When Jealousy Takes Over: The Murder of Heather Garraus

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  • @christinabiersack2304
    @christinabiersack2304 2 роки тому +3975

    Shanna was seeing 3 different people and STILL wasn’t satisfied. That’s terrifying in itself

    • @Thisplaceisaprison3912
      @Thisplaceisaprison3912 2 роки тому +3

      That’s a mental disorder. She needs so much validation that she just needs more and more people giving her attention and if they don’t she manipulates them. I know a girl like this and it’s only a matter of time before I see her on the news for something like this.

    • @aidasa3791
      @aidasa3791 2 роки тому +1

      she is the typical disgusting pathetic loser who is a psychopath and a danger to society.

    • @AnxChan
      @AnxChan 2 роки тому +228

      Even if she had gotten Ignacio in the end she would have bored of him the same, she just liked the challenge

    • @LC05
      @LC05 2 роки тому +101

      @@AnxChan Probably not the challenge as much as she couldn't deal with rejection.

    • @ashwiseclev
      @ashwiseclev 2 роки тому +5

      What? Never heard that before!

  • @sarahcordle7762
    @sarahcordle7762 2 роки тому +2522

    Also - it is just crazy to me that before Shawna shot Heather she said “you’ve ruined my life” … SHE ruined YOUR life? Are you kidding me?

  • @jeremiahbrown2339
    @jeremiahbrown2339 2 роки тому +3107

    She was stalking a whole family while being with her husband? That's next level crazy. And she was forcing Ig to not use protection? At that point my wife would've had to just find out bc there's no way I'd be getting that crazy lady pregnant!

    • @Eva-gx2ub
      @Eva-gx2ub 2 роки тому +333

      If someone asked me not to use protection with them I wouldn't even take my pants off I'd be running out of the house immediately

    • @anaj4292
      @anaj4292 2 роки тому +254

      And let her get pregnant twice like ??

    • @martam.1994
      @martam.1994 2 роки тому

      Ignacio is a liar and a cheater and I don't believe one word he said. It's clear he doesn't want to take any responsibility for what's happened and tries to play a victim - "my wife made me cheat because she wouldn't have sex with me", "I was only sleeping with my lover because she was threatening me". Bullshit.

    • @beatricegomez6736
      @beatricegomez6736 2 роки тому +126

      And she had a lesbian relationship going toooooo just sick broad

    • @beatricegomez6736
      @beatricegomez6736 2 роки тому +38

      She is a flat out liar lol just a joke

  • @lydiapfeil1307
    @lydiapfeil1307 2 роки тому +4810

    The fact that this woman is testifying in court and still calling Ignacio by his pet name "Ig" just feels like she still thinks she has ownership of another person's husband. Both her and Ignacio are disgusting

    • @kirstiecowie2141
      @kirstiecowie2141 2 роки тому +123

      Yes that absolutely disgusted me!!

    • @iheartbridalcouture5989
      @iheartbridalcouture5989 2 роки тому +8

      Narcissists do believe they own you until you go no contact and show them otherwise. Shawna is a textbook malignant narcissist

    • @Checkitsista2
      @Checkitsista2 2 роки тому +86

      exact same thing i was thinking the whole time!!!! made my skin crawl each time

    • @victoriaomdahl9890
      @victoriaomdahl9890 2 роки тому +80

      With her crocodile tears.

    • @preetirachel5352
      @preetirachel5352 2 роки тому +40

      @@victoriaomdahl9890 yes omg ! Her tears are soooo fake

  • @simonbrushes
    @simonbrushes 2 роки тому +3516

    Ladies and gentleman, please stop giving cheaters chances. They don’t deserve it. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Period.

  • @elisalima7159
    @elisalima7159 2 роки тому +1836

    Kendall this is the story of my cousins parents, sadly she has now passed. I feel so honored to hear you tell this story and keep Heather’s name alive! ❤️

    • @PastleLif3
      @PastleLif3 2 роки тому +78

      Oh no do you mean Heather’s daughter? What happened to her?

    • @princessnini4273
      @princessnini4273 2 роки тому +184

      @@PastleLif3 yes her daughter got into a car accident in 2015 :( died at 17

    • @yasminee5236
      @yasminee5236 2 роки тому +102

      @@princessnini4273 omg. This is so incredibly sad.

    • @ruthschneegas7308
      @ruthschneegas7308 2 роки тому +166

      Poor baby girl. I pray she's now in a peaceful place with her Momma and her grandparents.

    • @user-he7sh3nd5t
      @user-he7sh3nd5t 2 роки тому +76

      I’m so sorry your family has known this pain ❤️

  • @Jordan-nw4sj
    @Jordan-nw4sj 2 роки тому +3422

    Small detail, but she’s pregnant and getting wasted to the point of not remembering what she said? What a horrible person.

    • @haleytruslow7200
      @haleytruslow7200 2 роки тому +259

      That is no small detail to the baby 😢

    • @StephanieMartinez-jl7eu
      @StephanieMartinez-jl7eu 2 роки тому +62

      My thoughts exactly...smh

    • @Jordan-nw4sj
      @Jordan-nw4sj 2 роки тому +205

      @@haleytruslow7200 totally agree, I meant small detail in the context that this is a story of that same woman committing murder. Drinking during pregnancy isn’t surprising considering what else she did.

    • @_VICK_
      @_VICK_ 2 роки тому +123

      That stood out to me as well. And how casual she just said how drunk she was like it’s no big deal

    • @mahailaclay6057
      @mahailaclay6057 2 роки тому +89

      She acted like it was no big deal that she was absolutely wasted while pregnant. No remorse for it either.

  • @rebeccadodd1394
    @rebeccadodd1394 Рік тому +259

    This is so sad and scary, Heather did literally nothing and was killed for it. To think that you could just be living your life with no idea that the people closest to you are lying and manipulating, dragging you into such a dangerous situation, it's a terrifying thought. Poor Heather deserved so much better.

  • @DawnNa_22
    @DawnNa_22 Рік тому +456

    The fact that she went to a bar to tell Ignacio she was pregnant, and was so upset about him ‘disrespecting’ her by hanging out with his WIFE, that she decided to get wasted (while again, pregnant) should’ve told Ignacio everything he needed to know. Poor Heather didn’t deserve any of what happened to her.

    • @brielliott04
      @brielliott04 Рік тому +20

      Omggg for some reason I didn’t even put that together!! I was cleaning while listening so that gross fact flew over my head. You’re right, she’s as horrifying and lowdown as they come…

    • @jasminedavis3030
      @jasminedavis3030 8 місяців тому +8

      I heavily suspect the first baby wasn’t even his to begin with, she was also openly cheating with 2 other dudes at the time, but had she not terminated the pregnancy poor baby would’ve suffered fetal alcohol syndrome.

    • @rosestrife1498
      @rosestrife1498 8 місяців тому +6

      ​@jasminedavis3030 dude fr I've had a couple of pregnancy scares and I have 100% never even CONSIDERED drinking during those times. It's crazy af that poor baby would have just been used as a pawn in the relationship.

  • @terriehumphries6028
    @terriehumphries6028 2 роки тому +4714

    He may not have killed her, but Ignacios selfishness after she lost her parents and needed to be on medication was just despicable. When you say your vows you are also vowing to be with a person in sickness and in health, sickness being the operative word in their case. The saddest part is with all the people he chose to cheat with, he ended up cheating with a narcissistic psycho. He also had a duty to his child by her but that could have been handled through court. Anyway, this is very Sad.

    • @cherubcherrycola2382
      @cherubcherrycola2382 2 роки тому +128

      Yes this case is truly infuriating! And not that it matters but his wife was beautiful. He had no self respect. I honestly hope this haunts him. He brought this on his wife. If you remove him from the picture she would have never came in contact with her.

    • @joshgarcia2495
      @joshgarcia2495 2 роки тому +3

      @@cherubcherrycola2382 😌✊🏽😜🤨

    • @kristineblatter9514
      @kristineblatter9514 2 роки тому +30

      Ok, not appropriate for the story, but 1:37 in, and I'm giggling because the day before the May snowstorm, I posted on FB: "Damnit. I smell Greeley."

    • @mrahim1342
      @mrahim1342 2 роки тому

      I agree with everything you said except for the part about him having a duty to that child. Shawna was r*ping him bc she was using blackmail to force him to have sex with her and also to not wear protection therefore the child is a product of that and the same way I would never say that a woman should have to carry her r*pists child to term and care for it after it is born I can’t say that he had a responsibility to care for that child. The relationship started out consensual but the moment she started blackmailing him it became r*pe. He was terrible for what he did to his wife but that does not negate the severity of what Shawna did to him.

    • @lindseyhart4562
      @lindseyhart4562 2 роки тому +11

      I lost my whole family in 2017. I had to get over it because I am the sole support of my family

  • @brittneybrisbin744
    @brittneybrisbin744 2 роки тому +4264

    It's really sad that Igancio started cheating on Heather just because her medication made it harder for her in the bedroom. It sounds like he just blamed that on her, and was like "Oh well I guess I'll go out and cheat!" when it had only been around a year. So gross and sad.

    • @plannerbrittany
      @plannerbrittany 2 роки тому +324

      That sickens me. Love isn’t all about that and it makes me so sad to think she suffered and once she was trying to get help he left her in such a crucial time of need for her. Disgusting!

    • @danielalopez2028
      @danielalopez2028 2 роки тому +2

      @@plannerbrittany j. Y
      Nuj

    • @danielalopez2028
      @danielalopez2028 2 роки тому +1

      u

    • @kristinmolina508
      @kristinmolina508 2 роки тому +68

      Typical and sad

    • @cccc7534
      @cccc7534 2 роки тому

      honestly not suprised though. men are ruthless, most of them don’t actually feel real feelings.

  • @ameliajoyner5220
    @ameliajoyner5220 2 роки тому +614

    Shana was really out here insulting Heather for her looks.. girl do you own a mirror? What a trainwreck

    • @cleanserene6330
      @cleanserene6330 11 місяців тому

      She really is a dumb c-- not allowed to call people out, or call people names, but she's got such a punchable face...I feel terrible for her kids because of her selfishness, you start swapping paternity like whack-a-mole and it's just suffering that ripples outward. She's just hateful. So utterly unhinged.

    • @Star_Shinee
      @Star_Shinee 11 місяців тому +1

      She knows that Heather was perfect in every way possible and she was jealous you can tell, otherwise she wouldn’t have felt threatened by Heather and k**led her

    • @elizabethcompton738
      @elizabethcompton738 10 місяців тому

      I know, right? And to think that Ig chose THAT thing to have an affair with when he had a gorgeous wife at home. He's a POS.

    • @clivematthews95
      @clivematthews95 9 місяців тому +36

      A trainwreck home wrecker 😂

    • @lyricxravenjenkins7401
      @lyricxravenjenkins7401 9 місяців тому +4

      @@clivematthews95right 😂

  • @PastleLif3
    @PastleLif3 2 роки тому +2696

    I don’t understand why married women go after married men! This is a pathetic case. Heather did not deserve this and I hope her husband never finds happiness. I find it bizarre as soon as wife is unable to give hubby their “needs” they right away go and find a way to get it.

    • @pegs1659
      @pegs1659 2 роки тому +188

      And they sure try to make the wife feel like a pos because she can't.

    • @lilyt18
      @lilyt18 2 роки тому

      lol you make it sound like married men who cheat are victims. Like they just can’t resist the charms of some seductress 😂 puh-lease...
      Married men should grow up and control their di*ks.

    • @tinab3627
      @tinab3627 2 роки тому +55

      I know. I hate it. People should stop doing that

    • @MatrixRefugee
      @MatrixRefugee 2 роки тому +108

      I don't get it either. If he's capable of cheating on his wife, it's a whole parade of red flags with marchers and acrobats and bands spelling out "HE COULD CHEAT ON YOU, TOO!"

    • @DNTodt
      @DNTodt 2 роки тому

      When you write it like women "go after" married men you are literally perpetuating as though men are children who women just manipulate.

  • @heavenleigh2463
    @heavenleigh2463 2 роки тому +843

    The way she fake cry’s is so CREEPY. She goes from totally emotional to straight face in a split second. Literally gave me the chills.

    • @haleybreshears2259
      @haleybreshears2259 2 роки тому +4

      soooo chilling

    • @lowryannashelby9228
      @lowryannashelby9228 2 роки тому +6

      I noticed that... like huh

    • @WendyTheCat86
      @WendyTheCat86 2 роки тому +1

      She’s a sociopath. She only imitates human feelings while not having real feelings for other human beeings except herself

    • @Nizhonibearcreek
      @Nizhonibearcreek 2 роки тому +4

      Like a demon

    • @salit3749
      @salit3749 2 роки тому +9

      very much like Amber Heard

  • @pricelesswilkie5276
    @pricelesswilkie5276 2 роки тому +2291

    Yes, Shawna literally killed Heather. But in my opinion Ignacio killed her too. If he never got in an affair with Shawna, Heather would not have been murdered by her. I hope he remembers that for the rest of his life.

    • @Jordan-nw4sj
      @Jordan-nw4sj 2 роки тому

      I mean, shawna raped him when she forced him into continuing the affair with black mail. Coercions is rape. He’s a victim of hers, too. Sure he chose to start the affair, but he was literally raped for years afterwards. I don’t think if they genders were reversed anyone would be ignoring that fact.
      I hope he has some peace.

    • @annacostello5181
      @annacostello5181 2 роки тому +177

      Men will always toss a good woman aside for a young chippy

    • @Unknown2345girl
      @Unknown2345girl 2 роки тому +31

      It doesn’t work like that

    • @luciaseacreature8705
      @luciaseacreature8705 2 роки тому +25

      somehow I doubt it would cause a stir in that creep

    • @heathernikki5734
      @heathernikki5734 2 роки тому +74

      Agree, he's gross

  • @PreciousLifeStories
    @PreciousLifeStories 2 роки тому +729

    I feel so sad for Heather. She lost her parents, been betrayed and cheated on by her husband who was supposed to support her while grieving from the lost of her parents. I wonder how her husband can still sleep at nights. The mistress seemed to be a total psycho.

    • @helenpierce-lamoureux3124
      @helenpierce-lamoureux3124 2 роки тому +13

      I BET he can't stop thinking about it to SOME DEGREE everyday and FULL OF REGRET!

    • @Bfdidc
      @Bfdidc 2 роки тому +2

      Good.

    • @Grav3yardMoth
      @Grav3yardMoth Рік тому +20

      He probably sleeps great at night, like he did when he rationalized his affair. He made himself feel less guilty for cheating by claiming that his AP "wouldn't let him" leave. So he probably did the same with Heathers death. Making himself believe that because his affair was over, what Shauna chose to do to Heather had nothing to do with him. He's clearly the king of absolving himself of responsibility for ANYTHING.

    • @cynthiasparks7363
      @cynthiasparks7363 Рік тому

      P

    • @BellaElla13
      @BellaElla13 Рік тому +5

      @@helenpierce-lamoureux3124 ppl like him have no issues with conscience they have none, hence have no trouble sleeping

  • @thaliaperez2656
    @thaliaperez2656 2 роки тому +1708

    The fact that he said that he kept having sex with her just so she wouldn’t tell his wife. That does not sit right with me.

    • @chelscara
      @chelscara 2 роки тому +385

      It’s the most bullshit thing I’ve ever heard. He didn’t give a shit about his wife. He cared about getting his.

    • @thaliaperez2656
      @thaliaperez2656 2 роки тому

      @@chelscara facts cause if he really wanted to put a stop to it he would of told on himself . He just wanted the whole cake fuck him!

    • @Himaryous
      @Himaryous 2 роки тому +141

      I don't buy it. I think he was making excuses.

    • @jr5925
      @jr5925 2 роки тому +71

      Maybe he’d have stopped if he’d been ‘allowed’, but yeah let’s not pretend he tied down and force fed Viagra or something.

    • @alexakawaii8440
      @alexakawaii8440 2 роки тому +80

      He's just a coward at the end of the day and got Heather killed

  • @merimasviland6817
    @merimasviland6817 2 роки тому +1149

    Shawna reminds me a lot of Jodi Arias on the stand. Manipulative, fake crying, laying and really bealives in her own story

    • @gabbanator
      @gabbanator 2 роки тому +47

      Absolutely! She is so manipulative and vindictive ugh, it's just gross

    • @BoyMom40
      @BoyMom40 2 роки тому +36

      YES! Just like Jodi she has an answer for everything!

    • @fourtwenty1813
      @fourtwenty1813 2 роки тому +19

      I don't think I've seen someone on Kendall's channel that I've despised this much

    • @emilysansone1861
      @emilysansone1861 2 роки тому +5

      totally

    • @BoyMom40
      @BoyMom40 2 роки тому +29

      @@fourtwenty1813 I have. Casey Anthony, Chris Watts, and Jodi Arias.

  • @kellyflores4931
    @kellyflores4931 2 роки тому +1164

    It is so angering to hear Ignacio playing the victim. Literally makes my blood boil… he claims that he was forced to not using a condom, couldn’t stop the affair. Ignacio could have told Heather the truth at any point but continued to have the affair and made excuses why he didn’t end it. 😡😡😡😡dude is a grown ass man….

    • @oppaloopa3698
      @oppaloopa3698 2 роки тому

      The amount of people who seem to just believe men can’t be raped in these comments is insane. Are “grown ass man” suddenly impervious to abuse? That’s certainly news to me and many, many other men who’ve had partners say “if you don’t have sex with me then x”. Same goes for protection. I know multiple guys who were caught in baby traps/caught STDs because their abusive partners threatened to leave them, kill themselves, etc if they wore condoms. It’s not even slightly uncommon.
      Was he a massive piece of shit who got his wife killed? Absolutely . He’s as guilty as her in that aspect and I hope he dies from shame. But acting like Heathers murderer gets a rape pass because he’s both bad and a man is disgusting.
      The lady was nuts. He chose to cheat with her but it’s clear that she was extremely emotionally manipulative and knew how to hurt people right. Or did you think she had three different people chasing her cause of her great personality?
      If that’s how it went down then he is the victim of sexual blackmail. That is a fact. You can be an abuser of one person and a victim of another. Hate to break it to y’all but not every SA survivor is an angelic, weepy young woman in a torn nightgown.

    • @kellyflores4931
      @kellyflores4931 2 роки тому +27

      @@oppaloopa3698 lol what are you talking about my comment literally has nothing to do with abuse. Crazy or not he could have gotten out at anytime. It sounds to me he is making an excuse to not have the affair. No one is saying men can’t be victims lol.

    • @helenpierce-lamoureux3124
      @helenpierce-lamoureux3124 2 роки тому

      he cld've looked into a vasectomy for Christ's sake and the pig would never have known it.

    • @tessag3019
      @tessag3019 2 роки тому +7

      Shawna doesn’t anger you? Clearly unstable person trying to play the victim

    • @kellyflores4931
      @kellyflores4931 2 роки тому +14

      @@tessag3019 oh she does too. Lol

  • @carlyrobertson4755
    @carlyrobertson4755 9 місяців тому +35

    “She held me hostage”…. My eyes rolled so hard. That poor POOR man. 🙄🥴🤥

    • @1927su
      @1927su Місяць тому +1

      Yes, I call bs too.

  • @samiiikpy
    @samiiikpy 2 роки тому +1248

    Being a dispatcher myself this is exactly how stuff happens in departments. That's why I keep to myself.

    • @Mysassafrasroots
      @Mysassafrasroots 2 роки тому +68

      that's wildddd but I'm not surprised. so much stuff happens in office. it's absolutely nuts

    • @katymcgee4254
      @katymcgee4254 2 роки тому +120

      How the military is too, I refused to go to any after work festivities, not catching me up

    • @Mysassafrasroots
      @Mysassafrasroots 2 роки тому +55

      @@katymcgee4254 oh absolutely!!! That was so messy. I was a military wife at one point, hubs is veteran now , but when we was living on base I stayed out of the drama because there was soooo much.

    • @katymcgee4254
      @katymcgee4254 2 роки тому +55

      @@Mysassafrasroots I was in myself and it was just dirtyyyyyy, hard to have respect for anyone when you’re watching everyone cheat with each other. I’ll pass.

    • @AbsurdExistentialist
      @AbsurdExistentialist 2 роки тому +24

      I've worked in a call center and yeah, things spread in those types of environment as well xD

  • @A_Girl_named_nick
    @A_Girl_named_nick 2 роки тому +700

    The first 20 minutes of this story I am thinking "how does ANYONE function like this. Two affairs. Two pregnancies." That amount of constant stress. Like wow. Crazzzyyyy

    • @kikilo9647
      @kikilo9647 2 роки тому +43

      Dude i cant imagine doing all that, she could have placed that energy and be great as in president or ceo type of shit, it was a lot like a whole lot.

    • @acoasterbro
      @acoasterbro 2 роки тому

      She's traaaasshhh

    • @gianna9415
      @gianna9415 2 роки тому +38

      Exactly what I thought, when did she ever have the time to raise 2 kids, work and have all those affairs, sounds sooo exhausting to me

    • @jadesefue5323
      @jadesefue5323 2 роки тому +32

      my mother was like this woman. it's a narcissist thing. they feed off of attention and get it in any form they can. no matter the stressers, if it even is a stresser for them

    • @anhserc3534
      @anhserc3534 2 роки тому

      Narcissistic sociopath for sure

  • @marinamarti4757
    @marinamarti4757 2 роки тому +1174

    This is my aunt Heather and my uncle Iggy. Thank you so much Kendall for bringing this case to life and talking about her story! She was a wonderful human being

  • @heathert.4637
    @heathert.4637 Рік тому +30

    WHEN will these people realize that cheating is soo much more than a betrayal of vows. Depending on who you cheat on/ with, it’s DEADLY.

  • @virginiagirl6628
    @virginiagirl6628 2 роки тому +951

    I never discuss a person’s appearance but Shawna looks mean and Heather looked so sweet. Plus Shawna is lying through her teeth and it’s so obvious. Why do narcissists believe that everyone will believe their bs? Thanks for covering this story. Everyone….don’t give a cheater any more chances. They can’t be trusted.

    • @mikehunt7360
      @mikehunt7360 2 роки тому +91

      I’ll discuss her appearance, she looked horrid and wretched. Her outsides match her insides as well. Shawna was very pretty IMO

    • @juliaconnell
      @juliaconnell 2 роки тому +35

      yeah, I mean, seriously?!? Heather is so just lovely, from the sounds of it, inside as well as out, really gorgeous & stunning in many of those photos - while Shawna on the other hand... (I tend to listen to these while doing other things, I saw Shawna in the video footage of her on the stand - seriously? he cheated on this lovely wife with HER?? - then went back to the start to see what Heather looked like, even more stunned (yes I'm shallow, judging on appearances, but seriously...)

    • @renelathrop6518
      @renelathrop6518 2 роки тому +12

      This is absolutely what I was thinking. I mean Heather was so lovely - inside and out. Also, how did Shawna get Michelle to go along with all this. Was she blackmailing her too? Like... does not compute.

    • @Mmm...yummymummy
      @Mmm...yummymummy 2 роки тому

      Oh pooh. Nobody is perfect. Men who are rejected will err from the path of the righteous. Does't make them bad, just people who are weak.

    • @HeyItsSarah30
      @HeyItsSarah30 2 роки тому +2

      @@mikehunt7360 you mean Heather was pretty? Shawna was the blonde one who killed Heather and kept fake crying in all the videos. LMAO the fact that she thought people would believe that bs

  • @lifesajoke6965
    @lifesajoke6965 2 роки тому +492

    Everyone involved in this story was completely insane, except for Heather.

    • @Mmm...yummymummy
      @Mmm...yummymummy 2 роки тому +18

      Ste was deluding herself. She knew all along. She just wanted to try to keep the dream. Keep the life style.

    • @bm-ww8kb
      @bm-ww8kb Рік тому

      @@Mmm...yummymummy the life style? lol maybe she couldnt bear the thought of getting divorced and breaking up their family after falling into a depressive episode after losing both of her parents.
      man people are so shitty.

    • @bbryant2503
      @bbryant2503 Рік тому

      What lifestyle? Are you dumb? Her parents died back to back. She was surely preoccupied

    • @worldwideally
      @worldwideally 9 місяців тому +4

      @@Mmm...yummymummythat’s love not psychopathy

  • @jean-jn3nq
    @jean-jn3nq 2 роки тому +591

    I can’t be the only one asking “do these people ever actually work?” Hell, I barely even have time to eat lunch.

    • @874823794
      @874823794 2 роки тому +9

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭

    • @victoriagraham6470
      @victoriagraham6470 2 роки тому +3

      Ya

    • @yenneferL98
      @yenneferL98 2 роки тому +40

      Right??? I don't understand it. I barely have time to have 1 boyfriend lol I enjoy spending time with myself so I wouldn't sacrifice some quiet time for a second boyfriend!!

    • @Mel__21
      @Mel__21 2 роки тому +16

      Omg yes! why would you want extra drama and stress in your life 😅

    • @johhndoee7564
      @johhndoee7564 2 роки тому +2

      Hahahahah 💀💀💀

  • @ErinHiler
    @ErinHiler 2 роки тому +495

    "she held me hostage" Ignacio, my guy, you are NOT the victim.

    • @molleirose
      @molleirose Рік тому +42

      His selfishness led to these events but blackmail for sex is absolutely fucked up no matter the situation around it, he is a victim, but not when it comes to losing his spouse. This entire story is layers and layers of fucked up. I hope Heather and her daughter are at peace now though.

    • @likawavy225
      @likawavy225 Рік тому +1

      @@molleirosehes a victim?? Your dilusional

    • @likawavy225
      @likawavy225 Рік тому +14

      He kept runnin back .. HE LOVED IT . He was being faithful before heather died but trust he would’ve went back too shawna

    • @DeeDeex007o
      @DeeDeex007o Рік тому

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @lauren1352
      @lauren1352 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@molleirosenah bro, he had the chance to be honest and come clean but he chose to give in to the blackmail, he wasnt being held at gun point, his life wasnt being threatened, dude aint a victim

  • @froggygirl999
    @froggygirl999 2 роки тому +1032

    if he had just done the BARE MINIMUM of being a husband, that being not to abuse or cheat, none of this would have ever happened. poor Heather :( i hope she’s resting peacefully

    • @DNTodt
      @DNTodt 2 роки тому

      Unfortunately she isn't resting. She is dead. Not sleeping she was killed.

    • @teona819
      @teona819 2 роки тому +58

      The bar is in hell at this point.

    • @courtneycaldwell9252
      @courtneycaldwell9252 2 роки тому +17

      It disgusts me that most men can’t say no. If they are tempted, it’s in them to entertain… (not all and as you can see from the video, some women are the same way)

    • @CoCo-yv3hl
      @CoCo-yv3hl 2 роки тому +17

      Exactly he could have occupied his time getting his wife help & some toys in the meantime but involving other ppl never ends well

    • @leahflower9924
      @leahflower9924 2 роки тому +3

      So Shawna was married too hmm he probably thought that made the affair a safer proposition because she had an image to protect also whoops lol

  • @ThatEducatorChick
    @ThatEducatorChick 2 роки тому +274

    This is a lesson on how adultery can bring unimaginable pain into everyone's life. It doesn't just affect the cheaters, it extends to both families... Smh

  • @petrosinella
    @petrosinella 2 роки тому +274

    Even if Ignacio had never cheated on Heather, I think Shawna would have gotten jealous enough to murder someone sooner or later. She's just that kind of person.

  • @Katie80-501
    @Katie80-501 Рік тому +111

    "He completely disregarded me" "I didn't appreciate being disrespected like that" LADY!! YOU ARE HIS SIDE-PIECE WHO IS ACTIVELY BLACKMAILING HIM!! To talk as if you deserve any respect at all is laughable.

  • @clemmi912
    @clemmi912 2 роки тому +249

    This was Not jealousy but the revenge of a totally narcissistic manipulative woman who could Not get what she wanted.

    • @sarahs5340
      @sarahs5340 2 роки тому +3

      Well said

    • @mo3755
      @mo3755 2 роки тому

      Agree, she's absolutely disgusting!!!

    • @Mmm...yummymummy
      @Mmm...yummymummy 2 роки тому

      Was she drunk when she killed the wife?
      Did she have an alchohol problem?

  • @kristenwatson8270
    @kristenwatson8270 2 роки тому +484

    I feel bad for all of the kids in these families. Poor kids getting dragged into all of this craziness. Also, she actually got on the stand and said she pooped herself. Lol.

    • @desiertoscacti5388
      @desiertoscacti5388 2 роки тому +20

      Poor kids, you are so right. I feel guilty my first thoughts did not involve them, they were the real victims, it is such a trauma that they have to live with the rest of their lives. Both the families' children, I hope they find strength and hope and are able to leave this all behind so that they flourish in their own lives.

  • @cassievalerio3007
    @cassievalerio3007 2 роки тому +1452

    This story is horrible, but my heart breaks for Heather, learning her daughter died in 2015. These beautiful women looked so much alike. Whatever they believed in, i hope they are now together. 😥😭💔

    • @pattycake8272
      @pattycake8272 2 роки тому +36

      yah.. car accident.

    • @Terry-lh8cn
      @Terry-lh8cn 2 роки тому +136

      Heather died first. I feel bad for the daughter, losing her mom and then her own life so early.

    • @chloel.8007
      @chloel.8007 2 роки тому +99

      Oh my goodness I just looked up the daughter. She was her mom's twin. This was the dad's fault.

    • @letty88
      @letty88 2 роки тому

      The Dad is a idiot. I hope he feels guilty.

    • @ashlearhodeskim3112
      @ashlearhodeskim3112 2 роки тому +63

      What? 😭 noooo that’s heartbreaking. Mother and daughter together again. 💔

  • @idkwhattousehere
    @idkwhattousehere 2 роки тому +223

    Heather: *loses both of her parents very unexpectedly and has developed anxiety and depression*
    Ignacio: WhY aReN't YoU pAyInG aTtEnTiOn To Me?!

  • @Satine2001MR
    @Satine2001MR 2 роки тому +209

    who is taking care of all these kids? Who is handling the 911 calls? Who has all this time on their hands to be sleeping with this many people. Good Lord.

    • @Blessedchanel
      @Blessedchanel 2 роки тому +27

      Right! I barely have time to grocery shop yet these people have careers and can have full blown affairs and plan murders! Smh

    • @crystalrosas6052
      @crystalrosas6052 2 роки тому +11

      @@Blessedchanel and have 3 kids that obviously she don't take care of

  • @sideshowratt
    @sideshowratt 2 роки тому +325

    She clearly thought the jury would assume that no one would make up something as embarrassing as shitting their pants. She's one of those manipulators who thinks you can get whatever you want just by pushing the right buttons. Glad they were able to see through it.

    • @cherrymetha3185
      @cherrymetha3185 2 роки тому +14

      She thought she’d covered all the angles and would get away with it as her hubby was a police officer

    • @amberb.6626
      @amberb.6626 2 роки тому +25

      Yes, exactly what I thought! She thought the jury would buy her BS story about the shits, because why would anyone want to admit that?! Lol, how juvenile. Sounds just like Amber TURD 🤣

  • @wompwomp9946
    @wompwomp9946 2 роки тому +396

    Listening to Shawna talk is...ugh. You know when someone is lying about something, they sprinkle in all these unnecessary details, thinking they're so clever.

    • @cb9600
      @cb9600 2 роки тому +5

      Exactly!

    • @jiminisbae69
      @jiminisbae69 2 роки тому +14

      ikr! like when the officer asked her what liquor store she went to and she said so and so because she gets points. like shut up!

    • @bambi_bbholic6343
      @bambi_bbholic6343 2 роки тому +23

      Like Amber Heard 😆

    • @sarahs5340
      @sarahs5340 2 роки тому +2

      She been doing that her whole life! Still telling terrible stories.

    • @hannah8479
      @hannah8479 2 роки тому +2

      @@bambi_bbholic6343 my thoughts exactly 🤣🤣🤣

  • @kristincantrill8874
    @kristincantrill8874 2 роки тому +128

    Heavily drinking after just finding out she’s pregnant…what a gem 🙄

  • @briannamottola
    @briannamottola 2 роки тому +432

    I had a bad mental health crisis and the anti depressants I was put on made my sex drive so low it was non existent and my partner at the time didn’t understand and he left me over it.. after hearing this story I’m glad he left cuz I only want to be with someone who values me for who I am not just my body…

    • @avaforshort681
      @avaforshort681 2 роки тому +36

      Realest thing I’ve ever heard.

    • @kaylo6169
      @kaylo6169 2 роки тому +11

      Have you heard the song Body by Jordan Suaste? The end of your comment reminded me of it. I hope you’re doing well now.

    • @briannamottola
      @briannamottola 2 роки тому +17

      @@kaylo6169 just listened to it what a beautiful song I love that he ends it with saying he’s more than his body

    • @gooseylucy99
      @gooseylucy99 2 роки тому +15

      My ex of 3 years was the same. Him and I were 21 and at the end and the relationship was already in the toilet and when I was starting to lose interest in being intimate with him he went for a girl who was 17, said she was mature for her age and wanted me to end the relationship and not himself

    • @PastleLif3
      @PastleLif3 2 роки тому +8

      @@gooseylucy99 just wow! So sad they leave for these chippys

  • @ItsKaramelloh
    @ItsKaramelloh 2 роки тому +551

    “I know you’re struggling from losing both of your parents at the same time but because you won’t sleep with me whenever I want then I’m going to find what I want elsewhere”. People who cheat are disgusting. Just leave if you’re unhappy. Idk how it would work but if someone cheats and it results in murder (cases similar to this) there should be a charges for the cheater too. Because they are responsible for this happening in the first place.

    • @chelseapthib36
      @chelseapthib36 2 роки тому +11

      👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @dianastamos4439
      @dianastamos4439 2 роки тому +4

      @@chelseapthib36 AGREED

    • @joanodom2104
      @joanodom2104 2 роки тому +2

      I completely agree.

    • @thinkaboutit7483
      @thinkaboutit7483 2 роки тому +2

      yes, she got herself a winner.

    • @iriswaldenburger2315
      @iriswaldenburger2315 2 роки тому

      Lol are you stupid?? You can’t make someone else responsible for another persons actions. It’s like saying “hey, this is your brother who did this and since he is your brother you are responsible”

  • @alessandraespinoza2243
    @alessandraespinoza2243 2 роки тому +731

    these cases just make me realize how selfish some men are. If he would have just been understanding none of this would have happened. But no- he got no sexy time so he was livid.

  • @jennibirdess8450
    @jennibirdess8450 Рік тому +37

    I like the little liquor store detail that Shawna mentions in her police interview. "...I always go there. You know, you get points." Just passing along a helpful hint after killing a person.

    • @JillInTruth
      @JillInTruth 7 місяців тому +2

      Most underrated comment 😂

  • @lisawalter2311
    @lisawalter2311 2 роки тому +434

    I think this was beyond jealousy. Shawna made a career out of being a nasty bully. Her actions were retaliation because she didn’t get her ways.

    • @lexienewman7785
      @lexienewman7785 2 роки тому +20

      it blew my mind when she said “if he didn’t wanna be together he just had to say it” as if she wasn’t blackmailing him into staying w her and sleeping w her

    • @Nizhonibearcreek
      @Nizhonibearcreek 2 роки тому +6

      @@lexienewman7785 agreed … she acted like it was a simple out but continued to harass them after he broke it off .. clearly it wasn’t that easy she was gonna either get him for herself or make heather so miserable that she left him .

    • @houseofinri.hoi1959
      @houseofinri.hoi1959 Рік тому +5

      Narcissistic, Psychopathic characteristics

    • @mister8765
      @mister8765 Рік тому +3

      @@lexienewman7785it’s so bizarre to me to want to force someone to have sex with you if they don’t want to. How can there be any pleasure in that.

    • @EllaGreenn
      @EllaGreenn Рік тому +1

      ​@@mister8765Rape is never about sex, always about power. He was coerced, which technically makes it rape. I don't have any sympathy for him. But for her that power trip was apparently the next best thing after consensual sex, maybe even equally or more satisfying to her ego.

  • @isabelbeck7
    @isabelbeck7 2 роки тому +347

    The way she goes from crying to flat in a split second is just terrifying.

    • @ohmygaszareusolazy
      @ohmygaszareusolazy 2 роки тому +44

      It reminds me of someone else... 🤡💩

    • @avaforshort681
      @avaforshort681 2 роки тому +8

      That’s how you act when you use your feeling against others, instead of being a better person and fixing your manipulative ways.

    • @amberlouden
      @amberlouden 2 роки тому +18

      reminds me of ah

    • @wanderlust410
      @wanderlust410 2 роки тому +1

      @@ohmygaszareusolazy except this lady was a better actor bc people actually believed this psycho

    • @cherrymetha3185
      @cherrymetha3185 2 роки тому +3

      Acting

  • @Myranda.
    @Myranda. 2 роки тому +730

    What an evil woman she is. I feel so much pain for Heather. She didn’t deserve this. 💔

    • @madilynruhl4588
      @madilynruhl4588 2 роки тому +15

      may she rest in peace 🕊

    • @MusketeerGweneth
      @MusketeerGweneth 2 роки тому +21

      I feel bad for Shawna's baby too. The poor child did not ask to be born into such a toxic situation. I hope he got adopted by a good, loving family and that he is safe now. I don't know if Kendell Rae knows anything about what happened to Christian after his mother was sent to prison or if the father took responsibility and took him but I just hope that baby is okay.

    • @louiseleite3866
      @louiseleite3866 2 роки тому +3

      The husband created all this mess by cheating, he was the one who made a wedding vow. Both are as despicable as each other.

    • @redpillfreedom6692
      @redpillfreedom6692 2 роки тому +3

      @@louiseleite3866
      The decision to murder was Shawna's alone. She could have chosen to never get involved with him in the first place.
      Cheating and murder are not on the same level so no, they are not "equally despicable". False equivalency.

  • @admirallily
    @admirallily Рік тому +15

    I’m always surprised at cheaters who complain about being disrespected. Seriously? Your cheating is the ultimate disrespect of someone.

  • @channel69gorlworldnews66
    @channel69gorlworldnews66 2 роки тому +536

    I have a question. If she was with all these people as well as her husband, how did she know it was Ignacio’s baby?

    • @anaj4292
      @anaj4292 2 роки тому +147

      I was thinking this!! I honestly don’t think it was, she just was obsessed with him and would do anything to make him stay. Just a thought

    • @channel69gorlworldnews66
      @channel69gorlworldnews66 2 роки тому +50

      @@anaj4292 that’s what I think too! She thought maybe he would leave Heather or something. Wow.

    • @sharonmacmillan9733
      @sharonmacmillan9733 2 роки тому +11

      Yes this came to my mind aswell

    • @nayelisotoc2836
      @nayelisotoc2836 2 роки тому +34

      I was thinking that as well , but maybe he was the only one who didn’t use protection

    • @biancacollins1909
      @biancacollins1909 2 роки тому +105

      I had the same question 😅 but what I also want to know is … 👀 what was up with this lady that ALL of these ppl wanted her - sexually 🤔

  • @JulieAiken
    @JulieAiken 2 роки тому +242

    I hate giving a "thumbs up" to such tragic stories, but you do cover them so well. Thanks for another excellent video.

  • @kennaluvschu
    @kennaluvschu 2 роки тому +1105

    can you PLEASE cover the case of Mary Vincent? she was on the brink of a horrific death & ended up surviving- im unsure if you cover cases in which the victim survives, but its a suuperrr interesting case & i feel like it would go great with all of your other videos!!

    • @rolypolymom
      @rolypolymom 2 роки тому +69

      Ooooh... that sounds interesting! She has a case coverage form you can fill out! Please do it, and hopefully she'll cover it!

    • @kennaluvschu
      @kennaluvschu 2 роки тому +25

      @@rolypolymom I hope she’ll cover it too! Mary’s story hasn’t been covered by many & i feel as if it can completely help all kinds of people, of all ages & genders. Her story is a lesson that can save people’s lives if its taught!

    • @Anon12077
      @Anon12077 2 роки тому +24

      I wonder if she will cover it because it's.... a really graphic case- super UA-cam unfriendly lol. Hearing that case fucked me up. Definitely a super interesting one tho! EDIT: This case does have heavy themes of SA so just be forewarned if you're planning on checking it out.

    • @RoseWaterxox
      @RoseWaterxox 2 роки тому +11

      she has a link in her bio to give suggestions!!

    • @k.a5765
      @k.a5765 2 роки тому +10

      This would be a great story for lights out.

  • @CoCo-yv3hl
    @CoCo-yv3hl 2 роки тому +77

    Experienced losing my Dad on my 20th bday while in college. I had no one but a boyfriend that I was previously about to end things with because he was horrible to me. After I returned to school from the funeral he knew I was vulnerable & his level of betrayal skyrocketed ( way too much type). I cared but couldn’t fight because the loss of my father was so deep & unexpected I just wanted to hold on to what I knew. So perhaps Heather stayed by intolerable Ig’s side out of grief simply just wanting to hold on not letting go because of the loss she experienced. Just a guess but after learning how to handle grief, what different types of abuse & how to properly date, 10 years later I can’t believe I allowed someone to treat me so bad at any time but especially while grieving. I also hate the saying “ppl do to you what you allow” yes this is true but it’s insensitive & a user mentality. Grief or not you don’t mistreat ppl just because you can. RIP sweet soul Heather

    • @Ladyof_burlesque
      @Ladyof_burlesque 6 місяців тому +2

      I hope you are doing well now. I have been through grief similar to this. I understand how overwhelming it can get.

  • @V.C.88
    @V.C.88 2 роки тому +344

    I hate when Shawna talks about being pregnant. She starts acting like she’s in the verge of tears. Was she trying to get sympathy or something?

    • @alyssamarie333
      @alyssamarie333 2 роки тому +69

      I can’t believe I haven’t heard anyone mention she just found out she was pregnant but then went and got extremely drunk. Crazy to me.

    • @scottcharney1091
      @scottcharney1091 2 роки тому +3

      @mochi This is off the subject, but that's not what "psychotic" means.

    • @mksanders85
      @mksanders85 2 роки тому

      And then immediately stops! I noticed that too!!

    • @lalaluvzbookie
      @lalaluvzbookie 2 роки тому

      Yup

    • @maddyrevenge
      @maddyrevenge 2 роки тому +1

      Narcissists will jump at any opportunity to portray themselves as a victim to seek sympathy.

  • @OM-or3im
    @OM-or3im 2 роки тому +289

    I can’t believe after cheating on her husband, and him agreeing to raise another man’s baby, she tried to frame him in the killing (hence his car and his clothes). What a POC human this woman is. Glad she will serve life. Sad for the other lady who was just going through grief. I’ve been there and van definitely relate to not wanting intimacy at that time of pain and suffering. RIP Heather

    • @whitney8678
      @whitney8678 2 роки тому +3

      Right?!

    • @anhserc3534
      @anhserc3534 2 роки тому +14

      When she was saying the husband agreed to raise the baby I knew immediately completely fxckery was soon to follow 🤦🏾‍♀️ should’ve taken his get out of jail free card and stuck to the divorce

  • @ToolGirl616
    @ToolGirl616 2 роки тому +136

    The one thing I constantly stress to my teenage (almost "adult" son). If you don't want a baby you always have to protect yourself no matter what the other girl says she's doing.

  • @cathyvice7135
    @cathyvice7135 Рік тому +59

    Imagine the drama Shawna is causing in prison right now.

    • @trfaison
      @trfaison 3 місяці тому

      I actually was thinking that.

  • @abbymorris6875
    @abbymorris6875 2 роки тому +84

    the fact that she only calls him "Ig" on the stand annoys the FUCK out of me

  • @joannawolanin427
    @joannawolanin427 2 роки тому +713

    She had diarrhea and despite that she decided to go get wine. That's super weird. I wouldn't left my house feeling unwell unless it was necessary. Also clothing yourself in dirty laundry is unherad of. Poor Heather.

    • @vbsmyth5527
      @vbsmyth5527 2 роки тому +27

      The power of alcoholism!

    • @Mysassafrasroots
      @Mysassafrasroots 2 роки тому +69

      ​@@vbsmyth5527 and the power of lying .

    • @miraza.
      @miraza. 2 роки тому +42

      not to mention that she was pregnant. poor hearher. rip.

    • @chelseapthib36
      @chelseapthib36 2 роки тому +16

      Right! Idk about anyone else, but if I have the runs, I can only stand water/Gatorade... anything else would have me sh1tting through a screen door!
      She's a terrible liar and an even worse person.

    • @ruthannewhitney
      @ruthannewhitney 2 роки тому +7

      No she lied about having diarrhea right?

  • @jessicamarsh9779
    @jessicamarsh9779 2 роки тому +259

    I’m gonna say this (& say it LOUDLY for the people in the back 🔊). If a person (male or female) doesn’t want to be with you, STOP trying to FORCE them into wanting you! You can NOT force someone to love you no matter how much you love (or infatuated with is more like it) them!!!!

    • @Mmm...yummymummy
      @Mmm...yummymummy 2 роки тому +4

      No otvhowvsh we csaw it. She wanted full possession. Just to prove she could get him. Be the winner. Some prize ,that Iggie Pop. Ha! He would just go use it on a fresh one

    • @suzyq3771
      @suzyq3771 2 роки тому +1

      I heard you loud and clear!! 😅

    • @likawavy225
      @likawavy225 Рік тому +2

      Oh please he wanted her & he wasnt fooling anyone. If heather didnt die he wouldve been faithful for a couple of months & then continued with his disgusting ways

    • @SozoSeasonFreedom
      @SozoSeasonFreedom Місяць тому

      They're not simply confused or mistaken. They have issues that require therapy. You're not going to talk anyone into healthy behavior.

  • @gericocharpentier3594
    @gericocharpentier3594 Рік тому +74

    Her switching back and forth between fake almost crying, and then totally calm and then back to the same fake almost crying while testifying is freaking gross to watch.

  • @ladylib814
    @ladylib814 2 роки тому +499

    A quick google revealed that Heather's daughter Victoria died suddenly at the age of 17, a reportedly happy and well-adjusted girl. A tragic story all around.

    • @laraeturner8551
      @laraeturner8551 2 роки тому +10

      Omg how awful

    • @tototima8126
      @tototima8126 2 роки тому +6

      Omg what?😢

    • @cassidyk1647
      @cassidyk1647 2 роки тому +132

      I like to believe she's reunited with her mom. May they both rest in peace

    • @m15431
      @m15431 2 роки тому +18

      yes car accident-so sad.

    • @clarangakoana2634
      @clarangakoana2634 2 роки тому +18

      Oh my God this whole story is beyond tragic 😥

  • @kellyharris8976
    @kellyharris8976 2 роки тому +464

    My sister, who is a nurse at a hospital, has told me many salacious stories about affairs over the last 15+ years. IMO- it's a matter of convenience for the most part, but man do people do some shady things.

    • @marla79
      @marla79 2 роки тому +22

      I need a listen to this 👀☕️

    • @palladium607
      @palladium607 2 роки тому +27

      I worked in an ER for 10 years and oh my goodness the amount of affairs was unheard of

    • @analisaalferez3982
      @analisaalferez3982 2 роки тому +16

      I used to work NOC shift and let me tell you the times I walked in a empty PT room and found my coworkers “giving report” or checking of the vital machines that “ NEVER WORKED” yeahhhhh RIGHT🤣🙄

    • @punkybrewstar83
      @punkybrewstar83 2 роки тому +16

      The problem with workplaces is always the politics surrounding personalities. And internal relationships and affairs effect EVERYONE else working there.

    • @TheNinnyfee
      @TheNinnyfee 2 роки тому +10

      And so often without protection. What are people thinking?

  • @dylanlee2610
    @dylanlee2610 2 роки тому +314

    I feel so terrible for Heather’s daughter, Victoria. I found out after researching this case that she actually died when she was only 17 years old. At least she is finally with her mother. ❤️

    • @MAGAISKLAN
      @MAGAISKLAN 2 роки тому +3

      What happened to her?

    • @kateendrews46
      @kateendrews46 Рік тому +3

      @@MAGAISKLAN car accident

    • @heyitsjaceypenne
      @heyitsjaceypenne Рік тому +2

      ​@@kateendrews46 OMG that is so sad

    • @evaadams8298
      @evaadams8298 Рік тому +5

      So sad 😭 Heather was beautiful and I’m sure her daughter Victoria was... This is like a modern day Shakespearean Tragedy! That Shawna woman is completely evil and Ig is an absolute creep! Sick of people not controlling their urges and ruining lives all over the place!

    • @karna8658
      @karna8658 Рік тому +2

      I feel sorry for Heather.
      She suffered so much . Poor soul.
      It always the good ones who suffer the most.

  • @meghanhenderson8417
    @meghanhenderson8417 2 роки тому +145

    I can’t get over the fact that they started their affair at work! Over a work messaging system. It’s not like these people worked in a mall or something, they were in law enforcement. So messed up.

  • @rrose9117
    @rrose9117 2 роки тому +64

    Hi Kendall! I am a native in Colorado and also a 911 Operator (21 years today). I remember this case and a coworker of mine worked with Shauna at Weld County dispatch. She was shocked with this case.

  • @emyoggie
    @emyoggie 2 роки тому +184

    This woman had a husband and her own family, how did she have time for all of her affairs when she has a family to look after? this case is so devastating, i hope heather is resting in peace now with her daughter. 💟

    • @jadea.2694
      @jadea.2694 2 роки тому +17

      Sad that Victoria passed away at such a young age.

  • @thatfamoushappyending
    @thatfamoushappyending 2 роки тому +56

    Listening to this woman speak made my head hurt so much. The way she tried to talk in circles and make herself a victim was infuriating. Poor Heather. Hope her crappy husband sits with this guilt for the rest of his life.

  • @justinebrown7723
    @justinebrown7723 Рік тому +28

    My best friend in middle school was Victoria Garraus. I still have a sweater she gave me, she was supposed to come back to Florida after HS, we were going to go to college together. Her father told us that Heather had cancer. This podcast is the first I'm hearing about it. Harrowing experience, to say the least.

    • @ee5647
      @ee5647 9 місяців тому

      Her father as in Ignacio? You met him?

    • @justinebrown7723
      @justinebrown7723 9 місяців тому

      Yes. I was best friends with his daughter Victoria in middle school.​@@ee5647

  • @shayleymarie
    @shayleymarie 2 роки тому +57

    My mom used to work with Shawna and I used to hang out with her kids. I vividly remember hearing about this and it was mind blowing. So sad 😢

  • @karastired
    @karastired 2 роки тому +912

    She really said "I shit myself and put on my husband's underwear and went to go shopping" and expected everyone to believe her

    • @SairaIslay
      @SairaIslay 2 роки тому +122

      I love the part where she tried to explain why she didn't put shoes on to go to a store, in the snow and ice. Really believable, Shawna!

    • @butterbeanqueen8148
      @butterbeanqueen8148 2 роки тому +46

      That surprised me so much I busted out laughing.

    • @soph2799
      @soph2799 Рік тому +1

      😭😭😭

    • @NoirValkyrie
      @NoirValkyrie Рік тому +36

      OKAY THANK YOU!! Cause I was like ma'am you said you doo doo'd on yourself decided you wanted wine and took your nasty, unclean butt to the store?! If she wasn't already disgusting, that would have solidified it if her little story was true, which we know its not

    • @Cheshirechanel
      @Cheshirechanel Рік тому +24

      Not just shopping she claims to go get wine because when we get bubble guts the first thing we want to do is drink alcohol 🤣🙄🤣🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @annemariebaird8427
    @annemariebaird8427 2 роки тому +57

    When has cheating ever worked out? This is so sad and so unnecessary . Rest in Peace Heather. I hope she haunts them every so often.

  • @astrowolvez
    @astrowolvez 2 роки тому +15

    Boy really went “but what about me!?” when she was grieving.

  • @Coffeedrinker291
    @Coffeedrinker291 2 роки тому +156

    “I wanted to tell him I was pregnant…I was heavily drunk that night”

  • @EdieRoxUrSox15
    @EdieRoxUrSox15 2 роки тому +176

    The fact that Shawna still calls him Ig is weirding me out.

    • @angla3383
      @angla3383 2 роки тому +35

      THANK U. She’s talking about how horrible HE is for abandoning their son but she’s still calling him by his nickname she’s sick

    • @yeseniarios9843
      @yeseniarios9843 2 роки тому +8

      Exactly what I was thinking!

    • @juwatt638
      @juwatt638 2 роки тому +10

      definitely, she's crazy, and honestly i don't understand why 'Ig' would stay with Shawna

    • @1927su
      @1927su Місяць тому

      I heard everyone called him that

  • @juliem6401
    @juliem6401 2 роки тому +357

    I'm struggling with my feelings about the true crime community lately. I noticed one creator being insensitive, and it opened my eyes to so much that I think I didn't want to see before. I'm honestly really troubled at the way the families of victims, and even the families of perpetrators, are abused, stalked and ripped to shreds online and in person. I've seen creators themselves encourage this behaviour among their viewership while treating murder cases like pure entertainment.
    You have always stood apart from that behaviour and shown genuine care and interest in helping people. I appreciate that, and I'm sure the people involved in these very real cases do too. ❤️

    • @MsJeanneMarie
      @MsJeanneMarie 2 роки тому +66

      I completely agree. Kendall is one of the few who speaks about these cases with care and uses her platform to help these folks.

    • @Naijacatt
      @Naijacatt 2 роки тому +42

      Kendal and Stephanie Harlow are the only true crime channels I can watch, everyone else is too gimmicky

    • @Jeskers18
      @Jeskers18 2 роки тому +96

      I follow several true crime channels and I have never heard any of them encouraging harassment of victims families.

    • @jemwithouttheholograms8806
      @jemwithouttheholograms8806 2 роки тому +43

      I agree, I stopped watching Stephanie Harlowe a few weeks ago after finding out she victim blamed Bianca Devins

    • @angla3383
      @angla3383 2 роки тому +40

      @@Jeskers18 yeah there’s a lot of cool true crime channels now but there’s also people who do mukbangs and makeup while talking about these crimes cracking jokes and talking so casually about these victims

  • @victoriaanne2399
    @victoriaanne2399 2 роки тому +25

    I looked up Ignacio and not only did Heather die, but their daughter died at the age of 17. I feel so bad for Heather and Victoria. They didn't ask for any of this.

  • @Michelle-dl5go
    @Michelle-dl5go 2 роки тому +70

    Sad update: Unfortunately, Ignacio and Heather's daughter Victoria passed away in 2015 her senior year of highschool, in a car accident. This story is sad all the way around and this makes it more heartbreaking 💔💔 May she rest in peace with her mom.

    • @lizxu322
      @lizxu322 Рік тому +4

      The good die young 😢

    • @morganguest1343
      @morganguest1343 10 місяців тому

      Geez, the family needs a hug badly.

  • @kristasimeone1220
    @kristasimeone1220 2 роки тому +104

    His wife was absolutely gorgeous and a nice person dealing with so much and he was cheating with…. That? I stand by the saying “once a cheater always a cheater” never give a cheater a second chance. If they can do it once, they can do it again.

    • @GoldSkye
      @GoldSkye Рік тому

      Yeah I thought the same.

  • @whyowhy3054
    @whyowhy3054 2 роки тому +41

    This is such a tragic story. I lost my dad, then two weeks later to the day, my mother passed away. Two funerals within a month. I also suffer from depression so I can relate to what Heather went through. Too bad that crazy woman did what she did.

  • @moxiesoxie9374
    @moxiesoxie9374 2 роки тому +66

    Yeah the husband should feel guilty. He led his wife into a situation that ended her life without her even knowing for the most part. Every time Shawna said “Ig” I wanted to scream

  • @madisonkathryn6416
    @madisonkathryn6416 2 роки тому +86

    if she knew she was pregnant then why would she be drinking? What if she changed her mind?

  • @88lovehard
    @88lovehard 2 роки тому +122

    Wow.... His wife died because he decided to cheat?! This story is heart breaking!!! No one is worth losing your freedom 🤦🏾‍♀️ R.I.P Heather 💛

    • @Mmm...yummymummy
      @Mmm...yummymummy 2 роки тому +7

      Killing him because he dropped her would heve made more sense.

    • @brielliott04
      @brielliott04 Рік тому

      And then Heather‘s daughter died in a car accident in 2015…

  • @angelinalah
    @angelinalah 2 роки тому +159

    Shawna's exploits have my head spinning... she divorces husband #1 for having an affair, gets remarried, then proceeds to have multiple affairs including with the woman husband #1 had cheated on her with. You can't make this stuff up.

    • @Sunflowers__5
      @Sunflowers__5 2 роки тому +23

      Thank you for this, I was seriously confused who Michelle was, guess I wasn’t paying close enough attention. Crazy I’ve never heard of this! I don’t live too far from Greeley.

    • @lela8081
      @lela8081 2 роки тому +14

      And they all work in police..jezz
      So f....up😒

    • @Mmm...yummymummy
      @Mmm...yummymummy 2 роки тому

      And I thought the midwest was so strait laced. How do the criminals have fun?!

    • @Nizhonibearcreek
      @Nizhonibearcreek 2 роки тому +1

      It killed me when she actually said out loud I’m gonna attempt to be faithful to my husband like 😳😳

  • @nicoleschultz7505
    @nicoleschultz7505 Рік тому +21

    Just a note...at 25:14 in the video, you refer to "Shawna" as "Heather". I usually wouldn't point out mistakes, but Shawna doesn't even deserve to be in the same sentence as Heather, let alone be called Heather.
    You are a great story teller and love watching! 💜

  • @ssantos113
    @ssantos113 2 роки тому +456

    Ignacio should not FEEL fully responsible. He IS fully responsible. If he wouldn’t have been so selfish he could avoided a whole ass murder.

    • @Naturefan354
      @Naturefan354 2 роки тому +50

      No saying he is fully responsible takes accountability away from the actual murderer. He is partially responsible though

    • @thefemalefuture1
      @thefemalefuture1 2 роки тому +19

      And useless

    • @pussydestroyer69285
      @pussydestroyer69285 2 роки тому +29

      @@Naturefan354 two people can both be fully responsible

    • @Naturefan354
      @Naturefan354 2 роки тому +16

      @@pussydestroyer69285 I get that but I don't like to hold a person responsible for another person's crime. Especially if they had no part in orchestrating it or participating in it .

    • @erm492
      @erm492 2 роки тому +1

      @@pussydestroyer69285 I feel like that is an oxymoron

  • @ivywhatever
    @ivywhatever 2 роки тому +155

    My husband lived in Greeley at this time. He was in 6th grade. He actually lived on 12 ave and 25th st which was literally right across the street from the credit union this happened at. He was outside playing in a snow bank that day in December and actually watched Shauna walk in and heard the gunshots that killed Heather. We’ve both been waiting for Kendall to cover this story!!

    • @paigelarson9279
      @paigelarson9279 2 роки тому +7

      Wow that’s awful

    • @1927su
      @1927su Місяць тому

      She was shot in the parking lot, not in the back

    • @ivywhatever
      @ivywhatever Місяць тому

      @@1927su lol okay

  • @caitlinkornilov3278
    @caitlinkornilov3278 2 роки тому +83

    This story is heartbreaking, Shawna was so insecure and incredibly jealous of Heather, and because of Ignacio's selfish actions, this psychopath was brought into their lives.

  • @lollycastillo6157
    @lollycastillo6157 Рік тому +81

    I cannot understand for the love of God what these men and woman saw in this monster!!! Everyone just did what she told them to do?? The only victim here if Heather and my heart hurts for her family. Ignacio should feel guilty because if it weren't for his actions and lack of just leaving his wife for this monster it cost his beautiful wife her life. Should've of been his life.

    • @kelcritcarroll
      @kelcritcarroll Рік тому +2

      Im sure he does feel guilty…..

    • @kelcritcarroll
      @kelcritcarroll Рік тому +2

      She left without shoes in the middle of winter…..🤣liar!

    • @likawavy225
      @likawavy225 Рік тому

      When you say monster i hope your talking about ignicio because she didn’t owe heather loyalty he did.. hes the biggest monster this is all hid fault

  • @malenenss4714
    @malenenss4714 2 роки тому +124

    As someone who uses zoloft and started using it right as my ocd and gad was on the brink of killing me, it has been a lifeSAVER. And thankfully my boyfriend is my lifesaver as well. He would never do this to me and I’m so grateful. Everyone deserves that, especially in SUCH hard times. Heather deserved so much better and so much more love and patience. ❤️ If your partner is like Ignacio, please know you deserve so much better! Stay strong.

    • @zoefreeman9478
      @zoefreeman9478 2 роки тому +6

      same exact situation with me, there are people out there who will stay by your side and get through the hard times with you, we all deserve that, I hope every woman can realize they deserve that and can/will find it

    • @elizabethgreer27
      @elizabethgreer27 2 роки тому +6

      Zoloft has literally saved my daughter as well. She has anxiety and depression and it has helped her so much. Im grateful for this medication and her drs.

    • @emmyrose1802
      @emmyrose1802 2 роки тому +5

      My son takes this for Anxiety /OCD too. It helps him. Hugs to you.

    • @Himaryous
      @Himaryous 2 роки тому

      Zoloft is great for OCD. Congrats on doing so well in your fight!

  • @abi2665
    @abi2665 2 роки тому +143

    Totally unrelated but I'm patiently waiting for you to have the baby and tell us how beautiful she is! I'm so excited for you and Josh to be parents 💓

  • @inyolab6876
    @inyolab6876 2 роки тому +213

    Did anyone else catch how when the 911 call came into dispatch and the APB went out for Shauna being wanted for a shooting, Ken, her husband, immediately thought someting had happened to their kids? That tells me that if her husband thought she was psycotic enough to harm her own children, she wouldn't think twice about killing her "competition."

    • @Grav3yardMoth
      @Grav3yardMoth Рік тому +7

      I get what you're trying to say. But I read that as him believing that Shauna had shot someone in defense of their children. Like if someone had tried to hurt the children, and she acted to protect them. I'm sure he would never have gotten back together with her and agreed to raise an affair baby together if he thought any of the kids would be in danger...

  • @ColeMcGuire-gx3oh
    @ColeMcGuire-gx3oh 7 місяців тому +3

    I’m from Fort Collins and this case was very big and you explained it better then the news it’s self

  • @Adude12
    @Adude12 2 роки тому +261

    I can’t believe poor heather had to die because of a psycho woman and a coward who couldn’t just admit his guilt. So sad and unnecessary 😞 I have no sympathy for Ignacio, he could have prevent all of that
    Also poor christian, he had nothing to do with his parents irresponsibility

    • @A.Bass00
      @A.Bass00 Рік тому +3

      Agree. I hope Christian is growing up with healthy parents. Neither Shawna nor Ken could be a healthy choice for parents.

  • @amy6489
    @amy6489 2 роки тому +139

    Shawna's husband's loyalty to her is🥴🥴🥴 "too desperate" in my opinion...
    This woman has cheated on him and then she OBVIOUSLY tries to pin a horrific murder on him, and he still helps her 🤯🤯🤯

    • @sarahs5340
      @sarahs5340 2 роки тому +10

      She probably had something on him too. Den of thieves probably!

    • @tiffanyferguson829
      @tiffanyferguson829 2 роки тому

      Simp

    • @poppyfield1619
      @poppyfield1619 2 роки тому

      And he accepted the baby created from her affair. Insecure much. What a horrible tangled mess🥺

  • @mysteriouscookiemoustache5839
    @mysteriouscookiemoustache5839 2 роки тому +82

    i get such a happy feeling when Kendall updates. Even when the cases are dreary, the way she speaks makes me feel like we’re two friends talking while i’m eating dinner

  • @CrustyUgg
    @CrustyUgg 9 місяців тому +4

    Many people confuse jealousy and caring. Being jealous does not mean you care.

  • @bparegorgeous3018
    @bparegorgeous3018 2 роки тому +62

    Ignacio IS responsible for her death and SHOULD ALWAYS feel nothing but guilt

    • @1927su
      @1927su Місяць тому

      Yea he’s just as guilty .. but Shawna is the only one doing time .. he outta be doing time too imo

  • @erincaf225
    @erincaf225 2 роки тому +82

    Shauna is literally such an insufferable person

  • @Mysassafrasroots
    @Mysassafrasroots 2 роки тому +44

    also a whole lot of drinking , going out , cheating and lying going on and where are the flipping kids ? then for Shawna to be acting like ohhh why is this happening to me ? what did I do? crocodile tears. what a piece of work .

  • @johnmobley9369
    @johnmobley9369 2 місяці тому +1

    Really goes to show that people will prioritize their physical pleasure and getting that from you over anything else you have to offer and that’s extremely saddening.