What Really Happened to Tamla Horsford?

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  • Опубліковано 21 вер 2024
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  • @KendallRae
    @KendallRae  2 роки тому +2204

    Sign the petition asking for the FBI to handle the investigation of this case: bit.ly/3GkjMA6

    • @icecream4me
      @icecream4me 2 роки тому +38

      just signed :)

    • @mariselag4997
      @mariselag4997 2 роки тому +30

      Signed and may This be brought to Justice ⚖️ and may the higher up being all this to light

    • @cocopuffs___
      @cocopuffs___ 2 роки тому +34

      It only has 710,000 signatures. SAD.

    • @43naomim
      @43naomim 2 роки тому +19

      "Many people feel they were bribed ... " with what? Donuts and cookies?

    • @ghostfacedealer6176
      @ghostfacedealer6176 2 роки тому +9

      Signed !

  • @allotheabove123
    @allotheabove123 2 роки тому +6241

    If a medical examiner doesn't take photos during an autopsy then they should be immediately fired and disbarred from that profession. Absolutely unacceptable

    • @chelseag2124
      @chelseag2124 2 роки тому +450

      Exactly!!! This medical examiner needs to be held accountable, not following through with taking important photos that could help the case. That is not okay

    • @kittykitty6670
      @kittykitty6670 2 роки тому +220

      @@chelseag2124 honestly.. if Tamla's case is really getting reopened those photos would of been so helpful its not like they can just travel back in time to reinvestigate :( hope she gets the justice she deserves 💔

    • @karentucker2161
      @karentucker2161 2 роки тому +12

      Written up etc. Or something.

    • @washcaps71
      @washcaps71 2 роки тому +19

      You can’t disbar a doctor. That’s purely a professional legal punishment

    • @trinablonde
      @trinablonde 2 роки тому

      They were

  • @anabella4166
    @anabella4166 2 роки тому +6393

    I IMMEDIATELY disliked Jeanne as soon as she told the Tequila story.. Like someone brings u a gift & u tell them u don’t want it? Then mock how disgusting it is? Absolute TRASH.

    • @tammymayo5566
      @tammymayo5566 2 роки тому +418

      Exactly. Accept the gift. You don’t have to drink it

    • @beardzgorski8397
      @beardzgorski8397 2 роки тому +145

      WHO refuses a gift ....you can always throw it away later.. fucking rude

    • @dayanaxox973
      @dayanaxox973 2 роки тому +299

      EXACTLY! She could’ve just kept it and had it for another day for other guests who do enjoy tequila. Soo weird.

    • @Red1Green2Blue3
      @Red1Green2Blue3 2 роки тому +150

      @@tammymayo5566 Exactly!!! Who does that?!?! Sh*t If it were me I'd save it to give to someone else if I didn't want it. Imagine being so bigoted that you won't even take a free gift that you can pass on!

    • @xlienscozyliving
      @xlienscozyliving 2 роки тому +142

      And talking as if that very person hasn’t passed! Like they all sound super nonchalant

  • @SoloDragon5393
    @SoloDragon5393 2 роки тому +12367

    This case is disgusting. Those women were literally talking badly about her sweet gift. If I was given a hostess gift by a very sweet woman and it tasted a tad bit odd I would NOT be disrespectful about it. I would simply set it aside. Those women gave me terrible vibes. She NEEDS justice.

    • @amandakriss4244
      @amandakriss4244 2 роки тому +980

      my first reaction. Like, she doesn't know you that well. How the hell is she supposed to know your personal tastes in everything. They couldn't even act grateful.

    • @rosedolch8637
      @rosedolch8637 2 роки тому +20

      If it was a 3 times over the legal limit drunken accident and they were all in shock that something that nuts even happened.. then justice over what?

    • @growuptame
      @growuptame 2 роки тому +383

      @@rosedolch8637 well if it was an accident related to Xanax given to her by someone who is prescribed it then they are also responsible. Regardless how you or anyone feels about this being race related.

    • @litneyloxan
      @litneyloxan 2 роки тому +53

      @@growuptame amen

    • @melissam597
      @melissam597 2 роки тому +345

      They have no class. Just say thank you and give it to someone who does like tequila later, problem solved.

  • @shaidunn2294
    @shaidunn2294 Рік тому +604

    I’m convinced to this day that this was no accident. I really hate that Tamela didn’t got with her first instinct and not attend the sleepover. Those folks did something to her. No one can convince me otherwise.

    • @t_chopper
      @t_chopper 9 місяців тому +11

      🎯

    • @micenabled9418
      @micenabled9418 8 місяців тому +12

      Justice for Tamla

    • @kimdavis3259
      @kimdavis3259 5 місяців тому +3

      I agree!!! 🤨 I pray this family will get justice one day!! This is so sad!! 😢

    • @ginataylor3742
      @ginataylor3742 Місяць тому +1

      Agreed !!!!!

    • @16190john
      @16190john 10 днів тому +1

      The way the other attendees talk about her is very strange. Something isn’t right.

  • @jennareyes_
    @jennareyes_ 2 роки тому +8566

    If her “friends” aren’t guilty of her murder, they’re definitely guilty of not giving a shit. They acted like her death was such an inconvenience. So frustrating.

    • @tessawood8244
      @tessawood8244 2 роки тому +415

      It’s disgusting . They weren’t her friends period

    • @Nwordscissorhands1738
      @Nwordscissorhands1738 2 роки тому +54

      upsetting and immoral but not illegal

    • @myname5731
      @myname5731 2 роки тому +162

      @@tessawood8244
      Definitely Not so-called “friends”. Hearing situations like this remind me how grateful I am that I’m very selective with whom I socialize with.

    • @vtobias2
      @vtobias2 2 роки тому +75

      They are hateful pieces of garbage

    • @vikkilooper4075
      @vikkilooper4075 2 роки тому +163

      @@Nwordscissorhands1738 not illegal correct but that callousness shows how cold they are leading to suspicion of guilt. Only issue is the police gave zero fu€KS to actually investigate

  • @jessecurlgoddess7320
    @jessecurlgoddess7320 2 роки тому +5736

    She gave the 911 operator an entire synopsis of the night before getting to the the reason for the call. While someone is laying dead in your backyard. Guilty people always over explain on 911 calls

  • @71janet71
    @71janet71 2 роки тому +20849

    These women had more emotion describing tequila than they did for the “friend” who died in their presence

  • @Miamimz
    @Miamimz Рік тому +1026

    A few years ago, I was invited to a house party(gathering) by my so-called friend and colleague. I was the only black person there and only knew 2 people, including the one who invited me. They seemed fine in the beginning but all of a sudden the energy changed and one of the girls tried to attack me unprovoked. None of those yt people said anything or even tried to stop her. It was after 3-4am. I was so shaken up and scared. I called for a cab and left straight away. I thank God I got out alive. I learnt to never be the only person of colour in a social setting. Rip to this beautiful lady 😢💔🙏🏽

    • @jackiechun5817
      @jackiechun5817 Рік тому +35

      @OTU537 in a situation like that(Outnumbered, unprovoked attack,had to use your defense weapon), if you'd have SLUMPED everything coming at you, it'd be justifiable SELF DEFENSE...open shut case.😒💯💯💯💪🏾🧔🏾‍♂️

    • @latashaedwards8224
      @latashaedwards8224 Рік тому +16

      Exactly u were way out of you leave certain people don't play u know

    • @nana8135
      @nana8135 11 місяців тому +7

      ❤❤

    • @empressdawnsomerville1101
      @empressdawnsomerville1101 11 місяців тому +49

      I’m so sorry that happened to you. That could have happened to me to years ago….when I was very young. I didn’t know any better. I’ve since taught my children.

    • @talkwithdreafriendspodcast5072
      @talkwithdreafriendspodcast5072 11 місяців тому +22

      NEVER GET OUT VIBES

  • @amandagutierrez4898
    @amandagutierrez4898 2 роки тому +25523

    The fact that Tamala is dead and these women still talk about how disgusting the tequila she brought was and the way they speak of her is soooo suspicious! This is so incredibly unfair Tamala and her loved ones 💔

    • @clearlyweird
      @clearlyweird 2 роки тому +2174

      Hearing them call her “that woman” 😓

    • @megangilbert9127
      @megangilbert9127 2 роки тому +2005

      No idea why they were so upset by the tequila. Could have said my goodness thank you for the gift and set it to the side just incase they did decide on it.

    • @Hawther
      @Hawther 2 роки тому +1419

      Tequila and I have a bad relationship but FFS if a new friend or acquaintance or, hell, complete stranger died at my house all I'd have to say is how horrified and sorry I am that it happened. The last fucking thing I'd have to say is I didn't like her hostess gift. These women are awful.

    • @vicb2266
      @vicb2266 2 роки тому +601

      Agreed, they sound like a group of snotty/mean girl type women.

    • @krissy242
      @krissy242 2 роки тому +1588

      it screams mean girls peaked in high school. the way they passed around the bottle gagging at it while tamla was outside

  • @mylo1014
    @mylo1014 2 роки тому +9285

    i immediately was so upset when Tamla’s gift was disrespected. how could you do that to a person who gave you a very nice gift? these ladies are repulsive.

    • @mrsjacobtiner
      @mrsjacobtiner 2 роки тому +561

      Exactly. I wish she would have just turned around and walked out. She deserved better "friends."

    • @JustMarian
      @JustMarian 2 роки тому +476

      Right. That is super strange. Why not just accept it and say thank you?

    • @mylo1014
      @mylo1014 2 роки тому +189

      @@JustMarian right? like saying thank you isn’t that hard.

    • @strawberrykayla
      @strawberrykayla 2 роки тому +70

      I was thinking the same!

    • @mylo1014
      @mylo1014 2 роки тому +131

      @@mrsjacobtiner same tho i would have been like “uh excuse me?” smashed the bottle and then left but that might be my anger issues talking LOL

  • @Kate-n2310
    @Kate-n2310 2 роки тому +7518

    The way these women went on about the Tequila, even passing it around while she was smoking outside, is vile and *very* telling. These women give off mean girls who peaked in HS vibes.

    • @amygraham2876
      @amygraham2876 2 роки тому +464

      “Oh… I smelled it and barfed in my mouth” Who cares, she is dead! At this point ladies it’s not who is the queen bee

    • @CrankyBubushka
      @CrankyBubushka 2 роки тому +142

      I thought High School vibes also.

    • @Shestylez1988
      @Shestylez1988 2 роки тому +57

      I thought the same thing

    • @JohnJacobSchmidtt
      @JohnJacobSchmidtt 2 роки тому +213

      Yeah I felt she was being kind of sarcastic when she said tamla was the life of the party

    • @imjustagirl
      @imjustagirl 2 роки тому +26

      @@JohnJacobSchmidtt yeah I picked up on that as well.

  • @tierrashea2
    @tierrashea2 Рік тому +477

    I’ve never been angry enough to want to sign a petition before, until now. The way this whole thing was even handled is disgusting.

    • @theplushside6232
      @theplushside6232 10 місяців тому

      Yes I am do mad with them they was all in on it I don't trust white people especially a whole group of them and no one there to defend her😵🥺😱

    • @Eiliestl
      @Eiliestl 8 місяців тому +12

      Yes!! Someone knows something. This needs to be reopened

    • @michaelblaine6494
      @michaelblaine6494 8 місяців тому

      Why were both investigations closed so quickly? They just wanted this to go away,it seems like half the town was involved in covering it up

    • @rodhollomon8868
      @rodhollomon8868 7 місяців тому +2

      It's amazing we still live in a society that allows this type of shit to happen

  • @GabriellaLascano
    @GabriellaLascano 2 роки тому +10023

    To my POC women, please don’t feel bad about being overly sensitive or quick to feel uncomfortable and leave a situation!!! Don’t worry about being NICE. Be SAFE.

    • @banyana6515
      @banyana6515 2 роки тому +107

      Amen.

    • @jocelynnicole__
      @jocelynnicole__ 2 роки тому +43

      It’s obvious these ppl murdered her !!!

    • @missnene6879
      @missnene6879 2 роки тому +479

      I'm not even going.... sorry not sorry

    • @jocelynnicole__
      @jocelynnicole__ 2 роки тому +180

      @@missnene6879 samething I was saying like now Tamla wtf did you go in the first place

    • @aprilgarrett2596
      @aprilgarrett2596 2 роки тому +18

      RIGHT!!!!

  • @hannah1052
    @hannah1052 Рік тому +3460

    Bridget saying she had to go home because her anxiety would make her have to sleep with one eye open doesn’t sit right with me. Also why was anyone else welcome to leave but they all insisted she had to stay? Mmhmm. This case is so freaking sad & frustrating.

    • @stella-eh8xc
      @stella-eh8xc Рік тому +349

      yes, i caught that part too. anxiety is horrible to deal with, but to say that she has to ''sleep with one eye open''? makes you wonder what she was so afraid of

    • @kittikat2318
      @kittikat2318 Рік тому +424

      It kills me that Bridget didn’t offer her a ride home too! She already knew Tamla wanted to leave-your husband is getting you- so offer to take her home too! I would!

    • @KayaaaaDe
      @KayaaaaDe Рік тому +143

      @@kittikat2318 exactly my thought!! That's the most normal thing anyone would've done there. Especially knowing that she had to sleep alone that night.

    • @linnyluwop
      @linnyluwop Рік тому +117

      yeah thats weird. she must’ve picked up on weird vibes.

    • @hannah1052
      @hannah1052 Рік тому +168

      @@kittikat2318 ya that’s where things felt super fishy to me. I’m guessing she knew what was going to happen and decided she didn’t want to be there.

  • @hannahleemarie8631
    @hannahleemarie8631 2 роки тому +5178

    The fact that Jeanne’s aunt remembered that Tamla was her « friend from the islands » but couldn’t bother to remember Tamla’s actual name speaks volumes to the way that entire family operates

    • @ashleybennet9243
      @ashleybennet9243 2 роки тому +91

      So true smh

    • @HartleiStansbury7
      @HartleiStansbury7 2 роки тому +376

      And the fact that she wasted minutes walking up and down the stairs not even being urgent or direct when she went to their room like beating around the bush girl like HURRY UP??? What r u doing. So suspect also now that I think about it. She requested the guy specifically as if like he knew something and she was praying as if she was asking for forgiveness?. Weird. God bless

    • @Gaby-nx8ln
      @Gaby-nx8ln 2 роки тому +51

      That spoke volumes to me too.

    • @Kellyeeeee
      @Kellyeeeee 2 роки тому +379

      It's sad but I doubt that Jeanne's aunt was even that cordial. She probably just said "your black friend" or "that black girl"....she gives off that energy.

    • @cyndriay1551
      @cyndriay1551 2 роки тому +79

      Yes exactly. So sad especially because Tamla didn’t really wanna go anyway but thought it would be rude if she didn’t. So sad.

  • @Nicole-mq4to
    @Nicole-mq4to 10 місяців тому +177

    They don’t care about her…treated her like she was just a dead animal. They didn’t see her as human. So so so frustrating. RIP Tamla. May karma come for them.

  • @samgibson13
    @samgibson13 2 роки тому +2932

    they didnt even respect her enough the use her name after she died... “that woman”, “this funeral”, etc. so so heartbreaking. i hope her husband and their children get the justice they deserve.

    • @Blanca-4444
      @Blanca-4444 2 роки тому +158

      It also sounds like those cases when people hurt/kill someone that they know and they stop using their name as a way to distance themselves from the situation. But yeah, whatever the reason they are all disgusting. How are you going to see someone lying on the ground and not try to help immediately? Even if you don't know that person, it's cold-hearted, and when you do know the person it's even worse.

    • @Sanretros
      @Sanretros 2 роки тому +1

      Why would they use her name. They don’t know her personally

    • @samgibson13
      @samgibson13 2 роки тому +116

      @@Sanretros wdym?? they were her “friends”. they invited her to their party…

    • @tototima8126
      @tototima8126 2 роки тому +116

      @@Sanretros they knew her name at the party bozo 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @JustxDree
      @JustxDree 2 роки тому +116

      @@Sanretros They know her name, they invited her to their sleepover but suddenly now that she’s dead they forget her name.

  • @francescody982
    @francescody982 2 роки тому +3762

    The fact that nobody in that house cared enough to try to revive her is appalling, especially when one of them was trained in CPR

    • @LauraVittadini
      @LauraVittadini 2 роки тому +207

      They knew she was dead; they did it imo.

    • @doseofmolly
      @doseofmolly 2 роки тому +320

      When she said her first reaction was to pray. I knew then .you was praying not to get caught.

    • @littleone5201
      @littleone5201 2 роки тому +91

      They all should go to jail, because if they would have checked her, she might have still been alive.

    • @Letthembelightpeaceonelove
      @Letthembelightpeaceonelove 2 роки тому +151

      Their very first move should have been to run to her and see if she was okay. The fact that they all just stood there and gawked is sooo weird. It’s like they already knew she was dead.

    • @littleone5201
      @littleone5201 2 роки тому +13

      @@Letthembelightpeaceonelove YUP !!!!!

  • @MrsTruthTeller
    @MrsTruthTeller 2 роки тому +3708

    The part that concerns me is how they INSISTED that she stay the night yet no one wanted to sleep with her and they made her sleep alone. Then they were incredibly rude about her gift and wouldn’t drink it. And then no one wanted to stay up with her yet insisted that she stays the night. They just allowed other people to go home when they wanted to go but begged her to stay???? Something about this feels extremely fishy. Seems like it might’ve been premeditated. Someone was extremely jealous of her and planned this. These were a group of jealous women who plotted on a beautiful woman.

    • @dearfutureyou8580
      @dearfutureyou8580 2 роки тому +630

      One of the men may have been eyeing her. I sense miss Jeanne was the jealous one. Her snarky comment "she's the life of the party, she's ALWAYS the life of the party" tells it all.

    • @lauragrace1345
      @lauragrace1345 2 роки тому +98

      Could have been Tom and Stacey. If they wanted to try to get Tamla into a threesome, that would explain why they were urging her to stay.

    • @albatraoz7045
      @albatraoz7045 2 роки тому +286

      @@dearfutureyou8580 I agree. She sounded like a jealous high schooler when she said that. The way they all talked about her gift behind her back is so gross. They way they all talked, when their friend had just died was really disgusting. Completely devoid of empathy.

    • @bigasspockets
      @bigasspockets 2 роки тому +386

      I think it’s so weird that the one woman who went home didn’t offer her a ride. If they were worried about her drinking and driving, and her husband is already coming to pick her up, why the hell wouldn’t she offer that. That sketches me out so much especially since she was the last one up with tamla and claimed she was also uncomfortable at another persons house. Just weird as hell confusing behavior, at the very least inconsiderate

    • @ber2506
      @ber2506 2 роки тому +125

      @@amandao9869 no it doesn’t but you’re a grown ass women so say thank you and set it aside dont trash talk it with all them other ladies

  • @trinitysage1467
    @trinitysage1467 7 місяців тому +59

    I’m Black and would have never accepted this invite. This was not a safe space for her.

    • @EJLJ19
      @EJLJ19 3 місяці тому +4

      So incredibly sad that there are places and situations that are unsafe for black people 😢

  • @Loganne92
    @Loganne92 2 роки тому +2095

    The way that Jeanne said that she “threw up in her mouth” and “she was the life of the party” really expressed the way she felt about her “friend” Tamla.

    • @cakeskay1506
      @cakeskay1506 2 роки тому +95

      Agreed. Really, really bothered me.

    • @andreakoroknai1071
      @andreakoroknai1071 2 роки тому +105

      yeah, what an awful person

    • @interndana5599
      @interndana5599 2 роки тому +38

      Seriously sickening

    • @KotasKitten715
      @KotasKitten715 2 роки тому +172

      Yes! Especially her tone when saying "she was the life of the party" like she was mocking Tamla! Smh...

    • @rania5629
      @rania5629 2 роки тому +23

      AGREED I thought I was the only one that caught that.

  • @MegaFjj
    @MegaFjj 2 роки тому +2658

    Refusing her gift was so incredibly rude….”threw up in my mouth” I’m embarrassed for you Jeanne

    • @twatts1523
      @twatts1523 Рік тому +1

      She and Madeline are nasty hateful women.

    • @aimeemarie5462
      @aimeemarie5462 Рік тому +180

      I would have just accepted the bottle and placed it on a shelf for decoration if the bottle that was shown in this video was the same.

    • @memeeemee214
      @memeeemee214 Рік тому +91

      These ladies have no heart 🖤😢😢

    • @firestorm7104
      @firestorm7104 Рік тому +28

      this happened to me from the mother of someone i was dating. apparently my wine choice was cheap.

    • @maribelru2011
      @maribelru2011 Рік тому

      She didn’t want a little Mexican in her mouth 😂

  • @elspeththeplaneswalker495
    @elspeththeplaneswalker495 2 роки тому +3675

    Someone dies and they talk more passionately about the f-ing tequila than her and her death. To me that shows how little they really, "liked," her.

    • @corpselover1458
      @corpselover1458 2 роки тому +171

      Right? Even if she were ALIVE after that night that behavior is disgusting. It reads like a clique of women trying to tear down somebody they've collectively decided to dislike.

    • @Donotevengotherewithme
      @Donotevengotherewithme 2 роки тому +47

      Yea, the one B told the cop she made cookies for them. Disgusting!

    • @CharissaFawn
      @CharissaFawn 2 роки тому +47

      I thought the exact same thing, I don’t get it. It’s weird and random to harp about tequila. Like just fishing for a reason to separate her from them. So disgusting. Also…. Who doesn’t like tequila!!! It’s one of the most commonly drank liquors!

    • @ashleytaccone5298
      @ashleytaccone5298 2 роки тому +11

      Yea but not liking someone doesn't mean kill them. It's just so odd.

    • @LeneeLenee
      @LeneeLenee 2 роки тому

      They actually only talked about it for a couple mins …..

  • @Rodrasroom
    @Rodrasroom 10 місяців тому +320

    Took nothing to bribe the cops. This case is too creepy because it gives sundown town vibes and it feels like everyone was in on it. She really didn’t want to go and didn’t want to stay for a reason!

    • @julbri9069
      @julbri9069 8 місяців тому +7

      She didn't want to go but still went.. SmH.. The fact she went is that she trusted the women.. I feel bad at the same time.. I think it was stupid..
      The real fact is they all were in on her murder.. I am writing you the while she is in the middle of the story.. I wonder if she goin to add in the possible rape theory..

    • @dianeross4522
      @dianeross4522 8 місяців тому +14

      Bingo. That one pic of Camera straddled on someone in this video may have enticed somone. And Jeanne boyfriend was definitely Hispanic yet disgusted by imported tequila. No way. Even if he was a non drinker which he is not how could he be disgusted by tequila. I think Jeanne was disgusted that was her gift because the boyfriend likes tequila. Also her free spirited ways caught his eye and he came downstairs to get a charger. How do we know that wasn't after the last lady left and after Jeanne was sleep or so he thought. Add to that he may have had one of the Xanax that they were getting from the Xanax lady and spiked the shot he decided to have with her after everybody was gone or in bed...

    • @Rodrasroom
      @Rodrasroom 8 місяців тому +8

      ⁠​⁠@@dianeross4522you’re spot on. I do think Jeanne and her boyfriend are responsible for her murder. The way that they moved from beginning to end was the most suspicious of all.

    • @kimquisha3061
      @kimquisha3061 7 місяців тому +13

      That is a sundown town and I don't understand why they lived in that area.

    • @Yureyure1012
      @Yureyure1012 3 місяці тому

      Even worse, Cumming GA and Forsyth County is where the KKK used to be headquartered

  • @alexkess8506
    @alexkess8506 2 роки тому +4143

    Jean is incredibly suspicious. The way she says “she passed the tequila around because you know she’s the life of the partyyy” in a mocking tone. I can sense visceral anger and resentment toward Tamala through the interview. I smell motive.

    • @gossipandgrigio7200
      @gossipandgrigio7200 2 роки тому +252

      I caught that too

    • @rickyvasquez5884
      @rickyvasquez5884 2 роки тому +377

      Yes I caught that immediately she said it with so much hate & jealousy

    • @aliciawernberg5628
      @aliciawernberg5628 2 роки тому +125

      Yes yes yes!!! The tone was redicous... :(

    • @zionssoldierofwar7194
      @zionssoldierofwar7194 2 роки тому +187

      I think all of them knew what was going on. Two didn't want to stay. I believe John, Tom and Jeanne planned this.

    • @zoeasdin795
      @zoeasdin795 2 роки тому +144

      THISSSSS!! the life of the party comment was red flag enough for me

  • @Me-iq4se
    @Me-iq4se 2 роки тому +1951

    A woman, a person, a HUMAN BEING is dead and they go out of their way to talk about how bad the tequila was/smelled. WTH is up with that.

    • @skreemqueen756
      @skreemqueen756 2 роки тому +104

      I thought the exact same thing. All of the “ friends “ talked about the most stupid things in their interviews. It’s infuriating.

    • @Siyrehn
      @Siyrehn 2 роки тому +154

      Microaggression. I'm assuming she doesn't drink tequila because of it's origins.

    • @Fireproofwitchnz
      @Fireproofwitchnz 2 роки тому +70

      Bitches don't know what good Tequila smells like.

    • @shannonbritton5313
      @shannonbritton5313 2 роки тому +44

      I think that tells you a lot about the kind of people they are

    • @lindag3736
      @lindag3736 2 роки тому +13

      @@Siyrehn But she's with Jose!

  • @dianalanderos1365
    @dianalanderos1365 2 роки тому +2337

    It’s clear from the lack of empathy towards Tamla these lady’s did not like her so why hang out with her let alone invite her to a party? !?These lady’s are disgusting human beings. !!

    • @poke8735
      @poke8735 2 роки тому +110

      They were probably planning to kill her

    • @reneezay390
      @reneezay390 2 роки тому +362

      The way they kept saying "life of the party" I feel like she was invited to be the butt of their jokes-at the least. They invited her as entertainment and it makes me sick.

    • @danielalinares5466
      @danielalinares5466 2 роки тому +102

      Thank you for putting this into words. The whole interaction was super weird and deff did not seem like actual friends. I was thinking like what the f the entire time. Yeah it was weird

    • @theknipptribe30
      @theknipptribe30 2 роки тому +143

      I agree I think she was lured. It was touched in that the sons played sports together. People are crazy when it comes to kids and sports. I bet Tams son was better at the game than all of these other women’s. Was she lured there to torture and kill because of the sport?? Sounds crazy…attend a little league game in the south and see for yourself how crazy sport mommas are.

    • @victoriajohnson2083
      @victoriajohnson2083 2 роки тому +46

      It was a setup😒

  • @vonderajenkins7989
    @vonderajenkins7989 10 місяців тому +841

    I always tell my kids and nieces/nephews to never be the only black friend. This happens way too often

    • @Liyaxs
      @Liyaxs 8 місяців тому +15

      Exactly

    • @Blackhaze3000
      @Blackhaze3000 8 місяців тому +47

      Sad it’s got to be that way but I definitely don’t blame you because of shit like this

    • @booginas
      @booginas 8 місяців тому +34

      YES 👏🏾💥! I be tellin' my 36yo cuzin this but she won't listen 🙄!! Her a$$ went with a group of "friends" to Mexico 🪅 & she was the ONLY black person 🤦🏾‍♂️! It's a miracle she came back alive! But she continues to go out with them. I told her AND her momma: "Don't be surprised if you (she) comes up missing or 💀 one day!

    • @ceceruben6113
      @ceceruben6113 8 місяців тому +24

      I think it depends. My kids are half white. Hubby is white. So when we do things with his family, my inlaws, or his friends ( all white ) which is a weekly basis im always the only black person. I think it matters more if youre safe or feel uncomfortable. ​@booginas

    • @nuffsez5625
      @nuffsez5625 8 місяців тому +2

      Facts!

  • @amandam5980
    @amandam5980 2 роки тому +4994

    This case is so upsetting! Not a bit of empathy in the women’s voices when talking about her. 😡 Thank you for including clips of her husband. I feel terrible for the family.

    • @amirashaweshify
      @amirashaweshify 2 роки тому +89

      For real. They were talking about her tequila in disgust. Like the woman died at least use different words and tone to describe the situation

    • @NikkiC777
      @NikkiC777 2 роки тому +48

      @@amirashaweshify Right they had a very snarky and mean tone to their voices. It was nice of her to bring the tequila, and even if they didn't drink it they didn't have to advertise that point. They should have just said thank you and then shut up about it. It was probably a very nice bottle of tequila. They acted very classless. (At least the ones picking on the gift and using that tone when talking about it were acting classless IMO. I am not sure about the rest of them)

    • @jabirbrown2445
      @jabirbrown2445 2 роки тому +5

      This don’t sound right

    • @jaelayala7248
      @jaelayala7248 2 роки тому +26

      I'm a latina woman, and kinda white passing. I would feel sooo unsafe around these people.

    • @amandam5980
      @amandam5980 2 роки тому +14

      “This funeral”. Seriously?!?

  • @aliltater
    @aliltater 2 роки тому +2371

    You can literally hear the disgust in the women voice that’s talking about the tequila. It’s actually insane.

    • @tenngonzales946
      @tenngonzales946 2 роки тому +298

      for real like calm down..it’s just tequila..take it and say thank you

    • @j.r.stringer5852
      @j.r.stringer5852 2 роки тому +35

      @@tenngonzales946 That’s exactly what I thought

    • @MoJohnsonn
      @MoJohnsonn 2 роки тому +211

      The way that they're describing the smell of the tequila really upsets me because if you don't like Tequila then give Tamla back her bottle, why pass it around and talk crap about it. 😑😑😑 This group of people are pieces of crap

    • @indigocrayon520
      @indigocrayon520 2 роки тому +4

      To be fair, I know a lot of people who speak ill of certain drinks. She may have had too much tequila in college like my BFF

    • @waterfall6328
      @waterfall6328 2 роки тому +68

      They are all very strange. I feel sick listening to them speaking. How can you be so unbothered by your friend drying in your home? This case is heartbreaking and leaves me with a lot of questions

  • @audrey8275
    @audrey8275 2 роки тому +528

    that story about them passing the tequila around like "you gotta smell this its awful".... what a catty, snotty thing to do. while she's turned away they're all talking about her like "get a load of what that woman drinks." it has such a nasty vibe to it.

    • @chanellegale914
      @chanellegale914 2 роки тому +25

      Right.. It's 100% mean girls vibe how they were making fun of her. Tam brought it as a nice gesture and they sit there making fun of her openly and being snotty!! Tam's a better woman than me I wouldve been like u rude bitches 🤬

    • @FeliciaMonetsela
      @FeliciaMonetsela 2 роки тому +21

      I just wonder why they invited her to the party in the first place, since they clearly didn't like her.

    • @HelloTuuuurdz
      @HelloTuuuurdz 2 роки тому +6

      Such trash human beings.

    • @Jillworrell22
      @Jillworrell22 2 роки тому +4

      Yeah very houtie toutie pish posh bull.

    • @sissysovereign1294
      @sissysovereign1294 2 роки тому +5

      God and we call MEN Immature? This takes the cake on high school mentality

  • @klaus99637
    @klaus99637 9 місяців тому +121

    Poor husband he’s been traumatized, I cried when he started crying recounting what an incredible person his wife was. That poor family. It’s devastating.

  • @jessh2528
    @jessh2528 2 роки тому +2665

    These women dehumanized her immediately. What struck me is how Jeanne referred to her as 'that woman' during her interview while talking about seeing her body. They didn't see her as a person. The fact that the cops likely noticed that too, and clearly didn't care at all is HORRIFYING. Thank you for covering this, Kendall.

    • @rkeve6352
      @rkeve6352 2 роки тому +72

      Yes that's usually something that would alert a detective

    • @Ninapopwilliamschannel
      @Ninapopwilliamschannel 2 роки тому +23

      Same thing I noticed

    • @ambriaashley3383
      @ambriaashley3383 2 роки тому +65

      Absolutely horrifying. It's clear the cops didn't care about this case at all. It needs to be reopened!!

    • @jimini.e.swings
      @jimini.e.swings 2 роки тому +69

      I don't know if anyone noticed Jeanne's tone of voice when she said, "cause she's the life of the party" at 13:00, but it sounded EXTREMELY vile and like she was making a mockery of Tamla's personality. I found it absolutely abhorrent and it really spoke volumes about her character and views of Tamla as a person.

    • @amberb.6626
      @amberb.6626 2 роки тому +27

      @Emily Hyland I 💯% agree with you!! I caught that too and felt the same way. She comes across as actually jealous of her, sarcastic, and like such a mean girl. It's so sad for poor Tamla, especially since everyone described her as such a kind, caring person.

  • @samanthadyer4597
    @samanthadyer4597 2 роки тому +1509

    The fact that the people at the party were referring to her as "that woman" like she was a stranger to them just shows they were dissociating themselves from Tamla and the situation. Very suspicious.

    • @ana.11256
      @ana.11256 2 роки тому +8

      Yeah I agree.

    • @katiekuchen9694
      @katiekuchen9694 2 роки тому +23

      Yup! It’s a common language tactic like when Bill Clinton said “I did not have sexual relations with THAT woman”. It’s a classic distancing tactic, very very suspicious!

    • @angelnumber2002
      @angelnumber2002 2 роки тому +11

      Especially bc no native English speaker would EVER use that verbiage otherwise

    • @sikedyomind3363
      @sikedyomind3363 2 роки тому +1

      Y was she there who was her friend she looks out of place

    • @teeramon7124
      @teeramon7124 2 роки тому

      yeah typical sociopath white person trying not associate with their crimes

  • @vgk-u1q
    @vgk-u1q 2 роки тому +11179

    They way the tequila lady was talking goes on to show what kinda person is she. Even if you don't like something your guests bring in you don't be rude.

    • @MomsANerd
      @MomsANerd 2 роки тому +765

      Exactly. I have accepted “thank you/hosting” gifts several times for things I don’t drink or eat but I take them, smile, say thank you, and go on.

    • @Addicted2ashley
      @Addicted2ashley 2 роки тому +964

      Yea so rude to the point that she “threw up in her mouth” over tequila, at a party? Okay? Lol

    • @valnsky
      @valnsky 2 роки тому +590

      I do not drink alcohol at all, but I have never said ‘Oh no, I dont drink that’ when someone gives me a bottle as a gift. I smile and I kindly accept it. I am not a rude low life person and I have manners.

    • @ChiefSlacc
      @ChiefSlacc 2 роки тому +537

      @@valnsky Right I mean damn it was a special imported bottle. I don't drink gin, but if somebody brought me a bottle, I'd just add it to my liquor collection for guests or whatever. They were acting like typical "mean girls" with that mess.

    • @melliej12
      @melliej12 2 роки тому +354

      When she spoke about the tequila I had a bad feeling never seen such negative ppl so full of herself

  • @kathrinestrand3198
    @kathrinestrand3198 10 місяців тому +241

    The fact that her closest friend was threatened for questioning what happened to Tamala is so unimaginable. Rip Tamla you deserve justice

    • @Eiliestl
      @Eiliestl 8 місяців тому

      Because they killed her that's why. These "people" are evil and were never her friends

  • @mwillis7791
    @mwillis7791 2 роки тому +2122

    Southern hospitality at its finest. Pretty smiles and manners cover hateful and horrible souls.

    • @mariselag4997
      @mariselag4997 2 роки тому +78

      Yes experiencing it myself smiles and manners coverd raciest hatful people

    • @ImTJandMJ
      @ImTJandMJ 2 роки тому +29

      @@mariselag4997 yup experience this multiple times in Arkansas

    • @sevi3981
      @sevi3981 2 роки тому +17

      Define pretty

    • @zmonr3799
      @zmonr3799 2 роки тому +26

      No souls

    • @jessymoore9745
      @jessymoore9745 2 роки тому +52

      being born n raised in GA, even as a white female at birth, the amount of fake smiles and over friendly tactics to APPEAR genuine is overwhelmingly frustrating. very few are truely kind hearted.

  • @darciemason3195
    @darciemason3195 2 роки тому +5477

    “Your friend from the islands” and “I didn’t remember her name” is extremely telling on the lack of respect these white women had for Tam. I feel so bad for her. All those people should be arrested

    • @roro6229
      @roro6229 2 роки тому +61

      exactly my thoughts too.

    • @LisaMango0
      @LisaMango0 2 роки тому +1

      First thing I thought was : you spend the entire evening with her. I'm sure you'd remember her name... Nasty women.

    • @sevi3981
      @sevi3981 2 роки тому +338

      “Your friend from the islands” sounds so racially charged

    • @luckylulu7777
      @luckylulu7777 2 роки тому +15

      I agree.

    • @louisenairpyc6813
      @louisenairpyc6813 2 роки тому +1

      Just goes to show how some white women easily dismiss us, or count black women as unimportant.

  • @natanadine2561
    @natanadine2561 2 роки тому +1426

    The fact that she didn’t really feel like going… I wish she would have not cared about offending anyone and not gone.

    • @refugeofthoughts8870
      @refugeofthoughts8870 2 роки тому +130

      Same. I’m learning with age to listen to my intuition.

    • @jakeylakey619
      @jakeylakey619 2 роки тому +71

      THIS! So many ill stories start with how someone felt uncomfortable and not wanting to go somewhere & in turn meet an effed up fate. We don’t want to feel messed up/shady/prejudice/stuck up or rude but if you’re uneasy, it’s not without good reason. We have to listen to our higher selves.

    • @QueenBenz302
      @QueenBenz302 2 роки тому +40

      Exactly cause they didn’t even care about offending her when they didn’t except her gift💯

    • @GeminiJo
      @GeminiJo 2 роки тому +10

      You always gotta listen to that.

    • @mizzbleu29
      @mizzbleu29 2 роки тому

      me too that intuition is a mf we gotta listen

  • @Jg-ww7rr
    @Jg-ww7rr 8 місяців тому +116

    They killed her. Josè had a lot to do with it. He may have been the only other person of color but i have a feeling he didnt see himself in that way. So frustrating. The way they were so nasty about her gift. Who even does that.

    • @JenniferLane-lm8xv
      @JenniferLane-lm8xv 3 місяці тому +19

      I think he had everything to do with it. Notice how he said he saw her alone. Tamela was a beautiful woman and I think he saw an opportunity and she rejected it.

  • @dalena5680
    @dalena5680 2 роки тому +1546

    “your friend from the islands”
    “the tequila she brought was disgusting”
    “Is she breathing?” “I have no idea 🤷‍♂️ “
    “this funeral”
    “I made you cookies and bought you gift cards.”
    “that woman”
    Good god.

    • @freyamariano106
      @freyamariano106 2 роки тому +100

      I can't stop thinking about this case. How this lovely person died alone, among those creatures. 💔

    • @piperh4334
      @piperh4334 2 роки тому +23

      @@boatymsboatface3929 very well said. what a disturbing and sad reality.

    • @checkmattee222
      @checkmattee222 2 роки тому +46

      Don't forget that time Jeanne referred to tamla as "that woman"

    • @ambriaashley3383
      @ambriaashley3383 2 роки тому +21

      @@boatymsboatface3929 yes, very well said indeed. A reckoning must come. Thank you for marching. I hope there is a march for Tamla soon, & I will contribute to that in any way I can 🙏🏿

    • @allthingsunique8782
      @allthingsunique8782 2 роки тому +32

      Dont forget “ you know she always had to be the life of the partyyy” the way she said it made my stomach turn

  • @lisalu7343
    @lisalu7343 2 роки тому +2325

    Even IF (and that is a big if) there is no foul play involved, the lack of compassion, sympathy, and/or concern for this woman is heartbreaking! I don't know this exact group of women, but I now groups of women just like this, and I am so sorry that Tamla ever felt the desire to try to befriend any of them. They didn't deserve her friendship or time. Rest in peace!

    • @lauriejohnstone8217
      @lauriejohnstone8217 2 роки тому +96

      These type of women are exactly the reason why I avoid most gatherings/parties. Rude, immature, not very intelligent and self absorbed describe these women perfectly.

    • @truep7630
      @truep7630 2 роки тому +5

      This

    • @rachaelleann9847
      @rachaelleann9847 2 роки тому +3

      Facts

    • @rachaelleann9847
      @rachaelleann9847 2 роки тому +19

      @@lauriejohnstone8217 yup me to. Even church I started just staying home and trying to teach my children and be Christian without going. I can't handle ppl who just know they're better than others and being talked to like your pathetic and nothing. But as if they wanna befriend u just cause your there and idk. I just can't stand that.

    • @jenj5152
      @jenj5152 2 роки тому +2

      @Lisa
      I completely agree with your comment. These ppl are so shady, it’s truly disgusting.

  • @amandahinds3604
    @amandahinds3604 Рік тому +1573

    The fact that they were being mean to her over tequila says a lot!! That must’ve been embarrassing 😭

    • @Gaby-me5hy
      @Gaby-me5hy Рік тому +117

      Also that she smelled it and it made her throw up in her mouth. Like wouldn't the smell of almost any hard liquor do the same? She was just looking for an excuse to reject the tequila.

    • @amandahinds3604
      @amandahinds3604 Рік тому +32

      @@Gaby-me5hyexactly!! I gotta hold my nose anytime I drink anything but fruity drinks

    • @Proverbs31Ministries222
      @Proverbs31Ministries222 11 місяців тому +3

      Thank you

    • @jussaybell9730
      @jussaybell9730 10 місяців тому +19

      Exactly!! It seems they were very upset about that!! Smh. That was the set up!!!

    • @YlL-ji2sl
      @YlL-ji2sl 8 місяців тому +1

      No it doesn't. I mean the smell of Tequila is really strong. Once you ever puked from drinking to much of it the smell becomes unbearable.

  • @RochelleWinn
    @RochelleWinn Рік тому +103

    I will never forget that day!! Or the days to follow! She was an amazing sweetheart!! She lived across the street from me. When her father came he went to the police and asked to see the pictures. He didn’t want to go alone. I went with him. Those pictures tell a whole different story than what the police and these girls say! This has haunted me for years!!

    • @RochelleWinn
      @RochelleWinn Рік тому +24

      The weirdest thing is these girls brought Tams personal stuff to Lee. The police didn’t even keep any evidence. The gave these girls all Tams things to bring to Lee. The same morning.

    • @lotusconciergellc3376
      @lotusconciergellc3376 9 місяців тому +14

      Do something about it !! You know they murdered her!!

    • @crookedfingersgirl7356
      @crookedfingersgirl7356 8 місяців тому +16

      Hope you and your towns people have enough conscience to defend Tamla

    • @RochelleWinn
      @RochelleWinn 8 місяців тому

      @@crookedfingersgirl7356 I have always stood behind her and her family!

    • @roselynholloway7863
      @roselynholloway7863 4 місяці тому

      @@RochelleWinnwhat’s going on now

  • @JudyGarlandRulez152
    @JudyGarlandRulez152 2 роки тому +2590

    Now I see why my mom did not let me go to sleepovers as a kid, and why she still worries about me at 27.

    • @CaseyMarie11-11
      @CaseyMarie11-11 2 роки тому +29

      I'm sorry that's something she had to worry about 😞

    • @wowso4
      @wowso4 2 роки тому +36

      I never want to go to sleepovers. My mother was protective of me too. But I don’t like sleepover. But would allow my friend to sleep over when I was little.

    • @NikaFlemm
      @NikaFlemm 2 роки тому +11

      You my mom too but for good reason

    • @sydneysherard4420
      @sydneysherard4420 2 роки тому +15

      Sameee my mom didn’t trust people who came in and out the house so I never had sleepovers or went over to people houses unless it was a family members house .

    • @mizzbecky972
      @mizzbecky972 2 роки тому +6

      FACTZ!!!

  • @alexandriaschmidt7143
    @alexandriaschmidt7143 2 роки тому +2359

    I haven't even gotten to the murder yet and I'm disgusted. The way these women just talk about her and her gift is gross. It's heartbreaking that people like this exist

    • @Jezebel066
      @Jezebel066 2 роки тому +46

      I said same thing. They’re horrid beings

    • @truthfactors9958
      @truthfactors9958 2 роки тому +6

      Yes

    • @oceanhudson
      @oceanhudson 2 роки тому +1

      You noticed that too ?! Sharp .

    • @aliciawernberg5628
      @aliciawernberg5628 2 роки тому +1

      I agree!!

    • @realtalk6065
      @realtalk6065 2 роки тому +16

      Why would you alienate her not a sleep partner? They know exactly what they was doing

  • @reneeboyd80
    @reneeboyd80 Рік тому +979

    Always follow your first instinct. She didn't want go. It's a shame this has to be said but never be the only one in the group.

    • @stingray0033
      @stingray0033 Рік тому +170

      Exactly. I wish she had called her husband to pick her up😢. Giving these kind of people the benefit of the doubt is dangerous. A white woman is one thing but a group of white women changes everything

    • @LashawnReid-e1o
      @LashawnReid-e1o 11 місяців тому

      ​@@stingray0033psychopathic!

    • @_kikizaman_
      @_kikizaman_ 11 місяців тому +8

      I get what you’re tryna say, but that’s not the way I’d word it. Yes always follow your gut feeling, because as someone with lots of trauma (human trafficking, rape) if I had followed my gut instinct I may of avoided myself of those situations. But also as someone with debilitating social anxiety, my first “instinct” every single day is to tell myself to never leave my house, never see my friends, isolate myself, if I’m in invited to something my first instinct will be to say “no”. There’s a difference between your true gut instinct telling you something, and you wanting to of course not voluntarily put yourself in uncomfortable situation, but then in return that means never stepping out of your comfort zone. And for someone like me, with social anxiety, that can be deadly. Don’t always follow your first instinct, but always follow your true gut instinct that’s not telling you what you do and don’t want to do, but what’s good and bad for you and sometimes life or death for you.

    • @Proverbs31Ministries222
      @Proverbs31Ministries222 11 місяців тому +32

      Yeah she shouldn't have gone

    • @JaiK64
      @JaiK64 11 місяців тому +52

      Never alone! Always buddy up! Always say, yea I'll come but I'm bringing someone with me, or don't go at all.

  • @ambernailling2658
    @ambernailling2658 5 місяців тому +44

    I hope ppl never let these people forget this.

  • @AB-tp2dy
    @AB-tp2dy 2 роки тому +676

    “Because she’s the life of the party” sounded so off-putting. You can hear the hatred in just that line.

    • @griffonwillow7789
      @griffonwillow7789 2 роки тому +73

      Right? She was jealous of Tamla's sparkle.

    • @lucyyyy16
      @lucyyyy16 2 роки тому +33

      Yeah! Like sarcastic making fun of her or resentful

    • @karlaf.64
      @karlaf.64 2 роки тому +16

      Just what I was thinking 🤔

    • @LexSwift
      @LexSwift 2 роки тому +28

      I RAN to the comments to see if anyone picked up on that tone she had when she said that.

    • @Elizabeth-kr8ei
      @Elizabeth-kr8ei 2 роки тому +8

      Exactly

  • @corvezmommy
    @corvezmommy 2 роки тому +1974

    This is a prime example of why I’ll never be comfortable with myself or my child being the “only one” in any setting; party, sleepover, trip.

    • @mistaleesreversespeech7728
      @mistaleesreversespeech7728 2 роки тому +67

      She had bad vibes about the situation. Always listen to that. Did Tamla believe she would be gaining something by attending the party? Why did she go through with it? I'd bet they were hanging a carrot of some kind.

    • @mysticalworld9259
      @mysticalworld9259 2 роки тому +115

      honestly in my opinion, i’ve been the only POC in all white situations but never felt in danger or hurt. black women have done this type of thing to other black women. all in all, shady has no color.

    • @livefromtheground7274
      @livefromtheground7274 2 роки тому +7

      thank you!!

    • @nylahburns9767
      @nylahburns9767 2 роки тому +10

      Yep giving me sus vibes

    • @TheMissuz82
      @TheMissuz82 2 роки тому +64

      Never fkn ever. I don’t go where they are period on purpose 😂…seriously tho, I’m not built to even have a conversation with any of them let alone actually hanging out with them. Nah🙅🏾‍♀️

  • @rachelpatrick2879
    @rachelpatrick2879 2 роки тому +1398

    I cannot be the only one who noticed the snotty way, when discussing the tequila, Jeanne stated "Cause she's the life of the party. She's always been the life of the party." Jealousy is a disease.

    • @travelandeat703
      @travelandeat703 2 роки тому +79

      Yes, the way she said it was jealous

    • @Jeanine-z8v
      @Jeanine-z8v 2 роки тому +73

      That really struck me….as if she wants to make sure it’s known that this woman was out of control…however none of them truly knows her?!

    • @naomi-jw1ob
      @naomi-jw1ob 2 роки тому +17

      I noticed too !! 🤬

    • @goldengramvlogs1
      @goldengramvlogs1 2 роки тому +37

      That definitely stuck out to me. You can just hear it in her voice. Sad.

    • @madisoncaesar6949
      @madisoncaesar6949 2 роки тому +4

      You aren’t the only one

  • @TonyaJohnson-f4g
    @TonyaJohnson-f4g Рік тому +45

    This was A HOMCIDE and not an Accident!!! Hopefully The Truth Will Come Out

  • @m9eleven
    @m9eleven 2 роки тому +4050

    They killed her. I pray more evidence comes to light and everyone involved is brought to justice. It’s disgusting how they handled her case.

    • @dootzombieking9984
      @dootzombieking9984 2 роки тому +139

      I don't think they killed her, but they definitely know who did or had an indirect hand in it, they should have got private investigators to investigate them and the police, another thing is it could have been an accident but if it was Tamala was drugged or something but the whole thing is extremely weird

    • @miss.heatherr
      @miss.heatherr 2 роки тому +90

      @@dootzombieking9984 if they didn’t kill her but someone else did, who else would have? Definitely them, imo.

    • @abundantlyblessednocap472
      @abundantlyblessednocap472 2 роки тому +34

      @@miss.heatherr they killed her! No doubt about it! They get away with everything! Can’t wait until the tables turn on them!

    • @jocelynnicole__
      @jocelynnicole__ 2 роки тому +108

      @@dootzombieking9984 they DEFINITELY killed her come on now

    • @coolio4843
      @coolio4843 2 роки тому +18

      @@miss.heatherr I understand but if they killed her why would they discredit the police saying that they found her with her hands by her side?

  • @kaitlynbrasher5372
    @kaitlynbrasher5372 2 роки тому +1149

    Those women did it . They got the cops “gifts” but didn’t band together to help the new single father with child care or food ? That’s not the southern thing to do…

    • @sunnyboknow
      @sunnyboknow 2 роки тому +253

      They did the southern thing alright….

    • @theroxygirl731
      @theroxygirl731 2 роки тому +50

      Absolutely. A gift card for Dunken and homemade cookies, definitely a bribe.

    • @lanerocha8180
      @lanerocha8180 2 роки тому +60

      @@sunnyboknow fr i haven’t finished the video yet but why isn’t anyone pointing out that it’s giving racially motivated

    • @sinickasdavis9619
      @sinickasdavis9619 2 роки тому +1

      I agree Kaitlyn

    • @BeautyfulEYEkandy
      @BeautyfulEYEkandy 2 роки тому

      Fscts

  • @aphrojitex8972
    @aphrojitex8972 2 роки тому +2261

    Honestly it’s the “small” details that makes my blood boil, you just saw a dead body and you’re making cookies…during an investigation you decide to offer officers cookies? That would be the absolute LAST thing on my mind.

    • @dianaramon7211
      @dianaramon7211 2 роки тому +84

      These people smell like nervousness because they are all guilty

    • @Brittysauce40
      @Brittysauce40 2 роки тому +34

      Exactly, wouldn’t she be more inclined to cook for her children and husband.

    • @themoonatnight1868
      @themoonatnight1868 2 роки тому +50

      Not only that but bought the Investigating officers gift cards! Like why??? That’s deff suspicious!

    • @elisa.r.
      @elisa.r. 2 роки тому

      Exactly! These grown women are full of shite

    • @LovedbyYah
      @LovedbyYah 2 роки тому +6

      Wicked

  • @basicallyno1722
    @basicallyno1722 5 місяців тому +20

    The way Jeanne says “cuz ya know Tamla was the life of the party, she’s always been the life of the party,” is so strange. She sounds bitter, jealous and angry of her. It’s so very mocking in tone.

  • @christiecruzxo2841
    @christiecruzxo2841 2 роки тому +1919

    This case still haunts me. This women had babies and a husband... she was a human being. The way everyone at that party could CARE LESS and LAWYERED UP immediately is very telling. Prayers for her family and children 🙏💗

    • @ambriaashley3383
      @ambriaashley3383 2 роки тому +66

      Yes!!! And who is this police department who "investigated" and let all this go???

    • @TheUKisThere
      @TheUKisThere 2 роки тому +39

      They didn’t even need to have good excuses because of the area they live, either. Even with how suspicious they are, it all gets overlooked.

    • @Solonneysa
      @Solonneysa 2 роки тому +6

      I agree these people are suspicious AF but getting a lawyer when someone is found dead shouldn't be considered suspicious, on its own.

    • @louisejones5773
      @louisejones5773 2 роки тому +5

      She was the only human being at the party

  • @shainatilley4291
    @shainatilley4291 2 роки тому +1110

    The way the police spoke to Leander when they told him Tamla had passed away is absolutely sickening 🤬

    • @danitrue1035
      @danitrue1035 2 роки тому +36

      @@gavinvanvalkenburg8210 because "what does this pertain to" is such a hard thing for the cop to answer. "Sir there's been an accident, I need to know if this is you" is soooo hard for a police officer to say. Be a better person Gavin.

    • @paige3805
      @paige3805 2 роки тому +27

      @@gavinvanvalkenburg8210 he has a reason to be wary of the police. go spit your vitriol elsewhere.

    • @stephaniehernandez6312
      @stephaniehernandez6312 2 роки тому +15

      Yes!!! So disgusting that the officers had no human decency! May she Rest In Peace. Her husband did not deserve this.

    • @Elizabeth11.11
      @Elizabeth11.11 2 роки тому +6

      He kept refusing to give his name for no reason. Which is pretty suspicious and irritating for no reason.

    • @LeneeLenee
      @LeneeLenee 2 роки тому +4

      Well he couldn’t answer the simple yes or no question to confirm his identity, the police have to confirm who they are speaking to when it comes to something that serious. He gave them attitude from the start!

  • @avaruth7651
    @avaruth7651 Рік тому +1526

    There is a reason she didn’t have a sleeping buddy and her phone wasn’t with her. May she RIP and get the justice she deserves.

    • @krystinas8828
      @krystinas8828 Рік тому +212

      Didn’t even think of that! That part didn’t make sense until you pointed this out! “I told her at least our phones could sleep together.” I’m like wtf does that even mean. But now I’m like omg so she can’t make emergency calls. Premeditated.

    • @bugsbunnypoo
      @bugsbunnypoo Рік тому +18

      @@krystinas8828 100%

    • @peachypink2764
      @peachypink2764 Рік тому +15

      Omg yes i didnt notice it 😮

    • @elizajduclos
      @elizajduclos Рік тому +22

      she did have her phone though 😢 the other woman left her phone with tamla… so technically she had two phones with her.

    • @prettyisraeljudah
      @prettyisraeljudah Рік тому +56

      ​@@elizajduclosthey still killed her

  • @davidjohnson5164
    @davidjohnson5164 8 місяців тому +30

    To whom it may be concern,
    Don't ever be the only Black Person at the party. Especially when alchol is involved!

  • @aileenj8180
    @aileenj8180 2 роки тому +2451

    Imagine: you have a bunch of friends over and one DIES. Not one of those women had a quiver in their voice or expressed sadness. Even if Tamla was a complete STRANGER a normal person would have an emotional reaction.

    • @ezrinoe6072
      @ezrinoe6072 2 роки тому +203

      And the fact that the operator had to ask SEVERAL times to check if she was breathing...so upsetting to listen to that call.

    • @SmartStart24
      @SmartStart24 2 роки тому +171

      Because they don’t consider Tamla and people like her and myself as true human beings. I feel sorry their kids have them for mothers.

    • @RealBradMiller
      @RealBradMiller 2 роки тому +7

      @@SmartStart24 😞

    • @aileenj8180
      @aileenj8180 2 роки тому +11

      @@SmartStart24 it's sickening 😪

    • @CharissaFawn
      @CharissaFawn 2 роки тому +31

      I’m so disgusted I don’t understand. No empathy what so ever. 😔

  • @tessstephens427
    @tessstephens427 2 роки тому +1390

    These ladies were def the "popular mean girls" in high school who picked on other kids for being ANY type of different. "Holier than thou" type folks. The way she talked down about the gift of tequila, like she was way too good for that. Disgusting group of individuals.

    • @littlemissliv100
      @littlemissliv100 2 роки тому +10

      That’s Forsyth county for ya

    • @unicorngaby8968
      @unicorngaby8968 2 роки тому

      Well not everybody likes tequila she should of never got smashed so she be more aware of things going on

    • @TA12002
      @TA12002 2 роки тому +34

      @@unicorngaby8968 Are you one of the women that were there? I’ve seen you talk shit about Tamla several times. Weirdo

    • @LoudieD123
      @LoudieD123 2 роки тому +17

      That’s exactly what I was thinking. They seemed disgusted at the fact that the gift was from Mexico.

    • @maradeyo1864
      @maradeyo1864 2 роки тому +21

      Yes! They are literally having a sleepover because their plan was to get too drunk to drive home but they’re acting afraid and disgusted by tequila? “Wine? Yum! Vodka? Sure! Tequila?!? Eww! Who drinks that stuff? Disgusting!” Like really? Get a grip.

  • @tabithawagner7424
    @tabithawagner7424 2 роки тому +1923

    These people are creepy af. “I didn’t make the coffee.” What an inconvenience for you. Weird af. “Those Dalmatian pajamas.” Just seems like their judging everything about her. I’m sick.

    • @vme6892
      @vme6892 2 роки тому +58

      Right! So sickening! What kinda people are they?

    • @kaeedwards4336
      @kaeedwards4336 2 роки тому +100

      Baking cookies, offering them to officers, not performing any CPR even tho theyre trained. Moving 'evidence'. Just everything said by everyone involved.

    • @tabithawagner7424
      @tabithawagner7424 2 роки тому +38

      It’s obvious someone did something to her and it’s not obvious if any of them have any sort of remorse about it, which is really gross and sad.

    • @Kyiecutie
      @Kyiecutie 2 роки тому +40

      For real. Everything they said about her is in such a condescending manner. At bare minimum they know what happened and it wasn’t an accident and at worst, they outright killed her. Absolutely disgraceful.

    • @AnnSmajstrla
      @AnnSmajstrla 2 роки тому +34

      They’re creepy AND they were BFFs with the cops! I’m sick too.

  • @loganmcwilliams7934
    @loganmcwilliams7934 Рік тому +74

    The fact that everyone else could leave but she couldn't is disturbing very sad case and I hope they get justice these woman are disgusting

  • @arielseescoral2607
    @arielseescoral2607 2 роки тому +1815

    The funeral home black face incident was so heartbreaking. Hearing Lee talk about this made me cry, I cannot even imagine what they’re going through.

    • @quinlan6968
      @quinlan6968 2 роки тому +128

      Exactly! Especially when they are calling to arrange clothes for the deceased, they could have said "is there any makeup you would like to bring for your wife, we are having difficulty matching her makeup" which in my opinion would have been perfectly understandable cause even I have had trouble matching makeup. They could have LITERALLY asked her husband to bring it in with her clothing. It was clear that they didn't have experience with POC

    • @Zoehh473
      @Zoehh473 2 роки тому +81

      Just awful, adding insult to injury.. it sounds like the funeral home couldn't be bothered to get the make up right . No wonder the poor husband was upset, so disrespectful. This whole story had me angry

    • @twemont
      @twemont 2 роки тому +5

      @@Zoehh473 💯💯💯

    • @amandamarie9617
      @amandamarie9617 2 роки тому +77

      They came out in advance and informed us they did the best they could with the amount of damage that was done to her. I've never heard a funeral make this announcement before. That's when I found out all the details. She was not the same person. I could hardly recognize her. He is still a mess to this day. He was just with my husband, and it's not getting any better. He will always be apart of our family. We need justice for her.

    • @biancacarr9885
      @biancacarr9885 2 роки тому +18

      That part made me so damn angry.

  • @Han-ww6ls
    @Han-ww6ls 2 роки тому +2344

    The way Jeanne says “that woman’s hands” when talking about Tamla’s body and the way they all acted repulsed by the tequila just does not sit alright with me. It’s soooo crazy to me that people are valuing a persons worth by their skin colour still. It’s so gross

    • @shelbyhammons476
      @shelbyhammons476 2 роки тому +10

      It's how southern people talk. They say woman alot. Js

    • @ELEMENTARYWATSON52
      @ELEMENTARYWATSON52 2 роки тому +1

      :'(

    • @mirandawilson2851
      @mirandawilson2851 2 роки тому +3

      Omg yes!

    • @mirandawilson2851
      @mirandawilson2851 2 роки тому +71

      @@shelbyhammons476 I’m southern, born & bred. I never call someone I’m even remotely familiar with, “woman”

    • @abundance1232
      @abundance1232 2 роки тому +55

      @@shelbyhammons476 no the fuck we don’t

  • @matthewbrenton2711
    @matthewbrenton2711 2 роки тому +3455

    I AM SO GLAD YOUVE COVERED THIS CASE. No one was talking about this nearly as much as they should’ve.

    • @citylights3452
      @citylights3452 2 роки тому +44

      Because she’s blCk

    • @matthewbrenton2711
      @matthewbrenton2711 2 роки тому +37

      @@KF-cx8bm Black. You knew what they were trying to say.

    • @Areniapixie
      @Areniapixie 2 роки тому +17

      @@KF-cx8bm Whatever could that mean 🤔 I’m sure you can figure it out, don’t hurt yourself though

    • @MaRi-nm7eh
      @MaRi-nm7eh 2 роки тому +21

      @@Areniapixie Wow, that's rude. Maybe this person genuinly doesn't know what that means, maybe they're from a different part of the world and english slang/ abbreviation isn't their forte. Maybe they're old, young, whatever. You could be nice and simply explain what it means, you don't need to be so condescending..

    • @ceecee5108
      @ceecee5108 2 роки тому +12

      @@KF-cx8bm okay smart ass you know what’s she talking about let me help her
      BLACK 😡

  • @Vanderrick06
    @Vanderrick06 Рік тому +41

    He said “She was the last one I saw”…I bet she was. She and her family deserves justice!

  • @Jas-ly5fz
    @Jas-ly5fz 2 роки тому +3950

    I feel like this needs a netflix documentary, maybe that will actually make something happen. It keeps going viral but nothing is really happening.. I feel so bad for Tamla and her family..

    • @l.austin2371
      @l.austin2371 2 роки тому +43

      My friend antonio had one and tips started coming in he had a episode on unsolved mysteries. His friends came back but he didnt from lacygna ks

    • @mustbeMajour
      @mustbeMajour 2 роки тому +1

      That part!

    • @shirajai
      @shirajai 2 роки тому +5

      @@l.austin2371 I saw this episode, It was so sad!

    • @l.austin2371
      @l.austin2371 2 роки тому +23

      @@shirajai yea it made me sick!!!!! Seeing his hurt mom around town poor baby just jesus!!!! They did him so dirty and his friends they some fucking liars.

    • @marcuswilliams5255
      @marcuswilliams5255 2 роки тому

      @Jesus is Lord and Saviourdumbest thing I’ve ever read

  • @ev1836
    @ev1836 2 роки тому +3335

    The fact that they're going out of their way to express how disgusting the tequila (that was a GIFT) smelled doesn't sit right with me. I mean imagine someone being nice enough to bring you something and they just go on about how bad it smells?? Its freakin alcohol did they expect it was gonna smell like roses or ???

    • @interndana5599
      @interndana5599 2 роки тому +511

      And then that person DIES THAT NIGHT and they STILL decided to talk that way about her fuckinh gift????

    • @mounicachangari852
      @mounicachangari852 2 роки тому +107

      Ikr.. that part dint just sit right with me at all.. gosh,. So superficial they are..

    • @nicoleloves9483
      @nicoleloves9483 2 роки тому +12

      Same thought.

    • @Charlotte-ud5fw
      @Charlotte-ud5fw 2 роки тому +118

      Agree 100%, IMO it seemed like people were mocking her, even in some of the interviews the others talked about Tamla in such a strange and rude(?) way, as well as the tequila etc.

    • @MoniVenSmit
      @MoniVenSmit 2 роки тому +25

      Right… I’m glad I found this comment cause I didn’t know how to word it

  • @ELBONYBEAUTY27
    @ELBONYBEAUTY27 2 роки тому +2727

    Her husband should file a lawsuit for negligence on the behalf of the police department. I’m sorry this was the way her family had to say goodbye. Rest well my sister ❤️

    • @truartist5379
      @truartist5379 2 роки тому +3

      Yup

    • @msfeefee9980
      @msfeefee9980 2 роки тому +5

      💯💯

    • @dmmedic34
      @dmmedic34 2 роки тому +8

      Wait- you mean they should sue the police
      You make it sound like you want the lawsuit to benefit the police…..

    • @Reng7erychncr3
      @Reng7erychncr3 2 роки тому +28

      @@dmmedic34 uh what? Where’d tf you got thah from??

    • @uniquewhimsy622
      @uniquewhimsy622 Рік тому +11

      @@dmmedic34 negligence on behalf of the police. 🤪 So you see the neglectful conduct that the police demonstrated.

  • @steph9054
    @steph9054 2 роки тому +2951

    I can’t believe how rude Jeanne was about the tequila to Tamla’s face. Even though she doesn’t like tequila she should’ve at least pretended to be grateful for the effort. And then she passes it around showing everyone how bad it smelt? Seriously so rude. I get bad vibes from that whole group.

    • @crichards037
      @crichards037 2 роки тому +113

      I too am horrified with everything in this case, including just how unbelievably RUDE it is to complain about a hostess gift. The quote from Bambi (I believe spoken by Thumper) comes to mind here - "If you can't say something nice, don't say nuthin' at all." You don't drink tequila but someone buys an imported bottle from Mexico? Say thank you, put it with your other liquor, and if you really want, pour it out when she leaves. But there is NO need for such blatant disrespect.

    • @steph9054
      @steph9054 2 роки тому +82

      @@crichards037 completely agreed! Authentic tequila from Mexico is a very thoughtful gift, she should at least appreciate the thought and generously behind it even if she doesn’t like to drink it

    • @AngelDeed
      @AngelDeed 2 роки тому +3

      @@crichards037 if I bought somone a gift and they just pretended to like it I would be humiliated and horrified. You people need to grow up and learn to say and accept the truth (politely). This outdated idea that we can only say nice things is unhealthy and society needs to move past it. This is why people hide abuse and stuff. Because you have to pretend and only say 'nice' things. 🙄 Especially if you are a woman.

    • @heidih3048
      @heidih3048 2 роки тому +98

      @@AngelDeed it's a gift. What good would come from saying you don't like it to the gift-giver's face? All that would result is awkwardness and hurt feelings. Not sure how you think being insensitive to others' feelings is somehow going to benefit society.

    • @CourierSixMojaveExpress
      @CourierSixMojaveExpress 2 роки тому +18

      Same. I'm happy if people bring anything to a gathering lol

  • @sevinmashishi4664
    @sevinmashishi4664 2 роки тому +1569

    This story is maddening, disgusting. Can we help to bring more light to the case… petitions, reshares!!! She deserves justice

    • @nevaeh._.serenity8145
      @nevaeh._.serenity8145 2 роки тому +30

      I agree 🤍JUSTICE ✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿✊🏽

    • @amy109
      @amy109 2 роки тому +23

      Share share share. Hopefully there will be a petition or something soon. Or people can find and contact the local DA there

    • @belemaguilar8905
      @belemaguilar8905 2 роки тому +16

      I just sing the petition ! Hope it helps bring justice 🙏🏼 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @happyandblessed9753
      @happyandblessed9753 2 роки тому +1

      I wish her husband would have told her to just use him as an excuse not to go. I never stay at other people houses and they are not offended by me not staying because it is known that I don’t. I never lost a friend because of this. You should also do a story on lake Lanier there too.

  • @victoriaayala226
    @victoriaayala226 2 роки тому +837

    I live in Forsyth and Tamla was my next door neighbor. I’m so glad you covered her case. She would come over to talk to my mom almost everyday just about her life and the other neighbor moms would sometimes join them… she was just always full of life and such a sweet mom to her kids (who are just as sweet). Tamla’s father came to our home and spoke to my parents after her death came out in the news and I just remember hearing the pain in his voice, and just how upset and confused I was. It was so sad having to drive up the street and not see her picking up her kids at the bus stop and walking them down the street. We always shared a wave hello… thank you for shining light of this case Kendall. I think about it all the time. Tamla was the most vibrant energetic woman and what happened to her was NOT fair.

    • @blacklitchick
      @blacklitchick 2 роки тому +40

      It sounds like she was a wonderful person. You could see her light just from the pictures. Makes it all the more heartbreaking.
      It's not fair her children have to grow up without her. Her family deserves to know the truth and have justice served.

    • @heathermartin767
      @heathermartin767 2 роки тому +23

      It sounds like you were definitely blessed to have known her. If you still see Tamla's family, please let them know about this site so they can see that her story will always keep going!!

    • @mandymcvey2177
      @mandymcvey2177 2 роки тому +6

      Victoria I live in Norcross and my sister lives in Cumming Georgia and I heard of this case a few years ago! My heart feels so sad for her and her family😢 I pray she gets the justice she deserves!

    • @ShadeVictoria
      @ShadeVictoria 2 роки тому +23

      What do you think happened? And what do the locals think?

    • @confiamiasophia
      @confiamiasophia 2 роки тому +10

      @@ShadeVictoria I thought the same thing, wondering what the locals think about the case.

  • @crystaltbeautylove4820
    @crystaltbeautylove4820 11 місяців тому +32

    There’s so many red flags in this story it makes me mad like her intuition was off that night because I’m always on guard even at the grocery store if I’m the “only one” there.

  • @diannaherrera3768
    @diannaherrera3768 2 роки тому +1596

    I can't stand how everyone is acting in this case. The women, the cops, the morticians... Tamala looked like such a sweet and energetic person. And the fact that her children had to loose their mother so soon... And don't get me started on her husband, poor guy. I could not believe he had to experience all of this injustice and couldn't even had a decent funeral for his wife....

    • @jazminewarling2117
      @jazminewarling2117 2 роки тому +28

      I agree. She seemed like she was a great person! She deserved so much better.

    • @missmia7869
      @missmia7869 2 роки тому +10

      Yes I feel the same way, this lovely sweet woman deserves so much better. These 'sundown towns' still exist and people just ignore them. It's not right.

    • @onelove5095
      @onelove5095 2 роки тому

      My x hasbund named his private parts Tamala Skylab cause well it's like ....

    • @GinjaFajr
      @GinjaFajr 2 роки тому +2

      @@onelove5095 Dear God, please save me from using my time like this.

    • @meghanconlon2037
      @meghanconlon2037 2 роки тому +6

      This whole case is shady. They did something to her or they know what happened. She didn’t jump off the balcony.

  • @jordanbrown860
    @jordanbrown860 Рік тому +1287

    It wasn’t an accident. They were in on it and the fact that they were so close to the officers involved is what made it so easy for them to get away with it

    • @JellyV93
      @JellyV93 Рік тому +28

      Exactly

    • @ceojc7801
      @ceojc7801 Рік тому +27

      Yeah and the Duncan donuts gift cards before the case ended🤔

    • @annettehuffman4449
      @annettehuffman4449 Рік тому +14

      Totally agree 💯

    • @TaherieBellot-t2d
      @TaherieBellot-t2d 10 місяців тому +3

      This seems so similar how people are treating me as we speak

    • @TaherieBellot-t2d
      @TaherieBellot-t2d 10 місяців тому +3

      No one to really talk to about how I feel

  • @KingOfGaymes
    @KingOfGaymes 2 роки тому +4706

    The women in the interview talking about the tequila just.. sound like they’d be prejudiced I’m sorry.. It felt gross to hear.. It just sounded like they didn’t like her from the get go.. Poor Tamla..

    • @Hvhjkvv
      @Hvhjkvv 2 роки тому +566

      Someone brings a drink you don’t like, you thank them and add it to the provisions. How weird!

    • @tiffanyphares5807
      @tiffanyphares5807 2 роки тому +354

      Yes! That part makes me so upset. The way they talked about the tequila while she was out smoking.

    • @hafsahha4794
      @hafsahha4794 2 роки тому +321

      Omg I immediately was irritated by the disgust in their voice talking about a gift she brought 🤬🤬

    • @karlene622
      @karlene622 2 роки тому +381

      These grown women sound like "Mean Girls"

    • @torigatling3177
      @torigatling3177 2 роки тому +179

      yes! i had such a disgusted look on my face listening to those women sound like they were soooo above the generous gift Tamla brought

  • @KingVonAllegra
    @KingVonAllegra 8 місяців тому +79

    Someone professionally trained to do cpr and not perform it is mind boggling

  • @yurei1244
    @yurei1244 2 роки тому +2576

    This whole story is extremely sad, but Tamala’s husband talking about how his wife was basically put in black face is completely sickening and maddening. Absolutely awful.

    • @mortyjansen399
      @mortyjansen399 2 роки тому +46

      But that has more to do with incompetence at the funeral home than it has to do with a possible crime. ….

    • @chaoswitch1974
      @chaoswitch1974 2 роки тому +26

      :...( I shouldn't read comments before finishing. It's breaking my heart more than it already is.

    • @chaoswitch1974
      @chaoswitch1974 2 роки тому +11

      My heart is broken. 💔

    • @Alltherestofus
      @Alltherestofus 2 роки тому +19

      @@mortyjansen399 she didn't say it didn't. ....

    • @Corgibear-
      @Corgibear- 2 роки тому +13

      @@mortyjansen399 It is still an awful thing that happened.

  • @scottishrebeljo8158
    @scottishrebeljo8158 2 роки тому +811

    Tamla’s actual friend speaking up for her calling out those people was amazing of her. This case needs to be more known, I wish there was something we could do. Justice for Tamla.

    • @marlirasta4712
      @marlirasta4712 2 роки тому +21

      All I could think to do was start getting it back out there again. I’m so glad Kendall actually tries to tackle peoples case requests.

    • @ebonynaomi1085
      @ebonynaomi1085 2 роки тому +26

      She should of listened to her gut feeling, and left. The gut feeling is your body's intuition, giving you a warning.

    • @Vegavega94
      @Vegavega94 2 роки тому +5

      I believe it has been reopened by the GBI

    • @nahlasencounters8034
      @nahlasencounters8034 2 роки тому +3

      I agree justice for tamla something should be done ,those women know something.

    • @burgersbiblesaeh849
      @burgersbiblesaeh849 2 роки тому +7

      And they are trying to shut her up. Seems suss to me.

  • @Steph-412
    @Steph-412 2 роки тому +715

    It infuriates me that Lee was treated with such disrespect. As a human being, how do you not have compassion for someone in his situation.. It’s sickening and my heart hurts for him.

    • @roslynjones5886
      @roslynjones5886 2 роки тому +23

      It’s very easy for these people to be disrespectful when they don’t see black people as people or humans or when they don’t see the as worthy of sympathy or empathy.

  • @safahmie
    @safahmie 10 місяців тому +56

    They beat her death. WTF. I feel ao much frustration and anger. I hope the family gets their justice.

    • @Ana-n8y1c
      @Ana-n8y1c 5 місяців тому +6

      They wouldn't let her leave. They probably took her phone. Like a kidnap. Unbelievable

  • @royaljuiice3185
    @royaljuiice3185 2 роки тому +2717

    One thing about liars. They over OVER explain themselves and she did this on multiple occasions to not only get them to believe the story but to believe it herself while making it up.

    • @eycnccm
      @eycnccm 2 роки тому +11

      Absolutely

    • @90sbaby1
      @90sbaby1 2 роки тому +63

      I agree. The 911 call, you just ask for an ambulance. The ambulance call sounded like preemptive explanations like an investigation. Not an urgent call for ambulance. And why does Jose need to intervene with the 911 call. Is the lady who called special needs and needs help making a call? Lol

    • @KathleenEdge
      @KathleenEdge 2 роки тому +11

      @@90sbaby1 isn't he trained in CPR? I am a medical professional... I'd grab the phone so I could clearly communicate and act in an appropriate manner. Regular people freak out and cannot often properly explain the condition of the patient.

    • @90sbaby1
      @90sbaby1 2 роки тому +38

      @@KathleenEdge Where was he clearly communicating anything... and a cpr professional shouldn't even be on the phone. They...should be...oh I don't know...doing cpr?! Also. I don't know, nor care, if you're actually a "medical professional" or not.

    • @wendyeskelin8765
      @wendyeskelin8765 2 роки тому +20

      That is exactly what I thought when one of the ladies explained, she came in the door and she was shaking her boots off so she didn't track in to the carpet and then she walked in and put her purse over here.. on and on. seemed shady to me. No one asked for a second by second replay.

  • @katerossthebosss
    @katerossthebosss 2 роки тому +685

    The utter rage I felt while listening to Lee explain how the police informed him about Tamla’s passing and how they handled her body at the funeral home was un-fucking-believable. That poor man and his children deserve REAL answers. I hope they’re doing alright

    • @rosedolch8637
      @rosedolch8637 2 роки тому +6

      Why was he refusing to give them his name 3 times and then get sarcastic giving them his NICKNAME instead when they had something that important to tell him??

    • @twemont
      @twemont 2 роки тому +38

      @@rosedolch8637 Because the cops were being rude and obnoxious and rude to him
      Like a lot of cops are to any people of color. It's on the news in the states all the time. Lee could have being harassed for something stupid and had every right to k ow what it was pertaining to. And police SHOULD have responded appropriately.

    • @crazyhorsegirl6548
      @crazyhorsegirl6548 2 роки тому +9

      @@rosedolch8637 also he gave them his full name the third time as he explains, because they kept asking for “Lee”, not “Leander”.

    • @reinadelaluz1573
      @reinadelaluz1573 2 роки тому +12

      @@rosedolch8637 people usually become defensive if they are being met with aggression. Instead of showing empathy they came at him like that! I think anyone would feel that way if they came to your house asking rudely.

    • @Starhung1
      @Starhung1 2 роки тому +8

      @@rosedolch8637 you’re definitely white

  • @Ci76ers
    @Ci76ers Рік тому +819

    “Because she’s the life of the party” they way how she said that just made me know everything I needed to know. Disgusting.

    • @Franb60
      @Franb60 Рік тому +71

      Same. It could not be more clear after that one comment alone

    • @allhailnyss
      @allhailnyss Рік тому +33

      Yes I noticed that too!!

    • @Cheshirechanel
      @Cheshirechanel Рік тому +75

      Yup like they were jealous

    • @Will0Bz
      @Will0Bz Рік тому +72

      Yes! You can hear the jealousy in her voice! Disgusting!

    • @mellorose1436
      @mellorose1436 Рік тому

      I agree, what a bi@!#.

  • @寝坊太郎-h5j
    @寝坊太郎-h5j 9 місяців тому +17

    This has just confirmed to me again, that the US is a weird, dangerous place.

  • @user-td2gm3us9b
    @user-td2gm3us9b 2 роки тому +552

    Why did they call her « That woman » ? Seems like they didn’t see her as a friend or an equal even if it was the first time they met her

    • @vicd8346
      @vicd8346 2 роки тому +58

      I also found it so disturbing. Should have remembered the name of a woman you spent whole night socializing with. It's not like there were 30 new faces to memorize everyone's name.

    • @rrosemary22
      @rrosemary22 2 роки тому +13

      Was thinking the same thing 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @vicd8346
      @vicd8346 2 роки тому

      @T Williams yep that part about distancing is probably right too. I just can’t comprehend why someone their age would wanna do that when there’s no apparent motive? But i believe one of the dudes (parole officer) probably did it or some accident happened and they all decided to just cover it up :(((

  • @kc9722
    @kc9722 2 роки тому +1368

    Whether they’re guilty or not, the way these so called “friends” are talking about this woman is disgusting. Who turns down and insults a gift someone brings you, especially when you don’t know them that well? And the way they called her the life of the party didn’t sound endearing at all, it sounded derogatory. What a terrible group of people.

    • @ashleytaccone5298
      @ashleytaccone5298 2 роки тому +49

      Right, I think if nothing else they could be guilty of neglect in the situation. It's just so confusing though really cuz it just doesn't make sense

    • @Sshazex
      @Sshazex 2 роки тому +92

      Yes! I felt that undertone too. Especially the one lady who made it a point she was the only smoker. SMH

    • @Myaccount923
      @Myaccount923 2 роки тому +68

      They must’ve have been jealous of her or her sons! Maybe her sons were better players on the team. Psychos

    • @nicolesweetiepieaj9747
      @nicolesweetiepieaj9747 2 роки тому +5

      @@Myaccount923 lol literally

    • @madisonheeney9612
      @madisonheeney9612 2 роки тому +24

      Right! They are talking down on her so so much

  • @shan3362
    @shan3362 2 роки тому +1396

    All of those people at that gathering know more than what they are saying. This is a blatant racially charged murder…. It’s plain to see. I hope we will find justice for this beautiful woman whom thought she could trust such horrendously horrible people. If this case is not found to be a premeditated murder by all involved here, then there will be no justice. Horrific crime here!!!!

    • @GoogleUser-lo7jo
      @GoogleUser-lo7jo 2 роки тому +31

      The ladies are acting weird too. I wish she just go home instead of staying to these group, nobody wants to be with her and to "sleep buddy" her. i feel bad. And the tequilla thing i feel sad about her that they are showing how they didnt like it, I really feel sorry for Tamala.

    • @cindywilbur4148
      @cindywilbur4148 2 роки тому +14

      There is NOTHING that says this murder was racially motivated!! It is however plain to see that the lack of investigation was DEFINITELY because she was a black woman! If a white woman was murdered by a group of black women this case would have been solved!!

    • @chrissy3875
      @chrissy3875 2 роки тому +5

      @@cindywilbur4148 yup esp because of this places history... :(

    • @corimoon3360
      @corimoon3360 2 роки тому +9

      @@cindywilbur4148 there’s a LOT that says this murder was racially motivated. Literally look at where it takes place. The people involved. Don’t be obtuse.

    • @cindywilbur4148
      @cindywilbur4148 2 роки тому +2

      @@corimoon3360 Wow you're an idiot! Tell me exactly why you believe the murder was racially motivated! Why? Because there was a house full of white people? Her husband said when he was on video chat with her she was in a great mood and seemed to be having a great time. I guess that should tell you nobody was being rude or singling her out. Are the people in the house known racists? She was friends with the white woman who owned the house....tell me what is going through your tiny brain?

  • @Edna-qo8hq
    @Edna-qo8hq 11 місяців тому +46

    Whenever someone is face down, and someone finds that person you usually are frantic, but everyone seems cool and without a care, moving slowly , wow! They was full of it, however, what go around come around eventually you get what you sow!

  • @Emrose93
    @Emrose93 2 роки тому +1949

    This whole case is really sad and frustrating. Everyone at that party is weird and the way they behaved and how the authorities did as well was a total injustice to Tamla, Lee, and her kids.

    • @86gemini64
      @86gemini64 2 роки тому +84

      This is my hometown They're racists

    • @adrianeelise3849
      @adrianeelise3849 2 роки тому +18

      @@86gemini64 that’s horrible

    • @chaoswitch1974
      @chaoswitch1974 2 роки тому +20

      Totally! I'm 15 minutes in and I'm already annoyed by these lame ass beeyotches. Every time I think about leaving LA, I think I'll have to put up with lame people and I just can't.

    • @westonhull7595
      @westonhull7595 2 роки тому +9

      @@chaoswitch1974 right bc there aren’t any lame ppl in LA lol…

    • @javiershania3186
      @javiershania3186 2 роки тому +2

      @@westonhull7595 my exact thoughts lol

  • @lizathelion5256
    @lizathelion5256 2 роки тому +722

    “your friend from the islands” “i couldn’t remember her name” “HAD to be the life of the party” “that woman”
    i also read that they talk lightly about it on facebook. they didn’t care even a little bit. they’re all responsible for something and somebody is guilty of murder.
    i’m sick to my stomach.

    • @scarlencheco27
      @scarlencheco27 2 роки тому +42

      I honestly feel like everyone had a part to play in this I don’t understand how the original plan was to “sleep
      Over “ and some how everyone had an excuse to leave home and the fact that you can see how cold they explain the story and how nobody tried to check if she was breathing right away !!! if i see someone I just chilled with laying out on the floor face down why won’t I check if she’s breathing very sus .

    • @TI77Y7ACE
      @TI77Y7ACE 2 роки тому +27

      @@scarlencheco27 yeah that woman started praying instead of checking her then goes up stairs & lightly knocks on the host’s door bc she doesn’t want to disturb them?? There’s no excuse for her not checking her first, but then U bang on that door til it comes down to get some help ! Then she beats around the bush to get them to come downstairs 😑disgusting ppl. I don’t know how anyone could conduct themselves like this.. esp how they casually talk about it all afterwards as well. There’s no way I could walk thru life if I knew anything about what happened after that

    • @scarlencheco27
      @scarlencheco27 2 роки тому +3

      @@TI77Y7ACE exactly ik I’m not bugging everything about this case screams sus . All I can think about is how the females bf that was smoking with tam got angry about her smoking with his girl I feel like that’s very interesting 🤨 if you know what I mean

    • @xlienscozyliving
      @xlienscozyliving 2 роки тому +13

      It sounds to me that they were jealous of her
      This so called party was a way to bully and outcast her
      Some people smoke when they’re stressed, anxious. Someone else pointed out she stepped out several times to smoke. The times she called her husband in a good mood was possibly to reassure him, and maybe even help her get through the rest of the night. Idk what happened to this woman. It’s possible she could’ve very much fell over, but how everyone else is acting? Idk it’s so weird

    • @victoriag3967
      @victoriag3967 2 роки тому +5

      This. These women are disgusting…. Who talks about a person that way?!?!?

  • @Eponine_Sandon
    @Eponine_Sandon 2 роки тому +1476

    The way way the police talk to her husband verses the “friends” is telling.

  • @PiscesRus
    @PiscesRus 8 місяців тому +18

    The fact nobody attempted to check her body or give her CPR says everything.. they tryna set up a scene for the police

  • @ellielouise3296
    @ellielouise3296 2 роки тому +668

    If you see a lifeless body laying face down on the ground, you’re not going to pray, lightly knock on the door of your niece before you run outside and call for help. How did she instantly know she was dead? She could’ve just passed out drunk or have been hurt? But somehow they knew she was dead

    • @suthrndaysi
      @suthrndaysi 2 роки тому +22

      Yes, I am a pray-er and a believer. I would pray as I got the phone and called 911. BEFORE going to wake up other people. I would wake them up as I was on the phone.

    • @pagecarlee626
      @pagecarlee626 2 роки тому +12

      @@suthrndaysi I hope you never have to be in the situation to decide help someone with action or help someone with your internal-private conversation with your chosen deity, but if it does & you believe in the Christian God, just know that you're called to act not simply pray from the sidelines. Your god does not need your first action to be prayer, maybe you were the answer to the person in needs prayers but because you choose not to act they are worse off. Just help people, it's not difficult.

    • @niaram
      @niaram 2 роки тому +37

      @@pagecarlee626 the person is literally saying they wouldn’t stop to pray

    • @alyssadana5011
      @alyssadana5011 2 роки тому +2

      Exactly. Too odd.

    • @littlepowerpuff
      @littlepowerpuff 2 роки тому +20

      @@pagecarlee626 you misread their comment

  • @angmeg4343
    @angmeg4343 2 роки тому +906

    They literally referred to seeing her body as “that woman”. Couldn’t even use her name. They’re more concerned with their memories than her loss of life. I am so sorry to Tamala and her family.

    • @daninee
      @daninee 2 роки тому +21

      Yeah, it's distancing language, Chris Watts did the same when he was referring to his girls as "those kids" so they are definitely hiding something. Maybe protecting the xanex lady? She's definitely behaving the weirdest.

    • @barbaraholland2809
      @barbaraholland2809 2 роки тому +3

      @@daninee I agree with you 💯. I thought the same about the lady taking Xanax. Sounds like they are protecting their true friend. 🙏💔😭😷

    • @angmeg4343
      @angmeg4343 2 роки тому +1

      It greatly bugs me that the door was left open. Almost like someone knew that it records when it’s opened and closed and wanted to be able to go in and out without it being recorded. My theory is that the owner or her boyfriend went out there offered her the Xanax and attacked her

  • @deangelabriggs6413
    @deangelabriggs6413 2 роки тому +572

    We need a petition!! I’m utterly disgusted and the detectives should be thoroughly investigated as well

    • @jLyn1122
      @jLyn1122 2 роки тому +11

      The case was reopened and the department was investigated. Unfortunately, it was closed again.

    • @Talkbirthtomepodcast
      @Talkbirthtomepodcast 2 роки тому +9

      We’ve got to do something. Her family deserves it.

    • @dennyrobson626
      @dennyrobson626 2 роки тому +5

      @@Talkbirthtomepodcast I couldn't agree more. This case is so disgusting. These woman are involved. The police dept well that's another story. I hope that her husband sues the hell out of them. It won't bring her back but at last they will get some justice

  • @favor138
    @favor138 10 місяців тому +18

    The truth WILL come out. Prayers her family gets justice soon!