“Dont ever make somebody’s value in ur eyes bigger, stronger, or more powerful than the value u see in urself” needed to hear this tonight! Profound statement ❤
@@sbella6719Ain’t that the truth? I remember having a dream, which looking back was probably more of a revelation: I was standing in front of my bathroom mirror, and he was two feet to the right of me. And me, instead of looking straight ahead, I was looking at HIS reflection, as he looked at my reflection. The difference was that he was just looking at me, and I was looking at him looking at me. Only after seeing him look at me, did I begin checking myself out in the mirror but it was sort of performative. That was my subconscious telling me, “hey friend, not to be mean but wha the hell?! You’re seeing yourself through his eyes. You’re begging him to see you as valuable. And you do everything with him in mind. Work on you liking you! You don’t even like this guy!”
It is kind of a no brainer but still. Whoever bullied you for your eyes and skin color was just envious. Funny, how so many women tan themselves and use make up to make their eyes look bigger but then bully girls who come with those features naturally.
Exactly this! Some people bully other people because they see qualities in that person that they themselves lack, and instead of trying to improve themselves, they seek to tear other people down instead.
the thing that forced me out of being a people pleaser, and I still use to keep me in check, is never say the word "sorry" unless you are apologising and you mean it. dont even say it as a habit or out of politeness. find other words. instead of "sorry, I can't come", just say you cant come. if that feels cold u can make up for it by suggesting another time to meet up, or maybe think about whether it is actually cold or are you just so uncomfortable with the idea of being misunderstood or someone not thinking youre perfectly nice for 2 seconds. (just speaking thoughts from my experience)
It's soooo weird how we all have such different standards of beauty. I always loved big eyes like yours and never noticed anything wrong with your skin tone (we have a lot of diversity in skin tones in Brazil). Nice video, sis!
When she named the over expression of sexual energy, "you lack emotional control and you are hyper sexual. Your love life is very dysfunctional, there's a lot of jealousy that goes on, a lot of addiction, a lot of attachment issues, your sexual energy is almost all consuming and there's a lot of greed and hunger in this over expression of your dark feminine energy". I just thought of Scorpio and Capricorn
The description is more Scorpio venus, but not really Scorpio sun. Capricorn is all about high standards, especially Capricorn Venus. They never settle for less.
Omg!shockingly accurate information to my life..I had been dark feminine energy..then went TOO much the other way after a bad relationship...I needed this chat!❤cool!thanks so MUCH
I was turned off by the title because I thought it was about being manipulative but I'm glad I clicked anyway. I thoroughly enjoyed listening to this video because it holds 'me' accountable. You are a wise woman indeed!
This isn’t a miracle - in this day and age, we have the choice as women to not tolerate the bullshit that our female ancestors had to tolerate. You have the choice to not accept and reward the shitty behaviour from men that you don’t like by giving them access to you when they say or do something to you or other women that you do not like - all you have to do is to think for yourself (and think with your head and common sense) and make yourself so you’re not easily accessible to every man, regardless of how undeserving he is of having women in his life. Men are the ones desperate for us, not the other way around. Use that to your advantage. This is not a groundbreaking science. You do NOT need someone to tell you to not tolerate poor behaviour for you to not tolerate it - app you have to do is recognise when you don’t like something and then not go out of your way to tolerate it - because let’s be honest, if men aren’t treating you well and you’re still replying or hanging out with them, you are making an effort/going out of your way to have them in your life still. It costs much less time, money and energy to just stop entertaining them.
@BehindTheBush96 our female ancestors didn't have to deal with feminized men like we do today. That said, historically women were very dependant on men for safety and protection.... by their father, brothers and extended
Such wisdom from a young woman! You are so astute - I have learned these principles only in the past two years and I am sure I am twice your age. I appreciate your videos.
The beautiful part about your eyes and color of your skin is what jumped out to me the most once I clicked on your video. I was drawn to how beautiful both of them are. People pick at the very thing that they are actually envious of honey. I grew up with women bullying me for having freckles and very long hair as a black girl in Brooklyn ny and I didn't like those qualities about myself until I woke up like you now have. Congratulations sis.❤
Bullied for the size of her eyes? But big eyes are a classic beauty standard for women. Big eyes = beautiful. Can't belief how weird people can behave. These bullies were probably just jealous. Honestly, her eyes are magnificent. I am jealous :D
I want to have dark feminine energy. After a couple of dates I always get “ your super nice and sweet” - while that is nice. I feel I come across as a people pleaser.
If you’re genuinely a sweet and nice person there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. you can be nice and sweet and still be dark feminine. It becomes people pleasing if you start doing things that become a detriment to yourself. doing things you don’t really want to do , not setting boundaries and letting people walk over you . Don’t let her make you believe that being nice just automatically means u a people pleaser
Good Lord... I have learned so much about myself in just two of your videos... Thank you. On a side note .. your eyes are beautiful. Your skin color is beautiful. I'm glad you haven't let other people's opinions hold you back... Even mine. Shalom
You were bullied because of your eyes??? WHAT??? They are mesmerizing!!! Seriously! Thanks for sharing this video, this is exactly what I needed to hear this morning.
Wow I used to be on both sides of the spectrum. I think a bit of me still is. Sometimes I just feel like I meet a guy and he'd be the best person I'll ever met. This is exactly what I think about too. I need to be able to say no to even a man I perceive as "attractive". I used to fall for a man's hotness. When I was like 14, I would fawn over this guy like I was his groupie. Weak ass shit. No wonder he played me like a fiddle. I always tell myself a quote a read from the Bible, " Be not moved by the things you see in this world." And it snaps me out of it. Just because the "halo effect" exists...it doesn't mean that I have to fall for it
You're welcome! I always say this to myself when I catch myself putting some random guy on the pedestal. Like why does he need to be there????@@alakiahm8884
Thank you for this, although I am already in my dark feminine energy. It’s refreshing to listen and learn from women like you sharing information on tapping into your dark feminine energy. For a while, I’ve been doing shadow work to heal the parts of myself and embrace my dark side. I am an eclectic pagan so shadow work is not only for healing, yet working with Lilith.
Love this video! Cannot explain it better! I hope it will help a lot a women and men out there. Was a people pleaser before and all you said is so true!
I've been a freaking door mat for years. No more! I am calling back my power! This was the 1st video I've seen from your channel, and I immediately subscribed. Thank you!❤
This video is wonderful - thank you. I will be watching this again and I will take notes. I’m quite a bit older than you but the wisdom you’re dropping here is really helpful. Thank you, lovely lady.
I appreciate you so much for this! I feel like no one talks about the importance of masculine energy. This past year I feel like the focus was way too much on feminine energy only making women the “perfect” nice girl… Me personally I’m like ummmm no getting rid of your masculine energy is giving away your Power 😢 Thank you so much for discussing the necessity of incorporating masculinity to balance out the feminine ❤
That was so enlightenning ! ❤ More videos about dark feminine energy pleaaaaaaaase. I think I have both light and dark energy, but Im more leaning towards the 'cool girl' : I need to do more adjustments :) I was bullied by family members especially my mother for being skinny and having a very soft voice, now I know what to do 😊
HI Vickita! You rock! I am eating up these words because I feel that this is divine messaging to me from the universe to finally cure my Mother Theresa syndrome. Than you, you precious little benevolent vampire angel 🥰
The "auditioning energy" label was my aha moment. Never thought myself a people please but alas I stay in that energy unconsciously. Thank you Vickita, your videos are absolutely priceless 👌
Girl you are amazing! I love your analogies about failing the audition. It made me laugh because it is so darn accurate about how I have lived my life. Thank you for your enlightened tale on this much needed message
People maybe love imperfect people because they do not strive to be perfect so they relate to people who are not perfect. I love people who are perfect even though I am not perfect, people do not want to be perfect it is not that the can not be but it is okay if you have little imperfections,the truth is if you do not have standards that does not mean you are perfect it means you do not love yourself enough or at all.
Feminine energy is dark, periodt. Light feminine is just a cool term to use women as most of those traits are for people pleasers. You never hear of dark or light masculine, because masculine energy is light. We have either divine or wounded feminine/ masculine energy.
@@snsh7207 there are some men that are in their divine masculine but most men lately are in their wounded masculine, making more women be in their masculine and wounded feminine energy.
Where are you from? Your name seems familiar. To your comment, men lately are not that different from men in the past, the difference is that women are no longer as subdued as they once were and it is exposing the truth about them. Many men are not "evolved" or great, they latch on to the success of great men and claim it as theirs (just look at how they behave with sports). They use that and their physical strength against women. Now that women are given the space to grow, it has exposed alot of things about our so called superiors.
YOU ARE BOSS!!!! Seriously. Just found you and am about your vibe beauty! I'm just about to start my UA-cam channel and am super inspired by you. Your gorgeous and sharing some real, deep, tangible, useful and empowering knowledge. Blessings to you in ALL WAYS, always. xoxo
I was over-expressing I believe so naturally I stopped having sex. It wasn’t exactly planned at first - I went through a breakup -but it has been purposeful. When I am ready to break up with a man, my body tells me even before my mind really catches up and I will stop having sex with them. Clearly it creates a problem for men who just want sex! So, I propelled my last break up, but is it has been the most amazing thing ever to be celibate for 7 months now ✨ I have been able to balance my soft, vulnerable light feminine energy with my dark feminine energy. I just started to casually date and I’ve only been on 2 dates in the last month but that’s because I’m MUCH MUCH more selective and most men aren’t making it to a first date with me! It feels so good to be in control of myself fully, in a genuine and honorable way ❤
Yooo if you haven’t heard of Matthew Hussey the dating and confidence coach who caters to women, he tells exactly how for free to have the ‘are we exclusive’ conversation and even with wish washy men you’ll get your answer. He echos what she is saying in this video- be warm and friendly on the outside but strict and cold on the inside as in with your standards. I think this video is going to take it further in helping me be even more silent in negotiations and hypnotizing and we’ll timed.
I really appreciate the content. It feels valuable and I highly enjoyed it. The sound hurts my ears a bit. Not sure if there's a way to soften the sound in some way, otherwise amazing content and it's much appreciated ♥️ xo
I appreciate and love LOVE your content and the energy you bring with each video , its powerful and transformative and i can just tell from all this widom you share that you've done so much inner work and you practice what you preach, i respect that ❤ I became more in tune with my dark feminine energy few years ago and its honestly the best , i can never go back to being "ordinary" or vanilla that nice cool girl act is so outdated. All i care about now is being in my power and being authentic , and im sure I'll find someone who loves me for me and uplifts me even more. I deserve that and nothing less
Man ghosted me soooo many months, I made some mistakes letting him into my life, ignoring some red flags, but the moment he started acting up, I did. have to let him go. It’s the most painful thing I’m got to have to go thru and deal with, but actually I should be sooooo proud of myself for sticking to my standards. I mean, he ghosted, I ghosted(read let him go), it makes sense, right?
Absolutely love this video, beautiful, thank you! And honestly, that makes me upset that you said you were bullied for the size of your eyes when… THEYRE SOOO 😍😍😍😍 nah because THE GIRLS HAD ONLY WISHHED THEY HAD BIG BROWN EYES LIKE THIS WHAT???? I LOVEEE EM . Fuck the haters cause you always been poppinnnn❤❤❤❤
Slightly unrelated here. However would you consider making a suggested book video? You now & again qoute some in videos. Id love a list to look through. Thank you
hi, can you please make a video on how to set boundries without saying a word and how to practically respond to different situations like ghosting/late replies etc without compromising your self respect and appearing too needy
Why is that when people explain dark feminine energy, it is always centered around relationships? This concept in itself should be the inner devinity, the most higher concept!
Hi, I've been following you for a while and I appreciate you very much. I think it would be very interesting if you could make a video about standards and boundaries. which are the right ones? How are they chosen? Are they universal or subjective? Greetings from Italy
Lol the amount of times that I took my cable off of the car connector off and on over and over again because I thought it was broken and that’s why I couldn’t hear the beginning of the video 😂😂😂 MONDAYSSSS
Give the video a 👍🏼thumbs up 👍🏼if you want a part 2 :)
Could you also post how to truly embody the dark feminine energy and stay that way? Thank you 😊
rule # 1 to not being a pick me. Never be afraid to lose a man.
This!!! Needed to read this and watch this video!❤
“Dont ever make somebody’s value in ur eyes bigger, stronger, or more powerful than the value u see in urself” needed to hear this tonight! Profound statement ❤
Very profound! And the flip side of that was when I started seeing MY value through his eyes, I became smaller, weaker and less powerful
@@sbella6719Ain’t that the truth?
I remember having a dream, which looking back was probably more of a revelation: I was standing in front of my bathroom mirror, and he was two feet to the right of me. And me, instead of looking straight ahead, I was looking at HIS reflection, as he looked at my reflection.
The difference was that he was just looking at me, and I was looking at him looking at me. Only after seeing him look at me, did I begin checking myself out in the mirror but it was sort of performative.
That was my subconscious telling me, “hey friend, not to be mean but wha the hell?! You’re seeing yourself through his eyes. You’re begging him to see you as valuable. And you do everything with him in mind. Work on you liking you! You don’t even like this guy!”
It is kind of a no brainer but still. Whoever bullied you for your eyes and skin color was just envious. Funny, how so many women tan themselves and use make up to make their eyes look bigger but then bully girls who come with those features naturally.
right?! thanks for sharing some love ❤
Big eyes are one of the most beautiful features of (many) south asian girls. If someone bullies you for it they're just jealous🙄
Exactly this! Some people bully other people because they see qualities in that person that they themselves lack, and instead of trying to improve themselves, they seek to tear other people down instead.
And the exact same bullying happens towards women who have smaller eyes, very light/fair skin, too. It happens a lot more than people realize.
@@VickitaTrivedi hi 💋
It really clicked for me when someone once said "Let them earn what they want on the table."
this girl literally opens her mouth and not even one sentence in and she's speaking straight facts
the thing that forced me out of being a people pleaser, and I still use to keep me in check, is never say the word "sorry" unless you are apologising and you mean it. dont even say it as a habit or out of politeness. find other words. instead of "sorry, I can't come", just say you cant come. if that feels cold u can make up for it by suggesting another time to meet up, or maybe think about whether it is actually cold or are you just so uncomfortable with the idea of being misunderstood or someone not thinking youre perfectly nice for 2 seconds. (just speaking thoughts from my experience)
Omg thank you! It's a really helpful advice, I'll definetly try this🫶🏾
@@hna8 I hope u find it as transformative as I did
@@yasminh thank you!!
Wow, thank you!
“Firm and secure on the inside, soft and flowing on the outside” wait wait wait, you mean I’ve had it backwards this whole time? 🤨 lol
Ladies she is so right! I need some new friends. A support group to help us keep our standards 😭
It's soooo weird how we all have such different standards of beauty. I always loved big eyes like yours and never noticed anything wrong with your skin tone (we have a lot of diversity in skin tones in Brazil). Nice video, sis!
True. I love her eyes. They're assets
I am, so I did not noticed anything wrong with her skin tone :)@@Kashmir-lt4cx
no its cos some people are sad and unhealed and will pick on anything. set boundaries and love yourself, everything will change
Loving ur no bullshit approach. Thank you for this tough love. 🙏
means a lot, thank you!
When she named the over expression of sexual energy, "you lack emotional control and you are hyper sexual. Your love life is very dysfunctional, there's a lot of jealousy that goes on, a lot of addiction, a lot of attachment issues, your sexual energy is almost all consuming and there's a lot of greed and hunger in this over expression of your dark feminine energy".
I just thought of Scorpio and Capricorn
As a Capricorn with a Scorpio moon I feel attacked! 🥲😭
But I also wanna know what'chu mean. 🥲😅
I’m a scorpio and when she said that I was like “damn that’s me😭😭😭”
The description is more Scorpio venus, but not really Scorpio sun.
Capricorn is all about high standards, especially Capricorn Venus. They never settle for less.
I’m a Scorpio moon. I related to that quote very heavily. I’ve been working on healing.
Hah my husband and I are a scorp/cap couple (i'm the scorpio)
I'm 32 and I enjoy your content and learn so much off of it. Thank you girl
Lol I'm 38! A lot to unpack...
@@robynbeach3198 right ?😂
im glad its been helping you! ❤
Omg!shockingly accurate information to my life..I had been dark feminine energy..then went TOO much the other way after a bad relationship...I needed this chat!❤cool!thanks so MUCH
hahaha ive been there!
I was turned off by the title because I thought it was about being manipulative but I'm glad I clicked anyway. I thoroughly enjoyed listening to this video because it holds 'me' accountable. You are a wise woman indeed!
I appreciate that and giving me the benefit of the doubt!
Vickita you’re honestly a miracle! Helping young girls and women realise their worth and not settle! You should be proud 💗💗
thank you 🥺💖
This isn’t a miracle - in this day and age, we have the choice as women to not tolerate the bullshit that our female ancestors had to tolerate.
You have the choice to not accept and reward the shitty behaviour from men that you don’t like by giving them access to you when they say or do something to you or other women that you do not like - all you have to do is to think for yourself (and think with your head and common sense) and make yourself so you’re not easily accessible to every man, regardless of how undeserving he is of having women in his life.
Men are the ones desperate for us, not the other way around. Use that to your advantage. This is not a groundbreaking science.
You do NOT need someone to tell you to not tolerate poor behaviour for you to not tolerate it - app you have to do is recognise when you don’t like something and then not go out of your way to tolerate it - because let’s be honest, if men aren’t treating you well and you’re still replying or hanging out with them, you are making an effort/going out of your way to have them in your life still. It costs much less time, money and energy to just stop entertaining them.
@BehindTheBush96 our female ancestors didn't have to deal with feminized men like we do today.
That said, historically women were very dependant on men for safety and protection.... by their father, brothers and extended
Such wisdom from a young woman! You are so astute - I have learned these principles only in the past two years and I am sure I am twice your age. I appreciate your videos.
The beautiful part about your eyes and color of your skin is what jumped out to me the most once I clicked on your video. I was drawn to how beautiful both of them are. People pick at the very thing that they are actually envious of honey. I grew up with women bullying me for having freckles and very long hair as a black girl in Brooklyn ny and I didn't like those qualities about myself until I woke up like you now have. Congratulations sis.❤
The fluidity in explanation 🎉
thank you 🥺
Youre so underrated, I can’t wait to see your channel grow and blossom girly sending you positive vibes and much love ❤️✨
aw thank you! It's coming 👀
Bullied for the size of her eyes? But big eyes are a classic beauty standard for women. Big eyes = beautiful. Can't belief how weird people can behave. These bullies were probably just jealous.
Honestly, her eyes are magnificent. I am jealous :D
This video was amazing, I agree, using the things that you are insecure & ashamed of & making them your strengths is SO POWERFUL.
Recovering people pleaser here, learning to tap into my feminine energy 🙋🏻♀️
I want to have dark feminine energy. After a couple of dates I always get “ your super nice and sweet” - while that is nice. I feel I come across as a people pleaser.
If you’re genuinely a sweet and nice person there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. you can be nice and sweet and still be dark feminine. It becomes people pleasing if you start doing things that become a detriment to yourself. doing things you don’t really want to do , not setting boundaries and letting people walk over you . Don’t let her make you believe that being nice just automatically means u a people pleaser
Good Lord... I have learned so much about myself in just two of your videos... Thank you.
On a side note .. your eyes are beautiful. Your skin color is beautiful. I'm glad you haven't let other people's opinions hold you back... Even mine. Shalom
I really appreciate this!!! Please talk about the wounded feminine and how to heal it. Thank you.
you got it!
This is spot on, I’ve taken advantage of people, because of my unhealed, overly dark feminine energy, so I totally relate to what you’re saying
You were bullied because of your eyes??? WHAT??? They are mesmerizing!!! Seriously! Thanks for sharing this video, this is exactly what I needed to hear this morning.
Wow
I used to be on both sides of the spectrum. I think a bit of me still is.
Sometimes I just feel like I meet a guy and he'd be the best person I'll ever met.
This is exactly what I think about too. I need to be able to say no to even a man I perceive as "attractive". I used to fall for a man's hotness. When I was like 14, I would fawn over this guy like I was his groupie. Weak ass shit. No wonder he played me like a fiddle.
I always tell myself a quote a read from the Bible, " Be not moved by the things you see in this world." And it snaps me out of it. Just because the "halo effect" exists...it doesn't mean that I have to fall for it
Thank you for that bible quote I have written it down
You're welcome! I always say this to myself when I catch myself putting some random guy on the pedestal. Like why does he need to be there????@@alakiahm8884
Beautiful reflection! Thanks for sharing 💜.
I had to screen shot this cause this is about to help me out alot.
Thank you for this, although I am already in my dark feminine energy. It’s refreshing to listen and learn from women like you sharing information on tapping into your dark feminine energy. For a while, I’ve been doing shadow work to heal the parts of myself and embrace my dark side. I am an eclectic pagan so shadow work is not only for healing, yet working with Lilith.
Love this video! Cannot explain it better! I hope it will help a lot a women and men out there. Was a people pleaser before and all you said is so true!
I've been a freaking door mat for years. No more! I am calling back my power! This was the 1st video I've seen from your channel, and I immediately subscribed. Thank you!❤
This video is wonderful - thank you. I will be watching this again and I will take notes. I’m quite a bit older than you but the wisdom you’re dropping here is really helpful. Thank you, lovely lady.
You are so welcome!
I appreciate you so much for this! I feel like no one talks about the importance of masculine energy. This past year I feel like the focus was way too much on feminine energy only making women the “perfect” nice girl…
Me personally I’m like ummmm no getting rid of your masculine energy is giving away your Power 😢
Thank you so much for discussing the necessity of incorporating masculinity to balance out the feminine ❤
That was so enlightenning ! ❤ More videos about dark feminine energy pleaaaaaaaase. I think I have both light and dark energy, but Im more leaning towards the 'cool girl' : I need to do more adjustments :)
I was bullied by family members especially my mother for being skinny and having a very soft voice, now I know what to do 😊
I love that analogy of the supporting character. I absolutely can identify with having been that way in my past relationships. Truth!
Youre literally my new favourite youtuber. Binge watching whilst im cleaning. Im a chronic people pleaser, i refuse to keep living like that!!
I really love your second point, wear your weakness like it's armor. it can be never used against you.
What you're saying truly feels like it's coming from a place of actual lived experience, I really appreciate you.
HI Vickita! You rock! I am eating up these words because I feel that this is divine messaging to me from the universe to finally cure my Mother Theresa syndrome.
Than you, you precious little benevolent vampire angel 🥰
The "auditioning energy" label was my aha moment. Never thought myself a people please but alas I stay in that energy unconsciously. Thank you Vickita, your videos are absolutely priceless 👌
Girl yes. You’re so wise beyond your years. This makes me so proud of you. 👏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️🥂
I looove this video!
I love your healthy and wise perspective on this topic, keep glowing! 🙂
thank you so much!!
when you post i come running , love them
love having you here!
Oh my gosh I’m jealous of your gorgeous eyes!!!!
You are to the point, and its AWESOME. I appreciate your help with me including rest of broken-hearted women that needs to heal
This spoke to me so much, I didn't even realize my patterns and you described everything so well. So great to hear from an objective point of view 🙌🏽
Girl you are amazing! I love your analogies about failing the audition. It made me laugh because it is so darn accurate about how I have lived my life. Thank you for your enlightened tale on this much needed message
Just found your channel. I’m only 8 minutes into this video and it’s resonating so deeply. Thank you!
This gurl is so smart 💅 subscribed 🔔
I would really appreciate some practical, real-life examples of how to wear your weaknesses as armours. Thank you! Great video!
You have eyes that say “one day I’m
Speaking about dark feminine energy”. Awesome.
Damn that felt called out this entire video in the best way - thank you for this ❤️
People maybe love imperfect people because they do not strive to be perfect so they relate to people who are not perfect. I love people who are perfect even though I am not perfect, people do not want to be perfect it is not that the can not be but it is okay if you have little imperfections,the truth is if you do not have standards that does not mean you are perfect it means you do not love yourself enough or at all.
I absolutely LOVE your eyes, I've always thought they were gorgeous! ❤👀
you changed my life by posting this
Vickita, you are the best ❤❤
Feminine energy is dark, periodt. Light feminine is just a cool term to use women as most of those traits are for people pleasers. You never hear of dark or light masculine, because masculine energy is light. We have either divine or wounded feminine/ masculine energy.
Too real.
@@snsh7207 there are some men that are in their divine masculine but most men lately are in their wounded masculine, making more women be in their masculine and wounded feminine energy.
💯
Where are you from? Your name seems familiar.
To your comment, men lately are not that different from men in the past, the difference is that women are no longer as subdued as they once were and it is exposing the truth about them. Many men are not "evolved" or great, they latch on to the success of great men and claim it as theirs (just look at how they behave with sports). They use that and their physical strength against women. Now that women are given the space to grow, it has exposed alot of things about our so called superiors.
Make sense and fully agreed with your opinion. Now I start with a new progress. Thank you for your guide. May God bless you! ❤
You are so welcome! ❤️
I was literally about to comment how pretty your eyes are when you said you were bullied for them 🖤🤍🤍 Beautiful 😊✨
YOU ARE BOSS!!!! Seriously. Just found you and am about your vibe beauty! I'm just about to start my UA-cam channel and am super inspired by you. Your gorgeous and sharing some real, deep, tangible, useful and empowering knowledge. Blessings to you in ALL WAYS, always. xoxo
Yes I love all things dark femininity- Venus is Scorpio me is happy in the dark feminine
I was over-expressing I believe so naturally I stopped having sex. It wasn’t exactly planned at first - I went through a breakup -but it has been purposeful.
When I am ready to break up with a man, my body tells me even before my mind really catches up and I will stop having sex with them. Clearly it creates a problem for men who just want sex!
So, I propelled my last break up, but is it has been the most amazing thing ever to be celibate for 7 months now ✨
I have been able to balance my soft, vulnerable light feminine energy with my dark feminine energy.
I just started to casually date and I’ve only been on 2 dates in the last month but that’s because I’m MUCH MUCH more selective and most men aren’t making it to a first date with me!
It feels so good to be in control of myself fully, in a genuine and honorable way ❤
I’ve been single a year now and it’s been the best growing phase in my life and I’m in my late 30’s so girlies - it’s never too late!
I'm not a fan of listening to young girls talk about this stuff, but she actually knows what she's talking about
Yooo if you haven’t heard of Matthew Hussey the dating and confidence coach who caters to women, he tells exactly how for free to have the ‘are we exclusive’ conversation and even with wish washy men you’ll get your answer. He echos what she is saying in this video- be warm and friendly on the outside but strict and cold on the inside as in with your standards. I think this video is going to take it further in helping me be even more silent in negotiations and hypnotizing and we’ll timed.
Side note: She looks like Tracy Ellis Ross and Arianna Grande in one. ❤Adorable. Anyway. Love these videos. Great teacher.
Vickita, you're amazing. You have such an eloquence and ability to deliver concepts.. it's truly captivating. thank you for your work!
I really appreciate the content. It feels valuable and I highly enjoyed it. The sound hurts my ears a bit. Not sure if there's a way to soften the sound in some way, otherwise amazing content and it's much appreciated ♥️ xo
Thanks so much! It was my old camera but my recent videos have better sound 😀
Thank you for creating this content. I am so glad I found your page. You’re confidence and security in yourself is so inspiring.
I appreciate and love LOVE your content and the energy you bring with each video , its powerful and transformative and i can just tell from all this widom you share that you've done so much inner work and you practice what you preach, i respect that ❤
I became more in tune with my dark feminine energy few years ago and its honestly the best , i can never go back to being "ordinary" or vanilla that nice cool girl act is so outdated. All i care about now is being in my power and being authentic , and im sure I'll find someone who loves me for me and uplifts me even more. I deserve that and nothing less
Real talk. Btw i can't stop staring at ur eyes girl, they're so big and beautiful fr 😭
Man ghosted me soooo many months, I made some mistakes letting him into my life, ignoring some red flags, but the moment he started acting up, I did. have to let him go. It’s the most painful thing I’m got to have to go thru and deal with, but actually I should be sooooo proud of myself for sticking to my standards. I mean, he ghosted, I ghosted(read let him go), it makes sense, right?
Girllll 😂 I keekee’d when you let that snippet of yourself last for less than one second. Yasss❤ to goodbye to the old self
You are so awesome! So happy to find you ! Thank you
Thank You sooo much Vickita, yes I had nice girl syndrome!
You are so welcome!
Absolutely love this video, beautiful, thank you! And honestly, that makes me upset that you said you were bullied for the size of your eyes when… THEYRE SOOO 😍😍😍😍 nah because THE GIRLS HAD ONLY WISHHED THEY HAD BIG BROWN EYES LIKE THIS WHAT???? I LOVEEE EM . Fuck the haters cause you always been poppinnnn❤❤❤❤
I just found you today, and IM obsessed 🎉🤍✨️ you are a goddess too! Omg! New subscriber alert!
Love the video and I really appreciate the time stamps!
One of the best videos I’ve ever seen on this subject. Bravo ❤
this video just opened so many doors to information in my mind thank you 💗💗
Your content never disappoints ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Slightly unrelated here. However would you consider making a suggested book video? You now & again qoute some in videos. Id love a list to look through. Thank you
hi, can you please make a video on how to set boundries without saying a word and how to practically respond to different situations like ghosting/late replies etc without compromising your self respect and appearing too needy
Wow! Young energy all the way. Thanks for the information.
Wish such videos existed 10 years ago!! Would've avoided such toxic relationships. I totally get it now though.
Why are you describing me perfectly 😭😭
This video is literally everything i needed!
Loved this video!! Thank you so much for sharing…. I needed to hear all of this! Also, you are gorgeous!!! ❤
Loved this, especially the confidence conversion part ✨
this is everything i need rn, thank you!!
Never be afraid to lose a man! AMEN 👏
Why is that when people explain dark feminine energy, it is always centered around relationships? This concept in itself should be the inner devinity, the most higher concept!
Thank you for uploading!!!!❤
got u!
Thank you again, Vickita!! ❤Could you do a video on how to get over a break up?
Hi, I've been following you for a while and I appreciate you very much. I think it would be very interesting if you could make a video about standards and boundaries. which are the right ones? How are they chosen? Are they universal or subjective? Greetings from Italy
Heavy on the can’t be around weak women
I remember getting told my big eyes were ugly. I looked back at pictures of me as a kid later and realized she was just jealous
Lol the amount of times that I took my cable off of the car connector off and on over and over again because I thought it was broken and that’s why I couldn’t hear the beginning of the video 😂😂😂 MONDAYSSSS
BRAVO! Exceptionally clear advice--take it!
Gurrrrlllll!!!!!! You're a 💣 😍😋❤️❤️❤️ i just fell in love with your content...