Feeling a pang because you long for someone to share the essence of your solitude with is the realest thing I've heard all day. I feel you, see you, and love you so much sweet Maddie.
hello i had the exbf who told me to eat one meal a day :P thank you for responding! you’re totally right that everything he said was pure projection and after talking our entire relationship through with my therapist it’s becoming very clear that he’s been emotionally abusive the whole relationship but this was the first thing i couldn’t fathom an excuse for. you’re totally right that i just need to hold my opinion higher than his and other people’s, this is exactly the advice i needed. ur content is getting me through this rough period in my life❤
Hey! As someone who's in recovery from anorexia, and I'm not diagnosing ur exbf ofc, but damn knowing how scary and awful anorexia is, I could NEVER EVER EVER imagine telling my partner that he should lose weight. Especially in such a restrictive way.
My partners proposal to me was perfect! I came home from work to find a little treasure hunt around our flat. Had to find little pieces of paper from clues he'd left which spelt out his location from around our flat. I then found him in our lounge on his knee with candles going and flowers. Super romantic and perfect for us! A public proposal however was never on the table. He tried to film it on his phone and only got our feet bless him hahaha. He spoke to my best friend and got her to subtly ask about rings I like and sent him inspiration pictures.
for the first time in my life i dont feel longing for a relationship… it’s amazing, I’m so relieved to be focused on myself instead of trying to find someone to be my purpose
As a certified nerd, you honestly do not need to waste your time with marvel, dc, or even star wars at this point. I've given up lol HOWEVER if you want some cozy, power of friendship, there is good in this world worth fighting and loving for, the original lord of the rings trilogy might genuinely be your cup of tea. Don't worry about reading the books, ignore the hobbit trilogy and tv show. Just the original 3 movies if you want some sweetness.
@@blackthornbark My older one is 16+ and Ive had him for 5 years. He's timid in general. He comes around to lay on my chest when I'm sleeping and that's how he's most comfortable with people. My baby is 2, I got her as a kitten and I was determined that I was going to get her use to cuddling, but I might have overdone it. She's an orange cat with strong orange cat energy. She's not very coordinated so I think she's scared of being picked up or jumping up or being carried because she's not very cat like, so she mostly gets petted on the ground. She likes to hang out with the chickens. They're also orange so she might think she's chicken.
My wedding/proposal rules are: 1. It has to be a silver pear shaped ring 2. I want candid wedding photos to really capture the moment 3. I agree with you on not wanting to know AT ALL. I want to be completely taken aback. 4. No big gesture proposals 5. You can't propose at Disneyland or the beach. It's too cliche
I have to admit, I'm not really a cat person (most I've met are skittish or mean and I'm allergic to them anyways) but seeing how Mango interacts with you and asks for cuddles is super sweet and I hope to meet a cat like her one day.
Ahh thank you for answering my proposal question!! I feel like you extracted exactly what I was thinking out of my brain lol. Especially about it not wanting to be be Disney because that was the first place I told him NOT to propose to me at. I really want good photos too so I hope he can figure something out because I did mention it to him. I agree I want that little bit of drama and to be surprised. You talking about the drama levels it actually made me think of what I'd want actually! So we love movies and going to the movie theater together so I think it would be so cute if we went to like, one of our small local theaters and he did it there somehow. Like even if he slipped it in the popcorn that'd be so cute and would have a little bit of drama, but wouldn't be at a big movie chain theater so there wouldn't be a million randos there. Now how do I send this to him without sending it to him 😂 I appreciate you sorta "talking" through this with me because it's hard when non of my friends want to get married at all!!
MADDIE! Can you make a video all about cat care? I’m looking to get a calico cat later in the year and want to know all about their health/issues/behaviors etc and also just all about living with a cat!
I heard a piece of advice about dating that ended up working well for me, date them until you hate them. So if it’s a maybe or you’re feeling indecisive then it’s a yes to dating them (until it’s a no- or an enthusiastic yes). Dating and getting used to a new person can be confusing and overwhelming and it’s easy to say no. Hope this is helpful to someone as it was to me 😊
Literally truer words haven’t been spoken - I feel SO SAD for people that were formerly fat, and have such a hatred for their old selves. Like damn - you wouldn’t be here without that person. Why are you hating on them?
it's funny because I operate in life knowing that film began and ended with lord of the rings and it's incredible that only three movies were ever made and they are: lord of the rings: the fellowship of the ring, lord of the rings: the two towers, lord of the rings: the return of the king. just wow, they did that, i love film.
ugh i was literally just thinking about wanting the championship aspect of a relationship today. like i’m tired of doing life alone and carrying the weight of the life and not having anyone to just be there for me and vice versa 😔
Feeling a pang because you long for someone to share the essence of your solitude with is the realest thing I've heard all day. I feel you, see you, and love you so much sweet Maddie.
its so funny because I think you would actually really enjoy Lord of the Rings for the cozy vibes and the friendships 😂❤
literally!
hello i had the exbf who told me to eat one meal a day :P thank you for responding! you’re totally right that everything he said was pure projection and after talking our entire relationship through with my therapist it’s becoming very clear that he’s been emotionally abusive the whole relationship but this was the first thing i couldn’t fathom an excuse for. you’re totally right that i just need to hold my opinion higher than his and other people’s, this is exactly the advice i needed. ur content is getting me through this rough period in my life❤
Hey! As someone who's in recovery from anorexia, and I'm not diagnosing ur exbf ofc, but damn knowing how scary and awful anorexia is, I could NEVER EVER EVER imagine telling my partner that he should lose weight. Especially in such a restrictive way.
My partners proposal to me was perfect! I came home from work to find a little treasure hunt around our flat. Had to find little pieces of paper from clues he'd left which spelt out his location from around our flat. I then found him in our lounge on his knee with candles going and flowers. Super romantic and perfect for us! A public proposal however was never on the table. He tried to film it on his phone and only got our feet bless him hahaha. He spoke to my best friend and got her to subtly ask about rings I like and sent him inspiration pictures.
AWWWWWWW i love this
for the first time in my life i dont feel longing for a relationship… it’s amazing, I’m so relieved to be focused on myself instead of trying to find someone to be my purpose
happy for u bestie ❤
I gasped immediately seeing Miss Mango on your shoulder, my heart is exploding🥹💕
Yes! Loved being able to see her cute face in the mirror too
"I wish someone was here with me". I can relate to this so hard.
As a certified nerd, you honestly do not need to waste your time with marvel, dc, or even star wars at this point. I've given up lol HOWEVER if you want some cozy, power of friendship, there is good in this world worth fighting and loving for, the original lord of the rings trilogy might genuinely be your cup of tea. Don't worry about reading the books, ignore the hobbit trilogy and tv show. Just the original 3 movies if you want some sweetness.
I wish I had a Mango. I tried so hard to get my cats to be lap cats and they just aren't having it.
how long so you have them?it took mine five years to become cuddly
@@blackthornbark My older one is 16+ and Ive had him for 5 years. He's timid in general. He comes around to lay on my chest when I'm sleeping and that's how he's most comfortable with people. My baby is 2, I got her as a kitten and I was determined that I was going to get her use to cuddling, but I might have overdone it. She's an orange cat with strong orange cat energy. She's not very coordinated so I think she's scared of being picked up or jumping up or being carried because she's not very cat like, so she mostly gets petted on the ground. She likes to hang out with the chickens. They're also orange so she might think she's chicken.
How do we find a way for you to host an internet trivia for the pod
omg that would be so fun hahahahahahaha
I would eat up trivia. Kahoot? Lmao let’s get on twitch, this has got to exist somewhere. The slumber party needs trivia!
you just made me realise I would slay at the trivia nights - marvel, starwars and how i met your mother? practically grew up on them
you need to get in there then bc you probably would kill it hahahha
Your trivia sounds so much more fun than ours! Ours is like questions you would get on pop quizzes in school.
My wedding/proposal rules are:
1. It has to be a silver pear shaped ring
2. I want candid wedding photos to really capture the moment
3. I agree with you on not wanting to know AT ALL. I want to be completely taken aback.
4. No big gesture proposals
5. You can't propose at Disneyland or the beach. It's too cliche
you and miss gooey girl in a martini glass. that’s the moment.
I have to admit, I'm not really a cat person (most I've met are skittish or mean and I'm allergic to them anyways) but seeing how Mango interacts with you and asks for cuddles is super sweet and I hope to meet a cat like her one day.
Me reacting to Maddie going through all the movies she refuses to watch
Marvel 😄
Star Wars 😄
Lord of the Rings 😳🥺
omg Mango is increeeeedible. My ex kept the cat so her spirit is BEAMING through the screen into my heart
Ahh thank you for answering my proposal question!! I feel like you extracted exactly what I was thinking out of my brain lol. Especially about it not wanting to be be Disney because that was the first place I told him NOT to propose to me at. I really want good photos too so I hope he can figure something out because I did mention it to him.
I agree I want that little bit of drama and to be surprised. You talking about the drama levels it actually made me think of what I'd want actually!
So we love movies and going to the movie theater together so I think it would be so cute if we went to like, one of our small local theaters and he did it there somehow. Like even if he slipped it in the popcorn that'd be so cute and would have a little bit of drama, but wouldn't be at a big movie chain theater so there wouldn't be a million randos there. Now how do I send this to him without sending it to him 😂
I appreciate you sorta "talking" through this with me because it's hard when non of my friends want to get married at all!!
Definitely would consider that ghosting but to each their own🤷🏾♀️
MADDIE! Can you make a video all about cat care? I’m looking to get a calico cat later in the year and want to know all about their health/issues/behaviors etc and also just all about living with a cat!
I heard a piece of advice about dating that ended up working well for me, date them until you hate them. So if it’s a maybe or you’re feeling indecisive then it’s a yes to dating them (until it’s a no- or an enthusiastic yes). Dating and getting used to a new person can be confusing and overwhelming and it’s easy to say no. Hope this is helpful to someone as it was to me 😊
I’m truly elated every new episode, the intro is like my reset 😅👏✨
Literally truer words haven’t been spoken - I feel SO SAD for people that were formerly fat, and have such a hatred for their old selves. Like damn - you wouldn’t be here without that person. Why are you hating on them?
Maddie thank you!! You changed my dating life drastically and I wish you nothing but to find the very best 😢❤
it's funny because I operate in life knowing that film began and ended with lord of the rings and it's incredible that only three movies were ever made and they are: lord of the rings: the fellowship of the ring, lord of the rings: the two towers, lord of the rings: the return of the king. just wow, they did that, i love film.
ugh i was literally just thinking about wanting the championship aspect of a relationship today. like i’m tired of doing life alone and carrying the weight of the life and not having anyone to just be there for me and vice versa 😔
this was an amazing episode
Funnily enough, you saying 'diabolical' automatically popped The Boys, a superhero series, to my mind 😅
24 seconds in. A new record
the little foot jig of defeat person is me (emotionally)
IVE NEVER BEEN SO EARLY🕺❤️
GIRL you want your boyfriend going through your emails??? omg 😂😂😂
♥️
Loving Love Island and Trisha while preemptively hating on LOTR is not the cutesy personality trait you think it is, "babes".
Actually it is, babes.
bruh it is a joke, no one is hating on anything god DAMNNNNNN CANT EVEN MAKE FUN OF MYSELF FOR NOT KNOWING SHIT