Transgender Kids | MY TRANS LIFE

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  • Опубліковано 3 лис 2024
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    Coming out as transgender can be scary, overwhelming and liberating - especially when you’re a child. In this My Trans Life special we meet the kids who have come out as trans and are living the life they should. Rebekah Bruesehoff may only be nine years old but she claims to be ‘the scary transgender person the media warned you about.’ A group of 11-year-old trans girls find support in each other. Nine-year-old trans twin Nataisha hangs out with another trans twin woman to share her experiences. And 11-year-old Lily starts her journey from boy to girl.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 5 тис.

  • @daisyxfaith
    @daisyxfaith 5 років тому +1787

    The first sentence alone says it all. "I'm the scary transgender person the media warned you about". A child did not come up with that. It is a talking point fed to a child who has now become a pawn in all of this. Raise your children to be kind, introspective, loving and accepting people, and when they have matured enough to make life-changing decisions, THEN support them in choosing to live an authentic life. I'm tired of media outlets virtue signaling and promoting agendas all while catching children in the crossfire.

    • @user-sv1xb8oe9t
      @user-sv1xb8oe9t 5 років тому +12

      Quit lying

    • @kendallbergstrom
      @kendallbergstrom 5 років тому +96

      I feel like labelling children this young as transgender is harmful, because typically children this young don't know what they want, they go through phases, and they don't understand everything. Hell, up until I was 10 I thought I was part cat or something, because I was a stupid kid. Of course, I definitely don't think that now, but if I had a parent also pushing ans enabling the idea that I really was part cat, I probably would've had problems growing out of that.
      I think it's just best to let these kids be kids. If a boy likes girly things, so be it. Let him like pink and girls clothes, but don't push them into being trans at such a young age. I'm not saying these kids aren't transgender either, even without their parents telling them about it they could still end up being transgender. What I'm saying is, let them be kids, like whatever they want, and slowly figure it out when they mature instead of rushing them into it. Kids go through phases, they change. Don't set anything in stone too early on in their life.

    • @Law_desu15
      @Law_desu15 5 років тому +12

      What if alot of kids feel like this but its because of the media they have the courage to get "out"

    • @Leebaddii
      @Leebaddii 5 років тому +11

      Theres a stigma on how people look at Trans people and you know it 😒

    • @lenapauline8634
      @lenapauline8634 5 років тому +6

      and it was hanging in her room 2 years later in the vid.... indoctrination much.

  • @harpergrace5846
    @harpergrace5846 5 років тому +2964

    I never thought about my gender as a kid i just have a hard time with kids making life changing decisions

    • @brookebailey4330
      @brookebailey4330 5 років тому +102

      I totally agree.

    • @jadedjene8786
      @jadedjene8786 5 років тому +32

      Ditto

    • @papalouie2180
      @papalouie2180 5 років тому +170

      You didn't think about it cause, what she said, you don't have gender dysphoria. You were completely ok with your gender/sex

    • @twopeople158
      @twopeople158 5 років тому +121

      @MoonaticDestiny So they need mental help, physical changes just adds to the belief. It's like a depressed person being told negative things all the time. No offence to anyone transgender or anything, you do you and I do me.

    • @dnasoup.
      @dnasoup. 5 років тому +2

      Yep

  • @cemetarymama
    @cemetarymama 5 років тому +1326

    How does a 4 year old speak out that “I am transgender “?

    • @Areyousayingidontknowmyname
      @Areyousayingidontknowmyname 5 років тому +56

      That one was a bit sus. Personally 90% of these kids are legit but a couple i was a little mmm

    • @jmc5910
      @jmc5910 5 років тому +142

      the mom was pushing it since the kid could walk

    • @pokemontas8025
      @pokemontas8025 5 років тому +123

      report this video for child abuse

    • @Areyousayingidontknowmyname
      @Areyousayingidontknowmyname 5 років тому +23

      @@pokemontas8025 Don't be silly

    • @hossamsa4205
      @hossamsa4205 5 років тому +103

      @@pokemontas8025
      Yes it is child abuse and i will report this sickness .

  • @joldomines4005
    @joldomines4005 2 роки тому +577

    I’m thankful my mom didn’t assume I was a trans when I played with dolls and liked my little pony at age 7 and knew I was just being a kid.

    • @keishakiger8541
      @keishakiger8541 2 роки тому +44

      Key difference is : the moms didn’t assume, the kids directly told the parents 😁and showed consistent behavior/thoughts in that direction . It’s not an issue of playing with boy or girl toys.

    • @malcolmmarshall9325
      @malcolmmarshall9325 2 роки тому +36

      @@keishakiger8541 that is only thing kids do play. let kids grow up. then they wil decide

    • @joldomines4005
      @joldomines4005 2 роки тому +43

      @@keishakiger8541 I wanted to be a superhero when I was kid and my behavior showed that I did. Do u know why? Because I was just a kid💀

    • @ninjawizard3865
      @ninjawizard3865 Рік тому +15

      @@joldomines4005 it's like some people think we should just follow everything kids say.

    • @kw2080
      @kw2080 Рік тому +4

      @@keishakiger8541 you don’t actually think a kid is born needing to wear a dress do you?

  • @evemorgan6691
    @evemorgan6691 5 років тому +891

    My daughter was a little Tom boy. She never liked wearing the pretty dresses I bought for her preferring instead shorts. She loved playing with her brother’s boy toys. She told me that boy’s toys were more fun. I agree. She is now 30 and loves being a woman but she still hates dresses!

    • @victorbergman9169
      @victorbergman9169 3 роки тому +16

      yes

    • @GroundUpProduct00
      @GroundUpProduct00 3 роки тому +69

      That’s a funny story. But the thing is this, not every child thinks they are living in the wrong gender. Tomboys exist , period. Just because you’re daughter was only a tomboy doesn’t mean kids with trans gender mentality exists. I’m noticing people who have trouble grasping the idea of a trans kids cannot for one second put themselves in someone else’s shoes or even listen to what the person in question has to say. It’s all projection and dismissive comments

    • @corgi_snoot978
      @corgi_snoot978 3 роки тому +32

      I'm a teen who is a "tom boy" and I get mistaken for a boy all the time. I know very much about trans people and in fact, my sibling is trans. I know I'm a girl and it feels right. You aren't trans because you think "Oh I'm masc/femme, this will be a laugh" you do it because you dont feel right as a cis person.

    • @umdonttalktome
      @umdonttalktome 3 роки тому +6

      that’s like me I hate dresses lolz although I rlly think society should get over the word tomboy and accept that girls should just be classed as being like girls even if they are into more originally seen as ‘masculine’ things.

    • @289rory
      @289rory 3 роки тому +3

      I called myself king instead of queen, wanted to be called handsome, tried to fit in boy spaces, etc. I loved Barbie and Polly Pockets, but I also enjoyed wrestling toys. I think I’ve always been in the middle until I got older. I have no problem being a woman, and I don’t think I’d have a crisis being a male either. My sister was very feminine in the way she dressed, but was a tomboy. She has long hair and is occasionally feminine with masculine traits still. She doesn’t wish to be a man. Never did. No matter how many footballs she threw, the tackles she took, boxing class, basketball team, etc. People are just people.

  • @domisthunder7853
    @domisthunder7853 5 років тому +2027

    Thank god my mother didn’t assume I was a female when I wanted to wear a dress 😂

    • @winterz718
      @winterz718 5 років тому +27

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Law_desu15
      @Law_desu15 5 років тому +58

      Alot of dudes turn trans around 40 be careful 🤷‍♀️

    • @dingo1666
      @dingo1666 5 років тому +58

      @@Law_desu15 NOt everybody is trans who wears a dress. I guess most males have tried one on or at least ladies underwear. If going out like that turns them on it's transvestism. They are still full blooded guys who have a fetish. It is this which worries us women a lot as there seems to be no distinction between an actually trans [sexual] and a dressed up male, who both have now unrestricted access to women's private places.

    • @flintz00
      @flintz00 5 років тому +28

      They didn't assume, they were born this way just like Lady Gaga!
      Stop being a bigot!!!!

    • @muawia23
      @muawia23 5 років тому +2

      😂😂😂😂🤣🤣

  • @Anna-zp1ok
    @Anna-zp1ok 5 років тому +683

    I'm totally supportive in letting your child figure out who they want to be, but giving your child hormones and medication at such a young age, is just too much. I would wait until she's older and able to comprehend what the medication is doing. It's obvious that she's not the one that brought up the idea of medication, she's way to young to even know about these types of medications.

    • @SquirrelASMR
      @SquirrelASMR 5 років тому +66

      Especially if the main reasoning was because your son liked a color.... 1:58

    • @hughjass5125
      @hughjass5125 5 років тому +34

      Not Today Hormone blockers from my knowledge don’t do any permanent damage. They just stunt puberty. So that the child is able to make the decision whether or not they want to take estrogen when they are older.

    • @DjMakinetor
      @DjMakinetor 5 років тому +30

      Nobody has ever proved that the Elephant can become a Horse, so there are no other sexes except male and female.

    • @pokemontas8025
      @pokemontas8025 5 років тому +39

      report this video for child abuse

    • @Dee-ye2dk
      @Dee-ye2dk 5 років тому +36

      @@hughjass5125 that can have negative affects on a male or females life. Men and women develop different skeletal structures, along with hormone and testosterone levels, muscular development, etc. Even the mother in the video acknowledges such risk.

  • @MeHoyMinoy-cv3ps
    @MeHoyMinoy-cv3ps 3 роки тому +462

    Liking pink and girls clothes doesn’t make you a girl.
    Growing up I was a tomboy but I understood the things I liked didn’t define me.
    Plenty of little girls don’t like pink.

    • @-M1LK0-
      @-M1LK0- 3 роки тому +20

      Your simplifying it too much it’s not just liking boys clothes or the colour pink there are far more signs and it has to be approved by a medical professionals before they can get any medication

    • @meorrrrw4020
      @meorrrrw4020 3 роки тому +62

      @@-M1LK0- she is not simplifying anything... LOL that is literally the reason they give in the video

    • @JustSeb825825_p4ssw0rd
      @JustSeb825825_p4ssw0rd 3 роки тому +2

      @@meorrrrw4020 seriously, what do you expect her to say. its a child and its hard to say these emotions in a way that makes sense to what they feel. sod off.

    • @JustSeb825825_p4ssw0rd
      @JustSeb825825_p4ssw0rd 3 роки тому +12

      the point is, Rebecca is a kid. You can't expect her to be able to explain her situation well. Transgender people just know it when they are. There are scientific studies that show transgender people's brains are not wired like their assigned gender at birth.

    • @MeHoyMinoy-cv3ps
      @MeHoyMinoy-cv3ps 3 роки тому +12

      @@JustSeb825825_p4ssw0rd the parents were saying it that’s why I commented on it... did you even watch the video?

  • @shimy333
    @shimy333 5 років тому +495

    The moment she said.." Ok so I write a blog about our journey" ..

    • @adrianaflowers998
      @adrianaflowers998 5 років тому +7

      pretentious goat what is wrong with blogging? I used to do it

    • @adrianaflowers998
      @adrianaflowers998 5 років тому +2

      pretentious goat oh ok

    • @willdpe1256
      @willdpe1256 4 роки тому +15

      Why is it that the majority of Boys are really "Girls" ?? ? I don't see any REAL Fathers .. Looks like mostly single moms in nice White upscale neighborhoods ..

    • @289rory
      @289rory 3 роки тому +1

      @@willdpe1256 Those are like 6 kids who probably don’t even live in the same city. That’s not a majority at all. If you have to search for people like you, there aren’t many people like you. Just like the little girl said. She had to search for friends.

    • @judeesee894
      @judeesee894 8 місяців тому

      Exactly

  • @Candicedickinsonllc
    @Candicedickinsonllc 5 років тому +510

    Omg gender is more that "colors" , "shows" and "clothes". That's just a preference. Just because I hate dresses doesnt mean Im a man

    • @_cyber_cookie_
      @_cyber_cookie_ 5 років тому +7

      agreed, it's just common sense

    • @KodaLeck
      @KodaLeck 4 роки тому +3

      So true

    • @slugmccoy8126
      @slugmccoy8126 4 роки тому +26

      These kids are 10 years old they don’t know how do describe gender dysphoria to a cisgender person. In fact I’m older and i don’t even know how to describe my dysphoria to a cisgender person.

    • @lauriexd5354
      @lauriexd5354 4 роки тому +4

      I agree, I almost always wear boyish clothes but it doesn’t mean anything

    • @hansmee1
      @hansmee1 4 роки тому +8

      simplycbh she's only a kid she found it hard to explain it and I think she is trying her best

  • @Amectree
    @Amectree 5 років тому +978

    I'm really interested in an interview with all of that kids in 30 and in 40 years to her how they see their past and childhood in review.

    • @boomerangerful
      @boomerangerful 4 роки тому +14

      me too

    • @SharlenesJourney
      @SharlenesJourney 4 роки тому +7

      Sameee

    • @j.krollin1307
      @j.krollin1307 4 роки тому +17

      If they haven't committed suicide already... And don't think that's what I wish or want, the worlds just a cruel place. Especially when you're young

    • @aerwynmoss6372
      @aerwynmoss6372 3 роки тому +6

      @@j.krollin1307 young and being trans like a lot of trans ppl committed from bulling or tuff or with getting to be them self

    • @cheio1238
      @cheio1238 3 роки тому +6

      @@aerwynmoss6372 tbh maybe they'll just forget about it yk. It's just an experience. We all go through a curiosity whirlwind when we are very young kids, and after some time it goes away; a good example are career choices.

  • @paulmartom
    @paulmartom 2 роки тому +314

    This is the total opposite of accepting our bodies, a lesson that brings maturity, understanding and acceptance of our own limits

    • @kiyoducros4513
      @kiyoducros4513 2 роки тому +15

      I understand what tou are saying but it dont applie for trans ppl here. You cant accept everything . Acceptence of you body commes next when you have to accepte that you have à trans body with all its greatness and its flows.thats the body acceptence you have to teach your children

    • @paulmartom
      @paulmartom 2 роки тому

      @@kiyoducros4513 I would agree if there was the technology to switch sex safely and properly, but as for today you’re probably going to have a lot of issues that will just make your life difficult

    • @thisisjustaguy
      @thisisjustaguy 2 роки тому +7

      @@kiyoducros4513 right acceptance for a child not even done with puberty

    • @tadanohitohitogr8450
      @tadanohitohitogr8450 Рік тому +11

      Sir, u dont know what dysphoria feels like

    • @paulmartom
      @paulmartom Рік тому +3

      @@tadanohitohitogr8450 no i don’t, but progress didn’t advance enough to make it safe and healthy

  • @crayons1584
    @crayons1584 4 роки тому +1528

    A suicidal kid at 7? That is extremely hard to be dealing with as a mother. I'm glad that they're happier now,

    • @OK-dv9gf
      @OK-dv9gf 4 роки тому +55

      i was close to comitting sucide when i was 7 aswell im 10 now and im glad i didn't

    • @karasprouse595
      @karasprouse595 4 роки тому +29

      YEA YEA YEA. It would be nice if the other trans kids got a bit of help as well. The ones you do not know about the one that gets up as a small child wondering how many times is mom going to beat me today. How many times is my parents going to hurt me and threaten me.

    • @karasprouse595
      @karasprouse595 4 роки тому +1

      @Primal Beast HA HA HA HAS that is now how it works fool. religotard.

    • @karasprouse595
      @karasprouse595 4 роки тому +1

      @Primal Beast Here is the truth and reality of gender identity you religotard.
      ua-cam.com/video/mOK8fw4tsO8/v-deo.html

    • @abdullahdureng7596
      @abdullahdureng7596 4 роки тому +4

      Ugh I don't care if someone switched their gender! I love all trans people, I kinda wished I was a boy so I can get transgender-

  • @nuttyprofessor2179
    @nuttyprofessor2179 5 років тому +467

    Transgenderism seems like a obsession with objects. Obsession with cloths/shoes etc it doesn't seem like a obsession with self. A true transgender is suppose to be trans no matter what they wear

    • @maureenh9830
      @maureenh9830 5 років тому +29

      There is no transgender. It is a lie!

    • @Dog-Girl-Defect
      @Dog-Girl-Defect 5 років тому +11

      That's not a word you moron. Pick up a book and learn to stop spreading your hate.

    • @sandwich5445
      @sandwich5445 5 років тому +16

      that's not at all what being trans is. Trans people wear clothing that they identify as a way to socially transition, while they do think more about clothes it's not an obsession its just all about being seen how you truly feel, and many trans people find this out by gender dysphoria.

    • @bmeeseeks2881
      @bmeeseeks2881 5 років тому +27

      Nutty Professor I used to love playing with trucks. Now girls like trucks they are given hormone blockers. Crazy world.

    • @queenofhearts6127
      @queenofhearts6127 5 років тому +22

      So true. Without their makeup, clothes, wigs, surgeries and medication they simply wouldn’t be able to transition. It’s all about turning against their natural, god given bodies. It’s a life long, exhausting fight against their biology.
      The child in the video might look like a girl now but when puberty kicks in and the male skeleton does it’s thing (despite the hormone blockers) they will not be as convincing.

  • @minyammy2659
    @minyammy2659 5 років тому +1268

    They taught their child that it is 'girly' to like pink.

    • @SquirrelASMR
      @SquirrelASMR 5 років тому +157

      I know right!? Liking a color has nothing to do with which genitalia you own! THESE POOR CHILDREN NEED TO BE SAVED FROM THEIR PARENTS!

    • @jusdre
      @jusdre 5 років тому +4

      Wow

    • @Damarlo36
      @Damarlo36 5 років тому +6

      Right!

    • @blakefagan1449
      @blakefagan1449 5 років тому +14

      No she just likes pink

    • @jessicarainier-pope3498
      @jessicarainier-pope3498 5 років тому +41

      Society teaches us that. It's a societal issue not a matter of parenting.

  • @davidtenreiro6030
    @davidtenreiro6030 2 роки тому +283

    This is completely insane

    • @kevinpittman2517
      @kevinpittman2517 Рік тому +4

      it is... its all about the mom... her blog is direct evidence of her attention seeking desire.. like look at me and my challenges as a parent who has to endure these hardships... smh. and its upsetting because there seems to be no protective laws for the children as these "parents" influence their innocent children... in some cases i can agree they might actually be happier to make the switch... but that should be reserved for the child when they are full grown adults... never should they be permitted to undergo the transition as a child... and there is a HIGH push right now... because of Money these school systems receive... it was the same thing and still is with ADHD and putting children on experimental drugs because teachers are too lazy to teach a child who needs a little extra help with their grades... they tried to do this with my son.... i faught it but my sons mother ... whom i am seperated from won... Now my son is 27 he has mental issues that you will not believe.. he has spent the last 12 years of his life doing drugs and nearly died 2 times from overdose... i could show videos of me finding him in my bathroom writhing uncontrollably... theyve all ruined my child... the mother still refuses to accept her part in this.. instead latches on to the fact that my real father was paranoid skitz as an adult... and those school doctors told my sons mother that is why my son has issues... he was fine when i had custody... he got good grades because i would sit with him every evening after dinner and work on his homework.. so for me that was all he needed was someone to care enuff to help him learn... thing is tho.. as a pre-teen he hated it.. .like every kid does... so he would cry to his mom and his grandmother to let him return home because i was too strict.. they all claimed i was too tough on him.. and maybe i was but i was fighting the 11 yrs of neglect at their hands prior to me being there for him every day. They won the case because of a liberal judge saying that it would work what i was doing for normal children,.., but since my son had documental mental health issues.. that they felt he would receive better treatment in their care... it wasnt but a year later .. she was calling me at home to tell me that he was using his new size to threaten his mom when she asked him to do simple chores. then too i find out that she on a regular basis was leaving him at home alone for entire weekends at the age of 13... liberals are terrible when it comes to children... they really are..

    • @SnoozerPodcast
      @SnoozerPodcast Рік тому +1

      I am not insane, you must be insane for telling people their insane, I am a man, not a women

    • @davidtenreiro6030
      @davidtenreiro6030 Рік тому +1

      @@SnoozerPodcast ok buddy sure 😅

    • @SnoozerPodcast
      @SnoozerPodcast Рік тому +2

      @@davidtenreiro6030 I am not a women, I am a man, just born in a women’s body, ok bud

    • @davidtenreiro6030
      @davidtenreiro6030 Рік тому

      @@SnoozerPodcast ok you clearly want someone to give you attention so here you have it, you are not a man you re a biological women and you have serious identity and acceptance issues that all come from psycological traumas and mental problems, you got took away by the extrem left that puts the money in these movements so thousands of weak people like you spend their money on transitioning and the same pharmaceutical companies keep getting rich at your expenses, you re completely asleep in What you call life and need to wake up and some bright light in your life, take care ✌️

  • @brookebakos248
    @brookebakos248 4 роки тому +452

    Am i the only person wondering how they had transgender in there vocabulary at 5 years old like i didn't know what that ment till 5th grade

    • @drawing4u962
      @drawing4u962 4 роки тому +57

      1. They went to a gender specialist so it likely the term was used 2. The mom said she said said “I am a girl.” Not “I am transgender.”

    • @Mangled_cos
      @Mangled_cos 4 роки тому +7

      I knew that when I was 7, soo

    • @tinymanman8013
      @tinymanman8013 4 роки тому +7

      Cuz u never thought of wanting to be another gender

    • @rajathelen8743
      @rajathelen8743 4 роки тому +1

      @@drawing4u962 23:12

    • @jadarolle9880
      @jadarolle9880 4 роки тому +5

      I didnt know what transgender meant till i was in grade7 i am now in grade 9

  • @emmjrose
    @emmjrose 5 років тому +548

    We used to just call that a tomboy??? What happened to being a tomboy?? Now your just a boy

    • @kikikiki3216
      @kikikiki3216 5 років тому +17

      You know what's funny I thought of this same thing today...

    • @MaduJune
      @MaduJune 5 років тому +97

      When I was a kid I always wore boy clothes, loved dinosaurs, would always hang out with boys and not girls, relatively short hair, didn’t care for pink (not that it should matter). At 24 now I have my nails and hair done, love girly stuff. There are a lot of changes that happen from a child to an adult..

    • @darthevil9999
      @darthevil9999 5 років тому +12

      Two very different things.

    • @aimanjaveid9902
      @aimanjaveid9902 5 років тому +5

      @@MaduJune same with me I used to have a bowl cut and would only act like my brothers (wearing their clothes) but since my sister was born I completely changed

    • @CharmingDiva
      @CharmingDiva 5 років тому

      Right

  • @alicewoodyatt8560
    @alicewoodyatt8560 4 роки тому +1121

    Oh my god her little brother “I think that having a big brother would just be too much” that’s actually so cute 🥺🥺

  • @ErikaMayX
    @ErikaMayX 2 роки тому +35

    I was a Tom boy growing up, my favorite color was blue, I rode dirt bikes and 4 wheelers. I am also a straight, biological female who is married to a man. I was a gymnast and a model. I've always loved doing whatever the boys are doing but I knew that I didn't have to be a boy to enjoy those things.

    • @wheatsock
      @wheatsock Рік тому +4

      THIS 👏👏👏

    • @juliamay2156
      @juliamay2156 Рік тому +2

      Right. Sometimes it’s a part of growing up. I don’t think grown women should be rejecting everything “girly,” but there are two genders and you can’t choose.

  • @brookebailey4330
    @brookebailey4330 5 років тому +536

    Yeah.. And my daughter is 4 and identifys as a Disney princess.. 😏

    • @Off.whites
      @Off.whites 5 років тому +8

      Brooke Bailey haha! That’s typical for this ages!

    • @kissmeimcontagious57
      @kissmeimcontagious57 5 років тому +21

      Let me guess your daughter is a girl because she likes pink lol

    • @Dog-Girl-Defect
      @Dog-Girl-Defect 5 років тому +7

      And do you identify as a basic idiot.

    • @andreamaria85
      @andreamaria85 5 років тому +1

      If your daughter played with legos I guess you wouldn’t love her? You have a twisted mind!

    • @brookebailey4330
      @brookebailey4330 5 років тому +16

      @@andreamaria85 Umm when did I say I didn't love her? I think your just really ignorant.

  • @silatikalaluka3847
    @silatikalaluka3847 4 роки тому +438

    I completely agree with Lily’s mom . Not wanting to label her yet .
    Edit:thanks for the likes :)

    • @stacydavis1682
      @stacydavis1682 4 роки тому +3

      I agree Silati Kalalika

    • @davidmartiin4359
      @davidmartiin4359 4 роки тому +17

      She has already labeled her putting her on this! I have a 17 year old daughter who didn't lyk wearing dresses at 2 or bows and would play with boy toys never dolls at6 but by 12she was into make up and boys. No child can make grown up decisions. One day they might want be a dinosaur are u gonna paint em green and call em rex

    • @sannewijn8695
      @sannewijn8695 4 роки тому +6

      @@davidmartiin4359 Well its up to the parent but I say, let them. I would totally buy a dinosaur suit for my child btw. Children do not get operations for this, they have to be adult to make those decisions. Puberty inhibiters are reversable when you stop with them but not giving them while a kid wants them on the ground he/she isnt adult enough yet will have concequentions for the rest of their lifes. Boobs can ofcourse be operated (but better prevent every extra operation) and hair can be removed but ones they get the beard in their voice it is not reversable. They need to live with that for the rest of their live, probably never has the chance to pass like a regular girl and has to deal with so many more bullies. Is that really what you want for your child? If they dont want it later on, they can stop and will have a normal puberty anyway.

    • @SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj
      @SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj 2 роки тому

      @@sannewijn8695 puberty inhibiters? Yeah look up leuprorelin, yeah its the german ww2 gas chambers treatment all over again with its effects

  • @karenvanvuuren7630
    @karenvanvuuren7630 4 роки тому +486

    This comment section did not pass the vibe check

    • @rosylagoon3600
      @rosylagoon3600 4 роки тому +4

      Why

    • @viczn
      @viczn 4 роки тому +20

      they failed the vibe check

    • @rosylagoon3600
      @rosylagoon3600 4 роки тому

      noren why

    • @ck4603
      @ck4603 4 роки тому +28

      Oh, because this is straight out child abuse by narcissistic parents that should have their kids taken away? Oh, then sorry for not meeting your vibe-check standards.

    • @karenvanvuuren7630
      @karenvanvuuren7630 4 роки тому +26

      @@ck4603dude they clearly weren't gonna show you the whole process to how they got there, that's none of our business. Look at how happy she is, she clearly wanted this. She went to therapy to make sure she wanted this. Her transition has nothing to do with her parents because it's about her. Her parents aren't abusing her, they're letting her know that she's being supported and that they're there for her, they're parent not idiots they know what they're doing. If you don't agree with their methods, that's on you being transphobic. But know they aren't taking away their child, but giving her the best life she could possibly have. They're amazing parents for not telling her it's a phase. Transphobia isn't cool, they're people too, do your research because you're apart of the group of people that were coming after parents giving their child the life they wanted. Kids aren't stupid, you might've been but she clearly isn't.

  • @manueljuhasz1032
    @manueljuhasz1032 3 роки тому +45

    This is not ok. Kids are not able to make such decisions at that age they are very easily influenced and she is likely to regret this decision later.

    • @MagicalArtist7
      @MagicalArtist7 3 роки тому +8

      yeah, because kids are not capable of making life size decisions like this

    • @MagicalArtist7
      @MagicalArtist7 3 роки тому +6

      @whisky lol kids change their minds all the time. They cannot handle big decisions. That's why the adults needs ti help and guide them.

    • @doubletiereddoppleganger1163
      @doubletiereddoppleganger1163 2 роки тому +3

      shes still trans
      still a girl
      she runs a page on instagram
      shes an activist

    • @taylorthebutt
      @taylorthebutt Рік тому

      @@doubletiereddoppleganger1163 what’s her insta I want to follow

    • @edv_yan
      @edv_yan Рік тому +1

      @@doubletiereddoppleganger1163 of course she is, you need constant self-deception process to feel good.

  • @graceamelia3760
    @graceamelia3760 4 роки тому +375

    at the young age she can't articulate why she wants to be a girl so stop hating on her for putting it into those words.

    • @campbellaviation7357
      @campbellaviation7357 4 роки тому +7

      Lol this is going to be the only comment I agree with. Welcome to the homophobic gang, it’s the new generation of middle schoolers to high schoolers.

    • @princessbubble9464
      @princessbubble9464 4 роки тому +16

      She looks old enough to know about gender and hormones

    • @leohereezz3434
      @leohereezz3434 4 роки тому +4

      Hi freddie i love you❤

    • @amandamareya2059
      @amandamareya2059 4 роки тому +7

      She had a choice and made it dude

    • @ihaveleftthisaccount3710
      @ihaveleftthisaccount3710 4 роки тому +12

      @@amandamareya2059
      She didnt have a choice. Shes a girl. She was suicidal and the only way to get rid of the depression is transition.

  • @meloncio123
    @meloncio123 5 років тому +278

    I am 23 and I cant even decide what I’m having for dinner

    • @antrax2141
      @antrax2141 4 роки тому +7

      bland spaghetti like your personality 😂😂😂

    • @meloncio123
      @meloncio123 4 роки тому +4

      @@antrax2141 or maybe sour pickles, like yours 😂

    • @greenbeantm1096
      @greenbeantm1096 4 роки тому +3

      Mellbinha Bincheski good thing these kids aren’t choosing their gender then

    • @emmawells1111
      @emmawells1111 4 роки тому +2

      Mellbinha Bincheski MEEEEEEE

    • @lillys3510
      @lillys3510 4 роки тому +1

      This is literally my older sister

  • @dylanjones4937
    @dylanjones4937 5 років тому +190

    This decision should be left until they are at a reasonable age because many trans people regret transitioning later on, it's always important to make sure you know what you want.

    • @MisterBubbaMan
      @MisterBubbaMan 5 років тому +2

      They can choose who they wanna be at that age

    • @donovanroe5419
      @donovanroe5419 5 років тому +32

      @@MisterBubbaMan Lol no.

    • @gotitomni
      @gotitomni 5 років тому +15

      Thank you an actual smart person

    • @webbie1891
      @webbie1891 5 років тому +10

      @@MisterBubbaMan you're incompetent lol

    • @MisterBubbaMan
      @MisterBubbaMan 5 років тому +1

      @@webbie1891 and you're hopeless.

  • @SB-zi4db
    @SB-zi4db 3 роки тому +20

    Gender stereotypes at their worst "i am a girl because i like pink and girls clothes and how they wear their hair". Why not let the kid like any colors and clothes and hair? What happened to telling the little boy that he can play with girls and wear pink and it's all fine? Gender is not clothes or colors. It's about sex. Something kids have no idea about until they start puberty.

    • @CrownCrystal
      @CrownCrystal 7 місяців тому

      So why are "gender" and "sex" separated in things such as surveys? Gender Identity, Sexual Orientation. Kids are developed much more than say some of the other generations. They can feel how they wanna feel, no one is influencing anyone. TransGENDER is not about sex. Far from it. TransGENDER is about IDENTITY. If it was about sex then we should be labeling as TransSEXUAL. If kids were referring to themselves as Transsexual or if their parents are calling their children Transsexual, then yes red flags would be raised there. Kids are finding their identities, sexuality is far from another term. That's what they find when puberty hits, sexual orientation.

  • @Revengestar
    @Revengestar 5 років тому +77

    I am diagnosed with Asperger syndrome and as a kid I had short hair and wore sweats because of extreme sensory overload. Many people who didn't know thought that I was either a boy or a trans girl. I also didn't have a strong sense of gender (still don't tbh) and I wasn't interested in "girly" stuff, like celebrities, make up, glitter etc. I was living with my grandmother at the time and she told me to dress in whatever way makes me comfortable and just let me be. Growing up I was able to find a lot of ways to self manage (with help of therapy). Let your kid experiment BEFORE u give them chemically created products that cause infertility and cancer.

    • @chinesekungfu2031
      @chinesekungfu2031 5 років тому +3

      Same same

    • @aoibhie1208
      @aoibhie1208 2 роки тому +4

      Nobody is giving this child any hormones. She's been to therapy. She was depressed and upset from being percieved as a boy. Even if she turns out to not be trans, then she would be able to detransition. And how does it cause cancer?

    • @hollybigelow5337
      @hollybigelow5337 2 роки тому +5

      @@aoibhie1208 Hormone-therapy has been shown to significantly increase the chances of cancer later in life. And it is a myth that people can "just detransition." Actual biology isn't that clean. The long term impacts of hormones will be bigger the longer someone stays on them, but for most people there will always be certain lifetime health consequences for taking hormones as a child that children who did not take hormones will never experience. It's not like a word document where you can write a sentence and then delete it later if you don't like it and it will be like you never wrote it. If you are exposed to large amounts of lead as a child, chances are you will still be experiencing effects in your 90's. If you have scabies as a child, there is a decent chance that will still be impacting you in your 90's as well. Heck, I was scratched by a scared cat over a decade ago and I still regularly see the scar. It's absolutely true that if the child is allowed to wear a dress there will likely be no long term physical effects if the child decides to start wearing bow ties later. But it is absolutely factually inaccurate that after taking hormones for a significant period in childhood that the person can just detransition and it will be as if they had never taken the hormones in the first place.

    • @aoibhie1208
      @aoibhie1208 2 роки тому +1

      @@hollybigelow5337 source on the cancer stuff? Haven't heard of that before.

    • @hollybigelow5337
      @hollybigelow5337 2 роки тому

      @@aoibhie1208 www.bmj.com/content/365/bmj.l1652
      To be fair, the risk is much higher for transgender women than for transgender men.

  • @Dr3Mc3Ninja
    @Dr3Mc3Ninja 5 років тому +143

    Puberty blockers will cause bone weakness, leading to osteoporosis, and it will stunt brain development. It does not pause puberty, it halts crucial, healthy development.

    • @psychcommercial
      @psychcommercial 5 років тому +28

      Also non reversible. This is so tragic.

    • @Erin78456
      @Erin78456 5 років тому +14

      ALSO IT CAUSE YOUR NUTS TO SHRINK!!!

    • @asylumbuilder2881
      @asylumbuilder2881 5 років тому +4

      Shave or use laser hair removal

    • @QuickMove321
      @QuickMove321 5 років тому +6

      Hey can you link your sources. I believe you I just want to have a article or study to bring up if I happen to need it in a arguement. Thanks.

    • @Dr3Mc3Ninja
      @Dr3Mc3Ninja 5 років тому +13

      @@QuickMove321 It's hard to find a single study that details it all.
      Puberty Blockers are Gonadotropin-releasing Hormones.
      They can be used to treat prostate cancer patients, and it has been linked to accelerating the loss of bone mineral.
      Lupron is a common name for one of the puberty blockers used, the list of side effects is rather extensive.
      On GIDS.NHS.UK they say that puberty blockers are fully reversible, and cross-sex-hormones are partially reversible.
      Regarding puberty blockers, they have this on their website, "However, we don’t know the full psychological effects of the blocker or whether it alters the course of adolescent brain development."
      My phone won't let me link some study, but it was about the use of Lupron, they did prescribe something to be taken with the Lupron, and it did help to stop loss of bone density.
      Google "Lupron Bone density" accessdata.fda.gov was the link I could see.
      Just type "lupron"/lupron bone density" into the Google News category for articles.
      And we know that sex hormones affect brain development, and I think it is fair to guess it will have some sort of impact. It's hard to find a study that specifically addresses puberty blockers on healthy children who don't start HRT.
      This site is a bit anti-trans, but it has some info that allows you to look things up yourself. Most articles are biased. Very hard to find nuanced ones.
      www.transgendertrend.com/puberty-blockers/

  • @kendallbergstrom
    @kendallbergstrom 5 років тому +94

    I feel like labelling children this young as transgender is harmful, because typically children this young don't know what they want, they go through phases, and they don't understand everything. Hell, up until I was 10 I thought I was part cat or something, because I was a stupid kid. Of course, I definitely don't think that now, but if I had a parent also pushing ans enabling the idea that I really was part cat, I probably would've had problems growing out of that.
    I think it's just best to let these kids be kids. If a boy likes girly things, so be it. Let him like pink and girls clothes, but don't push them into being trans at such a young age. I'm not saying these kids aren't transgender either, even without their parents telling them about it they could still end up being transgender. What I'm saying is, let them be kids, like whatever they want, and slowly figure it out when they mature instead of rushing them into it. Kids go through phases, they change. Don't set anything in stone too early on in their life.

    • @africaisacontinent2149
      @africaisacontinent2149 5 років тому +2

      Those 3 hippopotamuses are messing with that poor child

    • @greenbeantm1096
      @greenbeantm1096 4 роки тому

      Kendall Bergstrom the parents didn’t have a part though, they’ve been diagnosed by professionals with gender dysphoria

    • @SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj
      @SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj 2 роки тому

      @@greenbeantm1096 proffesionals like gender degree? You don't need much to get in there, i mean a dude wore a wig and went to prison for assaulting women, so he dressed up to be "trans" and did it again in the prison, all quesrions are heresy and bigotry for them, the law and doctors, just like doctors who tried to give 18cc of oxygen to kids (18cc or half is enough to block a blood vein or paralize an elephant), and suddenly they were up for donating organs by wery badly mismatched signature by parents somehow

  • @BarbaraJoanneBJ
    @BarbaraJoanneBJ 2 роки тому +13

    Putting your child on puberty blockers should be illegal.

  • @angellica7318
    @angellica7318 5 років тому +303

    Hormone blocker are a very bad idea... what if the child changes their mind? They are only 7

    • @Popplebop
      @Popplebop 5 років тому +18

      Angellica I don’t agree with what they are doing but you can simply take the blockers out and you go through the puberty you were supposed too

    • @williamlavagna1096
      @williamlavagna1096 5 років тому +40

      @@Popplebop It doesn't work that way. They're called puberty blockers for a reason. There's no turning back.

    • @Popplebop
      @Popplebop 5 років тому +13

      Noo it does I was on them and then they just took the patch off and I had a female puberty....it’s literally proven dumbass

    • @williamlavagna1096
      @williamlavagna1096 5 років тому +26

      Duckify . How old are you? Do you seriously think you’ll get away with such an obvious lie?

    • @darthevil9999
      @darthevil9999 5 років тому +10

      @@williamlavagna1096 No, they are reversible.

  • @NM-vh5im
    @NM-vh5im 5 років тому +115

    When I was a kid I liked playing with cars and had only one doll. Sometimes I was acting like a tomboy. But it NEVER occurred to me to think whether I'm a boy or a girl! May be I would of if mass media or some ignorant people told me to think about it. But thank God it never happened! If a little girl liked wearing boy's clothes it doesn't mean she's "a boy" and has to start her transitioning. It may CHANGE. She may eventually stop wearing boys clothes and start acting like a girl again. It happens with children. Parents, don't be so devastatingly ignorant and tolerant to what "doctors" and media tells you. This is business!

    • @loke4444
      @loke4444 5 років тому

      my best friend wouldnt had been here if he wasnt allowed to be himself, if he wasnt allowed to get a binder his chest dysphoria wouldve been so much worst. being a tomboy is different to being a trans guy.

    • @ssnadera6498
      @ssnadera6498 5 років тому +4

      @@loke4444 so whats the male equivalent for tomboy? Oh wait society didnt come up with a term other than a six letter f word

    • @maureenh9830
      @maureenh9830 5 років тому +1

      @@ssnadera6498 YES! I still believe the term applies.

    • @NM-vh5im
      @NM-vh5im 5 років тому +14

      @@loke4444 If you suddenly feel yourself like a giraffe it doesn't mean you are. If you are born as a girl you are a girl. If you were born as a boy you are a boy. Unless you were born as hermaphrodite. Also, if a chicken feels like a peacock and puts a peacock tail in its bottom, it doesn't make her a peacock. These kids fell victims of propaganda and permissiveness. They need a good psychiatrist.

    • @queenblackdiva
      @queenblackdiva 5 років тому +5

      For real, when i was a kid i was really a tomboy xD , sometimes i used to say stuff like "i'm a male".
      Well, hopefully no one took that too seriously

  • @oldfashiondragon
    @oldfashiondragon 5 років тому +103

    I still say they should wait until their at least 16. Id say 18 but 16 is a good age to have a better idea of who you are.

    • @josh_fisher
      @josh_fisher 5 років тому +6

      16 year olds go through phases faster than the seasons change... By 18 it's not as bad, but some still are that way even in their 20's...

    • @oldfashiondragon
      @oldfashiondragon 5 років тому +2

      @@josh_fisher wait until their 16 than we can establish some kind of stable plan by the time they're 18.
      One can hit puberty between 12-16 and around that time they'll know more of what they want. Because they'll be expiring the hormones supposed to have

    • @oldfashiondragon
      @oldfashiondragon 5 років тому

      @@lasvegas1099 ^^^^^

    • @oldfashiondragon
      @oldfashiondragon 5 років тому

      @Al The INTP its always better to plan it out over a course of years

    • @ssnadera6498
      @ssnadera6498 5 років тому +1

      Yeah why dont u dress as the opposite sex for atleast 16 years no matter how much u hate it and then well force it on the kids, such hypocrisy

  • @JLoot_and_pigtina_tanked
    @JLoot_and_pigtina_tanked 2 роки тому +15

    When I was 7, I was sending letters to Cartoon Network to participate in total drama lol

    • @Jeanettesboxingchannel
      @Jeanettesboxingchannel 3 місяці тому

      I thought I was Superman and believed in Santa Claus. That said, I also saw myself as a girl and that view never changed. Today i am a trans woman and I WISH I could have socially transitioned as a teenager. I believe i would have been happier in many aspects.

  • @Deliriumsendless
    @Deliriumsendless 5 років тому +161

    “I’m the scary transgender person the media warned you about.”
    -Rebekah

    • @ari.conditionee
      @ari.conditionee 4 роки тому

      ok so what's your point PiNe RoSe

    • @Deliriumsendless
      @Deliriumsendless 4 роки тому +12

      【`` S P A C E A L I E N ``】 sorry I’m really awful about telling if that is sarcasm, so I’ll just say that I thought it was funny.

    • @soulxblugamer
      @soulxblugamer 3 роки тому +1

      @@Deliriumsendless DKFDWLGBVW YOUR USERNAME IS BEST SHIP-

    • @Deliriumsendless
      @Deliriumsendless 3 роки тому +1

      @@soulxblugamer best ship

  • @la_morena6346
    @la_morena6346 4 роки тому +69

    At age 11 I thought that when actors died in movies they actually died wich make me kind of sad and these kids at age 11 already know what the meaning of transgender is

    • @another_useless
      @another_useless 4 роки тому +3

      Lol i thought clouds werre made by a machine
      Jk i wasnt fkn stupid

    • @michaelmurdock7331
      @michaelmurdock7331 4 роки тому +6

      @@another_useless I thought that you could walk on clouds when I was a kid

    • @another_useless
      @another_useless 4 роки тому +3

      @@michaelmurdock7331 lol same but like till i was nine
      but heres the thing kids arent so dumb when it comes too how they feel
      they m,ight not be able too explain it correcly but a toddler could still tell u that they are heartbroken that the banana does not fit in the peanut butter jar

    • @aerwynmoss6372
      @aerwynmoss6372 3 роки тому +5

      I thought teachers lived in the school
      I was so fcking dumb

    • @candylandi5351
      @candylandi5351 3 роки тому +2

      They said that a 5yo boy said "I'm a transgender" and another dressed his 3yo son like a girl because "He likes pink"... those parents are sick abusers.

  • @RealSalica
    @RealSalica 5 років тому +352

    I wanted to be a vampire when I was young ....

  • @nin10dog
    @nin10dog 2 роки тому +8

    as a trans teen (living in a transphobic home) it’s okay to raise your kids to explore their gender identity, if your kid is born male, and likes feminine stuff, let them like feminine stuff, don’t tell them “so you’re a girl now? you’re trans?” and push it onto them, if they start to like masculine stuff, that’s okay too. if your kid wants to be called a she, call her a she, and vice versa. don’t try and tell them “so you were born a boy, but you like pink and girly stuff, so you’re a trans girl!”, please just let them explore and don’t push anything, and definitely nothing permanent.

  • @lisa-mf9te
    @lisa-mf9te 5 років тому +162

    It's your child, let kids be kids boy girl dinosaur barbies who cares as long as they are happy and healthy

    • @mimibonish9832
      @mimibonish9832 4 роки тому +9

      Lisa Simpson while I read this I read this in Lisa Simpson’s voice

    • @campbellaviation7357
      @campbellaviation7357 4 роки тому +2

      Mimi Bonish
      LOL

    • @sarahp.3772
      @sarahp.3772 4 роки тому +1

      We all know that if a kid thought he seriously was a dinosaur, it would not be accepted.

    • @hyperbabe2009
      @hyperbabe2009 4 роки тому +8

      My kids won’t have that choice. They’ll be raised the gender they’re born as.

    • @You-ip8dn
      @You-ip8dn 4 роки тому +6

      @hyperbabe2009 consider that on the off-chance that one of your kids IS transgender, if you force them to be something they’re not, they’ll likely suffer from feelings of not being accepted, possibly depression, etc. Have your own opinions but it’s harmful to not let a trans kid transition, have you seen the trans suicide rates? I’m not saying they have to take hormones or have surgery before they’re 18 or anything but you should not oppress their right to be them.

  • @Aught2
    @Aught2 5 років тому +111

    Tastes don't define your gender.
    - sinaeb

    • @amandamelo234
      @amandamelo234 5 років тому +8

      You can be a boy who likes pink and dresses

    • @iamgoddard
      @iamgoddard 5 років тому +2

      The consensus view is that gender differences are socially constructed and girls really prefer pink, so boys who like pink are really girls.

  • @fragileasglass3192
    @fragileasglass3192 5 років тому +32

    As long as they grow to be nice, kind and strong human beings, that's all that matters.

    • @BRAVENEWORDERFILMS
      @BRAVENEWORDERFILMS 5 років тому +3

      Total delusion

    • @MamiRicaaaa
      @MamiRicaaaa 5 років тому +2

      Are you INSANE!?!?!

    • @fragileasglass3192
      @fragileasglass3192 5 років тому +3

      @@EliteDebate Trans people commit suicide because of people like you and many others, sadly. That's the truth.
      Bye sweetie

    • @MamiRicaaaa
      @MamiRicaaaa 5 років тому +2

      @@EliteDebate Agreed not to mention the toll the Medications have on them.... The testosterone and Estrogen it has on the opposite sex surely effects them mentally. Just imagine being on them as a child. Absolutely falsely attributed to mass bullying.

  • @kirbydouglas1191
    @kirbydouglas1191 2 роки тому +116

    When you're a kid, you just wanna make your parents proud.
    That's whats going on here.

    • @user-ilovemrfahrenheit
      @user-ilovemrfahrenheit 2 роки тому +11

      🙌and how else would they know about transgender stuff if their parents haven’t indoctrinated them about it? these kids will grow up and regret ever “transforming”

    • @kirbydouglas1191
      @kirbydouglas1191 2 роки тому +8

      @@user-ilovemrfahrenheit
      Big Facts.
      These kids have no choice but to go along with this, and they're convinced it's a good thing because their guardians say so.
      Children are easily impressionable.
      The adults are making life-altering decisions for these kids before they even realize the weight of the situation.
      And by that time, the damage will be done. Very sad.
      People need to allow their children to grow up, and make their own decisions.

    • @user-ilovemrfahrenheit
      @user-ilovemrfahrenheit 2 роки тому +6

      @@kirbydouglas1191 i feel so bad for these kids.

    • @HarryKlein123
      @HarryKlein123 Рік тому +1

      ​@@user-ilovemrfahrenheitwhy? They are happy with the life they have now.

    • @user-ilovemrfahrenheit
      @user-ilovemrfahrenheit Рік тому

      @@HarryKlein123 because when they grow up they may regret what they’ve done. kids shouldn’t be allowed to make such a huge decision at such a young age.

  • @conner4991
    @conner4991 5 років тому +132

    Her first problem was posting ANYTHING on Facebook

  • @AnalogWinter
    @AnalogWinter 5 років тому +42

    Let kids play with whatever toys that want, let girls wear blue and boys wear pink, but let major decisions like changing gender wait until the child is at least 16. It just always feels like these kids are led to making these major decisions by the adults around them.

  • @camdynwetherill5122
    @camdynwetherill5122 4 роки тому +32

    “I was here before you were born, stop tellin me how to dance” dang, that hit hard when I heard that

  • @estellegrove4853
    @estellegrove4853 3 роки тому +67

    My best friends daughter wanted to be identified as a boy. Everyone was happy to do so and so she began the long road to gender reassignment. From the age 12 - 18 she lived as a boy when she changed her mind!! She was glad that the process had been slow as she managed to save her girly bits. Unfortunately it might be too late for her reproductive system. She has lived as a woman now embracing her curves for the past 2 years. This worries me with children so young. I’m glad these kids have parents who are happy to embrace this but I’d be very careful to make any permanent changes as minds do change. I’ve seen it with my own eyes. I personally think this is a deep depression that needs treatment rather than putting a bandaid so to speak over the wound. I wish them all the best of luck 🙏

    • @ESponge2000
      @ESponge2000 2 роки тому +2

      If this is perpetual depression turned to joy through gender re-assignment then it’s the better option to aim for your child feeling happy every day. Should they change their mind later, it won’t be with much regret if the early phase was such a strong emotional desire for the first transition, such as the child in this video.

    • @SnoozerPodcast
      @SnoozerPodcast Рік тому +2

      I am a trans man, I am a man just born in a women’s body you know what I mean yeah, planning to have my Brest surgery in like May

    • @estellegrove4853
      @estellegrove4853 Рік тому +3

      @@SnoozerPodcast
      Please get some real good therapy before surgery. Honestly so many people feel they’re in the wrong body or hate their body and just doesn’t feel right. This can be some very deep down psychological problems and I beg you to see a therapist first. You may have already done so in which case I wish you lots of luck and hope you are happy once you transition. ❤️

    • @SnoozerPodcast
      @SnoozerPodcast Рік тому +2

      @@estellegrove4853 I did way too much of them and I hated them and all they confirmed is that I was indeed dysphoria and I am now trying more to be my true self as a male not a female

    • @SnoozerPodcast
      @SnoozerPodcast Рік тому +2

      @@estellegrove4853 thanks:) already went through them and all of them confirmed I am dysphoric and I am excited to get my breast removed surgery in May so that I can swim shirtless with the bois.

  • @elinebaas6842
    @elinebaas6842 4 роки тому +62

    Why the hell are there SO many commenta about that She “knew” She was a girl because She liked pink!? This is the easiest way for her to say It because It probably is difficult for her to say It otherwise

    • @kyliejw8811
      @kyliejw8811 4 роки тому +12

      Eline Baas thank you! All these people who have no idea what they’re talking about are bashing her. Y’all- she’s too young to completely understand dysmorphia for herself or I guess more actually how to phonically express it.

    • @elinebaas6842
      @elinebaas6842 4 роки тому +1

      Kj Ari exeaxtly and probably also dysphoria, but idk all about that

    • @greenbeantm1096
      @greenbeantm1096 4 роки тому +1

      Kj Ari dysphoria*

    • @campbellaviation7357
      @campbellaviation7357 4 роки тому

      Eline Baas
      Oh I don’t know MAYBE BECAUSE IT SAID THAT IN THE VIDEO?

    • @willdpe1256
      @willdpe1256 4 роки тому

      Why is it that the majority of Boys are really "Girls" ?? ? I don't see any REAL Fathers .. Looks like mostly single moms in nice White upscale neighborhoods ..

  • @pazlara-ruiz5736
    @pazlara-ruiz5736 4 роки тому +75

    I have always liked male clothes and I wear them. I like my hair short. I'm definitely female though and I've never doubted that. Im not sure how I feel about putting your kid on hormone blockers by their choice. It's hard on any persons body to stop their hormones.

    • @pazlara-ruiz5736
      @pazlara-ruiz5736 4 роки тому +7

      I was born female and have continued to be female

  • @socogirl1980
    @socogirl1980 5 років тому +33

    I struggle when the sibling says when she was five she said “Mama I’m Transgender” and then the other Mom says at 8 the child says “You will call me Lily and use she/her pronouns” An 8 year old doesn’t know what a pronoun is...and a 5 year old can’t even spell transgender let alone define it!

    • @rome7171
      @rome7171 5 років тому +3

      I knew what a pronoun was when I was 7 and I'm dyslexic. And they ain't spelling nothing

    • @jenniferc8213
      @jenniferc8213 5 років тому +6

      Actually I'm 10 and we learned pronouns in 3rd grade sooo

    • @greenbeantm1096
      @greenbeantm1096 4 роки тому +4

      socogirl1980 pronouns are learned in like 3rd grade... kids also know what they are before because they learn how to talk and refer to people. They also didn’t say “I’m transgenders” they said “I’m a girl” or “I’m Lilly”

    • @johnatwell9980
      @johnatwell9980 4 роки тому +1

      I don’t think she said that ok.

    • @sirdovakiin7247
      @sirdovakiin7247 4 роки тому +2

      Did you get a primary school education? Pronouns are a pretty basic part of language.

  • @-Abdulhadi-
    @-Abdulhadi- 3 роки тому +24

    These are kids. How can this be allowed.

    • @maumiau8765
      @maumiau8765 3 роки тому

      Shut up when you don’t know about anything!!!!!!

    • @-Abdulhadi-
      @-Abdulhadi- 3 роки тому +5

      @@maumiau8765 About what exactly? elaborate

    • @Sssssss553
      @Sssssss553 3 роки тому +2

      Man thate is the crazy usa for you

    • @nom3181
      @nom3181 3 місяці тому +1

      While kids are not allowed to do things such as alcohol and smoking..at 7 years she is not even having feelings of having sex or that kind of stuff😢this is so deep.l wish this madness does not come to Africa

    • @madik1585
      @madik1585 2 місяці тому

      @@nom3181 yeah but why are you saying white kids. what do you mean, only white kids cant drink and smoke but black kids or asian kids can or what lol?

  • @oliverpony
    @oliverpony 4 роки тому +34

    When I was 10 I wanted to be a Transformer

  • @Mytube777
    @Mytube777 5 років тому +89

    Gender specialists. Neat.

  • @PranksToYou
    @PranksToYou 5 років тому +95

    Why does this perpetuate gender stereotypes??

    • @shinu1923
      @shinu1923 5 років тому +3

      They try to fit the gender stereotypes to be more cis passing.

    • @camillehendricks9819
      @camillehendricks9819 5 років тому +1

      @@shinu1923 aren't we trying to move on from that?

    • @shinu1923
      @shinu1923 5 років тому +1

      @@camillehendricks9819 not necessarily. Trying to move past the bad stereotypes, but gender stereotypes in general are actually a good thing. It's late and I'm too tired to try and find the link, but I read an article as to how gender roles can actually help benefit society.

  • @cram6916
    @cram6916 2 роки тому +40

    This feels like madness. My oldest daughter (age 17) is experimenting with they/them pronouns and a gender neutral new name and it's been a challenge. This is a trauma response to some awful events that have been endured. We are supportive and trying to understand. Taking medication as a child or encouraging a very young child to go fully into the other gender just seems like setting them up for all kinds of confusion and problems down the line. At that age, I would be more about distraction and getting them to be happy with themselves as they were born. Younger children can be pointed at other interests that have nothing to do with gender and I would basically put a pin in it until they are far older.

  • @mizuhashikazuma1556
    @mizuhashikazuma1556 5 років тому +22

    Dear kid.... Pink is not always girl... 🙂

  • @Chiisantemmie
    @Chiisantemmie 4 роки тому +63

    If you didn’t tell me they were trans, I wouldn’t ever know

  • @carolthecrazycamper3442
    @carolthecrazycamper3442 5 років тому +107

    So that kid didnt dye her hair herself

    • @courtneyheider
      @courtneyheider 5 років тому +1

      Your point? My daughter has blue hair? I dye my hair crazy colors all the time she asked for blue for the summer. What does hair color have anything to do with her gender identity?

    • @carolthecrazycamper3442
      @carolthecrazycamper3442 5 років тому +3

      @@courtneyheider predisposition to let her try anything. And element of flamboyance for attention like the trans stuff is getting her. Most, 94 %, revert back to original gender.
      www.kqed.org/futureofyou/441784/the-controversial-research-on-desistance-in-transgender-youth

    • @greenbeantm1096
      @greenbeantm1096 4 роки тому

      Carol the Crazy Camper good thing nothing is permanent until hormones which can’t be started until 15-16

  • @johnidol5850
    @johnidol5850 3 роки тому +13

    A child can't drink, smoke, drive ,buy a gun but they can decide they are a different gender...WoW..

    • @LilianOrchard
      @LilianOrchard 3 роки тому +8

      This might shock you, but words and clothes are not the same thing as a gun. You give a kid a gun, someone might get hurt. You let a kid be called a different name and pronouns, literally nobody is hurt by that.

  • @apersonstrother959
    @apersonstrother959 4 роки тому +40

    I mean, okay, they’re transgender, but it shouldn’t make up there whole lives. It should just be apart of them.

  • @kobikob2179
    @kobikob2179 5 років тому +66

    I have no problem with trans kids but it's wayyyy too young to be taking hormones and even surgery. I don't wanna say they will change their mind, but if they do it's normal it's what kids do. It's too young to be making such a big decision.

    • @kaylao.3326
      @kaylao.3326 5 років тому +12

      Kobi kob
      If you’re giving your kids hormones before the age of 16 then you should be arrested for child abuse

    • @TrustNJesusChrist
      @TrustNJesusChrist 5 років тому +6

      I completely agree. People are encouraging this at way too young of age. I don't care what people think, children don't know what they want when they are young. I am sorry. I used to want to be a cop when I grew up, but i never did that. Children have all kinds of fantasies when they are super young, that is just the wonder of a child's mind. But when you grow older, you start to see the world a bit different and you mature into the person you really are.

    • @oldfashiondragon
      @oldfashiondragon 5 років тому +1

      I dont disagree with that as a parent I think letting them Express themselves is great as they get older and are more in charge of their life they can make these changes.

    • @diegoog3654
      @diegoog3654 5 років тому +1

      @MoonaticDestiny you're knowledge of "pills" and "drugs" is very poor. You should educate yourself on the subject, before making yourself look foolish.

    • @MintyUniverse0
      @MintyUniverse0 5 років тому +2

      Yes but do you not understand the extremely harmful mental issues that can come with trans people going through the wrong puberty

  • @evolution031680
    @evolution031680 5 років тому +104

    Judging from the comments, these kids are going to face an uphill battle in life.

    • @cosmosreality222
      @cosmosreality222 4 роки тому +11

      I know it's sad

    • @saleh6907
      @saleh6907 3 роки тому +12

      I hate the LGBTQ yo lol

    • @Beth-je8yo
      @Beth-je8yo 3 роки тому +5

      @@saleh6907 funny😐

    • @Beth-je8yo
      @Beth-je8yo 3 роки тому +16

      @Magdalen Elam NOT EVERYONE IS CHRISTIAN STOP USING RELIGION TO BE A SHITTY PERSON

    • @black_bandit1084
      @black_bandit1084 3 роки тому +8

      @Magdalen Elam hope u gain common sense cuz you are the reason some people don’t want come out smh

  • @Rizal12061986
    @Rizal12061986 4 роки тому +46

    mom: you can't have tatto, can't drink, can't go out at night, and you can't have sex until 18.
    kids: can i have a trans surgery?
    mom: yes

    • @miiqai
      @miiqai 3 роки тому +3

      i think you didn't watch the video

    • @dianachin4849
      @dianachin4849 2 місяці тому +1

      When I was a kid, I wasn't allowed to pick my own religion
      Even in high school

    • @bbydeMoN7
      @bbydeMoN7 Місяць тому

      😂it’s different u heard him the mom was torturing him when he was being force to wear girl cloths

  • @elizabethrivera4849
    @elizabethrivera4849 4 роки тому +491

    This is making me wanna come out to my parents

    • @dh1432
      @dh1432 4 роки тому +62

      Make sure you're in a safe place love!

    • @eastendersfullepisode7256
      @eastendersfullepisode7256 4 роки тому +29

      After awhile you might change your mind so I'd wait till you really think your the right person

    • @sunflowervol.6583
      @sunflowervol.6583 4 роки тому +19

      it takes time to be ready to come out so no rush💕

    • @coriandersucks
      @coriandersucks 4 роки тому +15

      hey, best of luck. it’s hard but so worth it :))

    • @zaneromero3935
      @zaneromero3935 4 роки тому +19

      I came out they think it’s a phase 😅 but just make sure you’re in a safe place when you tell thim!

  • @queenblackdiva
    @queenblackdiva 5 років тому +44

    Aren't they too young to change gender? I mean.. They can still like girly things while staying males.
    I'm not hating, i just think that those medications might mess up their health

    • @hnibuns
      @hnibuns 5 років тому

      it's easyest to change is before puberty

    • @aa-lj7sn
      @aa-lj7sn 5 років тому +5

      @@hnibuns Guess what idiot? Once you take those hormones for a while, it will be completely irreversible. Kid, you don't know what you're talking about, get off the internet, you're not old enough anyways

    • @ashetasticc
      @ashetasticc 5 років тому +3

      Black Diva I’m trans ftm I just realized I’m trans and I’m 11 turning 12 in two weeks, but I saw from when I was younger that I dressed like a boy sometimes when I was little

    • @j_y4610
      @j_y4610 5 років тому +2

      @@aa-lj7sn they go on blockers until they're old enough to decide and they have been diagnosed before they do, boomer, get off the internet you don't know what you're talking about.

    • @pooshinpops4238
      @pooshinpops4238 4 роки тому +2

      They’ve been diagnosed with dysphoria I think

  • @anonymousbap3406
    @anonymousbap3406 5 років тому +108

    Wth would a 6 yr old know about a pronoun?

    • @jadalynnunger5819
      @jadalynnunger5819 5 років тому +14

      I didn't know the difference between a pronoun and a regular noun til I was eight

    • @jadalynnunger5819
      @jadalynnunger5819 5 років тому +1

      That does mean they aren't important idk man

    • @lunalovegood1031
      @lunalovegood1031 4 роки тому

      Gayvenclaw Commonroom i didn’t until i was like 10 lmao

    • @marliesmith4560
      @marliesmith4560 4 роки тому

      Probably more than you, honestly

    • @raeganthompson2010
      @raeganthompson2010 4 роки тому +1

      Ummm I knew when I was 6

  • @liamachado6830
    @liamachado6830 Рік тому +5

    That first case is insane. Just because the kid said he likes pink and other "girls stuff" his mother, instead of saying, "It's ok, boys can like the color pink and theres nothing wrong with It" she assumed he was a girl because of this. The funny thing is that the trans community supports this

  • @roxann_
    @roxann_ 4 роки тому +131

    People are so rude they just can’t accept trans even tho there just people but not comfortable in there own body’s and some people aren’t ok with that

    • @aliciabrewer9444
      @aliciabrewer9444 4 роки тому +5

      I don't know why some people have to be so rude to others. They mock what they don't understand. They need to "walk a mile in that persons shoes, feel what they feel, go through what their going through", then maybe, they may understand & accept why that person decided to be trans. And even if they don't accept it, it's really none of their business. People need to stop being so mean & rude to other people.

    • @TheLucidSpecter
      @TheLucidSpecter 4 роки тому +8

      The truth hurts, don't it?

    • @democracydiscussion7575
      @democracydiscussion7575 4 роки тому +1

      I don’t want to live because i want to be transgender and I don’t feel comfortable in my own body everyone makes fun of me because I am different to other people I want to die I feel I need female hormones 😓🏳️‍🌈 not everyone is the same!

    • @roxann_
      @roxann_ 4 роки тому +2

      Isaac mastering ASMR! I’m not diagnosed with depression it I feel it and I want to die to but think of all the people u would hurt when u leave I thought about it and I don’t want them to feel pain so I will and if you weren’t different what would make u special from other people u would be the same and you being trans 🏳️‍🌈 makes you special

    • @roxann_
      @roxann_ 4 роки тому +1

      Isaac mastering ASMR! And if u want female hormones go ahead but if u don’t want it but u have to bc of other people there opinion doesn’t matter it’s your body do what u want :)

  • @6z0
    @6z0 2 роки тому +11

    A transgender child is like a vegan cat. We know who really who’s really making the choices.

    • @copbaguet
      @copbaguet 8 місяців тому +1

      Cats can't be vegan.

    • @bobdavis4848
      @bobdavis4848 6 місяців тому

      Being transgender isn't the child's choice; its what the child was born with.

  • @muneca3819
    @muneca3819 5 років тому +18

    Soooo you can’t drink alcohol till 21 but you can make such a crazy, permanent decision at 6????? 🥴

    • @Yetaxa
      @Yetaxa 4 роки тому

      In what way is it permanent?

    • @muneca3819
      @muneca3819 4 роки тому +9

      Yeti the hormones they will be given and the fact that they can get their genitalia mutilated by 15 is not cool at all. All kids go through different phases in their lives and just because you like pink does not mean you’re a girl or vice versa. I was a tomboy till 18. My little brother was a little feminine... we never thought he was a female born in the “wrong” body or never thought I was a male born in the “wrong” body. They need to give these kids more time and to mature more before letting them make such a huge decision so early on. Like I said kids have a lot of phases don’t let one of them be a permanent mistake.

    • @TheOdeszy
      @TheOdeszy 4 роки тому +3

      @@muneca3819 A transgender person has to jump through many hoops to get puberty blockers, countless hoops to obtain HRT and countless more to even have the POSSIBILITY of surgeries. These children are socially transitioned, which is reversible. Yes, some men are more feminine as kids and some girls are tomboys, but these people are weeded out in the earlier stages of gender therapy.
      Puberty blockers - reversible
      HRT - semi reversible
      Surgeries - semi reversible
      Do some research and then come back to me.

    • @yoshisarethebomb
      @yoshisarethebomb 3 роки тому +1

      It's not crazy. Surgery and medicine is NOT required to be trans. Some trans people don't have surgery or medicine.

  • @bigfrankfraser1391
    @bigfrankfraser1391 3 роки тому +3

    as a transitioned person, i hate that people glorify trans children as being amazing, its not, ive encountered to many trans kids who regretted it, ive still to met a trans kid who still wants a different gender

  • @fujinstone8880
    @fujinstone8880 3 роки тому +9

    In native culture. A person born with BOTH characteristics are special because they are able to "see" in both worlds, "feel" as a female and "see" as a male or vice versa. Most people are only "taught" as this or that though their beliefs.
    I am a native person, and I am taught to be accepted as a person no matter what, WE all have the right to live

  • @anarch1.c
    @anarch1.c 5 років тому +75

    do yall not know a lot of trans people, before transition, are very drawn to “opposite” gendered stuff?

    • @bomoore9872
      @bomoore9872 4 роки тому +8

      Exactly like Obviously she is transgender, but she is also little. She may understand she is a girl and not a boy, and that is fine, but she also only knows girls as wearing pink and playing with dolls and wearing dresses. Thats why she fits that gender stereotype. We shouldn't strip children from what they identify as.

    • @campbellaviation7357
      @campbellaviation7357 4 роки тому +12

      I identify as an attack helicopter, the AH-64

    • @beaniecat5818
      @beaniecat5818 4 роки тому +1

      Hahahaha yeah I sucked at sports (didn't even like them) but since all my male friends played soccer and stuff I just did it too. Kids just want to be grouped in with the people they identify with.

    • @soulxblugamer
      @soulxblugamer 3 роки тому +2

      @@campbellaviation7357 Every transphobic joke ever:

    • @yoshisarethebomb
      @yoshisarethebomb 3 роки тому

      @@campbellaviation7357 you identify as unfunny. Your pronouns are didn't/laugh

  • @nat_nati24
    @nat_nati24 5 років тому +28

    This kids got a bigger closet then me

  • @2redboy1
    @2redboy1 3 роки тому +9

    My daughter would crawl over dolls to play with my son’s trucks. At four she would also want to wear boys briefs “why” her cousin asked her? “Because they’re comfortable” she responded. She hated the color pink! So, we let her like what she liked and she’s still a happy healthy GIRL today! In her early 20’s

    • @randomchild8420
      @randomchild8420 3 роки тому

      Okay? No one said girls can’t like those things.

  • @lornajean7286
    @lornajean7286 5 років тому +28

    Pastor my butt. These ppl got it twisted

  • @IndieDenise
    @IndieDenise 5 років тому +30

    The kids are too young to make very adult decisions like this.

    • @indiesb0nes
      @indiesb0nes 5 років тому +3

      Its not a choive it's who they are, its not like it's your child so shut it!

    • @Dog-Girl-Defect
      @Dog-Girl-Defect 5 років тому +1

      Read about it if you have an opinion on it. Dont just be an idiot who says i dont think this is right cuz God.

    • @brendaluna173
      @brendaluna173 5 років тому +4

      @@indiesb0nes they don't know what they are, they know what they like and they associated pink with femenine so they assumed that makes them a girl. They don't know their sexuality,they don't understand the damage the blockers will do to their body and brain

    • @CYPH3RRR420
      @CYPH3RRR420 5 років тому

      @@indiesb0nes thank you ! as a trans person that made me smile and proud you're educated

    • @thirdplanet4471
      @thirdplanet4471 5 років тому +2

      ThePassiveMilk No on even mentioned God

  • @emmarocks1500
    @emmarocks1500 4 роки тому +42

    I have seen a lot of comments about how kids don’t know about themselves but if you ask most trans people they would say that they knew that they weren’t the gender they were born with when they were very little and yes they may realize they aren’t trans and that’s why I think that it’s cool that the parents aren’t taking permanent actions.

    • @SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj
      @SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj 2 роки тому +1

      Yes but for the majority they would not cut their members off or stapler anything on, the risk is not worth it since dysphoria is super common among hormone filled fast growing children with hurting joints and bones

  • @abcdefghi-x9z
    @abcdefghi-x9z 3 роки тому +9

    the comment section is supportive, not supportive and confused at the same time
    WE NEED MORE POSITIVITY!

  • @zainhottson7393
    @zainhottson7393 4 роки тому +14

    Instead of dealing with her child's depression and anxiety problems she assumed it gender-related.

  • @TPLKlein
    @TPLKlein 5 років тому +71

    My favourite toy when I was a kid was a baby doll, thank god I wasn’t born in this era where it would have been a sign I was transgender

    • @kendallfunk5774
      @kendallfunk5774 5 років тому +8

      Yeah I played with cars and trucks. I'm a normal teenage girl.... I think hahaha

    • @TPLKlein
      @TPLKlein 5 років тому +4

      Kendall Funk don’t worry thinking you’re not normal sometimes is very normal

    • @theRCenby
      @theRCenby 5 років тому +6

      that's not how being trans works but ok lmao
      trans people have always existed

    • @Baked641
      @Baked641 5 років тому

      That fake girl made my juice spill so i don't like him

    • @TPLKlein
      @TPLKlein 5 років тому

      White_Blacket 1 hahahahaha never said I don’t like them, just grateful my parents didn’t treat me like one

  • @lornajean7286
    @lornajean7286 5 років тому +42

    Mom gives me controlling vibes..

    • @sededtche1194
      @sededtche1194 5 років тому +8

      She permanently made changes to her life because she liked pink, girl hair and girly stuff, controlling is a bit of an understatement.

    • @PotterMarauder
      @PotterMarauder 5 років тому +10

      She gives me narcissistic and totally insane vibes XD

    • @kerrycarroll5365
      @kerrycarroll5365 4 роки тому +4

      Shes a loon you can see it in her eyes

    • @greenbeantm1096
      @greenbeantm1096 4 роки тому

      fivelearner1089 nothing they had done is permanent

  • @hunter.5625
    @hunter.5625 2 роки тому +12

    the mother literally said “we nurtured” it 🤦🏽‍♂️sickening!

  • @GigglebunsUV
    @GigglebunsUV 4 роки тому +72

    I mean, when I was 7, I started having dysphoria. Albeit I didn't start transitioning until I was 19. But the feeling was always there, the only thing stopping me was other life events, and just, not really knowing how to voice how I felt. No one is too young, or too old to know their sexuality, or their gender.

    • @lovey-doveygacha4437
      @lovey-doveygacha4437 4 роки тому +9

      I'm 14 and I am a boy but my mom won't let me dress like one and says I'm to young to know what I want.i want to change my name to zack.but I don't think that's gonna happen any time soon.

    • @GigglebunsUV
      @GigglebunsUV 4 роки тому +7

      @lance woolam its not about changing genders. i was just a female born in a males body. i already was female there is no change.

    • @aidanmoore9652
      @aidanmoore9652 4 роки тому +4

      It’s still a decision that shouldn’t be made until adulthood... unless we should let kids drink and serve in the military too. Cuz why not right?

    • @GigglebunsUV
      @GigglebunsUV 4 роки тому +7

      @@aidanmoore9652 those are completely different things

    • @lovey-doveygacha4437
      @lovey-doveygacha4437 4 роки тому +4

      @@aidanmoore9652 no no no unless you've been through it you don't get to say anything.

  • @michaelambrose3906
    @michaelambrose3906 2 роки тому +11

    Interesting no dads are involved.

  • @blackfist321
    @blackfist321 4 роки тому +12

    I'm a heterosexual male im married and I wear pink almost everyday.

  • @rl7012
    @rl7012 Рік тому +3

    Liking pink, girls clothes and how girls wear their hair does not mean that the little boy is a girl. And it is obvious that the kid has been coached in what to say as he uses adult expressions and trans led sound bites. Poor kid. I hope they didn't him on puberty blockers.

  • @musely81
    @musely81 4 роки тому +6

    Lilly's mum seems to be taking the right approach by no labelling her and just letting her be a Tomboy, not overloading her with terminology that could be seen as leading her straight down the trans path. Maybe she will grow out of it and if she doesn't then she will have the support of well informed parents later on in life.

  • @sirpugsalot2363
    @sirpugsalot2363 5 років тому +12

    I’m not against trans and stuff but I would have waited till he was older because he Was so young and he might not fully know in the future what he’d want. It’s such a big decision for a kid

    • @babybrebis
      @babybrebis 5 років тому +1

      She not he please
      You can disagree but just give her the respect any human deserves
      Thank you

    • @sirpugsalot2363
      @sirpugsalot2363 5 років тому +1

      Marion H ok my bad I wasn’t trying to not respect “her” but she was a he at a time

    • @babybrebis
      @babybrebis 5 років тому +1

      And no longer is
      And maybe might have never been in her mind

    • @sirpugsalot2363
      @sirpugsalot2363 5 років тому +1

      Marion H lol why are you fighting over this. I’m not fighting with you I understand your point but I do agree with my opinion, don’t make yourself sound dumb by fighting with someone who isn’t with you

    • @sirpugsalot2363
      @sirpugsalot2363 5 років тому +1

      It’s cool I understand

  • @JohnDixon
    @JohnDixon 3 роки тому +18

    How is this child abuse? The children are not being abused in any way. They're being allowed to live life they way they want, and they're absolutely not forced to do anything they don't want to do. Seems like the opposite of abuse to me.

    • @lindasharp8523
      @lindasharp8523 5 місяців тому +1

      Puberty blockers etc? That's OK is it.

  • @unknownunknown5244
    @unknownunknown5244 Рік тому +5

    Dont confuse personality with sexuality! Gosh! You could always do girly or boyish things being the opposite gender without being one. These parents are dangerous.

  • @alisonpeter3218
    @alisonpeter3218 5 років тому +11

    Lily sounds like she just doesn't identify with being a boy or girl. But I like how the mother is letting lily go at her own pace and she's not jumping into hormone blockers etc.

    • @smoothcriminal6622
      @smoothcriminal6622 5 років тому

      Alison P ikr

    • @Squeebles
      @Squeebles 5 років тому +2

      She seemed like she was raising her kid the best out of the bunch.

  • @osatoasted
    @osatoasted 5 років тому +8

    im a trans guy and honestly letting your kid decide their gender that young is too far

    • @Mar_Mar1605
      @Mar_Mar1605 5 років тому

      zachary chase good luck to you then

    • @greenbeantm1096
      @greenbeantm1096 4 роки тому

      mitsubcs why? You of all people should also know it not a choice. Especially with they first girl it was that or let her jump out a window

  • @brucedonnelly5209
    @brucedonnelly5209 2 роки тому +5

    I wanted to be a boy since I could speak… and my mom said it was a perverse spirit and the devil had hold of me. When I didn’t wear dresses to church, it was disobedient and sinful, a dishonored my parents. Basically my mom told me I was going to hell every day just for being me. That’s emotional abuse. Can you imagine the guilt I felt my whole life? Like a pit in your stomach? I didn’t know what transgender was until my 20s and then a few years later I began medically transitioning. Wish I could have had the help I needed when I was a kid 💜

    • @ya-cc7bl
      @ya-cc7bl 2 роки тому

      That's a amazing story. I agree that you should have done years before. I bet you would of looked super gorgeous adorable

  • @elenaromeroo
    @elenaromeroo 4 роки тому +5

    i hear a lot of people saying how pink isn't a girls color and that we should stop putting labels for what each gender likes, after Rebekah said that she's a girl, for a lot of reasons but also because she likes pink, and ballet.
    its just to give you something to think about because we shouldn't be saying that if you're a girl you automatically will like pink and boy blue. i think this is what society throughout the ages has led us to think, and i believe that if you're trans it should be based on more real reasons.
    overall, she seems like a great kid and i wish all the better for her and that she has a good life! hope everybody who reads this has a great day!

  • @kledkled4054
    @kledkled4054 5 років тому +35

    This is wrong man :/

  • @flixey5107
    @flixey5107 Рік тому +9

    U dyed his hair pink when he was a tiny baby and dressed him up in pink and girly clothes. U brought this mindset on to him

  • @nyimangmattilahongang1980
    @nyimangmattilahongang1980 5 років тому +27

    Husband a Pastor😲😲😲😲😲?? If not mistaken

    • @cindyakosah6320
      @cindyakosah6320 5 років тому +2

      Nyimangmattila Hongang I thought I was the only one who peeped that 🤐🤐🤐

    • @nyimangmattilahongang1980
      @nyimangmattilahongang1980 5 років тому

      😅😅I'm speechless @Cindy

    • @Sasha-xg8cn
      @Sasha-xg8cn 4 роки тому

      He's probably Protestant, I know they can get married and have kids unlike Catholics
      You can check Rev Chris on the UA-cam channel named Jolly, they are British and Chris is happy married father of two reverend
      (Sorry if there are mistakes, I can't write well ^^)

  • @texmex3650
    @texmex3650 Рік тому +3

    These parents are heavily pushing this on their children. Even if they are actually trans, they shouldn’t be allowed to physically transition until they’re 18 or even 17 with parental consent. These kids don’t have the mental capacity to really understand what’s happening.