Dear David, Thank you for saying how we truly feel in losing a spouse. I don"t know why but it has been 25 years since my husband passed and I still cannot get over losing him. I think and miss him 24_7. Is there something wrong with me?. When you. Love deeply ........... You Grieve deeply. Thank you for your compassionate understanding and helping us through this difficult road of grief.
This is by far the kindest and most compassionate information I have come across since losing my spouse. It makes me feel seen, and my feelings validated .It’s so good to hear someone acknowledge those things that I wrestle with, but can’t tell anyone because they simply won’t understand..Thank you David.
Thank you for sharing. I lost my wife of 51 years three years ago. I did not know this level of sadness existed. I will keep trying to move forward carrying her love in my heart.
Lost my wife of 35 years suddenly in October. I finished David's sentences. He explains so accurately the feelings I'm feeling in so many ways. I'm still seeking support, but his videos and website are helping, along with God's presence and direction.
I am so sorry for everyone's loss My husband died almost 2 yrs ago. I'm lonely; he was my love and my family. I pray God's love wash over all of us who have lost our loved ones.❤
Thanks for posting this for others, such a blessing, loss mine 8 1 23 within 3 months to cervix cancer thinking it was menopause and static nerve pain was only 50 ..yes feel so broken n insomnia since
I am so very grateful for discovering this channel. My soul feels as if it has been run through a shedder, my dear husband of 45 yrs. passed away Sept.2, 2024, @ 3:21 AM, he put in his "change of address" , from my arms to Heaven's streets of Gold. I am experiencing a ... LOST... that GOD Never intended for us to have knowledge of. Robin's wife, SallyAnn
Thank you for this video. I lost my husband in 2014 and shortly after that I went to one of your PESI trainings in Erie PA. Despite the fact that you were grieving the loss of your own son, you did a remarkable training that was personally and professionally significant for me. I’ve been navigating life around my grief and healing, and trying to help others with their journeys. Your approach, I believe, is very assessable, compassionate, and relatable. Thank you for your wisdom and your validation. Your work is so important.
I just wish I knew if he remembers me fully .. like does he still remember all the things we said to each other ? Does he remember every moment we spend like I do? I feel so forgotten… I feel like I don’t matter .. especially since the way his family has been with me 😞I wish they treated me like I was a part of him too.. I wish show people all the letters he’d write me .. I wish they can just see .. so that they know that this was something so magical and feel so depth and such deep love
Yes it is so different then family 😞 my partner passed away October 6th 2024… and I was the one who found him 😪 he had just given me a ring 3 months before.. he was such a beautiful deep creative artistic person. We both were so deeply deeply in love… I feel like my soul is screaming and feels this huge desire and want and need for him when I can’t ever see him or speak to him again the way we used too.. his family has been very odd to me :( and have been very invalidating with me and treat me like I was just some little girlfriend .. and don’t know all the moments we had.. and how much I fought to keep him alive as he battled his addiction … I wish I can just see him in my dreams some how.. I keep seeing him in dreams but they are dreams of anxiety and me wanting to save him 😞… I know if he can see me.. I know he’s so sorry for leaving me this way.. 😪
David, my husband of 46 years (51 years together), died suddenly in our home in May 2023. This was very helpful . I’ve been in grief therapy for a year, I read your writings, Alan Wolfelt’s, various others. I’m a practicing Nichiren Buddhist of 52 years- it’s during my daily practice I tend to lean into my grief feelings. I journal. It’s all been extremely painful but I’m moving forward- cry a little everyday. Also lost my beloved cat & greyhound in this 1st year. Thank you for saying 2 years can be considered early grief. This has been so compassionate & helpful. I could go on but… 🌸💗🪷🙏☮️
Dear David,
Thank you for saying how we truly feel in losing a spouse. I don"t know why but it has been 25 years since my husband passed and I still cannot get over losing him. I think and miss him 24_7. Is there something wrong with me?. When you. Love deeply
...........
You Grieve deeply. Thank you for your compassionate understanding and helping us through this difficult road of grief.
This is by far the kindest and most compassionate information I have come across since losing my spouse. It makes me feel seen, and my feelings validated .It’s so good to hear someone acknowledge those things that I wrestle with, but can’t tell anyone because they simply won’t understand..Thank you David.
The most compassionate video on the loss of a spouse. Thank you for sharing. 🙏🏻😢💔
Thank you for sharing. I lost my wife of 51 years three years ago. I did not know this level of sadness existed. I will keep trying to move forward carrying her love in my heart.
Lost my wife of 35 years suddenly in October. I finished David's sentences. He explains so accurately the feelings I'm feeling in so many ways. I'm still seeking support, but his videos and website are helping, along with God's presence and direction.
I am so sorry for everyone's loss
My husband died almost 2 yrs ago.
I'm lonely; he was my love and my family. I pray God's love wash over all of us who have lost our loved ones.❤
Thanks for posting this for others, such a blessing, loss mine 8 1 23 within 3 months to cervix cancer thinking it was menopause and static nerve pain was only 50 ..yes feel so broken n insomnia since
I lost my wife of 50 years from kidney cancer I am shattered in a million pieces , dear LORD it should have been me
I am so very grateful for discovering this channel. My soul feels as if it has been run through a shedder, my dear husband of 45 yrs. passed away Sept.2, 2024, @ 3:21 AM, he put in his "change of address" , from my arms to Heaven's streets of Gold. I am experiencing a ... LOST... that GOD Never intended for us to have knowledge of. Robin's wife, SallyAnn
Thank you for this video. I lost my husband in 2014 and shortly after that I went to one of your
PESI trainings in Erie PA. Despite the fact that you were grieving the loss of your own son, you did a remarkable training that was personally and professionally significant for me. I’ve been navigating life around my grief and healing, and trying to help others with their journeys. Your approach, I believe, is very assessable, compassionate, and relatable. Thank you for your wisdom and your validation. Your work is so important.
David, thank you for this video, it was very warm and helpful ❤
I just wish I knew if he remembers me fully .. like does he still remember all the things we said to each other ? Does he remember every moment we spend like I do? I feel so forgotten… I feel like I don’t matter .. especially since the way his family has been with me 😞I wish they treated me like I was a part of him too.. I wish show people all the letters he’d write me .. I wish they can just see .. so that they know that this was something so magical and feel so depth and such deep love
Oh, I'm more than certain he remembers all of it. God bless your heart till you meet him again!
Life sucks, then things get worse.
Signed,
Then, slowly better...
I lost my two years ago
Rachel Berman
I come from Philadelphia, pa
Could you make a video about grieving narcissistic families and parents?
I am completely destroyed my sweet wife passed away 2 weeks ago 😢
Thank you from Utah
I lost the love of my life almost 2 years ago suddenly I never got the chance to say goodbye and love you one last time
Yes it is so different then family 😞 my partner passed away October 6th 2024… and I was the one who found him 😪 he had just given me a ring 3 months before.. he was such a beautiful deep creative artistic person. We both were so deeply deeply in love… I feel like my soul is screaming and feels this huge desire and want and need for him when I can’t ever see him or speak to him again the way we used too.. his family has been very odd to me :( and have been very invalidating with me and treat me like I was just some little girlfriend .. and don’t know all the moments we had.. and how much I fought to keep him alive as he battled his addiction … I wish I can just see him in my dreams some how.. I keep seeing him in dreams but they are dreams of anxiety and me wanting to save him 😞… I know if he can see me.. I know he’s so sorry for leaving me this way.. 😪
NC
David, my husband of 46 years (51 years together), died suddenly in our home in May 2023. This was very helpful . I’ve been in grief therapy for a year, I read your writings, Alan Wolfelt’s, various others. I’m a practicing Nichiren Buddhist of 52 years- it’s during my daily practice I tend to lean into my grief feelings. I journal. It’s all been extremely painful but I’m moving forward- cry a little everyday. Also lost my beloved cat & greyhound in this 1st year.
Thank you for saying 2 years can be considered early grief.
This has been so compassionate & helpful. I could go on but… 🌸💗🪷🙏☮️