A New Year or a New You?
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- Опубліковано 22 тра 2024
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When your book comes out, please do an audiobook version with YOU reading it. You've got the voice for it. Can't wait!
I've found when I read a book by someone I've mostly listened to before, their voice defaults into my head anyway. Alan Watts being the primary and almost only example. Not agains tthis idea tho
as someone who really struggles with actually reading, i would love an audiobook to follow along with
@@micahwilson3783 true that i havent read a book in over a year easily
Agreed
AGREED! So many AI voice readings in audiobooks and theres no nuance or authenticity, cadence or realness to it. AND we need those pauses and exhales from him smoking the cigar
Heyy man, I sincerely enjoy your content you've been putting up, I'm a 17 year old guy out of South Africa and your videos have really helped me mature into a young man, love from South Africa ❤
Lots of love from South Africa ❤️🇿🇦🤙🏼
@@brazosbottomhandeveryone recognizes a term of endearment. Hey Man, Dude, Bro, etc. are all suitable, and I assure you Dewayne is more than tickled to reach the heart of a youngster with his videos vs being offended by whatever friendly term was used. Get a grip. 😂❤
Don't make a big deal out of it. It wasn't with disrespect@@brazosbottomhand
@@brazosbottomhandok man
Molo! Njani? 🤝🏻
"Things don't get better because of a new year, they get better because of a new you" Powerful 💯
Большой привет из России! Мне 19 лет, и для меня вы как дедушка повидавший уже многое в этой жизни. Спасибо что помогаете всем нам! Ваши слова действительно правильные и по факту!
If every boy had a father this wise, the world would be such a better place.
Simplified lesson: "If you want to change a negative behavior, replace it with something you really want to do it, and keep choosing that with consistency, until you become it".
Thanks for spreading wisdom.
My mom says “when my head, heart, and hands are aligned I know I’m doing the right thing.” Prayer is a great way to get aligned with your purpose. Another great video Dewayne! God bless ❤
I just wanted to say that you are the example of a heroic, hard working, down-to-earth man that everyone needs to see in this world and try to emulate! Several of your videos had helped me. I’d definitely like to meet you in person one day!
I never make New Year's resolutions because I feel like it's changing for the wrong reason. I make an effort to change something when it's important enough for me to change. I like your alcohol example, replacing bad habits with something not as bad, working up to something good.
New year resolutions rarely stick. It's a fad to say you are gonna do them. As you say, out with the old, in with the new... as and when required. Just aim to make every year a good one
My 15 yr old son Trent Loves your Channel, your content and your message. We are frozen in down here in Texas watching you all day! God Bless
Just a dang good message.
It's s like listening to the book of Proverbs cowboy style.
I'm 29 days sober, no weed and no beer. I didn't do it as a new year resolution. I have goals in mind and I just had a strong feeling that I was gonna have tough challenges this year. I wanted to have a clear mind. No amount of days in mind, nothing. Like I predicted, 7 days ago, I learned that I was let go from my contract. After almost 2 years there, it's like my co-workers are turning against me for my final weeks. I'm tired of corporate. I'm really trying to quit the office world this year. I had a good high paying job that I hated but I was going to reach my goals faster. I just want to live quietly in nature, I'm emotionally dead inside.
Thank you for these talks. They mean a lot to me.
Mine is more focused on how I treat my neighbours.
I'm 57 years old and still learning new things everyday , I thought I knew it all but maybe not so much . The wisdom of old men is like Gold , invaluable !
You’re the first person who has ever explained what Jesus meant about the person getting rid of the demon and ending up having seven more in a way that made sensed to me! Thanks for your videos ❤️
Thank you to Dwayne for being the hero that we need and always knowing what to say. I sincerely appreciate you. 🙏
Dewayne
@@obviouslykidding9597okay
I'm diggin the ball cap!! Great pow wow sir 🫡
Americas favorite cowboy! Love your videos! Especially from a grounded perspective and someone who has had allot of experiences most folk wouldn’t have had.
The world's favourite cowboy even! Watching from the UK
"Experience leads to self-confidence, self-confidence leads to calmness & it is calmness that leads to safety" - Awesome & so true in all areas of life 🙂 Plus replacing bad habits with good ones 😉
My first book of 2024 is The Power of Habit and it is quite good. Basically says what Dwayne said in that you can't get rid of habits but you can replace the response to what is cueing your habits and thus changing the reward/outcome. Great read for anyone looking to better themselves.
Can you explain a bit more? Or let me know the author I am interested, thank you 🙏
@@ARdave311 The book is by Charles Duhigg. :)
Big love to you from Helotes, Tx.
Blessings for 2024
As a middle to older man, ( though I like to think of myself as the latter), who has traveled to 3 continents, 27 countries, and 48 states of the U.S. serving in my countries military, and trying to LEARN from all and every experience I have to finally recognize someone that not only can instruct but make things understandable. Thank you DCWS . This is one of my morning necessities, just as much as my meditations, prayers, coffee and reflection. " Ain't a bronc that can't be rode, Ain't a cowboy that can't be throwed."
Yes. Replace it, be consistent, be patient, get up when you fall, and don’t quit. Thank you.
Couldn't have listened to something like this at a better time. Thank you Dwayne
Surfing through and see DeWayne in a ball cap . That's new . Wonder what has changed ? Same old Dewayne , and thank God for that . Same old wine , just a different bottle . Keep on keepin' on Goldtimer . We all need to know that the way we live , the way we work , the way we think ; are normal . And sometimes WE need to just refine them a little to "stay on track" . Keep up the good work . Can't wait to read your book .😊
Yes sir, it will be same unless we become new. Let's let ourselves change. I wish you best 2024 to all of you guys, you are absolutely special ones out there on this channel
1791 is the day ! You didn't need a permit! Shall Not Infringe! God Bless justice Clarence Thomas
@@Trumptrain2024FJB What the hell are you talking about brother.. lmao
@@greatdavid8790 well if you took the time to look up 1791 you would know!!!!! Hello
@@Trumptrain2024FJBthe constitution and Bill of Rights has nothing to do with choosing to replace a bad habit or bad situation in your life with a good one. I think you are either commenting on the wrong video or just plain tweaking my friend.
@@straehalo lmmfao No Gates and Clinton are tweeking ! And Shall Not Infringe is very clear English
Every time I watch your videos, I feel like I'm there sitting with you, we're smoking a cigar, and your looking directly at me giving me this advice. You always make me soul search. I greatly appreciate your videos! May you and Mama and the rest of the Family have Very Blessed 2024!
Sir, I know nothing about horses. I am an IT manager in mid 40s who follows your content since couple of months. Not too many people has a gift to share wisdom in simple form. Thank You!
Greetings from Poland 🇵🇱.
Mine remains the same every year: Grow in the Lord, and read the Bible thru every year.
Words of wisdom Dwayne always enjoys and appreciate your opinion and way of living.
Interesting how these things fall into place more easily as we progress through our lives.
Been struggling through the holiday season and really needed the wise words
The issue I had was removing but not replacing, and what do ya know the problems came back worse. Replacement is KEY and I was able to learn that today.
Thank you
Psalm 32:8,9
So much wisdom 🫶🏻
Great haircut D money. Appreciate you
Love this man and the message he brings!!!
I absolutely am hooked on your videos. Every year I say this is the year I’m not going to be broke. So last year I wanted to study AWS sysops and become a junior cloud engineer. Well I failed and I’m still broke. It’s like I feel like I don’t know how to succeed in this life. I have been playing music for 20 years and feel like a failure in that to bc I have never played live. Anyways just thought I would give my new years story and this year I am done saying I’m doing anything(I’m also 35 and getting scared I’m getting older with no career)
It's a sound move, the Internet is the future and old men will pay allot for you to do what they are too old to learn.
Like Dewayne said, don't just say "this is the year". That puts too much pressure on yourself. Don't label yourself a failure, either. That's not helpful and only causes you to wallow in self pity. If you're curious, look up the Standford Prison Experiment and learn about what labels can to do a person. For the new year, just preform actions that will better you in the long run. No need to make a 'thing' out of it. Try to stick to something you enjoy and can make a life of. A lot of people can't force themselves to stick to something they hate even if they need the money. If you can't stick to a 'money maker', just do what you love and figure out how to make a living off of it. You could try to get a gig playing music at old folks homes, or teach children to play your instrument, or try to sell your music online. Good luck brother
Great advice Dewayne. Fall 8 times, get up 9.
You handled that Brad Lea interview beautifully. Calm, cool, and collected. Your explanation of the trinity was fantastic. Most importantly, you shared the Gospel of Jesus Christ to a whole new audience. Praise God.
Praise the Lord Jesus! Amen!
The tack shed (outside of my saddle shop) is my 2nd favorite place to hang out in. Calming and comforting.
Very well put, as ever.
It took me to my late forties until I managed to sort myself out.
The big sneeze closed down my business, and it was the best thing that ever happened, led me on a path to happiness and a self awareness that I'd always managed to avoid. And honestly, the best thing about it was that my current situation is all the more valuable because I understand the alternative is somewhere I never want to go to again. I think the 'path' is a slope, I'm on wheels, and if I don't keep pushing forward, I might roll back.
Thank you, Dwayne awesome video👍👍👍
If you feel like like running-- instead of removing yourself from the situation, offer yourself something calm.
Replace fear with wisdom, knowledge and experience which supplies self-confidence. Self confidence leads to calmness and calmness leads to safety.
This is pure wisdom. Dewayne, I am applying this wisdom and knowledge to my innate feeling to shut down in my relationship. Everytime he says or does something I feel I wrong (due to his ill behavior and bad mouth against me in our history) I immediately tell him to get away from me. I tell him to leave me alone and to go away.
It's been a long journey with him and I do feel like giving up because I feel like it's time for HIM to change. I feel that ive been ever changing for 13 years and for him, he just gets to be stiff. I don't get it most days and I've developed such a deep anger with him and his chosen ways. I can bend if he can bend. I just want him to see the light.
Thanks Dwane, very good message .....reminds me that Shakespeare in his famous "Richard the third" puts the horse in the center of the story ...where Richard III had to chose between the kingdom and the horse , he chose the horse
Happy New Year! I hope it brings you and your close ones many good memories and fortunes!
your video's really help me overcome my demons you are helping me become a better version of me!
Good stuff, Dewayne! Very well stated!
Thanks I needed to hear this, yesterday I realized I need to move from where I am as its doing nothing for me and if I move I can advance my life substantially.
Started reading Meditations, just ordered several of the classics from Thrift books. timely advice as always thank you for sharing. Myself is my main project for the new year. Take care Sir.
I'm 30 years old been following you for about a year now and Thank you for sharing your advice at anytime
I feel like your words and wisdom are so simple yet overlooked. What I mean to say is that it's not a new discovery! It's obvious, but somehow, I don't think about these words myself when I find that I am struggling. I hope that makes sense. Thank you for taking the time to do what you do: share your wisdom with everyone here.
Thank you, Dewayne. I wish all the best for you and your family
1:03 " quieren hacer cambios de año nuevo pero no saben como hacerlo.
4:50 "🎯 cuando vas hacer un cambio en tu vida, simplemente no puede ELIMINARLO"
5:33 PERO SI reemplazar LA REACCION NEGATIVA, por algo positivo.
7:51 "lo que hice fue: 1] tomar una situacion
2]Una reaccion negativa
3] en lugar de ELIMINAR ESA SITUACION
4] la REEMPLACE.
5] agrege una reaccion mas Positiva.
8:58 no fue de la noche a la mañana.. reconoci el problema.
Desarrolle y determine que iba a hacer para solucionar ese problema
Tome lo negativi y no solo lo elimine.
Lo reemplace
9:24 " si eliminas algo y no lo reemplazas creas un vacio, y la naturaleza aborrece el vacio.. y si no lo reemplazas lo negativo con ALGO DE TU ELECCION, ese vacio no permanecera asi por mucho tiempo algo entrara y sentira que esta bien.
Can't say enough, you have brought me though some tuff days thank you Dwayne
I am looking forward to your book, Dwayne. I have fallen back in love with reading. It was frustrating at first. I'd clear about 10 pages given an hour. I've only gotten incrementally better these past few months, but with every page I absorb, I become that much more formidable. For any guy struggling in the age of instant gratification and short-form content, I believe in you. Start now.
Thank you God for speaking thru this lovely man for all our souls hearts and minds
Thank you to you sir and your lovely wife and family
Angels be with you always ! In all ways
🙏🏼💕🙏🏼
Once again, thank you! I have several young men who look up to me, and I find it very helpful how you re-tell age-old wisdom with stories. Kinda like having Louis Lamore giving Godly advice. Blessings to you, Dwyane, and your wife. Mark in Montana.
Dwayne, listening to you makes me grit my teeth, because you're right
A real horse whisperer 😊👍 thank you for this awesome clip
Praise God for you. You inspire me.
I just started listening to Waylon Jennings and Johnny Paycheck. I’ve never heard such beautiful music in my life.
Thank you for your help. Your talks are very beneficial to me.
Dewayne, your advice is amazing and inspiring. God bless your heart. I’d like to add to your advice a little. You talked about taking away the bad and replacing with the good. And for those who may see fit to just simply add something good to their life this year. Here’s a little advice: Start small, don’t start big. Wanna become a reader? Ok, simply read 2 minutes a day of a book, a month later increase it to a page a day, and keep growing like that until you reach your goal.
Confidence ❤ it has great reward.
Hebrews 10:35
Thank you Dwayne. Your advice is so needed.
Really appreciate you laying this one out
Thanks uncle Dwayne. You always seem to give me the right tools to handle my problems. I know I don’t need to do what you say to a T but it gives me a different perspective on what I should be doin which seems to be just enough each time.
Love these. Much love from the spanish eastern coast🇪🇦
It’s been a really mellow winter here in Minnesota and I love it
This is gold advice.
Thank you man, your videos are like an extra push that leads me to make an even bigger effort in being better and better everyday
Hey Dewayne, been away a bit, good message and a ton of truth and wisdom! Beard is looking good and the blonde pipe is nice!
God bless y'all real good! ❤
I love this advice.
Your videos give me the knowledge my dad never could, thank you, love your videos man.
As always great words of wisdom, been watching your videos for a while now, great men like you saved me from having to learn a lot of lifes lessons the hard way, appreciate you and your wifes videos, God bless you and your family, keep up the great work
If you got up the one time, it means you can get up the next time.
I needed this. Thank you.
Key conclusions :
Do not remove, but replace what you want to get rid of ( so as not to leave a hole for something worse )
Be consistent and patient
And change yourself because a new year doesn't change anything!
Raise your banner and plow forward. Never back, always forward.
Good talk man and you are 100% right. Happy New Year
Thank you sir maybe I can use this to help fight off some of my anxiety issues I’m a new subscriber I’m not the most knowledgeable or even that into horses but I am into good advice and good people thanks for the helpful tips
Thank you. I really needed this advice.
This video felt like it was exactly what I needed to hear right now. Thank you, Dwayne!
Always a pleasure to hear you 💪
You always give us such good advice in ways that are easy to understand. Thank you! You are such a good teacher.
Thank you Dewayne! Mighty fine advice for the New Year! Health and happiness to you & the family!
Sir. YOU are spot on . Cheers.
Good start of the year thank you!!
Happy new year and thanks for the wisdom 👍 always something I need to hear when I need to hear it
Thanks for putting things into perspective- really makes it easy to visualize the meaning! 29. years old here and i'll say your videos are a golden nugget hah and happy new year ;-)
Needed to hear this. Thanks Dwyane.
Man it is incredible how much I learn with you Noel. Sincerely each one of your videos is better than the last one. Keep up the great work of yours, it is very inspiring!
Also, I'm very excited for that book of yours, keep us tracked!
Thank you Dewayne. Needed this message so much tonight.
I am training myself now to replace my people pleasing tendencies with new skill of setting boundaries or talking my truth (for example that I don’t like something instead of pretending I do). This is a fascinating process of transformation!
It’s very similar to training dogs: the dog won’t stop to like chasing cats, for example, but if you teach her recall and reward generously, it will come to you instead of a cat. Reward yourself for making better choices 😊
Thank you, Dewayne!
Look into Buddhism also..your people pleasing is due to your ego wanting something. I'm not saying it's true but one could look at people pleasing as being greedy as you are looking for recognition?
Anyway as someone who used to people please a lot but then realised you should be kind but firstly kind to yourself and not get used I wish you the best
@@Mannsy83 yes, this is one of the reasons too! Thank you for your advice. I'm glad you were able to solve this issue.
Dewayne, thank God for a man with your unique blend of godly wisdom, life experiences, and example of manliness and humility. A "velvet and steel" mix we dont see much of these days. God bless your ministry, loved ones, and life on your ranch.
Oh my gosh thank you so much.. you really have no idea how much I needed to hear this; just thank you…
Greetings from Florida.
Got out a pen and paper for this one.
Thank you for doing what you do 🙏
Great to see you!!!! Happy New Year!
Thank you for these videos, you are the best.
Happy new year Dwayne, looking forward to more of your videos throughout 2024.
Seeing Dewayne in a ball cap is a trip. He goes from rancher to pipefitter.