Tony Gaskins On Leading With Love, Relationship Roles, Making Love To The Mind + More
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- Author and life coach Tony Gaskins stopped by to talk about leading with love and making love with the mind. Plus, he questions if sex should be a priority in a person's relationship.
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Tony Gaskins On Leading With Love, Relationship Roles, Making Love To The Mind + More
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This man is wise. Call it old fashioned but old fashion WORKS for a reason. I'm not religious but I respect this man's message because it's not only backed by empirical evidence but it pushes discipline which is hella lacking in this tech era with short attention span. I'm buying his book to support. RESPECT.
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Yes old fashion is wisdom. Just stick to the principles and you will be happy no matter what.
My sentiments exactly! Loved this interview
Great interview. Great insight. God set it up a certain way to make it work he revealed it by His Word. The tuff part is to apply it and flesh it out. Society has and will continue to go against the Word. It's a war and constant battle. God knows best and revealed how to abtain the abundant life.
Yes old fashioned is the way to go
Been faithful for 10 years now, cheated at the very beginning saw the pain in her soul never did it again!!! You have to really love her fellas it's not that hard!!!
I can respect that.
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This man changed my life. Literally. I'll die before I allow another man to waste my time again. And you can thank Tony Gaskins for that. He and the good Lord above gave me the strength!
God wants the best for us.
Same
Amen!!!!
“No amount of money can buy character” I felt that 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
KITTEN MAYZ 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
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KITTEN MAYZ Damn Skippy
Amen!
Charlemagne is not mature enough for this convo
AT ALL, he cheated on his wives for years.
Exactly
Charnese Williams lol
He's so dumb, he needs to leave the show
He annoys me!
" You should not ride or die for anyone except Jesus"
A word!!!!
...and what if one is atheist...just curious...
@@RW38762 still applies
@@RW38762 Exactly!
Would that be the white man's Jesus, that was sold to black people? If yes. NO THANK YOU! Im not riding for him.
@@ezravonhindenburg1240 he lost me when he said ride for Jesus
Lust is not like thirst it can't be quenched... The gems this man dropped! It's so refreshing to see someone with advice with Christ as their foundation.
His wife is blessed.
word
Until she gets tired of him for something that prob wont be his fault. His father had a divorce after 25 yesrs so that should speak volume. I respect his views but it doesnt mean his wife will remain happy with him from a lack of pure excitement. It happens.
@@Flexx155 smh
Until she find out he got aids for sleeping with 100 women 🤷🏾♂️
I thought the same thing 😂
If you can’t comprehend what this man is saying both men or women. This ain’t for you and you ain’t ready emotionally, mentally and spiritually!
Tanisha Hatchet Period! I Started to explain to some of these men that feel that its a male bashing interview or that he’s stuck up but I just realized they aren’t ready for the message that he’s trying to express and me telling them in a different way is no better than this God-fearing man is trying to explain it.
Kanika Haggins save your energy queen lol these little boys are too comfortable occupying grown men bodies with the IQ level of a child! Living worldly and being influenced by society is fun to them! I couldn’t even get through the interview because this wise man was surrounded by ppl who just couldn’t grasp what he was saying! I pray that wisdom finds these lost souls and keep it pushing!
Tanisha Hatchet nope
LOVE IS A GIFT FROM THE MOST HIGH, AND WE MUST TAKE CARE OF LOVE. LOVE IS LOVE AND LOVE IS ALL. GOD IS LOVE AND LOVE IS THE LIGHT.
i dont mean to be so off topic but does anybody know a way to get back into an Instagram account..?
I stupidly lost my account password. I would love any assistance you can offer me!
The purpose of marriage isn’t for our happiness or lust. The purpose of marriage is to spread the kingdom of God. We reflect all of what God is(the father, son and Holy Spirit) in our families as one unit. Knowing the real purpose of marriage and fulfilling it gives us a small glimpse of the love God has for us and it’s beautiful.
The goal of the devil is to break up the family unit and destroy our kids and he is always busy. As men and women we need to know our roles in the household. When God created Adam and Eve he gave Adam specific instructions on how to be a kingdom man and Adam was to relay that message to Eve. Not trying to write a book and I’m not perfect but I try.
Bro say it for the folks in the back!!!
3drhodes yes, exactly.
This is straight FACTS 💯💯💯
Amen Sir!!!! And many people have not arrived to this understanding. Part of it is that people need Christ in the center of their life. And when one surrenders their life to God, they'll realize the truth.
🗣If you're reading this don't forget to thank God for waking you up this morning💯
Yes aman
AMEN
Every single day ❤🙏🏽🙌🏽
You ain't lying!! Yess
Amen
Envy agrees because he knows what its like when lust takes over. Not to throw his past mistakes back in his faces but that past experience and learning from it gives him greater insight to what exactly this man is saying. I’m really proud and happy for Dj Envy
At least u proud of him .. shit I changed for a female and was loyal for multiple years and didnt get no where for it .. it's all about the woman allowing her man to grow and respect him for it .. I've been through hell changing to be like this man but not getting it back makes me want him to talk about the females that play games with good dudes ,
@@johng6316 cuz this dude is fool of himself. You know dude is getting pussy left and right saying all the right things they wanna hear and shit.
@@johng6316 but maybe it’s because you already cheated and she just couldn’t move past it. Have you tried being a better man for a good woman from jump yet? Before deciding it’s not worth it to be good?
I love this show, but I really wish Charlemagne took this interview seriously and asked more thought out questions. Tony came with real, unadulterated wisdom and Charlemagne just wanted a comedy show. There were several times where wise thoughts were cut off and Tony was interrupted for some silly, vulgar, unnecessary comment. We didn’t need Charlemagne to tap dance because this message was powerful enough on its own!! Lastly, Tony is totally correct about our specific criteria. What does a millionaire want with you if you are struggling to get by? When we fixate on the wrong thing, we may get that but then discover hidden agendas. If a man with that kind of money wants you, you better check that he doesn’t want to just control you and have you as a pretty pet. When we lead in love, and live with purpose our criteria will be more realistic for lasting, healthy, loving relationships. Still thank you all for having Tony on here! 🙌🏾
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Girl when Tony made an example of men calling their women their rib but treat them like their pinky toe and this idiot Charlemagne really interrupted him to ask how do men treat their pinky toe. I was almost DONE at that point but wanted//needed to hear the rest of the wisdom Tony was trying to convey
Tishun NIKCO if you want to hear some real wisdom: Before a woman looks for a man and a man looks for a woman, find God first and then you’ll see how beautiful love can be.
Why do blk men always get upset with blk men who try and make the blk family and community better. Stop whining and stop blaming others and be accountable & listen for a change....smh
Agree
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well for those who think this is a mature conversation, in my opinion what make it not mature that he never mentioned how women need to take accountability because women chose the fixer upper, project men, women try to fix abusive males with 5 kids and with 4 different females and not even taking care of them. But yet they still choose them males. Then after choosing the type of male thru out their 20s early 30s 3+ kids later now want a good man. Who want all of that baggage after all she went thru. Now all of a sudden she is like there are no good men . No its the men YOU choose. Also dont say he wasnt like that in the beginning, it was signs for the most part. Then if we put women on a pedestal they will cheat. Speaking of cheating women cheat just as much as men if not more because the women me cheat with do yall ever take in account that that woman most of the time has a husband or bf. Its females that break men and cause men to lose everything or what have you. But we cant say anything about women messing over men. We gotta shut up, move on and man up. But society act like men dont get broken, good men get messed up by female but we cant talk about that because society will look down on us. So please stop acting like the women are the victim because women also cheat, get caught, sabotage the relationship/marriage , play the victim and divorce. But men cant speak on that. LETS KEEP IT REAL!
because a black man's priority should be a bachelor first and foremost
His message won’t reach everyone and that’s okay it will reach those that it’s supposed to reach
Amen, we are all at different seasons
Exactly
Amen, so much truth
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Charlamagne is doing the most in this interview. I think he should have chilled a bit. This is a good topic that deserves a mature discussion.
My favorite Breakfast Club interview so far. HANDS DOWN.
Tony got my life all the way together! 😭 I needed this today cause Lord knows...#BlackLove
How we going to make this work babe?!
for real ❤
Yes I’m looking for a black wife as most black men. I want you to know most of us view you as a Queen regardless of what the media says
If I could only find a man who thinks and act like this, happiness could be obtained.
word 😂i nice wake up call this morning
42:08 "You are not ready for a relationship until you are 100% happy being single" #NuffSaid
He who does not know God does not know love for God is Love. You can’t discuss love without discussing God fully.
So true....
Amen
I love my husband! This show just makes me more appreciative of what I have! 4 years to forever😍! Love is out there, just be patient and wait for God to set it up! Love, Blessings, & Peace everyone!
Charlemagne was not focused for this. He’s younger self came out in this interview. This was embarrassing
yeah he was goofy
He mimicked the mindset of kids now adays. Charla was the bad cop.. Got to be able to get your message through the static
Sometimes you have to dumb down the delivery so the message is still received. People aren't as intelligent as they used to be.
Well said!
I felt the same way. He was responding like he wasn't married.
He's been consistent for years Tony deserves all good fortune & things to come to him man #Period💯
Really appreciated the honesty about the impact it has on women--numb, anxious and suffering from low self-esteem are forms of emotional abuse.
I am sold!! This is a mature MAN! I am sure several of the women he "ran through" are calling bullshit on this dude...but I can admire how hard he worked to be a MAN....A DAM GROWN MAN!!
I AM SOLD TONY!!
#helpthesemalesbecomeMEN
Just followed him on FB 💪🏾🙌🏾
I don’t normally trust “relationship experts” but I like this guy a lot. He gives great relationship advice
"Let a person's character be their currency." I love this!
I listen to Tony Gaskins every day but you guys have to get Eric Thomas up on here! Law of attraction
BLIND VISION A must to get Eric Thomas on here!!
Eric Thomas definitely should be on the Breakfast Club. He’s the best out!
surprised e.t. hadnt made an appearance yet!
JazGreenTLK Yes he is so amazing! I listen to him at least once every day as well I honestly listen to him more than Tony!
anomalient yes yes yes! Maybe we need to tag him in this! LOL
Have a beautiful week lovely ppl!! 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
My boy Tony Gaskins...will always support you bro. Keep up the good work!
I have chills listening to this interview. He is such a wise and spiritual being. He’s dropping soooo many gems💙💙”making love to the mind and that sex is just a plus not a priority.” Honestly if you feel this way like him and I then you are ready and truly looking for a life partner. This whole interview is about finding and sustaining true love, but only if you’re ready! 💯 loved this interview 💙 “come together as a team not as opponents.”
You know who is awesome, read the first word in this sentence.
Awwweeee 😍
I love love Tony Gaskins. He’s so humble. His words are soooo encouraging.
“Pleasure doesn’t lead to happiness, pleasure leads to pain.”
Charlemagne "Don't say a couple of years Envy.. It was a decade ago!" 😆
Dude I never expected you to be on here.
I support you great black man. All love
@@tiredox3788 I want to like and dislike the comment at the same time
I was saying the samething
My guy🔥
Man, this is deep. I needed to watch this. I most definitely need to work on my communication skills.
Treating her with love to get love takes a lot of time. And I've been working on my patience with that.
He was too real for this show, specifically Lenard...
EXACTLY, Unfortunately The Breakfast Club aside from DJ Envy who I'm not a fan of show their asses in this interview and also showed that this topic is way too mature for the immature likes of annoying ass Charlemagne and the idiot Angela Yee
Angela Yee was very mature
Charlamagne really annoyed me this interview
He dont wanna piss off the folks that are offended and "shamed"
Me too
Me too! He was to busy looking for lies than be able to listen to wisdom.
yes! He was being kinda rude
That’s his job though, to get the truth out of ppl not just agree with everything they say. Some of this does sound generalized and crazy. He knows someone who had sex with 600 women 😳 common now lol
I met this guy over 10 yrs ago, and he was super humble and. God used this man in this interview.
At 9:20 i truly agree what he says about man hating on him cause of what he's saying but doesn't it says in the bible when you're a man you put childish ways away so why are man hating on him when all he wants to do is for men in general to become more mature
I tell everyone... that God sent me the woman I needed in my wife now. And the woman I wanted in my first wife. And that's why my first wife is, my first wife! I love this man! He's saying the everything I had to learn the hard way!
When he said he intentionally trapped his woman to get her pregnant I gasped😱 he was honest, I do love how he encourages men to esteem their wives😀
Mr. Gaskins dropped straight 💎 throughout this entire interview!! Love him!
I wish a lot of young men AND women would listen and hear, what this man says! My generation (post- Millennial generation or "iGeneration") would be so much happier if we could truly understand what it means to be in a relationship. 52:24
God, I ❤ that Nikki Giovanni and James Baldwin conversation. If you haven't seen the whole film, check that out, it's a wholesome conversation between a wise elder and a young woman from different generations, but they come together to relate in love and understanding. That exchange was so powerful it made me want to be better.
Pele Kama damn you done filling up the feed lol FOH
@@iseboy937 bahahaha
@@iseboy937 I know right . Can tell she's passionate about it though. Much power to the Queen
Good timing.. watched it yesterday. Absolutely agree
@bigjayking24 she was a baby herself at that time as a single mother of 1 in her early 20s, and she was being put on game by an elder, James Baldwin.
Blessed Tribe in the building!
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"Stop calling your woman your rib, then treating her like your pinky toe." 💯 😂😂😂
I hope the Breakfast Club brings Mr. Gaskins back on the show again.
About time y’all had him on here!
Never heard of him but glad i watched
@Giffond Hall he got a good message imo
The point he makes of having a great relationship makes your business life fall in order is so true. When you getting money together you don't need sex everyday.
Preach and teach these folk Tony!!!!! So glad you were on here. Y’all should make him a regular
Really good points here. Tony is generalizing a little bit but he’s not off base.
Word. Can't pack hella wisdom in a half an hour. I've copped the book
@Andre Hatchett You're lying your ass off. i've NEVER met any woman that wants threesomes. Sooo maybe that's the women you choose to speak with.
@Andre Hatchett lol no.
Just Another ABC88 he’s definitely not lying. It’s like to catch interest a woman will throw it out there like it’s normal.
@@charlesmays2832 Yall gotta stop confusing "women" and females...A real woman would NEVER be apart of no shenanigans like that.
Charlamagne was fighting against this man's message the entire interview. He just doesn't want us to do better. #sad
Try in to make room to do evil.
Charla does not want to admit fault... He's fighting it like a baby fights sleep. The man is saying we need to raise young men and women to respect and love on one another. Not expect the woman to ride... Geesh
Brittney Wade like a baby fights sleep!!
Everytime I watch this video I learn something new. Let a person's character be there currency. Learning the difference between having Standards vs. Preferences. This is real talk soul food to live by. I have to watch this again and study the information.
You really got skills when you can be so positive and yet so entertaining....this was a really good show. I am truly impressed
Black women most of us black men love you and wants to see you flourish in life. We support you. Don’t allow the media to think otherwise.
Won’t go through so much if you don’t put yourself in a situation
One of the realist breakfast club interviews I’ve watched.
Yesssss! The rule of majority. He is wise. A lot of ppl live their lives by the exception to the rule instead of the most common outcome. It’s an entitled mindset that leaves ppl broken. What makes you so special that what happened for majority of ppl doesn’t apply to you?
I'm really trying to watch all of this interview but it's hard. Charlamagne should call Gaskins and apologize personally. Amanda Seales comes on here and basically says she don't want no stupid f-boyz and Charla agrees, as he should. An educated blk man comes on the show and tells young boyz how to stop being f-boyz and he attempts to drag him. I've tried really hard recently to ride for Charla, but this was the last straw for me. He should be ashamed!
Charlamane Should have set this one out.
Lol, everybody is disappointed in him on this one
Yes, Charlemagne “forsaking all others” is included in traditional vows meaning choosing no one else other than your spouse.
I really admire Tony I wish he would’ve touched on men waiting until they’re ready to honor and commit to those vows. It’s really selfish when some men know they’re not ready for a marriage but they take a great woman off the market in fear that another man will get her. Great interview💗
"Not mixing the sacred with the profane" I feel that especially in the era of people fake happy on the internet, and not doing the work of inward revolution.
Pele Kama You are exactly correct 💯💯💯
Wow!! Amazing to hear this type of uplifting conversation in 2019! Thank you for this message Tony 👌
Look TONY keep goin STAND strong n don’t forget God put you in this position with trust
i love this man, he is truly a gift!
I love Tony Gaskin ❤️❤️
Best Breakfast Show EVER!!!!!!!
How did Beyoncè and Jay do it better? What was so significant about then getting past cheating? Cause they put it in a song
Jamaica N he’s still cheating
He was dropping the same knowledge this morning on Fox29 Philly. Need the motivation these days.
Awesome interview. A lot of good advice to anyone in a serious relationship or a young marriage 👏🏼
In this day and age ain't no relationships. It's just your turn I'll keep my 24 year old self single for life ✊🏾
Some people vibrate so low their sexuality is attached to their self-esteem.
Il say its becoming rare but that's not everyone's reality, ppl are still finding amazing love. Keep the faith
So true, Charlemagne. My husband and I have also been together for over 20 years and we’ve both been different people and grown thru different stages over the years.
He's right "we live by majority rules" but its great to see another dude reppin 'common sense' which is just another representation of morals that we've been taught to be religious but its not...its the best way to have a healthy life.
IF WE BLACK PEOPLE CHANGE OUR CULTURE, THEY WILL FOLLOW!!!
"Men have power, Women have influence" and though this can be interchangeable, what I've seen fail time and time again is when men refuse to be influenced by good quality women then wonder why there's so much wasted time, energy and emotional immaturity dividing and conquering the relationship.
Seems like you have a book inside you, if you haven't written one already.
On the money
Vice versa too.
Once men and women learn equal submission biblically, then you will see more successful black relationships.
Pele Kama, I'm just wondering you seem to be around alot of women of quality from your statements. Why do you believe, that these women (maybe yourself also) seem to attracted such uninfluencable men ?
“If you live your life based on the exception you will end up hurting yourself” WOW 🙌🏾
Man of god, the trinity in you KILLED it!!!!!! It was Total silence for about a good twenty minutes. And you gave GOD the glory 🏃🏃🏃🏃🤸🤸🤸🤸🏃🏃 My prayers go up for you and the Gaskins Foundation. Because we need REAL MEN!!!! GOD fearing MEN!!
Every man and woman who acts permiscuous does not get it out of their system. It is a spirit that you invite in, and few get freed from it. Better not to start and struggle to stop. It's an addiction, cigarettes, alcohol etc.
Shouts to everyone that's salty for a wise man speaking up and the women that supports these lil boys' ignorance. Gotta do better.
"I'm a student of love." 💯
This man is speaking nothing but facts... thanks for this message
Make it work is the name of the book and I'm going to purchase it for myself along with the other publication that he mentioned, "single is not a curse." Our oldest daughter is going to need the last book for herself as she enters into her senior year of high school band prepares for adulthood. I felt peace listening to this brother speak which confirms his authenticity.
When there’s a television show called “Sidechicks of...” there’s a big problem!
I dig what this brotha is kicking.
I believe that there are some profound men who are battling with many different aspects within themselves as well as relationships. This interview was needed regardless religious beliefs. Hope to see more like this.
This man is amazing ❤️
This is so profound... Self love.... Very important.
He said he’s in a “100% happy marriage .” That is absolutely remarkable. Such a blessing....
Nothing in life is perfect.
I enjoy breakfast club interviews..but this was the best one I actually benefitted from the most. Love it!!!
TONYYYYYYY! YASSSSSSS!
What kind of crewneck sweater does he have on, what brand? Looks fly.
Vaddy ! Off white
Hanes
It's a Greg Norman sweater, limited grandpa capsule
i would love to know his thoughts on cultures with polygamous relationships, and if a man does good by his wives is that healthy? Are the rules different based on different cultures and customs
Yee is keeping the interviews flowing in the right direction these days. I see you, Ang.
Great Job Tony Gaskins!!!!!! 👏🏾
Wow I'm three months late, but I'm glad I watched this interview. It was very wonderful, and I'm glad Tony mentioned that men have to submit as well. I just told someone the exact thing, prior to watching this video.
About time Tony was on here!!!
Tony has changed my life