"Should I still date him even if he's not the best date organizer?" SOME PEOPLE ARE SO LUCKY I dated people who I caught scrolling on dating apps while I was in their kitchen cooking breakfast 😭
To the girl who asked the question about being jealous of an ex. I had the same experience. I was gutted by the fact my partner had a past before me. For some reason it felt unbearable. I found out this is called "Retroactive Jealousy" there is a book about it by Zachary Stockhill which helped me alot! I def recommend ❤
I perceived the “safe” semantics the same way! you explained it better than me when i was trying to explain it to my boyfriend lol but yes! yes exactly
Maddie GURL your skin looks so good I can literally see the reflection of the window in your cheek! Glass skin! Your hair also looks amazing! Anyways just wanted to say that you speaking your truth inspires and comforts so many of us out here. I am a fellow New Yorker and being a lover here can be especially hard. You make me feel so seen and understood. Not many people in my life understand this experience way you do. Forever grateful for your positivity, optimism, and just sharing your perspective. Don’t forget how special, loved, and admired you are. So many women are grateful just to hear you speak your truth. Bad days come but they pass, be patient with yourself ♥️ Sorry this is so long lmao Be gentle with yourself. Ask yourself what you need right now and be accepting of the answer. Thanks for being a part of all of our lives (indirectly) and just being yourself. Take it easy, stay silly if ya can 😊
I just realized i’ve spend over 2 days of my life listening to your podcast. I’m so grateful for everything I’ve learned from you in that time!!! Thank u Maddie!!🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
It's important to distinguish between what you need in a partner and what you would LIKE in one. If planing dates isn't really that important to you ( if other qualities take priority) that's ok
i relate sooo much to the beginning part! even i have a knot in my stomach for a few days and i jave to juat sit in that feeling because i can never understand the reason behind it
Intense anxiety that lasts more than a few days?!?!? EXHAUSTING. Holy moly. I was having one of those times and I had to make myself eat something because I had no appetite bc my anxiety definitely makes a pit too and it just made me CRY because I felt like I was force feeding myself and I felt like a baby and it made me have an anxiety attack and then I got so scared and yeah anyway. I’m really empathizing with you and I’m so sorry. Oh I just heard that you need some forehead kisses and let me tell you I recommend you and your content to EVERYONE I know and you make me LAUGH and cry and I think you are so well spoken and wise and I appreciate you so much.
just wanted to say that you're not alone with the feelings you've been struggling with! hearing someone echo back the feelings of anxiety and loneliness that i've been struggling with recently as well means a lot to me (and many of the other cool people here!). anxiety is a finite feeling and you'll get through this, cheering you on as a fellow pit-in-my-stomach girlie!
It’s the way that your energy was just so soft and vulnerable in the beginning of the video that I literally thought to myself omg she just deserves some forehead kisses and a loving homemade meal while having her heart and thoughts listened to and then you said you needed a forehead kiss and i remembered that lover girls get each other 🥹💗
I'm not in a relationship, but as a friend I literally can't come up with any outings or anything we can do. It all ends up on my friend to organize everything
For the planning question!! Lol me and my bf have a shared notes app of date ideas and when we can’t think of things to do we try and check something off the list
Everything you talked about feeling this week (lonely, misunderstood, forgotten) is how I feel this week too. Good reminder to take extra good care of myself and get outside and that these feelings will pass. You’re right, it is nice to hear it from other people!
Hot girl Maddie, you asked, we shall deliver. You are so inspiring, so confident, strong, resilient and complex. Your beautiful soul and your big heart always amazes me. Anyone who interacts with such a lovely person is lucky, I wish I would have a friend like you, someone real, caring and compassionate, so loving, so wise, so soft and fun. Your videos have helped me so many times to feel less lonely, I wish that someone can also do that for you and makes you feel as apreciated as you deserve darling 💕
Sending lots of love and hoping that you feel better soon! Your content and authenticity is such a gift and you make us all feel less alone. You are a beautiful, strong person ❤️
Thank you for answering me Maddie!!! I'm that c*nt hahaha Your advice was really helpful, I felt my heart lighter with your words. My friends supported my feelings but fueled my bitterness at the same time haha You had the positive words I needed to hear. Hope you feel well soon, all the love 💜💜💜
I feel like I always say this, but Season 3 of Love is Blind Brazil is so much better than the USA version. There's much more representation and actually healthy couples. Of course, there are also toxic ones, but that's no surprise, lol. I don't know if you watch non-English speaker reality shows, but if you do, it's worth checking out Season 3
Also when I was really lonely like that I’d listen to you. Not even joking you made me feel less alone and better about my life. Now I’m in the first healthy actual relationship I’ve ever had and I still listen to you because you have a great perspective on life and give great advice and you’re funny. Your podcast is my go to I download them and listen when I’m at the gym or driving to work lol it never occurred to me to mention that before but listening to the beginning of this I realized you might want to know:)
with you on the squeezy stomach feeling always look to blame it on the ovaries but then sometimes it just isn't sourced there 👀🫀truly believe they have an alerting sense for questionable shit going on though but so hard to tell what's what sometimes with the old stomachache. with either ache I swear on ginger tea! anxious or not it soothes me well!
"Should I still date him even if he's not the best date organizer?" SOME PEOPLE ARE SO LUCKY I dated people who I caught scrolling on dating apps while I was in their kitchen cooking breakfast 😭
To the girl who asked the question about being jealous of an ex. I had the same experience. I was gutted by the fact my partner had a past before me. For some reason it felt unbearable. I found out this is called "Retroactive Jealousy" there is a book about it by Zachary Stockhill which helped me alot! I def recommend ❤
I’ve read it too.What else helped you personally?
maddie, I’m 20 and figuring out stuff, and I wanna tell you that you are like the big sister I never had, or like an cool young aunt 🔥❤️
this!! i’m 24 but i feel the same way
I perceived the “safe” semantics the same way! you explained it better than me when i was trying to explain it to my boyfriend lol but yes! yes exactly
Maddie GURL your skin looks so good I can literally see the reflection of the window in your cheek! Glass skin! Your hair also looks amazing! Anyways just wanted to say that you speaking your truth inspires and comforts so many of us out here. I am a fellow New Yorker and being a lover here can be especially hard. You make me feel so seen and understood. Not many people in my life understand this experience way you do. Forever grateful for your positivity, optimism, and just sharing your perspective.
Don’t forget how special, loved, and admired you are. So many women are grateful just to hear you speak your truth. Bad days come but they pass, be patient with yourself ♥️
Sorry this is so long lmao
Be gentle with yourself. Ask yourself what you need right now and be accepting of the answer.
Thanks for being a part of all of our lives (indirectly) and just being yourself.
Take it easy, stay silly if ya can 😊
the hair looks stunning today !!
I just realized i’ve spend over 2 days of my life listening to your podcast. I’m so grateful for everything I’ve learned from you in that time!!! Thank u Maddie!!🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
It's important to distinguish between what you need in a partner and what you would LIKE in one. If planing dates isn't really that important to you ( if other qualities take priority) that's ok
commented this before watching the video through and you touch on this kdjsks slay
i relate sooo much to the beginning part! even i have a knot in my stomach for a few days and i jave to juat sit in that feeling because i can never understand the reason behind it
I feel lonely in this season too :/ so full of love and haven't yet found the people to share it with ❤ sending love to you Maddie!
Intense anxiety that lasts more than a few days?!?!? EXHAUSTING. Holy moly. I was having one of those times and I had to make myself eat something because I had no appetite bc my anxiety definitely makes a pit too and it just made me CRY because I felt like I was force feeding myself and I felt like a baby and it made me have an anxiety attack and then I got so scared and yeah anyway. I’m really empathizing with you and I’m so sorry. Oh I just heard that you need some forehead kisses and let me tell you I recommend you and your content to EVERYONE I know and you make me LAUGH and cry and I think you are so well spoken and wise and I appreciate you so much.
just wanted to say that you're not alone with the feelings you've been struggling with! hearing someone echo back the feelings of anxiety and loneliness that i've been struggling with recently as well means a lot to me (and many of the other cool people here!). anxiety is a finite feeling and you'll get through this, cheering you on as a fellow pit-in-my-stomach girlie!
It’s the way that your energy was just so soft and vulnerable in the beginning of the video that I literally thought to myself omg she just deserves some forehead kisses and a loving homemade meal while having her heart and thoughts listened to and then you said you needed a forehead kiss and i remembered that lover girls get each other 🥹💗
I'm not in a relationship, but as a friend I literally can't come up with any outings or anything we can do. It all ends up on my friend to organize everything
you look so good with this curled hair
i just wanna write down everything u say cause it's gold
I feel like me and u are on the same wavelength or something u always drop something like this right when I need to hear it!!! so bestie coded
me when I see a new Maddie podcast episode: ≧◡≦
me when it's less than 50 minutes: nuuuu I want more Maddie
For the planning question!! Lol me and my bf have a shared notes app of date ideas and when we can’t think of things to do we try and check something off the list
Watching this as I get the tattoo I impulsively booked while listening to your last episode
i could literally hear you talk about love is blind all day lmfao you had me crying
Everything you talked about feeling this week (lonely, misunderstood, forgotten) is how I feel this week too. Good reminder to take extra good care of myself and get outside and that these feelings will pass. You’re right, it is nice to hear it from other people!
I hope that feeling has passed Maddie.
Please know that you inspire me so much specially in the way I think about myself 💖
For anyone suffering with the last point: do research on retroactive jealousy ocd
Really helped me to find out more about this
maddie truly is like that one REAL friend that i've never had :,)
right? if only :')
Hot girl Maddie, you asked, we shall deliver. You are so inspiring, so confident, strong, resilient and complex. Your beautiful soul and your big heart always amazes me. Anyone who interacts with such a lovely person is lucky, I wish I would have a friend like you, someone real, caring and compassionate, so loving, so wise, so soft and fun. Your videos have helped me so many times to feel less lonely, I wish that someone can also do that for you and makes you feel as apreciated as you deserve darling 💕
Even with today's topic (comparing to their ex) is close to my heart and it hurts , yet I feel cared for and safe.
Maddie you look gorgeous and the title slapped me in the face!!!
Can’t wait to eat this shit up!
Sending lots of love and hoping that you feel better soon! Your content and authenticity is such a gift and you make us all feel less alone. You are a beautiful, strong person ❤️
I was JUST checking for a new episode!! ♡ LETSGOOO
can I just say your hair looks so good!
Thank you for answering me Maddie!!! I'm that c*nt hahaha Your advice was really helpful, I felt my heart lighter with your words. My friends supported my feelings but fueled my bitterness at the same time haha You had the positive words I needed to hear. Hope you feel well soon, all the love 💜💜💜
Oh my god literally how I felt about Milton too😅
right in time
Love your hair, i get you, I am listening ❤
Ok but Maddie have you seen s1 love is blind tho? Lauren & Cameron
What's crazy about Chris cheating on Johnnie is how Izzy and Stacey were warning people about Johnnie when Chris was that nasty one
I feel like I always say this, but Season 3 of Love is Blind Brazil is so much better than the USA version. There's much more representation and actually healthy couples. Of course, there are also toxic ones, but that's no surprise, lol. I don't know if you watch non-English speaker reality shows, but if you do, it's worth checking out Season 3
I’ve been there with the intense anxiety. Might be worth trying medication
Also when I was really lonely like that I’d listen to you. Not even joking you made me feel less alone and better about my life. Now I’m in the first healthy actual relationship I’ve ever had and I still listen to you because you have a great perspective on life and give great advice and you’re funny. Your podcast is my go to I download them and listen when I’m at the gym or driving to work lol it never occurred to me to mention that before but listening to the beginning of this I realized you might want to know:)
I gey exactly where you are coming from ❤❤❤
in those anxiety days a little weed could be useful since you said it helps you have no thoughts
The way you described your anxiety is exactly how mine manifests. It’s exhausting 🫶🏼
with you on the squeezy stomach feeling always look to blame it on the ovaries but then sometimes it just isn't sourced there 👀🫀truly believe they have an alerting sense for questionable shit going on though but so hard to tell what's what sometimes with the old stomachache. with either ache I swear on ginger tea! anxious or not it soothes me well!
thank you so much maddie for your hard work! 🩷