The Bulletproof CURE to Codependency and Neediness (GUARANTEED)
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- Опубліковано 29 чер 2021
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I used to be a needy little b*tch. For a long, I felt co-dependent. Not only did I feel it, but I was it. I was looking for validation from the outside.
I'd find myself in relationships feeling like I really wanted to control the dynamic. I would change and mold myself like a little shapeshifter to being what I thought everybody else wanted me to be, and I felt a sense of, like, I didn't have a sense of necessarily straight when I was, like, showing up.
I felt like I was, like, very moldable, and it had me feeling dependent on the outside.
And the key to curing co-dependency and to curing neediness are gonna be the three things I share with you in this video that I guarantee will work if you commit to them.
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I'm in 🙌
Aaron would you please send me my login link ,
@@jasminehukalop5596 you should get access to an app immediately. They send an email
@@jasminehukalop5596 were you able to get an access? shoot I didn’t get anything as well
Slam13 X no I didn’t
Yes! “Needing nothing attracts everything”.. when we “need” we tend to “lie” by not being our true self, which eliminates our confidence, lowers our frequency and continues to push the things we want away!
Very true. Truth done well is 🔑
@77ranko nicely written
What if you are honest about what you need and go and ask for it? It's that wrong?
Its good to be honest. But honestly speaking you dont *need* them to give you anything. You need to give yourself that. Meet your own needs. Communicate your wants. @awezmo5499
Smile without a reason, eat fruits, veggies. Take a look at the sky when you go outside in the morning. Breath in. Realize how blessed you are to live another day. Be joyful. Spread good vibes during the day. Your life will change by doing these things everyday. Your life will shape based on your habits. You can do it. You can be whatever you want to be. You are amazing, you have the power. Trust yourself. The universe wants you to succeed, to live joyfully. May this year be the year you start living life the way you want.
~ Much love from a Law Of Attraction UA-camr💜
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@@1CT1 You are not required to worship a particular entity to receive salvation. That’s the ultimate form of fear mongering.
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Thank you.
Great comment and also you're content is great bro
7 things to remember about caring what others think:
1. Everyone has insecurities of their own
2. Your value isn’t dependent on how much people like you
3. What others think isn’t your business anyways
4. People usually forget our “embarrassing” moments within seconds.
5. There is nothing wrong with being different than others.
6. You are by far your worst critic
7. We will all die, why waste your life unable to express yourself fully.
You are a unique and beautiful expression of source, don’t get it twisted✌🏽💚
- from a growing youtuber
Thank you 🙂
THANKS BRO! needed to see this
Love you endlesssoul☺️
Number 7 is my favorite
Thank you!❤️✨
I lost happiness after breaking up with my gf. I realized that i depend on others for my happiness so i started reading and watching videos about frequencies and being happy with myself. Today i looked at my face in the car mirror. I noticed how nice my smile is. I always hated my smile. Its crazy how powerful this stuff is.
Good point . Being rejected isn’t about you it’s about not having matching energy
I used to feel the exact same way. Codependent neediness needs to be healed at the root. Inner child healing and self love 🙏
I love how you really know psychology that’s what lack most of the people on here they don’t know the real issue
i paused this video at least 15 different times to cry lmao every single word of this resonated with me SO much...this is exactly what i needed to hear. thank you !!!
I always feel safe when watching and learning from you. X
It really works, everything works out well when you start being yourself and not trying to be a people pleaser.
i love how he got distracted and excited by the chipmunk
Molding like a shapeshifter to get validation is a common point of the codependent with the narcissist
Leaving a co-dependant, narcissistic relationship was the catalyst to my waking up.
Ditto
Me to how did you get out of dark night of soul???
@@SA-px3ln I took a course on emotional resilience and read lots and lots of books on shame and learning how to change my beliefs about myself. That gave me the courage to let go of other people's approval and I got rid of the toxic people and organizations in my life. Basically I quit being a people pleaser and the despair started to lift.
Same!
@@ChrisVirtualAssistant did you ever face deep depression
2:57 definition of codependency and neediness
04:06 the locus of control
07:29 1. Frame, your own frame
09:19 2. Vulnerability
11:37 (chipmunk off topic but funny)
12:39 3. Values what do you value
Aaron Doughty your growth is awesome. I Have been following you since 2016-2017 and there's so much of difference in your content and in your energy. Sending you love and blessings! ❤
Same here! So true ☺️
Same! I’ve noticed it too
Aaron I have been on this journey with you. When I was at my lowest I swear listening to these videos really helped me understand my own lack of self worth and I started to look within. One year later, my life has drastically changed. I'm no longer looking outside of myself for validation and when I notice that I am, I am able to turn the mirror back to my own wounds. Thank you and keep up the good work. 💚
You see who is truly there in your life for you when you are vulnerable and the relationship grows. Vulnerability will make most narcissists really happy, because then they know they got ammo, they think they got you on the hook, and they’ll use it to devalue and discard you later. If you’re vulnerable and the person is not returning it, that shows an imbalanced relationship. Don’t give unhealthy people who fear vulnerability use yours that you express as a weapon against you until you see they are showing signs of trustworthiness. And if you do decide to be vulnerable prematurely, don’t allow yourself to feel hurt (or if you do, grieve that there are hurt people who would use your vulnerability as a weapon, and then let it go). Move on to healthier people who are able to share their own vulnerabilities and respect you and hear you when you express yours. Never use them as a weapon to manipulate or defend yourself.
This was confirmation for me; i’ve been doing this and feel such an amazing shift! The happiest I’ve ever been 🙂
Ok so my name is lily i,m 15 and i,v spiritual awakened and i,m still dealing with the codeppncy and acting ways I shouldn't, this is tough , but thank u
Live for yourself, not for validation😌
Wow!! I just realized that I’m codependent 😬. Abandonment is my fear and it does stem from my childhood. Thank you so much for this video!
Great and much needed lessons Aaron, needed to hear this 20 yrs ago but better late then never 😅... Only this yr i found the strength to stop fitting in and moulding myself to people i did not even like. The need to be authentic is hard to ignore midlife.
Thank you!! Also, “frisky little animals” 😂 cutest digression ever.
Since watching this channel I have learned to smile with me eyes.
I’m in 🤘 Excited for my own growth, I needed this non-needy message 🙏❤️🕺
In my experience, I kinda learned that alot of people are so absorbed by …themselves or whatever, that they hardly bother to stimulate others or initiate an interaction. And there are other people who still seek this interaction, often beeing left out as needy… I think this is just sad..
Narcissistic abusive mother and just left a 28 year narcissist abuse marriage with an ex who continues to try to destroy me (his words) through custody property battles
This is very helpful
Thanks
All you videos have given me hope
I feel seen. In this one video you have highlighted the grey area I have lived in since I was a little girl. Where I mould shelf into whoever the other person would like. It’s exhausting and always end up feeling defeated anyways. I’m going to watch this video daily ❤ thank you !!
yeah, The thing that made me start my grounding process, was the first time i used LSD, then, psilocybe shrooms rituals. The impact of really knowing that you are not grounded at all ... was game changing
Once again, preaching it like it's. Thank you so much for existing, you are such a source of inspiration 🐰
Thank you for sharing your energy with all of us. Keep smiling keep smiling, keep vibing ✨🐎✨🐎🐎
I'm in! Super excited.
I've binged so many of your vids. I didn't know that I was doing all the work you mention in them to liberate myself from toxic co-dependancy. Living in my authentic self and reality. Thanks for helping others
I’m in! Excited to grow 🌱✨
Great job getting all these truths out there , this is helping public health
YES!! Doughty truth bombs 1,2,3:
Frame - Vulnerability - Values.
Loved the vid, super helpful info. So much love to all of you!
You are soo very awesome! Please make more meditation videos concerning "Letting Go." Letting go and allowing your higher self & the Universe to manifest what is right for me. Thank you 🌻Namaste
I'm in and excited for change 💙
Values are so important. I feel people have put their values on the back burner. I'm grateful that you, and M. McConaughey have a strong sense of values. You both will help wake many people.
Light, and love to you Aaron.
Thank you for reminding me of my true inner self. Bless you Soul Brother. Congrats on all your inner work! It shows 💙 🌈
Hi Aaron! Taking part in your 21-day magnetic love challenge and loving every transformative moment of it. Would LOVE a meditation with this flame/frame technique!!
THESE CODEPENDENCE VIDEOS ARE SO HELPFUL
Thank you so much Aaron. Perfect divine timing.
Aaron from all the youtubers I've been listening, you happen to be the most advanced in consciousness and it's wonderful to listen to you. Your work is really helping me to switch my mind 180⁰s, and I've been in the spiritual path for years and with you I'm learning more things, we never finish learning, I'm grateful with your impeccable job, thank you so much🙏💓💫💥
Hey Aaron i think this video its so powerfull, it helped me, im going to see it twice
I'm so greatful for your honesty and clear cut explanations, your helping me awaken to my higher self, thank you 🙏🏻
You described how I feel with every relationship in my life
Bro this is exactly what I need to learn and apply right now going through this break up and from being needy my whole life thanks.
Love hearing your story of personal growth!💕
I appreciate this value of information. 💯
Thanks Aaron! These FVV really resonated with me. Appreciate you 🙏🏼
Inner child work, being authentic, self love
You are so wise, Aaron. I hope one day I can change some of these codependent tendencies I’ve always had.
I'm in and excited!!! Yahooo🎉
Loved this video Aaron. Thank you ♥️
Thank you! This was empowerment for me.
Love you brother!
You’re so different from the thumbnail you brought up in this vid. Like a completely different person. Well done to committing to you. Inspiring.
I am in, so ready to begin
Namaste 🙏
Your videos bring me so much clarity! Thanks. Much love.
I'm in and ready ❤️
Hear, hear! Been there and still working on it. Great tips, just subscribed :)
Thank you so much Aaron & Divine Souls of Light My Soul Embraces your Amazings Souls Namaste 🙏❤
Oh!! I used to live in Austin!! I worked at The Paramount Theater!🎬😍
Unconditional love is the only cure to abandonment issues! God sent love but narcissts preferred fear and power over love so that is why they lost love and became empty!
I am in and I am so glad to rewrite my relationship blueprint and shoot for an Agape Love relationship with an equal partnership.
Oh man, love you! Love love your channel ✌🏼 thank you!
Thank you so much for your videos!! They help me so much to understand myself ❤️
Well said. Great video.
I'm in ! 👌💯💙💙💙
Awesome content! Thanks 😊
I discovered your channel just recently, I love your spirit and I appreciate you. You have also taught me a lot, especially now after a recent breakup. Thank you for helping people, namaste.🙏💜💫
Im In bro!!
You're the Best!!! 🙌💖💖💖
You literally transform my life ♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏
Loved this video. So helpful 💕
Thanks brother, I appreciate you
Love, love, love, love, love your ENERGY....:)
The value of Being vulnerable is a charactertraid that just has risen into the light of awareness for great majority of Humankind.
It has been seen as weak and something unwanted because there was little teaching on how to respond to that or work with that hidden humanemotion for decades. Or even centuries.
Being vulnerable has led to slavery in the past so that is why there was a hidden taboo on that.
It is a work in progresssubject for Humanity, to truly acknowledge the bravery and heroism of daring to be vulnerable.
So good video, thank you 👏
Love you brother.
Amen
I’m in!
I am in 🎯💯👍
Hello from ATX! Thank you for the video
"right, meow!" lol
Love your content it helps so so much thankyoh
Thanks Aaron ❤️
Hey Aaron, your videos is always amazing. Most of your videos talking about codependency / neediness, can make video about avoidant attachment style?
Much appreciated 🙏🏻✨🌻
Splendid 💕💖
Enlightening 🙂
I'm in!
Love the music 👍🏻
One of the wa:ys to feel positive energy is to take your attention away from the negative and focus on everything that transmits positivity to you. Have a beautiful day! 💜💜
Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior and you will be saved. John 3:16 (share the good news of the gospel around the world!).........,,,..,...,
..,.,.,.,
Love 💕 your content 👍 😌
It's very hard to change those patterns, often it also depends on dynamic, people we meet. I'm working on it from years and it's really hard to let it go completly
Very good!
Thanks bro this was helpful
Thanks Aaron
Im in!