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I was ashamed of my body since 20's I was 177cm, and Asian, and people teased me about being too tall girl. Now I look at myself in the mirror telling myself in a soothing voice "I LOVE YOU" every day. Now I am honoured to be a tall lady with a shiny face I don't need other's validation anymore.❤
The only thing we NEED in life is food, water, and oxygen. Everything else is just a want. We are never satisfied with what we have. We always want what others have and when we get them we realize that’s not what we want. And then we repeat the cycle with other things. Until the day we’re no longer here. Count your blessings and move on with your life. Every experience we have is for a reason. Wither it’s good or bad. It creates your path.
Self-love is everything. It is living from the soul. You can then access more power and peace than you ever imagined. 💗 Relationships with others are important, of course, but we have to prioritise our relationship with ourself to be truly happy and fulfilled. 🥰
Well it's a Matter of perspective.. After breakup some start self-love, some become super Good conscious and some unlucky keep in the same loop of misery!
“Dont abandon your true self to make other people happy” So many eye-opening realizations from this video. This was the nudge I needed to take the steps towards valuing myself more. I’m so excited for the person that I’ll become. Thanks a million for sharing your wisdom!
I really needed this today! I was struggling going back and forth in a toxic relationship and this is exactly what I needed to hear today! I just ended it over the weekend but it still hurts! 🙏 thank u
I recently told a friend NO on something, and he did not take it well. what he was asking for was more than I was able to do, and although I didn't want to tell him no, I had to do what was right for me.
Thank you Aaron. Was a people pleaser most of my life but now understand the value of saying no without guilt, showing vuneralbity and giving self love and validation to myself. It took me having a massive burn out/ depressive episode to reach there but now im thankful for that and all i have learned. You have helped lots so thank you. Sending you ❤and light. X
You spoke my heart especially in this year I believe we should all be happy because the universe wants to expand and we as consciousness need to expand its the only way.
This is so huge, Aaron. You could almost say its the biggest problem in 3D. We need to be whole and grounded within the real and true of us because were always looking for other people to fill this for us. Once we anchor within and meet someone also anchored within we can share real love that isn't needy. This is a human problem.
I started my spiritual awakening after my divorce began. Once I was alone. And because of that I feel like my journey is in fast forward. The perfect storm allowed me to see me. And I’m so satisfied with ME. 🙌🏽 Thank you Aaron!
No doubr, that's the key. Getting to that place of realization that no matter what happens, you got you! And being grateful for that, is a freedom and security like no other. While it's fresh, instill daily habits for a lifetime that reinforce that knowing and feeling. Sometimes we can get so overwhelmed we can unwittingly fall back into old habits of thought if we're not proactive enough or too complacent. And it's a double triple whammy because you know it so you can see it, and start subconsciously beating yourself up for it... A vicious cycle that's hard to break without some built-in go-to practices. i.e. Crisis, hardship and or tragedy in ones life or family can be so overwhelming, coping mechanisms are necessary. Sharing from experience, and learning about it and from it. Do whatever it takes to feed that momentum so you're steadfast and solid. Stay on that "high horse!" Lol. Just food for thought in case it could help.
Be the most authentic you, set boundaries, call your energy back, choose your own values, dont look for validation from others, let go of the ego and trust the universe, meet your own needs, self love is a choice, safety and security within your own body, being authentic, be in your own frame, frame technique, individuation process,
Starting to appreciate being on my own. Individual. Choosing myself more! Thank you Aaron! (I appreciate when you say , how you can meet your own needs)
I let Go of All things that aren't Serving me anymore, I let Go anything that's make me feel sorry for myself and choose what's in my best Interest. I 100% Commit myself to be the best version of myself and I realize my own Power that's within my own sense of self, Nothing Less than Best I am gonna settle for, I have Unique Identity and I embrace my own individuality with Grace. Thankyou so much Brother Aaron :)
I have the same experience. All my life I thought I had to work very hard, to think of others more than myself and that would lead to success. Once I eased, I started thinking of myself and my needs, having rest when I need it, setting boundaries, everything changed to the better😍
This really resonates with where I am right now. We need to be unapologetically ourselves, God has a plan for each and everyone of us and no matter what is going on on the outside, our eternal soul is safe and perfect just the way it is.
Yes exactly, same but if we didn't have pasts like we did. We wouldn't be able to stand in our truth now. In the last year I stoped looking for validation in people and relationships. Ive only just realised I did not want to be with any of them but did not know how to be me. Thought I had to fix people. Now in my power. Want to stay single but trainning to be a counsellor. To support people going through rough times. ❤
Choosing myself for the first time FULLY in the past 3 months...Holy TRIP of a lifetime into the palms of Love in Full Surrender to choosing Divinity within
“The validation your inner child needs is from you” Wow. Aaron is so good.. A modern mystic. He’s also very in touch with his divine feminine. A great and balanced channeler of wisdom. Thank you 🙏🏽
Sometimes I feel so stupid thinking its all about me, me, me, me! When there's people around the world running away from drug needles on the ground and surviving bombing and worrying about if they will have food or gas tomorrow and here I am worried about someone's feeling,, feelings!?
You always seem to talk about the exact same things that I have gone through or going through now! I just have a hard time putting how I feel into words and communicate them to other people! I looked for that “perfect” relationship that NEVER existed! I hurt my children along the way for my search! Now I am single and happy to be! I’d like to meet someone but don’t have the desire like I had when I was in my 30’s! Thank you for your videos! I appreciate you! 🥰
Great video!😊 Amazing synchronicity because I just wrote about how I should have let go of people I was clearly not equally yoked to, why I never felt supported or comfortable with certain people, how it truly kept me down. It's because despite having a lot of desirable traits, I was dimming down, dulling down and dumbing down by others by not voicing my feelings, a way of avoiding conflict and people pleasing. It explains attracting low vibe people who were jealous, resentful, competitive, i tolerated that even though i have never been that. II'm no longer interested in approval or pleasing others, i DGAF, I honor myself first and foremost, I want to be authentic to myself so that I will attract similar vibed people. SOMETHING THAT really helps Don't heed what humans think of you, heed what God or your higher power thinks of you first and foremost!! He wants us to be authentic and true because truth is all there is and all you are❤
Attracting low vibes people, those aren’t supportive but rather jealous, vindictive, and competitive. I can relate. It was an awful time to be in. I had plenty of those. I no longer tolerate that and accept that. Sorry yes. Jealous people you are not allowed in my space. As I was one jealous. Sometimes this trait still come up but I manage it. But yes, now I set my boundaries and I know what I accept and what I don’t. Times can be lonely but I’m true to myself. I may be an odd odd person. But it wouldn’t matter. Thankfully I’m still breathing. That is most important!
Fantastic lecture Aaron, really resonated. I am finally choosing myself, am letting go of a thirty year toxic relationship, I've done tons of healing and will keep doing it but I realised I have been an enabler all my life (I grew up with a mother Narcissist then married one. It's been really tough) and I have had to realise and heal a lot of my own toxic behaviours and actions towards others but I can see the amazing changes . It is scary and a difficult path but so worth it. I'm in the process of ending the relationship (we have two grown children and a house together so cannot just walk away). My husband is creating toxic crap but I am learning it is ok not to have to stabilise his moods but just to get on with my own de-coupling. You're right I am not being seen positively by lots of family members, this would have crippled me in the past and I do still have little waves of that come up, but I identify with it less and less and I speak to myself in a loving nurturing way (something I have never done, quite the opposite) and I trust the universe, it is something I am still integrating, but I love the feelings of freedom it has already bought me I wish everyone brave enough to do this the most love and blessings, I don't have to wish them success because that will happen as a matter of course. Thank you Aaron. X
I love Aaron. I only discovered him this year but he taught me so much about being an anxious/avoidant and why I was a empath. For someone relatively young, he has the innate ability to take a complex subject and make it more relatable. He gives me hope at 49, that maybe I can be in my own power and be free from my narcissistic upbringing and toxic family dynamics.
It becomes a habit of me listening to your podcast on the morning to start my day fresh everyday. It reminds me what and who I want to be each day, and always be myself, and stay in my frame. Thank you so much for your videos and hard work to help us to live a better life. It saves a lot of us
Aron have seen the shift in yourself just looking at your videos you shifted in your you peaceful power. This is what I needed today, going true my own shift not having someone or something in life to fullfill my emptiness that creeps up occasionally. Thank you for this video ❤
I have a friend who would just dump all her problems - every little thing - to me. Like whenever I got a text from her I felt like I had to respond. So one day I had enough, and we talked about it. I told her I was no genie, that I could not fix every little problem for her, and that I was not a sounding board. I wasn’t rude, and I trusted our friendship. Now she actually asks how I am and I finally feel like she actually cares about me when she wants to talk to me - and not just to vent.
Yes! Thank you for this wonderful message Aaron! No partners no one person on earth can make us feel safe! The person who makes us feel safe is ourselves! My heart was broken from my ex partner! But again, I imagine I have a new partner near by now. But my self care time is mine! Even my imagined new partner is around! I still need time with myself! And my time with the universe as one! Not with my mother! Not with my aunties! Not with my kids! Ie. There is where I gain peace again. No 1 single person can bring us happiness. We need to talk to the universe daily.
I agree with everything. I am having the time of my life being in my own power. The universe really really likes me. I'm so happy,nor about to let any man rock my boat.Good vibes only!! As always,spot on! One day I will get to Costa Rica with Y'all,but I'm off to Spain first.
I'm at the point where all I want to do is focus on alignment and welcome the people, places, and experiences that are for my soul's greatest advancement. I have no other goals or desires. The abundance in this state is absolutely phenomenal. Getting here wasn't easy - you have to let go & surrender. But I lept when guided & the universe caught me and gave me profound abundance beyond what I could have ever imagined. The inner work never ends but I wouldn't change it for anything. His messaging is spot on - many blessings to you all!!
This is just so powerful. This is the realization I’ve been coming to lately. I’ve always based my self worth and happiness on other peoples opinions and validation of me. Once you realize that you can take the power back and let go of needing that in order to have joy you start really changing the way you experience life. But it does require healing and letting go of the blockages and belief systems and emotions. Handling this part of your heart will set you free. That’s what it feels like to me is freedom. Thank you for reminding us of this Aaron ❤
This video is really good, I know I am holding on to things because of beliefs that I grew up with. But asking myself questions as to why I do what I do makes me know that I no longer need it. Choosing yourself...me choosing myself is changing my life and my energy to something super-duper-powerful. Thanks for being such a great teacher.
I'm from the Netherlands and from my 13th to 30th age i used to smoke weed everyday because i couldn't sleep without it. Untill i came to the realisation that it was just something i told myself so to justify the smoking of weed. I then stopped cold turkey because i don't need it. I am now 40 and have not smoked since and also don't drink alchahol. Thought i would share this because it's a great metaphor for your story and i approve of your message 100%.
Omg.. So happy for you! If I may ask... What was the reason for realization? Wish my ex had his wake up call on time.. (2022 end of our relationship). He's 34.. Smokes since his 15th..
@@Smile-3 You're too kind, thank you. At that age they were different times here where 15+ kids were allowed to smoke cigarettes in high school for instance and we could hangout in "coffeeshops" and cops didn't care. As i grew older however smoking got out of fashion and weed smokers were more and more considered as useless people. All it does is completely remove your motivation to do anything. However i'm the last one who should be judging others. Anyway, guess i decided to finally grow up and i'm still struggling with certain aspects in my life. It has made me become a late bloomer but i don't regret it because the only one responsible for that is myself and i held myself accountable. Hope this helps you in some way or anyone else who might read this. Take care!
@@dhl0706thanks! I'm also from the Netherlands, too many people are addicted to weed. I'm so glad you're done with that shit and waste of your time. You're from DH I see? I'm from 035 🎉
@@dhl0706 jammer dat ik je niet privé ff wat kan sturen! Je lijkt me een interessant persoon gelet op de switch die je gemaakt hebt en je verhaal. Lkkr bezig!
Yes this hits home. I have been a people pleaser for years as was my mother. I lost myself years ago after my marriage and divorce. I lost myself for someone else. Now i have been giving myself self love and choosing myself! It is beautiful and i am starting to feel ao much better!! I started actually voicing my boundaries as well which is very empowering! And yes!! You definitely see when the people in my life have taken advantage from my lack of boundaries. And yes people definitely start walking away. The toxicity and the unauthentic that u didnt realize surrounded me. I am grateful to have woke up and atarted my healing journey!! Thank you!! 😊
Wow. This is like you’re telling the story of my life. This was truly a breakthrough video for me. Thank you Aaron for your inspiration to change my ways.
23:13 Aaron has exquisitely opened my eyes and my heart and realization going on in my head..choosing myself has been a real awakening in my spirit and my soul~ I am forever grateful!
I love how you have evolved over the years. I have been following you for years Aaron and how your content was more LOA centred to now more self love focussed
I just want to say thankyou for all your videos on letting go, setting boundaries, and choosing yourself I finally let go of a toxic relayionship and dating partner and I’ve been so happy just healing and having this insane amount of energy to use for my personal growth and new connections. I no longer have to abandon myself for nobody or force anything that’s toxic but instead I allow divine to work for me. It really is a whole new world.
Thanks, you always cover the topics I'm currently going through. I've chosen myself to my core. The unknown can be scary but I'm more excited about breaking new ground and going as high as I can go (ascending as high as I can). Looks a lot more fun then the alternative.
Thank u so much ,, I've been in the same situation in a relationship where I stopped my self from being in my own power , because I felt if I choose to be in my full power he wouldn't choose me After I listen to you this is my new affirmation I can be at my full power and still be loved First by me and God ❤ then the right people
Hi In my case I am a bit isolated. I live in the countryside which is great, I love nature. But it's really difficult for me to meet new people. I spend a lot of time alone. It makes me sad sometimes because I long to share with others. I wish I could make this my strength and not feel bad about being so alone
I have known you and have been following you for a couple of weeks. I'm going through this same process. HUGE. There are many levels to let go of the external and choosing ourselves. And by doing that, as you are sharing, reality changes. I'm now in a huge point of shifting by choosing myself. I wouldn't deal with it if it wasn't for a huge anxiety show up lately when I'm around people. My body is actually pushing me to face the process. Big resistences. I appreciate your latest videos, they support and encourage me to go on. Hug
Aaron - I’ve followed your journey for years and I’m beyond inspired. I just wanted to say how grateful I am for all your videos and the Shift experience I’d bought as well. You’re truly one of a kind ❤
That was massively helpful Aaron, thank you 🙏🏻. By setting boundaries (and maintaining them!) and by demonstrating integrity to myself, I will begin to trust myself and feel safe in my body. ❤
I thank you for sharing. I have found myself a handful of time confounded - wanting things I need, and needing things a didn’t want… Simply to validate the false sense of happy existence made up by superficial constructs.
I love this, Aaron! I recently made the same discovery regarding being single/relationship - validation/self power and freedom. I have a deep abandonment wound that I am ready to release! AND, I LOVE your green fridge!
You are amazing, I am going thru something similar and is hard to accept that is okay to feel like that. Love to travel, don’t want any committed relationship and I am financially free. Soliber
Powerful meassage... im literally transitioning as I watch this. Just got out of a relationship. I'm a empath so serving others is almost my natural desire❤. Great video
I relate to this so hard-- thank you thank you thank you Aaron- we need more people awake to their own power 🔥🔥💚💚💜💜 it take real conscious intention to follow the self and not be swayed by outside energy and takes simply practice. SO inspiring I feel like this was made for me right now. ♥️🙏♥️
I focus on what I’m being and what I need to get done ❤ I love my own company and being alone all though I’m far from lonely took me a while once I started this things changed and it’s none of my business what any one thinks about me I do my best and be my best that’s all that matters ❤
After 6 months sex relationship with a man I realized that this man was not willing to give me also a friendly word after sex and so I left him watching alone his films (he never asked me in all these months what I wanted to watch). After I left him I felt so empowered :)
Thank you, Aaron! Your videos always make me feel better. I became more aware of some internal patterns, especially concerning seeking approval and getting attached to people.
Thanks Aaron ❤ for teaching me how to be emotionally available for myself you have healed relationships with myself 💞 now I can attract people who are emotional available for me 🙏❤
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I'm sorry for my comment. I feel lonely and lost sometimes and I kind of act like a brat.
Omg, this part when he says, people pleasers have no real sense of self, they dont know where they end, and where others begin, really hits home😅
Right? 😂🤦♂️🤦♂️
I was ashamed of my body since 20's I was 177cm, and Asian, and people teased me about being too tall girl. Now I look at myself in the mirror telling myself in a soothing voice "I LOVE YOU" every day. Now I am honoured to be a tall lady with a shiny face I don't need other's validation anymore.❤
Yep, same here. I was called a ladder, a giraffe, etc. I laugh at that now, but at the time it hurt me, because I was different
@@carladossantos1142you two could join beauty pageants. 😊
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The only thing we NEED in life is food, water, and oxygen. Everything else is just a want. We are never satisfied with what we have. We always want what others have and when we get them we realize that’s not what we want. And then we repeat the cycle with other things. Until the day we’re no longer here. Count your blessings and move on with your life. Every experience we have is for a reason. Wither it’s good or bad. It creates your path.
Self-love is everything. It is living from the soul. You can then access more power and peace than you ever imagined. 💗 Relationships with others are important, of course, but we have to prioritise our relationship with ourself to be truly happy and fulfilled. 🥰
Well it's a Matter of perspective..
After breakup some start self-love, some become super Good conscious and some unlucky keep in the same loop of misery!
“Dont abandon your true self to make other people happy”
So many eye-opening realizations from this video. This was the nudge I needed to take the steps towards valuing myself more. I’m so excited for the person that I’ll become.
Thanks a million for sharing your wisdom!
I really needed this today! I was struggling going back and forth in a toxic relationship and this is exactly what I needed to hear today! I just ended it over the weekend but it still hurts! 🙏 thank u
You got this. Hugs. ❤
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Similar story.. Healing health is upon strength
Hang in there, keep moving forward in the best way you can. I am praying for you
@@RiseandGrind63 thank u so much 🙏❤️
I recently told a friend NO on something, and he did not take it well. what he was asking for was more than I was able to do, and although I didn't want to tell him no, I had to do what was right for me.
Then he’s not a friend, friends should respect your boundaries and if they don’t, drop them.
Most of the time I feel like I don't need other people at all and 99 percent of the time prefer to be alone in the natural world too. Thanks Aaron x
I am taking my power back. Thank you universe. I let go. I let go for my own best. Love love ❤
Time to let go of the guy that didn't prioritize himself
Taking care of yourself =self love
Thank you Aaron. Was a people pleaser most of my life but now understand the value of saying no without guilt, showing vuneralbity and giving self love and validation to myself. It took me having a massive burn out/ depressive episode to reach there but now im thankful for that and all i have learned. You have helped lots so thank you. Sending you ❤and light. X
What I need is happiness. I mean true happiness. You can feel it through your whole body. Not just fake it to get through the day.
Happiness may be as simple as a lazy day watching your comfort show, enjoying your inner peace. :) good luck!
You spoke my heart especially in this year I believe we should all be happy because the universe wants to expand and we as consciousness need to expand its the only way.
This is so huge, Aaron. You could almost say its the biggest problem in 3D. We need to be whole and grounded within the real and true of us because were always looking for other people to fill this for us. Once we anchor within and meet someone also anchored within we can share real love that isn't needy. This is a human problem.
I started my spiritual awakening after my divorce began. Once I was alone. And because of that I feel like my journey is in fast forward. The perfect storm allowed me to see me. And I’m so satisfied with ME. 🙌🏽 Thank you Aaron!
No doubr, that's the key. Getting to that place of realization that no matter what happens, you got you! And being grateful for that, is a freedom and security like no other. While it's fresh, instill daily habits for a lifetime that reinforce that knowing and feeling. Sometimes we can get so overwhelmed we can unwittingly fall back into old habits of thought if we're not proactive enough or too complacent. And it's a double triple whammy because you know it so you can see it, and start subconsciously beating yourself up for it... A vicious cycle that's hard to break without some built-in go-to practices. i.e. Crisis, hardship and or tragedy in ones life or family can be so overwhelming, coping mechanisms are necessary. Sharing from experience, and learning about it and from it. Do whatever it takes to feed that momentum so you're steadfast and solid. Stay on that "high horse!" Lol. Just food for thought in case it could help.
Same here started mine after my divorce
Same , started my divorce, wish me luck
It's been 3 year. The work doesnt end 😅 but SO worth it
Good luck to you all it's a beautiful journey
Likewise, mines as well
Be the most authentic you, set boundaries, call your energy back, choose your own values, dont look for validation from others, let go of the ego and trust the universe, meet your own needs, self love is a choice, safety and security within your own body, being authentic, be in your own frame, frame technique, individuation process,
Starting to appreciate being on my own. Individual. Choosing myself more! Thank you Aaron! (I appreciate when you say , how you can meet your own needs)
I let Go of All things that aren't Serving me anymore, I let Go anything that's make me feel sorry for myself and choose what's in my best Interest. I 100% Commit myself to be the best version of myself and I realize my own Power that's within my own sense of self, Nothing Less than Best I am gonna settle for, I have Unique Identity and I embrace my own individuality with Grace. Thankyou so much Brother Aaron :)
I have the same experience. All my life I thought I had to work very hard, to think of others more than myself and that would lead to success. Once I eased, I started thinking of myself and my needs, having rest when I need it, setting boundaries, everything changed to the better😍
ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴡᴀᴛᴄʜɪɴɢ😊,, ᴡʀɪᴛᴇ ᴍʀ ғʀᴇᴅᴇʀɪᴄᴋ ɴᴏᴡ, 📝ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡʜᴀᴛ sᴀᴘ ʟɪɴᴇ 𝟏𝟖𝟐𝟓𝟖𝟎𝟐𝟏𝟖𝟓𝟔, ʜᴇ'ʟʟ sʜᴀʀᴇ ᴡɪᴛʜ ʏᴏᴜ sᴏᴍᴇ ʙᴇɴᴇғɪᴄɪᴀʟ ɪɴsɪɢʜᴛ, ᴛᴇʟʟ ʜɪᴍ ɪ sᴇɴᴛ ʏᴏᴜ😊👋
This really resonates with where I am right now. We need to be unapologetically ourselves, God has a plan for each and everyone of us and no matter what is going on on the outside, our eternal soul is safe and perfect just the way it is.
This resonates. I’ve went through basically the same thing 🙏 I am like a new man. 50lbs lighter healthier happier on and on
This was great info thank you 🙏
Great for you!!!! Keep up the great work!!💯💯😊
Omg. This is crazy. I needed this video because people around me are crazy. I must choose myself.
Yes exactly, same but if we didn't have pasts like we did. We wouldn't be able to stand in our truth now.
In the last year I stoped looking for validation in people and relationships. Ive only just realised I did not want to be with any of them but did not know how to be me. Thought I had to fix people. Now in my power. Want to stay single but trainning to be a counsellor. To support people going through rough times. ❤
Choosing myself for the first time FULLY in the past 3 months...Holy TRIP of a lifetime into the palms of Love in Full Surrender to choosing Divinity within
“The validation your inner child needs is from you” Wow. Aaron is so good.. A modern mystic. He’s also very in touch with his divine feminine. A great and balanced channeler of wisdom. Thank you 🙏🏽
Sometimes I feel so stupid thinking its all about me, me, me, me! When there's people around the world running away from drug needles on the ground and surviving bombing and worrying about if they will have food or gas tomorrow and here I am worried about someone's feeling,, feelings!?
"The energy of want is the energy of lack"❤
I've noticed that on the hikes too.
the more I'm focused on myself the more people would initiate with me
You always seem to talk about the exact same things that I have gone through or going through now! I just have a hard time putting how I feel into words and communicate them to other people! I looked for that “perfect” relationship that NEVER existed!
I hurt my children along the way for my search!
Now I am single and happy to be!
I’d like to meet someone but don’t have the desire like I had when I was in my 30’s!
Thank you for your videos! I appreciate you! 🥰
Great video!😊 Amazing synchronicity because I just wrote about how I should have let go of people I was clearly not equally yoked to, why I never felt supported or comfortable with certain people, how it truly kept me down. It's because despite having a lot of desirable traits, I was dimming down, dulling down and dumbing down by others by not voicing my feelings, a way of avoiding conflict and people pleasing. It explains attracting low vibe people who were jealous, resentful, competitive, i tolerated that even though i have never been that. II'm no longer interested in approval or pleasing others, i DGAF, I honor myself first and foremost, I want to be authentic to myself so that I will attract similar vibed people.
SOMETHING THAT really helps Don't heed what humans think of you, heed what God or your higher power thinks of you first and foremost!! He wants us to be authentic and true because truth is all there is and all you are❤
Attracting low vibes people, those aren’t supportive but rather jealous, vindictive, and competitive. I can relate. It was an awful time to be in. I had plenty of those.
I no longer tolerate that and accept that. Sorry yes. Jealous people you are not allowed in my space. As I was one jealous. Sometimes this trait still come up but I manage it.
But yes, now I set my boundaries and I know what I accept and what I don’t. Times can be lonely but I’m true to myself. I may be an odd odd person. But it wouldn’t matter. Thankfully I’m still breathing. That is most important!
Fantastic lecture Aaron, really resonated. I am finally choosing myself, am letting go of a thirty year toxic relationship, I've done tons of healing and will keep doing it but I realised I have been an enabler all my life (I grew up with a mother Narcissist then married one. It's been really tough) and I have had to realise and heal a lot of my own toxic behaviours and actions towards others but I can see the amazing changes . It is scary and a difficult path but so worth it. I'm in the process of ending the relationship (we have two grown children and a house together so cannot just walk away). My husband is creating toxic crap but I am learning it is ok not to have to stabilise his moods but just to get on with my own de-coupling. You're right I am not being seen positively by lots of family members, this would have crippled me in the past and I do still have little waves of that come up, but I identify with it less and less and I speak to myself in a loving nurturing way (something I have never done, quite the opposite) and I trust the universe, it is something I am still integrating, but I love the feelings of freedom it has already bought me I wish everyone brave enough to do this the most love and blessings, I don't have to wish them success because that will happen as a matter of course. Thank you Aaron. X
ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴡᴀᴛᴄʜɪɴɢ😊,, ᴡʀɪᴛᴇ ᴍʀ ғʀᴇᴅᴇʀɪᴄᴋ ɴᴏᴡ, 📝ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡʜᴀᴛ sᴀᴘ ʟɪɴᴇ 𝟏𝟖𝟐𝟓𝟖𝟎𝟐𝟏𝟖𝟓𝟔, ʜᴇ'ʟʟ sʜᴀʀᴇ ᴡɪᴛʜ ʏᴏᴜ sᴏᴍᴇ ʙᴇɴᴇғɪᴄɪᴀʟ ɪɴsɪɢʜᴛ, ᴛᴇʟʟ ʜɪᴍ ɪ sᴇɴᴛ ʏᴏᴜ😊👋
Individuating is a really important concept. Took me way too long to identify it and learn it. Thank you.
Thank you Aaron 😊❤ In my case, when I overcome that “ needeness for a partner “, I felt Free! So powerful your message! Again thank you ❤
I love Aaron. I only discovered him this year but he taught me so much about being an anxious/avoidant and why I was a empath.
For someone relatively young, he has the innate ability to take a complex subject and make it more relatable.
He gives me hope at 49, that maybe I can be in my own power and be free from my narcissistic upbringing and toxic family dynamics.
It becomes a habit of me listening to your podcast on the morning to start my day fresh everyday. It reminds me what and who I want to be each day, and always be myself, and stay in my frame. Thank you so much for your videos and hard work to help us to live a better life. It saves a lot of us
❤❤❤same mee
Focus ourself,inner child ve carried soul when we were born!!
divine timing
Aron have seen the shift in yourself just looking at your videos you shifted in your you peaceful power.
This is what I needed today, going true my own shift not having someone or something in life to fullfill my emptiness that creeps up occasionally. Thank you for this video ❤
I have a friend who would just dump all her problems - every little thing - to me. Like whenever I got a text from her I felt like I had to respond.
So one day I had enough, and we talked about it. I told her I was no genie, that I could not fix every little problem for her, and that I was not a sounding board. I wasn’t rude, and I trusted our friendship.
Now she actually asks how I am and I finally feel like she actually cares about me when she wants to talk to me - and not just to vent.
Yes! Thank you for this wonderful message Aaron!
No partners no one person on earth can make us feel safe! The person who makes us feel safe is ourselves! My heart was broken from my ex partner! But again, I imagine I have a new partner near by now. But my self care time is mine! Even my imagined new partner is around! I still need time with myself! And my time with the universe as one! Not with my mother! Not with my aunties! Not with my kids! Ie.
There is where I gain peace again.
No 1 single person can bring us happiness. We need to talk to the universe daily.
I agree with everything.
I am having the time of my life being in my own power.
The universe really really likes me.
I'm so happy,nor about to let any man rock my boat.Good vibes only!!
As always,spot on!
One day I will get to Costa Rica with Y'all,but I'm off to Spain first.
Yes, samesame! Just came back from Portugal :)
I'm at the point where all I want to do is focus on alignment and welcome the people, places, and experiences that are for my soul's greatest advancement. I have no other goals or desires.
The abundance in this state is absolutely phenomenal. Getting here wasn't easy - you have to let go & surrender. But I lept when guided & the universe caught me and gave me profound abundance beyond what I could have ever imagined. The inner work never ends but I wouldn't change it for anything. His messaging is spot on - many blessings to you all!!
This is just so powerful. This is the realization I’ve been coming to lately. I’ve always based my self worth and happiness on other peoples opinions and validation of me. Once you realize that you can take the power back and let go of needing that in order to have joy you start really changing the way you experience life. But it does require healing and letting go of the blockages and belief systems and emotions. Handling this part of your heart will set you free. That’s what it feels like to me is freedom. Thank you for reminding us of this Aaron ❤
Your place has such a vibe….an energy….that outdoor section beside the living room….🙌🏽
This video is really good, I know I am holding on to things because of beliefs that I grew up with. But asking myself questions as to why I do what I do makes me know that I no longer need it. Choosing yourself...me choosing myself is changing my life and my energy to something super-duper-powerful. Thanks for being such a great teacher.
I'm from the Netherlands and from my 13th to 30th age i used to smoke weed everyday because i couldn't sleep without it. Untill i came to the realisation that it was just something i told myself so to justify the smoking of weed. I then stopped cold turkey because i don't need it. I am now 40 and have not smoked since and also don't drink alchahol. Thought i would share this because it's a great metaphor for your story and i approve of your message 100%.
Omg.. So happy for you! If I may ask... What was the reason for realization? Wish my ex had his wake up call on time.. (2022 end of our relationship). He's 34.. Smokes since his 15th..
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You're too kind, thank you. At that age they were different times here where 15+ kids were allowed to smoke cigarettes in high school for instance and we could hangout in "coffeeshops" and cops didn't care.
As i grew older however smoking got out of fashion and weed smokers were more and more considered as useless people. All it does is completely remove your motivation to do anything. However i'm the last one who should be judging others.
Anyway, guess i decided to finally grow up and i'm still struggling with certain aspects in my life. It has made me become a late bloomer but i don't regret it because the only one responsible for that is myself and i held myself accountable.
Hope this helps you in some way or anyone else who might read this. Take care!
@@dhl0706thanks! I'm also from the Netherlands, too many people are addicted to weed. I'm so glad you're done with that shit and waste of your time. You're from DH I see? I'm from 035 🎉
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@@dhl0706 jammer dat ik je niet privé ff wat kan sturen! Je lijkt me een interessant persoon gelet op de switch die je gemaakt hebt en je verhaal. Lkkr bezig!
Yes this hits home. I have been a people pleaser for years as was my mother. I lost myself years ago after my marriage and divorce. I lost myself for someone else. Now i have been giving myself self love and choosing myself! It is beautiful and i am starting to feel ao much better!! I started actually voicing my boundaries as well which is very empowering! And yes!! You definitely see when the people in my life have taken advantage from my lack of boundaries. And yes people definitely start walking away. The toxicity and the unauthentic that u didnt realize surrounded me. I am grateful to have woke up and atarted my healing journey!! Thank you!! 😊
Wow. This is like you’re telling the story of my life. This was truly a breakthrough video for me. Thank you Aaron for your inspiration to change my ways.
I am already this way. I am trying to learn to love me and love being without a man for the first time I’m 60.
23:13 Aaron has exquisitely opened my eyes and my heart and realization going on in my head..choosing myself has been a real awakening in my spirit and my soul~ I am forever grateful!
I literally love every house he rents, the green vintage fridge is so cute
I know, I love it!!
I love how you have evolved over the years. I have been following you for years Aaron and how your content was more LOA centred to now more self love focussed
I just want to say thankyou for all your videos on letting go, setting boundaries, and choosing yourself I finally let go of a toxic relayionship and dating partner and I’ve been so happy just healing and having this insane amount of energy to use for my personal growth and new connections. I no longer have to abandon myself for nobody or force anything that’s toxic but instead I allow divine to work for me. It really is a whole new world.
Thanks, you always cover the topics I'm currently going through. I've chosen myself to my core. The unknown can be scary but I'm more excited about breaking new ground and going as high as I can go (ascending as high as I can). Looks a lot more fun then the alternative.
Thank u so much ,, I've been in the same situation in a relationship where I stopped my self from being in my own power , because I felt if I choose to be in my full power he wouldn't choose me
After I listen to you this is my new affirmation
I can be at my full power and still be loved
First by me and God ❤ then the right people
Hi
In my case I am a bit isolated. I live in the countryside which is great, I love nature.
But it's really difficult for me to meet new people. I spend a lot of time alone. It makes me sad sometimes because I long to share with others.
I wish I could make this my strength and not feel bad about being so alone
It's crazy how much I needed this info. This must be a form of syncronicity.
Love is also the actions and choices you make that allow you to feel safe... Amazing bro, keep going!
I have known you and have been following you for a couple of weeks. I'm going through this same process. HUGE.
There are many levels to let go of the external and choosing ourselves.
And by doing that, as you are sharing, reality changes.
I'm now in a huge point of shifting by choosing myself. I wouldn't deal with it if it wasn't for a huge anxiety show up lately when I'm around people. My body is actually pushing me to face the process. Big resistences.
I appreciate your latest videos, they support and encourage me to go on. Hug
I think the blonde highlights was a life changing move ❤
ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴡᴀᴛᴄʜɪɴɢ😊,, ᴡʀɪᴛᴇ ᴍʀ ғʀᴇᴅᴇʀɪᴄᴋ ɴᴏᴡ, 📝ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡʜᴀᴛ sᴀᴘ ʟɪɴᴇ 𝟏𝟖𝟐𝟓𝟖𝟎𝟐𝟏𝟖𝟓𝟔, ʜᴇ'ʟʟ sʜᴀʀᴇ ᴡɪᴛʜ ʏᴏᴜ sᴏᴍᴇ ʙᴇɴᴇғɪᴄɪᴀʟ ɪɴsɪɢʜᴛ, ᴛᴇʟʟ ʜɪᴍ ɪ sᴇɴᴛ ʏᴏᴜ😊👋
Just wanna say thank u bro . I never would have thought I could relate to someone so much but you’ve helped me a ton🙏
Aaron - I’ve followed your journey for years and I’m beyond inspired. I just wanted to say how grateful I am for all your videos and the Shift experience I’d bought as well. You’re truly one of a kind ❤
I’ve been living in a constant state of reaching and not realizing. I pray to purify my heart
i love that you bring up your own personal experiences in your videos
Thank you Aaron!!! Your messages have really helped me a lot over the past few years:)❤
Own energy pattern&,worth,self frame, authenticity...self validation,take courage in vulnerability 😮❤
That was massively helpful Aaron, thank you 🙏🏻. By setting boundaries (and maintaining them!) and by demonstrating integrity to myself, I will begin to trust myself and feel safe in my body. ❤
This is ONE of the best videos i've seen on self-love and healing.Thank you.
Gives me chills ! Very happy for you, your empowerment is inspiring !
I thank you for sharing. I have found myself a handful of time confounded - wanting things I need, and needing things a didn’t want… Simply to validate the false sense of happy existence made up by superficial constructs.
I love this, Aaron! I recently made the same discovery regarding being single/relationship - validation/self power and freedom. I have a deep abandonment wound that I am ready to release! AND, I LOVE your green fridge!
This is exactly what I needed to hear today, thank you so much for this.
You are amazing, I am going thru something similar and is hard to accept that is okay to feel like that. Love to travel, don’t want any committed relationship and I am financially free.
Soliber
ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴡᴀᴛᴄʜɪɴɢ😊,, ᴡʀɪᴛᴇ ᴍʀ ғʀᴇᴅᴇʀɪᴄᴋ ɴᴏᴡ, 📝ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡʜᴀᴛ sᴀᴘ ʟɪɴᴇ 𝟏𝟖𝟐𝟓𝟖𝟎𝟐𝟏𝟖𝟓𝟔, ʜᴇ'ʟʟ sʜᴀʀᴇ ᴡɪᴛʜ ʏᴏᴜ sᴏᴍᴇ ʙᴇɴᴇғɪᴄɪᴀʟ ɪɴsɪɢʜᴛ, ᴛᴇʟʟ ʜɪᴍ ɪ sᴇɴᴛ ʏᴏᴜ😊👋
I've been on a personal growth journey for years now and you're hitting on my latest foci. Amazing work 👏 🙌
This hits home. Love yourself, realise that you are awesome !
Wow, wow, wow...Officially in awe and gratitude for ALL
This one hits home. Thank you, brother.
Man, I am binge watching your videos right now, you are the best!!
Makes so much sense! Acceptance of self and living in gratitude in the moment! ❤❤❤
Powerful meassage... im literally transitioning as I watch this. Just got out of a relationship. I'm a empath so serving others is almost my natural desire❤. Great video
Aaron, as always, thank you for all your beautiful messages and knowledge, much needed ❤
This video helped me change my life last year!
I relate to this so hard-- thank you thank you thank you Aaron- we need more people awake to their own power 🔥🔥💚💚💜💜 it take real conscious intention to follow the self and not be swayed by outside energy and takes simply practice. SO inspiring I feel like this was made for me right now. ♥️🙏♥️
Glad to see you’re still making content it’s good thank u for the good energy
Love the green fridge.
I am so glad I came across this channel
Something I need to heal and work on. Thanks for the video!
you talking about me? seems what you say is exactly my life.
The Best Ever!!! So dialed into this and in agreement! ❤❤❤
I focus on what I’m being and what I need to get done ❤ I love my own company and being alone all though I’m far from lonely took me a while once I started this things changed and it’s none of my business what any one thinks about me I do my best and be my best that’s all that matters ❤
I am realizing the same ..wanting the single independent life i never had❤
After 6 months sex relationship with a man I realized that this man was not willing to give me also a friendly word after sex and so I left him watching alone his films (he never asked me in all these months what I wanted to watch). After I left him I felt so empowered :)
Really?
@@megsup167 I realized I need also love ♡
I realized I also need self-love ♡
Sometimes seeing them get what they want helps us see our own wants and needs more clearly
Wow 💫 Everything spot on! So cool 🤩 Thank you 🙏🏻
Gorgeous space sweetheart ❤ you make so much sense I resonate with the freedom 😊
Thank you, Aaron! Your videos always make me feel better.
I became more aware of some internal patterns, especially concerning seeking approval and getting attached to people.
Every time I listen yo your videos it’s spot on thank you!!!
Thanks Aaron ❤ for teaching me how to be emotionally available for myself you have healed relationships with myself 💞 now I can attract people who are emotional available for me 🙏❤
This is inspiring.....people pleasing.....so insightful