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- Опубліковано 15 вер 2024
- The plaintiff says the defendant is her cousin, and said she always tried to help her since she had a rough life. She’s suing her for car damages and defamation. The defendant says she was in foster care and claims her cousin didn’t care about her. She’s countersuing for car payments, repairs, and plates.
I feel bad for the defendant. She really seems like she is trying but life just keeps testing her. Please keep strong luv and rise above.
She will overcome
I don't everybody deal with stuff, she's ungrateful that lady did her a favor if she acted nice and talked with her about stuff ,she would've let her keep the car, she got back attitude problem
Feel bad ? Have u not hear how entitlement she is smh. People like you is easily to be fooled, I swear
I don't , the only one who owe her is her kids farther. She didn't mention him but want to cuss this woman out at the end smh....ungrateful , disrespectful , and entitled.
@@GerrieCallahan-gy5xknope aunt was cussed out rightfully so. Sounds like there was another motive for her need to come into some money fairly quickly. For her to even admit that she had paid on time everytime BUT that one time she was in the hospital? Pathetic. To kick someone while they’re already down …. To wait until someone is on their death bed or in chronic pain to take something back because of a broken window which she stated she would get fixed ? Not to mention the fact she had paid on time everytime up until the point she was hospitalized…… this is a family member that wanted to appear helpful taking advantage of someone whom was already vulnerable and weakened. This is sad , and it’s even more sad that ppl can’t see through this for what it is.
Judge Mathis doesn’t listen sometimes and his feelings weigh heavy on his rulings. I can always tell when this man has an attitude.
ALWAYS. It’s ridiculous. I love watching but some of these cases are horrific & he can be the absolute worse.
Yeah you could genuinely feel she was trying.... you didn't even give her a chance to get it fixed.... you took it while she was literally in surgery and left her no chance to even explain what went on and how she would resolve it
I agree! His mood definitely seems to determine the direction some of his cases go.
She took the car back because her mom was driving it. I’m sure her mom drove it more than once. She needs to direct that energy to her mom that abandon her and left her in foster care.
Her mama was deadbeat point period, daddy too
Wow she kept up her end of the deal paid on time and one mistake and she lost the car. Unreasonable.
Remember the cousin/aunt said it was her daughter’s car that “supposedly” had some issues anyway. So it was in her driveway. I feel that the cousin/aunt used her(defendant)..knowing repairs was needed plus still had a loan on the car. That’s why the defendant only had to pay half of the car note, got her own insurance. Plus it take maybe 2weeks if that depending by state to get plates. You only get temp tags first. Man...this case was all the way messed up. The defendant’s mom & the plaintiff had some issues point blank. How ironic she take the car when she find out her mother was driving it? Some families can be so messy. Smh 🤷🏾♀️
No company would have even done her like this.
@@Lynai0812 I agree she was hateful for that.
This is crazy but it's okay because if you call yourself helping somebody and you knew she was in the hospital and the mother had the kids and it was no food in the house and she want her to come they get the car as he had proof that she was getting ready to fix the windshield cuz somebody busted windshield that cousin don't understand she going to be paid for that that's evilness that's wicked that's wickedness
On top of that he was wrong for talking to that lady like that the judge he was wrong he won't even let her say what she needed to stay without cutting her off and throwing it up in her face like she said if they truly cared about them somebody would have got them even though they mother messed up somebody would have came and got them nobody did and his sister said I told you what he was going to do I would have I would have declined
I'm mad for cousin. She put out her last dime just to go back to where she started. Hope she finds a way out this mess 🙏🏽
You don't let shit like a car or possessions come between you and family.
@@StygianStilettosGamer I'm saying. People don't realize everything they got can be stripped from them just as easily as they got it
@@jnisunev3 I hope that auntie don't ever need help in the future. She getting older, and my guess is not a long line to help her trifling ass.
@@StygianStilettosGamer I also think about that when parents treat their kids like s***.. like do you not realize I might be wiping your ass one day 😂
@@jnisunev3 Truth
Blood don’t make you family
Real Talk!
I second that emotion!!!!
My term is literally blood members as I always tell folk's my five children are my family period
I agree!
Periodt! I keep telling people this...It's family members I wouldn't give a quarter to...
She definitely doesn’t come off as the most grateful person but I believe her when she says she was going to get the window fixed and that her mom only drove it to Walmart to help out her grandkids.
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I feel bad for the girl she never missed a payment and people get sick and hospitalized that’s so terrible family ain’t sh*t
Right they won’t even repo your shit that damn fast!
Emergency situation!! What the what is wrong with her? Did you all look @ that car most young ppl don't buy those types of cars.
She us d her to get her he car fixed.
Right
She started off on the wrong foot bad mouthing her aunt while she let her mom off the hook. If she would have started with I'm grateful for everything she has helped me with, that would have set a completely different tone. Especially after the Aunt said kind things about her
I think it was her attitude he didn’t like honestly
She did not have a attitude she was trying to explain her side he went well cuz the lady try to paint a picture that she was the one taking care of them I see the way I got a letter from my mom saying I was financially responsible for them and she like you all right you know she said that she knows she's a no no but that was wrong to do that to her to take that car
@@tinabethea7868 I know she didn’t have a attitude but her tone sounded like it . I think that’s what he didn’t like cause he can be bias sometimes
@@m1e223 We’ve all seen him be bias before . Sometimes he’s taking it far not even listening to other people . But I really think it was her attitude and her aunt appeared to be nice .
@Donja Aboukhezaima right. Just be appreciative of using the car. The stipulations were what they were.
She was ungrateful! And she breeched the contract...
I genuinely feel bad for the defendant. Having a chronic illness and still taking care of children is extremely hard. She needed that car and I feel the cousin (Aunt) could have been a little more understanding. I think whatever dislike she has for the defendant’s mother was projected on the defendant instead. I hope God blesses her with a car and gives her healing from her illness. 🙏🏾❤️
I totally agree
That was beautiful... I totally agree!
Facts
Let's be very clear. She has not only one child, but three. After that first one she should have learned. You need to make sure you have a car before you have children.. you have a baby and no transportation. If the baby gets sick, how are you going to get them to the hospital? Yes, the cousin/aunt was wrong, but it's her responsibility to make sure she has transportation for her children.
I wonder who called the aunt to let her know the window was broken? This was the oddest thing. I beat the aunt, keep up with the car, like randomly went to the neices how to check in on the car.
I think the cousin/auntie just wanted the car back. The defendant made the first two payments with no problem, and was hospitalized when it was time for the 3rd payment. If you needed the money that bad, why not call or visit her in the hospital and let her know; not just take the car. The plaintiff never stated that she asked for the money, only that she saw the windows were broken and took the keys.
Correct and common sense you know when you have chronic illness you can be put in hospital so
Idk why she took
Her to court
She wanted the car back when she saw it was driving and.fix. That car battery and.alternator problem didn't just start
Exactly. 🤷🏾♀️
@@geo745don she’s messed up I have colitis I know the feeling working your ass off when you have to be put out of work so much for flares it’s hard for us these 2 diseases are no joke and I’m sure she knew how serious her condition was because she went to see her in the hospital
@@lovelywilson2112 of course she knew. But since the car was fixed she wanted it back. Bet you that fire the car had destroyed the battery and alternator
The cousin didn’t even stay at the hospital to see if she was ok she went straight to get the car over a window incident? The cousin was evil for that
Right , it’s messed up
That’s what I’m saying. There’s clearly some disconnect in that family dynamic.
same thing I was thinking 🤔
Yeah that's fucked up
@@Verharri morning erin stay
If she ever sees this comment.... God will bless you and your daughter with a BRAND NEW CAR... don’t let your Aunt discourage you. God could have been protecting you and your daughter from being in the car and it catching on fire like it did you aunts daughter... Look at it as a blessing in disguise.
I see your comment I’m writing from my cousin UA-cam yes god has blessed me with a brand new BMW and I truly appreciate your comment. And I will never let her discourage me everything was a lie and my mother has never been on any drugs and my aunt never took care of me ever. Judge Mathis is full of shit and a liar. Thank you again
@@mommyermias6926 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 thank you for that praise report.
The defendant's mama said, see, I told u he was gonna do that😂😂😂. JM put her out real qwik off that.
Cause he realized at that point that people was up on his bullshit
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@@milagrosalomon6102 lol
He DOES do that bs all the time.
@@milagrosalomon6102 what bullshit it was the truth she was acting like her mom was perfect
i hope this young lady receives a huge blessing and never has to ask any family member for anything ever again. just because her raggedy wig cousin “aunt” let her use the car with a lower car payment doesn’t mean she cares. if she did, she wouldn’t have came got her car while she was in a damn operating room!
I'm stuck on the fact that she immediately left the hospital worried ab the dag on car instead of staying there to be there for her cousin...
I’m not sure what Judge Mathis was on with this one. I understand the reasoning behind the legal and financial ruling, but unless they edited out something that the defendant said, I don’t understand why he was so disrespectful to her and her mother?
He was clearly biased, so that kept him from understanding the point the defendant was making about her cousin/aunt. He read her as ungrateful when she was just trying to point out that the aunt’s testimony was facetious. You’ll notice that the defendant brought up the story about the family leaving her in foster care as a direct response to the aunt saying that she had always been there for her. To me, it actually seems as though the defendant said this to show that the aunt was not being completely truthful. She wasn’t trying to absolve her mother; she was trying to show what she believes to be her aunt’s true character.
And, by her own admission that she went to visit her niece in the hospital to inquire about and retrieve the car, the plaintiff actually validated the defendant’s opinion of her character. Because if she cared so much and was “always there for” the defendant, the aunt would have inquired about the defendant’s kids and perhaps offered some assistance which (interestingly enough) would have alleviated the need for the defendant to ask her mom to go get groceries for her kids.
This case was sad, Judge Mathis was biased and triggered, and overall I’m just disgusted at the disrespectful, aggressive, and abusive way the defendant and her mom were handled in this court room (by the same Judge who told a woman to give her abuser another chance because he was a black man 😒). The defendant and her mother deserved better than to be berated and degraded by an angry black man on such a large platform.
I’m wishing both the defendant and her mother blessings, peace, and prosperity because that’s what they deserve.
Judge Mathis rules on emotion all the time. As soon as he’s triggered, you don’t have a chance. He is looking for a reason to rule against you.
Very well said!!! I totally agree!
Agree 100% Judge Mathis is truly a TV Judge
He stay triggered and emotional. I love JM n but he needs to take a step back and get to the bottom of why he is partial to some litigants. Why he is partial period! That's like the number one violation in his field of work.
Joe Mathis ain't s***
The aunt is cold. I feel for that girl, she took care of the car and then in a short time it was taken back. No Judge!
But she damaged the car and didn’t let her aunt know and let her mother that had no license drive the car that’s two strikes regardless of her emergency 🚨 she should of used Uber or Lyft 🤷🏾♀️
If the defendant's mother wasn't running her mouth the outcome would've been different. The judge's whole temperament changed towards the defendant after that. Whoo Chile.
Car was in Aunt's name. Thats a huge risk.
@@app1mxh 👍🏽
I wish she never addressed the cousin as aunt. She’s a cousin period no matter the age difference
I never comment usually, but Judge Mathis pissed me off with this one. That girl never missed a payment and fixed it when she got it messed up & she gets nothing back, meanwhile Cruella de Vil sitting there being spiteful & ugly knowing her circumstances. You reap what you sow.
Cruella😂😂😂😂😂dead!!! However Exactly!
True.its probably more of a pesonal thing seems...
EXACTLY!!!
I guarantee if she and her mother had conducted themselves better in court, she would have won her case!
Man you hit it spot on. 👏🏾👏🏾
That’s a family member who only helps to have control over folks, she is not genuine at all
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯This is why I don’t like judge Mathis! He’s so judgmental w/o knowing all the facts, or acting like he was there! I know ppl who told me when they went into the system and their family took them in, they would only do it to get the money from the state. These kids get verbally/mentally abused, made fun of by their “caretakers”, their state money getting used for everything else BUT them, some of them even become “Cinderellas” to these ppls kids! Then they are tossed out the day the turn 18 because the money stops coming in! Judge Mathis is so judgmental for someone that’s went to jail multiple times and is was a criminal, he should’ve let this lady say her experience! And I’m on the defendant’s side in this case!
Amen
She’s the family member that thinks everyone owes her something
Sounds like the aunt and my sister could be long lost twins. Because what you just commented sounds exactly like you know my sister. Same scenario. SAME!
Yup ain’t it the truth ‼️‼️
"Lock her up AGAIN if she keeps talking" Judge be ruthless sometimes lol
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He’s a Liberal mook😒
The defendant is so pretty, she reminds me of Lauren Hill idk why. Just gorgeous
Yes!! She is gorgeous!!
I thought Lauren Hill too when I 1st saw her. 😍 Her momma gotta Lady Elosie vibe going. #Boomerang #Afterbirth 🤣🤣🤣
That tacky looking blonde hair got to go
Girl she look better than that crackhead Lauren
Yeah she was 🌺
Wow, he was bias af from jump! She couldn’t even speak what she felt from the start.
The aunt did her wrong. She knew she was in the hospital and she was making payments and had told her she was getting the window fixed. She wasn’t even using the car. SMH Bless her heart.
Phyllis and the Bible does say honor thy parents and things will go well with you the rest of your life. This girl was doing just that. True they hat the mom was negligent. But this daughter now trying to take care of all this kids and not make the mistake her mother did. I still feel and I know judge Mathis had yo go by the law, but he has helped others with rehab from drugs. He can make his judgement and then he could have walked it back and he personnaly could have helped this this young woman. As woman we know we have been through those struggles. I know the mother was not always there for her, but there is redemption for everyone, and it seems to me she is on track in her wrong doing and now trying to help her daughter. It's sad and almost shamful the aunt had to take this action at a critical time like this when this young girl needed help the most. I respect judge Mathis alot, but right now I feel like he owes me an apology. the laws of the land aren't the only laws there is. There's the laws of God too.
What you all are not seeing is that she told her don't let your crazy ass Mama drive my car and she also asked why didn't they report the vandalism. If you report the vandalism then the insurance will fix the car and her dumbass wouldn't even have to come off any money. People are slow as shit.
@@guadalupeblakey6403 great. but going by laws of God wont keep him employed in this business or his law license active. Especially seeing that a lotta ppl aren’t of God in this industry. Dude is just doing his job. Doesnt owe anyone but God, his wife, and kids a thing
Ms. Defendant, blame your mammy! I'm echoing Judge Mathis🗣 in that she's blaming everyone but her "mother".
Ungrateful? How ? She was doing everything she needed to do for the car until she was hospitalized for days . 😒 but ok .
You don't pay, they take it away.
She should’ve reported that window shield, that type of stuff makes insurance go up
u clearly dont get the fact that she does not think that she is in responsibility for damage to the car when its in her hands and u must of not been listening bcz she clearly said tht her cuzn did not care how dont yo cuzn care when she gave u a whole car for half the payment that u was suppose to be paying when the car got put in yo hands ... just saying what u didnt understand bcz this video has ungrateful all over it
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One thing I would say is, there was stipulations to her getting the car, so for her to not tell her cousin about the windshield and her mother blaming everybody for her faults in life and now her daughter is agreeing with her shows they want handouts from family because they believed no one was there when the mother lost custody.
I understand Daranesha feelings. It's crazy how they let them go to foster care and they was 12 and it's was only two. But at the end of the day they don't owe you nothing! Your mom had no business going to jail when you got kids depending on her for their survival. Plus where the father put blame on him. Whatever the family do is extra not regulated.
Yes and its sometimes easier to blame someone els for for your hard times than face the truth. I can sure relate, unfortunately. The mother will always be ok in her eyes but the ones that did help get the blame.
@@bubbasue5212 I agree hopefully they can work things out. If she can forgive her mom and dad if he's alive for not being their then hopefully with the family she could do the same.
I agree but you not Gon sit her and say you was here for me and did all this while we sat in foster care.
@@daziaray1233 Right that's why I said I understand her feelings meaning that part.
Exactly. Misdirected anger. Be mad at ya mama. She didn’t rise to the occasion to be there for you. If you are the only parent available to raise your kids there are some risks you just cannot take to be there for your children.
This was unnecessary. I feel so bad for the defendant. Then the Aunt says at the end about her learning about financial responsibility... The niece was right to tell her to STFU. I wouldn't have anything to do with her either.
Big facts!💯
So sad smh😥
She has 3 kids and no car. It’s nobody’s fault but her own to provide for her self and her kids. Nobody owes her anything. She does need to learn financial responsibility and keep her legs closed and get on her feet. She needs to be looking to her baby daddy for help 🤦🏼♀️
@@spanishblood9899 You don't know everyone's story and you definitely don't know hers. Everyone needs help at some point in their life and she was paying her aunt consistently until she became ill. You don't know if she was previously married, or the children's father passed, or what her situation is, so you don't know if it's a matter of "keeping her legs closed". You should pray all the days of your life that you don't have to ask anyone for help, because your comment was unnecessary and insensitive.
@@spanishblood9899 and not only that, but I see you've been commenting on everyone else's thread trying to get people to agree with the ignorance you're spewing.
Some families can really kick you when your down. She’ll rise up again; Blessings and healing ❤️🩹 to this Woman. By the way her hair is everything.
Pssh our community can too these comments are f*cked. I just pray she amd her kids and her health prosper
Sometimes your family can be your worst enemy
She knew what she was doing, speaking all highly of the defendant to the Judge, beforehand, to make herself look like such a sweetheart... these people know how to get JM on their side and he always plays right into it lol smh.
She had every right to be upset. Got the nerve to take her to court when she was doing her part
Say she wasn’t even using it 😒couldn’t wait to take it back ...petty😑
@@koolking_4k the girl wasn't even paying the FULL NOTE ON THE CAR i really think you guys are overlooking that....and the mother probably is the problem she didnt want her driving that car....remember the car is in this ladies name although it's unfortunate but the first sign of trouble with the car it falls on the owner and she probably got scared when she seen damages to the car figuring it's only been 2 months and the window is already busted out of the car....Her man probably did it...aint no kid did that mess!!!! It's more to the story than that! Anyway if she wanted that far than pay thatr $400 note on the car!!!
Used her to pay car payments.Thats low.
At mr Hampton, From now own if I was this Young lady, I wouldn't know her!! She went in the court praising this Young lady. I like judge Mathis,but I think He was wrong on this one! She bought this car for her daughter, ? Didn't the daughter have the car? She got the car and the payments were over her head,so she used her to pay half (dirty). Noone mentions insurance! She claimed this lady had children. I hope this Young lady reads this!! Leave that family member ALONG!! I'm sry I'm writing so much, but this Really hurt me. Family SMH
I agree
She sounded crazy blaming her for them being in the system smh
The aunt is dead WRONG IF the car was driven ONE time from the hospital, to get FOOD for the CHILDREN....WHILE THE MOTHER UNDERWENT SURGERY! The aunt is correct about "financial responsibility", BUT this was an emergency situation that concerned CHILDREN. Money over childrens' wellbeing, i guess.
I agree. I feel like she came to get the car because she had put the new parts on it. She could have waited til she got out of surgery... messed up
True. Its probably more personal than the actual window damages and taking the car.
There was more options then to break the law.
Why she didnt call the auntie?
@@SimplyASweetHeart exactly.
The defendant's attitude at the beginning of the case ruined her case from the jump.
Which shouldn't have effected his judgment
@@mayme221 but we all know how Greg do when rubbed the wrong way😂
Yup
@@mayme221 it shouldn’t have but u don’t do that mess with JM. You’ll lose your case
right ..she said she didnt care meanwhile she gave you a car at half off...the car was damaged thats why the defendant took the care back..i remember when i loaned someone a bag and they put a cigarette burn in it and i took it back..people are something else ..do not lend anything out because people would bad mouth you...
People have to remember the most trifling people in the whole world is family they're worse than friends
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And, sometimes family and friends can be worse than strangers, even enemies.
I feel like the aunt set her up , she knew the car was broken and used her to her advantage to get it fixed and waited for the perfect moment to take it back with everything already fixed, I wouldn’t put it passed the aunt some people are shadier than an apple tree on a hot summer day, especially “family “.
I agree
But she didn’t have to take the car!! Why her sorry momma didn’t help her ..
That’s what it sounds like to me. She was in the hospital and I understand it’s on your credit but have more compassion
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@@ImWorthy4Real cuz of what you said... she sorry
He always ready to go in on somebody! Let them testify. Cant even speak without being interrupted and him having a damn fit! Smh
Yo, I swear. He ALWAYS does that mess. I was wondering was I the only one noticing that crap. Works my nerves!!!
@@reginashengulette2995....I feel the same way that you do....he is becoming by least favorite judge.
@@reginashengulette2995 Judge Mathis thinks he is slick. He thinks he know All Game.He won't let nobody disagree with him !But l like the show! There he go again!!! Putting somebody out!
@@charlenemitchell1499 Right! I keep complaining about his antics, but I keep coming back for more. Lol!
Y'all young DISRESPECTFUL kids. That's why you helping up for her ungrateful and disrespectful Azz.
She should have got the agreement in writing frfr.. She had said she didn't want the car but yet repossessed the car... It was lowkey dirty to do that and you saw at the end the that girl felt betrayed... She was extremely petty for that especially if she had been paying her...
Well why didn't she just call the auntie instead. We already know the the auntie and mother have issues. She could've let the auntie know that her mom was going to use it for a good reason. We don't know what her mother could've did.
Thats fair but in one voice she claimed she cared for her and another voice she is suing when she did not Default on payments and she got the car fixed so obviously she would have fixed the window... Hopefully they can patch up their relationship because that car eventually ages a family bond never dies...
Right I agree I mean the girl was in surgery she could of waited til she got out. Like she said before she wasn't using the car she did that based on the fact that she didn't like her mother
And especially since the girl pretty much rebuilt the car through repairs. Whew!
At first I was like the girl is unappreciative but by the end, auntie low down! That wasn’t right at all
Cousin/Auntie was dead *** wrong! She didn't even give her an opportunity to pay after her release from the hospital. I wish she had not made that comment at the beginning of the case about Cousin/Auntie because it gave JM leverage. He was in his feelings after that. Cousin/Auntie admitted she is a good person. Why punish her then for something she was trying to rectify? Mark my words - Cousin/Auntie is going to need little cousin at some point and she's going to have to eat humble pie. Little cousin, God's got you!
I feel bad for the defendant. She was in foster system at 12 so sad. GOD bless her and her children abundantly.
Most of the time I agree with JM.. Defendant should of got repairs and $$ paid due to illegal repossession. Perfect example how your attitude effects the outcome.
The problem is that your mother could have got stopped by a police officer. The car would have got towed the registration would have got suspended And your license ,also you do not lend ppl with a driver's license your car regradless . That's just the law. Because no insurance company will pay in case of an accident.
At the end the audience member (lady in white right corner) turned around lik o sh*t it’s about to go down
Lol I saw that
lol
Let me hit replay, I missed that. Lol
Lol! 😆 Doyle was ready!!
😂😂😂 now I’ve gotta rewind!
Yeah had a cousin like that she always the first to wanna try to help. But she a slick, conniving, sneaky, phoney person. Try to play innocent but really has a motive. I hope she stays away from her "aunt". That was low down of her.
Aunte is low down dirty wrong! Reap what u sow
Amen
No way you can be that gorgeous 😍 😘
@Jordan Blk how is she taking kindness for weakness. She didn’t even visit her in the hospital. She could’ve came and did the errands for the children. There are so many things the cousin could’ve done. Her payments were on time and she was maintaining the car. She ended up in the hospital during the time she was going to get it fixed. The cousin could’ve taken the car to the shop for her and then go to the hospital and retrieved the money for the repair. Why take the car back? I don’t see a breach. She didn’t give her time to get the window fixed.
Dang I feel for the defendant in this case🥺! The aunt/cousin just wanted the car back. She should’ve talk to the niece and give her a timeline to make other arrangements. Smh
Nah, the aunt not right....
I feel for the young lady with the car-the end told me more about that Aunt, she is cold-hearted and knew how to play the role of a nice lady. She could have just taken the car and waited until the girl got out of the hospital.
That "Nice Lady" Role is Treacherous!!
The “auntie” could have definitely been more understanding. Especially after the defendant paid for all those repairs that I feel she shouldn’t have been responsible for anyway. She only had the car 2 months it was raggedy before she got it.
Next time get a car from a used car lot. She want the luxury of having a car. Cars have problems, it requires maintenance. Let your mother go get you a car. She is an ingrate. She always reverts back to the fact that she has done nothing for her when she did all these things even though with stipulations, she did it when none else did. Learn to be more responsible.
"Been there, done that." Only my outcome with two nieces was totally different. When they went into foster care, due to their mother's untimely death and an MIA daddy, my family and I got them out of the system ASAP and from that point, my own mother, etc. raised them to adult-hood. Today, both are accomplished women and productive in society. That is all that we ever wanted--to love them and give them the same opportunities that we were given. Dysfunctional families, with family support, guidance and love CAN be broken. I absolutely "feel" for those that never received that chance.
It's messed up what the "Auntie" did to her "Niece." I want to foot the bill.
her aunt doesn't owe her nothing, take care of yourself. Go and purchase your own car.
The niece obviously wasn’t appreciative of the help she was getting.
Yo lmao the auntie didnt owe her a thing. She need to buy her own car
@@epp.5593 we know she don't but since the aunt cared so much and wanted to help, then help! Not give someone something and take it back the moment you see their sick, down and in the hospital. Especially after fixing up a car the aunt knew was a lemon, the niece made her payments, told her about the window and had a date to get it fixed. She's in the hospital and the kids need food to eat and the mom is the only one around so it seems to get the kids groceries, I mean unless the aunt wanted to be of some help but she was focused on material, things of this world. Praying for all of them though
I thought the defendant had an attitude at the beginning but at the end I felt so bad for her. I nearly started crying when she did. Veronica is cold af.
She the family member that "helps"so she can tell everyone about the "help" smh
yes!
9/10 cases: Backstory about family drama, rough childhoods, and (often) crack ... all of which have nothing to do with the case at hand!! But I love the human interest element.
Yes! Since I’ve been watching Judge Mathis so much more, I realized that these most of the people need counseling, not court!
I pray that God will favor this young lady, someone help her get a car for her and her children.🙏
I love how he keeps driving home the point that she’s done more for the defendant than her own mother smh
Yep!!
But it’s the truth
@@debbiewyatt853 exactly, both them at wrong
@@debbiewyatt853 No it isn’t. This woman was scamming. She was trying to get someone else to pay for the repairs on the car so she could take it and sale it elsewhere.
@DeDe W. That makes no sense. The aunt was paying a $442 car note and only charging the defendant $200 car payment. And the aunt was paying the insurance for the car!! How was she scamming when she paying all that money to help out that ungrateful little girl?? Smh.
You're not supposed to let someone who doesn't have a license drive a car no matter what the circumstances... I don't feel bad for her at all. She thinks somebody owes her something and that's not how life works. You want to blame somebody blame your mom
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You are so Right!!! If her mom got in an accident her Aunt s insurance would been raised so high if not maybe even canceled or she would have had to report it stollen so she would not be held responsible and the fact is the car was still the Aunts car if in fact the window was broke she should have called her aunt when it happened and told the car had damages Everybody know if the car is in your Name you are fully responsible for it and anything that hapoens with it
That was so wrong of the cousin to take advantage of the young lady. She was paying for the car and intended to get the window fixed. I hope she's able to get her a car soon and not deal with the cousin after this mess.
She had the money, the car repaired and everything!
I felt the pain of that woman, and that wasn't defamation it was the truth.
KARMA IS AWAITING
Yea cousin petty cause she don’t like her mother
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@@biggboi3932 right
Exactly!
She wouldn't gave her the car
She took the car...while the lady was in surgery???!! I’m floored. That was so cruel.
I don't think she should of won if the agreement was that she keep up with it while she has it and she had an appointment to get it fixed but ended up in the hospital. She should of gave her a chance once she got out the hospital instead of taking it. Then the defendant got things fixed on it so now someone is riding in a car I dont think thats right
Right suspect she wanted to give it to her daughter in college.
@@tonybox77 she just didn’t want to pay the money to fix it. She’s Shystie and karma is gonna get her
Life doesn't always deal us comfortable or easily manageable situations that afford us nice feelings about the people around us. The kindness and understanding of other people is a great thing, but at the end of the day, we each have to be responsible for ourselves and can't fault others for doing the same. In the big picture here there is no loss of life or limb, just a hard lesson learned, IMO.
I’ve been scrolling forever looking for a “facts only” finally found you.
Indeed
This was the hardest episode to watch. Just left me tears for both sides. My sentiments and prayers go out to their family. Lord, completely and restore the relationships, as only you know how.
The girl cursing her aunt after the case was over tho!!! 😱 The girl found a way to have 3 kids so she can find a way to get a car! It’s NOT her aunts responsibility/obligation to help her with ANYTHING....via verbal or written agreement🤷🏽♀️
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I don't like Mathis.. But I really don't like that wig.. and yet, she has too many kids.. where's her husband? I don't get why people think that kids don't need/deserve both parents.
If she had uncrossed her arms, dropped the attitude and looked at the judge when he was speaking to her, i think he would have received her better
Judge Mathis is just SNOOTY,and MEAN,and Make DUMB RULINGS With his Ms. HATTIE On Tyler Perry Shows Looking self
@@oliviaanderson6720 FACT! He can be so cold & mean & rude. He always want to talk about “white judges” & his ass is just as ridiculous.
@@ariamarshall5161 EXACTLY 👍🏾♥️
Moral of the story is, don't let everyone"help" you. All help ain't help.
I'd rather uber and take the bus then deal with all that drama.
her & her mom are twins
From experience, relatives think it's your obligation to help them doesn't matter how ungrateful they are. Being grateful doesn't cost anything! Plus technically she breached the contract letting her mother drive.
The aunt is splitting hairs and being completely UNREASONABLE.
Can I pay you 200.00 a month and drive your car? Can you pay the rest of the note and pay the insurance? Oh and can I let my momma drive it?! Pleeeeaaasssse?!!! Tfooh!!!
She was very generous. The niece is disrespectful and rude.
The auntie wasn't using the car anyway so paying $200 a month was HELPING the aunt bc it was less $$ out the aunt's pocket. I mean, I'm putting that big factor into it. Plus the aunt knew the car needed work, after a fire. That car will never be the same!
@th1smomentisfate yeah but what I'm saying is this benefitted the aunt as well by saving her on the monthly car payment. Niece was rude, especially at the end. But they both had a win-win out of the situation until the aunt took it back
@th1smomentisfate apparently the niece took a risk too of having the car taken away bc it was the aunts car and losing all the money she put into it. And guess what? It happened 🤷♀️
Also, I can guarantee you that the aunt didn't insure the niece on her policy, just left the insurance policy the way it was so no extra charge for the aunt
I felt that at the end she was mad asf I would to especially if I am doin everything that you said to do but in emergency situation the aunt could of let her slide smh: and she said she wasn’t even using the car
Exactly
She didn't do everything right. She let her momma drive the car...
@@orlandotruitt5997 yep, with no license 😬
Honestly, I think that the niece has some entitlement issues and is ungrateful. 1) The aunt does not owe her anything. She allowed the niece to use her car, which she was still paying for. The niece received the car for 1/2 what the aunt's monthly payment was and was required to keep it maintained. It was the niece's responsibility to let the aunt know that the car had been damaged and that she was going to get it fixed. 2) The niece still doesn't get that she was driving that car for her and her children's benefit. If you can hop in and drive, you can take care of it. So, if that care broke down at mile 2, either get it fixed or take it back to the aunt (especially considering that she knew that it had been unused for a while). 3) No one took anything from her and her kids. The niece used the car. She would have been on that bus for those two months if it was not for the aunt. 4) The aunt showed way more restraint than me. I would have knocked her teeth in if she would have cursed me like that.
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Uuummmmm she did let her know the car was damaged didn’t you hear her say she told her she was going to fix the window
I totally agree with you. Facts.
That aunt played her! Gave her a car she knew needed work and once all that was fixed and that girl made two months of payments she came and took it at first chance she got, during a time when she was down in the hospital.
Defendant didn’t get enough of a chance to explain herself lol
💀 @ everyone staring at her white wig when she walked in 🤣
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When that thing walked in ahead of her, I knew this was going to be a good one.😂
The niece been through a lot you can tell. Her aunt could have let it slide that one time.
I hope the defendant uses this a motivation. It seems like she’s been dealt a bad hand. May God bless her 🙏🏽
The young cousin was blaming the wrong person. The older cousin was trying to do her a favor. She's not responsible of taking care of her responsibilities.
The way Judge Mathis spoke about that woman's mother was disrespectful. He didn't ask about the father which is the only business he had. That woman should've been able to keep the car. No credit company would've done her like this.
Who needs enemies when you have family like that. Talk about kicking someone when they’re down. I hope she never speaks to that bitter woman again.
God please, and protect bless the young lady and her children abundantly!! In Jesus's name Amen!😢 Please like if you'll agree with me in prayer for her guys?
I dont think most people get it, regardless if she may not like her mother you let her drive the car once theres most likely a second time & then if there was an accident whose liable. Not the mother or her. its her cousin!
These folks don’t get that at all-smh!
Ew , I did not want to hear her swallow like that 😂
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My thought too! 💭
Right! Thought it was just me
Judge Mathis wasn’t fair I’m a couple minutes in this & he’s already taking the Aunt side without hearing that form out.. NOT FAiR!!!
You’re just reminding her that her mother doesn’t care, how sad.
I saw it as him redirecting the blame to the right person. If her mother truly cared, she would've been there. Any support the cousin offered is out of consideration.
@@aubreynaarcher8916 I see it that way too. I’m sensitive to parental traumas though and feel for her. Also I think that’s the mother right behind her.
So disappointed with judge Mathis . He’s going to look back and regret his actions.
Black queens wit blonde hair usually bring pure entertainment 🤣🤣
Looks awful.
@@rmills807 🤣🤣
Dang, that Defendant need to get her temper under control. I see both their sides. It’s sad when family members try to help each other and then end up in court.
In the beginning, I thought the defendant was taking advantage of the Plaintiff. In the end, I felt like the plaintiff intentionally took advantage of the defendant. She knew she was in the hospital and she wanted the car back because she knew it was fixed. There was no breach in the contract, except by her. She said it herself, the car was just sitting there at her house. This proves that she knew the car was messed up before she lent it to her cousin. As soon as she knew it was fixed and her cousin was in the hospital, she swooped in to take it back and used the defense of "breach of contract" when really she just knew she could actually use the vehicle. You will never get ahead in life trying to tear someone down, especially your own family.
IDK why but the defendant is the type of woman that I usually date, she is trying to do the right thing, despite of her traumatic past and current issues that life throws at her . I see the broken flower pot but I'm mesmerized by the beautiful flower inside.
Maybe someone will find her social media handle for you....
The aunt did her wrong. She had a life and death emergency and her mother was the only person that could of attend to her kids at the time.
Everybody mad at the cousin! But not the mother! If the mother was so concerned about her daughters condition she should've paid her expenses while she was in the hospital! Bottom line her cousin was looking out for her, we all have bills. Idk why people feel like when you do something nice for someone, and unfortunate things happen you have to take an L.
I am snowblind from looking at the Plaintiff's wig.
She feels too entitled !! How about get a damn job and catch the bus until you can get your own car smh. Poor auntie
I don’t feel sorry for her if her aunt had rules and she broke them while the aunt is still paying the other half for the car then she has the right to take it . Second if she needed groceries she should have asked her aunt to bring her some .
The aunt knew she was in the hospital and the girl said after the hospital she had dates to pay they were already set up that aunt was just being an asshole you reap what you sow
I wonder if Judge mathis ever looks back at some of his cases like this to see how rude mean and Pathetic he is , sometimes he is just down right nasty. I guess in this case he didn't really care 🤔🤨
That girl knows how the aunt feels about her mother, that’s the main reason behind taking the car. She should’ve never brought her mom to court with her that’s how she lost her case. Judge Mathis would have favor with her
Poor girl those tears felt true, the auntie is probably a person who helps just to feel good about her self , do one think she dislikes and she reneges.
She should have let her know that the windshield was damaged. Her finding her vehicle like that with no prior knowledge or explanation left her to draw her own conclusions.
I learned my lesson when I was offered a car. When people want to offer you something, and you accept it, they'll always rub it in your face.
Yall feel sorry for the defendant because she cried. But yall forgot THAT quick how she said the cousin didn't do shit for her.. but her own mother abandoned her. I DON'T FEEL SORRY for her
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Not sure why folks defending the defendant. They clearly didn't see the same case I did. She seems to feel that her relatives owe her something and they don't. IF she had the right attitude, more people might be willing to help.
I have a chronic born illness and have been there before (in the hospital, late on bills) and all I can say is SOMETIMES FAMILY AIN'T FAMILY.... and with that being said keep being STRONG AND PUSHING FORWARD 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽