I hate the anxiety around “never being in a relationship before”. It’s crazy, but i started feeling insecure about that at like, age 14, and it grew worse and worse until i got into my first relationship at 21. And it’s crazy, because the second i actually got into a relationship i realized how inconsequential it was as some big milestone, and wished i never spent those years sad about it. I ESPECIALLY hate it, because most of the girls i know who did date guys in their teens wish they waited a bit longer, because the guys were immature jerks, and they hadn’t learned how to set firm boundaries yet.
Girlies, I’ve legit just recovered from conjunctivitis served with a side of partial blindness and mortal embarrassment. It gets better, Mango! It’s because we’re brilliant and gorgeous, there’s no other cause x
I've seen people's faces change when I tell them I haven't had a serious relationship and it's disheartening, but I realized I don't want to be with someone who would judge me off that statement. I haven't found a person worthy of a connection with me long term, I don't think that's sad. I think people need to come correct when approaching me 😤😂
Completely relate. Someone I was talking to before basically was like "where I'm from people would think something is wrong with you'" and it made me feel so shitty. I wish I had ended that connection there when he said that.
as a bissex girl myself, i also struggle a bit with talking openly about it. i for sure wouldn't lie if someone asked, but i do not bring this on conversations yet (maybe because im too insecure about the fact that i only had long-term relationships w/ men, but i'll save this topic to my therapist hahaha). anyway, long way of saying: i understand you, and pls do not feel obliged in anyway to share such a personal matter with us! hope you're happy and thriving!! xoxo
Being queer but never being with another woman is pretty common! Statistically, there are more men into women than women into women, and tbh queer women are, like, barely more likely to make the first move than straight women are. You're definitely not alone, and it doesn't make you any less queer
As a femme bisexual, the first five min of this episode were a delight. I've only ever heard you talk about dating men, must have missed your 😻 eating comment in the sea of content, and I'm thrilled that you're sharing only exactly as much as you feel comfortable sharing with your audience! You take care of you, bestie 💜💙🩷
on the topic of boyfriends and best friends, my bsf just moved in with her boyfriend and I can’t stop feeling angry with her because I really don’t like him and I don’t think he’s good for her…. and I feel really guilty about that because I don’t want to ruin my relationship with her
maddie i am respectfully requesting a collab with the good children podcast I think y'all would get along so well and have so much to talk about with 2000s-2010s internet culture and growing up online
I’m glad to hear you’re doing passion project Friday’s. I moved almost a year ago and decided to do a new craft every month. From balloon animals to crochet to wood working. It’s kept me sane and I’ve found many new passion hobbies along the way. I’d like to revisit a handful once the full year of new crafts is over with. I hope you find a new passion along your journey. Create & resist ✨
Hey Maddie! Would you be interested in talking about preventing burnout in college? I'm an art student, and I related to what you said about doing something creative for work (or school) and the task of sustaining it. The passion project Friday is a great idea; Friday is my therapy day, so I talk to her and watch you afterwards.
Yesssss! Dose of beautiful Maddie and Mango! (Your poor baby, wishing miss Mango a very speedy recovery from her conjunctivitis🥺♥️). Fantastic with all the sleepover vibes as per usual, gorgeous girly! ❤❤ I also really struggle with people pleasing, and end up crying because I worry about hurting people if I don’t accept their request/problem/anything which helps them but might be too much for me to take on - a much needed reminder for me that it’s “okay” to put myself first sometimes 😊
Dealing with the weird feelings/imposter syndrome/ shame that being a bisexual woman who leans more towards men brings is a whole conversation we haven’t even started having yet
So happy to hear you mention the bi stuff! Not because you need to talk about it more but just because I want you to be happy and while I am sure you can find a man who is everything you want, I feel like there are just so many girls who can give you the romance and thoughtfulness and things you’re looking for!
As a fellow bi (who dates men a lot and feels discomfort using the label sometimes bc of that) tbh I didnt want to assume with the eating pussy thing cause I thought you could be talking about trans men yk. But im happy for you and whatever your journey looks like
I thought it was really sweet how you stuck up for the 11-year-old social media girl. Don't those degenerate adults who are bullying her realize they could throw her over the edge? 10-year-olds have committed suicide. How evil of them to bully and harass her. Re: the woman who wrote in about her brother's friend Ken: The truth is Ken did not see her as a serious relationship. He got what he wanted and he has moved on. If he were really into her he wouldn't allow his friendship with her brother to stand in his way. He is using her brother as an excuse. If he were really into her wild horses couldn't keep him away and he would choose her over her brother if it came down to it, but I doubt that it would. He doesn't want to lose his friendship with her brother because he means more to him than she does. He doesn't want to pursue the fling because he's definitely not serious about her and he knows his friendship with her brother could blow up in his face if her brother feels his sister has been played. 🧚♀
Tbh I wouldn't assume your sexuality based on what you've got up to physically. People experiment. You are whatever you feel you are, even if you didn't physically do anything 😊
not assuming is great! that’s what i was trying to say there, i wish people didn’t assume i was straight! even as i’m talking about hooking up with women, people assume i’m straight and i wish people would just let me be!
@emotionallyonline I'm sure it's nothing personal towards you, it's just a lot of people assume straightness as it's a heteronormative society so that's what some see as like the automatic go to & because you speak about men mainly. You do you though, it doesn't matter what people think, you know that! Share what feels comfortable regardless 💜
Girl i thought i had watched all your videos i had to have missed the "bi" one oops. I just haven't thought about it before but yuh the math is mathing.
Its so lovely to hear about the progress with people pleasing decisions- from a fellow people pleaser Im slowly learning that ‘no’ isnt a problem created by me for people, its just a no, and it doesnt always result in someone being disappointed ~ its something that can be respected and received by loved ones 🤍✨
besties i LICHERALLY just sat down with an iced coffee and a cinnamon roll …. the universe is TOOO good rn
i love this for you
Wow, me too, but instead an almond croissant
maddieeee as a fellow queer girlie i am so proud of you for protecting your journey and can’t wait to see what’s next for you!!
appreciate u ❤
I hate the anxiety around “never being in a relationship before”. It’s crazy, but i started feeling insecure about that at like, age 14, and it grew worse and worse until i got into my first relationship at 21. And it’s crazy, because the second i actually got into a relationship i realized how inconsequential it was as some big milestone, and wished i never spent those years sad about it.
I ESPECIALLY hate it, because most of the girls i know who did date guys in their teens wish they waited a bit longer, because the guys were immature jerks, and they hadn’t learned how to set firm boundaries yet.
“The truth is out there, and it’s on UA-cam for free.” - Maddie Dragsbaek
This quote is gold.
Girlies, I’ve legit just recovered from conjunctivitis served with a side of partial blindness and mortal embarrassment. It gets better, Mango! It’s because we’re brilliant and gorgeous, there’s no other cause x
yet another win for the bi's
I've seen people's faces change when I tell them I haven't had a serious relationship and it's disheartening, but I realized I don't want to be with someone who would judge me off that statement. I haven't found a person worthy of a connection with me long term, I don't think that's sad. I think people need to come correct when approaching me 😤😂
yesss!!!
Completely relate. Someone I was talking to before basically was like "where I'm from people would think something is wrong with you'" and it made me feel so shitty. I wish I had ended that connection there when he said that.
as a bissex girl myself, i also struggle a bit with talking openly about it. i for sure wouldn't lie if someone asked, but i do not bring this on conversations yet (maybe because im too insecure about the fact that i only had long-term relationships w/ men, but i'll save this topic to my therapist hahaha).
anyway, long way of saying: i understand you, and pls do not feel obliged in anyway to share such a personal matter with us! hope you're happy and thriving!! xoxo
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Being queer but never being with another woman is pretty common! Statistically, there are more men into women than women into women, and tbh queer women are, like, barely more likely to make the first move than straight women are. You're definitely not alone, and it doesn't make you any less queer
As a femme bisexual, the first five min of this episode were a delight. I've only ever heard you talk about dating men, must have missed your 😻 eating comment in the sea of content, and I'm thrilled that you're sharing only exactly as much as you feel comfortable sharing with your audience! You take care of you, bestie 💜💙🩷
this podcast is my morning devotional
GOD I LOVE THIS WOMAN ❤
ur my comfort person
It's the wisdom, kindness and honesty for me. Thanks Maddie for sharing your strengths with strangers. We are remote but we are appreciative x
on the topic of boyfriends and best friends, my bsf just moved in with her boyfriend and I can’t stop feeling angry with her because I really don’t like him and I don’t think he’s good for her…. and I feel really guilty about that because I don’t want to ruin my relationship with her
Same!!!!!
maddie i am respectfully requesting a collab with the good children podcast I think y'all would get along so well and have so much to talk about with 2000s-2010s internet culture and growing up online
Five minutes in and this women is reading *me* like it’s my damn therapy day
genuinely thank you so much for the people pleasing reminder that genuinely helped me so much to hear
I’m glad to hear you’re doing passion project Friday’s. I moved almost a year ago and decided to do a new craft every month. From balloon animals to crochet to wood working. It’s kept me sane and I’ve found many new passion hobbies along the way. I’d like to revisit a handful once the full year of new crafts is over with. I hope you find a new passion along your journey. Create & resist ✨
I LOVEEE that little girl who makes her GRWM. I used to do that all the time! Those commenters piss me tf off too
Hey Maddie! Would you be interested in talking about preventing burnout in college? I'm an art student, and I related to what you said about doing something creative for work (or school) and the task of sustaining it. The passion project Friday is a great idea; Friday is my therapy day, so I talk to her and watch you afterwards.
Yesssss! Dose of beautiful Maddie and Mango! (Your poor baby, wishing miss Mango a very speedy recovery from her conjunctivitis🥺♥️). Fantastic with all the sleepover vibes as per usual, gorgeous girly! ❤❤ I also really struggle with people pleasing, and end up crying because I worry about hurting people if I don’t accept their request/problem/anything which helps them but might be too much for me to take on - a much needed reminder for me that it’s “okay” to put myself first sometimes 😊
Maddie, there is no one like you!
-love
Dealing with the weird feelings/imposter syndrome/ shame that being a bisexual woman who leans more towards men brings is a whole conversation we haven’t even started having yet
i swear im rolling laughing at the first 4 mins of this video lmaooo im a bisexual, i get it hahah
holy moly i need that sweatshirt
bro bisexuality lowkey the most baffling and confusing ting
i swear the course creators are an online mlm
I adore the pod, maddie! Does anyone have any recommendations for similar podcasts or youtubers to Maddie?
Yes please I want to know more sleepover vibes pods💟
maybe check out nisipisa? some of her and maddie's video give me similiar fun vibes
drew monson gives me the same level of comfort but is completely different
@@blackthornbark omg yes I love her 🎀
Love the idea for fridays
super excited for my emotionally online merch!!❤
I adore you and this podcast
I think I've been getting that SAME little girl doing get ready with me's in my reels too! WOW that's interesting.
So happy to hear you mention the bi stuff! Not because you need to talk about it more but just because I want you to be happy and while I am sure you can find a man who is everything you want, I feel like there are just so many girls who can give you the romance and thoughtfulness and things you’re looking for!
As a fellow bi (who dates men a lot and feels discomfort using the label sometimes bc of that) tbh I didnt want to assume with the eating pussy thing cause I thought you could be talking about trans men yk. But im happy for you and whatever your journey looks like
I thought it was really sweet how you stuck up for the 11-year-old social media girl. Don't those degenerate adults who are bullying her realize they could throw her over the edge? 10-year-olds have committed suicide. How evil of them to bully and harass her. Re: the woman who wrote in about her brother's friend Ken: The truth is Ken did not see her as a serious relationship. He got what he wanted and he has moved on. If he were really into her he wouldn't allow his friendship with her brother to stand in his way. He is using her brother as an excuse. If he were really into her wild horses couldn't keep him away and he would choose her over her brother if it came down to it, but I doubt that it would. He doesn't want to lose his friendship with her brother because he means more to him than she does. He doesn't want to pursue the fling because he's definitely not serious about her and he knows his friendship with her brother could blow up in his face if her brother feels his sister has been played. 🧚♀
PS She said she is a lot younger than Ken? Could she be underage?
Does anyone know where the hoodie Maddie is wearing is from? I clock it every goddamn time ❤
it’s old teddy fresh!
im 23 and ive known i was bi since i was 12 and im still baby gay so no worries
Tbh I wouldn't assume your sexuality based on what you've got up to physically. People experiment. You are whatever you feel you are, even if you didn't physically do anything 😊
not assuming is great! that’s what i was trying to say there, i wish people didn’t assume i was straight! even as i’m talking about hooking up with women, people assume i’m straight and i wish people would just let me be!
@emotionallyonline I'm sure it's nothing personal towards you, it's just a lot of people assume straightness as it's a heteronormative society so that's what some see as like the automatic go to & because you speak about men mainly. You do you though, it doesn't matter what people think, you know that! Share what feels comfortable regardless 💜
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Girl i thought i had watched all your videos i had to have missed the "bi" one oops. I just haven't thought about it before but yuh the math is mathing.
Promo*SM 😒
Its so lovely to hear about the progress with people pleasing decisions- from a fellow people pleaser
Im slowly learning that ‘no’ isnt a problem created by me for people, its just a no, and it doesnt always result in someone being disappointed ~ its something that can be respected and received by loved ones 🤍✨