The 9 Qualities Women NEVER Admit They Actually Want In Men
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Loved the way you did the sponsor read in the video XD
Fantastic
I don't know, the more info i get and the more women i meet the evolutionary theories make less and less sense. They work as a baseline but beyond having sex with simple people they just dissolve into the complexities of attraction. Maybe i live in a bubble here in Spain but from what i see, personal values and experience play a much bigger role than genetics and core psichology when choosing a partner.
"I don't know You, I don't know You at all, I just know women"! Damn, that was cynical and funny at the same time.True also by the way.
I'm surprises it's not Raid : Shadow Legends
Please, please keep up this great work!!!
When a woman says she wants a red car, she doesn't want any red car. She wants a functional, good looking, strong, reliable car, that's also red. The other qualities are expected.
Damn.
The fact that he has to be a Chad is already a given it's only a matter of what type of Chad he ideally has to be.
"I like geeky guys" / "I'm a sapiosexual" = Chad with glasses
"I like bad boys" = Chad that drives above the speed limit
"I like shy guys" = rare Chad that has self esteem issues and is socially akward
The list can go on.
You guys are fax machines 💯
Lovely
@@JoseSantos-vd4pg self esteem issue and socially awkward is a no for women, masculine men doesn't have that trait even the opposite
“I don’t care about making women look good, I don’t care about making them look bad, I just want the truth” Couldn’t have said that better.
There Alex goes again proving to us that he’s genuinely concerned about the boys rather than ad revenue by putting the list at the beginning.
@@aoolmay6853 is it mandatory that in order to be a genuine individual you need a pillow castle?
@@alantheannihilator3093 yes
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UA-cam will probably demonetize the video anyway, like anything that go against feminist propaganda, so there is no point in making efforts for ad revenue.
Course he does, it's hard out there for young men.
"Just be confident, bro." -Chad
Jeah ... until the blackpill hits hard. I recommend the channel "face and lms"
@@Hydrasword89 its over.
Lol exactly
Just lift, bro.
@@MrBastilleDay lifting is cope
Imagine being told for years during your young adult life that all women want is a guy who's nice and to just "be yourself"... It's any wonder so many guys end up bitter and confused...
I think that was the lie women say to prevent men from checking out from society and supporting them . I always keep the meme women most affected as gospel now.
I was one of those and yes I am bitter. Not for what women are, but for lying to me what I should be as a man. I've been told for so long that if I was nice and a good person and respected women they would want me. Well, the years passed and that didn't happen. Quite the contrary, they not only ignored me but quite regularly openly rejected me, even without me trying to get to know them. For years I was baffled at what I did wrong. I followed all the rules. But others, also the men that did not follow those rules at all, were successful.
I was about 32 before it really hit me and I got red pilled in that sense. I realize it all was a lie and also that being good doesn't mean you'll be successful. Women don't give two fucks about how good a man is. And I found out looks is the most important thing. Because without the looks they will never bother to even talk to you. Sure, being nice and smart and funny is a plus, but only if you already scored high on the list in this video. A good character is not in the top 5!
@@hkr667 well said, brother.
@i hate 2020 You can reject anyone for any reason, that's fine. Just be honest about it. All the pandering about character is pointless. And most rejections happen even before the first decent conversation, so they've not have time to get to know the guy's character anyway. It's weird to me how many women get angry when you say they care most about looks, as if they feel attacked. We all know how it works, we can judge from women's actions.
I disagree with the statement "but it won't be the reason we reject u", but perhaps you have a different idea of what and when the rejection is. Because when you are unattractive you'll never get to a face to face rejection, you simply never even get to know the woman. Certainly not in the tinder world we live in. If a guy gets rejected after a date, then of course it's not about attraction anymore. Because if the guy was unattractive, you wouldn't have gone on that date in the first place.
@@hkr667 that’s a good ass point woman reject guys subconsciously most of the time it’s almost like they don’t even have to think about it.So yes just because you haven’t asked out a girl doesn’t mean you haven’t already been rejected or opted out in her head.But yea I mean I don’t think I’m a bad looking guy maybe a 6-7 but in girls eyes I’m a 0 because I can’t even attract a fat girl into a relationship and I got a good as body so the only reason I don’t get matches is because of my face.
This annoys me so much, because I've been saying this for yours. This is something I noticed since high school. For YEARS, I would say "what women say they want, and what they actually want, are two different things". And yet whenever I tried bringing this up with anyone (men or women), I'd be met with backlash. Sometimes even being called sexist. It's so exhausting.
Don't do that. You're just setting yourself up to be ostracised. It may be ok to talk about it sometimes with a guy but never with women because for them it always controversial. Women will react strongly to anything that will put them in a bad light because most of them can't take criticism.
@@Laughing_Individual which is why they shouldn't have the right to vote
Great. I (31) am short, poor, uneducated and people called me ugly a lot of times. Yikes.
People are lazy and ignorant
My best friend once said to me when we were in our early twenties: "To score women you gotta act like an a$$hole to them." I was like: "Bro, wtf?? What's wrong with you??"
16 years later it pops up into my head, and I gotta admit he was right all along! If only I knew this earlier. 🤦♂️
I like how efficient this guy is. Straight to the point. You deserve every dollar you make helping people.
Guys who haven't spoken in a month: 5 mins [a looooong call] & "Bye." "C'ya." hangup; all caught up. Talking to a woman you spoke to a few hours ago: 15 minutes, nothing useful said, 10 minutes of the call were spent on goodbyes & trying to get her to hang up... Bottom line: women just plain don't know how to communicate, even tho' they spend 10x more of their life than men in the attempt.
@@nunyabidniz2868 You're right. That'sbmy experience with quite an amount of women. I'm glad i met a girl which I love to talk to. Every time we talk, it's a deep and/or fun conversation. And we have been chatting everyday since last week I met her.
@@ColonelFluffles did she ghost you yet?
@@grantf6660 no
@@ColonelFluffles just dont get attached n ull be fine
I have some qualitys of your list and it's crazy how women respond to that. I am 1,90m tall, confident do sports and wanna improve my life and create my own life. When I worked in different places some female coworkers came to me and wanted dates or more. Most of them made the first move and it was like an competition for them. Some told me that they hate small guys or "nice guys". The funny thing is that most of those woman behave exactly like the so called "nice guys". They give compliments, visit my workplace etc. That's a really shallow move. I treat them like all the other people here and believe me, if you're taller, groomed, wealthy etc. No matter what you say to them. They want you. For example. My small male coworker made a joke and my female coworkers didn't laugh. A few days later I told the same joke and some of them were laughing and told me I am so funny. Crazy world sometimes.
Greetings from Germany 🍻
Contradicting of them.
I rather be short than shallow. That’s what I say to the horrible ones.
Cool insight. We don't hear from many alphas as it is mainly betas who struggle with women who are drawn to such videos. Keep making the most of your genetic good luck brother, and don't feel guilty about it.
I hate nice women.
She has to be far right, no leftards
Thanks for putting the list at the start. Will watch anyway, of course.
Adding Timestamps is a lot better. 🙏
This list was like the antidote to clickbait. Very mature.
One of the reasons to love this channel. To the point and isn't stingy with info.
Same!
Yeah I respect this
My thoughts on this list:
1) A guy can improve his appearance at least a little bit.
2) Possibly the most unfair of the list, especially for dwarf men.
3) A skill that could be learned with less porn use and more self control.
4) Can really only be achieved with good connections and a lot of economic luck.
5) Achievable if the other conditions are met.
6) A side effect of #4.
7) Possible with the right mind set, but could still put you at odds against #1.
8) Men typically prefer younger women anyway.
9) Focus on things you're passionate about, and you won't idolize her.
Underated comment
4 is really in your hands in most scenarios. It's not luck. It's the result of being helpful and working and studying hard.
The funniest joke a women can tell you is that they ONLY want a guy for their personality
If they were honest about what they really liked, most men wouldn't even bother and then they couldn't leach off of men
Same with men only wanting hot women
No i don't believe them. But a hot guy with a non matching personality isn't that attractive either
@@realhades9178 Only difference is, Men don't lie that they don't want a hot girl.
Then I could laugh till I need a hernia surgery
So as a young man I was 6ft, 6 pack, high intelligence, competitive athlete, confident, not super model good looking but handsome enough to get hit on by desirable women a lot and also raised with good morals.
What did I want? One woman, committed relationship for life.
I was kind, patient, not controlling, generous, loyal, trusting, never cheated on her despite plenty of opportunity, supported her through a degree and masters degree (which she never used).
It doesn't matter who you are, or how much you try it simply impossible to satisfy a woman she cheated and left, we are both now single.
Every single woman in my extended family has imploded their relationship and is now miserable and depressed.
The feminism that gets pumped into girls heads just makes them utterly miserable for life and then blame men for the contradictions in their own mind.
The only way to win is not to play, just walk away.
time for robo wives.
Take it easy, bro. I was married three times, not counting ex-girlfriends. Even if you do your best, even if you saved her life and made her successful and famous, women are never appreciate it and never be loyal to you. It is their nature. I didn't cheat on my women, they did. No one of these my women got a better man and better life. All went to a disaster. I can stay friends with them but not lovers. Love is dead. So, take it easy, every ten years get another woman, younger and better than the used one. It is like to buy a new car to replace the old one. And enjoy your time with a new car and new wife. Cheers.
@@Dr_Oleg_Kulikov Hope you learned after 3. That still seems like 2 too many!
@@ashfordj81 I have another idea. I will live forever young and try ten more times to find a proper wife and mother of my kids. Even if I have learned that women don’t love but use men, and they are always ready to monkey branch to a better man or try cheating on you, I like young beautiful women. So, I take it easy as a biological trait in women. Yet, I have a rule - as soon as a woman has betrayed me, love is over. I can stay friends with her or be neutral, but never and ever will sleep and live with her again. And no one of my ex-wives and ex-gfs got a better man after me. Not because I am so good but because no one good man will commit and take care of her, knowing her past. People are not stupid. If a woman ruins her reputation, she will never be admired. I repeated my thoughts just to be sure that my message is clear, Cheers
I have few qualities that I looking for in dating partner.
Don't be a party girl.
Have a job and have you life together.
Have a healthy figure and healthy diet.
Hygienic and don't live like you are in pigsty.
Less Sexual partners and never cheated on ur ex's.
An overwhelming majority of upward of 90% won't make the list.
Good list
Wasn't India supposed to be a traditional focused society?
What u mean less partners. Every guy wants a virgin wife. That's just basic thing in Life
@@georgepopescu1327 From a outside perspective it appears as Patriarchy. But not so at micro level. It depends from region to region, even cities to metropolitan cities.
@@aniketjaiswal3147 wishful thinking. Not saying there aren't but very few. Most lose it a young age. Some at 12 - 14.
This video is accurate. And of course, the reason why women won't admit to it is because it (accurately) presents them in an extremely unflattering light.
It's the 90/10 rule -- 90% of women competing for the affection of the top 10% of men (particularly in terms of the combined-criteria of height and income). It's gotten so ridiculous that even men in the fourth quintile (the one just below the fifth or top quintile) are walking away in disgust in increasing numbers -- and taking their debit cards with them. As a direct result increasing numbers of princess wannabes are now *whining* about having to buy their own drinks. Can't say I feel sorry for them.
Exactly.
Lmfao that sponsor intro
That was so good lol
Yea it was good
Damn haven't seen you in a long while
Is it a real advert? I can't even tell these days who is trolling/memeing, and what's legit anymore.
I was not ready, ha ha!
It’s so crazy that guys are portrayed as pigs because we are shallow, but my opinion and life experiences tell me women are way more shallow than guys.
It's a manipulation tactic, tell your target they're all the qualities you are and it'll lose weight when you proclaim that you aren't and they are
👍 They are way,way,way more shallow.
@@amradzinovic4086 Shallow and materialistic
@@nerychristian Of course. 🙂
Women are selfish
Alexander putting the list immediately, no baiting, no waiting... That's the quality content I come here for!!!
I second this, I'm subscribed for more than an year by now, and for attitudes like this I respect him.
I listened the whole way through too. It's difficult to learn and remember when each point isn't just flashed on screen for half a second
@@ctb1977 THERE IS A PAUSE BUTTON :-)
1. Looks
(Money trumps looks)
2. Tall
(Wealth trumps height)
3. Good in bed
(She will cheat on you with a guy that's better in bed)
4. Wealthy
(She's going to cheat on you with a bad-boy)
No matter what you have, or what you do, they're always out for better..
If you don't believe me,
Brad Pitt
John Schneider
Will Smith
Mel Gibson
Paul McCartney
Chris Rock
If these great men couldn't keep their marriages together, how is the average man going to?
Exactly dude
Adding Bill Gates to the list.
These are the traits about how to attract a woman, not how to keep a woman with us forever.
You need to be selective on women, their character and loyalty should be the number one priority over by their look. Because women who came from the streets will eventually returns to the street. Hottest men should not choose "Street women". Control your hormone, demand her respect.
“Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create narcissistic women. And, narcissistic women create hard times.”
👍🏻
So narcissistic women will soon creat hard times for men
She wants to be able to look up to him psychologically? Men get ready to have a fixer-upper on your hands, side effects may include insanity.
Stefan Aarnio. R.I.P
@@thomasmusukwa316 too late.
As a 5'4" guy, I can tell you from experience #2 is very true
Not really. I'm 5'6" and I was constantly hooking up in my twenties.
Looks (Hot, Tall, Body Confidence)
Money (Wealthy, Older)
Status (Status, Tall, Pre Selected, Older)
Game (Good in Bed, Body Confidence, Pre Selected, Independence).
And, unless you really want children and a family, once you have Money and Status, if you had the other two, you probably had your fill of today's insane modern western women and want nothing more to do with them, unless it is short term flings. If you don't have Looks or Game, if you get Money and Status, you still probably don't. See, because unless the woman is incredibly feminine, or self aware enough (most are not) to become a feminine women who is soft, caring, and pretty, and what the men who meet those 4 criteria want, he won't want her.
@Mental Matt yeah bro...cant be tall and ugly...either..🤣 ...its like cant be short and ugly either...
Good in Bed should've been included in "Looks", they want a good looking cake & also want it to taste good too lol
@@BigDPrettyBoyGigaFemaleSlayer nah it's game because it's signalled with other things, e.g. too calm and passive = can't get it up, too excited = can't keep it up etc.
@@gracefool I'm starting to realize this pattern, men resist in leaving blue pill mind because they want to feel domination in control, they SOLELY focus on that, that they forget & blind themselfs that physical attraction also plays a HUGE part & because one has limited control over physically attractiveness, they ignore it & rely on personality instead not because it's the right thing to do but because you have control. The main & ONLY source of sexual attraction is physical everything else isn't sexual attraction instead it's personal attraction, love, respect, everyone confuses love attraction with sexual attraction or vice versa. If power, love, respect on itself brings sexual attraction you will be aroused by anyone with those traits, it is only after having an image settled in your mind is when sexual feeling occurs, women are no different, the PRIMARY feedback from sexually attractive people is good sex, if sex isn't the main reason what's the purpose of being with a physically attractive person? How or why you or many men only focus on GAME is beyond me. This is like saying I want a PS5 but I don't care how good it looks nor the experience, I just want a game with a good story. Nobody says GAME doesn't matter it's just that GAME is subjective based on appearance. If two guys had GAME one guy was ugly & the other attractive it is obvious the attractive guy will be the chosen one the most.
You're the most straight forward UA-camr i ever see, alpha af
Best ad read ever.
That was really creative
@obani of course it is, but hey, dude got paid and we had a good laugh.
Genuinely made me laugh out loud. Love how he chooses to focus on the female character in the game too 😂
@obani You know what's sadder?
The amount UA-cam pays content creators.
@@brunorecalde7048 right
I've heard women say things like "I want to tall, confident, handsome man", but even then they usually won't say how they want a man with status. This is an interesting take. Thanks Alexander.
That last sentence killed me hahaha. "I don't know you, I don't know you at all. I just know women". Once you understand female nature you start to laugh when you see it happening.
BAM!
The empirical way to validate Alexander's observation points without offending a girl... Good one!!!
There was an interview with an actual relationship scientist on a local German radio once, he was totally non-PC and straight up said that social status is the number one most important thing, by far.
And that you can get a higher social status by having a lot of money.
He also said that hotness is a bonus but not actually that important.
Women are very sensible to social judgement, so her answers will usually be more in tune with what society deems appropriate, virtuous and acceptable than the truth.
You mean sensitive?
Yeah but in a lot of cases they can be openly toxic and not worry about repercussions.
@@shinyguy1 I agree with that. Women don't face the same repercussions/consequences men do even for the same actions. It's not even close.
In other words: Expect everything out of Her mouth to try and raise her social value in some way. Boom.
"Women are very sensible to social judgement". Oh dear, you can just rephrase it to "Women are very superficial". Much simpler, straight to the point and actually fully accurate.
When I was a kid, I was as skinny as a toothpick. Had girls, all the time.
When I was a teen, I got fat, really fat.
Empty queue, not a soul interested in me. Got skinny again, then got buff and as ripped as I could be naturally, in college ... Got so much attention that it sickened me, I was so jaded from being invisible when I was fat that I ignored their advances and turned girls down every time I was advanced on with the exception of one I did date briefly.
Back to being invisible again these days but, working on myself again and focusing on education.
When I was walking to class one day when I was buff I heard a girl go "ooooh," I looked over and she was scanning me, moving her eyes back up to my face, I took that as a sort of wolf whistle... So yeah... when they say they aren't into 'hot' men, maybe they can see past a few flaws, but they are just as hungry for beauty as us. It hurts to know we're all shallow but I suppose for reproductive purposes and ensuring good traits, it's necessary.
one of the few ads i didn't find distracting but also funny since you tied it back to the topics you talk about high quality women and relating it to the game
The ad was soooo funny 🤣❤️❤️🤣
1:00
Boom. There it is.
Well done.
I think a lot of people understand that a woman might alter some things a bit so she doesn't look shallow,
but this really lays it out.
☝️🤨
Alexander, excellent reverse psychology.. most users videos with “list type” click bait, etc, hide the content somewhere in the video and not upfront so typically viewers will start skimming through the video or comments trying to find where it is as oppose to listening to the video. The way you blatantly put it there in the beginning, at least for me, quiets my curiosity and allows to just sit back and fully enjoy the content
"Just be yourself" says Chad to the short, poor, homely, awkward guy.
LOL I spat out coffee all over my keyboard when that add started. A+
LFMAO ME TOO!
I was in a big store today and there were many young women there. Some of them had wedding rings. When I was about to leave a tall, really handsome dude walked in. Suddenly every female eye was aiming at him. Like, literally, every single girl in that store was staring at him.
I'm a good looking guy and there were many others there who were just fine, not a single gaze at me. But that model like dude got every eye on him. Guess the girls were aiming for his personality lok
Well, if that story happened vice versa, all men would have looked at the stunning girl as well.
The ending sentence was bang on! "I don't know you at all, I just know women"
Thank you. I was thinking everything you just said and almost everyone seemed to ignore. I was almost starting to doubt myself if i am actually mad. And then I saw this. Just the truth.
Hi guys. Just here for my daily dose of depression. Carry on.
But I need this dose too... Can we share it?
Look it that way, old guys like me had to learn this the hard way, you at least have this info.
Don't let this douchebag hijack your mind. Look around you, there are plenty of opposite examples. Individuals are individuals and their preferences are not universal. Just become as close as you can to the best version of yourself. Develop skills and passions that make you Great. And also, don't be trap by dogma. Make your own path.
@@marcelcastellano6128 I look around and see no opposite examples. If I would be the best version of myself, then the girls still would not find me attractive (well, if we are talking about the best-best version, "A successful indie game developer that has a lot of money", then they would find my money attractive and try to get access to it, but that's not the point).
That’s what the redpill does to you. Any drug is bad
0:01 Not all heroes wear cape
Alexander Grace, An Absolute Authority.
Great intellect, Great Content.
Excellent video, I couldn't agree more. My only criticism is for reason 8 it should have been "older RELATIVE to the female". Most women want to date someone older than themselves, but that doesn't mean the older a man gets the more saught after he is, most men reach their peak looks-wise age 25-29. Nonetheless, great video.
I can't value your content enough Alex, every video is 2.5% better than the last. Great sponsor video 🤣
Since you're criticizing women's preferences here, for the most part I agree with your point of view. Women's preferences are various just like for men, not just limiting themselves at the utterly heartfelt ones (just like men are not limiting themselves at just the physical ones). That's indeed bs.
The only criticism I'd like to give is:
1. That you seem to have rushed a little bit by putting all those qualities in the same category (preferences).
I think there's a fine line between standards (primary attractions) and preferences (secondary attractions).
Standards usually are fixed, preferences instead usually are prone to being somewhat compromised when the standards are entirely fulfilled.
2. That women usually don't admit their preferences when they're asked what they're looking for in someone.
For the most part, neither women or men state all of their preferences right away, once they're asked what they find attractive in someone. This phenomenon happens more or less equally just as much, for the sake of sounding less superficial or less deep.
It's more efficient and convenient for both presenting their standards first to make themselves look better (if their standards are more or less common: a mixture of physical/mental/emotional qualities) and making clear what they're looking for right away.
The main difference here is that usually men are able to admit them as they're asked for the second/third time, while for women it takes longer.
If I take me as an example, my standards are intelligence, faithfulness, respect, motivation, health, personality, hygiene, good humour, decent looks, family orientation and being supportive.
My preferences are a man being tall, hot, wealthy, older, independent, good in bed, dominant, toned, darker, etc.
My boyfriend fulfills all of my standards and half of my preferences. I fulfill exactly the same in his case too.
None of us wanted to look for all of our preferences as we decided to pick each other nor did we state them right away, because we both knew they're somewhat subordinate.
It took me a longer time though to admit mine as we became a couple. But at least for me, it was because I didn't want to make him feel any less. He had no problem in stating all of his preferences the second time I asked him though lol
Just giving my two cents here, that's it☺️✌️
(PS: excuse the grammatical mistakes, English isn't my first language😅)
i like your personality says she, sitting in porche at hawaai, with a glass of wine, with gucci dress, all provided by him
The fact that you put the whole list in the beginning of the video makes someone want to watch the whole video.
Nicely done!
So are all women looking for *THE SAME* man??
No wonder alot are okay being the other woman if the man has the "go to qualities".
Your comment is 100% spot on.
Biology
And this is absolutely true and i am a woman
@E115 I have seen this
It's crazy
100% of all women are chasing 20% of all men. So yes.
I watched the entire video because of the list at the beginning. You're a good man.
This man stated the nine qualities in the start. Love this guy❤️
Alex really deserves more.
The 9 qualities men want in women are
1) be virgin
2) be fertile
3) have gorgeous body
4) be excellant cook
5) be obedient
6) be a good housewife
7) be good in bed
8) take care of herself
9) be loyal
So ,ladies, if you think you deserve the 2% of all men then fulfill the above requirements.
virgin? really you want that?
Yep- and hence now that they have unrealistic standards- we can move to basic standards for VVomen
Don't bother asking women what they want. They don't even know themselves. They only know what they emotionally respond to. Which is usually the bad boy fixerupper.
Whatever their friends and world tells them.
Women know. Lol. But nobody wants to tell you. I mean. You you rather date a fat chick that graduated seduction college, or an actually hot, and fun, and interesting girl with a bright future?
The thing about the bad boy is just, omg he is bad with everybody but to me he is good and vulnerable, and that makes us feel special kinda
True tho, but the list at the beginning is basically what I want.
Kudos for putting the list at the start. I watched the full video, but really appreciate that editing detail 👍
Women want what the other women want 👍
Deyh tamilan
Women don't really know what they want, they only know when they're unhappy.
Tamizha 🙄🙏🏻
Indeed 🙂
@@ashwinkhartic7889 ஆமாம் 🤗
Thank you for being real..im constantly getting rejected for being 5'5...and every one constantly says that height doesn't matter..thank you for being so honest
It absolutely matters but you can compensate in other categories.
women: have demi-god-like expectations for how men should be
men: *sighs* - pays for escorts without competing against their male peers
women: surprised pikachu face
Traveling to places like Thailand, Ukraine, Columbia to get that cheap booty.
* Colombia
Hookers are the peak of beta-ism. Prove me wrong.
@@RekoneInkings So some of us should spend time chasing ass and jestermaxing? If you got the money, just pay for it and go with your life. There are guys that casually date and spends hundreds of dollars on food and entertainment and still get no ass. If they do, what's the difference between that and an escort?
@@RekoneInkings I could agree to some extent. Having the ability to hook up with any woman you want isn't a skill, its genetic and your born with 10/10 looks. Actually most beta men, still can get women and plenty of them. Being alpha is a state of mind and attitude and many alphas will not sleep around, unless they are a extremely high value woman. Hookers are just a tool, maybe to relieve some stress while you spent 99% of your time building your life and career, instead of chasing women. Dude chasing women is very time consuming... anyone with a successful business simply wont care or have the time to do so.
Wow you're a great guy, putting all the things at first few seconds. This goes to show how honest you are with your viewers. Wish you all success❤️
Not gonna lie... probably the best Ad ever saw on a mobile game, that actually was "connected" with the channel, exceptional choice of words! I didn't thought I would enjoy watching an Ad. :D
Hope you got more of those Ads.
He is a psychologist. yep.
Thank you for this objective information. Ignorance is bliss but it can also be deadly. I'm better off hearing some hard truths than being told Pleasant lies.
“Tall” and “Wealthy” needs to be judged by the woman. A woman who is 150cm and a woman who is 190cm tall are going to have slightly different views as to what they consider “tall”. Same for wealth. If she was raised in a large home by the ocean and her parents were in the top 1% of earners then you will struggle to appear wealthy. If she was raised is a middle class home then you could be in the top 20% of income earners and appear to be financially successful. Don’t think you have to be the best of the best just to find yourself a woman.
This is very important and overlooked by many MGTOWs. If you‘re 170 and your woman is 150 but has demands of 180+ she may settle if you can compensate in other areas greatly because you still fullfill her desire to be taller than her + other areas.
That's not how it works at all. Women prefer 177 cm or more regardless of their own height, unless they happen to be taller themselves. Many very short women have even higher standards.
Of course, the exceptions are countries where the overall population average for height is lower. In the US, it's 175 cm for men, so women prefer slightly taller and more.
@Friendly Demon 11% of men are open to dating a taller woman, while only 4% of women are open to dating a shorter man. Women that will date shorter are out there, but very rare. I'm 172 cm, and in the US, I'm too short for most women.
@Friendly Demon Sorry, I did not mean to try to out victim you. You're right, and we're probably in about the same situation. This extends beyond dating. I imagine other women have picked on you, and that has made it hard to succeed at school and work. I get the impression that you're a good person that has overcome some of the crap society has thrown at you.
@@JohnSmith-wx9wj It is definitely harder but not impossible. I’m 170cm and I’ve had women say straight to my face that I’m not tall enough. However, I’ve also had a few long term relationships with women and my height hasn’t been an issue. All of them where a little shorter than I am. I just wanted to let some of the shorter men out there know that they still have a chance. The dating game doesn’t have fixed rules in place. Change and improve in the areas that you can.
The fact that you put the qualities immediately onto the screen the first few seconds in is literally genius. It was like a hack for My short attention span brain. Although seeming counter intuitive it made me stay longer than I would’ve had, had you not done this. Smart move, smart move
I've turned 46 this year, last girlfriend left me when I was 28, to this day I still have some qualities, women want, I'm independent and old....😂
Never tried again??
Your still in ya prime man, don’t worry
But men peak at 50 bro!!
I (31) am short, poor, uneducated and people called me ugly a lot of times. Yikes. Never had a girlfriend-
😂
¿You know why I liked your video, and subscribed to your channel? Because you put the list first, and gave me the liberty to continue viewing the video, or interpret the information at my own. Thanx man.
Every word in Gold in this video! If you look objectively, the percentage of selfish, and virtue signalling people who are women is extremely high in society right now.
As a woman I totally agree with you
I am happy that you are happy in this video.
The more I learn about them, the less I want them unfortunately
Women want a guy who is perfect which includes "putting the work in." Well that obviously means she is high-maintenance, so why does she not need to be perfect?
Women don’t need to be perfect
too because they have a safety net. It’s really annoying
Because she gets casual sex from men she says she wants, so thinks she's great catch. But men that have sex with her don't want to wife her. Example a man that makes six figures might think she's good enough to have casual sex with but not good enough to marry, this could be because she's obese has kids or both.
@@wiseman4160 The question was rhetorical. I was pointing out the double standard. Also the six figure man doesn't marry her simply because he doesn't have to. If he can pum n dump he will
@Angel Rose Men are less fussy about looks for who they will have casual sex with, women are more fussy about who they will have casual sex with looks wise, some women don't realize this. Angel men think about sex and want sex, small percentage of men like myself would rather be single than have casual sex with a women that's very big.
Boy... I'm so glad I have given up on women years ago... Y'all can have em.. I'm totally done
This is actually really refreshing to get an accurate list.
Wow, the high level data right up front, I am impressed, instant like.
But the follow up content is pure gold.
It's okay for women to say what they want for a men but if it's vice versa, everyone loses their minds.
Women's behavior is the foundation of consumption and thus of the entire economy. Of course, there are also important institutions and powerful groups. But still, it is the basis of all consumption. A German sociologist.
Hypergamy driven consumption is largely responsible for the environmental crisis the world is facing.
Women have so much power to shape society for the better but don't
I used to think that but then I bought a boat....and now I see that their shoes & handbags don't cost all that much really-not compared with a real money pit
@@ferney2936 how much of male behavior is driven by attracting women??? How many men would do everything they currently do if women were 100% removed from the equation? Or from another angle...what if women stopped responding and giving attention to money power and status in males?? Would men still seek those things as much as they do now? My guess is yes....but only at a fractional rate.
Whenever a woman explains anything the reason is to convince you of how good of a person she is, not to explain the issue.
Underrated comment. Yes indeed whenever she did something wrong she won't admit to it, she'll go on to blame everything/everyone that she can think of and then virtue signal, like breaking into tears and crying "do you know how hard I work on this task?" "I wasn't trained and guided on this and was set up to fail, but I soldiered on" and all those BS 😂😂😂
Why are women allowed to have so many requirements for mate selection whereas men aren't even allowed by women to have even the slightest demand?
Because men let them.
A man can impregnate thousand women in a year while a woman can only get pregnant every 9 months and loses her fertility much earlier. The male sex drive is also much higher. Chad would have a onenight with an average looking girl which results in an ego inflation of the girl which then results in overestimating her sexual market value and creating more requirements.
It‘s easy to blame this on the women but here it‘s actually a matter thing of self respect. Have some standards yourself and be driven by your value. Recognize that if she has certain standards, you can have too and make it clear or pass.
Lack of male authority in household to keep their requirements in check, Feminism, getting more women in work force even when they don't want that, many reasons. Society as a whole is responsible for this for men to accept any women but not the other way around.
@@cnnewyam it actually has to do with biology. Nature made male species cheap. Most aren't actually meant to reproduce. At the same time, women are in charge of mate guarding and carefully choosing which genes to pass on and who to sleep with. Yes, men let them but just like women have no choice to be picky, men also have no choice but to be desperate since biology made us constantly horny at a moments notice.
One of your best videos. I subscribed after I watch it & I’m just watching it again now.
All that effort just to score some pinata. But you can’t escape the biological drive.
Hi Alexander, Been viewing your content for over a year and it is consistently excellent. I am out of the game now in my early fifties and a happily divorced bachelor but find human relationship dynamics fascinating and your insights are superb. I wish I had this sort of content when I was a young man. I think you could distill this insight into a great book. I would buy it for my young son!
Why does everyone say that girls like tall men because they feel secure? How do you explain then that they would always choose a skinny weak tall guy over a strong buff short guy? I think they like tall guys simply because they look better, HOT includes TALL.
They want to feel small and child-like, the taller the man the smaller women feel, a gym bro with huge biceps might be fun for a while but they will stick with the tall guy 100%, women love to compete and show off to their female "friends"
It's very simple. A woman wants a human being who is more gifted than her in every way, except giving birth. And something is always on her mind:
"I want to feel special." That's why they tell the 9 blue pilled qualities over and over again, because if a top guy displayes those, that's her assurance to feel special.
Tall guys appear stronger even if they are skinny fat because of their stature . Perception is everything. Also it's much easier to be buff when you're 5'6 than if you're 6' +
Here's another one. I've been into martial arts all my life, but my build is rather unassuming. Be at some kind of social even, and spar with the other guys. Now I've never hurt anyone in these events, but I've put a few jocks in their place. Women don't like that. At all. Short guy judo throwing Chad and making a mock punch to the throat terrifies them. You're not security because you have a performative display of combat skills. You're a threat.
@@JohnSmith-wx9wj idk tbh im avg looking and also train martial arts. Ive seen women respect me atleast whenever ive beaten chads and Tyrones in sparring matches. They may not necessarily like me ober the chad but its more like this dude can handle himself. He has a hign degree of competence.
I apprecheate the first 5 seconds. IT shows that you are not content-baiting. Very good to see
Women are smart, they never leave you if you lack any of the above qualities, they will just loose the vibe and tell you that she wants to focus on herself and her career. Within no time after you guys seperate for these baseless reasons, you'll see her with a new, older, richer and handsome guy, whom she fell in "true" love in no time.
Pisses me off man, makes you realize that you were never important to her, you were just a toy waiting to get replaced by a better version.
I legit love seeing my indian bros getting the knowledge.
@R B I understand, but I wont agree completely on this point, even if they do measure up to the new guys they seek, it cannot be used as a reason to leave the previous one without any concrete reason. Relationships are always about commitment, you cant just go jumping from one branch to other! Leaves the more attached guys like us in vain. BUT its no excuse for us guys to demean all the women out there. Maybe we came across the wrong one. There are a lot of quality women out there.
Lets just say we were a complete package delivered at the wrong address.
@@sushilsharma4202 Hahah, bhai iss bande ki detailed analysis dekh ke pata lagta hai ki apna kat gya lekin sahi hua.
@@anuragdobriyal1414 True bhai.
They’ll keep doing it while time is ticking away at her biological clock. Time to have her “perfect” babies is running out. Trying to replace a man with a better one, while getting older is not that smart to me.
I’m 23 and I’m between 5’5 and 5’6 on a good day. I’ve come to accept my height for what it is. It can be tough because my cousin is pretty tall, and it feels like he’s with a new girl every time I see him and I haven’t really had much of a relationship myself to be honest. I’m not equating height for everything as I’m also introverted and average-looking, it’s just tough to try and put myself out there knowing all the hurdles in just meeting someone in the first place and if that person shares the same values. I’ve tried online dating for a few days know and I understand why it’s catered more for women. I guess I’ll just work on myself and appreciate what I have.
Well im 30 and 6"3 and i always sucked with women, hated that men shorter and uglier than me get girls
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The sponsor part was gold lol
As i have watched every video of Alexander, i think i probably already know few qualities that women like.
I was right, i knew every one of them, Alexander mentioned them before in his videos
I worry a bit about #5 for myself. I'm 29 and haven't ever been on a date before. While I have decent friendships and family relationships and (at least for someone with autism) have decent social skills, I do worry that the fact I haven't had a date is going to put off quite a lot of women, no matter how well I "better myself."
I had a female friend of mine be very upfront with me about older male virgins and how guys like that are inherently "gross" or "broken" in her view, then I revealed that I was one of them and she didn't believe me and was very apologetic about saying it.
So sorry to hear that... has anything changed by now?
Women basically want a man who is nothing like them and without all their insecurities.
You don't want to be a lazy with a lazy partner. Who will get stuff done in general? At the very least partners should compliment each others weaknesses and strengths so that stuff can get actually done and not both weeping in their beds on how they're lazy to do anything.
@@Bleiser3 That's a bit how my parents are. They rely on each other's specialties. I don't see it in most couples, though.
Ask them what they bring to the table 🙄
@@JohnSmith-wx9wj Yeah, well, most people are following blindly their sexual biological desires and don't take time to actually find out who the person is when "falling in love". Kinda like some say "he/she has rose glasses on right now"
Well sed my g ... common sense.
I would have to disagree with the inclusion of "Tall" on the list. Women have no problems expressing their
preference for tall men. It is not something that are hesitant to disclose; they freely admit it. I think that
wanting a partner who is significantly endowed should have been included; most women desire it but
very few will openly admit it.
Any guy under 5’ 9” already knows how important height is.
I’m 5’5”
5’6. Not in my experience
@@Tony-so1zl I’ve had girlfriends before i lost weight, so I guess my experience is also alittle different
Lol I’m 5’4 but never had bad experience .
@@Ommarrie I would guess your experience is quite limited.
1:13 man that was BY FAR the best AD intro ive ever seen on youtube!
LMAO
The suspense really got me
I actually think that the original list serves a good purpose since a it's aimed at women: It brings them closer to understanding what they should be looking for and what is really important to have a fulfilling relationship. As long as the majority of women read the article and the majority of men watch this video instead it actually improves the situation imo.
Dear, Alexander. I love how you always talk about the truth about the 'dating dimension'.. It's like a different side of this world that your parents & teachers at school never taught you, and you need to figure out by yourself hha.. I've been following you since last year, and your contents have shifted my mindset toward dating a lot. Thanks man. I've tried observing high quality women throughout my own circle & even outside, I can tell you whom these women are dating MOSTLY match your explanation on this video..! If I can simplify into a mental model, high quality women (beautiful, sexy, smart, & kind), regardless of their personalities get married to men who (at the very minimum) posses these 3 qualities: 1) They stay in shape (not fat); 2) Mentally mature & strong (not needy); 3) financially secured (can provide well). I'm confident these qualities sum up all your points above. However, I have a different opinion on point No.2: "Tall." Although it may be their ideal desire, but it is not the most important thing for women. A tall & handsome man who is needy & controlling will turn women off right away, compared to a short man but smart, mentally strong, & wealthy. Being tall can be replaced with staying in shape for a guy who wasn't born tall (like myself haha)... Thanks for always sharing the women's psychology & the dating truth to all young men in the world. We need more people like you. Cheers from Indonesia.
Alex thanks for putting up the REAL list that women want in men.
Great video. 2 Years later and finally we have the data from Tinder, backing up every single entry of your list :D
one of the most useful channels in my list
The way you introduced the promo was lit
Most unexpected sponsor ad ever! Great channel-appropriate dialogue too.
I wouldn't say that they always say these things to make them look better, but also to make you FEEL better. Like your family, "nah you good", hoping to boost your confidence and so on. But as you said, this only deepens the dissonance between what women want and what women say they want. Thus you end up even more depressed and frustrated. "Why doesn't any girl want to date me if everyone says I'm a high quality man?"
Truth is, everything would be easier to affront if they were direct.
What you are doing is extremely important to society in the United States today. Good job and keep it up!
You're the first youtuber I've ever seen put the list in front. Thank you, very cool!
Do women assume that we use preselection as well?
I ask this because so many women talk about their good-looking, successful etc. ex-partner when you meet them.
I think that they think we are judging their quality based on former partners, like they do with us.
By the way ladies, we find it weird when you talk about your ex when we've only just met you.
It appears as though the only thing interesting about you is your ex.
Or that they're vindictive lol.
Yes, I think that women assume men use preselection as well. They want to be "with" a guy while looking for their next guy up (hypergamy), and they think that makes them look more attractive to other guys. To me, it makes them look like average women (cruel manipulators, IF you let them).
@@kenhoganson9481 I wonder if they take male friends out with them in the assumption it makes them look more trustworthy to prospective suitors lol
@@MrAnperm I don't have a reply to that idea, maybe? I am thinking about all the women who like to flirt, but if you ask if they are dating someone now, its always "Yes". But they are still looking to play around, or looking for something better. I don't think that they realize that dating someone disqualifies them in some guy's mind (me for instance).
@@kenhoganson9481 Women trying to act like a stud? Hah!
one of the reasons I like your videos is bc they arent click bait and they are right to the point. Keep up brother!