up Too Bravery Myself☺️🏳️‍🌈… So Thank You

  • @tajiyrhislop9804
    @tajiyrhislop9804 3 роки тому +2

    Yes I'm from Trinidad😝🔥

  • @sherylthomas3079
    @sherylthomas3079 3 роки тому +3

    I just have a strong feelings you and ryan getting bk together we miss yall fr fr bro we love you and in his last q and a he said he miss you and dont mind meeting up with you

  • @jeffbocock9391
    @jeffbocock9391 3 роки тому

    Love you meek!

  • @patrickdorleans8748
    @patrickdorleans8748 3 роки тому +2

    Very handsome guy

  • @tonyaturner5867
    @tonyaturner5867 3 роки тому +1

    Good to see you

  • @TonyandTianaLawes876
    @TonyandTianaLawes876 3 роки тому +2

    Love from Jamaica

  • @russelstephan6342
    @russelstephan6342 3 роки тому +4

    How is the relationship with ya family (parents) now

  • @matthoward1328
    @matthoward1328 3 роки тому +4

    you never told us what happened between you and ryan, you guys were such a cute couple, what happened????

    • @bleubelle4339
      @bleubelle4339 3 роки тому +1

      They both made videos addressing the break up , you can check their old videos...don't think they need to tell more of what happened as some things need to remain private

  • @bigredd6684
    @bigredd6684 6 місяців тому

    You are so absolutely beautiful and gorgeous. You are a god in human form. Wow ❤

  • @itzjayichasebandzz4272
    @itzjayichasebandzz4272 3 роки тому +1

    Hi Meek😘 I MISSED YOU

  • @andrehambri6821
    @andrehambri6821 3 роки тому +2

    good job l love it you was living with your lover you became stronger and your own self to what you want to do and think oyes

  • @user-if4df7lk1z
    @user-if4df7lk1z Рік тому

    This is the reason why guys who do not want their business out do not mess with the out messy guys.

  • @KKA868
    @KKA868 3 роки тому

    Trini to the Bone!

  • @MM-tx7gi
    @MM-tx7gi 3 роки тому

    So hard to have to listen to these sad parts! I wish that your parents were not so hard on you and would have allowed you to stay at home. Hearing that is really tough man!

  • @Wheelztotheworld
    @Wheelztotheworld 3 роки тому +1

    Missed u