being chosen and accepting people where they're at | emotionally online ep. #52

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  • @Lulu-kg8cf
    @Lulu-kg8cf Рік тому +36

    “I feel like my weight is a shield”
    What a beautiful change of perspective. Sometimes I worry that no one finds me attractive because I’m fat. But that’s not true and the people that would love me under conditions for how my body should look are not the people I want to date anyways. Ily Maddie 🫶

  • @xojess11
    @xojess11 Рік тому +59

    I saw the original "I hate my gf" tweet, I scrolled right past it so I didn't realize until now that it became viral/ people were adding onto it. Holy heck that scares the shit out of me, the bar is really in hell. my heart breaks for anyone who is accidentally dating one of these losers

  • @ironsnowflake1076
    @ironsnowflake1076 Рік тому +61

    Sometimes I lose a bit of faith in the world, then I remember all the sweethearts that are brilliant & amazing 🌹
    _group hug_

  • @squirrel2797
    @squirrel2797 Рік тому +36

    this channel and you as a person maddie are the epitome of hope for me because I am assured that I will find friends like me because i exist, I will find someone who loves like me because I exist and people who think like I do because you (all of you) do. it's out there and it gives me so much hope in humanity. especially how open you are in your non rigidity that's the cherry on top. this honest fathoming and aspiring is so refreshing

  • @sit_boy
    @sit_boy Рік тому +19

    I'm so glad this community is here

  • @batory147
    @batory147 Рік тому +8

    i zoned out and suddenly heard "then we both got hit by a car".... girrrl :DDD

  • @strawberryskates
    @strawberryskates Рік тому +7

    The way I started shaking my head for the last girlie just as you did. Break up with hiiiim

  • @art.thomas
    @art.thomas Рік тому +74

    Eeeeeee!! THE TIME HAS COME!! Sleepover goers, let’s assemble 😤🥰🥰🥰

  • @pipernicholson708
    @pipernicholson708 Рік тому +8

    i just want to say, BEWARE OF MEN WHO WILL DUNK ON PPL LIKE ANDREW TATE AND SNEAKO and STILL treat you like garbage.
    my ex of 3+ yrs called himself a feminist and regularly made fun of/pointed out the flawed ways these men thought about women. but then he regularly ignored me when i spoke about something that didnt directly pertain to him, said when i talked about certain things in my life it was “boring” to him, was a very tidy person before we moved in together but the second we did he stopped doing household chores entirely (even when i asked!), told me i was too emotional for having a reaction to something, andddd told me i needed to lose weight so he would find me more attractive (despite him being pretty overweight himself, which clearly i did not care about).
    please watch what men do instead of only listening to what they say like i did 🥺

  • @MissNobodySpecial
    @MissNobodySpecial Рік тому +9

    there was this post of this woman whose bf interacted with that threat and after confronting him he acted like he didn't know what it is. I think they ended up breaking up. Even though I'm sad for her/other women, I'm happy that they saw their bfs true colours

  • @lillianmauldin
    @lillianmauldin Рік тому +17

    this episode is DENSE and makes me so angry and scared at men's egregious behavior towards women. ladies, we gotta end these bloodlines. recalibrate that ick meter and have zero tolerance for bullshit, babes!

  • @camillebaer5985
    @camillebaer5985 Рік тому +7

    thank you for being authentic. A prick is a prick, ain't no two ways about it

  • @d.m3n
    @d.m3n Рік тому +30

    I was just having a Maddie marathon so this came out at a perfect time 🫶🏼

  • @yavkanave9548
    @yavkanave9548 Рік тому +23

    The way this is makes me giggly and ready to cozy up in my blankets on a Friday night is a feeling I have yet to find a word to describe. Thank you Maddie ❤️

  • @winnievaughan
    @winnievaughan Рік тому +5

    I have fresh re-dyed dark blue hair, my favorite sweater, a cup of coffee, a rainy Saturday, and a new episode. Life is GOOD godamnit!! 💙

  • @winnievaughan
    @winnievaughan Рік тому +1

    16:53 This is HUGE. This is everything. I’m so proud of myself for learning this through experience. It takes wisdom to view relationships this way.

  • @mossbaby6292
    @mossbaby6292 Рік тому +3

    Imagine describing your boyfriend as “quite a pompous and classist character, incredibly cruel” and then saying you want to stay together…. Girl I’m rooting for you but cmon

  • @dddakotarose
    @dddakotarose Рік тому +2

    the topics you cover are always so timely for what's goin on in my life that it's a little freaky. not the vibe I wanted while getting ready for work but definitely things I needed to hear. thank you maddie!

  • @piercetheromance
    @piercetheromance Рік тому +10

    Maddie! I had to run back what you said around 16:40. This is so helpful in my current situation when trying to get over a potential relationship that didn’t work out. Thank you

  • @BlackParade727
    @BlackParade727 Рік тому +6

    I never realized Emotionally Online is supposed to be read like emotionally available. This whole time I thought it was a play on the phrase "terminally online"

  • @ffiontill5924
    @ffiontill5924 Рік тому +5

    Congratulations on 52 episodes. One whole years worth💗🥳 got my tissues ready for this one because the title is already hitting 💗

  • @peachnecctar1658
    @peachnecctar1658 Рік тому +3

    this!!! everyone is like why dont you have insurance? the reason is cause i dont wanna spend $500+ a month to have my insurance not even work for almost a year after paying for it and tryign to get it while self employed is impossible

    • @emotionallyonline
      @emotionallyonline  Рік тому +1

      literally…. i’m shelling out all this money for literally nothing at all

    • @peachnecctar1658
      @peachnecctar1658 Рік тому

      Right!? eventually its supposed to be worth it but like why would anyone want to throw out that much money to not even have access to it for so long. Our countries health care system is beyond broken 😅@@emotionallyonline

  • @chloe2sweet
    @chloe2sweet Рік тому +1

    this pod validated me so much 😭

  • @unemarguerite
    @unemarguerite Рік тому +2

    thanks maddie!! 🩷🩷🩷

  • @yasminmonet5903
    @yasminmonet5903 Рік тому +1

    So much love for u maddie and this community! What a powerhouse 💪🏽♥️🫂

  • @sophsbookss
    @sophsbookss Рік тому +1

    the way my jaw dropped when you read out the 'classist asshole' letter

  • @megchristensen7667
    @megchristensen7667 Рік тому

    maddie i’m watching this with purple hair, purple nails, copious rings on my fingers, and tattoos, how have we never met before tf

  • @preks51
    @preks51 Рік тому

    girllll ur glowing recently ik u said it but i was thinking b4 u said it

  • @shannon.a.smithh
    @shannon.a.smithh Рік тому +3

    This was such a good episode!! ❤❤

  • @snehapradhan5591
    @snehapradhan5591 Рік тому

    ahhh i love this comment section so much!!

  • @ginaplease8445
    @ginaplease8445 Рік тому +1

    If you like the Wombats you should try Red Rum Club also from Liverpool. They're supporting the Wombats on their US tour and they're incredible. They have a trumpet player that creates such an incredible vibe. I love Vibrate and Ballerino xx

  • @elveenie5399
    @elveenie5399 Рік тому

    thank you so much maddie, have a really nice day

  • @Tinabobinna
    @Tinabobinna Рік тому +2

    for the second girl...are you good?? like is he the only man in ur hometown?! hell nah dump him!

  • @donwrrybouti
    @donwrrybouti Рік тому +10

    why do i always get a pepper ad when i click on your videos, we are not small b00bie queens 😭

  • @MarieLifeInWords
    @MarieLifeInWords Рік тому

    Love that word " prick" wanker" I'm British but live in Spain, so it makes me laugh. But i love the seriousness of how we deserve so much more. Thank you❤❤❤❤❤

  • @danielles.1186
    @danielles.1186 Рік тому +1

    I honestly needed this. Thank you ❤

  • @peachnecctar1658
    @peachnecctar1658 Рік тому

    The absolute best part of my week ♥

  • @strangersontheinternet
    @strangersontheinternet Рік тому +3

    Okay now I NEED to see those dead sexy Halloween costumes 😂❤

  • @elisebanks8774
    @elisebanks8774 Рік тому +1

    i saw the wombats live in december in bribane, aus and they were SO GOOD !! i love that we love the same band

  • @АнастасияБорисова-ы8ы

    What camera is this ? its so tiny but the quality is on point ! If anybody knows pls let me know

  • @juliamagsich
    @juliamagsich Рік тому +1

    in germany we say „feini“ !!
    I LOVE YOU

  • @ioannadear1296
    @ioannadear1296 Рік тому +5

    im always worried that you’re going to spill the drink sitting on your couch

  • @AJDwatching
    @AJDwatching Рік тому +4

    Why are all terminal 5 stories so haunted

  • @strangersontheinternet
    @strangersontheinternet Рік тому +1

    … about therapy. Have u considered paying out of pocket? I made the switch after being at war with my insurance and they wanted me to switch therapist that is cheaper but I really like the one I go to now. Yeah it’s pricey BUT it’s an investment into yourself

  • @MarieLifeInWords
    @MarieLifeInWords Рік тому +1

    Brilliant Maddie😂❤😂❤

  • @georgialandie9930
    @georgialandie9930 Рік тому

    Glad youre okay but the dead cheerleader story is the funniest thing I have ever heard

  • @snehapradhan5591
    @snehapradhan5591 Рік тому

  • @MoGoNicole
    @MoGoNicole Рік тому

    I love that you get more and more fed up with men’s bullshit as the video goes on lol.

  • @chrisc3571
    @chrisc3571 Рік тому

    It's not new. I was married to a man who hates women, but needed one to look respectable and to take care of his every need.
    Women don't realize that men like this exist until we've been through the meat grinder. We can't imagine pursuing a relationship with a person we see as subhuman. What is the point?
    But all the men I know, know men like that.

  • @missrebeccabee
    @missrebeccabee Рік тому

    I truly enjoy how passionate and expressive you are about some of these absolutely outrageous situations. Thank you!!!! 🤘🩷

  • @Sera606
    @Sera606 Рік тому +8

    These come out in the morning where I live and it’s like an amazing start into the day ❤ thanks for making us reflect a lot about how to approach love! I got into a relationship 4 months ago that doesn’t make me super anxious after listening to ur podcasts ngl 😭🫶 it probably was luck but I wanna believe that it’s the Maddie effect 💅

    • @curseofcontext
      @curseofcontext Рік тому +1

      maybe both haha but give yourself some credit too, you're contributing to how the relationship is going! 🍂🏵️🍂