"We Can Always Tell if You're Transgender"
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- Опубліковано 6 лют 2023
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Many people say you can discern someone's biological sex from their features, but these same people often hold transphobic beliefs. Is what they say true? - Розваги
these "transvestigators" are insane. literally tweeting pictures of strangers and children saying that they're actually trans.
They're a QAnon branch.
Never forget Rowling herself was accused of being trans.
@@junjunjamore7735 good considering the horrible stuff they said i think its a funny irony
Transphobs, SAVE THE CHILDREN, also them when they see a girl with 0.0000019% of a masculine feature
"THAT CHILD IN A DRESS MUST HAVE A PENUS" yeah as if the transmen and transwomen just trying to live there life are the weirdos
That's how you can tell someone has way too much time on their hands
Reminds me of the time my bf posted a pic of us on social media and got a nasty comment that said (im paraphrasing), in reference to me in the picture, "YOU'LL NEVER BE A WOMAN. YOU'RE OBVIOUSLY A MAN. GIVE UP!" ... I am a trans guy. I was born female. This horrible transphobic comment was actually one of the most affirming things I ever read, especially because I hadn't been on hormones for very long
God I love when that happens. Transphobes can be so fucking clueless, and they out themselves as desperate contrarians.
Accidental Ally Moment
Passing so well you made the transphobe’s brain malfunction 😂❤
Lmfao they’re so confused 😭
Dkpxfneodhocntvsj they hated so hard they came around full circle im weepinggg 🤣🤣💀
I saw this with Nikkie Tutorials. Everyone knew her as a woman but when she came out as a trans woman ONLY because she was blackmailed to do so, there were people who kept calling her a man. It's crazy
she started transitioning before puberty too so like...
@@TheFiteShow Exactly it is PURE transphobia to bring her down when she looks and is a woman
I remember when she came out, so many people were saying, "They already knew." Seriously hate when people do that.
@@roymantic1833 He's not a woman though🤦♀️he's a eunuch who was abused as a child via conversion therapy. A castrated man is not a woman. Women are born, not worn. We are not a costume men can put on and take off at will. There is nothing wrong with feminine men and I'm sick to death of people believing that a feminine man can be a woman.
@@EC-yw5hg My point exactly. Why would parents convert their child themselves? Identities aren't costumes they are reality. It's not something trans people put off and take on, you're thinking of drag. A feminine man is a feminine man, its trans women knowing that they are women deep down and becoming that in an outward appearance and as a social, spiritual and emotional journey inward.
A decent, non-toxic man is always at risk of being labeled by other (mostly) men as a p-word, f-slur, gay and now, trans... as if that's an insult
Lmao, keep rocking, Tolppi!
You are deluding yourself with that no true scotsman.
P-word? Lol
@@shanebodendorf4793 Super secure people need Mega Corporations to censor specific words, though you can just use 1337 5p34k to get around it like this
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@@shanebodendorf4793 female genitals
@@MartinMartin-bh4ke You need review the no true Scotsman fallacy. Not trying to be rude, that's just not what this comment is.
I'll never forget the time someone replied to one of those clocking guys with a picture of JK Rowling and he immediately assumed she was trans
A guy called me a woman once cause he thought that me defending transmen meant I'm a trans man and tried pointing out my Womanly traits in my profile picture
I'm a pre transition transwoman lmao
@@Mae_Dastardly the classic accidental ally moment lol
@@riccardozanoni2531 Truly, sadly he didn't reply to me after I hit him with that so I didnt get to watch him backpeddal about how manly and buff I am and how chadlike my square jawline is and how I'll never be a real wamman
@@Mae_Dastardly that's unfortunate🤣it's always fun to see how they recover from the shock
Lol I didn't know about that one!
"We are not transpohbic!! We just want to protect rEaL wOmEn" **proceeds to harass cis women that are tall or have wide shoulders**
And that are more hairy than several men as me
People who say that are also the ones making restrooms unsafe. How ironic
r/thathappened
@@EC-yw5hg yeah it does
@@EC-yw5hg It does, constantly. Obviously you won't see it in your daily life because most people aren't as crazy as terfs but it does happen
A lunatic on Reddit once told me that I’d “never be a real woman” because he went through my post history, found a picture of me in the hospital with blue hair at the time and decided that I must be having bottom surgery done. I was 16 and had a biopsy because of an enlarged testicle that could’ve been cancer (fortunately it wasn’t, just inflamed from an infection). You could literally a.) be a minor and b.) have clinically massive balls and people will still purposely try and incorrectly mistender you to “win” an argument
clinically massive balls had me laughing my ass off
a person on the internet making a claim about a person on the internet doing something claimed to be immoral and a little weird.
Is your point: "there are crazy people" or are you trying to say Robert is right for attempting to undermine criticism of critical gender theory with a video wholly based on guilt by association?
@@internetperson. Projecting obsessiveness on others while transgenderism is the obsession over a person's own secondary sexual characteristics is a bit odd.
@@MartinMartin-bh4ke
Oof. I see now. You ARE starting arguments on purpose. Have fun fapping, i guess.
@@beetlebob4675 You followed me here from another video, sink in that let.
If your transphobia gives you such a flawed perspective on sexual dimorphism that a cis man with a high voice or a cis woman with strong jaw poses a threat to it, then maybe there's not a lot to your transphobia.
I don't think Humanity understand themselves that much, women do have hairy legs just like men but they CHOOSE to shave it and some people thought it's one of women's trait which it's not true at all.
Hairy legs is caused by gene which the dad is responsible.
@@I_Dont_Believe_In_Salad ...I have no idea if that's true or not but if it is, when I expire I'm gonna have to go thank my dad for giving me such gender-affirming thick dark leg hair, as a trans dude.
When I was a kid I was physically pushed out of the girls restroom because they assumed I was a boy on account of my short hair at the time. It was so traumatic and embarrassing I didn’t use public restrooms almost until I went to college.
In recent years, because of the rise in transphobic rhetoric, people are starting to accost me in public restrooms again. Asking me “what are you doing here?” Kids asking their parents “Is that a boy?” Older women saying to me “this is the women’s restroom, you need to leave.”
I’m AFAB and I have longer hair now, but I dress masculine and have more masculine facial features apparently.
But that shouldn’t matter.
People shouldn’t harass people in bathrooms. TERFS make bathrooms unsafe for women. Always has been TERFS and they’re so delusional to think it’s any other way.
Cis woman are more likely to be assaulted since terfs declared their senseless bathroom war. Ironic
They use protection of woman as a false flag. All they are after is hurting trans people but they're hurting more than just these.
@lemonssssssss4 what is gncphobia ? If that's the 'fear'(hate) of nonbinaries,, that's still transphobia cuz they r still trans
I have a flat chest, a wide jaw and with a pixie cut, im often confused as a man too. Ive been reported to hr over ‘mixed signals’, using the wrong restroom, inappropriate dress (men cant wear skirts i guess?), and so on.
I wish people would leave everyone alone. Our genitals arent their business 🤦♀️
No such thing as a terf. Only males make bathrooms unsafe for women. Males are the ones who harass women when they’re vulnerable. Blaming women for this makes you a misogynist.
Not gonna lie, that's one reason I don't want short hair. I prefer masculine clothes, they fit me better (my shoulders are wider making dress shirts harder to fit, and my waist isn't that much smaller than my hips). At least with my hair that's the one thing people use to justify me being in feminine spaces. And I guess my voice. I sing tenor, but apparently my talking voice is more feminine. I've heard a lot of people say, "you're just a tomboy," or "be a masculine woman, not trans," and it's a lot deeper than they think. People do still have some negativity around how someone expresses themself, and they seem to have a hard time when someone doesn't neatly fit into one of two boxes. When reality isn't that simple.
I am also cis and have been repeatedly misgendered in the same exact way. I am a woman with no real curves that are stereotypically feminine, and many have asked if I'm trans because of this (idk this is the reason they give me when they find out they're wrong) the thing is when people "ask" if you are trans, it comes across more like an aggressive accusation most of the time. Yes while they are still "only asking", I'm always treated like I'm doing something wrong until I reveal I am in fact, not trans. It makes me incredibly disheartened when this happens because what if I was trans? There is no "out" so to speak in that kind of encounter, and it's extremely dangerous.
This would make me horribly anxious! And this also is something I never eyperiences, this is scary!
The fact that this is even something people find to be okay to ask someone is a huge issue on its own. I'm sorry that the people in your life are such garbage people. ❤❤
I've been misgendered simply for being a cis woman who is taller than average. It just shows how ignorant transphobes are. If you don't fit into their narrow-minded view of gender then you are CLEARLY trans. There can't be cis people that don't fit into their little boxes because then their entire world view falls apart.
Come on they just want to know your genitalia, and they are upset they don't know at the first look if they would have sex with you. there is nothing weird about it. /s
While I never heard any bad stories, my mother said she would get mistaken as trans all the time. She’s a really tall woman, with curves, big hands and feet with strong calluses, and a pronounced jaw and big forehead, though this has never stopped her from getting any attention or compliments. I’m born male, and I have long hair, and a voluptuous lower body, ive been called ma’am from behind many times. The whole “we can always tell” is always so silly to me.
I recently had someone tell me that I’ll never be a real woman. No explanation as to why they think I’m trans whatsoever. I ended up telling them that I needed to have an awkward conversation with my gynecologist in response. Granted, I’m not 100% cis, but I’m still comfortable with being called a woman. And I am AFAB.
same i don't identify with any gender but being called "she" doesn't bother me, and when some obvious trabsphope implies that i was amab im not about to explain that i'm nb. but if literally had ppl (usually men) suspect that i'm trans. because i'm tall, thin, and have a deep voice. and one time when i said "no i'm a woman" he goes "yeah but were you born that way?" like why does it matter 😭😭😭
@@perraterca I’ve also had someone on twitter assume that I was a gay man even though my twitter account has the same username and pfp. Truly a moment in my life.
Sorry but what is AFAB?
@@GOUdamn assigned female at birth
i've had people telling me that because they assumed i was a trans woman- in reality, i'm a trans man on testosterone who just likes presenting in a feminine way most of the time. it's somewhat amusing, but also really annoying.
you can literally show "transvestigators" pictures of any given (cis) person and they'll find "scientific proof" the person is actually trans.
They even accuse each other of being trans whenever they infight lol
I got in an argument with a terf and she thought i was “male” because in my picture apparently i have “a big head” which means to her I was assigned male at birth 💀 im a cis woman
You have a big head to store your big brain.
Am I wrong for thinking you should've headbutted her?
Terfs should just be called what they are this point. Misogynists
Excuse me but, are they implying that only men can have big heads? And that women are like, stupid or something?
thats so funny tho 😂😂i mean they're also convinced that if your ring finger is shorter than your middle finger, you must be a woman, which is how i found out that my dad, a cis man, is actually transgender. don't know how to break it to him 😪
I'm cis, amab, and yet I have an androgynous voice and used to have naturally wide hips, a narrow waist, slim shoulders and a "feminine" (by germanic standards, not even just white) face that used to make me get mistakenly called a woman semi often including sexual harassment by employers targeted at me as if I was a woman. If full grown adult cis men can be mistaken for women, you absolutely can not by default "tell" trans people's gender nor sex by looking at them.
i have an amab friend who has had people call him "sir" and then, mid-conversation, "correct" themselves and say "sorry, miss" for no apparent reason, sure he's a bit stereotypically gay, but if people can be standing face-to-face with someone, speaking to them, and still not know if they're a man, woman, or something else, it's absurd to think you could instantly clock someone from a photo
I'm AFAB, but give me a coat that covers up my chest and don't let me talk and let me have short hair, people think I'm a guy.
It's weird. I can see that I kind of have 'male eyebrows' but....?
I just find it funny me being called "young man/my mother's son" has happened at least twice.
@@Roadent1241 I'm striving for this
@lemonssssssss4 Thick eyebrows, I suppose? I've never made them all dainty like.
@@PGOuma If I could have the voice and choice to be more androgynous, I totally would XD
I'm partway there at least....? XD
I'm intersex & I've been "clocked" as both transfem and transmasc by transphobes. I have no idea how they decide which I am, but it's really obvious they're just desperate to categorize anything aberrant into something they think they understand.
Unfortunately, the constant analysis of my body by strangers has only aggravated the dysphoria I already have due to my condition, and I no longer feel any ownership of the gender I was assigned at birth. The only thing that's helped is to lean further into my androgyny.
I’ve wondered before if I might be intersex in some way and it went undiscovered. I outwardly look pretty female and have female sex organs and breasts, but my voice is deep (and I have a slight adams apple because of this). Deep not in the way most woman with low voices have. When I speak in my natural register I literally sound like a young man. This has lead me to be incorrectly “clocked” a few times. Once when ordering food someone called me “sir” the entire time (tbf I think they incorrectly thought I was a trans man bc I was dressed masculine that day, and were intending to be kind, but it was pretty bold to make that assumption).
@@rosalina2773 If you suspect you may be, I suggest starting by getting your hormone levels checked by a doctor! It's just a matter of some quick blood work and is well worth it, IMO, if only to figure out what's going on with your body.
I'm an hermaphrodite and get those looks quite often, so I just like to mess with them on purpose (it's so much fun!). I'm proud of identifying as my birth sex & I would never give that up for anything :)
@@Stennifer I'm glad for you, that's awesome! For me, my experiences have disillusioned me to the whole concept of gender so now I don't think I'm anything, really. I'm just me and I try not to care what other people have to say about it :o)
Don't be discouraged by these people, they literally are some of the dumbest people alive, I'm surprised they survived childhood
It's weird the obsession with it as well, they see trans people everywhere and well overestimate the number of people who are trans. Like Mathew Walsh on the Joe rogan show who said millions of teenagers were on puberty blockers when it was 4,000 over 5 years.
And he knew damn well listeners wouldn't fact check that statement
@@larissabrglum3856 funnily enough, it was so absurd to even joe Rogan, they fact checked it in the show and Matt awkwardly tried to get around it
@@Purplesquigglystripe Oh wow, even Joe called him out!
@Purplesquigglystripe And, unfortunately, in delivering the fact check, they interrupted Matt "girls are most fertile at 16" Walsh saying that he would ban transition for both minors _and_ adults. C'mon, Rogaine, let the fash cook!
@@larissabrglum3856 its funny since Joe is kind of an idiot.
Several times people have told my daughters to leave the girls restroom because they thought they are boys or trans. We’re black so there’s another example. I would love it if people mind their business.
Shave mustaches
Lose weight
@@Jaldric???
@@Jaldric Did you forget to take your schizophrenia meds when you wrote that post?
@@Jaldricwhat
There's a lot of anti-trans hate content that boils my blood or makes me despair for the future, but "trans-vestigators" honestly crack me up. Their content is harmful, don't get me wrong... but at the same time, it's so absurd it feels like satire. I'm agender and was AFAB, but I'm 100% certain they'd label me AMAB no matter what I wore or how I presented myself.
Ooo please tell me what is like to be agender if you don't mind? :o
I wanna know the experience of someone who's agender because I've always been curious about it :D
Are you also experiencing the dysphoria??
@cheese7119 I've heard several conversations with agender people, and a recurring trend is a lack of gender _euphoria._ Amusingly, this sometimes results in the agender person putting up resistance to the notion of binary trans people, because the agender person can't imagine genuinely wanting to partake of a gender role, rather than simply accepting the role they were assigned.
@lemonssssssss4 all in favor of using the prefix trans- to describe changing your mind or lifestyle in literally any way, say aye
yeah i was assigned omnivore at birth but im a transvegetarian now uwu
@@cheese7119 I'll come in with my 5 cents if you don't mind. I've really liked an analogy a particular trans creator made, that being agender is like looking at several scripts people around you have written and not vibing with any of those. None of the pronouns or the gender presentation or whatever resonate with you, really. You just don't want to perform anything, you don't even expect to be perceived as any sex or gender and until you are… like, when I'm alone or mostly with other nb people, I forget that gender or sex is a thing. And then suddenly being addressed by a stranger as a young man/lady (I'm androgynous so I get both occasionally) feels weird, because out of the blue you're reminded that's a thing.
(And you don't understand why is that a thing, beyond theoretical research)
…Are my feelings as I currently identify with agender lable, I hope it makes some sense and doesn't just seem like rambling? 😅
Same.
when i identified as a cis woman i got misgendered and called “he” often, now that i identify as a trans man i get the opposite. you can never make them happy 😭
How about be yourself instead of listening to people? Stupid.
@@I_Dont_Believe_In_Salad i don’t listen to them lol, it still happens to me tho
your fault for having short hair lol
@@nictyphoon9437 how do you know what my hair was like 💀? way to victim blame lmao you’re just proving the videos point that you can never tell by looking at someone 🤷♂️
It just shows that their argument isn't that "they can always tell", it's actually about just wanting to exclude trans people. Otherwise they wouldn't have still misgendered you now that you identify as a trans man. They're just petty and looking for ways and reasons to deny trans people's identity, even if that gets cis people caught in the crossfire.
On the topic of the Lady Gaga example, there's an excellent clip of her brilliantly shutting down Anderson Cooper asking about the rumours in an interview: "So what if I do? My fans don't care and neither do I."
I LOVE that clip!!
Ikr so based the gaga
As a black cis woman who has been mistaken for a man (I think because of my square face and defined jawline), naw. Yall can't tell.
A lot of transphobia is also just racism put into a different context. Like the amount of black women, especially in sports who get accused of being men, is wild. And no one but us, are talking about it.
Awww like my cousin, she also has a very defined jawline. As I, a transwoman have. It doesnt change that im dysphoric about it, though =(
@@celinematerzok6421 and you know what, I bet there are plenty of cis-women with defined jawlines who are very discomforted about it too.
So there's no shame in having features that you don't quite love. Cis or Trans we're all human and we just gotta find reasons to love who we are in regardless!
100% especially when they see me from the back or if I'm wearing baggy or less flattering clothes. Terfs and transphobes made me so insecure back in college bc of the transvestigations. I have broad shoulders, I'm tall, and I have a strong jaw. It's disgusting how often transvestigators use us in their posts. Hell even before the transvestigators existed people were spreading rumors that beyonce, ciara, and michelle obama were trans. It's so pathetic and degrading, yet they claim to wanna protect "females"
If we educated people about intersex, I think this wouldn't be as big of a problem.
Because if we can't tell sex by looking at people's genitals, which we can't, then we can't assume anyone is trans and judge them on that. Many cis women are "masculine" and many cis men are "feminine".
Love the idea, but the problem is the word "educated." Transphobes will go to any length possible to prevent them from learning information that can change their prescribed worldview and opinions.
Yeah, if we're looking at body hair, and facial hair. The vast majority of women have visible facial hair, even blonde women have visible facial hair, it's just slightly less noticeable. If something occurs in the vast majority of the population, surely it is normal? No. Facial hair is only for manly men, and women must pluck, laser, burn, wax, and shave. In fact, for cis women, getting facial hair removed with a laser or electrolysis is covered by insurance because it is considered such a mental burden.
@Anneke Oosterink I stopped doing that bs and I only shave legs and armpits bc I hate it in summer and I sweat a lot. But my facial hair?? Twinning with a male classmate our black mustaches. I literally have almost the same level of hair as him and even chin hair and I don't mean 2 or 3 lost hairs... lol
My legs and armpits are more hairy than many men's I've seen. Even more than my ex and he was hairy 🤣
I'm a lady
It's a nice thought, but I feel like transphobes would either cry about intersex people being an exception that shouldn't be part of this conversation, or lump them into the "other" group they put trans people in, i.e not really seeing them as people.
Whenever you ask anyone what the difference is between the sexes, usually they'll say genitals, but they completely forget that *generally* we don't go around inspecting people's genitals before we determine whether to say "ma'am" or "sir". Individuals got their sex assigned based on genitals, which is still only an assumption that's often but not always in line with their actual gametes (which is the *actual* biological definition of male/female). But that genital-based information is only passed on to others through communication (like saying "this is Mr. Jones" when introducing someone etc.) and isn't inherently visible to strangers. Even names aren't 100% accurate since there are loads of unisex names, and we're not told the name of every stranger we meet in daily life.
TERFs have to concede that in daily life, we make snap judgments based on someone's figure, face, voice, and dress. And literally none of those have no overlap between men and women, so none of those can be used to determine someone's sex with any measure of accuracy. Yet they're entirely unwilling to accept it and claim to know whether someone is a man or a woman in 100% of situations.
when you're so transphobic that you feel the need to use transphobic insults on a cis person 💀💀💀
@Ville_x
You are useless
@Ville damn, 24 comments. You got a crush or something?
@notville_you're so stupid it's actually funny at this point 😂😂
@@jesterdaysoh wow this is actually funny bc I recognize their name from a different video about a drama going on I think the thing about nickisnotgreen and supermega. They have multiple accounts with a similar username and they just troll youtube and act controversial. Literally amazed to see them, small world
Ive been written up for “misconduct” because someone who claimed to be a preacher was REALLY uncomfortable about my gender expression.
My supervisor told me about this (since i was super confused in that hr meeting) and because of my short hair, no makeup (factory job, why tf would i wear it?), and lack of tatas, some people thought i was transitioning (into what, no one was sure).
Yeah, no. Ive had my hooha my whole life. Sorry i dont fit in with the cookie cutter shape of a ‘woman’. The transpanic is really out of hand.
Why did you get written up for misconduct ??
@@jkspami think he annoyed hr enough to kick them into action about it. Probably by using ‘religious beliefs’ as his reason or made something up?
Either way, i learned that HR doesnt actually give a crap about employees or the discrimination laws.
as a trans guy i'm using that TERF social media app's gender verification process to confirm if i look like a man the second after i go into hormones and under the knife
:D
Please report back to us!
idk maybe u shouldn't let terf technology scan ur face, who knows if they keep the photos u give them or what. stay safe my guy
“We can always tell” yeah right buddy, before even I knew I was a trans man strangers would refer to me as sir in the street 🤷♂️
The idea that trans men are confused women and trans women are male predators is very telling about how these people view the world, and quite frankly, gross
In college, people would sometimes think I was a woman from behind, and call me "ma'am" or rush to open a door for me.
The funny thing is that they were correct, I am a woman. I just hadn't realized it yet. (Although it should have been a hint that I never felt insulted at being mistaken for a woman; it always gave me a bit of euphoria.)
Shave mustache lose weight
I was called a man in high school a lot, either by mistake or as a joke, ironically those interactions were what inspired me to sit down and really think through my identity and presentation and realize “hey y’know what maybe I AM a man”
same but the other way around, I've been ''mistaken'' for a woman countless of times before I knew I was trans. Well turns out they weren't mistaken at all, but yeah lol.
Sorry if long and off topic wanted to add
Also misogynistic asf like why are they acting like afab transmascs are somehow stupider and they get so easily influenced and dont think like bffr its so hard to get hrt and support if transmen were stupid there wldnt be underground circles where they help each other get access to what they need. They also act like amab transfems are somehow predatory for wanting to be seen for a group of people who claim to be fighting to protect women they love to suck up to ideas abt genders derived from bio essentialism that was devised to excuse sexism against women and for men to be let go scott free for their transgressions, but done in a terfy "role reversal" way that casts amab people regardless of gender and status in a horrendous light. Horrible.
These conversations always remind me of my biological anthropology professor telling us, “even if you have the skull and the pelvis you may not be able to determine sex because there’s a fair amount of overlap.”
And transphobes will just lie and claim you can sex a skeleton with 100% accuracy.
@@electronics-girl and then tell you exactly when their last biology class was ie. ‘it’s seventh grade biology’
When I was in middle school there was a boy who was absolutely convinced that I was "a boy pretending to be a girl". I was a bit of a late bloomer, and I happen to have a pubic bone that sticks out. I also have pretty square facial features. He would point those out to me as "proof", but like... at the time I was just a prepubescent girl who was AFAB.
I can relate. I was not particularly considered pretty or popular, so rumours would spread that I was secretly a boy. The proof? I was also a late bloomer and had a semi-prominent Adam's apple. People would try to make me look up, so they could check my throat. It was wild.
Great points. As a girl, I was always confused as to why the boys around me would make fun of each other saying things like "You run like a girl!" Why is that the ultimate insult???
I was always two steps ahead of them by simply never running
smh kids cant tell what a joke is and get offended nice 2023
@@nictyphoon9437 you tell jokes like a girl
@@nictyphoon9437 no, we can tell it's meant to be a joke. It's just not a funny one. It's one that always implied women are lesser then, so being anything like a woman, is a lesser then and a mockery.
Boys from a young age are taught that, and that's what's fucked up. They aren't taught women and men are equals. It shows through their 'jokes'.
@Kirsten Gregory despite how equal men and women are you can't deny that when it comes to physical prowess men hold the advantage. This means a boy calling another boy weak like a girl is a natural insult.
Claiming to “see gender” is absolutely nuts. So many people need to mind their own business. I’m not trans but I’ve had people thinking I’m trans because my shoulders are broad. ANYONE can have broad shoulders!
Definitely. Since i started gym passed from what would be pear form to rectangle form. And I'll end with upside down triangle form bc I plan to spend many gym yrs
I'm a girl to clarify
Now you have me imagining the kid from the Sixth Sense saying, "I see trans people."
Funny thing is they're truthful, YOU CAN in fact "see gender" but they doing it in the most stupid way because they're Hateful.
Next time you spotted a man that look like a girl, i suggest you to look if he have Adam's apple.
Stupid
@@electronics-girl okay, this cracked me up good lol
In high school I was often insulted with various slurs for gay men. Thing is, I am a straight man and I dated a cis woman for most of high school. Many of my friends were gay and/or trans, so I was “guilty by association”. It was always baffling to me, but I’m glad I got to take a bit of the heat without my identity being assaulted.
lots of "we can always tell" logic is rooted in white physicality standards and tends to always have a racist edge to it, see cis women athletes from namibia getting banned from competing in the olympics, see those weirdos in the comments of any video of a black woman (cis or trans regardless) pointing out normal human features and proclaiming that "they're secretly a man, trying to trick you" its all caught up in long history of emasculation/othering of black women but with a strange transphobic and obsessive twist to it, and i think part of it stems from the irrational fear that trans women exist to "trick men into being attracted to them and thus being gay" which is ultimately tied to the larger issue of toxic masculinity mentioned in the video, its an inherently racist, delusional and misogynistic mindset alongside the more obvious transphobia
These people are such weirdos. "I can always tell if someone is transgender" then they go on Lady Gaga's Instagram and scream that she's actually "a man" even though she isn't and is a cis women. Istg transphobes are obsessed with trans people
You hit the nail on the head pretty much
THANK YOU, the racism aspect gets overlooked sm and it irks me to no end
Yes that burns my skin like y’all don’t know them
I know there's a lot of pressure on ethnic minorities to look more strongly gendered at times. Black women I know often go more into the hyperfeminine side to express their gender, while some I know that tend to prefer more androgyny often get hate or misgendered for it, a lot more than I do even though we wear similar things and have similar physical traits other than skin colour and hair texture. Skin colour does not have a gender, and it's not fair to those who have darker skin to somehow see them as more masculine. Same with a lot of indigenous Canadians (likely those in other parts of the Americas as well). The men traditionally have long hair with little to no facial hair, and tend to be seen as more feminine for it, as well as wearing bright colours and ribbons which the Europeans often saw as too showy. The language spoken in my area before French and English has non gendered pronouns, and there seems to be a lot more diversity in how they think about gender in terms of spirituality as well. All those different and beautiful expressions of humanity get lost in whatever the English deemed socially acceptable (which mirrors my own family rather closely as my English relatives are a lot more strict and usually the ones to try and make me fit gender roles).
I'm a ciswoman who has been accused of being trans too. It doesn't bother me but these ppl have no clue how to correctly gender *anyone*
You should meet a transgender "woman" in real life and take a selfie then post it online, see if your Straight Male friends can't tell.
@@MartinMartin-bh4ke you'd be suprised by how many trans women you met who you didn't know where trans. And even if you can tell, so what?
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The more comments of yours i read, the more you sound like you have a middle schooll level education at best.
Shave your mustache
@@kenny995 i just won’t date them or let them take care of my kids otherwise yea live your best life just don’t confuse my kids 😅
I knew just by the title what people you were talking about.
As a trans woman who naturally passes very well, no one thinks that and people don’t care. I legally have a males name and people still don’t think I’m trans. And they’re confused about that. Normal people don’t even think to ask.
But I come on the internet only to be gaslit by transphobes who tell me I what my experiences are and that I’m crazy. People like that are normally on discord severs and forums to point “trans suspected” peoples masculine or feminine traits. Is kinda psychotic.
Probably true. I'm pretty average, assigned female and also feel female, so things were comvenient for me. I don't have a trans friend, because I haven't met many trans people in general, but people that discuss transgenders and how we can see the sex in people etc., Of these people I have met many, and I have yet to meet s person that is nasty because of the guessed pronoun. So it's interesting how we almost created this boogieman for trans people from thin air.
Wild to hear you also pass w your dead name with little question. Real life every day as a trans person is normal like everyone else's, just becoming more nerve-wracking.
The thing that worries me about this hyperactive paranoid transphobia online is that it's immediately unsafe (The internet? Safe? Ha) for not even just trans people, which then sends a message that trans or androgynous people are in danger. Worries me that it will bleed even worse into the real world. People are scared, anxious and trying to get by.
Online isn't real
Goodluck
Transgenderism is just Body identity integrity disorder focused on the secondary sexual characterstics.
@@parkerbrown1356
This is so true, trans and androgynous people are definitely at risk, even cis women. I’ve heard a story about a butch woman who was kicked out of a lesbian bar bc they thought she was a trans woman. It’s all crazy to think these hyper active perceptions of what gender/sex is supposed to look like and how it’s supposed to be expressed can effect all types of people instead of just actual trans identified people (which might already be happening with beauty standards and platform surgery)
it really is mass enforced psychosis :/
the earliest i remember seeing this happen was with Michelle Obama
The interesting thing about that one, is that black women have for the longest time ALWAYS been accused of secretly being "men in drag" particular from white crowds. When we think of the way we code "man" and "woman" there is a lot of racism hidden in there as well. And TERF's especially, use idealized white features as their basis for determining peoples gender.
It's like Jammi dodger getting "you'll never be a real woman" comments, because they assume he's a pre-transition trans woman 🤦♀️
I commented under a Blair White video where Blair was being particularly heavy handed with her casual transphobia, marginalizing every other trans person that does not fit perfectly into the binary boxes her audience demands. Though they truly only support conventionally attractive Blaire and their support stops with her. Anyway, I was SWARMED by her "fans" ironically calling me a transohobe while they went back and forth with each other making pretty vile jokes about my Adam's apple. Which, like, I don't care because there's nothing wrong with being a trans person or having an Adam's apple. But her fans certainly use the term "trans" as an insult and she knowingly gives them a pass to remain hateful towards transgender people who either lack resources to have gender-affirming surgeries/care or have no desire to present themselves within the traditional binary constructs. I just cannot understand the absolute obsession some people have with any other person's gender or identity. Honestly it's quite sad that their world view is so small and rigid. Completely incapable of looking past their own biases and prejudices towards "others" to see their shared humanity. They'll never have any meaningful connections with others because they're too afraid to be vulnerable and look any deeper within themselves. At least imo. They don't afford themselves the room to emotionally grow and evolve therefore they cannot grow and evolve. It's a whole hateful ignorance cycle.
Their worldview is small and rigid and they are depressed and miserable. No one cares so much about the personal lives of others if their own life is happy.
For me I was raised in a very cruel chaotic household. My folks would like try to one each other up on who could hurt us worse. Sometimes their parents would stay with us, and they always seemed ok compared to what us kids were put through. I’d hear about other cousins or aunties I’d never be allowed to meet who were trans and getting married or something nice. I brought up I was trans when I was very young, around five, and was beat so badly I didn’t bring it back up until I was 28. The topic would come back up and it would piss our parents off and we’d get punished extra severely for something unrelated.
They now only have one of three kids still in contact with them. All three of us are trans and queer. It sucks, like, it’s just a wad of pain that we gotta deal with knocking around in our heads while we read all these hate comments and lament on all these anti trans laws.
God the adam's apple thing is so funny to me- they use it as some sort of "gotcha!" moment, but I've had a super prominent one since _before_ starting T.
In any case, I hope her viewers begin to watch other youtubers as well and broaden their horizon eventually.
Blair white has always been weird to me. Shes a transwoman who actively supports antitrans laws. And she supports people who think transpeople are dillusional and playing makebelief. People who consider her a creep for entering womens bathrooms
And once the trans panic is over and they move onto the next minority, Blair White will be dropped and forgotten about. They are only using her as "The good trans", and once they no longer need that, they'll go back go treating her like they do ever other trans person.
They do this alot with black women, especially if they're darker skinned, like Michelle Obama, Megan thee Stalllion and even Ciara......
Also the athlete that recently got back from Russian prison.
@@Vicky-uv8ri BRITTNEY GRINER, like why do men get so shocked that tall women exist ☠️ or that they can have deep voices
@@ak4me880 Because it kills the centuries old idea of a gender binary. I was in a mixed choir as a young adult and some men got really weird over the altos. Newsflash, cis women can have even deeper voices than cis men. Hell, I'm a cis soproano, there are higher tenors than me!
@@Vicky-uv8ri men when women don’t have soft dainty voices: 😥😓😣☹️
@@Vicky-uv8ri that shit was so funny lowkey 😭 the circumstances so clearly disprove these ppl, do they really think Russia is trans affirming enough to put a trans woman in a women's prison??? RUSSIA????? Where even gay people aren't accepted
got 'accused' of being trans because i have a 'flat chest'. bro i'm 100lbs, sorry for not having massive boobs 😭like am i supposed to look like the gandalf big naturals meme to be allowed in the women's restroom
Don't you know the woman is stored in the tatas!?
They probably watch a lot of anime and thing women can naturally have really big breasts but a skinny body.
Im ftm, but when I was still dressing fem at school, I kept getting kicked out of the restrooms by random teachers. I literally had waist length hair and was wearing a dress. I don't know what these people want 🤷♂️
They mostly just want to antagonize. As long as we exist, they will make up any excuse to try to impede us, lol.
This reminds of Shoe0nhead’s “transvestigation” video where she covers this particular section of the TERF community and reacted to a video someone made about her allegedly being a trans woman and an MK Ultra experiment
This particular brand of TERF is so fascinating to me. They’re so confidently wrong and illogical in their arguments. It makes me wonder how they’ve made it this far in life. How have they not wandered into traffic yet?
They're just your regular QAnon nutcase
Oh wow! I don’t watch shoeonhead much but I know she tends to lean right usually in a “libertarian” way. So it’s interesting she covered this.
@@UdoADHD Shoe's pretty left-leaning, I'd say the only right wing idea she has is not believing in feminism and ignoring a lot of women oriented discrimination. Even then it's not extreme and she doesn't seem to hate women or have insanely unhealthy views of them. She's just ignorant. Otherwise, her ideals are pretty equal.
@@katie5998 Nah she's quite problematic. One of those liberals that might as well be on the right.
@@gaybatgosqueak She's definitely got some problematic views, but as far as trans/gay issues are considered she's pretty inclusive from what I recall. Unless she's changed her views, or I've gravely overlooked something. I'm not a huge fan of her or politics, so I could totally be missing something.
I’m a cis woman with a lil’ Adams Apple, I’m a little nervous with all this weird trans panic that I’ll be harassed for it. I can’t imagine how trans people must feel 😢
That's how i spotted people's genders. Adam's apple.
Humanity is too moronic because they only judge facial features.
@@I_Dont_Believe_In_Salad ? Adams apples aren’t a male organ or something. They’re literally just cartilage covering your voice box. Most men tend to have more prominent ones bc they have larger voice boxes and thus deeper voices, but women can have them too. I have a very low voice for a woman and when I’ve gotten very skinny my adams apple shows up more. I’ve been incorrectly assumed to be trans for it before. Even though besides that nothing about my body or face looks masculine.
Honey. Don't worry, it doesn't happen in real life. These people are making sob stories up to smear those evil, evil, transphobes. Aka any person who disagrees with them.
@@I_Dont_Believe_In_Salad everyone has an adams apple bud
@@presleydunson it comes free with your fucking larynx
I’m a cis gendered female, and I used to constantly defend trans folk on twitter before I got banned, I’ve been told I’d never be a real woman 😭
The funny thing about that, is it's a good reminder that languge of bigotry is really childish. Like as a kid, if you defended/showed support of gay rights, bullies assumed you were gay. So to see adults still using that same logic... is really disapointing, lol.
I was out clubbing in the 1980s, when all of us wore extravagant outfits. Some dude called me a t-slur because I wouldn't dance with him. I thanked him for the compliment and went back to my friends. I'm a cis het woman
physiognomy and phrenology are interesting because I think the search for a "gay gene" is another attempt like this to "read the mind on the body." It seems sound but it's just looking for physical proof of queerness. It is not that simple.
And at some point, it will just delve into racism,stereotypes, and sexism
They're probably searching for a physical gay gene to genetically modify those "gay babies" and make them not be gay and some bs like that. But since for now they couldn't find shit they have to eat it with potatoes lol
I actually never thought about how stupid the gay gene is in the context of gender nonconforming people and trans ppl. Because in society we identify gayness also based on the gender of the person, and the gender of who they are attracted to. And then like, how do we account for bi people? It seems.. stupid. Plus every species on earth has been observed performing bi and gay behavior. It actually seems like exclusively heterosexual behavior is the far more rare thing.
@@KD-ou2np ikr,me who is bi : guess I'm a female hyena now /j(search for context of female hyenas)
Gay gene aren't even real, let alone Transgender in Human biology.
Boys act like a girl is mostly a product of the absence of the father, this is why in order to raise a heathy kid both parents have to be present.
People will go to any length to try to insult someone with no knowledge of who or what that person is. Only knowing that the other person opposes their own stupid personal beliefs.
which is so bizzare to me bc I don't dare to critize what I know nothing of ;-;
@@McFlurrArtt fr. Criticizing shit without knowing anything about it is so weird
I was watching Tomo-Chan is a Girl and my mom walked in and said everyone in the show is blind because you can tell by the way she looks that she’s a “real woman.” As a trans man it took so much in me to not turn around and slap her and scream “NO YOU CANT AND THIS IS A DRAWN CARTOON ANYWAY”
I’ve always been androgynous. People go to say ma’am or sir and then try to pick another word real fast lol. I’ll never understand why people think others genitals are their business whatsoever, most of them are pretty obsessed with children in particular. It’s super weird. Some group that looks into things as a job should probably be side eyeing them all.. oh wait, they’ve started the whole narrative.
@Ville you do enough to comment.
@D.H. I swear I saw them on Noah's channel which is another trans supporting Yt , I had to say the exact same thing to Ville earlier.... They really are commenting under every trans related video.
@@theanonymous.5940 as much as the internet makes us think it’s everyone, the phobes are such a small small number, you’ll run into the same ones over and over again on any trans positive site. That’s super weird and creepy too? Like why in the world would you follow trans positive people around just to be mean..? I think most have a little something they’re hiding, but that’s just me. 🤷🏻♂️😉
@@theanonymous.5940 That just makes their comment even more ironic lmao
WHATS YOUR PRONOUNS?!?
You literally can't always tell if someone is trans, people that claim you can are just wrong. Hell, i AM trans and i can't always tell. Transphobia is insane
Its actually amazing how I have seen some trans men in my college who I knew as a freshman transition fully from femme presenting to looking like they came out the womb using he/him pronouns. I knew them before they transitioned and yet I can't imagine them as anything other than they people they live as now. Transphobes are just so strange to me. Like what are they actually so afraid of?
@@KD-ou2np letting people be themselves
I am a transphobe. There are instances where the trans isn't obvious, mainly when the person was abused and castrated when they were still a child.
@@EC-yw5hg it's not " the trans" that's just poor English it's moreso "the trans person".
Secondly, who asked for your opinion?
Thirdly, i literally have guys constantly trying to slide into my DMs. And i didn't start transition until i was 26.
Fourth none of what you mentioned is child abuse, because it's founded in lies. No child is getting gender reassignment surgery, and no child is getting any kind of hormones. Once puberty starts, you may get puberty blockers, but they are completely reversible, and have been used to treat precocious puberty for years and years. Can you even describe how transition is child abuse
@@EC-yw5hg Glad to hear that you're against performing surgery on
Robert is a boss at explaining touchy subjects.
I'm a cis woman. There are so many trans women on social media that look more feminine than I ever did. I admire their makeup skills and the effort they put into their appearance.
when people say "we can always tell" what they actually mean is that trans people know they can't be trusted. those of us who can pass just let people like this go on assuming we're cis, so the only trans people they're aware of are ones who can't pass and have no choice in other people being able to tell they're trans. basically when someone says shit like this, what they're actually telling you is "trans people can tell on sight that i'm a bigot."
At one point, before I started my hrt, someone on TikTok accused me of messing up my body with fake hormones, that I’ll never be a “real woman”… I’m afab and had a noticeable neck beard stubble from some weird issue during puberty where I had such raging hormones 😂
omg this happened to me too! someone was like "i can see the (t slur) in you... its in your jawline" and honestly that lowkey made me feel good about my jawline lol. because i think they were implying i have a manly jawline? but arent men's jawlines typically the sharp ones? i was like lol, sweet! just because im not an alt righter and support trans people doesnt mean im trans myself. people are so dull. but im happy to take the hits of "you're so obviously a t slur" if it means one less trans person is being harassed.
Yeah, see, I’ve been masculinized (if that’s a word) and called a man but… the insult takes on a completely different level due to the fact that I’m also black. I don’t look like whatever a black woman should look like.. I’m tall, skinny, and flat chested. Somehow, this has led to guys thinking or calling me a man and just… overall a lot of hateful comments. Transphobia is awful but being black seems to escalate these comments towards me.
This topic is so surreal for me as a passing trans woman because I've never been treated negatively in any kind of public space. I've been out for years at this point. Before I transitioned I never ever thought anyone would perceive me positively let alone as a woman. Hearing about how regularly cis women are harassed in the trans panic were going through (thanks for sharing everyone in the comments) drives home how utterly absurd and dehumanizing this whole thing is.
These people are just delusional. As soon as any woman has smaller hips or maybe some muscle they think she's trans. wtf
" so why is elizabeth's fivehead turning victor on so much? hahahaahaahaah i cackled at this, bravo! great and important video
Im a cis girl who has been gnc for a long time, and Ive had countless people refer to me as male. Its caused me to question whether or not I should change my appearance to look more feminine, but I never have. Being myself is far more important to me than pretending Im someone Im not. Real friends will accept you for who you are. I dont always like who I am, but I wouldnt want me any other way. For everyone going through the motions, please know that there are people who will accept the real you, and trying to be someone youre not will weigh you down. (I know this whole comment is cheesy, but I mean it with all of my heart.)
from a fellow cis gnc woman, godspeed!! ❣️❣️🫂
From a butch: never change, their opinions don’t matter.
i think your Dad is the true alpha male that's why you git his gene too mich.
Your lip color compared to your skintone is 3 shades too pink towards the "Woman" category, so I am afraid I will have to attack you in the comments.
i'm sorry, clearly you have not measured the angle of the zygomatic arch... a true woman would never. this is a very obvious chad-like trait, and we all know that those are exclusive to men
Me with lower pink shade and a mustache as thick as a man's from my uni class : time to become bro for society/j(I'm cis woman)
@@xd._.28234 a moustache limits you from brohood I’m afraid, unless it’s movember or you do a ton of drugs
However you are eligible to be a policeman
ive NEVER agreed more with a sentence than in the first 9 seconds . we love robert.
I been mistaken for a girl throughout my entire adolescence... kinda liked it honestly, people are so much kinder to you when they see you as feminine. Honestly would have no problem becoming trans if the process was easier, funny enough though that also directly implies that my "transness" was created by the very people who hate it lmfao.
I just love that irony in my case.
process aint too bad, main thing is estrogen and ur p much good
Well I don't know what the process you are talking about, but if you talking about hormones, you don't need hormones to transition. I am a trans guy and I don't have access to hormones so I just transitioned socially for now.
Could you be nonbinary or agender, perhaps?
Lol it’s the opposite for me! I would be mistaken as a boy. I didn’t mind it, and still don’t (it happens sometimes). I feel bad for people who actually get attacked for that stuff tho. Such a silly reason to hate.
I was the opposite. Each time people thought I was a guy, especially online, I was treated nicer and liked it. A lot of my hobbies involve unsafe spaces due to the immature dudes that took over them so getting them to think I was a guy did wonders for me
I am a transman and wering skirts sometimes, bc I like skirts. I feel like its really accepted by my generation as well that guys wear skirts. I recently had my first really agressive encounter of two ladies that told me how I would never be a real woman etc. I told them that I didnt want to be a woman and that jesus too wore tunics and they got mad by me saying that even more. They kinda said that i just should stay in my place as a guy. I found that so funny because I am assigned female at birth.
if you didn't notice that someone is trans, how would you ever know that you didn't notice? You *DIDN'T NOTICE.*
some people are so ridiculous 😂
People are also really bad at "knowing" someone's race/ethnicity. In my anthropology 101 class, we did an experiment with pictures to show this and it was interesting how sure people could be and still turn out wrong.
I think sometimes white people get those dna ancestry kits to reinforce stereotypes. There is the old racist chestnut of thinking you must be part native american if you have high cheekbones 🧐😩. Or like my grandmother has olive-toned skin and she thinks that is a greek or italian trait, so if she got a test back saying she was five percent greek actually, I bet she would say that explained something.
I made my own comment about the racism angle, because I know white people who are 3+ generations white and native to my country who get harassed on the street and accused of not being white, being an immigrant etc. It's so incredibly bizarre. I recently got told by someone how their last experience on this was having a complete stranger in the tram starting to demand that they tell them where they are from. This person is white without any immigrant background in their family as far as they know, and the stranger wasn't satisfied when they simply told them the part of the country where they are from. It's so weird and creepy and disrespectful, because whether it's about gender or race/ethnicity, it comes from a place of negative bias and the audacity of thinking that a literal stranger owes you details about their identity. I wouldn't even dream of being so rude that I would ask someone, even if they were an acquaintance without them specifically bringing up the subject.
I love it when people can't even do phenotypes right. Like, the only times you can definitely tell a specific feature is from a particular ancestry is when it's presenting alongside other typical features-- or it's a genetic quirk only a specific population has, like solomon islanders' blond hair (they've got the "traditional" black hair, but with a unique, completely unrelated hair gene mutation to the "usual" blond gene, and it causes a really cool range of colors from very gold blond to awesome copper-brown that can shift as they age).
High cheekbones can be from literally any ancestry and same with olive-toned skin-- meditteranean peeps don't have a monopoly on that shade and you can also have that tone if you're biracial and none of your ancestors even ate some souvlaki or gelato, much less originated from greece or italy.
(sorry I'm big into genetics and gene inheritance and recently did a cool dive specifically into ethnic traits and family resemblance and how traits pass down and what decides how they mix and when they don't for a speculative biology worldbuild)
"I can smell your pheromones and see your chromosomes with my x-ray vision. I am Terror. I am the Truth"
- Terfs when they see a tall cis woman
My favorite tranvestigator moment was when someone told me I was a transwoman because real women aren't funny and the guy thought I had good jokes. I left that group chat so fast.
Women: no sense of humor 🤣
Oh I cackled so hard at *god save the biologically female queen*
-a transman trying to find the humor in literally anything in a world that wants us dead
As a cis woman with a more masculine face I only get upset that people call me trans because it's not super safe where I live to be out as trans. It puts not only me in danger to publicly make that kind of accusation but let's say I was actually a trans woman and someone outed me, I would probably lose my job and could be attacked by transphobic people nearby. I care more about what it would mean for a real trans woman to be outed and it scares me that they are doing that.
Athletic women have been getting called men for as long as I can remember. Transphobia largely seems to come from misogyny.
It would explain why I see trans men and trans women being treated so differently as well. One example I noticed is that Trans men are infantilised much more, as if theyre just mislead, while trans men are perverted.
Transmisogyny may be the word you are looking for here?
(Julia Serano, "Whipping girl")
These people are totally out of control. Their obsession has gone beyond just analyzing the physical features of celebrities to prove they're trans. I've seen some of them take photos of normal people who are just going about their lives and doing this. That could end up being incredibly dangerous if someone is actually trans and isn't out yet. These people are not only delusional, they're malicious. They want to expose trans people by any means necessary and they don't care who they harm in the process. Imo, taking pictures of people without their consent and posting them on the internet for people to analyze should be illegal. It's blatant harrassment and people who do it should be given a fine or jail time.
When I was a kid identifying as a cisgender female, I was still tomboyish. It started as being called a lesbian and gay, then I decided to cut my hair and they called me a boy. They literally threw me out of the girls room, saying no dicks in the girl's room. When I dropped out, I thought it would stop... until people started saying I was actually male at birth and actually a Trans female. It was terrible to go through, because I was unsure if I was supposed to even be a girl? Today I identify as genderfluid (f/nb), and I'm comfortable with who I am today, but that and other bullying I went through my entire life will always haunt me today.
As an actual transgender man I can confidently say that people cannot tell I wasn't born male even when I was pre-hrt.
Misogyny does considered as a core for anti-lgbtqa+ rhetoric in politics, by most of sociologists and political scientists. Like a same simple observation that shows that any anti-lgbtqa+ bigot is also always a misogynist, what a coincidence.
😂😂 That thumbnail made me laugh, people are weird. Even if you were, that’s none of their damn business.
Robert didn't have to adress these fools, but he decided to call them out and educate them in the most eloquent way 🙌🏼 Such a good video
No, Robert chose an easy target i.e. people with mental disorders and decided to use them to validate the transgender disorder.
This is a common tactic used by Politicians known as an association fallacy.
"look a tiny group of people (with mental disorders) that oppose our beliefs are clearly insane, that means we are right and the people who oppose use are wrong."
You would do well to recognize false prophets who tell you what you want to hear.
the funniest thing to me is showing them other transphobes out of context and watching them declare with complete confidence that the person in the picture is obviously trans
Transvestigations are so silly and so out of hand the amount of people who get it because one feature is slightly of the other gender
I don't understand why anyone would spend the energy arguing with someone else about gender. It takes way less energy to be an ally!
Yes sister, it take wat less energy to be boot licker or a rug.
I agree on that
It stems from their own insecurities, all bigotry does at the end of the day
Just another example of people failing to mind their damn business
tolppi always never misses with these detailed explanations of people's hate
i always made the claim that trans acceptance may help "just a few people" on the surface, but in reality many more who "look to manly" or "are too feminin".
then there were a few posts about people who actually benefited from trans acceptance, while being cis themselves.
then things suddenly got worse for everyone because of some christofascists and the plattform they have thanks to social media.
I once tried an app that claimed it could tell your gender and age, and more than once it labeled me a man, specially if I wasn't wearing makeup and my hair was tied, in fact once it told me I was an 76 old man.
Look, if it weren't for make up, body hair removal and clothes, we would find out that men and women look way more similar than we would like to recognize.
People always believe they know exactly how old others are just by looks. Problem is that their beliefs are never examined of challenged.
Oh I loved those people growing up especially when the guesses of my age bordered on absurd like the nurse who refused to believe I was at the time 17 insistong oh I can't be older than 12 ......despite my very fully devolved chest and you know my literal ID saying my age but apparently having soft features and being short makes me a child same type of people refused to believe my mom was pushing 50 because oh she looks barely 30 like that's cute but no
Tranphobes say that Dwayne the Rock Johnson was trans... yeah
Whaaaat
Transphobes are insane!
I think it's because of his gynecomastia, which should be a testament to how even the "manliest men" can have feminine body traits, but instead they use it as fuel for their conspiracies
the transphobes also can't handle even a little bit of gender nonconformity. I recently got a comment online calling me a "fakeboy" when I am in fact, just a cis woman with short hair.
Problem is there are people literally attacking people because they think that person is trans. This is absolutely horrible but for me as a cis-woman and I think even more for trans-women being called "your obviously trans/actually a man" really poses a real life threat.
Those people can't tell who have Adam's Apples and who don't
@@I_Dont_Believe_In_Salad Every has an "adam's apple". It's a chunk of cartilage protecting the larynx that can grow when exposed to a large amount of testosterone during puberty, so *shocker* it will not look the same on all people.
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You don't believe in SCHOOL. Lmfao
This reminds of how I confused faceapp. Depending on the angle and my expressions it gave me either male or female as a result. Recently it didn't see a face at all! I'm winning gender-fluidity, you guys!
You realize that is incredibly weird and obsessive?
I know a guy that thinks I was AFAB and am now a transman. I am AMAB and a rather fem Enby. He said he always can tell so I got 5 pictures of trans people and 5 of not trans people. He picked Cristina Agularia, Pink, and two AI pictures as the Trans women. He did get one transperson correct but that is because it was me in a dress.
Missed Buck Angel and Dorian Electra, if you know who those people are... pretty funny. How you pick Cristina Aguilera and Pink over Dorian as transpeople... IDK. Dorian is *very* queer and it is _very_ obvious.
LMFOAOAOOA
I'm in stitches at *Christina Aguilera* of all people being transvestigated. That guy should start taking clownery classes and join a circus.
As a fan of Dorian Electra, I am dying lmao 💀
Frequently people have clocked me as an AMAB person... despite me being AFAB lol. I just have a big nose and Im skinny rather than curvy lmao. Most trans women Ive met look "more female" than me according to societies idea of what women should be, which is absolutely wild to me, because, not to toot my own horn, Im super attractive lol.
I'm a cis woman who also happens to be bi, and I've been repeatedly misgendered online by men. Some even refuse to believe I am a woman. I assume it's because they think my personality is "masculine," or I'm talking too "logically" to possibly be female. It is so bizarre. They believe all women are a certain way (usually meek, overly accommodating of men's needs, naive, illogical, etc). It made me feel something akin to gender dysphoria when these people didnt want to acknowledge my womanhood and misgendered me as a taunt. I was always an ally of trans people, but it made me appreciate their struggle all the more. I can't imagine having your existence and gender identity picked apart by weirdos on a daily basis.
This happens to cis women that don’t aesthetically appeal to certain people as well. The amount of transphobes I get that call me a man. AMAB and I’m trans. Like I’m flattered you think that sweetie, there’s some gorgeous trans women out there
Haha delusional
Omg these comments in your video are wild. I cant believe people who have never met you are actually claiming they can determine your gender and sex better than you can
I literally can't tell if others are trans always, and I AM trans. It's hilarious that people who know no trans people think that can always tell
When you tell these "transvestigators" that actually cis women have body hair they practically explode. A lot of women have facial hair on par with the average man's facial hair, and not like, 1%, more like 20%. If it's that large of a group it's not an anomoly, and can you really call something a male characteristic if 20% also have it. The overlap between man and women is so big, and they don't want to believe it.
My honorary aunt had a 'stache and I learned how waxing works from watching her wax it off monthly, and that was in the 90's. met plenty more cis women with fuzzes and full-'staches since and I've never thought about it beyond "oh! that's because of testosterone levels and receptors!" when I learned how human dimorphism worked.
Those people so desperate to affirm their own gender by trying to "out" people are pathetic and to be pitied, imagine being that insecure.
Transphobia and eugenics meet in a dark alley
physiognomy check: failed ❌
*This* is how you address haters.
These people are so insane, this is like the internet equivalent of people calling me ma'am and such (which I don't even get since I don't look like a woman). Well sorry bro, I've got eight and a half inches of you're wrong, not that it's any of your business.
by the sound of the comments, this is nothing new, but as a cis woman i've had my fair share of transphobes accusing me of being a transwoman, "you'll never be a woman" type thing. i literally think it's because of my broad shoulders and the shape of my chin - it shows how ridiculous these people's delusions of gender are, because i'm far from androgynous.