The Disturbing Truth of Family Channels | The 8 Passengers Saga
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My world's on fire, how bout yours?
Never clicked on a yt notification so fast
David Kosiborod that’s the way I like it and I never get bored
Hello thanks for coming back from your hiatus 😅😍😚
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The fact that this was made 3 YEARS before anything was actually done is insane
Really sad. Those poor kids.
Sadly, if kids have even the minimal amount of clothing, food, and housing, then cps doesn't give a shit until someone becomes extremely hurt, like taken to the hospital, or something abusive becomes public.. even then it's a shoot in the dark and they may not step in to help
My thoughts exactly. Why wasn’t something done sooner? I’d never heard of Ruby until her arrest but she obviously had a reputation. And it’s obvious from these videos that the husband was a part. Where is his arrest warrant??
literally nothing gets done in child abuse cases if they appear well off. :( not even with sexual abuse, witholding of food, threats and violence@@MeOhMyOh2324
It actually hurts to listen to Russel blame himself for something like this...
Ruby is the kind of woman who doesn't want children, she wants babies, she wants to have power over her baby rather than help make them grow into a person
Exactly. It’s like she wants her kids to live for her rather than for her to live for her kids.
She has a hole in her soul and she tries to fill it with babies, but it's never enough, they eventually grow up and she doesn't like them anymote
She seems like she might have narcissistic personality disorder
Sounds like my mother
@Ezra Stardust r u ok
I cannot STAND when parents say things like food and a room and privacy are a "privilege". Having a life is not a privilege, they didn't fucking ask to be born
Yep. And especially in these "religious" families they only have as many children because their religion tells them to. I come from a family of 9... they only had us because of catholicism.
Fr they were killing their children as punishment it's insane😭
Well they have to say this otherwise they couldn’t live with themselves
Most definitely not food because food is a necessity. Not a room because they need a place to rest & or sleep which is also a necessity. But privacy, privacy is not a necessity but a luxury and is earned with children. I have to be able to trust my child for them to have privacy! And no I’m not talking about bathroom privacy that of which is completely different!
@@coffeecrimegal5968 I think privacy is a necessity for a kid. Especially if they're learning to ask for what they need and a little privacy is not the end of the world.
Imagine being a child having to share a classroom with 20 kids a day for 8 hours straight, 5 days a week, then come home and have to share family time, then go to their bedroom that they also share with a sibling.
If my kid comes to me and says can I be in my room for a little while, I'm gonna read or draw or watch tv that should be okay. The door, however, cannot be locked.
They're expressing to me they need their time and thats okay.
I believe there are healthy forms of privacy a kid should have because dealing with different people, especially siblings all day long, can be a lot. It's also important for their development and boundary setting. It can also teach them that its okay to ask for what they need when they need it and have those needs respected by others. Kids need time to think, they need time to digest the world around them, they're constantly absorbing all kinds of information and attitudes and it can be a lot for a kid. As grown ups we forget that kids need a moment too.
"You have no idea what real abuse is." My abusive parents said that EXACT SAME THING. It's terrifying that abusive people have no idea that they are actually abusive. I was also denied food as a child, had black pepper put in my mouth, was locked in the basement with the lights off, beaten with a metal spoon, had my mouth duct taped shut, had a diaper duct taped onto me when I accidentally wet the bet at age 7, was dragged out of bed by my ankle down a flight of stairs for leaving a cup in the sink before bed, had electronics taken away that I paid for with my own money, had to buy my own food and clothes at age 11 (also had to work at that age to buy those things), etc.. My head and ears were beat so often that I would get headaches and hear ringing for days. That doesn't even cover the emotional, spiritual, and religious abuse that I endured. If I ever complained about their treatment, I was told that I had no idea what real abuse was and that if I ever said anything to anyone, I would be sent to a juvenile detention center and then to jail. It was a horrible time growing up. I am so glad that I am an adult now. My heart aches for these children, because I know that they will have permeant scars from this forever. I was diagnosed with PTSD and anxiety when I was 22 years old. I still struggle with my mental health, 10 years later. Although I am free now, my childhood still haunts me. Stories like this bring back all the bad memories.
So sry you had to endure this.
I am so sorry that you endured this hideous torture.
I just don't understand why some people have kids if they're going to treat then like shit.
I am 64 years old. Apparently I cried for the 1st 3 months of my life, I was a tiny baby at birth.
My parents could very well have mistreated me since they must have been exhausted and felt they helpless.
But no, they nurtured and cared for me.
I never got a spanking that I can remember. I am so grateful to have has such parents.
I think I would have withered away if I has been beaten and treated as you were.
You must be such a strong person!!!
My heart breaks for you and I admire you, you are so brave!.
I wish you all the best, much love, joy, happiness and good health.
You deserve only the best.
Take good care of yourself and be safe.
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I’m so sorry for all that trauma you endured at the hands of your own parents. I’m sending you so much healing ❤️🩹 ,strength ,love,and Peace of mind. ❤❤❤
They have the idea. They just gaslight their kids.
So sorry that you had to go through this. I don't understand why some people even have children. I'm glad you're out of that environment and hope you continue to get better!
The fact that the children say “don’t film this”” don’t show that” “turn off the camera” but the parents ignore it and continue on is horrible
One of the biggest problems with family channels is kids are too young to consent to being filmed even if they say they are okay being filmed. But then there's these sociopaths that film their kids when they clearly say they don't want to be filmed. It's so disgusting.
It’s sad because, it’s not hard to turn your kids into cash cows.
@@LunaticTheCat hey, even sociopaths are better than these assholes
That shits a breach of privacy🤦🏻♂️ this why I don’t fuck wit y’all people
It's absolutely some of the most exploitative "vlogging" I've heard of. Where the hell is social services?
Do you want to get abandoned in a nursing home? Because this is how you get abandoned in a nursing home.
faxxx she also said her kids aren’t welcome to stay after they turn 18... like why would they want to stay there any longer?
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Abandoned in a nursing home is too nice for her.
@@sarah-zp4cu Exactly. My parents always tell me Im welcome to stay as long as I want.
"My hope is that she'll come home and be, oh man that was really painful being hungry all day..."
This video was a prophetic warning about her future arrest for having an extremely malnourished child who escaped being tied up and ran to neighbors.
I think it's the same kid right?
@@dezzyschannel3078i believe so
@@dezzyschannel3078 I think the one who escaped was a boy, but I'm sure they were all subjected to abuse
Ruby doesn't even seem like she likes her kids, let alone love them. She seems like the kind of person who had children because of societal expectations and not because she wanted them.
Im so glad the law has caught up to them.
I think she had kids only because she loves tormenting and inflicting abuse. You don't have 6 kids out of social pressure.
@@bbbb7940 - the father should be a arrested too. He knew
She only had children so she could have extensions of herself, not to mention playthings to hurt to her own black heart's desire. She loves abusing her kids just as much as she loves her ego, she's proud of being a terrible person.
She wanted accessories. Their was societal expectations too, but she strikes me as a narcissist (not a professional, just someone with way too many narcissistic people in my family) and for them they want something they can parade around in front of church members, social clubs, social media. “Look at my little dolls. They do what I tell them. They’re so well behaved and obedient.”
This dude, literally a stranger on the internet, is censoring the kids' faces out of respect while their mom exploits them mercilessly. Yeah she's the best mom in the worst way I guess.
And basically all of her followers only follow her because they think her oldest boy who is 15 (a minor) is attractive and its sooo messed up. Him and most of her kids dont even like being on camera.
@@bella-rj2km most people that call him attractive is normally his age
And what’s makes matters worse is that she films random people without them even realizing sometimes
j aubrey always censors kids, you'll see this in his other videos too. He's very respectful of children's rights.
He showed two of them, and something he obviously shouldn't have.
The fact that her daughter assumed that her mom wanted her to put on her bra in front of the camera is the saddest part. She expected her mother to make her share such a private moment it is wrong.
Imagine the type of horrific shit that must happen off-camera if the kids follow enough orders to actually think that that type of thing is within the realm of possibility.
i was embarrassed enough to get my first bra, never mind it being broadcasted to the world!
I know it's off topic but I'm your 1000th like
i remember going shopping for my first bra i hated it i can't imagine going tru that infront of millions of people to see especially when you're not familiar with your body yet she's a horrible parent scratch that horrible person
I remember going through puberty as a girl, and I wasn’t even comfortable with telling my mom things. I can’t imagine how it must be to have it all recorded.
This video is three years old and Ruby Franke and Jodi Hildebrandt were only JUST arrested and charged. That speaks volumes to the failures of the system. This abuse has been evident and reported for years...
The thing Is there is so much evidence that they've had to organise it all for court...
Ruby Franke was arrested very recently, and charged with 6 counts of child abuse. Her friend, Jodi Hildebrandt, was also arrested on 6 counts of child abuse. They are being held in jail with no bond. Justice will be served to these horrible women!
This is why some kids don’t talk to their parents anymore once they have freedom.
That's what my sister and I did.
I'm hoping these kids will do the same thing.
Leah Maier one of her kids is already 17 i think, i wonder how him possibly never contacting them again when he’s 18 would affect their channel and their audiences view of them
@@katyameowmeow well, I do hope him and his siblings will make the right decision for themselves. And I do hope the family channel is either deleted by them or by UA-cam so they can work on problems in their own lives without social media getting involved.
It would be absolutely hilarious to see the 17 year old just leave and never speak to them again when he turns 18
The privilege of dinner amazes me.
Tv is a privilege, games are a privilege.
Dinner is a *necessity.*
PREACH
CACTUSES!!
100000%
Dinner is not a necessity, people can survive on 2 meals a day.
@@mphomagingxa7310 yeah lunch and dinner are generally those two meals. Trying to sleep with hunger pains is one of the worst things you can experience.
So glad to see that Ruby has been arrested for aggravated child abuse. Sort of ironic that her videos could, should and ought to be used as evidence against her in a court of law. I hope these kids can find a stable home and a loving environment.
Holy cr*p i just realized the part where ruby and Kevin defend their abuse by saying it was actually "advised" by a "therapist" they are talking about JODI aren't they?!??! Yikes!!!! 😱😱
A lot of people are just realizing this 😫 I saw someone else bring it up, it’s like 😮😮😮😮😮 oh my god, probably!
Yes.
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*On advice of the Church of Latter-day Saints
the fact that their kids have the guts to express how the filming is harming their social lives/mental health and she STILL shuts them down ON CAMERA is so tone-deaf and hard to watch :/
hunter amos honestly, with how she treats them I’m surprised they haven’t acted out more just to get away
Abusive parent thinking patterns 101: My version of reality is the only valid one because i'm the parent with the power. It sucks because those kids seem smart and aware enough to fully understand everything that it's doing to them
this isn't just tone-deaf but literal child abuse
...Has anyone put any thought into the possibility of most these situations could be staged for the camera/Channel?
the mental abuse is so horrific
She’s probably looked into the lens of that camera more than she’s looked into the eyes of her own children
Oh man that true
The worst part is that you're probably right.
Dude that is cold. True but cold
Now THATS a thought
and that's the depressing truth...
When she says " i don't think our viewers know that" means she herself knows how wrong these punishments sound. She is aware of what she is purposely doing.
Exactly!
Ruby: I don't think our viewers know that 😊
*realizes how it makes her look*
*doesn't edit it out anyway*
Like she's not even just evil and abusive. She's stupid too
My takeaway: if you're white and blonde and you have nice teeth and an expensive house, the authorities really drag their heels on checking up on allegations of abuse.
That's really sad because apparently the family and people that lived near them alerted the authorities for a number of years.
And a woman... that probably played a part in the delays... there can be a strong bias to automatically assume women are good parents, hence why most mothers automatically get custody in divorces.
Apparently the authorities did visit multiple times. If they see no evidence of severe harm or neglect during a visit, there's not a lot for them to do.
yep 😬😬
@Diggidydave13 it's a bit more complicated than that. The father was complicit in this, as per this video. The family courts award custody to mothers, yes out of the assumption that they are better care givers (and thats not just the courts, society, too, hence all of this "women should be home makers" trad attitudes- and *that* attitude most often comes from men themselves.) But mainly that is due to the fact that if they ask the kids if they want to live with mum or dad, they choose mum 9 times out of ten.
Interestingly, Female judges are shown to be harder on women, in all courts but are particularly harder on them and fairer in family courts, presumably because the fluttering eyelashes that work on old dude judges doesn't fly.
"i as a parent, im not responsible for how my child feels" we're off to a great start.
The duty of a parent is to care for their child to the best of their ability.
To claim that the mental well-being (that’s what feelings relay) of your child isn’t your responsibility is fuckheaded at best.
SAME!!!!! 🤣😳
Ikr
15 mins in and I legit think this woman is a monster.
What kind of mom threatens to take food from their child as punishment? Or refuses to bring their 5 year old lunch at school?
This hits a little too close to home
So many abusive parents talk about how "kids need to be taught to be resilient". That's not resilience you see in your child, that's trauma.
Kids are by nature pretty resilient so this doesn't make sense. You really want resilient children? Nuture them, when they fail let them know its ok so long as they get back up, introduce new activities often.
cinematic nerd I was agreeing with her and adding my thoughts on this train wreck of a family soooo.... step off.
Yea I like to say you get resilient children when you teach them healthy coping and problem solving techniques
your kids dont need to be strong. they're kids. the point of providing for them is that they arent strong
@@itslapisnotbob8368 Mhm, kids aren't strong and kids SHOULDN'T be strong, they just have to enjoy their childhood and be as much as possible
Came back here after hearing the news of Ruby’s arrest, to be honest it took CPS and police WAY too long even with ample of evidence that they willingly posted online. I dread to imagine what was actually happening behind the camera.
You called this one 3 years ago. Nailed it.
"Ruby Franke (born 1982) is a former American family vlogger who ran the now defunct UA-cam channel called 8 Passengers. On August 30, 2023, she was arrested in Washington County, Utah, and charged with six counts of aggravated child abuse under Utah law."
She is definitely going to be one of those parents that get confused when their kid moves out at 18 and never speaks to them again
There's also a decent chance she will decide that her parenting job is "done" when her kids move out. And she won't call them either.
My father was like this. I moved out at 16 and he was like “but why”. He did not like my very very long list of why I refused to stay living with him which basically boiled down to “you were so abusive that I look forward to your funeral so we can have a party”
the two older ones did
@@queenk.csmith1571 did they make a video about their experiences?
from what i seen no maybe they will come out about it maybe not but i can tell they are done with being on UA-cam
Why does she believe so strongly that they shouldn’t have technology when she is going around with a camera in their face so she can post their life online
She wants to control the narrative
@@codde5489 exactly. she doesn’t want to risk anyone filming her secretly or smth. it’s so sick :(
In case they film her !
So they can't call for help.
Probably so they dont do anything to jeopardize their youtube, aka income
She took away their phones for good so the kids wouldnt tell what was happening. Id never heard of these people until 2/3 days ago. She's evil and extremely narcissistic, and the husband seems to ignore what he knows is happening around him 😡
God......the fact that after your video it still took 3 years for those poor children to be free from this monster.........heartbreaking.
She’s truly a psychopath, who in the right mind says “we should’ve been in that crash” and then edits the video and thinks yup this is the one.
No, don't associate a mental disorder with her. She's just an absolutely horrendous parent.
@@rayadawn3535 she can both be a horrendous parent and have a personality disorder. They are not mutually exclusive and mental disorders don't excuse bad behavior
Even if she's not a psychopath or sociopathic, she could have some tendencies. We shouldn't diagnose someone and it may not be as extreme as that, but there's definitely something wrong with her lol.
"Yup this is the one 😀"
Socio*
@@rayadawn3535 Mental disorders cause terrible people. A person can be terrible without them, and someone can power through a disorder to become a good person, but it is an offset by default. You are worse off at the beginning.
She really doesn't like that son. She took away his phone, put him in a correction camp, and took his whole room away.
Sky dev That camp does conversation therapy. Wouldn’t be surprised if she thought he was gay and that’s part of why she sent him there.
She doesn't like her other son either. She always complains that he's whiny and over emotional. I'm sure in a few years hell be treated as bad as his older brother...
She doesn't seem to like any of her kids
I feel so bad for that poor guy...
Okay maybe I'm reading to much into this because I've been doing a project on gay conversion camps for my human sexuality class but that camp she sent him to feels like one of those. I could be wrong but I'm getting that vibe.
Update: on 9/6/2023 Ruby Franke has been charged with 6 felony counts of child abuse and her non-adult children are in the care of Utah's Family and Child Services
Tldr: she's fucked, but not for long since she's a white woman after all.
How scary is this with the arrest of Ruby Franke, and we know that it was at least Russell who was tied up and being starved. Praying This mother never gets out of jail.
They released the bodycam footage, one of the little girls (idk which) was cowering in a closet and it took the police over an hour to get her to come out cause she was so shit scared, straight up evil
That reduced me to tears, especially when the girl very carefully reached for the pizza the 1st responders have her. There must have been times when food was taken away from her. It broke my heart to see her very thin arms.
BTW, it took more than 4 hours to get her out of the closet.
"You have no idea what real abuse is" sounds exactly like something abusive parents would say
@@izzfizz9691 I'm so sorry that happened to you. There's no excuse ever for parents to treat children like that it's absolutely disgusting.
I guess coming from some hardcore abuse every day, this doesn't SEEM like abuse, but that's cause my parents used the same lines on me starting 3 years old, so frankly I have no clue what a normal family is like anyway! Lol
I've heard this from my family. You're exactly right.
I swear when I say that to my mom I think her mind automatically goes to physical abuse when I clearly mean emotional
Mine said that u hit hammer on the nail
“You’re gonna lose your “privilege” to eat dinner” EXUSE ME? EATING IS NOT A “PRIVILEGE” ITS A BASIC HUMAN RIGHT SMH.
Yeah that was disgusting, immediately scrolled down to find someone else put out by that too. The 'privilege' to eat dinner. UGh.
@M Z M @Bean I definitely agree with you. I remember I watched their video on back-to-school shopping video and I am DISGUSTED. And the Anasazi foundation? Even more disgusted. And being forced to be on camera? SMH.
@M Z M he should pin this comment.
I used to get sent to bed without dinner A LOT. For stupid shit, too like ‘taking too long in the shower.’ They stopped when I told the school social worker offhandedly.
M Z M yes and even if she does that..wouldn’t that be neglect?!?🤔🥴
I did go to their school. They didn't have much friends and were very introverted, quiet, and eventually their mom pulled them out of school (6:34 )
J Aubrey ….. 3 YEARS EARLY on this craziness.
Kudos to you, sir.
The police knew the whole time it appears. Insane. They were forced to act.
If she’s like this on camera , imagine how she is off camera.
you are so right. the kids probably go through so much more than what's visible to us online.
in one of their videos she said "i did the discipline off camera", prob hit them
I don't want to imagine that😭
She's probably physically abusive too
Ok-I’m sorry but I was the 1k like 😔😔
kids at school will bully you for the type of shoes you wear, let alone your mom posting about you SHAVING and your first PERIOD
I hate these parents soooo much. Their children are going to have mental problems for the rest of their lives because of their sociopath parents.
RIGHT
My mom posted me when i was 4-5 shirtless like MAAM
God I already got bulied as a kid
this would make it worse
first bra too
3 years later. The foreshadowing is crazy with this video. Why isn't the father in jail???
That’s what I’m saying, there is no possible way he was not aware of the child abuse happening in his own household.
i’m now watching this after her arrest and the channel has been deleted. what a monster i am so glad her kids are finally free from her.
She won’t be smiling when her kids turn 18 and never speak to them again
That’ll be a happy day
She’ll probably just adopt a kid from a far off country for “diversity” then strip the kid’s culture and neglect them like she did to her current kids
Damn right!
That's going to be Chad
Actually, she probably will be.
The irony of her not allowing them to have social media while also forcing them to be on her youtube channel.
Imagine growing up under such narcissistic opressing hypocrite parents...
Metal Gear Karen
It’s about control. Imagine if one of the older kids ranted on twitter or Instagram about the absolute hell their parents put them through.
These poor kids are going to have a shit ton of anxiety and other mental illnesses when they become older. They have had a camera and thousands, even millions of internet strangers from all over the world, watching them for the majority of their vital years of growing. Unfortunately, I wouldn't be surprised if they would suffer from anxiety and paranoia of people constantly watching them.
thats not true at all
J Aubrey did more for these kids than CPS did. I'm glad she got arrested and if she isn't on her way to prison right after I'll be pissed
Dude every single UA-camr did more than CPS and LE combined and will do more now more than ever because this videos havent been deleted and can hopefully be used against the sickos.😢
@@kikilo9647 For real, let's not forget cases like Daddy O Five. It's crazy how some UA-camrs who enjoy making videos and do some editing manage to play a bigger role in exposing those people than actual authorities are supposed to do.
my home and inheritance were stolen, because my overprotective mom left me technologically illiterate when cancer took her. By the time I figured out how online banking and smart phones worked, my brother had taken everything locked me out and convinced the lawyers I was on drugs and a compulsive liar. SHELTERING YOUR KIDS DEPRIVES THEM OF MORE THAN JUST “ fitting in”.
Ruby isn't a mother - she's a bully. DaddyOFive but take away the physical assault and add borderline sexual harassment.
Amy Keller sexual harassment? I think family vlogging is an invasion of privacy and this mother is absolutely horrible. But aren't sexual harassment accusations a bit overboard?
Oh Lord. Shut up.
@@millie8943 I mean, the filming of their children picking out bras, talking about the daughters shaving their legs.... you can't deny that p*dos would probably look for that stuff on YT.
@@millie8943 Her son didn't have a bathroom door. How does he use the restroom and shower privately?
@Lara4Life I’m not sure what you’re trying to say.
That lady’s going to wonder why her kids aren’t visiting her in about 15 years
She won't care she will have her money smhhh
My mom raised me like this woman did only my brothers could do what they like while I had to be a "lady" and clean up after them. Food was taken away from me a lot. She would take me out of school and make me go shopping and I was not allowed to eat until the shopping was done (usually 9pm at night) because she said I would look bloated in the clothing if I did. I had a stroke two years ago at 24 doctors think it was due to stress. Thankfully I am married and live no where near my mom now. When I lost a large portion of my vision from the stroke and started using a white cane she decided she was too embarrassed to be around me now and hasn't seen me. It's going to be funny when karma bites her in the butt at a nursing home where they will abuse her for a change.
Courtney Lavigne I am so sorry, u deserved better ✨💕
Chloe Atkins thanks friend lots of people go through something similar I try to speak about it publicly because it’s kind of taboo to speak bad of your mom even if they are abusive. I grew up a wealthy home so it’s harder for other adults to see the abuse.
Courtney Lavigne I’m glad ur living your life now, take care :)
This was so disturbing and disgusting that I couldn't even get through past 15:00. I grew up in a doomsday cult and went through lots of therapy to get past the issues from childhood, but that pales to the complete lack of disrespect this mother has for her children's privacy and boundaries. I'm grateful she was arrested and the children taken away. I pray for their healing. What a narcissist and disgusting display of 'parenting'.
I'm worried that kids were given to the father (who is at least partly responsible for the abuse) and sister (who knew and also family vlogger).
Arrested - FINALLY! A "privledge" to eat dinner? It is your legal responsibility, let alone a moral one that should be inherent in any parent.
Parents are legally required to support their minor children. When a child is born, their birth certificate names their parents. This marks the beginning of parental responsibility.
Parents have to take care of their child's welfare and needs. Supporting your children includes providing food, clothing, shelter, basic care, education, and medical care. Failing to provide for your children can lead to neglect or abuse charges in most states. Parents must ensure their child's physical safety and emotional well-being.
Eating dinner isn’t a “privilege” it’s a basic right. Even poor families make sure their kids have dinner.
I know thats so sad 😢😭
Whenever money was tight my mom would still give us breakfast, lunch and dinner. She didn’t want us to go what she went through
My dad told me that money was always tight when growing up but his parents always cared about him and his siblings and when money was tight they still would get feed breakfast lunch and dinner and would be sent to school. Theese kids should get fed at least three times a day as a right
Ik she’s practically starving her children
Even my mom who was abusive in her own ways made sure we got our McDonald’s or Burger King every night (she was a single mom and we were extremely low income)
Eating dinner isn’t a privilege, it’s a HUMAN RIGHT.
Next up, you can't breath and you cant go to the toilet lol
I seriously never understood the logic some parents have that a punishment for they’re kid is to send them to bed without dinner.
@@mbreeze2203 when she actually didn’t let them use the bathroom unless they did a week worth of chores 😳😳
My parents used the “no food” punishment when I was younger. I now have severe mental health problems that, while not caused by their parenting techniques, are definitely fueled by them.
If you are a parent, please, PLEASE never take away your kids’ human rights as punishment. It does so much more harm than good. I will never be able to truly trust or love my parents again.
@@clarapitkin600 I had a similar experience but on the flip side. I was a gymnast growing up so I was fairly skinny which helped with my gymnastics. My parents would punish me by making me eat twice as much as I usually without. This caused me to be more self conscious and developed an eating disorder. When I want with my parents I would sometimes opt out of eating meals to maintain my weight. I also started to fall behind in gymnastics as my weight gain made things harder for me. I no longer could support my weight on bars or get the height I need to complete my tumbling. It’s been 10 years since and every now and then I go back to my old habits but I do see a nutritionist once a month.
even when i was a senior in high school my mom would still help me pack my lunches if i like woke up late or smthng bc she didnt want me going hungry but also didnt want me missing my bus
the fact that this woman refused to do that for her five year old daughter is very disturbing and just proves that she absolutely does not care
I was about 10 when it became my job to pack my lunch; and one day I forgot...and didn't get lunch. It definitely taught me to make time for the important stuff, and I'm sure if I repeatedly failed to make a lunch for myself my parents would have stepped in.
I wasn't 5. That's the thing that blows my mind. I was totally capable of making a ham sandwich at 10. Not at 5.
I love that your mom did that for you. It sends the message that this is your responsibility, but sometimes we need help, and that's ok!❤
I kept a number of hot lunches paid for on their accounts so if they forgot their lunch they could just use a hot lunch ticket.
WOW.
3 Y E A R S AGO.
So the kids had ANOTHER 3 years of torture? Before LE did anything!!!
Ruby: I don't want my children to become snowflakes!
Also Ruby: (completely unable to take any criticism at all)
“i dont want my kids to become snowflakes!”
then raise them, you witch! it seems like they’re raising themselves at the moment?!!
She definitely had a more comfortable life than her children, that's why
Trinity107 - probably cuz a camera wasnt shoved in her face 24/7
UA-cam needs to yeetus deletus their channel
Hypocrisy 100
Child: *has a mental breakdown due to his mother and father raising him terribly*
Parents: LeTs ThRoW hIm InTo ThE fUcKiNg dEsErT wiTh a BuNch Of StRaNgErS wiTh
OnLy hiS unDerwEar
this really happened? idk this family until i saw people keep on making videos abt them
@@raykeek8883 oh yeah 100%! I’ve been watching them for 3 years so I have seen so much abuse. It’s disgusting honestly!
They had to wipe with flipping rocks...
this ACTUALLY happened??? What's the link?
@@noi_drhdr4792 ua-cam.com/video/HvQfekq5tic/v-deo.html
This might be a video explaining but I am unsure
Here in 2024 when the footage of her mistreating the two youngest is just a taste of what's to come.
So glad this monster won't be smiling anymore in prison
This video aged nicely for 8 Passengers channel...and by "nicely" I mean horribly for the children. So happy she is finally being held accountable.
The fact that Ruby gets nervous when Chad mentions the fact he’s been sleeping on a bean bag for 7 months SHOWS that she KNOWS what she did was wrong. She’s willfully putting these kids trough hell.
Shes evil
i’m surprised that she didn’t edit it out
Ris CPS already visited. Found nothing wrong. Ruby did an article in business insider addressing the claims, it’s awful.
Lupin I don’t wanna be that guy but this is most definitely a privilege issue, of course the incompetent CPS agents wouldn’t find anything wrong once they enter her million dollar house right? Awful, truly awful.
officialkarlaflow ikr, I totally agree. The damage control they tried wasn’t very good 😂
imagine having to go into school and explain to ur teacher that u couldn't turn ur homework in cause ur mom took it and told u u had to pay cash to get it back
erin o'neil At least he has video proof. Probably the only good thing about this whole ordeal.
It’s like she’s setting her children for failure. So when they turn 18 they will have nothing. I hope when the eldest turns 18 they will save their siblings. If I lived close hell I would let them live with me if I was old and close enough too them. I’ve been emotionally abused myself, but never to this extent!
she probably punishes her kids for bad grades too....
Avarie Mendenall yep took away abbys phone for THE SUMMER for getting a D- in her grades. ONE BAD GRADE
@@eliana0820 er...not to justify Ruby (🤮) or anything, but a D- is pretty bad. Like, I could see non-abusive parents taking away phone privileges for a while from a kid who got a D- in a class. Maybe all summer is excessive, but it's not coming out of nowhere.
Bro was 3 years ahead…
Mean woman. No fun, smiles, or laughter. Only when laughing at them when they feel embarrassed or want privacy. Evil!
Ah yes, an example of a mother who will never see her children ever again once they move out
She is kicking them out at 18 like when they are gone they will be GONE
I seriously hope these kids can find happiness once they move out and don't make the mistakes their parents made if they have kids of their own.
@@maknchill7980 their is a clip of when rubybwas teenager at christmas she got a bunch of clothe and i think her dad said therr just clirhes dont be shallow
"children from broken homes never had a fair chance in life"
THIS - living like this is unfair to children. It doesn't matter how many parents you have, but as parents they should at least fucking love you or you should be taken away. People who film every single thing like they're being an open book usually have something to hide. They're not even really hiding it, they are abusing ALL their children.
Truth.
One of the worst parts is that these kids probably don't even know how many people support them because she keeps their phones from them
Yeah I wonder if their son was aware of the TikTok hashtag to save him from the family
classic gaslighting
Yikes. Feels like abuse somehow?
WTF?
@مكافحة شحاذين الايكات السريه i think you mean petition
when a youtube commentator cares more about your kids than you
The day before Ruby was sentenced, Chad put out a TikTok that has since been deleted that seemed like he was really happy that his mom was in jail.
mood
it just hit me that the reason she isn’t letting her kids, especially the teenagers, have phones, is because that way she can censor what they say and see. they can’t tell everyone about the abuse they are dealing with, if they have no access to the internet. and they can’t speak out against it because they aren’t given access to people saying how wrong and abusive it is
well fuck that hit me like a brick
I'm not sure any of her kids are ready to publish a abuse video or speak up since the oldest is 15 but I 100% agree that shes not allowing them to see their own videos and how embarrassing thumbnails, titles or segments in the video are
It's all about control and not exposing the parents for what they are. It's honestly sickening. I can't begin to imagine how trapped these children must feel
All it’s gonna do honestly is just cause her kids to resent her and their dad And hate them. I bet you with almost complete certainty that once they leave the house they’ll never come back and they’ll have so much trauma from them. I have trauma from my mother and she didn’t do half the shit she does. She’s horrible
I think its also about isolation. Shes probably using the comments left on her videos to reaffirm to her kids that her way of parenting is good and supported. There's no way to tell the kids that her behaviour is not normal and atrocious and many more do not support her way of "parenting".
Her child fell into a gutter and instead of putting down the camera to help the child up as fast as possible she tried to use a single arm to help the kid up so she can keep filming the whole thing...
A normal person would have DROPPED the camera and never uploaded or told the world that happened. We also wouldn't know the same toddler child broke a door. Who would tell the world you neglected your child so badly they sat in a soiled diaper all day. Long enough for you to smell them before you saw them. Long enough that combing her hair after her bath was a trear. You're first instinct was to buy her a new dress, she went to the store before gave her daughter a bath. Who thinks bathing their toddler child is giving her a privilege?
@@ThatGirlJD I know right? If I saw a kid, any kid, in that situation I'd drop anything I was holding to help them.
Wow she's something gawd
I’m surprised she even helped the kid up, tbh.
Sounds like Onision... But his daughter fell from a second story window and cracked her skull on the concrete.
There’s a pretty not so fine line between letting your kids have experiences to let them develop “grit” and beating them down and crushing their spirit. If my kid forgets his lunch, i bring it to school because everyone forgets things. It’s not a moral failing. If they do something stupid like use their lunchbox to hit another kid or something and all their food fell on the floor and they lose some food and they get hungry for a few hours, it’s a bit different. Ruby went way too far.
My mom would bring it but charge a fee of $1. That’s teaching responsibility. Not insisting a child not be fed.
How they're only experiencing action now is MINDBOGGLING
Why is the 5yo “responsible” enough to be held accountable for packing her own lunch, but the other kids aren’t responsible enough to choose not wanting to be on a public blog.
When my mom let me do it ONCE to prove how hard it was, I threw up from eating too many sweets. It wasn’t until middle school that I trusted myself with sandwiches
At least help your daughtrr like shes 5 mabye show her how
That really stood out for me. It was so awful. Poor thing is 5. How's she going to get nutrition first of all? All I saw was pre-packed processed stuff in that basket (could be wrong) and apart from nutrition, isn't this too much of a burden on a literal baby? The fact that the child lied about having packed her lunch says a lot. Also, I could be wrong but I don't think kids that age have yet developed concepts of procrastination or laziness etc. I doubt she was too *lazy* to make her lunch... She's obv struggling poor baby.
Does the mother not even OVERSEE? This woman didn't even know her kid hadn't taken lunch? What the hell? I understand she has lots of kids but hey, that was her choice. She can't entrust a 5 year old kid with lunch cooking/packing
i packed my own lunch but my told me what to put in it and when i forgot it my mom brought me a mcdonalds or something
Like what the Hell she is 5 she barly knows how to count to 10 or 5 but the mother puts the responsibility on her to know what to pack for lunch or in general doesnt forget to pack. My mom and dad packed my lunches for 8 Years (probs didnt trust me because I would forget)
It made me sick to my stomach when the little girl thought she had to try on the bras on camera. And then when she found out she didn’t have to she wrapped her sweater and arms around herself like she was trying to protect herself. She genuinely assumed that her mother wanted to film her doing something like that, which is a pretty big statement of how these children are suffering.
IN THE MIDDLE OF THE STORE no less. How was that not a sign to her that maybe she’s gone a bit too far? Oh wait, because she doesn’t care
Yeah, it's so disgusting how she wears her makeup and gets her hair done and smiles next to her children at ther most vulnerable looks.
She only gives them punishment but never rewards so to me she is worse than an officer at the army.
I feel so much with these kids because I'm from a strict household too and turned my back to my family since I got fourteen.♥♥♥
Ik that was so sad but the sick mother just laughed it off like that is normal. I had the exact same thought that truly broke my heart
Right? And she was so embarrassed and every time they asked to not be filmed the parents ignored them and acted like they didn’t hear them
7:44 timestamp - and I agree. It's so disturbing and I'll never forget it.
This is incredible how this was caught 3 years ago or more and is just now being followed through on. Terrible job by authorities to not investigate this matter further than they did in the past, but I am happy Ruby is under arrest.
Shari reported her mom to authorities after she was out of the house. Nothing came of it.
This woman and her dolt of a husband are absolutely disgusting people. She is a true narcissistic sadist whose face lights up when she talks about the suffering of her own children. Yes I'm here after she was arrested, which clearly happened way too late but still better than never. I wish her decades in prison and for all her children to heal from the immense trauma their own parents have caused them. The husband needs to be brought to justice as well because he's also very responsible for what happened to their children.
Does anyone else notice how the mom always refers to everything as hers? “My house”, “my door”, “my bathroom” - etc. Most moms would just say “our”. So strange and outputting to me. All about her I guess.
Yes, I too noticed how she speaks and acts like a belligerent 5 year old. The cookie stomach ache clip really drove that home.
My mom would call it hers and dad's bedroom but everything else was ours as a family minus a candy bar here and there that she got for her self once a month
Its a common thing with her family too. They all say "MY". Their parents did a number on them too. Awful cycle of shitty parenting going on there
She probably makes them pay to use them off camera to 'teach' 'responsibility'
This is what happens when parents don't read Das Kapital smh
I was watching the video thinking it was made three hours ago, and I saw it was made 3 years ago. Crazy how it still really applies, and now that monster who calls herself a mother is in jail where she belongs.
Coming back to this after the mum got arrested, after everything she’s done, it feels like justice is finally being served to these children that have been mistreated for the public to see for years
the kids aren’t allowed technology but their entire lives are broadcast from HER social media.....dawg
She doesn't like people that don't agree with her. I posted some comments saying that I don't agree with her parenting and that you forced the girls to let you pick out the dresses or they would lose basic privileges. After I posted that comments I think that caused ruby and shari to block me on Instagram. I guess they don't want me reporting the bad things they do to other people.
she wants so censor them. they probably don’t have any idea how many people see and hate their mother
I'll bet part of why they have no tech is so the kids can't reveal how horrible they are behind camera and tank their reputation
Straight up narcissist
Exactly! The hypocrisy is sickening.🤮
It's so weird that she smiles when talking about her kids getting punished, laughs when her son talks about crying because he's scared. Almost seems like she's enjoying it.
She definitely is, you can see it in her eyes. She doesn't care about her children unless they can get views
that's because she does enjoy it, she realized that the only power she will ever have is over her children so she abuses it every chance she gets
Agreed. Sad, but true.
@I'm somebody I think maybe they were responding to CarpConsumer?
She gets off on their pain. She's narcissistic and has zero empathy.
Three years later. She is finally in jail.
dont mind me, just revisiting this vid after recent events
I can’t believe she thinks eating dinner is a PRIVILEGE. This is disgusting
or having.a bed.
exactly!
I can remember my parents /threatening/ it but never, ever going through. Hell, three hours later they'd make all us kids sit down and have a family dinner. The worst I ever got was being told if I kept doing xyz next time they'd "send you to the nuns". Rinse and repeat
“If you keep playing and mutually enjoying time with your sibling you’re not going to be allowed to eat!!” Like wtf?!?!??
I know!! It’s so messed up 😤😤😤
she literally abuses them on camera and she hasn’t lost custody? has this been investigated at all?
Lol no guess not bc the system just doesn't care and just lazy 🙄🤦🏽♀️
@@cocomelon3725 it’s probably because she’s a pretty white girl
@@longviewwd1 it might be and bc she has money so they can pretty get away with anything when you have money
@@cocomelon3725 fax
Someone has to fund that remember CPS is the same money as welfare by county office
Who's coming back to this video after hearing about Ruby's arrest?
This video is from 2020... Crazy how much time it took for this monster to finally get arrested for her actions.
the mom is like: my sons are bonding, i must threaten to starve them
Pay for there homework that they need for half there grade
@@deannahenry8925 half there grade hm? did you visit school by any chance?
@@cibinomin6540 I go school in the UK its nothing like the US my homework dosent count for my grade my actual work does. So u tell me?
My actual exam does
Deanna Henry oh yeah it’s completely different in the US
are you telling me she TOOK his homework that was worth HALF OF HIS DAMN GRADE, THEN BLAMED HIM FOR FAILING A SUBJECT!?
I can’t with this woman... someone take the kids away from her
I agree what she did was wrong but the whole story wasn't told in that part of the video. That stuff that was in the bag were things that were left around the house and in the car after she repeatedly told them to clean it up. I think making them pay for it is wrong and she shouldn't have taken it I just wanted to tell you!
@@graciegriffiths8936 taking toys laying around is one thing, taking homework is another. She is purposefully contributing to her least favorite child’s failure.
@@britt6687 I agree
What.The.Fuck
I heard of the arrest and this video immediately popped back into my head. No one is surprised.
Who’s here after Ruby Franke got arrested?
This woman telling her children, or anyone for that matter, they should've been in a car crash
I am absolutely disgusted
Why aren't more people talking about how she literally said that to her own children 😡
from someone who lost 3 friends to car accidents, it was really hard to fight back the tears. Please never ever wish something as horrific as that on your kids.
it made me so fucking angry. imagine being 6 years old and having your own mother turn around and tell you that you should've been in a car crash. my heart's broken :(
Me before checking in the comments: NOTHING can be worse the Fantastic adventures
Me after: HOW THE HELL IS THAT POSSIBLE
Also is that on the thumbnail
This lady just called food a privilege.
Excuse me, but she's insane.
Nestle be like
@@swison1964 NOOO DSKJFASD;LJFKLD
Food's a privilege, even though you need it to live.
badgerbadger_badger Poppy? yeah simply being able to not starve is a privilege nonetheless i’d say.. however in this context yeah food should just be a thing provided...
I think she’s violating the fucking Geneva Conventions.
We 100% need a part 2 so much more has come out!
Wow, posted three years ago. Thank you for helping bring this to light.
I hope Chad does a “reveal” episode and just blasts his parents for their negligence and abusive parenting.
Wait... the mother will delete it plus he doesn’t have a phone to film with.
@@eliannahankin2971 When he turns 18 he can move out and they can't stop him.
I doubt he will. Children growing up in abusive environment rarely speak out against their abusers, even in very extreme cases (like sexual abuse etc). Even though his parents are, truthfully, hideous people and child abusers, they are still his parents and he might consider maintaining that relationship more valuable than letting them get what's coming to them (i.e. loss of reputation and face, not suggesting they should receive violence or anything like that)
@@exantiuse497, there are two ways kids deal with abusive family members: leave and never look back or seek vengeance. God forbid he snaps at them and puff his abusive mother is gone.
@@eliannahankin2971 he has a bb gun so he has a weapon
So feeding your kids dinner is a “privilege” and not a necessity? Anyone else catch that? My parents never took dinner away from us. If anything I remember sitting at the table for hours until I finished my plate
my parents would just give us worse food that eat. so while the rest of the family is eating grilled chicken or something, i’d just be chillin with saltine crackers
as someone who has had a childhood of abuse, that part fucking pissed me off. i've gone hungry as a little kid too many times for minutely acting up, and it's a horrible feeling that i wouldn't wish on anyone
I come from a place with similar culture but instead my mom was afraid I would become overweight (she was kinda exaggerating but okay) so if I didn't wanna finish I would just give it to my dad.
denying your children food is honest to god torturous. you can’t just deny your kids breakfast, lunch or dinner because they had a tantrum.
I come from a place where my mom would give up her dinner for me and my sis to have enough to eat so i really dont get this : taking away food as a punishment thing. She's horrible
the fact that this all came out 3 years before everything
I came here to say that as soon as I saw the thumbnail in the headline. Three years ago? What?
@@Alwayslearnimgyeah UA-camrs (I think even big ones like PewDiePie??) had been trying to bring attention to her behaviour. Other kids had been rescued on a channel called Daddy o Five that did the same sort of things, so UA-camrs were hoping to get these kids rescued too but the authorities wouldn’t take it seriously :c
@@Vexarax yep. It’s insane isn’t it? those poor kids. I can’t figure out how that could’ve happened for so long without some kind of repercussions. SMH. Horrible..
This was 3 years ago! Now she sits in jail without bond available!
*imagine calling people snowflakes for not liking literal child abuse*
Then they are igornant because they never experience the shame and embarrassment just like these children did. And the mother is neglecting these children, humiliating them on UA-cam. I feel protective services should take away all the childern because this is horrible.
Fax
Solo Comics fax
Well some of you guys think every little thing is abuse...... like yes saying dinner is a privilege and taking that “privilege” away, not bringing Eve lunch, etc. are abusive and wrong but some people sit here and say “tHaT’s abUsivE” all the time over every little thing meanwhile some kids out there are actually being abused physically, sexually, etc. 24/7 and none of you pay attention because you’re so focused on the smallest shit
And then block ppl and turn off the comments and shit. Like who's the snowflake ?
JUST IMAGINE going to school without ur homework and the teacher asks “where’s your homework?” And then you reply with “sorry I didn’t have the money to pay for it” then you have to explain that your mom found it in the car and now you have to pay to get it back! If I were a teacher I would be really concerned!
And the sad thing is that at that point im sure the kid saying something like that would just be accepted as what happened because thats how psycho this hag is
@Jonathan Veneigh oh yeah shes insane
Same
Pre-service teacher here and yeah. That'd be a Conversation with a Colleague.
I don't know why the teachers who teach the some of the 8Passengers kids have not seen these videos, reported the videos and those parents to a child authority department. If I were a teacher, I would be hella sus and get CPS, Police, any authority department involved.
Time for a follow up.
Anytime I see a family documenting their life on social media, I immediately see red flags. It’s exploitation at its finest.