Build an undefeatable character | self-control in personality development (stoicism & detachment)
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- Опубліковано 18 жов 2023
- This is the ONLY video you need to change your life. I explain practical stoicism to help you take control of your life. If you feel defeated, frustrated, or disappointed with life right now it's because you haven't yet mastered detachment and the art of letting go of what you can't control. I urge you to watch this entire video because I'm taking you through stoic principles to build an undefeatable character so you can finally feel in control of life - not reacting to it or attaching to it. I first talk about emotional rationality aka taking control of your emotions. You need to be emotionally rational and master this. Not letting yourself focus on the things you can't control, that's where you're feeling out of control. Detachment and stoicism emphasize the importance of this if you truly want to feel invincible and like nothing can break you (because life will try). I move on to talk about remaining unphased by adversity and the external world because your attention on it won't change the natural order of things. The things that WILL happen no matter what. Use your mental energy to control the only thing truly in your power - yourself. By doing that you WILL change your external world.
Throughout the video, I provide valuable insights and practical advice on how to truly detach in life, take back your power, and apply it daily so that you can flow through life with resilience and invincibility.
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Video Chapters:
2:03 - victims vs growth mindset
2:55 - #1: emotional rationality
6:11 - #2: morals
9:13 - #3: unplug from the external world
11:40 - #4: embrace adversity
13:06 - #5: LOA & stoicism
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Thanks for this video. I want to know how to do inner work and types of doing inner work
heard a great comment. "You are not what you attract, you are what you entertain." Just because something comes into your life, doesn't mean you have to accept it. This includes people. Not every opportunity presented is something you have to accept.
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That’s a good quote
Video Chapters:
2:03 - victims vs growth mindset
2:55 - #1: emotional rationality
6:11 - #2: morals
9:13 - #3: unplug from the external world
11:40 - #4: embrace adversity
13:06 - #5: LOA & stoicism
"Make the best use of what is in your power and take the rest as it happens" - Epictetus
Great video :)
Thank you so much for your videos. I am 36 and very stoic, in normal circumstances I’m fine but currently dealing with multiple challenges atm - that’s when we’re really rested right - and your videos are helping me come back to my self and values and put my mind in order again. Blessings ❤
Exactly what I need now. I rewatch your videos to let it drill into my sub consciousness, thanks for all of this Vickita ❤
Been doing the same lol. It has really really helped. Thanks Vickita! 🥹❤️
Same, lol
same!!! I rewatch them all the time and have your voice saying :”. maybe” every time something too good or too bad happens
@@maimolinar ow thats a good one!! Gonna remember that 😊
Hello. I had to pause video in the middle. I noticed your videos yesterday and there was 1 from them which was something eye opening for me and really I was surprised about it. It was video called how to become magnetic, and aspect of face outside watching myself and dharma. My missing thing. Thank you, that was very valuable for me. I think many people dont know this. We will not understand about being stoic if we dont feel the force inside ourself to do this. This drive is made with this dharma.
I'm coming back to this video and comment about everything you explained. I finished reading an article on 9 stoic practices and it's prepare for the worst and journal. Also, I'll be using manifestation, law of assumption and law of attraction in my life. Thank you for this video.
holy shit, your channel is criminally underrated. you worded everything so well, putting facts after facts and that too in an understandable way. love everything on here and i hope i keep receiving such content on your channel. thank you for sharing this wisdom. means a lot. ❤
Oh wow honey I really needed this today. Dealing with fighting family members who don't want to listen to my advice, follow my example and no matter how hard I try to mediate I'm wrong. I decided today that though I love each one of them and they love me in return they are all adults and now have to figure it out for themselves. I've given you the tools, advice and showed by example if you choose not to follow my advice etc that's fine I love you anyway but will not be responsible for cleaning up the mess and try to help heal your relationships with each other. Hope that made sense lol. Love your vids and thx so much for the much needed confirmation today. ❤
Been struggling with stress due to things I cannot control. I get angsty and start talking back and then feel bad after. I just want to be at peace. Thank you so much for the advice. God bless ❣️
Your videos are so helpful and makes me want to be a better version of myself. Thank you so much!! 💖🌷
You are so welcome!
Every since I found your channel I’ve been so glad I have your video are so helpful! ❤️
Definitely needed this reminder! Thank you beauty! Lot's of love, light and blessings to all here! 🙏🏻💕✨
I am so happy I found your channel!! You are truly inspiring!!!
Thank you Vickita
You have no idea how much you have helped me
Through your videos I have learned a lot and also changed for the better
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This was spot on and I’m using everything you said and shared this video to my grandma 😊
You’re doing great girl! Keep up the amazing videos ❤
12:37 omg yes girl 🎉 i’ve been subscribed since then im so proud of you i’ve noticed your growth !
Im just grateful for the day i csne across your videos. I love how I've transformed over the past few months just from putting your teachings to action. Also you're always a pleasure to listen to haha.❤
Thank you Vickita.. grateful ❤
Beautiful video. I needed it today
Thank you vicketa, really needed this right now, god bless you for being so awesome❤❤ 🤗🌹
So much to learn from you 💯
Love this! Thank you! So incredibly beneficial!
This is free therapy! Thank you so much!
I can do both pretty well 😅 I react and be assertive and than idgaf at all whatsoever 😊 its a rare talent I have
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Dear Vickita,
I am more than grateful to have stumbled upon your video and overall content. Through my research and experience, I've noticed a lack of women at the forefront of stoic teachings and philosophy. Perhaps there isn't a necessity for this, but it surely makes it all the more refreshing.
Best regards,
- L
I appreciate your comment. There is an ENORMOUS need for female Stoics (or similarly disciplined & logical females, whether their moral compass is guided by religious or philosophical views). As a woman with 2 children under the age of 2 - going through a nasty divorce - I can fully admit that we women are EMOTIONAL creatures by nature. If we are to be successful in life and live peacefully, we must cultivate Stoic (or similar) qualities. It's extremely difficult to do & it's an ongoing process. But nothing worth having comes easily.
@@alexandriaofatlantis I completely understand you. It’s definitely a rewiring process that’s needed for us to achieve that balance. Candidly speaking, the world as a whole could use more balance in all areas-not just on an emotional front. Perhaps we may achieve what we’re looking for if we continue to search and apply.
@@sadiahluna Rewiring is no joke. Good luck & God bless! ❤️
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Love it!
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U changed my life... drastically... feeling much more confident than before...❤❤ Vickita .... Credits goes to u
I love your channel, just found it and I’m binge watching 😅
Awesome. Glad I found this channel😍
love your videos so much
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She knows this of course, but maybe forgot to mention it - some people are born with mental illnesses and need medicine and/or therapy to control their emotions. Sometimes the body just takes over, like having the flu. There's nothing wrong with that. And get yourself in to see the doctors and therapists to feel better - it's so worth it!
I love your content so much, but a nice microphone would help with the audio quality! Thanks for considering it ❤
I love Dr Joe Dispenza’s formula for this
That's right baby. Too good for the lowlife nonsense, let them KNOW.
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Some good advice. I just don’t like the centering of men in the conversation. Who cares about what men want, do this for you.
I just not able to control my reactions which cost me alot always. 😢
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I discovered stoicism the same day I discovered your channel (video about detachment)and when I say I’m so quiet now. I speak when necessary or I have something I really want or need to say and I ask myself before speaking why am I saying this ? What is it gonna do for me?
Vickita is not always that simple. For example today one of my co worker talked to me like she just pulled me out of her ass.. How can you be stoic when your co worker ahumiliate you front of everybody??? If you stand up for yourself than you create a bigger problem but if you don't people will continue to walk through you like you are nothing. At this moment i can not deal with this situation. I can not resist stress or work in a highly stressful enviroment and even if i did not say anything i know i can not afford to tolarate this behaviour. My stomack is hurting and i feel like a fool for not standing up for myself even if that was the "wise" decision. Tell me what the Hell you supposed to do in a situation like this?? I do not want to leave my job cause i like it so i have to be with this person in the same room and also my earnings partially dipend on this person.
You could just pose ignorance, I had this classmate who sat next to me in my coaching , she was just like your coworkers, I started ignoring her and getting unaffected by whatever the heck she said , she sat the whole two years, and eventually just became a laughing stock. No one liked her and a few people who were feeling the same became my friends
Think about it- can you control whatt your coworker does or says? You can't. So that's step 1. Then figure out how you what you react, whether it's ignoring them or finding a way to remove them from your world.
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Watch this video next at the end did not pop up besides a black screen! Thanx
In regards to living our life tonthe fullest and the law of attraction. In your opinion what would you do if you had to see people in your husbands family that you dont like and that judge ?
I would say what is in your control to alter the situation. Can you create more distance between you and them? Can you speak to them directly about their behaviour? Can you talk to your husband? And if there's no options, then you take control of what you know you can control - your not caring about their judgments/behaviour
Yes I put distance but still have to encounter them from time to time. The family dynamics are toxic and I don't the vibe I go into when I have to see them. Any tips ?
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My opinion, you do you boo.