You are so surprisingly hilarious and relatable with the spa music in the background. Literally didn’t even catch your jokes and had to rewind but I’m CACKLINGGGGG. Keep it up and please do this video 100 more times. Gonna watch the rest of your vids now KEEP IT UP
That first one is an absolute no. The second one lost me at "on a female". And your critique was spot on. Men, don't try so hard. Be genuine! That 3rd one was hilarious! Lol 4th dude was Johnny Bravo!
the one that's "you're so annoying, you're one of the main ppl in my life making staying at home difficult rn" I read it as he's stuck at home with my annoying ass texting/calling him and he wants to gtfo so he can avoid my annnoying ass LOL
Anthony Recenello bro.. totally unrelated but.. just found out we had confirmation of Todd’s intentions w Natalie since February in an interview with Todd’s ex Olivia O’Brien ua-cam.com/video/t_GmOChR60I/v-deo.html at like 1:45
You could say, "I'm so annoyed" but "You're so annoying" could just push someone to insult you back or cut off altogether. If someone insulted me outta nowhere, I would automatically think, "Toxic. GET AWAY!"
Sorry, but I do think thats a problem on your part aswell. Not a major problem I guess, but a problem. I think you should be able to take some insult and not act on that immediately. That is a good quality to have.
@@NewBoy0606 True true! But if it was someone I just met, I would think it's just a tactic to manipulate someone into a relationship or a fling. (PUA tactics) Don't get me wrong, I would wait and listen to see where it goes but being a target of narcissistic abuse, it contrasts in comparison to constructive criticism.
@@NewBoy0606 As for my original statement, I just mentioned it's just not how I would break the ice and then stated how I would flip it to make it more friendly, fun and innocent. As for receiving that statement, I would accept it as truth and move on. Just like yours, I love peoples honesty. If someone doesn't like me, that's kewl. I can respect that. If we had known each other for awhile, I would definitely want to talk about it but if it's a pick up line and I don't know the person, I would just figure it's the internet and there are a lot of trolls out there. But I'm not gonna stick around and clarify that I'm a good person to a stranger. That's silly lol The internet is full of strangers and trying to straighten out why each one doesn't like me would be tiring! lol Thanks for your point of view. 😊
Yeah, I would get so sad if someone called me annoying. Especially over text, I can't hear the way they say it over text. So I automatically assume the worst.
@@rae8961 It's a weird way to start a flirt, right? The boomerang from negative to positive. I like a surprise but... lol I don't think that's my style.
Lol that cringeworthy “perfect” pickup line 😂😂😂 Two problems: women can tell you’ve said that to LOTS of other women, so she’s not gonna feel unique at all. AND saying “I can tell you have unique qualities blah blah blah” - straight up, no you can’t. You can only see what she looks like unless you get to know her and there’s nothing unique about the way she looks. Your approach puts so much less cringe in the situation, Anthony; Just be friends first to see if you even like each other!!
I’m so glad we’re moving out of/have been out of the era of pickup lines lmao. I’ve never been good at that “style” of talking to the opposite sex because it’s never authentic. I’m much better at just talking to people in general and finding out what they’re really like lol
Deadass had a guy pull a diet version of that line on me THREE YEARS AGO and it didn't work then, not going to work now. Tbh I learned young that the correct answer to "can I ask you a question" is always "no," because bro wtf I don't have time for your nonsense ass games and scripts, just ask me a damn question if you got one.
Lol someone tried that "you're so annoying" line on me and I straight up roasted him and when he said the second bit I felt so bad I unmatched him. It's such a stupid line.
One - not cute and his comeback is too wordy. Two - too cocky and planned=trying to get laid.🤮 🧀 Three - funny Four - 🙄🤦♀️ again too cocky not friendly (totally believes he's a star) Five - David and Nat are adorable. Playing together is a plus Six - Again David plays well with others lol Seven - controlling love sounds insane. Run. "Something like that" "I really dug into it " 🙄 Eight - More then friends now. Nine - Nope Ten - 🤣 Eleven - huh? I just want the bed to be made. Twelve - kinda cute Thirteen - True
In the same day, one guy tried to pick up me with one of those rehearsed lines, which you know is just all bullshit. Later on that day, as I was walking my dog, a different guy stopped me and said "Hey I know this is random but I always see you walking your dog and I think you're really cute and I was wondering if you're single and maybe if I could get your number and we could go out sometime" just straight up honest and forward. The second guy got my number, the first guy did not
Talking about the whole friends thing, they say that being friends is the best base for a relationship and if you want to see the perfect series that demonstrate this. Watch Austin&Ally.
She said she thought he was cute on a radio station interview So i guess maybe he saw that and slid into her dms Otherwise i don’t think they would’ve ever gone out, due to their age gaps and differing careers etc
First off, I just want to say I am obsessed with your sense of humor! It is right up my alley! Your outlook on life and relationships is refreshing and you are the first "relationship coach" on UA-cam that has felt authentic and who I really enjoy!! I used to watch Matthew Hussey, but I stopped watching him awhile ago.. Matthew Hussey's videos are presented in a way that makes dating into some sort of game. He formats men into puzzles that women are too distracted or nervous or blind to figure out. A lot of his advice circles around what it takes to get a man, but none of his content addresses what it means to actually sustain a relationship. Thank you for providing helpful commentary on relationship dynamics.
@@AnthonyRecenello Awe,you are welcome! The compliment was most certainly deserved! I am a social work student in a child family and youth program and I also am biomedical research trainee getting to work in a research lab studying the effects of domestic violence on children and how negative traumatic events in childhood can correlate to long-term negative health outcomes in adulthood. I know that you focus on adult relationship dynamic, but since so many of our relationship issues stem from trauma and negative childhood attachments, it is so interesting to me to hear what you think. Also, as a single mother hoping to find love one day, I try to understand to the best of my ability why bad things in my relationships happened in the past so I can heal and not continue any cycle. Keep doing what you are doing cuz it is working!
Your breakdown of the first one with the text message made so much sense after just a little bit of explanation. Then the guy from the psychopath convention, I muted on tiktok last week b/c he just kept vibing me the wrong way. Overall, made me go back to the importance of classic charm, great vid as always!
Every time my friends tell me to get on tinder and get a boyfriend I ALWAYS tell them that I’m just not like that. I’ve been saying forever that I’ll end up dating someone I already know😂 tinder is scary count me out
Personally I'd want the best friend dynamic mixed with the romantic courtship type but not too much. Like we have our lil moments like that but not all the time because that would be overkill. Great vid! I agree with your points. Thanks!
hey helena great comment. this dynamic is really just made for BEFORE the committed relationship begins. once you actually get in a relationship, i recommend you two get as romantic, cheesy, love-dovey as you possibly can. :-)
You’re right on the money with these. The first one would be fine if there was already established interest AND he just said something simple. Throwing in the playful insult at the beginning and turning it into a compliment is a little cringe and feels too premeditated. The second one was way too assertive and rehearsed. It would make me feel like I’m at a job interview. 😂
First of all, referring to women as "females" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 and second, Saying she has a unique quality that others don't have, leaving it vague? Sounds like a line. lol
I never wanted to date with the classic macho man with perfect pick up lines, they where just a one time thing. The moment a guy walked to me like a friend and made me feel more than a hot one stand, i felt HARD! He is not the hotest guy i know but i love him with all my soul and have been happy for 2 years and a half
I mean key thing to note there is that he is her EX....so he may have been charming and attractive enough date her but not to keep her as a best friend
A guy actually did say a version of the Matthew Hussey one to me recently, and I said, “Yeah, I don’t believe that! But ok lol” He never replied. I knew it was a line, and so did he. It sounds so fake because... It is 😂
Anthony Recenello Please help all the ladies and make a video for the men about why “hi, how are you?” Is the worst opener on the planet. I would much rather talk about the amazing sandwich I just ate than discuss how I’m doing with a stranger or give a canned response. Thanks!
Ive watched SO many vid from this guy today. Im hooked. Anthony is a no bullshit, direct, funny, genuine guy who believes in doing what you love, to find YOUR PEOPLE, being in tune with your own energy and not forcing yourself to be in another one etc. Just being YOU. And we hear that all the time "be yourself" but we dont really understand what that means because we also hear countless og ways we should try to be something else to be loved. This guy is just brilliant. He knows how women feel, and he doesn't teach men to pick up women, but to just be safe and genuine.
I’ve watched a few of your videos since coming up on my recommended the other day and by far the thing I enjoy the most are your accents/mock speech of people... Amazing... 🙌🏼
Anthony Recenello Obviously it’s not the best thing, very endearing none the less. Loving the videos - you can tell you have a core set of values and views and they run through all your videos without it getting boring.
Seriously I don't understand why your videos don't get more attention, you're hilarious and have some real advice. Keep it up pleaseeee Also 4:04 I mean when I tell you I related in a spiritual level, I FELT THAT FACE
6:54 that guy's humor is so on point I'm in tears It could also be because I'm also that high energy humor where I do multiple texts just for comedic emphasis.
I hope this vid pops off like ur David dobrick classic charm vid did and gets at least 100k views bc Id love to see a part 2 to this series. Also yes pls do a vid on Jeff wittek I’ve seen other comments suggesting this too, I love Jeff’s dry humor/charm he’s so funny. Aight I gotta go to bed it’s 3:21am oof. 😴
The things that you are saying are honestly so true and I can see it in my own life. Like I had a boyfriend but it was giving me so much anxiety and I just felt like he was too sweet like I need someone who can lightly bully me like the rest of my friends
just found your channel the other day, got to say you've become for sure one of my favorite people to watch on youtube. love your personality, keep it up!
Honestly I would think anyone is more attractive if they came up to me and tried to be like a friend rather than saying a creepy pickup line like that. This guy is right
I agree with what hes saying, if some guy comes up to me and just acts like a friendly friend Instead of a planned pick up line then there is more of a chase of me letting my guard down. Pick up lines or coming over to talk to me with a set agenda makes my guard go up very quickly. Im guessing I'm not the only girl this happens to.
Exactly we could feel it is not genuine and they have practice that line. I like the best friend approach, makes me feel more comfortable talking to them. Haha you are hilarious. I was thinking the same thing you were in some of these videos😂
Me and my boyfriend started talking as friends then seeing each other as friends and now we're together for 6 years. This friend thing DOES work. And I love that everything he says it's true because he's really honest and doesn't say this romantic lies that he doesn't mean. Although when I see these cheesy lines written by others sometimes I want to get them too but I realise that's it's really just a fantasy and it's not true if someone says there no meaning to their life without me because then they have really big issues or they're lying.
I love all the vids and its maybe making me overthink and thinking that small talk is not bad but not good, and how to start evolvijg from that small talk. Because of this its though for me to start a conversation got any small tips to atleast help me out a bit haha.
Yes. If you sign up for an improv class AS SOON AS QUARANTINE ends you will have conversation mastery. I promise. TAKE AN IMPROV CLASS its the best way to build your convo skills. either that or i teach deep conversation/flirting in my soulmate method 3-month program: soulmatemethod.com Let me know how it works out RISQ!
I watched one of your videos expecting it to just be cringey but i actually really love them and am now subscribed. Tnx for contributing to getting me through quarantine boredom ❤️
Can someone rate the pick up lines that I made up at 4am? "Hey I think I might be psychic cause I deffinitly see you in my future." "I'm not a stalker but I'd definitely follow you to the ends of the earth." "Wanna watch the world fall apart together?" (Lol quarantine amiright?) "Are you an angel? Because you look heavenly." These are obviously just jokes cause I'd never seriously use these on a person unless we were already dating lol.
It’d be interesting to see a breakdown of Todd from the vlog squad, as a whole, in respect to the way he acts more so than who he’s with. If that makes sense??
From what I've seen, it really is best most times to go with the casual friend approach when ur interested. But sometimes, ppl will want to go with that different approach. And blatantly show that they are interested. Depending, it may actually come off as funny and still start up a convo. Other times it will kind of come off as the way wanted, but not like how it would probably in a movie. It would definitely still spark a convo and maybe give someone a chance. Idk, I feel like the casual friend approach is by the book in our time. So then you'll have that one person: *"I'm goin out of the box. Gonna make this memorable. Just putting it out there."* And I feel like that's just as good as the other, maybe not that officiant. But definitely could work depending on who ur going for and how u do it. I would take it as a joke either way.
If someone text me out the blue "you're so annoying", I'd be really hurt. If it was a guy that I suspected was into me or was dating, I'd just assume he's negging me, even after the follow-up text.
Ok I’ve been binging your videos for the past couple days since I just found your account and woah! You look EXACTLY like milo ventimeglia from this is us! like damn👀🥰
Jason capital was not talking about it the context of dating. That was his copywriting training camp, and, in the context of writing copy, "manufacturing" emotions actually makes a lot of sense. Dude is one of the most successful copywriters of this current point and time, and has a deep understanding about human psychology - he was breaking it down to his students, that's why it sounded so "scientific".
Dude fr I have been a person who has always been desperate and needyperson in a relationship I never looked at as if trying to do you like a friend towards the other honestly you your stuff has opened up my eyes and trust me I want a relationship but we're actually friendsI've worked on it on the past I've just never gotten somebody who's really down to be slow they always just beg and beg to be my girlfriend and I of course say yes because I'm naive I've noticed that when I get into those relationships they are the most toxic because we do not even know each and I've always wanted somebody who just wanted to chill with me and be like friends but at the moment I don't have anyone like this but I know I will sometime in my life thanks for the videos j hope you see this like it if you do
How about this one? Love is right around the corner, we just have to find the right(correct maybe?) corner first. Both fore casual use and really trying to flirt.
4:00 when I heard that I felt like this weird kinda thing where I wanted to leave my own body and kinda that feeling when you taste something super bitter or sour and just freak out like my tongue went blagh and I squirmed (NOT IN A GOOD WAY)
You are so surprisingly hilarious and relatable with the spa music in the background. Literally didn’t even catch your jokes and had to rewind but I’m CACKLINGGGGG. Keep it up and please do this video 100 more times. Gonna watch the rest of your vids now KEEP IT UP
Thank you!
Anthony Recenello I agree
Priscilla Esho
I agree
That first one is an absolute no. The second one lost me at "on a female". And your critique was spot on. Men, don't try so hard. Be genuine! That 3rd one was hilarious! Lol 4th dude was Johnny Bravo!
3:30 If some guy tried that on me I would run away. So weird and akward
so true! comment is spot on.
the one that's
"you're so annoying, you're one of the main ppl in my life making staying at home difficult rn" I read it as he's stuck at home with my annoying ass texting/calling him and he wants to gtfo so he can avoid my annnoying ass LOL
Tried it on my gf out of curiosity. She had the same reaction.
I don't like pickup lines period. They are generic and can make you come off try hard so easy
Exactly they cheeesy
I think the biggest thing with pickup lines is the feeling that you’re hiding something
Yuppppp
@@AnthonyRecenello please analyse Blake lively she's loved and known for her charm and charisma can you please do a breakdown of how she does it?
Anthony Recenello bro.. totally unrelated but.. just found out we had confirmation of Todd’s intentions w Natalie since February in an interview with Todd’s ex Olivia O’Brien ua-cam.com/video/t_GmOChR60I/v-deo.html at like 1:45
This guy is preparing us for after quarantine. real goat
LOL thanks ma boi
Facts
Yes
loool
Who knew it would take this long lol
people who say "females" unironically when talking about women usually dont know what theyre talking about
Totally. Those guys who try to hard and look swag online
i shall always refer to them as females
using the word "females" is basically the diet version of bitch
Chris Reyes is it okay if we also refer to males as males, or can we only be offensive towards females? Legit question
@@CC-ok2kt idk anyone who uses the term personally
You could say, "I'm so annoyed" but "You're so annoying" could just push someone to insult you back or cut off altogether. If someone insulted me outta nowhere, I would automatically think, "Toxic. GET AWAY!"
Sorry, but I do think thats a problem on your part aswell. Not a major problem I guess, but a problem. I think you should be able to take some insult and not act on that immediately. That is a good quality to have.
@@NewBoy0606 True true! But if it was someone I just met, I would think it's just a tactic to manipulate someone into a relationship or a fling. (PUA tactics) Don't get me wrong, I would wait and listen to see where it goes but being a target of narcissistic abuse, it contrasts in comparison to constructive criticism.
@@NewBoy0606 As for my original statement, I just mentioned it's just not how I would break the ice and then stated how I would flip it to make it more friendly, fun and innocent. As for receiving that statement, I would accept it as truth and move on. Just like yours, I love peoples honesty. If someone doesn't like me, that's kewl. I can respect that. If we had known each other for awhile, I would definitely want to talk about it but if it's a pick up line and I don't know the person, I would just figure it's the internet and there are a lot of trolls out there. But I'm not gonna stick around and clarify that I'm a good person to a stranger. That's silly lol The internet is full of strangers and trying to straighten out why each one doesn't like me would be tiring! lol Thanks for your point of view. 😊
Yeah, I would get so sad if someone called me annoying. Especially over text, I can't hear the way they say it over text. So I automatically assume the worst.
@@rae8961 It's a weird way to start a flirt, right? The boomerang from negative to positive. I like a surprise but... lol I don't think that's my style.
Lol that cringeworthy “perfect” pickup line 😂😂😂 Two problems: women can tell you’ve said that to LOTS of other women, so she’s not gonna feel unique at all. AND saying “I can tell you have unique qualities blah blah blah” - straight up, no you can’t. You can only see what she looks like unless you get to know her and there’s nothing unique about the way she looks. Your approach puts so much less cringe in the situation, Anthony; Just be friends first to see if you even like each other!!
Hannahhhh back at it w another dope commmenttt
I’m so glad we’re moving out of/have been out of the era of pickup lines lmao. I’ve never been good at that “style” of talking to the opposite sex because it’s never authentic. I’m much better at just talking to people in general and finding out what they’re really like lol
it mightttt work for him because he's hot but I would 100% assume he's a f boy until proven otherwise
PREACH IT, SISTER!!
Deadass had a guy pull a diet version of that line on me THREE YEARS AGO and it didn't work then, not going to work now. Tbh I learned young that the correct answer to "can I ask you a question" is always "no," because bro wtf I don't have time for your nonsense ass games and scripts, just ask me a damn question if you got one.
This is just an 18min video of a real dating expert cringing on tiktok "dating experts"!
Lol awww Kieran you sweetheart
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You nailed it!! The second was soo cringey tbh.. Why do people think dating's so complexed, smh
Lol yb thank you!
Lol someone tried that "you're so annoying" line on me and I straight up roasted him and when he said the second bit I felt so bad I unmatched him. It's such a stupid line.
“Is this the psychopath convention?” 😂😂
i have been looking for this comment
Can you just give me the heart for no reason?
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@@AnthonyRecenello holy shit it worked haha great Video btw
sup little bro saw u got uzi to make a whole single j for u, das my boy
One - not cute and his comeback is too wordy.
Two - too cocky and planned=trying to get laid.🤮 🧀
Three - funny
Four - 🙄🤦♀️ again too cocky not friendly (totally believes he's a star)
Five - David and Nat are adorable. Playing together is a plus
Six - Again David plays well with others lol
Seven - controlling love sounds insane. Run.
"Something like that" "I really dug into it " 🙄
Eight - More then friends now.
Nine - Nope
Ten - 🤣
Eleven - huh? I just want the bed to be made.
Twelve - kinda cute
Thirteen - True
LOL ASHLEY YOU R MY bEST FRIEND NOW
@@AnthonyRecenello 👍 😀
Yeaah actually the second one should stop at ,,she tells you her name’’ then i became so weird
In the same day, one guy tried to pick up me with one of those rehearsed lines, which you know is just all bullshit. Later on that day, as I was walking my dog, a different guy stopped me and said "Hey I know this is random but I always see you walking your dog and I think you're really cute and I was wondering if you're single and maybe if I could get your number and we could go out sometime" just straight up honest and forward. The second guy got my number, the first guy did not
“Who does he think he is, the next Fabio?” That verse cracked me up
Talking about the whole friends thing, they say that being friends is the best base for a relationship and if you want to see the perfect series that demonstrate this.
Watch Austin&Ally.
I still don’t understand how Mathew Hussey was able to pull Camila Cabello 😐. That pickup line was so cheesy and just a big no.
She said she thought he was cute on a radio station interview
So i guess maybe he saw that and slid into her dms
Otherwise i don’t think they would’ve ever gone out, due to their age gaps and differing careers etc
Camila cabello has no taste. Have you seen her act all cringe-y with Shawn Mendes? Lmao I get Hibie-jibies.
First off, I just want to say I am obsessed with your sense of humor! It is right up my alley! Your outlook on life and relationships is refreshing and you are the first "relationship coach" on UA-cam that has felt authentic and who I really enjoy!!
I used to watch Matthew Hussey, but I stopped watching him awhile ago..
Matthew Hussey's videos are presented in a way that makes dating into some sort of game. He formats men into puzzles that women are too distracted or nervous or blind to figure out.
A lot of his advice circles around what it takes to get a man, but none of his content addresses what it means to actually sustain a relationship.
Thank you for providing helpful commentary on relationship dynamics.
Wow this is a great compliment. Thank you Foxy.
@@AnthonyRecenello Awe,you are welcome! The compliment was most certainly deserved! I am a social work student in a child family and youth program and I also am biomedical research trainee getting to work in a research lab studying the effects of domestic violence on children and how negative traumatic events in childhood can correlate to long-term negative health outcomes in adulthood. I know that you focus on adult relationship dynamic, but since so many of our relationship issues stem from trauma and negative childhood attachments, it is so interesting to me to hear what you think.
Also, as a single mother hoping to find love one day, I try to understand to the best of my ability why bad things in my relationships happened in the past so I can heal and not continue any cycle.
Keep doing what you are doing cuz it is working!
I can tell you have a really big heart. :-)
“This is my,-“ *chef kiss*, “-favorite Tik Tok” Aw lol
Lollllll Kim CHEF KISS
Your breakdown of the first one with the text message made so much sense after just a little bit of explanation. Then the guy from the psychopath convention, I muted on tiktok last week b/c he just kept vibing me the wrong way. Overall, made me go back to the importance of classic charm, great vid as always!
thanks bric! yeah everytime i see an ad pop up from him i get scurrrrrred 😳
We need a part 2, this is so funny and honest
Every time my friends tell me to get on tinder and get a boyfriend I ALWAYS tell them that I’m just not like that. I’ve been saying forever that I’ll end up dating someone I already know😂 tinder is scary count me out
Hell yeah Paige YOU DO YOU MY DUDE
Personally I'd want the best friend dynamic mixed with the romantic courtship type but not too much. Like we have our lil moments like that but not all the time because that would be overkill. Great vid! I agree with your points. Thanks!
hey helena great comment. this dynamic is really just made for BEFORE the committed relationship begins. once you actually get in a relationship, i recommend you two get as romantic, cheesy, love-dovey as you possibly can. :-)
You’re right on the money with these. The first one would be fine if there was already established interest AND he just said something simple.
Throwing in the playful insult at the beginning and turning it into a compliment is a little cringe and feels too premeditated.
The second one was way too assertive and rehearsed. It would make me feel like I’m at a job interview. 😂
Yep! Wow Teresa thank you for commenting
First of all, referring to women as "females" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 and second, Saying she has a unique quality that others don't have, leaving it vague? Sounds like a line. lol
I’m in a great long term relationship and I still watch these religiously 😂 ily you’re so entertaining
Portia you’re amazing
Anthony Recenello you should review clips from each season of the bachelor/bachelorette!!
Anthony bro you’re so underrated, you’re making this quarantine way better ✌️
THATS WHY IM PUTTING OUT 4 A WEEK MY DUDE
11:20 „Does this guys face just FreAk yOu OuT?“ that had me on the floor laughing
I never wanted to date with the classic macho man with perfect pick up lines, they where just a one time thing. The moment a guy walked to me like a friend and made me feel more than a hot one stand, i felt HARD! He is not the hotest guy i know but i love him with all my soul and have been happy for 2 years and a half
AW MARIELA THATS BEAUTIFUL!!!!
Yay! Good luck to you ❤️
He's great I never thought anyone could ever understand dating like he does
The first dude was a relationship expert and CAMILA CABELLOS EX
yes i know 🤦🏻♂️
ida i Still talks bullshit
I mean key thing to note there is that he is her EX....so he may have been charming and attractive enough date her but not to keep her as a best friend
Romulus Remus that’s why Shawn is perfect for her
Mathew Hussey dated Camilla Cabello? Why was he dating a kid?
I'm binge watching all of your videos!!! Wow they're so good
Hiiii!
A guy actually did say a version of the Matthew Hussey one to me recently, and I said, “Yeah, I don’t believe that! But ok lol” He never replied. I knew it was a line, and so did he. It sounds so fake because... It is 😂
LORD. the funny thing about plans is once they go wrong--you dont know what to do next 🤣
Anthony Recenello Please help all the ladies and make a video for the men about why “hi, how are you?” Is the worst opener on the planet. I would much rather talk about the amazing sandwich I just ate than discuss how I’m doing with a stranger or give a canned response. Thanks!
Good idea! I’ll figure it out
Ive watched SO many vid from this guy today. Im hooked. Anthony is a no bullshit, direct, funny, genuine guy who believes in doing what you love, to find YOUR PEOPLE, being in tune with your own energy and not forcing yourself to be in another one etc. Just being YOU. And we hear that all the time "be yourself" but we dont really understand what that means because we also hear countless og ways we should try to be something else to be loved. This guy is just brilliant. He knows how women feel, and he doesn't teach men to pick up women, but to just be safe and genuine.
awwwwww thanks sam!
This guy must really be an expert in this field. I got a crush on him by just looking at him react at things lmao
You say everything I think . The best combo of emotionally intelligent, intuition, and analyzation of social behaviors/intentions I've seen bar done
Thank you this video actually helped me realize why my texts and intros never went anywhere
Please react to Russel Brand Flirting with women & also to Ryan Gosling's pick up advice to Steve Carrell in Crazy Stupid Love.
Literally already did those two videos haha. Just search in my channel
I’m not looking to date but your videos are so insightful! Please make a part 2
Please get me to 100k 😘🤷🏻♂️😳😭😤🙁😁
I’ve watched a few of your videos since coming up on my recommended the other day and by far the thing I enjoy the most are your accents/mock speech of people... Amazing... 🙌🏼
Lol I don’t even realize I do it.
Anthony Recenello Obviously it’s not the best thing, very endearing none the less. Loving the videos - you can tell you have a core set of values and views and they run through all your videos without it getting boring.
Really nice way to say it 🥰
I really like your stuff men but what i wanna know now isn't WhAt Is A dAtInG eXpErT but WHO is the dating expert maybe do a draw my life
Lol
Anthony talking about his own life and story?! Yes please
Seriously I don't understand why your videos don't get more attention, you're hilarious and have some real advice. Keep it up pleaseeee
Also 4:04 I mean when I tell you I related in a spiritual level, I FELT THAT FACE
Thanks. Slowly and steady wins the race is what I always say
Thank you for calling out Hussey in the 1st Tik tok. I honestly never thought about him as authentic.
6:54 that guy's humor is so on point I'm in tears
It could also be because I'm also that high energy humor where I do multiple texts just for comedic emphasis.
I hope this vid pops off like ur David dobrick classic charm vid did and gets at least 100k views bc Id love to see a part 2 to this series. Also yes pls do a vid on Jeff wittek I’ve seen other comments suggesting this too, I love Jeff’s dry humor/charm he’s so funny. Aight I gotta go to bed it’s 3:21am oof. 😴
Gnite Adrien!
The things that you are saying are honestly so true and I can see it in my own life. Like I had a boyfriend but it was giving me so much anxiety and I just felt like he was too sweet like I need someone who can lightly bully me like the rest of my friends
“Is this the psychopath convention” hahahaha you are spot on with literally all my thoughts
Okay, the train guy was friggin hilarious! He would've won me over!
Keep up the amazing work, your personality is amazing, and your content reflects that.
just found your channel the other day, got to say you've become for sure one of my favorite people to watch on youtube. love your personality, keep it up!
❤️❤️❤️
Ur videos really help me, thanks!!
Now I understand the best friend dynamic! I have been doing this since I was 17-18ish
Yup!
Honestly I would think anyone is more attractive if they came up to me and tried to be like a friend rather than saying a creepy pickup line like that. This guy is right
You are the best! One of my fav channels. Funny + insightful
Back at it again with the good content. I'm so glad I'm single, so I relate with your advice hahahaha
LOL genesis im glad too!
My new favorite UA-camr! Thank you for your content 😊
Loved this! Do more! 16:00 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯 Changed my paradigm
I love that you not only laugh about the memes but also explain the dos and don'ts in interaction.
This is my favorite video you made so far. Pure gold. Please do part 2!!!!!
Hahah Alim-its funny cuz its the least advice ive given yet.
I agree with what hes saying, if some guy comes up to me and just acts like a friendly friend Instead of a planned pick up line then there is more of a chase of me letting my guard down. Pick up lines or coming over to talk to me with a set agenda makes my guard go up very quickly. Im guessing I'm not the only girl this happens to.
Exactly we could feel it is not genuine and they have practice that line. I like the best friend approach, makes me feel more comfortable talking to them. Haha you are hilarious. I was thinking the same thing you were in some of these videos😂
That was awesome! Would totally love to see another video
Dude is he sitting on a chair THE WHOLE TIME? I thought he would sit on his coach - mindblow
Lol no it’s the couch. I just lean in cuz I’m fat
Anthony Recenello fat where lol
@@AnthonyRecenello noooooo you’re not fat! 💛
This is why straight tiktok scares me.
Can you do why girls are attracted to Timothee chalamet
You’re the second one who asked today: ua-cam.com/video/P7kg9K2VGBA/v-deo.html
Yesssssssss
ur pfp... jotaro best boy :3c
* jotaro kujo
Damn i love this video so much 😅this is awsome you have a cool vibe and i like your videos and advise. I have fun watching you. 🙏
Me and my boyfriend started talking as friends then seeing each other as friends and now we're together for 6 years. This friend thing DOES work. And I love that everything he says it's true because he's really honest and doesn't say this romantic lies that he doesn't mean. Although when I see these cheesy lines written by others sometimes I want to get them too but I realise that's it's really just a fantasy and it's not true if someone says there no meaning to their life without me because then they have really big issues or they're lying.
I love all the vids and its maybe making me overthink and thinking that small talk is not bad but not good, and how to start evolvijg from that small talk. Because of this its though for me to start a conversation got any small tips to atleast help me out a bit haha.
Yes. If you sign up for an improv class AS SOON AS QUARANTINE ends you will have conversation mastery. I promise. TAKE AN IMPROV CLASS its the best way to build your convo skills. either that or i teach deep conversation/flirting in my soulmate method 3-month program: soulmatemethod.com
Let me know how it works out RISQ!
The thumbnail 😂
glad u like my art
Love your videos!!!
Thanks kitty kat
that last tiktok was perfect. Good morning texts everyday are generally annoying as hell if you didn't hang out the day before
I watched one of your videos expecting it to just be cringey but i actually really love them and am now subscribed. Tnx for contributing to getting me through quarantine boredom ❤️
thanks idea. yeah im trying to change the whole idea of looking at dating advice. glad ur on board 🥰
Great video. Would like to see more reactions like this one!
ok nico!
I mean matthew is a dating expert and still couldnt notice her girlfriend was in love with someone else🤦🏻♂️😂
whenever a man refers to women as females its an instant red flag
Can someone rate the pick up lines that I made up at 4am?
"Hey I think I might be psychic cause I deffinitly see you in my future."
"I'm not a stalker but I'd definitely follow you to the ends of the earth."
"Wanna watch the world fall apart together?" (Lol quarantine amiright?)
"Are you an angel? Because you look heavenly."
These are obviously just jokes cause I'd never seriously use these on a person unless we were already dating lol.
You deserve a lot more views and subscribers 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
It’d be interesting to see a breakdown of Todd from the vlog squad, as a whole, in respect to the way he acts more so than who he’s with. If that makes sense??
Anthony: The person is thinking too hard about those texts.
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Also Anthony: Talks about and analyzes 2 text messages for two minutes straight
if someone said "you're so annoying" to me, I'd be like well dang I'm sorry, bye then, and it wouldn't work lol
LOLOL the way you reacted to the bed in the corner video xD
From what I've seen, it really is best most times to go with the casual friend approach when ur interested. But sometimes, ppl will want to go with that different approach. And blatantly show that they are interested. Depending, it may actually come off as funny and still start up a convo. Other times it will kind of come off as the way wanted, but not like how it would probably in a movie. It would definitely still spark a convo and maybe give someone a chance. Idk, I feel like the casual friend approach is by the book in our time. So then you'll have that one person:
*"I'm goin out of the box. Gonna make this memorable. Just putting it out there."*
And I feel like that's just as good as the other, maybe not that officiant. But definitely could work depending on who ur going for and how u do it. I would take it as a joke either way.
I'm so glad you called out Matthew Hussey! He has the worst advice, hands-down.
If someone text me out the blue "you're so annoying", I'd be really hurt. If it was a guy that I suspected was into me or was dating, I'd just assume he's negging me, even after the follow-up text.
He did he just roast dating expert, Matthew ,Camila's ex.
considering he's an ex and just got roasted, can we really call him an expert?
Just saying, you got 100,000 views! I’m ready for part 2
Hey man great video as always. Longtime lurker gas finally appeared!
Frick yes andres!!!! So glad you came out of the woodwork
Ok I’ve been binging your videos for the past couple days since I just found your account and woah! You look EXACTLY like milo ventimeglia from this is us! like damn👀🥰
Lol nice
The name "thematthewhussey" is so funny to me, cause all I see is "the mat, the whussey"
I love your videos 😂 need more friends like you
Aww you can be my friend
I liked this type of video!
PART 2 PLEASE!!!!
u should do a classic charm on John Mayer
Maybe THIS IS A COASSIC CHARM ON JOHN MAYER
Jason capital was not talking about it the context of dating. That was his copywriting training camp, and, in the context of writing copy, "manufacturing" emotions actually makes a lot of sense.
Dude is one of the most successful copywriters of this current point and time, and has a deep understanding about human psychology - he was breaking it down to his students, that's why it sounded so "scientific".
Dude fr I have been a person who has always been desperate and needyperson in a relationship I never looked at as if trying to do you like a friend towards the other honestly you your stuff has opened up my eyes and trust me I want a relationship but we're actually friendsI've worked on it on the past I've just never gotten somebody who's really down to be slow they always just beg and beg to be my girlfriend and I of course say yes because I'm naive I've noticed that when I get into those relationships they are the most toxic because we do not even know each and I've always wanted somebody who just wanted to chill with me and be like friends but at the moment I don't have anyone like this but I know I will sometime in my life thanks for the videos j hope you see this like it if you do
How about this one? Love is right around the corner, we just have to find the right(correct maybe?) corner first.
Both fore casual use and really trying to flirt.
Haha
man I really like your vids! oh and I have a question how can I have your quick advice?
Thanks itachi!
Anthony Recenello um so how can I get your help do I need to pay?
4:00 when I heard that I felt like this weird kinda thing where I wanted to leave my own body and kinda that feeling when you taste something super bitter or sour and just freak out like my tongue went blagh and I squirmed (NOT IN A GOOD WAY)
I love your videos dude
Danka