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  • @acewalker
    @acewalker 2 роки тому +188

    This red pill shit is dangerous. I was once on that red pill. Biggest regret and mistake I’ve ever made.

    • @Shane-ju7op
      @Shane-ju7op 2 роки тому +28

      I'm glad you sae the error of the Red Pill. It very dangerous ⚠

    • @returnofhorusthegalacticor9704
      @returnofhorusthegalacticor9704 2 роки тому +6

      Other people opinion is dangerous lmao

    • @aussiedanny28au15
      @aussiedanny28au15 2 роки тому

      They're the most toxic pillers because they're trying to project their insecurities onto other people saying things like "come on! You gotta hit the gym and be dominant" while some Michael who plays video games pulls lots of women. I agree, gym is very important but not for just pulling women and be "masculine" but for physical strength and your health

    • @elliottalderson6443
      @elliottalderson6443 2 роки тому +5

      Dangerous? Hyperbole much?

    • @macbook7697
      @macbook7697 2 роки тому +4

      U R BELIBERATELY TRYING TO AVOID TRUTH>>>BCOZ TRUTH HURTS
      WOMEN ARE COLD>>THeY ONLY CONSIDER YOU IF U LOOK GOOD OR EARN MUCH >>>THIER EVEY ACTION HAS MOTIVE
      GOOD FOR >>>BETTER BE UNAWARE AND HAPPY RATHER THAN BEING AWARE AND SMART

  • @betsycollins601
    @betsycollins601 Рік тому +30

    I just escaped from a 7-month relationship with a red-pill man. He got transferred to Italy (thank God) and quickly cheated by taking on a new girlfriend. Here's the weird part, throughout the relationship, there were at least 4-5 times that he pretended he was talking to his imaginary other girlfriend. Let me give you an example...he would be on FB video chat with me and I would hear him (only HIM, no one else) "sweet talking" someone else. At first, I thought maybe I was crazy, but another time, I could literally see him knock on his own coffee table and then jump up to supposedly "answer the door" because (he expected me to believe) that his female neighbor was trying to get him to let her in to enjoy a bottle of wine. Again, I heard no other voice than his and the pauses that one would normally have where another person speaks were ridiculously short....THERE WAS NO NEIGHBOR at his door, but he wanted ME to believe all these women were chasing him. One of the last times we video chatted after he moved to Europe, after spending two hours on the chat (his choice-he was always rattling on about HIMSELF, HIMSELF, HIMSELF, and his Red-Pill ideas), he got pi5sy and turned suddenly to right and said "I'm sorry. I will be with you in just a minute, Sweets." It was insane! He is obviously just making crap up to make himself seem like he has scores of action. It is laughable and really sad at the same time. In the end, I realized he was incapable of treating a woman with kindness and love and he attacked me personally. I walked....best choice I EVER made!

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  Рік тому +15

      I’m sorry about this. Red pill has turned men’s minds into mush.

    • @marcusbrown8036
      @marcusbrown8036 Рік тому

      Damn, that’s crazy! These redpill guys really give men a bad name

    • @skuzzlebutt9745
      @skuzzlebutt9745 Рік тому

      @@AnthonyRecenelloWoman are dating for resources and men are looking for the youngest freshest lowest body count freshman to make their main chick.

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  Рік тому +8

      @@skuzzlebutt9745 I think I hear the echo of fresh and fit in this comment section 😆

    • @sair9ason9a
      @sair9ason9a Рік тому +1

      ​@@skuzzlebutt9745 what the hell?!

  • @SaturnPhase
    @SaturnPhase 2 роки тому +53

    The last guy that spoke in the video basically described how predators and bullies approach potential victims. Why the hell would you even WANT to activate someone's defense mechanism if you want their reaction to you to be a favorable one? As women, we've had to condition ourselves to avoid people who exhibit this behavior in order to keep ourselves safe and avoid harm. Any man who did that, I was immediately uncomfortable with and had to get away from.

  • @charyse1361
    @charyse1361 3 роки тому +135

    “Their mind is in strategy mode not chemistry mode” okay Anthony!! 🔥🔥🔥

    • @Overseer2579
      @Overseer2579 3 роки тому +3

      Exactly

    • @ebenade1
      @ebenade1 3 роки тому +13

      That's because men have to have a strategy when dating, not everything is simply based on "chemistry". Dates aren't simply Disney movies, as a guy, you have to know what to do in order to get your date to maintain interest.

    • @justinramirez8028
      @justinramirez8028 3 роки тому +3

      @@ebenade1 Not exactly my guy. If you have to “know what to do in order to get your date to maintain interest”, then it means she probably wasn’t that interested to begin with. When you have a “Disney date” -trust me they’re real-everything flows so smoothly, and it is probably one of the best things you can experience. When a girl is genuinely attracted to you she won’t give a damn about what you “have to do to keep her interested” she’ll be up for anything as long as she’s around you because she’s interested in you as a person, and not what you think will keep her interested.

    • @ebenade1
      @ebenade1 3 роки тому +6

      @@justinramirez8028 Sorry bro, but even assuming you're correct, the idealistic dates you're referring to are a rarity at best. The average guy doesn't meet his true love in his first date, and most dates which develope into full-on relationships don't necessarily work like that either.
      You can have a smooth flowing date without being in your head all the time, that's true and that should be the norm. But my point was moreso that as a man, you should know what is best for you to do when interacting with a woman you have interest in. You should know not to seem needy, you should know not act too full of yourself, you should know how to come of as someone who's not insecure etc. You can call this basic dating advice, but the fact is a man has to learn more to capture the attention of an average woman than the other way around.
      People seem to be incredibly idealistic and forget that dating and mating in general is very often a sort of game. Similar to how animals have mating rituals that must be executed properly, humans have mating strategies born from social norms that are just as useful. Being ignorant to them does a man no service unto himself.

    • @justinramirez8028
      @justinramirez8028 2 роки тому +2

      @@ebenade1 You’re right about that but it really depends on the person and whether they want to play games or not. How I refer to it, boys and girls play games like on a playground, but men and women actually communicate clearly and are typically on the same level when it comes to dating or even hooking up.

  • @aaaaaa2206
    @aaaaaa2206 2 роки тому +15

    A lion doesn't advertise himself as king of the wild.
    A true expert doesn't need to say he/she is an expert because his/her body of work speaks for itself.

  • @dominikak758
    @dominikak758 Рік тому +10

    This red pill stuff is absolutely dangerous. I came across it when I was super young and impressionable out of college and I remember feeling terrified “what if I don’t find someone by 30?” And then thinking I had to literally unalive myself if it came to that because of the horrible shit these men spread. It’s scary and it needs to stop. I don’t even embody the toxic traits they claim women have. I don’t sleep around, I’m actually autistic and really struggle with social interactions. I don’t even pick up cues that someone is interested or not.
    The red pill is very dangerous and these people need to be shut down.

  • @eulabarredo5186
    @eulabarredo5186 2 роки тому +13

    Those alpha males are predators looking for their prey .

  • @haselbasil2488
    @haselbasil2488 2 роки тому +39

    Wow, nice to see a normal sane guy in the manosphere.

    • @PainxSorrow
      @PainxSorrow 2 роки тому

      He not in the Manosphere it’s strictly red pill

    • @michaelangst6078
      @michaelangst6078 2 роки тому

      he is decent, but I highly doubt you would care and leave a comment if this guy wasn't in the top 5% looking men

    • @haselbasil2488
      @haselbasil2488 2 роки тому +10

      @@michaelangst6078 Of course I would. It has nothing to do with his looks, he is too young for me and he is not my type.
      I commented because I like any one who calls out this toxic red pill stuff.

    • @michaelangst6078
      @michaelangst6078 2 роки тому +3

      @@haselbasil2488 Ok granny... No matter what you say or do, you're not going to go back 40 years go to the 80's... Life is over for you in more ways than one

    • @haselbasil2488
      @haselbasil2488 2 роки тому +10

      @@michaelangst6078 🤣🤣🤣🤣 wow, no need to be nasty. I'm curious though, how is my life over in more ways then one ?

  • @michaelnavarro9856
    @michaelnavarro9856 3 роки тому +104

    This is the first video I’ve seen on this channel and I gotta say.....what a relief. After seeing so many garbage videos/channels being spread around over UA-cam, it’s so nice to come across a channel that’s giving actual grounded and solid dating advice. Really hope your voice gets promoted because these dudes spreading just outright false/toxic information are so annoying. Thank you thank you thank you!!!

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  3 роки тому +3

      ❤️🙏🏻

    • @PainxSorrow
      @PainxSorrow 2 роки тому

      @Whiwjwuwiq the red pill essentially is for men that lost hope in modern women.

    • @viseshism
      @viseshism 2 роки тому +3

      I'm in a very similar spot. I started looking into this shit and I could not fathom how people believe so much BS. Every single advice people on either side seem to give is either sweeping generalizations about arbitrarily defined groups, and/or in complete disregard of societal consequences. This truly has been refreshing.

    • @oscardagrouch3504
      @oscardagrouch3504 Рік тому

      This fool is just peddling delusional advice!!!

  • @ItsComplicatedChannel
    @ItsComplicatedChannel 2 роки тому +9

    "Dating for women is like shopping, dating for men is like going on a job interview that he's paying for..." PLEASE REACT TO MY CONTENT

  • @Matt_Nor
    @Matt_Nor 3 роки тому +64

    People fascinate me. Especially when it comes to dating. The mindsets and POV's...
    I don't ever wanna be like that. What the genuine me wants is to grow and learn as much as possible whilst loving life and meeting new people.
    Toxic people is like toxic gas. It simply is not healthy to be around.

  • @isaiahgovea2319
    @isaiahgovea2319 2 роки тому +9

    I've been going down the redpill rabbit hole within past 2 days and now im seeing the other side of the spectrum, very interesting week of learning this stuff.

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  2 роки тому +3

      There’s no red pill rabbit hole. This is all it is “women are shallow and will leave you for another man immediately so make sure you’re rich, tall, and famous.” I love how boys make it out to be some mind blowing revelation.

    • @isaiahgovea2319
      @isaiahgovea2319 2 роки тому

      @@AnthonyRecenello what are your thoughts on Pearl?

  • @pixie3760
    @pixie3760 3 роки тому +39

    I like to know a man before the relationship becomes physical.

    • @Overseer2579
      @Overseer2579 3 роки тому +2

      I would too

    • @blackharpy7468
      @blackharpy7468 3 роки тому +7

      Really? Are you saying this after you've slept with multiple men?

    • @natashadickson4819
      @natashadickson4819 2 роки тому +3

      😃 Don't sleep with them at all. These men and their coaches just want conquests, not commitment. They seduce women, then walk away and saying it was so easy. Other men string a woman along for years, winding down her biological clock but not marrying her. Wake up. Casual sex is a man's game. Don't play. 😄

    • @justsomecrazymexican
      @justsomecrazymexican 2 роки тому +2

      @@natashadickson4819 It’s a mans game but I got played by girls my whole life damn right we want a conquest y’all on a world tour

    • @justsomecrazymexican
      @justsomecrazymexican 2 роки тому +1

      @@blackharpy7468 They all are sadly, the only virgin girl I know is a religious one even she wants it she just can’t have it

  • @Tonymcd274
    @Tonymcd274 2 роки тому +12

    Attaching yourself to a pill is already sad. Stand on your name.

    • @chachachin5697
      @chachachin5697 2 роки тому +1

      Yea. These people need guidance. From the right ppl tho.

    • @Tonymcd274
      @Tonymcd274 2 роки тому

      @@chachachin5697 check out TyKwonDoe he’s a W life coach

    • @chirunimumesi9736
      @chirunimumesi9736 Рік тому +1

      I love this comment!

  • @KawaiiCat2
    @KawaiiCat2 3 роки тому +20

    Always be with people who treat you the way you want to be treated. Otherwise they aren’t worth your time.

    • @Overseer2579
      @Overseer2579 2 роки тому +2

      My mom told me, “you will find your person. Someone who will treat you with the kindness and respect you deserve”, after I had been jerked around by this guy from Grindr, and had been essentially forced to reject myself over text cause he told me he’d asked out a guy he had a crush on and wouldn’t just come out and reject me. After she said that, I eventually came to the realization that, that guy was just one more wrong person out of the way on my path to finding my person. I just wanna have as much fun as possible on the way to that special person. Also, if someone is such a coward that they can’t even have the balls to be straight up and reject you when they’re already rejecting your OVER TEXT, be grateful you’ll never see them again

  • @pinkconfessions
    @pinkconfessions 3 роки тому +33

    I had a similar experience in regards to the dating coach POV TikTok video, I actually matched with a dating coach on an online dating site and he had bum-rushed me and was being inauthentic, putting on this act and acting similar to this guy in the TikTok video. And he teaches those techniques to young men and I immediately notice what he was doing, got off the phone, and like you said they have multiple people in their pocket and just need that one to bite the bait. Imagine how many other people must have believed them when they were using those techniques on them, but the reality is that the dating coach I matched with isn’t teaching anything beneficial to improve their dating life. He was teaching them how to have multiple people, score those dates, get laid then move on to the next one and replace the previous date with a new date and repeat the cycle.

    • @OGFOOD187
      @OGFOOD187 2 роки тому +1

      so his technique worked ? because if it did not work then how did his students get laid

    • @MarksTournaments
      @MarksTournaments 2 роки тому +1

      Just like what most females do 😂😂😂

  • @ExposetheManosphere
    @ExposetheManosphere 3 роки тому +18

    It was only a matter of time before Red Pillers migrated to Tik Tok. Now they take short Tik Tok clips and critique them through titles and have gained more subscribers.

    • @levihalperin7649
      @levihalperin7649 3 роки тому

      They been on UA-cam

    • @ExposetheManosphere
      @ExposetheManosphere 3 роки тому

      @@levihalperin7649 I meant Tik Tok. My mistake.

    • @HonkHonkler
      @HonkHonkler 2 роки тому +1

      That doesn't slow done the content or how informative it is lol. It's still gaining traction lol.

  • @kobe24rockz
    @kobe24rockz 2 роки тому +58

    Damn it is refreshing to see emotionally intelligent commetnary in this current dating landscape.

    • @G--Mann
      @G--Mann 2 роки тому

      Stupid terms like "emotionally intelligent"; keep propagating feminist terms and ideologies! You are either intelligent or not!

  • @Devilsnowballs
    @Devilsnowballs 2 роки тому +28

    Dude thank you for putting this out there. Idk if you know the service you are doing with producing content that's honest and not hate-filled entitled and realistic.

  • @notyou3490
    @notyou3490 2 роки тому +4

    As soon as you date one, maybe two girls in that circle, you have to find a brand new circle.

  • @KerrRobinson
    @KerrRobinson 2 місяці тому

    The algorithm threw this my way….wish I saw this two years ago when it was posted. The best part about this video is not so much the advice (which is wildly helpful) but the means to get out of my own head. I was one of these guys that would hyper fixate on things like body language and trying to read social cues. This guy just says, be present and give yourself to a moment with authenticity. It’s very liberating…thanks for this. Subbed!

  • @radicalcat4942
    @radicalcat4942 2 роки тому +2

    I came here just curious about what a dating couch would hace to say and came out with an entire not only dating lesson, but life lesson in general, this was literally a life-view changing video. This was incredible, you're an amazing human being Anthony!

  • @joffre55
    @joffre55 2 роки тому +6

    Would like to see you have a conversation with youtubers like Young Don The Sauce God or Aba & Preach who tilt more towards the red pill side but are level headed. That would be such great content too.

  • @altpath
    @altpath 2 роки тому +13

    The only good advice on this video is building social circles. That seems to be the best way to meet people. "Hey, you're single right? My friend is single too. I should set you guys up." That's the way I've noticed works and you can usually bypass terrible people because hopefully your friends won't set you up with a total monster.

    • @0volts157
      @0volts157 2 роки тому +3

      The good old way of meeting people through other people.

    • @abceckswhyzee7169
      @abceckswhyzee7169 2 роки тому +2

      On me old school dating was much better

    • @theoneandonly2359
      @theoneandonly2359 2 роки тому +1

      How about you guys go out and talk to someone

  • @johndangerbenedictarnold7862
    @johndangerbenedictarnold7862 2 роки тому +2

    If you’re not happy and this doesn’t help more than likely you are depressed and need to talk to someone. Therapy is manly.

  • @Chiddychild
    @Chiddychild 2 роки тому +5

    Interesting video. In my case I can say one thing that gave me the most problems in dating was not knowing what to do and what not to do.

  • @danzkoma5773
    @danzkoma5773 3 роки тому +14

    13:00 This is not true at all. As a guy, if a woman said I want to have sex, it would make me way more attracted to her if I was interested in her on a date. Something about a woman stating exactly what she wants just does it for me

    • @hellenmuka7207
      @hellenmuka7207 3 роки тому +5

      I have told men explicitly and they treated me horribly afterwards and during the act .....NEVER AGAIN ... LET'S KEEP PLAYING PRETEND FOR NOW ...

    • @Kingofkings07133
      @Kingofkings07133 3 роки тому +6

      @@hellenmuka7207 I mean it’s ur job to preserve value after sex. He may have just used you to hit and run and maybe wants another girl now. A lot of guys lie about wanting relationships

    • @hellenmuka7207
      @hellenmuka7207 3 роки тому +7

      @@Kingofkings07133 yes.....I will remember this anytime men complain about how the government treats them....

    • @Overseer2579
      @Overseer2579 3 роки тому +3

      It’d be the same way for me too. I love it when anybody has the confidence to express interest in getting to know me or having sex with me (as long as I’m already interested in having sex with them or being their friend as well, lol). Regardless of your gender, if you wanna bone, just be straight up, don’t play games

    • @Overseer2579
      @Overseer2579 3 роки тому

      @@hellenmuka7207 savage comeback

  • @guilhermesalesferreiradaco2934
    @guilhermesalesferreiradaco2934 2 роки тому +4

    U fail to realize that men and women are completely different

    • @allysanimalchannel
      @allysanimalchannel 2 роки тому +1

      How so?

    • @Threegreentails
      @Threegreentails Рік тому

      U fail to realize that men and women have much more similarities than differences. Stop using this dumb argument all the time, we are the same species for fucks sake

  • @ballislife9924
    @ballislife9924 3 роки тому +14

    4:00 that point is so true. There were many times where a girl was interested in me and I just shut off completely because I'm sooo afraid of dating. I'm turning 23 in a month and I only had flings etc.. because I truly can't open up. I always tell myself that I just don't feel the girl really. But tbh I'm just afraid lol. Primarily because it's 1) uncomfortable and 2) because I'm afraid of being "tied down". I know it's not really rational but idk man

    • @Overseer2579
      @Overseer2579 3 роки тому +4

      I feel bad for you. Is there anyone close to you in your life that you can talk to about why you maybe feel this way? Cause I know the feeling of being afraid to open up and accept change, even if it’s positive, and that seems like part of what you may be feeling. Or maybe; have you considered a therapist?

    • @ballislife9924
      @ballislife9924 3 роки тому

      @@Overseer2579 Maybe I would need a therapist because I have some close friends but even there I still have some sort of facade often. And my mom is my closest "friend" but the problem is.. she really is like me. She can't help me with that. It was more luck than anything that she ended up with my dad who btw is not in touch with his emotions at all. He is a brick in that regard.
      They work together because they leave each other a lot of scape and both are not romantical at all. They didn't even propose to each other for marriage lmao. They just did it after I was there lol. We are all very rational and closed off. We can speak about things very well (well my mom and me at least) but don't really feel it.
      And idk I have this image of me that I'm very independent and tough and I don't need shit. Because I pulled through so much and I always came out of top. I have that ability to always believe in myself when it matters so it would be hard for me to admit that I maybe need outside help with something. I think I would just put up a charming front with a therapist again but really wouldn't be my true self.

    • @ballislife9924
      @ballislife9924 2 роки тому

      @@WrathofFenrir99 Yes that's probably true

    • @maryamdiao1509
      @maryamdiao1509 2 роки тому

      You have healing to do.

  • @jawvees2585
    @jawvees2585 Рік тому +4

    Finally a dating channel that's not toxic nonsense thanks bro your a gem🌾🥳🇿🇦

  • @HowDareYouCactusFreak
    @HowDareYouCactusFreak 2 роки тому +3

    Honestly, I don’t believe the guy is conservative. The girl might be and she may be holding on to different values. Not every girl in the conservative space wants to give up her virginity or sleep around. It’s something she might hold dear. Her intention may be to meet a partner for a long term and committed relationship. The guy may not be looking for a partner. I think it’s important to state intentions, personal values and expectations before you date. This way you aren’t wasting each other’s time.

  • @RenkoBocchi
    @RenkoBocchi 5 місяців тому +1

    My scared ass won't even try. The consequences are scary.

  • @flala2261
    @flala2261 3 роки тому +33

    Your work/videos should be taught in a mandatory class for teens in high school
    so they grow up with better rounded sensibilities & outlooks ✨🧠✨

  • @AroundTheBest
    @AroundTheBest 2 роки тому +2

    I never believed the pick up artist nonsense, but I'm also single and completely devoid of hope.

  • @EricWen
    @EricWen 3 роки тому +9

    Loved this haha

  • @cristianitsirc6830
    @cristianitsirc6830 3 роки тому +9

    227k subs and only 593 likes? I'd like to see the downvote button.

  • @ViNtAgELovv11
    @ViNtAgELovv11 2 роки тому +2

    What about if you have mental health issues and find it hard to be happy the way other people do? There's got to be a way to still "own it"... to still love yourself regardless. I feel like there can be a lot of shame and stigma around mental illness/depression, therefore meaning you're not happy/attractive enough

  • @beyondallreason-du4pq
    @beyondallreason-du4pq Рік тому +1

    😂😂😂😂the first clip.... ain't no way that man is serious

  • @zengara11
    @zengara11 Рік тому +1

    Haven't watched this yet, but basically "do everything, become incredible, just to date a 5/10, and ignore her disgusting day to day behaviour" is my guess, where this is leading

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  Рік тому +1

      Thoughts?

    • @zengara11
      @zengara11 Рік тому

      Wasn't completely wrong. But still, truth is, women want confidence, women want money and personality. The rest is BS. You are better of leaning right, rather than left, when it comes to this. Your best bet, is to be able to swim with women in the left space, and the right space, but understand if her space, is the bitchy space, then dip

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  Рік тому +1

      @@zengara11 which women want money? And why wouldn’t women want confidence and personality? Do you think they just want a shell of a human? Confused at what you’re getting at.

    • @zengara11
      @zengara11 Рік тому

      @@AnthonyRecenello Women that earn more than their man, usually end up divorcing them. This statistic is pretty clear.
      And beyond that, I am saying that people fixate on other stuff, like I like a guy when he "yada yada yada" fact is, have a personality, confidence, and money, everything else does not matter.

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  Рік тому +1

      @@zengara11 A study published in the American Sociological Review in 2011 found that, in the U.S., couples in which the wife earned more than the husband had a higher risk of divorce compared to couples where the husband earned more. The researchers speculated that the increased risk of divorce might be due to traditional gender role expectations and the associated stress or challenges that may arise when these expectations are not met.
      So this is not some stat based on psychology, but rather based on pressure from societal expectations. Also, this is a correlation, not a causation. Which can mean that the husband may have become depressed and lost his job-leading to a fractured relationship. It’s important not to just throw stats out and assume they fit your bias, but to look into them and see what actually happened. Further, the majority of statistics like this have happened over a decade ago, before millennials became adults. Boomers and Gen Xers are unfortunately still victim to and brainwashed by these societal traditions and gender roles.
      But further, who cares? What are you implying with that? That you are scared that women who make more money than you will leave you? There are a ton of random statistics, but will you go by all statistics even if you’re in love with a great person?
      And for your next comment, you kinda just restated what you said earlier, disregarding my response. Why wouldn’t someone want to date someone with confidence and a good personality?

  • @wg6263
    @wg6263 2 роки тому +5

    Yeah dating is hard when you date people you have nothing in common with, that want completely different things out of a relationship.

  • @angelhampton4365
    @angelhampton4365 Рік тому +1

    This is crazy 🤣 They're all insecure... They all sound crazy and it's loud in every video

  • @SeniorAdrian
    @SeniorAdrian 2 роки тому +3

    4:44 Disagree. We evolved to be with someone. Its biological. Like every animal.

    • @0volts157
      @0volts157 2 роки тому +2

      I agree. I've read several times that we are social creatures.

    • @maryamdiao1509
      @maryamdiao1509 2 роки тому

      Wrong if we did men wouldn’t be so lonely and single

    • @SeniorAdrian
      @SeniorAdrian 2 роки тому +1

      @@0volts157 Of course we are. UA-camrs like this just regurgitate "quote" ideologies.

  • @trustnobody2026
    @trustnobody2026 3 роки тому +3

    Dudes that don’t except the redpoll are done .. they never will

  • @gl3110
    @gl3110 2 роки тому +2

    It amazes me that people who are driven by pure resentment are giving out dating advice... and have such a huge amount of people listen to them.
    The idea that men only want sex and nothing else boggles my mind. If that's the case then why not just go to a hooker, give them money and they'll have sex with you. Why bother with dating, why bother taking a girl out, why bother trying to talk to her? There's obviously more to dating than just sex.

  • @pracowniaswiadomosci
    @pracowniaswiadomosci 3 роки тому +57

    I feel happier, more relaxed and safe knowing You dismantle some harmful mindsets up there. I am truly grateful for what you bring to the world 💛

    • @Overseer2579
      @Overseer2579 3 роки тому +1

      Me too :)

    • @handsomecriminal6942
      @handsomecriminal6942 3 роки тому +6

      He’s just a left wing "he/him“ b1tch boy telling women what they wanna hear. He’s right about the pick up artists though. They’re cringe as hell.

    • @somaspecialist
      @somaspecialist 3 роки тому +3

      @@handsomecriminal6942 That's what I got...Blue pilled liberal.....beta as hell...

    • @Melly16yr10
      @Melly16yr10 2 роки тому +2

      Same here 😄

  • @MelissaSVice
    @MelissaSVice 2 роки тому +2

    It's one thing to promote self-love, esteem, and empowerment to better a person. Even telling people to get their shit together, get their money right, and their mindset focus because these are important for personal growth to strengthen against harder times to come in the real world. But it's totally and incredible asinine to tell these young men to do this PRIMARILY to game women all for the purpose of sleeping with them, accumulate a high body count, lose all sense of humanity as well as the ability to genuinely bond with a person on an emotional and intellectual level, and seeing people as objects and tally marks for their status quo and reputation as a "man". Guys...growing from a foundation of bitterness does not get you to that plane of "success" nor does it make you a man in the long run. Intellectually and emotionally, people of this red pill nature have not left the same base they started from, and that's something they need to really reflect on because the minute anyone feels they have to flex on someone else, congratulations, they've become a corny victim and by product of the trauma they haven't even begun to face. Imagine giving all your energy and credit of success away to people of the past. Imagine never having wanted that for yourself and only wanting it to get back at other people. Says a lot about a person's willingness to remain a victim after everything...

  • @mikelitorous5570
    @mikelitorous5570 3 роки тому +16

    What I think Patrice O’Neal was saying tho was women do not have any skill in order to get a man. So now that the world is becoming a less conservative place especially the dating world. Women won’t then budge on things that are more conservative that benefit them. For example, having to get rejected by approaching men they like. Or by having to date down financially etc. Patrice is just saying that women should be less conservative when it comes to approaching men and I would think that’s a good thing he’s saying.

    • @Marc91weinheimer
      @Marc91weinheimer 3 роки тому +6

      Don't waste your time explaining thing to the people here, i don't think many of them will get it.
      And concerning the women they are neither conservative nor progessive when it comes to dating ... they are cherry picking ( you already named a few examples for that) but they will not admit it because it makes them look bad .. there are a few with good charaktre though that propably would admit such things

  • @timdang3655
    @timdang3655 2 роки тому +10

    4:39 You're absolutely right, this is what I learned from MGTOW and if dating is making you feel miserable then you just shouldn't, maybe dating isn't meant for you, as a guy who's 5'5 this is why I gave up on dating when I was 18 last year and ever since then, my life is better than it was last year, I workout more got stronger and I even got to drive. I got friends that stayed single their whole lives and their lives I'd say are better than mine. I can't change my height and therefore I can't change the fact that I'm single, But I'd rather stay single forever and be grateful for what I have rather then feel miserable trying to date.

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  2 роки тому +20

      You don’t know how young you are. Just trust me when I say it will get better for you. And please stop taking dating so seriously. Just make it a fun experiment without any need for achieving something-except a better self.

    • @andrew8168
      @andrew8168 2 роки тому +3

      Youre super young and it will get better but dont fall for the trap. The same girls who ignored you when they were young and pretty will want to lock you down right before that ends. Dont do it!

    • @timdang3655
      @timdang3655 2 роки тому +3

      @@andrew8168 Well unless I can adjust my height grow myself taller from 5'5 to 6ft, I can't change it, and I was told that if I can't change it, then leave it. If they never gave me a chance in the beginning then that's fine, they made their choice, I'm not giving them an another chance ever. Especially if I can live without them and stay single for as long as I live.

    • @boogynights
      @boogynights 2 роки тому

      @@timdang3655
      Only can do is appear taller with posture.

    • @PainxSorrow
      @PainxSorrow 2 роки тому +1

      @@timdang3655 just become a city boy get a bag chase your dreams don’t chase a bitch

  • @jokerpilled2535
    @jokerpilled2535 2 роки тому +9

    “Dating expert” - good to know it doesn’t take much credentials to be an expert these days. This dude is still living in the 2000s era pickup artist days.

    • @maryamdiao1509
      @maryamdiao1509 2 роки тому +1

      😢😢😢poor caveman sucks to be you

  • @ariascarletstorm
    @ariascarletstorm 3 роки тому +9

    Can you do a video on how to improve your self esteem? 💖

    • @christophervibe7430
      @christophervibe7430 2 роки тому +1

      Stop giving a fuck what people think. Ur self esteem will improve its that easy

    • @ariascarletstorm
      @ariascarletstorm 2 роки тому +2

      @@christophervibe7430 it's not that easy when you're an abuse victim. Often words they said to you stay with you for years. It's not so easy as just "stop giving a fuck"

    • @Lmaochris9999
      @Lmaochris9999 2 роки тому +1

      @@christophervibe7430 terrible advice

  • @luigierodriguez3553
    @luigierodriguez3553 2 роки тому +6

    Myron from f&f aren't wrong saying if a girl don't want to have sex kick her to the curb. Because men and women are very different. Men want sex and women want attention and validation. She would get what she wants but men don't. Its nothing personal,. is only a dating game strategy.

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  2 роки тому +1

      Ok luigie, show me the proof women was attention and men want sex. And I’ll believe you!

    • @luigierodriguez3553
      @luigierodriguez3553 2 роки тому +7

      @@AnthonyRecenello I don't need you to believe me, and I don't need to proof you anything. Im just exercise my freedom to speech. My argument is not about my interpretation, is nothing but a fact. Reseach by yourself.

    • @CarlosHigg
      @CarlosHigg 2 роки тому +5

      @@AnthonyRecenello Pair bonding in animals closely related to us.
      'Among pair-bonding tamarin monkeys, lots of grooming and physical contact predicted high oxytocin levels in female members of a pair. What predicted high levels of oxytocin in males? Lots of sex.' - Robert Sapolsky Behave, p.128

    • @jokerpilled2535
      @jokerpilled2535 2 роки тому

      @@AnthonyRecenello pathetic “expert”

    • @maryamdiao1509
      @maryamdiao1509 2 роки тому

      So men and woman are shallow therefore men can’t complain about attracting disgusting partners. We are more than our instincts dummy

  • @offBeatRock777
    @offBeatRock777 2 роки тому +3

    How did men and women find each other before dating coaches became a thing?

  • @wonkyconky1602
    @wonkyconky1602 Рік тому +1

    So as a dating coach I think you are wrong on the f&f part you agreed to men should take women out on date even tho she doesn't want anything with him?

  • @uniqueunique8350
    @uniqueunique8350 Рік тому +2

    Myron is the worst type of pariah.

  • @tylerriggs95
    @tylerriggs95 2 роки тому +1

    I don’t subscribe to TRP ideology but it has caught on so quickly because there is some undeniable truth to it, especially with the different dynamics between casual sex and long-term relationships.

  • @ihanakaunotar2741
    @ihanakaunotar2741 Рік тому

    I like that they’re open with this shit, that way I know right away to avoid them.

  • @absolut_dre
    @absolut_dre 2 роки тому +1

    This dude's doing nothing but projecting his own shit into everyone else who speaks in facts.

  • @MagicMattHawkins
    @MagicMattHawkins Рік тому +1

    This video is so good!!! 🙏

  • @megu522
    @megu522 2 роки тому +2

    This is the first video I have seen of this guy and I think I love him! Good video man, super funny and intelligent.

  • @omarevans719
    @omarevans719 10 місяців тому

    One thing we can all agree on is that dating sucks in 2024. If I want intimacy from a woman without the bullshit, I don't mind paying for it here and there.. it's easier and cheaper than trying to impress her on dates and get nothing in return.... I don't give a shit what society thinks about me I do my own thing.

  • @Vran4743
    @Vran4743 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for putting out this content

  • @Julia-kv2po
    @Julia-kv2po Рік тому

    Dating is dangerous to our happiness and it puts our valuable time at risk, we think “are we spending it as well as we know we deserve by going on this date tonight?” And that fear of wasting time is real. Btw I’m in an awesome relationship but I’ve been there

  • @danielspigeons6570
    @danielspigeons6570 3 роки тому +1

    5:16 just leaving this here for myself because that's the smartest thing I've heard anybody say on youtube

  • @coultphoto
    @coultphoto 2 роки тому +8

    wait you're the dating "expert" here?
    lol

    • @longbeach225
      @longbeach225 2 роки тому +4

      Right? he some dating expert. Not. LMAO!!

  • @Overseer2579
    @Overseer2579 3 роки тому +6

    One good thing I will say about the pizza guy from the first TikTok, as scary and petty as that was; that TikTok will live forever on the internet, and his employer, as well as future employers, will be able to see it at any time, and he could possibly get fired or disqualified from jobs, based on the threatening behavior he displayed there

  • @G0ldL3ader
    @G0ldL3ader 3 роки тому +4

    You either die a 7:12, or live long enough to become 11:07

    • @boxingnerd-007
      @boxingnerd-007 3 роки тому

      Holy Shit you hit the nail in the coffin! Bravo!

  • @jaygreen9836
    @jaygreen9836 Рік тому

    Taking girl advice from a homosexual, doesn’t make any sense in my book

  • @AissataDCisse
    @AissataDCisse Рік тому

    These persons will make you second guess every action of people who will approach us which is terrible. I really wish people were genuine.

  • @raez9424
    @raez9424 Рік тому +2

    10:41 "Conservative bs" lol that conservative bs Is what started and kept marriage and relationships since the dawn of human time. Why would we move on to modern day bs which is just bad

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  Рік тому +1

      So many are divorced. And marriage was hell for most people before divorce got popular. Why do all conservatives think that the 50s was just heaven? The emotional and physical abuse between spouses was crazy. It’s stuff nobody discussed at the time because it was seen as taboo to talk about.
      You can’t just blindly listen to red pill and conservatives because they love making big statements that aren’t entirely true.
      Of course marriage is a great thing. But the way relationships have happened for a long time have been mostly shit.
      There needs to be mutual respect, positivity, unconditional love, and no entitlement from one another. And most marriages don’t have that, or eventually turn that way after years of monotony.
      But since you say “kept marriage” does that mean just kept the marriage? Or do you mean perfect marriage? And what countries and cultures? What eras? What demographics? Psychographics?
      Or did you literally just tell me that before modern day wokes, marriage was absolutely perfect?
      Would love to keep chatting about this witcha! 🤙🏻

  • @animation6639
    @animation6639 2 роки тому +4

    You seem also kind of childish by instulting all the people in the tiktoks you should learn to be more mature I liked some of your points but the insults make the video just childish

  • @allenmartin3508
    @allenmartin3508 Рік тому

    I simply treat others male or female exactly the same respect I'm given but expect the same in return just one man's humble opinion

  • @uri-yahu
    @uri-yahu 2 роки тому +3

    you're on here calling people a lot of names that I don't think you would in person be respectful you might get pressed on day and it wont end well for you💯💯

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  2 роки тому +1

      Are you saying someone would murder me cuz I called them names? Who would do that?

  • @TonyStark-pu4il
    @TonyStark-pu4il 2 роки тому +27

    Instead of watching hours of boring comedy where I don't get the jokes I just watch Red Pill content and get more amusement from a bunch of men complaining about women. For a bunch of men who are supposedly done with women they sure obsess a lot about them.

    • @afonsodeportugal
      @afonsodeportugal 2 роки тому +4

      @Tony Stark
      Red Pill is not "men done with women". Your mistaking the Red Pill for MGTOW.

    • @CowboysBman
      @CowboysBman 2 роки тому

      Red pill means done with leftist wokeism which partly includes feminism who claim they hate men but obsess a lot about them

    • @longbeach225
      @longbeach225 2 роки тому

      Red Pill is about waking up to reality and its more than just women its about how society caters to women and not men. For example a woman yell "sexual harassment" and the man would be arrested and jailed on false allegation. She is automatically believed as source of truth but that maybe changing now Amber Heard vs Johnny Depp trial exposed that all women cannot be believed. If a man cheats a woman can divorce a man and take half of his wealth. If a woman cheats and man divorces, she will still get his stuff. Essentially women are rewarded for breaking the contract. This is what Red Pill content is all about. Its not about hating but educating men on issues in modern society. After seeing my friend get divorced raped in court and woman took half of his 401K, his condo and in debt with alimony. After the divorce his ex wife brag on Instagram how she took her man car. Its no joke out there. Red Pill tell men to not marry and its great advice because of current way men are treated.

    • @guts2186
      @guts2186 2 роки тому +1

      Red Pill is not "men done with women".

    • @guts2186
      @guts2186 2 роки тому +1

      @@afonsodeportugal Facts

  • @neonrays28
    @neonrays28 3 роки тому +3

    Yay I found a guy on UA-cam who has sense. Subscribe.

  • @chrkrngl
    @chrkrngl 2 роки тому +6

    Man, I love your philosophy. I believe it is generally true. I believe I come from a very different perspective on life than you, but it absolutely makes sense to me what you are saying. Thank you. And please more of this "meta" content. I also love that you don't primarily want so sell something. This is ultra rare.

  • @Iam_Celene
    @Iam_Celene 2 роки тому +3

    Anthony Recelnello I’m 22 and since like 18 I haven’t even talked to guys just nothing at all I just took the time to really heal and grow as a person but I’m ready to get out there dating but I am someone who’s always been sexually conservative but I’m friendly And a lot of guys really aren’t willing to build a platonic friendship with me before any sex happens and I’ve kind of “gone my own way” and finding my own interests and developing skills but it’s still hard

  • @rocko4520
    @rocko4520 2 роки тому +3

    Don’t have to do anything for woman just be you and go thru your day, chase money.

    • @desserteyes6978
      @desserteyes6978 2 роки тому

      Women don’t have to do anything for you only some lazy hoes who aren’t even physically attracted to you. They fake it for your money. Poor men having to buy love

    • @rocko4520
      @rocko4520 2 роки тому +1

      @@desserteyes6978 Yea I wonder why they yell “Im coming” every time we hangout. Haha I’m joking but my comment is fried, it basically means no one has to do anything for us, just focus on you, chase your goals/money. I don’t mess with hoes but I hope to find a respectful woman one day but it’s alittle rough rn.

    • @maryamdiao1509
      @maryamdiao1509 2 роки тому

      Just be yourself and find time for other things

  • @Del-Tye5434
    @Del-Tye5434 2 роки тому +6

    What the heck is this video about. Just be yourself. There’s something wrong with someone who is dating long enough to be a dating expert.

  • @wizardddy3023
    @wizardddy3023 2 роки тому +5

    This dude is a scam artist.

  • @manahagosvideos9416
    @manahagosvideos9416 3 роки тому +22

    Are you always right? And the only person who knows everything about dating?

  • @somaspecialist
    @somaspecialist 3 роки тому +6

    This content creator has a channel called "Betas Podcasts" that's all you need to know......lol

  • @wg6263
    @wg6263 2 роки тому

    I only take girls out on dates because eating alone at a restaurant is awkward. I'd rather pay for two than eat alone.

    • @Nah-ah
      @Nah-ah 2 роки тому +1

      WHAT? When I was single, I used to go out eating alone as well as been to the movies by myself! I maybe weird 😅 I just enjoyed myself and now that I’ve been married for a while, I have a room with a beautiful view that I go and sit in by myself, sometimes my husband joins me, and I enjoy the peaceful setting and being by myself. Maybe I’m a loner at heart!

  • @Marc91weinheimer
    @Marc91weinheimer 3 роки тому +5

    14:31 Patrice o neal is right there

  • @randomanimefan96
    @randomanimefan96 2 роки тому +3

    Are you really a dating expert? Feeling sad for your clients. You don't live in reality dude. Your view is optimistic but not realistic.

    • @gigguko6214
      @gigguko6214 2 роки тому +1

      He is one of the most popular dating coach and a millionaire.

    • @Feverdreams13
      @Feverdreams13 2 роки тому

      @@gigguko6214 I would be too if I give advice to Incels and motherfu-ckers you can’t get laid 😭😭😭😭

    • @maryamdiao1509
      @maryamdiao1509 2 роки тому

      Shut up

    • @maryamdiao1509
      @maryamdiao1509 2 роки тому

      Ur musty anyways

    • @randomanimefan96
      @randomanimefan96 2 роки тому

      @@maryamdiao1509 typical response. Women ☕️

  • @kazumawarren
    @kazumawarren 3 роки тому +2

    great video!

  • @millenadecampos7192
    @millenadecampos7192 3 роки тому +7

    It would be interesting to know what would you say to christian people. I want to wait until marriage so finding the final person is important to me, because of my values and morals.

    • @rmercedes971
      @rmercedes971 3 роки тому +4

      I would suggest to try to date men who are also Christian (true Christians, not just the title).
      Before you even meet them out for a first date ask them about their values, what their looking for, and what is their current purpose for dating.
      It really doesn’t make sense to go any farther if they say something like “I’m just enjoying my life right now, not looking for commitment”, or “I see myself getting married in about 10 years, I don’t feel ready right now”, that’s your cue that it’s not even worth moving forward or even finding out if they’re willing to wait ‘til marriage, because he’s not even ready for commitment. Best to move on quickly if your values & priorities are not in alignment.
      That’s exactly what I was doing when I found my husband, we were both at the same stage in life, we were both ready for marriage, and were willing to sacrifice $€X to do things right in God’s eyes.

    • @millenadecampos7192
      @millenadecampos7192 3 роки тому

      @@rmercedes971 thanks!

    • @rmercedes971
      @rmercedes971 3 роки тому +3

      @@millenadecampos7192 You’re welcome ☺️ ! Don’t be disheartened, there are still decent, God fearing young men out there and I know you will find the one God has for you. Wish you the best!

    • @ralegade7710
      @ralegade7710 2 роки тому

      As a Christian you should be courting, not dating.

    • @Nah-ah
      @Nah-ah 2 роки тому

      @@ralegade7710 what’s the difference?

  • @jimmurphy9904
    @jimmurphy9904 3 роки тому

    Great video and points!

  • @TravelBug189
    @TravelBug189 2 роки тому +1

    I’m pretty sure we’re biologically wired to need each other. Otherwise none of us would be here.
    Men needing women and vice versa is not a bad thing! It’s a beautiful thing. We can make things happen on our own we really can’t. We simply need to learn how to be better partners

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  2 роки тому +4

      We are! You can have friends. You don’t need a life partner.

    • @Feverdreams13
      @Feverdreams13 2 роки тому +1

      @@AnthonyRecenello I honestly think you’re actively being ignorant to what he said but ok 😂😂😂

  • @longbeach225
    @longbeach225 2 роки тому +6

    Sorry Anthony but your tips and advice do not reflect modern dating. Truth is dating in the west like America, Australia, Canada is a huge joke. It has gotten worse with the evolution of social media and online dating and with apps like Instagram and Tinder makes women think they have this huge shopping list of men. Women today has this huge shopping list requirement for men (tall, 6 figure income, 6 pack abs, like this and that), very much large entitled attitudes and they provide nothing in return. They think existing is good enough. Sorry as a man in my 30's I seen it all. I got out of dating and stopped trying, not gonna mess around entitled women who act like they deserve the world and everything handed to them on a silver patter.
    However, I'm in a wonderful relationship now with a Filipino woman and I currently live in the Philippines. I met her back in 2018 when I was sent by company to help opening a new office in Philippines. When I saw her behavior compared to women in the US it was no brainer she is a keeper. She is feminine and fit unlike most western women who has a masculine attitude.
    Today men either walk away from women and give up or they going overseas for a foreign wife. As I tell men, go get your passport and explore beyond the borders.

    • @0volts157
      @0volts157 2 роки тому +2

      Congratulations, longbeach225. The fact that you met your lady in a traditional way makes it all the more wonderful.

    • @maryamdiao1509
      @maryamdiao1509 2 роки тому

      Your generalizing

  • @margheritabalzani8423
    @margheritabalzani8423 2 роки тому +2

    I just realised that: dating=making friends while kipping in mind the idea of creating a relationship. I would have just made a new friend if it didn't work. It is that simple.

  • @theneverending9319
    @theneverending9319 3 роки тому +8

    Fit was already busted for trying to be a sugar daddy

    • @Rocanala
      @Rocanala 2 роки тому +2

      He admits to paying for women/sex. And men take dating advice from him🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @JAYBOXPOWER1987
      @JAYBOXPOWER1987 2 роки тому

      Myron is a clown. He hates it when people calls him out on his bullshit. He gets super emotional. I'm waiting for the day a man checks him on his own show.

  • @troller548
    @troller548 2 роки тому

    Great video , thanks

  • @Prince-qr1te
    @Prince-qr1te 2 роки тому

    Lmao, a 'dating expert' who thinks we're not biologically hardwired to want to be intimate with others. Why do you think the sex industry is so huge??

  • @wg6263
    @wg6263 2 роки тому +1

    Red pill definitely started off with good intentions. Clearly some things have changed.

  • @Ricky-ki6yj
    @Ricky-ki6yj 2 роки тому +6

    A lot of what you said was personal bias without any facts in it. You just shoved things to the side and disregarded them purely because you didn’t like them. Your way of thinking is very feminine, not that there’s anything wrong with that.

    • @theinsivibleman5309
      @theinsivibleman5309 2 роки тому +1

      had me up until that last bit, unless its sarcasm. His way of thinking is very effeminate in deed. but he doesn't care because that's what these masculine girls are drawn to nowadays.

  • @somedudeok1451
    @somedudeok1451 2 роки тому

    I wish I had known about a channel like this when I was falling down the pickup rabbit hole.

  • @Marc91weinheimer
    @Marc91weinheimer 3 роки тому +8

    16:41 that is the first good advice you gave in this video! props for that you are not complete garbage!

  • @screwedupmystic2597
    @screwedupmystic2597 2 роки тому +2

    I'm alpha. Trust me

  • @Datfan100
    @Datfan100 2 роки тому +1

    get your life together and you will see who the real enemy is...

  • @tipoftheiceberg7034
    @tipoftheiceberg7034 2 роки тому +2

    To be fair you're not a dating expert and ANYONE claiming to be isn't