He didn’t take her out one time in public and asked her for $1,000. He wasn’t in a relationship with her. He was using her for money, period. She’s beyond naive.
@@VettGirl66 She at the end is still delusional talking about she cared for him! He didn’t take you out one time in 9 months, she is so easy to manipulate I pray for her moving forward
I’m embarrassed for this lady. She’s in her thirties and got bamboozled by a man who was clearly not into her. All of the signs were there that he wasn’t interested but she ignored them smh
Ladies PLEASE stop giving men money. If they have to borrow from you, then you don't need them in your life. If you as a woman can work and support yourself, then WHY can't men do the same? That is what they are out here trolling for: women who are stupid and desperate enough to buy them. No man has EVER asked me for money. That is because they know they are NOT getting a penny from me. If he even fixes his mouth to ask, I would get rid of him in the next breath.
Seriously! But, in some communities, that is the expectation, unfortunately. In fact, men in some communities seem to believe their value as men is determined by the number of women that are willing to support them financially.
@SamuelGBerman I mean I feel bad that she doesn't know her worth. She is trying to "buy" a man's love and we all know how that will eventually turn out!
At the end she's saying he was her spouse and you take care of the people you care deeply for 😳 girl. He was not your spouse. Let alone your man. You weren't even dating. Do better.
POF website is FULL of liars of people who have relationships already, this girl I used to work with went through something similar to the Plaintiff but she wasn't as naive
It was at that moment when the plaintiff gave her closing remarks, I realized the plaintiff is missing a few screws. The fact she was in love with this guy and referred to him as a "spouse" 🤦♀️
I didn't even leave a comment on here bc u said exactly what I was going to say. Only thing I would add is how he saw her coming. Imagine meeting her n talking with that giggling, she seems like an easy target for a creep like him
that slimeball actually thinks hes gods gift, he actually thinks its her fault for falling for his slimeball actions by lending him the money, he actually thought the court would side with him, thats how delusional he is
I'm amazed and perplexed at the number of women who give money to alleged boyfriends. If they really want to give/loan money to a freeloader, they should give only a much as they can afford to lose.
Yes ma’am, at 32, I can confirm that the pickings are slim…but not this slim🤣 Also, he doesn’t want her “painting a picture”. He’s a trash person who took advantage of her weakness. If he were a standup guy, he would’ve walked even if that initially hurt her feelings.
OMG her laughing is so annoying.. like how is giving someone $1000.00 you're not even in a relationship funny.. Never been on a date according to her or spent time together but yet this doesn't raise a red flag.
It’s extremely hard for me to feel sorry for her when it’s a big joke. She’s laughing about it & just generally acting foolish/stupid. It really must be something about her, even her ex or current husband doesn’t want her. And she’s already into ‘spouse’ mode in her head about that slime ball sitting on his girl’s couch!
“You’d do anything for your spouse” But he wasn’t your spouse, he wasn’t even your bf 🤣🤣 I’m amaze how she has the boobs to say that when she was being intimate with this dude while she was still married or so call in the process of leaving her “spouse” 😂🤦🏻♀️ what’s more hilarious is how she went back to her spouse or still with him. That’s awkward as heck.
The Judge almost cornered the defendant when she made that remark about "So you figure out she's not for you but you can't wait to fleece her out of a thousand dollars?" If he objected to the word "fleece," he would almost be admitting it was a loan and he should pay her back.
@17:25 “you will do anything for your spouse”??? He was not even close to being your spouse. In fact, you are married to someone else. SMH 🤦🏾♀️ #harshlessons
The end of this was so awesome. The judge bantering back-and-forth with her husband about how successful their children are, and how they just want them to become something less successful so they could be useful to them as adults.
“They are criminally still together” What does that even mean? I have a feeling she’s not the only girl he owes money! The judge nailed it on the head where he just finds vulnerable/ugly girls that he can smooth talk and get money out of!
She’s incredibly immature and naive . The little faces she’s making while he speaks shows me she’s still trying to impress him. He used her which POF is known for.
Absolutely Absurd. I bow out quickly if a guy doesn't plan outing/ dates in a PUBLIC place. Or text ALL the damn time. Stop dealing with broke/cheap/ low effort men. Seriously.
This poor woman was desperate for love.. he did not want her. She should have seen that and never given him a penny.... The guy was too embarrassed to be seen with her to even take her on a date. And why are her earrings super huge???
"My vinacular is spectacular" Yeah buddy, your rhyme is a crime. Foolish woman for sure, but you conned her out of a $1000 without ever intending to pay her back when penny. You ain't no real man!
She Laughing Like This Shit Funny, He Clearly Played On Her Mind & Heart And Used Her. I Hope This Queen Can Find Love Within Herself Before She Tries To Love Someone Else.
She called this guy her “spouse”??? 😂😂😂 So was her husband really her “husband” then?😂😂😂 Does she know what those words mean?😂😂😂 Damn… She need to start off in the fishbowl. She ain’t ready for the sea 🌊🌊🌊😂😂😂
The one thing to keep notes on is that it's okay to listen to sound advice instead of always having an answer! You find out more things by taking heed to advice than you do by thinking you know everything!
Wow. Just, wow. The self inflicted trauma from being naïve is really sad. Super sad…. Deep conversations caused her to do this??? She must be the type to date men in prison. She’s that type. I’m just paralyzed in embarrassment for her and all she’s doing is laughing. She fell in love over deep conversations??? This is crazy!
He didn’t take her out one time in public and asked her for $1,000. He wasn’t in a relationship with her. He was using her for money, period. She’s beyond naive.
No dates, she doesn’t ask what the money is for and she gave him $1000! I can’t! SMDH!
@@VettGirl66 She at the end is still delusional talking about she cared for him! He didn’t take you out one time in 9 months, she is so easy to manipulate I pray for her moving forward
Sounds like a married man to me. The fact that he never took her on a date is alarming
@@VettGirl666 months in after they were together 9 months? 🤦♂️WTF daaaang she trying to buy his love
@@leir2005 💯HUGE💥🚩
Never make a man tell you more than one time he doesn't want you...
Right! And what you see; is what you get. Trying to buy, mold, build, and change a Dusty person will always end badly.
I have let a man string me along but he never got my coin 😂
@@ayana188 lol, that's real sis
@@ayana188 men can tell when a woman is desperate
@@payableondeath9091 I know, that’s y it’s not good to show it… if he disappears then so be it… you’ll get over it
I’m embarrassed for this lady. She’s in her thirties and got bamboozled by a man who was clearly not into her. All of the signs were there that he wasn’t interested but she ignored them smh
Bamboozled?! She volunteered and made these choices
Desperate women in this world
And the way she kept laughing when nothing was funny😩
@@BriannaTshelle Nerves
Unfortunately, alot of women in her position will give up the loot, when all else fails. LADIES, STOP THINKING YOUR MONEY HOLDS SUCH POWER.
Ladies PLEASE stop giving men money. If they have to borrow from you, then you don't need them in your life. If you as a woman can work and support yourself, then WHY can't men do the same? That is what they are out here trolling for: women who are stupid and desperate enough to buy them. No man has EVER asked me for money. That is because they know they are NOT getting a penny from me. If he even fixes his mouth to ask, I would get rid of him in the next breath.
I agree with you and I'm a guy.
Seriously! But, in some communities, that is the expectation, unfortunately. In fact, men in some communities seem to believe their value as men is determined by the number of women that are willing to support them financially.
@@nondescriptnyc That makes absolutely no sense and I would never expect a woman to provide for me. Thanks for enlightening me on the issue.
THIS WHOLE COMMENT!!!
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I feel so bad for the Plaintiff, because I don't believe she learned her lesson!!!
Feeeeeel bad!? She is married and just handing $1k to random dudes online. Don’t feel a bit bad for her
@SamuelGBerman I mean I feel bad that she doesn't know her worth. She is trying to "buy" a man's love and we all know how that will eventually turn out!
“He was my everything” lmao girl this man never took you out. Theres no conversations that dang deep! She’s goofy lol
FR like what were they saying👀😳
She’s something but it’s not goofy
@@RileyCullen1
Well she's mighty green if not goofy.
At the end she's saying he was her spouse and you take care of the people you care deeply for 😳 girl. He was not your spouse. Let alone your man. You weren't even dating. Do better.
So this dude was concerned about her painting a bad picture of him and Then turns around and says "She fell for it"??? What an absolute loser
I think she’s more of a loser, who gives someone $1000? Not I said the P.I.G.
POF website is FULL of liars of people who have relationships already, this girl I used to work with went through something similar to the Plaintiff but she wasn't as naive
The name alone POF (Plenty Of Fish) is an insult to me I would never go on there or no other dating website!👎
She doesn’t understand and will do it again for GP…bless her for being simple
Not simple, she's desperate and pathetic.
She was married as well. Wow..
Totally agree
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Look at Douglass at the beginning complimenting his work wife on national TV lol
Rightttt I said oh lordddddd😂😂😂😂
That tickled me 🤣
I hollered!😂😂🤣😅😆🤣🤣
😂🤣
Yessssss!!!! 🤣🤣🤣 Love it!!
The way my draw dropped when she said 34. Poor women.
Yeah that shook me I was like ain’t no way
It can happen at any age when you don't see or don't want to see the signs.
This is how we all learn lessons, from our mistakes. She was just a little too old to still be learning them.
Yeah, so did mine.
It was at that moment when the plaintiff gave her closing remarks, I realized the plaintiff is missing a few screws. The fact she was in love with this guy and referred to him as a "spouse" 🤦♀️
Yeah that was crazy
She's definitely "off"
Agree! Insert Tamar Braxton’s “Chile please” meme here. Sis definitely needs some guidance. She’s too old for the foolishness.
@@busybeingcryssi she sure is.
While married 😐
She’s beyond help if she’s 34 and acting like this.🙄🤦🏽♀️ She’s sitting up here giggling while she’s looking like a whole fool on national tv.
whole fool! so tru
I didn't even leave a comment on here bc u said exactly what I was going to say. Only thing I would add is how he saw her coming. Imagine meeting her n talking with that giggling, she seems like an easy target for a creep like him
She I'd Green and Goofy...where are her people?
She’s so ignorant and should have not gotten a penny back so that she would learn a harder lesson.
@@allnaturalindigo4893 looking like a whole fool, if I knew her I’d say I didn’t.
It’s sad really, that people have so low self-esteem that they feel they need to pay for somebody to like them
And as pretty as she is, it’s sad.
I am 35 and appalled at the Plaintiff’s’ behavior!!!!
I'm 31.. I use to be a simp for certain girls in my 20s but wasn't as bad like the Plaintiff
Judge your daughters are so blessed to have you as their Mom
She is the kind of person you want to have as a role model.
that slimeball actually thinks hes gods gift, he actually thinks its her fault for falling for his slimeball actions by lending him the money, he actually thought the court would side with him, thats how delusional he is
Right
Douglas in this episode is killing me 🤣
I have just one word for this lady: DESPERATION
What about HIS behavior?
I'm amazed and perplexed at the number of women who give money to alleged boyfriends. If they really want to give/loan money to a freeloader, they should give only a much as they can afford to lose.
I can’t believe it either
Alleged is right. These dudes could care less about these clueless and stupid broads. He wanted her pockets, not her.
That doesn't even make sense... she should take the judges advice
How about don't give $ to men. The men who need financial help need to ask male friends/ male family members.
In this case, he wasn't even her boyfriend and she gave him $1000. What is going on?
Damn judge went hard. But she needed to hear it. I will stay alone vs dealing with this foolishness he ain’t even cute.
Yes ma’am, at 32, I can confirm that the pickings are slim…but not this slim🤣 Also, he doesn’t want her “painting a picture”. He’s a trash person who took advantage of her weakness. If he were a standup guy, he would’ve walked even if that initially hurt her feelings.
She said spouse, which goes to show how far along in the relationship she was in her head.
I caught that as well and was like wtf did she just call him
OMG her laughing is so annoying.. like how is giving someone $1000.00 you're not even in a relationship funny.. Never been on a date according to her or spent time together but yet this doesn't raise a red flag.
Definitely annoying laughing. Maybe it’s nervous energy or embarrassment. But definitely silly and annoying.
And why are we still “lending” men money with hopes of actually getting it back?….🙄😒
there are so many apps that will spot you a $1000 there's no need to borrow it from someone unless you don't intend to repay it
POF_ PLENTY OF FOOLS
The plaintiff did not learn anything. She is going to do it again.
And again 🤦🏽♀️ praying for her
This man didn't want her, didn't want to be seen with her and clearly used her because he knew he could get it with little effort! 🙄
💯 Exactly
he's probably living with another woman
@@Nevaeh1 right. I hate men that prey on women with low self esteem! It's one of the weakest things a man can do in my opinion.
I've done some dumb things in relationships in my life but DAAAAMMNN this case was a jawdropper!
she has such a low self esteem its mindblowing!!!!
And she still haven’t learned her lesson 🤦🏽♀️
The fact that she finds that funny is the reason it’ll happen again.
Pof.....Plenty of fools more like it 🤣🤣🤣
Plaintiff still married and giving money to someone she claims she’s in love with. She has mad issues.
"I had every intention to pay her back."
There it is!!! Right there!!! He just admitted that it was a loan!!!
It’s extremely hard for me to feel sorry for her when it’s a big joke. She’s laughing about it & just generally acting foolish/stupid. It really must be something about her, even her ex or current husband doesn’t want her. And she’s already into ‘spouse’ mode in her head about that slime ball sitting on his girl’s couch!
"your spouse" Did anyone catch that? He isn't your spouse.
"Spouse" This chick is delusional 🙄 She will be doing this again. She literally have "sucker" on her forehead.
Lmao
She’s married?!??? Sis., You brought this on yourselffff.
Take a shot every time she says, "whatever whatever"
“You’d do anything for your spouse”
But he wasn’t your spouse, he wasn’t even your bf 🤣🤣 I’m amaze how she has the boobs to say that when she was being intimate with this dude while she was still married or so call in the process of leaving her “spouse” 😂🤦🏻♀️ what’s more hilarious is how she went back to her spouse or still with him. That’s awkward as heck.
Did she say you would do anything for your spouse at the end? This dude was not your spouse or even your boyfriend.
There are so many people that get scammed on dating sites by individuals that are professional scammers that know how to prey on peoples loneliness.
Just because a woman is lonely does not make her stupid. This chick is just stupid.
The Judge almost cornered the defendant when she made that remark about "So you figure out she's not for you but you can't wait to fleece her out of a thousand dollars?" If he objected to the word "fleece," he would almost be admitting it was a loan and he should pay her back.
Without fleece he did say he owed her the money
he already said it was a gift, but yeah lol
@17:25 “you will do anything for your spouse”??? He was not even close to being your spouse. In fact, you are married to someone else. SMH 🤦🏾♀️ #harshlessons
Sad, they both have learned NOTHING!
Judge you know the score - once he don't want to take you out that means he out with someone else. "he's cute but he ain't all that" spot on Judge🤣🤣
SIS STILL WEARING FINGERWAVES AND THAT WAS ALL I NEEDED TO KNOW WHO I WAS DEALING WITH 😂
Damn. I don't know why I thought that She had her Hair going to the back like a Ball. Maybe because I just awakened. 😂
The end of this was so awesome. The judge bantering back-and-forth with her husband about how successful their children are, and how they just want them to become something less successful so they could be useful to them as adults.
His reason for a thousand dollars "just for a extra cushion" in other words a easy hustle LOL
Can’t be nice to guys like this when you’re not getting anything. Niceness becomes foolishness real fast
Lmao she said do anything for a spouse yet he did nothing for her please lady learn yo lesson YOU CANT BUY LOVE😅
Second hand embarrassment hearing the plaintiff talk.. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
This judge be letting everybody have it and the lady little turn up dance at the end 😂🤣‼️
What did Douglas do that he had to butter up the Judge like that?? 🤣
I’m 34 and I can’t even stand to hear her talk 😩😩 this is straight up foolishness smh
This girl embarrassed herself, I’d take the thousand dollar L though I’d never give a man money either so…
Exactly! And she’s laughing like this is funny . Wth
You have my great-grandmother's and cousin's name!!!
@@SandraCDavis
It’s my grandmother’s middle name
The defendant was counting on that too, I'm sure. Especially since she had a whole husband already.
“They are criminally still together”
What does that even mean?
I have a feeling she’s not the only girl he owes money! The judge nailed it on the head where he just finds vulnerable/ugly girls that he can smooth talk and get money out of!
She’s incredibly immature and naive . The little faces she’s making while he speaks shows me she’s still trying to impress him. He used her which POF is known for.
They're both messy. She's married and couldn't accept a single man didn't want to be in that drama and he took advantage of her feelings for him
The lost art of storytelling got lost because of....." whatever"
And "basically" and "da da da da da" 😩.
Absolutely Absurd. I bow out quickly if a guy doesn't plan outing/ dates in a PUBLIC place. Or text ALL the damn time. Stop dealing with broke/cheap/ low effort men. Seriously.
Never pop up unannounced at a guy's house. You're gonna get hurt.
Omg...if he doesn't take you out no red flags? Is she laughing because she's nervous? Wow, I hope she learns.
This man does not represent all of East Oakland, lol
She might be 30 something but the way she talks and behaves is 15
This poor woman was desperate for love.. he did not want her. She should have seen that and never given him a penny.... The guy was too embarrassed to be seen with her to even take her on a date. And why are her earrings super huge???
This girl is silly.
The entire case is a TOTAL CRINGE FEST, SMH 😠💯
I’ve never been more embarrassed for a stranger than rn 😩 sis u should’ve took that L in peace cuz boy I know ur ppls raging u 🤣
Judge: How old are you?
Plaintiff: I’m 34!
Judge: Um 😐
She is laughing is this a joke??? Girl please learn from this!!!🥴😵💫😳
"My vinacular is spectacular" Yeah buddy, your rhyme is a crime. Foolish woman for sure, but you conned her out of a $1000 without ever intending to pay her back when penny. You ain't no real man!
34 ?? i thought she was like 24 talking like that
I keep going back to this episode. JM ate his arse up, lol.
" A big merry-go-round of agony". Awful but honest!
He ask her for the money and she asked him in what denominations would he like it, WOW I AM SIGNING UP FOR THE POF DATING APP THIS AFTERNOON.😂💯
Lol
They were in pharmaceutical sales together lol
She Laughing Like This Shit Funny, He Clearly Played On Her Mind & Heart And Used Her. I Hope This Queen Can Find Love Within Herself Before She Tries To Love Someone Else.
The judge is trying to explain to her and she still looks confused 😕 2 the finger waves is a turnoff 😂
She just kept saying “whatever” 😒 I need my black women to do better. I was cringing as she talked and giggled about this fool like he was special🥴
The name of this episode should be "Clueless"
Or Whatever
& Desperate*
Or Plenty of tricks
She was just so desperate to be in love.
USER !!! You gotta be careful out here
The plaintiff has a good attitude and I hope she finds someone who values her. She seemed to have learned something atleast.
Yeah right. She still married and he’s a scrub
She called this guy her “spouse”??? 😂😂😂 So was her husband really her “husband” then?😂😂😂 Does she know what those words mean?😂😂😂 Damn… She need to start off in the fishbowl. She ain’t ready for the sea 🌊🌊🌊😂😂😂
Did she say you do anything for your spouse? The dude never even took her out!
😬very strange indeed
They would have had one rounded headed baby.
Why does she keep laughing, this is not funny. Very embarrassing on both ends. I hope she's learned from this.
exactly! she looks like a da*n fool, very embarrassing..smh
I asked the same thing but I honestly think that she’s laughing out of nervousness or anxiety
really ? she is embarrassed you saw it and everyone she realise she was dumb for gave him . And was stressed out !
I tend to laugh in stressful situations, or whenever I’m starting to trying to find a way to word things. I do hope she learned though
Douglas' face during this case was everything!!!
No man is worth my giving them that much money🙄
He's not a gigolo, he's a romance scammer!
I just love Judge Milian and Douglas’ relationship … Judge Judy could take hints on how to treat a bailiff/another human being
I agree. Poor Byrd.
The one thing to keep notes on is that it's okay to listen to sound advice instead of always having an answer! You find out more things by taking heed to advice than you do by thinking you know everything!
why are women always referred to as gold diggers, when so many cases like this are out there?
Because society is set up to demonize women no matter what, that is why.
That's a term that the brokest male group on the planet came up with because they can't compete with other males groups...js
@@beadoll8025 🤣🤣🤣#TRUTH
Plenty of broke fish. 🐟 🎣 🐠
-.- ugh what a catch this guy is. Glad I have no interest in pursuing relationships. One less way for people to try to get money put of me apparently
Wow. Just, wow. The self inflicted trauma from being naïve is really sad. Super sad…. Deep conversations caused her to do this??? She must be the type to date men in prison. She’s that type. I’m just paralyzed in embarrassment for her and all she’s doing is laughing. She fell in love over deep conversations??? This is crazy!
He's cute but he ain't all that...JM😂😂😂😂😂
I’ve been hearing a lot of girls saying men don’t take them on dates. Everything is on social media and just chillin at the house
she didn't even make it to his house until she came over to get her money back
If that is what these girls of today settle for (no dates and house chilling), then they deserve what they get.
She doesn't see her level of self esteem is making her love life low as well.
Holy moly at those hoops! 😮
This was REAL!!! Thanks Judge
Bruh's 'vernacular spectacular' walked his silly ass into admitting it was a loan five seconds into his testimony. Nice work slick!