What Role Did You Play In Your Family Says About You (quiz)
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- Опубліковано 12 лип 2024
- Do you ever wonder what role you play in your family?
Take this quiz and find out!
Here’s how to do it: Answer the questions honestly. Tally the letters that appear the most, and by the end of the quiz you’ll find out your role.
Let’s start!
As a quick disclaimer, remember that this is a fun activity video made for entertainment purposes and shouldn't be taken too seriously.
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Writer: Joshua Munoz
Script Editor: Vanessa Tao
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
Animator: Zuzia
UA-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
O’ Brown, G. (May, 2021) Dysfunctional Family Systems. Springer Link. Retrieved at link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-3-030-61416-4_4
Applebury, G. (nd) Common Family Roles and Their Evolution Over Time. Love to Know. Retrieved at family.lovetoknow.com/about-family-values/common-family-roles-how-theyve-changed
M, Teresa (nd) What Role Do You Play in Your Family?. How Stuff Works Play. Retrieved at play.howstuffworks.com/quiz/1what-role-do-you-play-your-family
Rollins, N. (July 1973) SOME ROLES CHILDREN PLAY IN THEIR FAMILIES: Scapegoat, Baby, Pet, and Peacemaker. Journal of the American Academy of Child Psychiatry. Retrieved at www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0002713809612619
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I was a chaotic child so first one kinda hard and B came in 5 times
I got a lot of Bs! Thanks these are fun
More❤
I got mostly D's
i literally got 2 of each option!!😭😭will you come up with a longer quiz like this in the future?
I tied with B and D, but the weird thing is they both fit me so well.
Yeah but D is my Mask That I pretend to be but B is my true self
A and B D
@@cozmic_starI’m the opposite! D is me with family and B is me at school hahaha 😂
I'm mostly B & D too, but I do see myself as the other 2 types sometimes as well. 🤷♀️
Not weird, it'd research!
Mostly B! why is it so relatable??
Me too. I am a fellow B
Same, I had 5/8 Bs. The description fits me perfectly
@@swanky_swallow Lol same😅
Same
I got full b
it’s a shame this is a less popular video. it’s really helpful and accurate (coming from a cheerleader)
Exactly what a cheerleader would say lol. I'm a cheerleader too. 😆
I play the role of being a burden and having everyone take their anger out on me
I’ve been where you are and I still go through that myself, I hope you have a safe environment where you can unleash your pain and gain comfort, knowledge, and healing because it is so hard to go through this and it does damage the person in a way, but you get to feel loved and and cares for the ways you need to. I pray something has changed, love yourself and don’t beat yourself up❤️
I know this may sound absolutely impossible, but sadly, the only way to keep their treatment of you from taking its toll on your health and mental well-being is to sever ties. It’s really hard to do in fact, it feels nearly impossible. Almost everyone who has done it, though will say they wish they had done it sooner and it was the best thing they could ever have done for their mental well-being and physical health. The stress of always having that rock of anxiety in your stomach because of the lies they tell and how they constantly misunderstand and misinterpret everything you say, and they do that on purpose because they enjoywatching you get upset. I know that’s hard to believe but these people are just evil. I hope you can find a way to break free.
You’re not a burden to me, even though I’m a random stranger, I hope you have the best day ever, and I love you, even though I don’t know you. Hope you can get out of that situation, I’ve been there, and it’s hard.
Same 😔
B was most but C was right behind. I'm definitely a mixture of both 😅
Oh! For me it's the exact opposite. I got C 4 times and B 3 times 😅
I'm also a mixture of both.
Me to 😅
Same
Me too!! But c showed more, it was kinda spot on
Same, except I exactly tied
for all my fellow B's out there, You matter, and deserve Love too.
Thanks 🎉
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Truth teller. Lost child a very close second.
Both very accurate.
My theory is that us truthtellers often end up being lost children since we pointed out the abuse 😢
I'm a blend between B and C. My family appears normal on the outside, but it's been very disfunctional since my dad died 30 years ago. Since then I have been a very lost child who's grown up being the parent, and my mother as "the child". It has gotten easier over time, but I still prefer time alone, and I live alone now that my ex-partner has moved out.
I'm also a blend of B and C, tho my family seems to be pretty functional, despite my dad also having died. I feel that I don't really have much of a role at all: I'm just there.
B - being the youngest, the only boy out of the four kids, and the only autistic child, it definitely makes sense.
When you're scared but you still do it anyway, that's brave.
I'm type C and I'm the harshest with myself. Spot on. Wish I could feel confident and content all the time.
Tied B and D, both make a ton of sense
I feel like D is me masking and B is when the mask isn’t working as desired
I tied with C and D-
I got AABBDDC WHAT AM I LIKE IN MY FAMILY 🗿
I definitely got B the most, and OH MY GOSH does that sound like my life right now in a nutshell! I’m most definitely a background blender, didn’t grow up in a dysfunctional family but I definitely feel like everybody’s gotten a bit more toxic as time has gone on, I’m always using every opportunity possible to hang out with my cousins at family gatherings, and I do absolutely LOVE my solitude because I get to work on writing my Minecraft AU and making animatics without being bothered, but I do still wish I could step out of my room without having a dumb argument tried to start with me by my younger sister
I got D, and yeah that definitely is me. Oofda
Not me getting Bs for EVERY question
Got cheerleader, and I'll GLADLY take that.
I got C the most and I think it’s true that I’m most critical about myself, but I think B also fits me
Love the quiz content! Keeps the engagement going! 🎉
Thank you for joining in early!
Of course I'm C. 💁🏾♀️
When the truth teller came on, I imagined them saying, "eyoeyoeyoeyoeyo" please it made my day-
I got the most C, with the second most being B. Both honestly fit me so well
I just wanted to address some symptoms just to clarify which type of disorder it can be :-
1. I just procrastinate alot
2. Feeling sad but unable to cry but sometime i cry over little things (like , watching sad post , reading sad quotes etc , and if someone just said you are not gonna make it or some that things make me sad and it takes atleast 4-5 hrs to get over it .)
3. Extreme mood swings like motivated but suddenly in few minutes sad then happy and guilt over my self .
4. I just so much hung up on past that i can't get over from it.
5. I feel like i just overslept some days or somedays feeling difficulty in sleeping.
6. I just overeating even though i know i have to stop .
7. I just remain in my room all day and feels like hopeless.
8. Also feels like having social anxiety because i just think so much and avoid to go outside often and if someone try to talk to me just feels horrible and want to leave as soon as possible.
9. I don't anyone now because it feels like they will use it against me or something.
10. Unable to concentrate on my studies because i am in constant fear of getting failed in my entrances because i just gave it so many times and didn't pass.
11. Always finds a way where things can go wrong .
12 . Highly indecisive (i just take addmission in 4 colleges and drop out. )
13. Feeling behind from everyone around me .
14. Recently i just (idk is it right to say this but anyway) addicted or kind of thing to masturbation because i did it but it doesn't give me anysort of dopamine i guess .
15. I am scrolling too much on phone even though the thought of not studying freaking me . I don't know what to do i just feels like i lose control over life .
16. I didn't know about poor hygiene though but i tend to skip shower as much as possible.
17. Also restlessness when ever i get such thoughts or overthink.
Trying to get better but these things already ruining everything.
Depression.
Thanks for useful and valuable video as always ❤❤❤
I got mostly A’s and I know I’m a nurture I’ve been that way my whole life and I’m very happy to be a nurture and I’ve learned to see the good and bad sides to being a nurturer as well. A Good side is: being able to be there for people and genuinely care for them and want better for them and love to see them happy. And a bad side of it is you can become to involved with care for another persons needs that you can forget about your own. From my personal experience.
And as a nurture THE VERY MOST IMPORTANT THING is to set boundaries in place no matter what the relationship is because you still need to love, and nurture yourself, you can’t give all of yourself way, so set those boundaries in place !!
How did you comment this a year ago???
@@Thedramalovesme89 I walked into my healing journey if that helps
B 1st and C 2nd, both resonate with me a lot... though the dysfunctional family of B and organized part of C are not true in my case...
I'm a cautious shy-away mess.
This was perfectly accurate! I got mostly D
Btw I love this type of videos like quizzes, could you please make more videos like this one? ❤
Definitely reliable and always wanting to find ways to work through the issue.
The anxiety this caused me is unmatched, I don’t fit in any of these boxes, I don’t like my family, and all of these options require care and love for my family, but all I see them as are my enemies I’m supposed to love.
I had an even split between B and C- and they were both pretty accurate. This was a fun quiz!
I tied b and c, they both just fit me so much.
Omg i got d , this fits me so well thank you ♡
I'm a mix of B and C. I'm very observative in the inside(C), but i'm more shy and introverted on the outside(B). Those really suit me!
50/50 between lost child and truth teller, with a bit of Nurturing within me.
Questions about family are hard for me, as I feel more alienated from them and at ease when they’re not around. They are strict and overly assuming oftentimes. They expressed little support of my interests and hobbies growing up, and of my coming out (I’m transgender).
On the other hand, I try seeing things from as many sides as I can. I am aware of the circumstances and mechanisms that shaped my family into who they are, and I don’t want to take it too hard on them. And everyone, family including, compliments my maturity and critical thinking (and intellect, which I believe they often confuse with knowledge). And I find my hobbies that I do in solitude influenced by both defining traits mentioned earlier.
That said, its been complicated, and hard dealing with the loneliness and critical self talk that comes with both of these roles. On bad times, I feel unmotivated, or numb to compliments and even some positive affirmations. Being worked on through therapy and other means, but still I yearn for the day where I live with a genuinely supportive and understanding person or group
I picked every letter twice, and I exhibit literally all of them 😭
Same! 😅
I'm lost child
I tied between A and C! This actually made me feel so good about myself and gave me reassurance that I really do fit the role I feel I play… now I’m even more sure of it :)
Mine was too accurate, like scary accurate
I tied between C and B Soo it’s both true
Mine is A and C and it fits me so well!
B. Lost Child. The description is spot on.
I got B lol! was not expecting that but when thinking about it, it did fit with me..
I'm a little bit of all of these, but C checks out for me
I tied between A and B. Cannot decide which fits better.
D,D,D,D,C,C,B,D but I am sometimes A
it was so right🤗
Tied with A and C, certainly interesting
I got mostly Cs with Bs being very close. I grew up in a dysfunctional family for much of my childhood, but in the end I learned to branch out a bit more.
For 1, I'd say A, for 2, I'd say A, confident, 3, I'd say A, 4, I'd say A, B, and C, for 5, I'd say A, for 6, I'd say A, for 7, I'd say all 4, for 8, I'd say all of the above. I got nurterer!!!
Haiyaaah I got a pair of each letter. They each resonate with me to a degree. I’m also an ENTP so go figure lol
I 💯 agreed on everything that I saw from video and question to answer. It's mind crazy how it is helpful to watch videos and go through life and see we are not going through 😮 and not going crazy 😧😢
Mostly B, and that definitely fits me. I like quizzes like this, so I'd like to see more.
1. B
2. B
3. B
4. A
5. A
6.A
7. A
8. A
Nurturer
I got D and that is true by my pov because i want to support them even though we are not at good terms because inside i do care
Is the least favorite kid an option?
Watch this video to find out!
I tied A&C...
Which are most definitely my more dominant traits..
However... truth be told I'm actually a little bit like the other two on occasion..... depending on situations and family members....😅
I definitely agree
A and C, sounds about right
A was my most picked and D was my second
They fit so well
I’m either lost child or Truthteller
I answered mostly C, but have definitely worn each of the other three as masks when I needed them.
B and D fit so well-
"Your results are based on which letter you pick the most"
They all tied.
I got a good mix of all the letters 😂
LOST CHILD FITS ME SO WELL HELP -
Thank you for this interesting quiz, I am B
I tied with B and D
Lost child first, cheerleader close behind - describes me very well 😅
I got mostly d’s and two a’s but I feel like they both resonate with me
YAY psych2go you brought back the cute dance in the outro
I tied between B and D but I can see how there fit. B the lost child definitely suits my biological family and D the cheerleader suits my chosen family which usually resides as my friends. Thank you phy2go I love all your videos and the amazing art ever since finding this channel I have been able to learn better ways to take care of myself and others! 🌱❤
D. Very accurate and the downside I'm still working on. Critical opinions tend to still get the best of me. But I'm better than I used to be 💚
"Thruth teller" is such a sugar coated way to say snitch lol
Tied with B and C
I got Cheerleader but the description for Nuturer matches my personlatity and how I relate to my family much better.
I tied btwn C and D☺️✨️
Idk but I just love these quizzes✌🏻
I didn’t think mine would be accurate, but it surprisingly is (D)
Strange yet fitting to be a tie of A and B
I'm a mix of all😅 2 of each letter
Not enough options for me, there needs to be D And E options for a wide range of people
D followed by C, fits my role well
While emmersed in the dysfunction.. i was a 'lost kid' .. but when being away.. im more of the 'observer' in recovery..
I got B and D 3 times, and I would say it’s pretty accurate
Lost child and truth teller. I fit both so well it's scary
Cheerleader with Lost Child close behind... which makes me think that one may be a mask for the other.
B&C suits me completely
Dude D is basically me word for word omg
I got A the most, but I feel like I'm closer to the Cheerleader than the nurturer, because I genuinely feel less about myself when others don't appreciate my presence
I will say I got C and it was pretty accurate I don’t keep the truth teller thoughts to myself and I’m definitely not called gifted or responsible but in arguing try to see where the other person is coming from
My most common was B. And the results fit me way too perfectly.
I got almost all of them 😅
I got D but I am usually not an optimist unless im with younger children (not my brother).
I usually see more bad then good but everything else is very true!!
B and a little bit of C…
With the how my friends would see me one, I'm pretty much all of them
😂D - CHEERLEADER, pros and cons like everything in our life
B and c (a lil d sometimes) and I agree
I ended up with Truthteller, which makes sense since I’m usually blunt and don’t sugarcoat things when it comes to how I truly feel about something or someone. Because the truth can hurt at times, but you’d be doing yourself and others a disservice by lying to them when it comes to telling them whatever they want than need to hear.
I’m tied between B and C And yeah it fits