DISCRIMINATION OF FOREIGNER IN RUSSIA

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  • Опубліковано 13 лис 2022
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    Interracial marriage is not easy. You needed to adjust with each others culture, traditions and most importantly to deal with the discrimination that comes with it.
    My husband and I leave Moscow with a smile on our faces and ready for a new challenge...
    We are now at the train station, waiting for the train to take us back to Krasnodar. We are looking forward to the night so we can get a good night's sleep after an exhausting day.
    Our morning on the train started out great. We got to talk to the guy who's staying on the bottom bunk under me. His name is Maxim He sings, writes music, and is on his way to Voronezh to be the lead singer in a new band. Soon it will be his station, and our paths will part. We wished him good luck, ate breakfast together, and went back to our beds.
    The day was quiet. My husband and I ate bananas, I listened to my favorite podcast on my headphones, and fiddled with a lamp. We were a little bored, so we decided to take a nap.
    We woke up to the noise of two women in the bunks below us. It turned out that they were drunk and continued to drink on the train.
    Boria calmly asked them to stop drinking and not to disturb the people next to them.
    Instead of complying with his simple request, they started mocking him and me.
    I don’t speak Russian and fortunately doesn't understand what they say to me.
    Boria stepped away for a while and when he came back he saw these women trying to explain to me through the translator on the phone. I definitely looked upset. They succeeded to offend me with their words.
    The situation was escalating by the minute.
    The insolence and rudeness of these people had long since crossed all boundaries. My husband said he would have gladly thrown them off the train with his own hands, but Boria and I don't want any more trouble. We need to get out of this situation the legal way.
    He decided to tell me what they were saying because I didn't understand what was going on.
    He said that he didn't expect me to swear back at them. I even tried to attack one of the women because of anger. Even though this woman was three times my size. Boria never seen me get so angry, he told that I am like a little soft kitten. I don’t even raise my voice to people older than me because I consider it disrespectful.
    My husband felt sorry for me when I started crying. I was in a lot of pain and I didn’t understand why I deserved such humiliation and insult.
    We called train security to deal with the situation.
    The train manager came over and told us that the women would be forced to get off at the next station.
    I looked them over and couldn't hide my smile. I was happy that we had gotten justice and that the people who had wronged us had gotten what they deserved.
    It was half an hour before the train stopped and the women were back again.
    We didn't know what else to expect from them, so Boria kept filming just in case.
    At the station, the police came into the train. They took statements from us and the people who had witnessed the incident.
    I told that I saw one of the women had tried to bribe train security not to call the police. That didn't work.
    They were escorted off the train, and we breathed a sigh of relief. They would probably be taken to the police station and spend the night there.
    Finally my husband and I could sit quietly and eat our dinner.
    A man and a woman who are resting in adjoining beds treated us to chocolate and tangerines. The conductor and train security apologized for the inconvenience and told us that we could sleep in the lower bunks if we wanted. Those beds were now vacant. We said thank you to the train workers, police officers, and all the kind people who helped us.
    Our carriage was once again filled with pleasant silence and tranquility.
    The next morning our train arrived in Krasnodar. We got off the train and went to the bus stop.
    It was cold outside, despite the fact that it was the second half of March.
    We bought coffee so we wouldn't freeze waiting for the bus.
    We are so glad to be home. We miss our mom, our bed, and our home-cooked meals. And we especially can't wait to book our plane tickets to the Philippines, pack our bags, and get out of this country as soon as possible.
    In the next episode, we will spend our remaining days in Russia and prepare to move to the Philippines

КОМЕНТАРІ • 810

  • @tiongsonjohn90
    @tiongsonjohn90 Рік тому +130

    Well Done! You and your husband handledthe situation well and didn't allow such people to discriminate you. I applaud your husband for standing up for you and also maintaining self control.I'm also a Filipino married to a Russain woman for 13 years now and also living here in Krasnodar. anyway God Bless you and your husband and I do wish you a good life back in the Philippines!

    • @islandlifebd
      @islandlifebd  Рік тому +5

      Thank you very much. All the best to you and your family🤗

    • @sherrylybanez9336
      @sherrylybanez9336 Рік тому

      I definitely don't agree with you. In this video there is no discrimination. At first place why making video without permission. Haler! Where is the privacy. This video is just for show to have a lot of viewers as usual to have money 🤪🙄🙄🙄. I fell sorry to this woman, yes she may too loud , but you don't have a rights to provoke her. The Filipina was aggressive wanted to punch her , omg girl that's assault ! your not in the Philippines you don't have a rights ! You are too savage!!!😡 . I am also a Filipina , and also a Russian citizens ,but I never felt discrimination.. This video is just for show!!! Ты позор!!!!

  • @catherinegunang9482
    @catherinegunang9482 Рік тому +11

    we Filipino women are descent..we should not be treated otherwise..we thank the husband in defending his wife...

  • @dalmonvindusivy8004
    @dalmonvindusivy8004 Рік тому +20

    I understand how tough it is experiencing this kind of situation. Great that your husband was good enough to handle it protecting you against these ignorant people. Keep being strong even though!

    • @koyatsu-w9o
      @koyatsu-w9o 25 днів тому

      I live in Japan and I am married to a Japanese It was painful when you know the language, She is in paradise now congratulations There is no place like home

  • @pingros5100
    @pingros5100 Рік тому +45

    I salute the other Russians there who helped you guys. Even though the 2 women were rude, I was still amazed how kind and fair the train security and other passengers were. Thanks Russian community!

  • @bunrathong2815
    @bunrathong2815 Рік тому +160

    Thank you for protecting your wife and you are a great husband for her.

    • @marygaletiauson1930
      @marygaletiauson1930 Рік тому +1

      The first thing you did rightfully is to inform the police not to intervene to these women , that's why the situation becomes worst

    • @marygaletiauson1930
      @marygaletiauson1930 Рік тому

      These Russian women are drunk and crazy

    • @MrRobokoper
      @MrRobokoper Рік тому

      Im Russian German and i hate evil people!!! I love justis.

    • @steplim9716
      @steplim9716 Рік тому

      Mixed emotions... Truly amazing act of self control and humility.. Kudos to both.

  • @mikeb9189
    @mikeb9189 Рік тому +22

    You guy’s videos are addictive. Trying to catch up on all the episodes. The talent of your narration is immaculate. First class, pro. You are an incredible story teller. Thank you. God bless you two.

  • @adamthegreat2816
    @adamthegreat2816 Рік тому +59

    As someone also married to a south East Asian wife I understand how distressing and horrible this must of been. Unfortunately discrimination is common, but remember these are narrow minded and foolish people who evidently have nothing better to do. You both did well given the situation and I wish you every success in the Philippines.

  • @atejingldrcoach
    @atejingldrcoach Рік тому +6

    I dont think that this women are insulting you, they are just trying to asked if your man practiced prostitution and you will be a possible victim.
    As I undertood on what they are saying, they are just concern on you and its not polite being a foreigner to swear them or call them bitch first. Its you who are causing trouble and your man filming them without permission.
    For me as Filipina also but citizen now here in Russia, you should stay silent and avoid direct confrontation to people that can possibly put you in trouble specially when you cant understand what they are saying.
    When you are in other country, when you are a foreign person on a land you are in, specially with no better understanding on the language that citizens spoken, try to practice our calm, respectful and polite attitude being a filipino.
    Because when you will be in a foreign land, it will be not you anymore.
    You will be a filipina already, you will represent our race already so be careful on showing your claws, put it in the right place and in the right time. Avoid being entitled just because our husband's loves us and they can protect us, because of doing so..... You dont know, you will put him in trouble also.
    Just a piece of advice from a filipina who are massage therapist here in Russia but being loved of Russian citizens. Calling you a massage therapist just because you are a filipina is not a thing that you should react exaggerated, its a decent job.

    • @sherrylybanez9336
      @sherrylybanez9336 Рік тому +4

      👏👏👏👏👏👏 so true dai. I am super agree 💯💯💯💯.

    • @LutscheLumpia
      @LutscheLumpia Рік тому +3

      👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @rozelbaruela
      @rozelbaruela 21 день тому +1

      Case to case basis. It was easy for you to say that because you were not in her shoes.

  • @fionbarrons9556
    @fionbarrons9556 Рік тому +15

    Я из России и , конечо, мне стыдно за поведение этих женщин. Таких нужно наказывать. Позор

  • @pinoyislander4400
    @pinoyislander4400 Рік тому +11

    I have watched this vlog from begin to end. Your husband is very loving to you he cared for you and thats impressive. But please as an advice when youre discriminated never cry ( i understand why u cried), because those drunk ladies thought u were defeated by them being rude to u. In Germany I worked there and had experienced also discrimination by racists german. I never cried but I voiced out my anger. Just reason out accordingly so u would not be in danger esp if ur alone traveling. I feel u kabayan and ur husband. Both of u are lovely people. God bless and enjoy Philippines.

  • @cdb5485
    @cdb5485 Рік тому +24

    Racism is everywhere but you have to fight for your right as a human. I’m sorry you have that experience but I’m glad authorities did their job and your husband protects you. Be strong my friend. Life goes on.

    • @rozelbaruela
      @rozelbaruela 21 день тому

      Exactly

    • @user-so4jn1sq6e
      @user-so4jn1sq6e 6 днів тому

      Well, there was no racism there.. These drunken women assumed that he was a pimp and possibly holding a foreign woman in sexual slavery.. Well, at least that's how they wanted to present it.. But in my opinion, a certain jealousy arose in them that a beautiful young foreigner was with him.. (this is my personal opinion). So they clung to them.. But there was no racism, that's for sure! It's more like drunken hooliganism.. Something like that

  • @isagoldfield7393
    @isagoldfield7393 Рік тому +5

    I’m really sorry you & your husband have to experience this type of situation. Many blessings to you both & your whole family🌷💜💚💙🌸

  • @lhong_journeychannel0813
    @lhong_journeychannel0813 Рік тому +2

    Wala sa size ng katawan. Basta Pinay matapang! Laban Darlene. “Sa manlulupig di ka pasisiil” Well on a serious note, I really admired Boris’ calmness. Continue to be in love with each other. New subscriber here 😉

  • @imargenthat6694
    @imargenthat6694 Рік тому +3

    I am 3 months late watching this video but I really cried my heart out seeing you crying. I can really relate this situation. Until now, I still keep on fighting for this discrimination to give a better life for my children.

  • @lindaquisenberry3689
    @lindaquisenberry3689 Рік тому +34

    You handled yourself with dignity and not going down to their level. It’s difficult to be in a foreign country and not understand their language. I’m sure you’re relieved that you’re back home and maybe Boris can find a job working at a school teaching art or work into some form of teaching carpentry and such. Hope he can acclimatize to our weather and so with his mother. More power to you and may your love carry you through in your endeavors and may the Lord give you both strength in your lives. ❤️you kapatid🙏🏻

  • @cristinadeguiagan3324
    @cristinadeguiagan3324 Рік тому +55

    Good decision to live in the Philippines,the weather must be too cold for you and to encounter drunk women in the train must be a traumatic experience. Have a good and happy life in our country. Goodluck to both of you,greetings from Belgium.

    • @islandlifebd
      @islandlifebd  Рік тому +10

      Thank you for the wonderful comments, we appreciate them. Unfortunately the winter season is unbearable for me so I am happy that we’re going to live in warm country.

    • @konjo2484
      @konjo2484 Рік тому +1

      @@Jonases_20 hahaha

  • @MikeHoncho884
    @MikeHoncho884 Рік тому +4

    You guys did the right thing with those inconsiderate people on the train. They are not worth any more energy.
    You guys are doing the right thing by moving on being happy!!!
    You to have such a bright future !!!

  • @tonymanning9067
    @tonymanning9067 Рік тому +6

    I'm so sorry that it happened to you and your wife.. I just don't understand why people discriminate like that.. I wish you all the best and all the happiness in the world

  • @Tashandthecity
    @Tashandthecity Рік тому +11

    i felt your pain and i saw your hand was shaking 😢 Glad everything went well ❤❤❤

  • @Justice1007
    @Justice1007 Рік тому +9

    I am Filipino , i love how your husband protecting you , he is a good man , i will admire him very much

  • @kfern8923
    @kfern8923 Рік тому +27

    Maybe the women thought that you're being trafficked, be thankful that although they are russian they were concerned for you since you are a woman. I do understand their sentiments because you looked too young to be your husband's wife, so that's why they took a video of you and tried to call the police.

    • @seyerfamtv
      @seyerfamtv Рік тому

      Don't forget they are drunktards

    • @NORMZS8
      @NORMZS8 Рік тому +1

      who traffic people on open transport with hundred people ..hahaha

    • @athenstar10
      @athenstar10 Рік тому +2

      ​​@@NORMZS8 It's Russia. Human traficking still exists in Eastern European countries, nomatter how discrete or ordinary things look like. I understand the point of those women but they don't have to confront people like that.

    • @robadventure8007
      @robadventure8007 Рік тому +2

      I think so too...they might be drunk but just thinking that you are being traffic! You are just overwhelmed by your emotions. Good that your husband just tried to stop and calm you and the annoying women!🙏

  • @wildorchids3657
    @wildorchids3657 Рік тому +47

    Boris looks so exhausted in these video...hope he's enjoying his stay now in the Philippines.
    Inspite of these encounters I am impressed how Russian people and authorities deals with it without physical confrontation.

  • @roseaujero849
    @roseaujero849 Рік тому +10

    Ate girl wag ipakita agad Ang tapang always seek your safety first. Iwas trouble po tayo Lalo nat nasa foreign land tayo.

    • @czpstrana139
      @czpstrana139 26 днів тому

      That could have applied to a tourist. She was shamed in public. What made it worse was she was shamed in a language that only the bystanders can understand. Those drunk babushkas made her and her husband look so bad. AT hindi niya ipinakita agad ang tapang niya. It is easy to post such a comment, I wonder how you would have reacted if you were in her shoes...

    • @rozelbaruela
      @rozelbaruela 21 день тому

      ⁠@@czpstrana139Exactly 👍 of course If will happen to me, I’ll protect my dignity and also I won’t allow such humiliation especially racism I will fight for what is right.💪💪💪

    • @rozelbaruela
      @rozelbaruela 21 день тому

      It was easy for you to comment because you weren't in her situation.

  • @edwardcook8982
    @edwardcook8982 Рік тому +9

    Wow! What an experience. Your husband handled the situation very well. He appears to smart cool but tough - highly schooled behaviorally & emotionally.
    Actually Filipino women don't buckle in a situation like that. They can be a "Manny Paquiao" if being pushed to their limit. That situation brings you couple to be more closer to each other for sure - I truly appreciate appreciate Russia's security protection.

  • @rasputinserg9659
    @rasputinserg9659 Рік тому +19

    Your husband is a very good person. I watched his videos in Russian. I am very pleased that we are colleagues with him - I also live in the Krasnodar Territory (Sochi). And I am very pleased to watch videos and you and about him.

    • @islandlifebd
      @islandlifebd  Рік тому +2

      Yes he is🥰. Thank you for supporting him and also me.

  • @Ymanntronics
    @Ymanntronics Рік тому +18

    Your husband seems to be a kind and gentle one. I wish you both all happiness in yor lives. Stay in the Philippines, the people are as warm as the climate!

  • @Samir.Sweden8
    @Samir.Sweden8 Рік тому +40

    Beautiful couple my Russian brother and my Filipina sister may god protect you from all evil and bad experience. ❤️ love you guys much love from Sweden 🇸🇪❤️

    • @islandlifebd
      @islandlifebd  Рік тому +5

      Thank you very much❤️❤️❤️

  • @skylightism
    @skylightism Рік тому +10

    your husband was so calm in the whole incident. laban lang!!

  • @marilouandulithepinayalemandre

    Wow heads up for your hubby langga, he is so control, his voice even on this situation is so calm, oh my God i was teary when you cried, even me i think i would resback might be with my mouth but not with the hands, you will encounter the discrimination everywhere in this world darling so just be strong and ready.Watching from Germany.

  • @rkdo9554
    @rkdo9554 Рік тому +8

    They thought you're being trafficked, but the situation went out of hand. Though these women has to be called out coz they're too loud and they accused your husband of using you, and turned to being racists., you kabayan, also could have been more calm in this kind of situation. Glad you guys are safe.

  • @merysang1
    @merysang1 Рік тому +6

    Be humble Girl as long as they dont attack us. Let them first to attack. Then Give what they want.Always remember we need to be flexible. Its ok God is watching🙏🏻 Just Pray.

    • @mylesgarcia4625
      @mylesgarcia4625 8 місяців тому

      This is kinda bizarre advise. Really doesn't make sense.

  • @crestfinancehrconsulting6727

    Wow, I really loved and enjoyed this video. I salute to your husband for the courage and strength he bestowed upon you. Easy for me to subsribe to your Channel because of this. (Love from New Zealand)

  • @emelieagustin2046
    @emelieagustin2046 Рік тому +2

    I admire both of you for being simple and humble. Stay.nice and humble . God will lift you up.

  • @ft1123
    @ft1123 Рік тому +26

    All the best for this nice and cool and international couple

    • @islandlifebd
      @islandlifebd  Рік тому +1

      Thank you very much. All the best to you too😊

  • @MariaShieloNDavid
    @MariaShieloNDavid Рік тому +21

    Foreigners should not underestimate Filipinas. We may not understand your language but once we are insulted, we rise up to the occasion.

    • @Realsurvivor_007
      @Realsurvivor_007 Рік тому +6

      Women in other countries are jealous if their men married filipinas.That is a big insult for them.

    • @africaine4889
      @africaine4889 Рік тому

      I do not think they are jealous. They just know most asian in their country prostitute themselves.
      In africa they are plenty opening massage parlors but behind they do illegal stuf. A lot went sent back im their countries

    • @Realsurvivor_007
      @Realsurvivor_007 Рік тому +2

      @@africaine4889asian women are very hard working and they are educated too. That is the wrong prejudice.

    • @doloresonofre2684
      @doloresonofre2684 Рік тому

      I second that emotion lol

  • @ft1123
    @ft1123 Рік тому +9

    fortunately they were kick out...those two women are just horrible...a shame. They should be punished.

  • @RacquelMerdegia21
    @RacquelMerdegia21 Рік тому

    Alam nyo sis ..Yun videos nyo very touching... Para akong nanonood Ng telenovela.. ang sarap panoorin nakaka inspired nakakatuwa Yun husband mo he's ready to protect you Mahal Ka nya promise😊😍..ingatan mo sya at mahalin Ng husto Kasi sya mukhang ganon din sayo..napaka swerte nyo pareho.. itinadhana kayo ni Lord🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @robertlalor8090
    @robertlalor8090 Рік тому +6

    Hell hath no fury like a Filipina scorned!!! The behaviour of those woman is reprehensible, particularly for Filipinos. Congratulations on your marriage and move to the Philippines. I look forward to seeing how your lives and adventures flourish. Bless you both.

  • @BenjieBiyahengPilipinas
    @BenjieBiyahengPilipinas Рік тому +4

    Wow! What a terrible experience! Godspeed to both of you!

  • @fhf482
    @fhf482 Рік тому +1

    Good luck ate, I hope you found happiness in our country..

  • @crestfinancehrconsulting6727
    @crestfinancehrconsulting6727 Рік тому +2

    This similar incident also happened in our country New Zealand where a local man/boy rode a train shouting to a Chinese migrant without justifiable reasons. When the train conductor knows the incident, he reported the matter to the train driver/manager and the train stopped. The troublesome man was advised to get out of the train, which he did.

  • @glorecitatan2436
    @glorecitatan2436 Рік тому +4

    Very touching...am proud am filipino...yes Filipinos are nice people...ready to help...

  • @SAGUARO215
    @SAGUARO215 Рік тому

    Wow you guys went through a lot. Your husband really protecting you. Sana maging maligaya kayo sa new life dyan sa pinas. God bless.

  • @lesolei6549
    @lesolei6549 Рік тому +1

    Well done from your husband. He stay calm but fight for you. It is everywhere, sad but it's true. I wish both of you a great life together. God bless you and your family.😇😇😇

  • @clet-chienb
    @clet-chienb Рік тому

    Watched few episodes- greetings from London ❤

  • @francispajutan7280
    @francispajutan7280 Рік тому +16

    Discrimination is everywhere, not only in Russia. Even in the Philippines. And I’m sure there are lots of good Russians as well…
    I, myself, experienced it here in America.
    A very sensitive issue. But I think he handled it well. Good luck to both of you…

  • @narlenetiu4518
    @narlenetiu4518 Рік тому +10

    So sad about the situation that you’ve encounter. I’ll be pissed off too but thanks to your husband’s patience that he didn’t go down to their level. I’m glad that the passengers were there to support you. Your husband is such a man with principles. Good luck on your future wherever you want to settle down for good 🤞

  • @marijolivitzky4336
    @marijolivitzky4336 Рік тому +3

    What a relief for you and your husband! Thank goodness!

  • @leonorvella7694
    @leonorvella7694 Рік тому +5

    You're husband is very calm and gentle. Good on him. You are a lucky girl to marry him.

  • @natadodo1564
    @natadodo1564 Рік тому +151

    Control yourself girl, violence is not the answer. Especially if your in a foreign land. Never put your hands first to others. Act professionally even in this situation. Let your husband handle the situation because he speaks the language.

    • @StrawberryMilkkTeaa
      @StrawberryMilkkTeaa Рік тому +8

      Agreed.

    • @irishey0801
      @irishey0801 Рік тому +3

      True

    • @Annyeonghigaseyo
      @Annyeonghigaseyo Рік тому +8

      I dont think so kaw kya twagin prosti tingnn ntin kung di ka manggalaiti sa glit. Kulang p nga gnwa nya, kya nga mdli sa knla bumilly dhil akla nila you can't defend urself na aanga anga lng.

    • @natadodo1564
      @natadodo1564 Рік тому +11

      @@Annyeonghigaseyo alam mo ba ang professionalism on how to handle the situation like that in a non violent way? pero kung hindi ka professional puede ka makipagsabayan.

    • @Annyeonghigaseyo
      @Annyeonghigaseyo Рік тому +7

      @@natadodo1564 may nllman kpng professional. Akla mo nmn inaapply nu tlga. Look at them when the pinay was furious, they seemed calm down. Albeit calling them "bitch"infront of many people sounds upsetting. However, accusing our kababayan working as a prostitute was injustice and freaking slur, they deserved to be called "bitch" and other passengers will understand her, esp how rude it was talking to their own language in disrepectful way.

  • @shellaofswabia5353
    @shellaofswabia5353 Рік тому

    Naloka ako dun sa massage! Greetings from Germany. God bless keep safe.

  • @Z.Onyeze
    @Z.Onyeze Рік тому +9

    Just saw your video . First, I want to say Congratulations on finding true love and may you have many,many years forever together. Now, I want to say that I believe,as a human being, that no one deserves to be disrespected because of any difference in culture,social status ,or religious differences. Thank you for showing "GREAT RESTRAINT " against sheer stupidity and blatant ignorance that is NOT an example of all Russian people. Just the truly miserable. Like the saying goes" Misery loves company..." and these two idiots are examples. Bravo to the other travelers who had decency and humanity about themselves to speak up and even show kindness. From my heart to both of you, thank you for showing extraordinary valor and never stop loving each other.

  • @melyaborot1707
    @melyaborot1707 Рік тому +74

    Girl piece of advice when you are outside your country try to avoid trouble as much as you can try to ignore negativity around you...then you can live peacefully i myself living in a foreign land when i just arrived i didn't understand anyword they said then as time goes by i learned their culture and importantly the law of the land your basic rights here n there...thats the time you can try to fight them back when its necessary...the impressions of westerners from ph girl is bad if not worse coz most of them never been out of their country they had limited exposure of other culture...that explains a lot of their behavior towards others. Dont try to fight back not physically a no no no you're not in ph..dont pur yourself in a difficult situation in a foreign land coz you might end up in jail if things gets worst.

    • @islandlifebd
      @islandlifebd  Рік тому +29

      Thank you for the advice. I lived most of my life in foreign countries and never had an experience like this before. Maybe my reaction was extreme to some people but you’ll never know how you’re going to react until you’re in that situation already🙂.

    • @ianMcFarlane112
      @ianMcFarlane112 Рік тому +14

      its different if trouble comes to you... its wrong just to suck it up even what theyre doing is wrong. Thats what law is for.. it doesnt only apply to foreigners but natives as well. yes there are some of us thats has screws loose in their head.... but many of us are good people...we also speak up if we see something wrong or injustice just like the strangers who stood up for the asian girl here. and you are wrong saying we have limited exposure to other culture .... we travel alot and knew many people along the way and know how to respect other people. Lesson is stand up if youre right even when youre in foreign land or they will just continue to push you over

    • @darlingdenez116
      @darlingdenez116 Рік тому

      Russian are a little bit behind of being civilized , they’re been isolated for decades from outside world. They’re ignorant of other cultures .It only changes when communism has been ended🥲

    • @letabass4111
      @letabass4111 Рік тому +8

      Very well explained, agreed 100%. “ Choose your battles” I understand and have emphaty on Darlene’s emotion, but what if, she had touched one of the women, and charged with physical assault because she let her emotion took over her and she ended up in jail…🤷‍♀️😢 Boria’s efforts to get out and have a peaceful life in another country would have been a failure😢 I’m glad, that unfortunate situation ended well for them!✨👏 My best for them for a loving, and a peaceful happy marriage.✨🙏

    • @vanessabonde
      @vanessabonde Рік тому +1

      Agree!

  • @homerlim9995
    @homerlim9995 Рік тому +3

    O wish you two the best of luck and props to your husband for keeping it real

  • @FrederikEngelmand
    @FrederikEngelmand Рік тому +4

    what a heartbreaking scene to watch. but glad he chose to stay calm despite his (as a man i felt the same since my gf is vietnamese) urge to stop it himself. waiting for the police to solve it was the right move

  • @user-mz4ce2rm9z
    @user-mz4ce2rm9z 7 місяців тому +1

    Darlene, I understand perfectly how you are feeling, trust me I would have reacted the same manner!!! But Boris being the kind and sensible man that he is tried to diffuse the situation by being calm and patient and not losing his temper. Way to go Boris!! Having migrated to the US, trust me, we are subject to discrimination but if we show them that we are good people, we prevail and succeed!!!!🎉🎉

  • @robinanavallo1200
    @robinanavallo1200 Рік тому +3

    ka stress nman mga tao na yan sis, buti na lang di nyo pinatulan. god bless po

    • @islandlifebd
      @islandlifebd  Рік тому +4

      Mga lasing po kasi, buti nalang po kalmado po asawa ko. Palaban pa naman tayong mga pinay😄. Thank you for watching po, Godbless❤️

  • @curtisgregory517
    @curtisgregory517 Рік тому +14

    Sadly, here in the USA many are this way, but they are two-faced, a big smile to you, they will make you think they like you, then when out of your view they speak and do things against you. they are very cunning and know how to use this very effectively, leaving no evidence of their actions.

    • @eileenwu5049
      @eileenwu5049 Рік тому

      Hahahaha

    • @curtisgregory517
      @curtisgregory517 Рік тому +1

      @@eileenwu5049 ?❓😀

    • @DQ_Forever
      @DQ_Forever Рік тому +1

      Most people in the USA are not racist. It is normal and very common to have people from all countries. Only certain people, especially in the South, can be racist.

  • @maximilianc9897
    @maximilianc9897 Рік тому +8

    Hmmm…the women were drunk but it seemed like they were looking after your best interest.
    It sounded very offensive to you being married to your man but it would not be uncommon for Europeans ,or other caucasians for that matter, to abuse asian women or other women outside their race.
    I am sad that this happened to you as it transpired on the video.
    My take watching it was they were only concerned about your well-being and yes…they were drunk.

  • @sharimahigab1292
    @sharimahigab1292 Рік тому +1

    It was good you stood up for yourself. You showed them you are strong. You didn’t back down. Bravo

  • @charth777
    @charth777 Рік тому +4

    Sorry to see this awkward situation. Glad these two women moved out! Take care always!

  • @m3Lnavigator
    @m3Lnavigator Рік тому +1

    Kabayan be strong kamuntik ka na magwala mabuti na control mo pa din basta tandaan mo lang kapag nasa ibang bansa huwag ka mauna mamisikal pero kapag sila nauna manakit natural lang na depensahan mo sarili mo. Pero kung salitaan lang hayaan mo na or kung naiintidihan mo wika nila makipag salitaan ka din basta walang pisikalan. Ganyan talaga sa ibang bansa lahat ng OFWs at ibang turistang Pinoy nakararanas ng ganyan. Pagpasensyahan mo na lang hanggat kaya.

  • @marinazolotova-basa
    @marinazolotova-basa Рік тому +17

    Such a shame :(( I am so sorry you experienced that in Russia 🙏🏻

    • @islandlifebd
      @islandlifebd  Рік тому +1

      Thank you very much Marina😊

    • @Ymanntronics
      @Ymanntronics Рік тому +4

      That could happen in any country. It was a bad day for the couple, but I still believe that those 2 women do not represent the characteistics of the Russian people. Warm regards from a Filipino-German in 🇩🇪

    • @islandlifebd
      @islandlifebd  Рік тому +3

      @@Ymanntronics we have actually many Russian friends and they are so nice and made me feel welcome🥰.

    • @myrahnaif3163
      @myrahnaif3163 Рік тому +1

      Also in Philippines it happened

    • @analizaespiritu3965
      @analizaespiritu3965 Рік тому

      Knowing that the two women are in their seniorities.meaning they should respect other people whatever race it is but still the couple seems they still do respect the two women despite what rudity their attitude is.

  • @mykodack
    @mykodack Рік тому +2

    No one deserves to be treated like that .. I am so proud of your husband for protecting you .. good man

  • @tinggotmey152
    @tinggotmey152 Рік тому +3

    Yes we are so nice but once they push buttons it becomes too much. We can't hold our anger or emotion.. We filipinos are not used to that . Discrimination and just racism. . If they act like that for a long time its hard not to react. We're not used to it bc we don't come across alot of that in our country. your husband has so much patience. Kudos to him .and to the man who defended you both.

  • @rodalynrarogal8803
    @rodalynrarogal8803 Рік тому +3

    Rudeness in people is really devastating once you yelp for defense you lose. Put em aside in diplomacy &silence & they lose everything.

  • @beatricealbo6385
    @beatricealbo6385 Рік тому +2

    YOUR HUSBAND IS A GOOD MAN !!! LOVE HIM & KEEP HIM FOREVER IN UR LIFE ! GOD BLESS YOU BOTH !

  • @AContinentplusACountry
    @AContinentplusACountry Рік тому +3

    Ahhh…
    HUMANS: good or bad
    It’s too bad & too sad this happened. It’s heartbreaking & disgusting!💔😡
    For as long as we walk the grounds of this wonderful earth… there is no guarantee that this kind of ugly behavior(s) will go away.
    One goes out & another comes in.
    Say a prayer for the nasties that one day they may see the light of righteousness.
    Your cool demeanor how you handled the situation showed your true, good, polished human character.👍🏼👍🏼
    God bless you both & your families.
    ❤️🙏🏼&✌🏼🌏

  • @jacksonj3082
    @jacksonj3082 Рік тому +11

    Dear Darlene - I think you are a very brave person and willing to take responsibilities to help your family. Maybe I am wrong, but I might have an idea why you were so upset and angry when those very distasteful women on the train insinuated that you were a massage girl. Seeing your videos that your moved to Malaysia to help your family. And seeing you at your home, you likely grew up under challenging conditions - nevertheless I reckon you made the best of the situation and that you and your family did your best to put food on the table and help you get to where you are today. It is amazing that you became the main provider helping to send your sisters to go to university.
    No doubt, others in similar condition in the Philippines (and Thailand and many other countries) might have choose a different path, to work in the entertainment and sex industry to survive - which is nothing to be ashamed about. But, and I am guessing, maybe you did your best to avoid that type of life. So when those terrible women thought you were a massage girl, it must have caused a reaction in you because you have worked hard to have a different life. Don't worry about what those stupid women said, and don't worry if people think you are from the entertainment industry - you are a GOOD person. And people who work in the entertainment and sex industry only do so to get ahead, to survive and help their families - that is totally OK too and they are also good people.
    Please just concentrate on your new life with your husband and continue to do your best, I know you will find happiness ! You are an intelligent, good, and hard working person and I am proud of you. Please know unfortunately that there are cruel people all over the world , as an Asian living in the US I have experienced racism since I was a child and though I still find racism towards me painful, I have learned to look the other way - it is not worth violence and anger. Keep being a good person that you are, you will do fine. You have incredible wealth in a lovely family - I envy you. An admirer of yours and your family from the US. 😀

  • @maryjanebaldoz5359
    @maryjanebaldoz5359 Рік тому +14

    If they want to be respected, they must know how to respect others.
    #LabyooBhexst 😘😘😘😘

    • @islandlifebd
      @islandlifebd  Рік тому +1

      Kalahi ba naman ni manny paquiao ang kinanti nila🤣🤣
      Labyooomore😘

    • @Vladimir_Rus
      @Vladimir_Rus Рік тому +1

      @@islandlifebd 😄

    • @snowdogthewolf
      @snowdogthewolf Рік тому +1

      Respect others... yes. INVADE! It's the Russian way.

    • @biljanacvjetinovic6204
      @biljanacvjetinovic6204 Рік тому

      @@snowdogthewolf shut up!!!

    • @snowdogthewolf
      @snowdogthewolf Рік тому +1

      @@biljanacvjetinovic6204 Butthurt easily, do ya? 😆 woof!

  • @sadeivillegas7627
    @sadeivillegas7627 Рік тому +2

    I experience the same, my husband reported it to the Police, I was really offended when a group of teenagers mistaken me as a Chinese and told me that I brought the Virus in the country.

  • @User5260jo
    @User5260jo Рік тому +2

    That really escalated into something chaotic. It is hard to deal with people that have alcohol in their system. Security should have moved them far away from you.

  • @ladyesther3400
    @ladyesther3400 Рік тому +1

    I commend your husband for his dedication to preserve the history of his homeland or city. Such tasks would require a lot of money. What your husband needs is a philanthropist who supports the same ideology. I can see your husband has great ideas of putting a god-forsaken city in a road map. Such may not work in his birthplace but I am sure there are other places who would be open to his great ideas - where he would find like-minded people. For now, you have a great UA-cam channel with great island lives content. For now, learn to monetize your UA-cam channel. Who knows you & your husband will be able to raise the funds he needs for whatever advocacy he chooses. Your mother-in-law is a strong woman, very kind with beautiful demeanor, as beautiful as she is. I pray the simplicity of island life will keep them happy and fulfilled. God bless!

  • @themediterraneanguy
    @themediterraneanguy Рік тому +2

    Stay strong , stay together. Unity overcomes hardship , love conquers discrimination. GOD BLESS

  • @jhanepashkova6524
    @jhanepashkova6524 Рік тому

    Yes I agree I encounter that one when I delivered my son ,especially if you can’t speak there language i am trumatized until now even it’s 1 year already has gone.the nurse the woman in my room and the cleaner the server of food in that hospital.it’s really a nightmare for me.

  • @deemoonmarstar6801
    @deemoonmarstar6801 Рік тому +1

    I also can relate to that, the important thing Is ur husband is there to protect u, we cannot control how people feels in some type of way towards us. Basta anjan Lang si hubby u that's all that matters

  • @teodorojaranilla5008
    @teodorojaranilla5008 Рік тому

    wow...what a day in the train...but it showed also how good it is that DARLENE has a kind, protective husband , Boris...we FILIPINOS thank you ..Darlene ...you are the BEST...no wonder you are loved!!

  • @ellamae6360
    @ellamae6360 Рік тому +5

    The women are actually worried that you are being trafficked or used. Wag kayo magalit sa kanila. Concerned lang. Kung lasing mahirap kausapin.

    • @Lgu807
      @Lgu807 Рік тому +1

      Yeah parang ganon ang pa ka intindi ko

    • @user-io9wx8lw9x
      @user-io9wx8lw9x Рік тому +2

      Exactly! uso kc yan Kahit saang bansa yung papakasalan at dadalhin sa ibang bansa then binebenta pala online Lalo mga bata pang babe. Concern itong mga Russian woman kc nakita nila bata pa c Darlene at Mukhang inosente.

  • @giosdad925
    @giosdad925 Рік тому +1

    Your a badass lol. My wife is Philippina also, she's a firecracker like you too. Good for you standing your ground !

  • @christinezander7723
    @christinezander7723 Рік тому

    So Calm nang Husband mo. asawa ko incounter sa ganyan.laki nang boses :) hehe

  • @NiniBunini88
    @NiniBunini88 Рік тому +1

    Lakas ng trip nang dalawang babae .. very good to your husband that he kept so calm (but your reaction emotionally was understandable)
    and ended up the two women to the police 👍 (from Paris)

  • @filipinamoroccanfamily
    @filipinamoroccanfamily Рік тому +5

    I'm so sad with what those people are talking about you. It was a very bad experienced. Stay blessed

  • @coffeecrave7780
    @coffeecrave7780 Рік тому +3

    I salute your braveness! For all the uncertainty of traveling and life awaits, I can see in you two how resilient you give back. Praying for wonderful and peaceful life ahead to your new life in the Philippines.

  • @julieann2546
    @julieann2546 Рік тому

    Hello guys🙋‍♀️I'm one of your silent viewers/subs/fan 5months ago and I feel your disappointment 😞 keep rolling guys🤜🏾🤛

  • @solidbanjobanjo9367
    @solidbanjobanjo9367 4 місяці тому

    This video was wild! Haha was not expecting this!

  • @merlinduan
    @merlinduan Рік тому

    Tamsak done sissy koy thanks for sharing full whatching in support tamsak done

  • @Zanna_pr
    @Zanna_pr Рік тому +3

    у Бориса какая-то особенность есть - то стычки с казаками,то конфликты с женщинами....Бывают такие люди. Борис,я желаю Вам понять себя,Бог Вам в помощь!

    • @BermetChynybek
      @BermetChynybek 10 місяців тому

      Вы дура или прикидываетесь дурой? Он в любой ситуации поступает правильно и борется за справедливость.

  • @dcotsosigman9261
    @dcotsosigman9261 Рік тому

    I feel so bad and sad for what had happen for you. Unfortunately, it is humiliating really for us Filipino when some foreign people say that to our face. Like you , I would cry from being insulted and angry that I cant talk back ( language barrier ) and express my anger even if we want to pull her hair and slap her face hard! self control. Still, I'm thanking some Russian people around you, they are good and authorities takes care the situation in a peaceful manner. Thank God. Anyway, I am glad you are able to be back home in Philippines together with your husband and mom-in-law. Take care and God bless your family.

  • @victormina7438
    @victormina7438 Рік тому

    I know your youtube chanel will grow, so more videos please. and dont be shy

  • @youngmaui7008
    @youngmaui7008 Рік тому +6

    Beautiful couple 🇷🇺🇵🇭

  • @MrBukrat
    @MrBukrat Рік тому +2

    Your husband handled it very well ..

  • @janebangkok1
    @janebangkok1 Рік тому +6

    Actually, the 2 women are concerned on your safety thinking you are a victim of your husband hehe. Your husband was the one discriminated as being involved on prostitution. I dont know why he didnt say you are married thats why those women created a scene.

  • @atejingldrcoach
    @atejingldrcoach Рік тому +2

    Girl they are not descriminating you and no one does it to you, in this video.
    In fact, its you who are insulting them by calling them bitch while they are just trying to have conversation with you because they are concern of you.
    They might be drunk and noisy but they are harmless. They might be loud but they are not creating trouble, its your husband who are creating trouble for aiming that camera to them without permission and its you who are escalating it by calling them names that they probably dont deserve. Practice respect when you are here in Russia, people here are kind and warm hearted. They might be not smiley people but they are friendly.
    Specially, dont be easily angry when you dont really understand the situation and what they are saying.
    Dont spread false accusation about Russians. Dont spread hate towards them because they are good people, might not all but not this sitaution in your video.
    Sorry, Im also a filipina but I cant be in your side in this situation. Its you who are descriminating them and not they to you.
    Next time, try to be patient specially when you dont understand at all.

  • @robertmochary5051
    @robertmochary5051 Рік тому

    Here i'm your new Subscriber❤❤❤

  • @LutscheLumpia
    @LutscheLumpia Рік тому +6

    Я не вижу никакой дискриминации в этом видео, очевидно, что если муж беспокоился о том, что его жена находится в России, он должен был научить ее языку, потому что эти местные женщины пытались сказать Дарлин уважать себя, а не этого мужчину. Мужчина на самом деле снимал незнакомцев без их согласия, а затем очень быстро обострил ситуацию. Филиппинка, которая не понимала всего разговора, обиделась, а затем внезапно стала агрессивной, называя незнакомцев «Сука» и «Bitch», готовая к нападению, была классическим способом увидеть ее истинное отношение в подобной ситуации.

    • @junlab2612
      @junlab2612 Рік тому +1

      thats not discrimination, thats humiliation... like what they did to Ukraine

  • @evildisaster8149
    @evildisaster8149 Рік тому +5

    Hi, i'm a fan and a subscriber from cebu. I love your vlogs especially how you tell your story.
    We love you both and your families.
    By the way. Good thing that you let your anger out by crying, i know how you feel. You are on the brink of hurting those drunk babushka or even worse.
    Filipina's are so kind, caring and gentle, but don't make a mistake by abusing their kindness. Inflicting harm or butchering a life is natural to us Filipinos.
    We get addicted when we start taking a life. For me, i feel nothing and go in the dark when I start to inflict pain or wound my enemy, it was like I wanted to inflict more and giggling about it. When my vision starts to get dim and my hearing seems to get quite deaf because of anger. That's the sign. Just breathe in and breathe out, don't let the darkness overtake our body.

  • @wonder2394
    @wonder2394 Рік тому +3

    I'm proud to be a Filipino...if ever I will be born again I still want to be a Filipino.

  • @g.b.5206
    @g.b.5206 Рік тому +2

    I'm merged to a Filippina for almost 30 years, they are great people and loving friend if you respect them they will go out of their way to help, Russians have lived a life of struggle and unhappiness very different from Philippine that are always happy

  • @gerarddelacruz2045
    @gerarddelacruz2045 Рік тому +3

    I’m glad you fought back , We Filipinos do not stand for oppression , I live in US , Russians I know do not act that way , I’m sure you can attest to that for you are married to a good Russian man, unfortunately ignorance runs in all clots . Ingat ka sa journey mo Ate

    • @accountdeleted582
      @accountdeleted582 Рік тому

      Both of the ladies are drunk
      They are not in their senses