help myself - original dodie song | bedroom demo
Вставка
- Опубліковано 11 жов 2022
- the month behind this song • yeah ow (sept)
listen to my new EP Hot Mess here! dodie.ffm.to/hotmess
listen to Build A Problem here! dodie.ffm.to/buildaproblem
other more casual channel: / doddlevloggle
vevo: / dodievevo
twitter: / doddleoddle
instagram: / doddleoddle
facebook: / doddleoddle
my music is on all platforms like Spotify and Apple Music! Just type in "dodie".
business contact: josh@dodie.co
i’ll always admire the honesty, vulnerability, and rawness in your music- it’s clear your soul is poured into each song, regardless of whether it’s pretty or not.
This is so well put. All of her songs have this raw honesty, and I think that makes a lot of them incredibly vulnerable as well. That vulnerability is what makes her music so beautiful, even if what she’s singing about isn’t seen that way
@@lindsayh8374 that is so true. i have recommended her songs to so many friends but no one could really appreciate her rawness, they just straight up said “its good..” and theres always a “but its not my type of music” or “but i dont understand”. i mean, could u at least just listen and feel the music??? im so furious lol
I do think every song written is pretty sounding
Oh damn. This hits hard. Self sabotage and doing things you know aren't good for you is something I think everyone can relate to, but it's difficult to admit. Thank you as always dodie for making and sharing your music.
M
7 whole years and I’m still here loving every single thing dodie puts out
🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
Right??? How could u not though fr
same
sticking with dodie till the end!!
ilove this song Perfect dodie clark ❤❤❤❤
As a dad, I thank you so much. My daughter, who is now 23, you were her first music love, apart from our kitchen dance (imposed like). I would often hear your music, when she was a teenager, from her bedroom. There was a place that you spoke to her and her friends. My wife died this year and we had our first holiday period without her. We had a Dodie night of kitchen dance. It was so much fun and light. My daughter is studying, but is writing her first book, which is to a certain extent, inspired by your talent. Thanks for that matey.
wooow, what a beautiful comment
@@marthedreamer7629 thank you for your reply matey. Her book is going well. She won't tell me about it until it's finished. Bleedin' artists eh; she is her mother's daughter😀. Hope all is well in your heart.
gosh why did your comment make me cry!!! i am 23 now and i wish i had a dad like you. i have no dad and i'm ok with that but this comment made me think you seem to be caring father for your daughter. she's lucky to have you
@@ingreenmusic thank you for your heart felt response. You are obviously a strong, aware young women. Honoured that you connected to my comment. There are tears we feel in life that create a quality of expansion, reminds us of our love. Thank you for being you.
Your such a amazing dad- you truly are a great father and a figure in her life. I am only 14 and I also don't have a dad (foster care) but you seem like a awesome father. Thank you for existing ❤
When that "perfect" relationship is quietly falling apart without anyone else noticing. Looking back years later, I realise that us, the "perfect" couple, were doing everything we possibly could to hurt one another, without even knowing what we were doing. How can a one minute song take me back all those years and reveal these truths to me again? Because art is universal, and this is great art. This and No Big Deal are like arrows through my heart. Healing for me, ultimately. I hope healing for dodie, too.
🖤
The shortest and (bitter)sweetest song about self destructive habits. I have recently fallen for an addict and he doesn't like me back, but that's my own addiction manifesting
Love the song, Dodie 🤍🤍🤍
“when it hurts so much more, you can say you were right”
:’(
I love how the lines "ill scratch till im raw, ill fuck him tonight" are like a promise/ threat that the realist part is saying to the part in denial. How people can be so sure that what they're doing to themselves is hurtful but still don't stop.
There's a degree of intimacy here that I don't understand but artistically appreciate
It's easier to find comfort in the misery you know, than the joy you are unfamiliar with.
Hate myself, help myself, heal myself
Dodie's music is so profound and yet soft, I don't find it easy to cry but anytime i hear a song by dodie i genuinely break down-
i know this song isn’t about dermatillomania but i can’t help but relate this song to it. and sometimes it feels so so isolating. i’m in one of the moments that feel like that, and this songs comforts me so much.
“don’t tell me to stop. no, it doesn’t work. you smack my hand, trust me, i never learn. i’ll scratch till i’m raw.”
like, huh, yeah. me too
im hurting bad, and as selfish as it is.. it's kinda nice to have someone hurting next to me. i genuinely hope we both feel better soon doddle
this is my sign that i will get therapy, i will help myself :)
I realize that this isn’t about skin picking 😂 However, I am a chronic skin picker, especially on my hands, and so this song…hits. But also, it hits on multiple levels. Thank you so much, Dodie ❤️
Me too, I keep relistening because the lyrics are so so perfect for what I’m experiencing and have for so long!! Happy to know I’m not alone!
ME too! I heard the lyrics and I just relate so hard
SAME!!! This was my very first thought!!
dodie……jesus christ, fucking goosebumps. your growth as a musician and lyricist even in the last year is so incredible and this hits so hard. i’ve loved your projects for a decade+ and i feel so proud of you for your talent and dedication and honesty 😢
As someone with exoriation disorder (skin-picking/dermatillomania), thoooose lines about picking... I feel that.
As someone going through struggles with BFRB (Body Focused Repetitive Behaviors), I see myself in this song 500%
same. sheesh
i find myself coming back to this song far too often, every time i self sabotage i come back, it sure is lovely to hear you sing it so sweetly, but it hurts more every time.
why are the greatest songs always the shortest ones
This hits wayyyyy too hard
I cannot explain how much I feel this song in my chest
as someone with dermatillomania, this song literally hits deep
After a very very very long time, this channel finally popped up on my recommended today and it sent me back down to memory lane, got all the singers I used to listen to get recommended.
Miss those simple days when all I could think of was how in the world people were able to sing so damn well. it's astonishing watching a channel grow for 14 years. Congrats dodie and thank ya!
PS: This song hits a bit close to home.
After building a problem and hating outselves, we still never help ourselves
Bruce Wayne: "Well I know how much you like to say I told you so" .
Alfred : "On that day sir , even I wouldn't want to ."
the fact that this was filmed while lying on the carpet feeling numb hits very close to him
This has probably become one of my new favourites - it is so relatablely raw. What a mood.
I don't have words for this one. Well done Dodie
september's here! ♥︎
september hurted for me, more than any month this year. but we still have to strive for better days.
Ooooooh the range of applications for such a difficult topic. I'm entranced by your wording here. Can't wait to hear this when it comes out.
I didn’t expect for this to be…so specific, to me. For two reasons. I chronically bit and pick at my fingers to the point of bleeding and pain. They look awful and sore at their worst. People always tell me to stop, but I never could. The second of course being self sabotage. It feels good in the moment, you want it…but it hurts. Every time. Thank you for this, Dodie.
Yeah.. 60 second song and I cry 10 seconds in. I’d love a full song of this. Hope you have a gentler time letting go soon 💕
I'm a 68yr old man and you made me cry thank you and I mean thank you it gets harder as you age to feel alive each day
Your songs have a weird way of hitting the soul. Thank you, it reminds me I can heal.
There is so much comfort in songs that i can so deeply relate to in the most heart wrenching way
it pains me how accurately you depicted self-sabotage and stubbornness in such a delicate raw song - there's countless instances where I take one step forward and then take 17 steps back because I self l self-sabotage myself before I realize what I've done 🥲
❤❤❤
Dodie always knows when to post
8 years later and I continue to be so stunned and so proud of the art you create
This. Hits. Hard.
the double meaning at the end kills me
really needed this today
i love dodie voice
this just touched me very deeply
oh man my heart - this is beautiful
The tenderness juxtaposed with the darkness is astonishing
i love this imma cry
thank u dodie
this one rly hit the nail on the head
This is so lovely. I love this so much and this hits hard. Thank you for this
in love. obsessed. this hits like always thank u dodie
This one is so short and so simple, but wow it really hits hard
wow,, agh,, their is music so good i genuinely cannot believe it sometimes
My heart always jumps a little when I see you post. Brilliant and beautiful as always, thank you for sharing ❤️
oh dodie. oh this one resonates so hard. sending hugs x
Returning here. Here are my memories evoked through this song.
People hurt me through the ways they tried to control me.
I can’t shake the wounds they gave me.
I self harmed in an attempt to cope.
I know now that all these negative thought patterns are unhealthy for me. But I’ll still return to them to justify my pain.
I’d rather find an easy solution than do the work to recover.
This was just breathtaking... Thank you Dodie...
I'm mesmerised at how you've got yourself lying next to yourself
This brought me to tears
when you have no control of your heart, life, or body we try to open the sores and set ourselves free to feel in control of the chaos- thank you dodie dearest for putting this feeling into song
dodie there are no words to describe how one of a kind your art is, this one especially. cuts deep so so beautifully ❤️🩹
Damn I love this already
So much dodie - reveeeeeeerb , love it
I LOVE YOU DODIE
Why are you so good 😭😭😭
This one hit home
I don't know if it was intentional, but "it'll sure hurt when it sets for the last time" feels like it has an interesting double meaning to it. The sun setting for the final time is going to hurt. There will be a time when you won't be able to sit and watch the sunset with someone you love anymore. But there's also the meaning of the word set, which means when a bone sets and mends itself. It will hurt when you have to decide to start making better decisions, but it will also hurt if you just keep making bad ones and it sets incorrectly.
There's a chance it wasn't intentional, but I think it's cool either way.
I desperately need this to be longer. my god i absolutely love this.
Yes
i will spend the rest of my life admiring this beautiful art you create. i've spent every second of my teens watching you, and at so many points i tried to be you before i realized i just needed to be myself. you are a fucking gift and you have changed the course of my life for the better. thank you, thank you, thank you. please always remember you are loved.
it's like you've been narrating my life lately dodie. you are spectacular and I hope you realize that.
I adore all of Dodies music, and this is no different. I appreciate the soft, and easy demeanor about such a hard and tough topic. A lot of people don't see things that they are doing is forms of self harm, like sleeping with people based on knee jerk thoughts.
Love all your work Dodie!
Gah just the imagery of the part of your mind speaking to you as a physical manifestation, the part of you that "needs" to self harm, and the other half of you that suffers from the continual pain getting up, almost as if that part of you is tired of the repetition of it all, it's gorgeous. There is so much to pick apart here in just a minute of song time, I love it.
This is gorgeous 😍
Still here..waiting for this to be released on spotify so i can add this song to my dodie vibes playlist. Dodie, you produced another beautiful song and I am in love..🩵
i feel so empty after this. . . ohmygod. . . dodes u blow me away every time you are immensely talented
crying again love u dodie
This song is dreadfully beautiful.
0:43 and on give me such a deep sense of yearning. Everytime I get to this part, I'm trying to hold back a cry.
Can't even really explain why or how; but, your music touches my heart and my soul like no other music that I've ever heard. I am absolutely a huge admirer and fan. Please keep it coming!
this hits SO close to home... your lyrics always feel like comfort and vulnerability to me, but I'm pretty sure this demo is my favorite of yours so far.
I had my cutesy "absolutely smitten / rainbow" era when I was fourteen / fifteen, grew into a more "boys like you / she" phase, and now, "hot mess" and "help myself" are the songs I relate to the most ( but I hold all of your songs close to my heart anyways !! I just associate them to different periods of time ).
your work and presence literally built my childhood - and they're still a major part of my life to this day. I now know how important it is to embrace all of my feelings, even the ugliest and most painful ones. lots of therapy and self-care were needed to come this far, but having you as a role model was the push young me needed to get better.
you made it easier for me to communicate, to heal, to understand and to be myself, to project my life as a young adult.
being so open and transparent with your audience is such a healthy thing to do - it taught me how to admire people with putting them on a pedestal. we're all human and going through the same things. it's nice to have a gentle reminder that we're not alone in this sometimes :)
I'm so grateful, thank you so much for everything ❤️
Beautiful Dodie! Have missed listening to your music
lemon eucalyptus oil is a good mozzie repellent
This really hits, dodie I love you
the way i sobbed when the other dodie left
i love u so much dodes
Doddle never fails to impress Me
i really did grow up with your music and it amazes me that you can still write songs that feel just for me. i love your words and your courage to share them
🖤
FUCKIN OW DODIE !!!!!
this is so so gorgeous
Thank you for this ❤
This song means so much and to me and is absolutely my favourite she’s ever made
so relatable and so beautiful what a babeeeee
Dodie omg 🥺😭 I relate so much
So talented.
You are and have been one of the most important parts of my growing up.
raw. I dream about a dodie - ren collaboration ❤
very felt
I have never genuinely connected with an artist before I found Dodie
Istg every song is never mediocre. Stay who you are Dodes!
I’m bitten to shreds broke me
God I can’t wait to see her in concert again. Truly one of the best experiences of my life
I’m crying
ouch this is beautiful!!