They moved to the Philippines expecting a quick fix, only to be disappointed. Try this instead 

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  • @ChadFosterExplores
    @ChadFosterExplores  Місяць тому

    Thanks for watching!
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  • @frankcentofanti9317
    @frankcentofanti9317 4 місяці тому +14

    Nothing wrong with being alone embrace the drama free life, make friends live there over a year before you want to settle down if thats what you want

  • @davidkaiser810
    @davidkaiser810 4 місяці тому +21

    Wise words Chad. Changing your location doesn't change all your personalty traits...

    • @blockaderunner
      @blockaderunner 4 місяці тому

      But, if you know thyself, and if you've been keeping head down and eyes forward-looking for MANY years knowing all along it's not you but Them (western women) that don't see your value, then you Will find the "one" in the Philippines. You Could be a flounderer and find a Filipina that's a flounderer too, but in my opinion, if you come in better than ever shape (in all facets of life), so at your highest stock value that you know better than anyone else, then you will find her quicker probably, mainly because You will be Ready and she will be ready once you get off the plane or a week in to your trip. It can happen that fast, I'm livin proof. Good Luck

  • @dennisjennings6090
    @dennisjennings6090 4 місяці тому +13

    I spent 29 days....had friends like you mentioned...seen amd experienced so.much...I would of been the same without the friends...
    The foreigners I ran into...didn't even acknowledge me...I giggled and just walked on my way...
    It was fantastic experience and will go back as soon as I can

    • @bighand1530
      @bighand1530 4 місяці тому

      I have been in the Philippines for over a month in my entire life.

    • @tonyste12
      @tonyste12 4 місяці тому

      maybe 'jealous' of your looks? :)

  • @clrodrick
    @clrodrick 4 місяці тому +3

    That really is a pretty spot in Leyte. Will be visiting Philippines in 10 days, currently in Thailand. Still trying to figure out whether to relocate to Thailand of Phils. Leaning Thailand for now ...

  • @J-Tyson558
    @J-Tyson558 4 місяці тому +18

    The best thing to do is to take a discovery trip before moving to the Philippines. The country can be a dream for some foreigners but can also be a nightmare for others. Do some research and ask yourself if you're more of a city guy or a province guy. Then check out a few places, immerse yourself in the culture, its people, its amenities, infrastructure, etc. Filipinos are very friendly and welcoming and speak English, so you won't feel like a total outsider. But can you handle its disadvantages (weather/humidity, traffic, infrastructure, healthcare, poverty, slow pace, overall low standard of living)? After living in that particular city you should know if this is a place you can live/retire. It can save you a lot of money/heartache.

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  4 місяці тому +1

      Great advice

    • @bradleymiller7375
      @bradleymiller7375 4 місяці тому +1

      Yes and I did my research a couple of times! Well said! Not for everyone! I'm happy to because it would be toooo crowded!

    • @KC-in9px
      @KC-in9px 4 місяці тому +1

      J, have you made that discovery trip to the Philippines, or have you just been doing youtube "research"? If you're under the impression that all Filipinos speak English you're going to be disappointed. In the provinces away from tourist locations you'll be lucky to find anyone who speaks fluent English. Even in the more touristy locations most locals speak broken English at best. It's rare to find Filipinos that you can carry on a meaningful conversation with, plenty is lost in translation.

    • @J-Tyson558
      @J-Tyson558 4 місяці тому +1

      @@KC-in9pxI don’t need to do a discovery trip as I’m Filipino, was born here and live part time. I understand that not all Filipinos are fluent but you’re sure to find someone who speaks English if you need help anywhere. Try living in Thailand or Vietnam where you’d be hard pressed to find one in 10 people understand English at all. Filipinos having some mastery of English is one of the biggest reasons why foreigners are attracted to the Philippines. And if you don’t know that you need to make that discovery trip to find out if this is a deal breaker for you or not.

    • @KC-in9px
      @KC-in9px 4 місяці тому

      @@J-Tyson558 I haven't made it to Vietnam yet but I have traveled extensively throughout the Philippines, Cambodia, and Thailand. I honestly don't perceive much difference in finding locals in any of the three countries that speak some English. In rural areas it's more difficult, the Philippines included. I'm aware that there are fluent English speakers in all of these countries but the norm is limited or broken English. I'm not put off by this, please don't misunderstand me. But to say that English is widely used and understood isn't accurate.

  • @nows1567
    @nows1567 4 місяці тому +12

    That's a pretty serious approach I think. Some of the vlogs, they're almost like commercials, 'n if it's one thing I learned, not just in the Ph, but I'd say in Asia, it's never as good as it is in the pictures. Be it of the food, the aptmts whatever, if you expect like half or, sometimes way lower, you may not get disappointed.
    I brought my work, which I can do remote, I figured it would be good to have something to do, dunno what I'd done w/o it.
    Great vid. btw.

    • @tonyste12
      @tonyste12 4 місяці тому

      YES, 100%....most youtubers, especiall in the 'past', BSed ALOT and only showed and told, 'desperate' peopel what they wanted to hear. They told of a paradise without any negatives and builded peoples 'dreams' up and when one has very high expectations about anything, and then the reality smucks you in the face, you get disappointed, even when the good outweight the bad.

    • @JodyForbes
      @JodyForbes Місяць тому

      You're absolutely correct. The fantasy is always so much more than the reality. I've worked with so many blokes in my industry that have chosen to live in places like Thailand and the Phillipines or the new kid on the block "Vietnam'. They all rave about it early doors ( 3-5 years ) but almost without fail I run into them years later and they have returned to the USA or Australia. I would say 9 out of 10 return home. The love affair with SEA fades and the common theme is that living in these places is very 1 dimensional, almost without purpose and that there is many things that we take for granted in the West, that a person begins to miss.

  • @tadongafam
    @tadongafam 4 місяці тому +2

    I suggest that before you decide or even think about moving the Philippines, do some self-evaluation and debriefing first. Identify what are the emotional baggages, mental health concerns or anger management issues you might have and resolve it, so you don't bring the negativity with you. Dont use it as a way to escape the first world drama.
    Our country is NOT ideal for those who have control and narcissistic tendencies. We Filipinos, are wired to survive even the toughest battles. Do your research and you'll find out why. If youre looking for comfort and good infrastructure, THIS COUNTRY IS NOT FOR YOU. In short, its not for cry babies. Take it from a Filipino. Good luck! 🇵🇭😎

    • @MichaelPrudhomme-u7x
      @MichaelPrudhomme-u7x 2 місяці тому +1

      No narcissistic crybabies 😂

    • @tadongafam
      @tadongafam Місяць тому +1

      @@MichaelPrudhomme-u7x you got it right. Tired of dealing with Westerners who exist in the world just to complain. So entitled!

  • @rona8663
    @rona8663 4 місяці тому +4

    Great video Chad, I went to the Phils a month ago without anyone. I met an incredible lady after one week while I was staying in BGC. Was very easy to find and couldn’t be happier so far. She works and has not asked me for one cent either for herself or her family and thinks that’s so bad for Filipinas to do.

  • @AZ_Bill
    @AZ_Bill 4 місяці тому +8

    You are very are authentic and articulate. Great to see your channel taking off.

  • @sallyfromcali9190
    @sallyfromcali9190 4 місяці тому +7

    What a realistic , encouraging and optimistic outlook. Love it … the “travel companion” idea is golden as you don’t get caught up in the web of emotions and complications of a romance … Beautiful footage of the friendly generous locals and nature. Great video Chad ! And a hot hunk traversing the jungle in his red shorts was the icing on the cake ! 😉👍🏼

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  4 місяці тому +1

      Thanks Sally! Haha I'll be sure to let Gabriel know 😆

  • @MikeHoncho884
    @MikeHoncho884 4 місяці тому +4

    what a great positive video video thanks!
    I’m so looking forward to traveling around the Philippines.
    Can’t wait!!!
    I have 324 days until I can apply for my retirement pension. That will be the completion of 34 years then I just need 500 hours and I’m done 500 hours is a contributing year towards our pensions. We need 35 to retire.
    So looking forward to traveling around south east Asia, especially the Philippines.
    If I find my place in the Philippines, I will definitely apply for a veterans visa 👍 I really like your videos.

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  4 місяці тому +2

      Thank you I'm glad you're enjoying... and Good luck with your retirement you're almost there!

    • @MikeHoncho884
      @MikeHoncho884 4 місяці тому +1

      @@ChadFosterExplores I made a mistake after I saw you replied I reread what I put not five hours 500 hours is a contributing year so I’ll be done by the end of summer of 2025
      I’m already starting to sell things.
      Not for permanent residence overseas, but to have my house renovated while I’m gone. in hopes of renting my home if I do like it over in Southeast Asia. Or I’ll come back home after a great long vacation and have practically a brand new house. I should be able to get about $1500 a month rent off my place. Along with my pension and then eventually Social Security I won’t have a thing to worry about.

    • @bradleymiller7375
      @bradleymiller7375 4 місяці тому

      ​@@MikeHoncho884ur on ur way! Have fun, Congratulations!

  • @deanrotering879
    @deanrotering879 4 місяці тому +3

    That last couple of minutes was heartening. That’s really nice.

  • @haroldholton1246
    @haroldholton1246 4 місяці тому +1

    Chad! I would love to meet up in July, when i come to the Philippines. Just watching your videos, i can tell your really cool to hang with. Im meeting my girlfriend in Manila when i come. Then we are headed to Cebu for a week. We will be in Mabalacat and Angeles City and Dagupon area for the most part. I need to start making connections now. My goal is to retire before i turn 55, this year. Thanks again for a great video.

  • @Richard-b3k4r
    @Richard-b3k4r 4 місяці тому +1

    Just got Home from the Philippines. Stayed ther for a month and loved it. I really hope to return soon.
    Long time subscriber. I have listened to your comments about OT and I have High opinion of you guys and and also PT and RT. But I , as a Registered Nurse would have been Bored to death doing those jobs. Maybe you are young enough to add RN to your name.
    and check out the ER. It is one of those jobs where you can have your own Heart attack!!
    Actually I am hopeing UA-cam Works out for you as I do enjoy You videos
    Best Regards,
    Richard, RN

  • @Crapos
    @Crapos 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for the great content. I keep getting involved in things here in the US there are unimportant I could literally pack up and go thank you for reminding me that I just need to pack up and go

  • @gordon.Jacko1055
    @gordon.Jacko1055 4 місяці тому +1

    Hi Chad
    If you want a good time in the Philippines, you have to have the funds if not you will find it hard.

  • @bighand1530
    @bighand1530 4 місяці тому +7

    God offers the ultimate happiness that not even the Philippines can bring.

    • @theshamanist113
      @theshamanist113 4 місяці тому

      😂

    • @bighand1530
      @bighand1530 4 місяці тому

      @@theshamanist113 It’s true.

    • @MichaelPrudhomme-u7x
      @MichaelPrudhomme-u7x 2 місяці тому

      I’m not a God fearing person, so to speak, but I do follow the advice from wise one’s that our purpose is given to us.
      We are imperfect beings trying to do a perfect thing, so it feels challenging and one can have anxiety.
      But no problem cannot be fixed except unwillingness. God chooses our purpose and our important purpose but each of us chooses how you will treat this.
      Life and love are a verb.

    • @bighand1530
      @bighand1530 Місяць тому

      @@MichaelPrudhomme-u7x Yes, we are imperfect. Which is why we all need to believe in Jesus and what he did on the Cross for our sins. God requires perfection. And Jesus is the only human to achieve this.

  • @jonmcmichael7461
    @jonmcmichael7461 4 місяці тому +4

    great attitude--

  • @GlimpseInParadise
    @GlimpseInParadise 4 місяці тому +14

    Well half of the depression comes from what the government does to us. Also, how they spend our tax dollars. It will drive you crazy. So yes, getting away from that will help drastically.

    • @youngandfree93
      @youngandfree93 4 місяці тому +3

      You guys are your own worst enemy. Stop watching news turn it off. Be happy. Easy problem solved.

    • @fuqutube
      @fuqutube 4 місяці тому

      @@youngandfree93 Solves nothing. Tax money still wasted, and the Fed is running wild. It will implode .. That said, I am leaving the US fk this place.

    • @michaelsetliff1276
      @michaelsetliff1276 4 місяці тому

      @@youngandfree93well said

    • @youngandfree93
      @youngandfree93 4 місяці тому

      @@imveryhungry112 nothing you can do about it. Turn off the stupid news. Be happy. Learn to live with it. Do what younger people do. Don't be the grumpy old guy that everyone wants to avoid. Sorry to be blunt but I feel needs to be said to many of these bitter guys. I treat them invisible

    • @youngandfree93
      @youngandfree93 4 місяці тому

      @@imveryhungry112 it's mostly old to be honest. I am in late 30s and most in my age bracket care about travel, digital work, fitness, etc. Majority of the locals here don't even care either. Fewer people have TVs. It's why I choose my social circle carefully

  • @Kevin-G-7
    @Kevin-G-7 4 місяці тому +6

    Chad, it is good that you are pointing out the challenges. Videos and pictures tell a small portion of what retiring overseas is like. It can be and often is great. But, I think many are surprised by the challenges you can only understand when you are there: weather, infrastructure, lack of services, bureaucracy, and the fact that better dating options does not mean you will quickly find “the one” which means you will experience some loneliness and heartache. The videos can’t adequately communicate that. But, that is not the fault of the vloggers. It is impossible to adequately communicate it. All you can do is tell us in words what the issues are and those who want to go have to do some hard thinking to try to imagine, to the best of their ability, what it means for them. And, they need to make themselves acknowledge that they are underestimating the negative impact on them. Maybe then they will have somewhat reasonable expectations. They should make their decision to go knowing they may be disappointed but the only way to know is to go and see for themselves.

    • @bradleymiller7375
      @bradleymiller7375 4 місяці тому +2

      Experience is tough teaching, but ur learn! Once is enough!

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  4 місяці тому +1

      Hey thank you yeah I agree with you it's a different experience with everyone and the only way to find out is if you come here and experience it for yourself. Thanks for watching and thanks for your sharing your thoughts

  • @smferreiro2610
    @smferreiro2610 4 місяці тому +5

    Great video, Chad!
    You tried hard to make it rock bottom, but you failed: It was still positive!
    I guess it reflects your state of mind within a place you are clearly loving and enjoying.

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  4 місяці тому +5

      Haha yeah it ended up leaning towards mostly positive couldn't help it 😆

    • @bradleymiller7375
      @bradleymiller7375 4 місяці тому +2

      ​@@ChadFosterExploresthat's why we love u!

    • @raconteur5195
      @raconteur5195 4 місяці тому

      What is the context of rock bottom?

    • @smferreiro2610
      @smferreiro2610 4 місяці тому

      @@raconteur5195 You have to travel more if you don't understand these expressions. When you live in an agricultural country "rock bottom" is the farthest you can dig. You can go nowhere below that. Nowadays it is used regardless the distance to the prairies, in any context, to say "deep" or under par.

    • @raconteur5195
      @raconteur5195 4 місяці тому

      @@smferreiro2610 I know what rock bottom means, but how does it apply in the context of this video?

  • @kevcox5585
    @kevcox5585 4 місяці тому +2

    I think this video is so Important. I agree, some guys are gonna just pack up their lives and come out there, but you need to be realistic in your mindset. The thing is, nearly ALL the western UA-camrs have something in common, they are all easy going, positive people, the type that maybe make friends back home quite easily too, which can maybe scue guys expectations of what it will be like, but you can't just expect for your personality to change when you arrive there, you've got to force yourself to maybe be more outgoing, do things you wouldn't normally do, and most importantly form and keep friendships. All that does take time and that's even before you even consider meeting a possible new girlfriend. Thanks man, you always make the videos something really worth watching, this could have been a just a video of you on this trip, but you turned it into something for guys to think about.

  • @stevenr1354
    @stevenr1354 4 місяці тому +3

    Well reasoned advice and loved the visuals of scenery, families having fun, and the dogs. More pooches please!

  • @carletto_au
    @carletto_au 4 місяці тому +2

    Absolutely right! most people thrive when involved with other people; you do need good friends

  • @randellt
    @randellt 4 місяці тому +1

    I can tell you..meet some bargirls...some are very very nice and really do not enjoy their work. Many have college degrees..and are working to support their families.. I have meant several that turned out to be absolutely amazing.. just my thought

    • @DimitriTheBarbarian
      @DimitriTheBarbarian 4 місяці тому

      Yes, some are just regular women looking for a nice Western guy. Also, some of these women might be doing it part time or as temporary job and they are not professionals

  • @fransodekerken-sf7xs
    @fransodekerken-sf7xs 4 місяці тому +1

    The best video you made till now👍

  • @jayochoa7322
    @jayochoa7322 4 місяці тому +2

    What an amazing place you were at! Looked like a tiny space came down from HEAVEN! I will soon go visit my Girl I've been seeing for three years online and NO SHE IS NOT YOUNG but is my age which I'm now 44! Nothing better than to be with a woman who knows what she really wants! God bless brother thank you for this video because I will now make it a goal to go there one day to palawan! Much BLESSINGS!💪😎

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  4 місяці тому +2

      That's awesome you'll love it! Actually this place is nicknamed Mini Palawan but it's in leyte. Although I have been to Palawan it's beautiful as well.

    • @jayochoa7322
      @jayochoa7322 4 місяці тому

      @@ChadFosterExplores thank you Chad for the info! Much BLESSINGS!💪😎

  • @TenYen4796
    @TenYen4796 4 місяці тому +1

    Come with a open mind and let things fall in place naturally. Get out and meet people first and get involved in the culture. Sounds good to me 😊

  • @marcrichard7251
    @marcrichard7251 4 місяці тому +2

    Wow Chad it’s good to see the kids cooling off in the river with this hot 🥵 summer weather….

  • @victoriafediuk362
    @victoriafediuk362 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Chad, for telling them the challenges so you don't get caughtin the web. Maybe come here for a week or two weeks before deciding what to do. You can't find a partner right away ofcourse it take a while depending on what are you looking for. either long relationship or just a friend to talk to.

  • @EDINTHEWIND
    @EDINTHEWIND 4 місяці тому +9

    Being alone and meeting people is cool.

  • @rmoitoza1
    @rmoitoza1 4 місяці тому +13

    all great info i did that it took me 3 years of chatting on line and then meeting her in person traveling with her 24 /7 for 5 months before i get a fiancé visa to America and took her to america to get married now 7 years later it still awesome they are the best spouses

    • @bradleymiller7375
      @bradleymiller7375 4 місяці тому +3

      Super to hear happy stories! Congratulations!

    • @blockaderunner
      @blockaderunner 4 місяці тому +3

      good to know, does she go fishing with you? Mine will and does, married less than 2 years.

    • @a-a-ron936
      @a-a-ron936 4 місяці тому

      Congratulations Man!

  • @OrbitalRescueSage
    @OrbitalRescueSage 3 місяці тому

    These fantasy vids:
    Be amazing, happy, and wealthy! The Philippines will be amazing!
    Uhhh, wait, you aren’t wealthy, happy, and amazing? Have you considered being poor and miserable back in your home country instead? Also, lower your expectations and standards. Like really lower them. No, lower. Here, have a shovel.

  • @rbc744338
    @rbc744338 4 місяці тому

    Hi Chad, if opportunities knocks, would you be willing to practice OT in the Philippines in a Community Based Setting? Say practice as a consultant or practice leader in Adult Rehab?

  • @ccjohncc1
    @ccjohncc1 4 місяці тому

    Probably the most insightful and informative video regarding "Retirement in the Philippines;!" At least for me. Im leaving in another 2 months! Thanks Chad.

  • @MichaelPrudhomme-u7x
    @MichaelPrudhomme-u7x 2 місяці тому

    I feel so fortunate.
    Although I had built my life around a home here with family and that evaporated, I’m centered and comfortable.
    It’s all so easy. I could do this until I die.
    I don’t need anything but I do want an adventure. A desire to do something in this last chapter of life.
    I like your idea’s presented here to calmly and brightly make the launch. TBH I’m cautious about a travel buddy or friend because I seem to have a “high interest” in females.
    America makes it easy to ignore as women my age are grandmas with short hair, pudge, and frankly “don’t need no man” so I solo ride and it’s great.
    I saw Pea do a house tour today with water, solar, starlink, and no roosters or karaoke next door 😂 that was financially doable for me. Looked like paradise.
    I’m comfortable but still with a secret dream. ‘25 will be honor no. I’m not sure I have the guts. Thanks for covering this slow approach.

  • @manosparavida3551
    @manosparavida3551 4 місяці тому +1

    A very well worded accompanying narration, which puts everything firmly into perspective. Unlike certain other vloggers I could mention, who'll remain nameless.

  • @fernandomofreita79
    @fernandomofreita79 4 місяці тому

    Hello there,
    How are you, and your loved ones?
    Do you happen to know the following please:
    Where can a Filipina travel to with her own passport?
    What is the criteria for a Filipina to travel abroad?
    How long can a Filipina stay out of the Philippines?
    How much is a passport in the Philippines?
    Thank you.

  • @DimitriTheBarbarian
    @DimitriTheBarbarian 4 місяці тому

    No woman wants to be a “travel companion”. Women want to have relationship. If you want travel companion it’s probably better talking to a bar girl because they are business-oriented anyway. What do you think?

  • @jamalgreen3056
    @jamalgreen3056 4 місяці тому

    The thing is most definitely for younger foreigners including myself is that you need to have a purpose before when you go to the Philippines or any other Asian country.Don’t go their strictly looking to date or to find a girlfriend there is so much more to the Philippines besides dating.So much to learn about there culture,history and agriculture.I haven’t even been to the Philippines yet and I just be looking at videos on UA-cam of so many foreigners in the Philippines just not learning enough about the Filipino culture.Its best to not get influenced by others but to be self directed.We all need to know why your going to the Philippines and what do you plan on accomplishing while your their.What do you plan on learning while your their when Filipina women acknowledge these things about you,you will get some of them the Filipina women to notice you.But if the very first few things Filipina women notices off of you is you just looking for a girlfriend and or just looking for a relationship and you are rushing to find a partner then you won’t attract most Filipina women to you only the ones that are desperate.I know because I talk to some Filipina women and they told me they don’t like the kind of guys who aren’t responsible and who comes strictly looking for a girlfriend.A lot of foreigners in the Philippines make the mistake of overly perusing Filipina women because here in America you have to do that and a women still won’t give u the time of the day.But in the Philippines you will know when a Filipina woman is interested in you and when she’s not.

  • @KahunaOne-wz3hc
    @KahunaOne-wz3hc 4 місяці тому +1

    Great that you are "smelling the roses" Chad. Thanks for the scenic clip. 😀

  • @raconteur5195
    @raconteur5195 4 місяці тому +1

    Saying hello, where are you from, to the few foreigners that I see, out here in the PH provinces, that is how I've made so many good friends as a newcomer.

  • @eddenoy321
    @eddenoy321 4 місяці тому +1

    Chad is one of the more grounded PI UA-camrs

  • @Crapos
    @Crapos 4 місяці тому

    I really enjoyed this video. I have traveled often as a traveler. the river part of your video reminds me so much of all the good times i have had same situation just different country ... thanks for posting. ps I will need to get a scooter aka bike ... I hope you could help thanks steve

  • @RichGPilot
    @RichGPilot 4 місяці тому +2

    Chad, you are amazingly articulate. Nice job

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  4 місяці тому

      Hey thank you I appreciate it I'm still working on being more concise to deliver thoughts and messages, thanks for watching I appreciate it!

  • @prancer4743
    @prancer4743 4 місяці тому +1

    Great information thanks 👍😁🙏

  • @richardewels6280
    @richardewels6280 4 місяці тому

    Does the same apply to women who are experiencing ageism? Asking for a friend 😅

  • @ShikokuFoodForest
    @ShikokuFoodForest 4 місяці тому +1

    Hello Chad from southern Shikoku. I’ve been wondering how you’ve been doing. I believe there is complete truth to all your points in this video. It’s very useful to provide a balanced perspective of reality there. What you described in the beginning of this video is exactly my situation in Japan as I approach retirement age after living here going on 14 years - no friends, very limited to no dating opportunities and general social isolation. Being invited to join Japanese socially never, ever happens here. There is a lot to experience in Japan, but foreigners are always treated as outsiders. These are all reasons for wishing to relocate to the Philippines. Your message is very important to keep in mind - moving to the Philippines is only the first step. Taking action towards achieving goals is critical for success as is in any country. I’ll definitely be taking your advice when I first arrive. Thanks!

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  4 місяці тому +1

      Hey there thank you and I'm glad you're inspired to make a change I think there are definitely good opportunities here for what has been missing over there in Japan. Thank you for watching I appreciate it!

    • @ShikokuFoodForest
      @ShikokuFoodForest 4 місяці тому

      @@ChadFosterExplores Hey Chad, good hearing from you! I just started a totally unexpected new teaching job here as an English teacher at a local private Junior/Senior High School on top of a mountain. For now, it’s a 1-year contract that will buy me time to get all my affairs in order to make my move. I’ve had a very unique experience in Japan for many years, but am very aware I’ve outgrown Japan now and it is becoming overdue to make a move. I tried my best to meet the right woman here and get married plus integrate into Japanese society, but there have been ongoing challenges and limitations here in the countryside. The Philippines will provide much more opportunity that has been lacking here in many ways although as you informed us, it will take time. It would be so cool to meet up in the future if it is ever convenient. Best wishes in finding what you’re looking for buddy.

    • @youngandfree93
      @youngandfree93 4 місяці тому +1

      Japan is very beautiful and honestly a much better safer country to retire in. You should join some meetup groups, get out and chat with others.

    • @ShikokuFoodForest
      @ShikokuFoodForest 4 місяці тому

      @@youngandfree93 Sure, good options to meet people in the west; however, in Japan and certainly in the countryside, there are no meet-up groups, no expat community and the Japanese are generally very uncomfortable talking to anyone they don’t know. I never, ever have a Japanese start a conversation with me. Even someone saying, “hello” is extremely rare here. In fact, the Japanese even avoid eye contact! They are very reserved, conservative and normally absolutely hopeless at small talk or starting a conversation with strangers or often even people they know since they never do it. From my experience, the Japanese are completely unable to carry a conversation since it’s not part of their culture. Sure, you can walk up to strangers in Japan, introduce yourself and make an effort to start a conversation with the idea it could lead to a friendship - which I’ve tried many times - but, this behavior is NOT respected nor are the Japanese commonly open to it. Most often, they want to end the meeting ASAP. Even if you are successful at some light conversation, the encounter will never lead to a friendship or anything deeper than the one-time superficial brief meeting. It really has to be experienced first hand to believe. So sure, I challenge you to retire in Japan. Be prepared to live a very socially-isolated existence. I’m single and have very rarely eaten a meal or had as much as a cup of tea with a Japanese in going on 14 years. Perhaps a few times in 14 years. From my experience, the Japanese only associate with their very select, chosen in-group and certainly never express or show any interest or desire in building a relationship with a Canadian. I’m a home and land owner for about 10 years and never talk or say hello to any of my neighbors except on perhaps a very few rare occasions per year or two. In 14 years, I may have said no more than a hello to 1-2 people in my area where I live. Everyone sticks to themselves as much as possible.

  • @RickyFuller-wq6os
    @RickyFuller-wq6os 4 місяці тому

    Well if you are having problems here them the problem is you.

  • @gary_in_the_Philippines
    @gary_in_the_Philippines 2 місяці тому

    when your in the jungle areas ever come across poisonous snakes?

  • @LeahandBlair
    @LeahandBlair 4 місяці тому

    Good video Chad.

  • @Richard-b3k4r
    @Richard-b3k4r 4 місяці тому

    Good morning from Gainesville Florida

  • @dsrrellgriffith1161
    @dsrrellgriffith1161 4 місяці тому +1

    short term is nice in the PI, but in the long term it can be boring and not so great,,,,,make sure if u move to the PI u have money saved for medical or other emergencies....I have seen so many foreigners with no money for emergencies,,,,I have had several ask me for money for emergencies ,,,,goodluck

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  4 місяці тому +1

      Definitely people need to plan for things like that. And yeah I can see how the excitement changes over the years but I think that applies to living anywhere for a long time you have to rely on other things to stay happy, healthy routine hobbies good friends etc.. appreciate you watching and leaving your thoughts, amping :)

  • @ezdozit3463
    @ezdozit3463 4 місяці тому +2

    wow this place is amazing

    • @bighand1530
      @bighand1530 Місяць тому

      @@ezdozit3463 I wanna go there.

  • @mikevaldez4895
    @mikevaldez4895 4 місяці тому

    been to that site but it in Matalom Leyte, it close to Bato

  • @TenYen4796
    @TenYen4796 4 місяці тому +1

    Same for Thailand, Japan and just about everywhere.

  • @__Craig__
    @__Craig__ 4 місяці тому +1

    Chad, this is your best video and advice. Good stuff!!

  • @donwutzlakesideadventures
    @donwutzlakesideadventures 4 місяці тому +1

    Hi Chad, Thanks for the spiritual guidance! much appreciated!

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  4 місяці тому +1

      You're welcome and thank you for watching really appreciate it!

  • @DayuhansDiary
    @DayuhansDiary 4 місяці тому +1

    Enjoying your videos sir. I’m looking at getting my SRRV later this year and your videos keep me motivated. Such a beautiful country.
    Already looking forward to your next adventure

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  4 місяці тому +1

      Awesome that'll be nice to get your SRRV, I agree beautiful country I'm loving exploring the province!

    • @bradleymiller7375
      @bradleymiller7375 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@ChadFosterExploresliving our dream! But I'll be there soon! Wow can't wait to be with my new family, my new life! Without any old baggage!!

  • @paulthurson
    @paulthurson 4 місяці тому

    wherever YOU go .. there YOU are

  • @mikereid5226
    @mikereid5226 4 місяці тому

    Chad you seem to like Leyte 👍

  • @sherylcastro5688
    @sherylcastro5688 4 місяці тому

    Key to happiness: WHATEVER YOUR EXPECTATIONS & STANDARDS ARE…..LOWER IT!!!! -Orny Adams

  • @lifewithkrisb
    @lifewithkrisb 4 місяці тому +1

    Nice Chad! I've always wanted to learn how to play pickleball. Good to know I'll be able to learn when I get to Cebu later this year.

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  4 місяці тому +1

      They had it at a place called Bright Academy in Cebu city... there might be other options tnow, and Beyond Island hotel in Moaboal . Enjoy!

    • @lifewithkrisb
      @lifewithkrisb 4 місяці тому +1

      @@ChadFosterExplores Thanks man! I get there in August and look forward to learning how to play.

    • @bradleymiller7375
      @bradleymiller7375 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@lifewithkrisbI'll be right behind u!

  • @dgibbsfl
    @dgibbsfl 4 місяці тому

    Chad, I have been in the Philippines for seven years now and that was after coming back and forth visiting for a few years before that and I have to say that this video and the message you organized about expectations for coming to the Philippines and the array of results possible.....is dead spot-on. This is the perfect explanation in my opinion. You covered all of the possible dynamics associated with any expectation a foreign (western culture) man may have. I will save this link and give it out to guys that I may talk to in the future.
    I got lucky to an extent and I have had a wonderful experience in my retirement here. I got to know some people prior to coming over permanent and that was my ace in the hole.
    I have always advised guys to set themselves up to give themselves plenty of time to have a look around before making their final decisions about a move but I have not ever been able (or have taken the time) to enunciate all of the nuances to consider and be aware of and you accomplished that with this video.
    Good job. Respect for what you are doing. I had already subscribed to your channel and I am clicking the likes on the videos I watch. Power on...

  • @jsully4064
    @jsully4064 4 місяці тому

    Mini Palawan is definitely a unique place. Thanks for sharing it with us. It definitely takes time to meet the right girl unless you just fall for the first one that you meet. Just make sure you know what you are looking for in a Filipina. Great video, thanks, Chad...Jim

  • @paradise6606
    @paradise6606 4 місяці тому +1

    You keep repeating yourself. Can you get to the point please.

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  4 місяці тому +1

      Actually I appreciate your comment because I am working on being more concise when delivering thoughts or messages for a video

  • @paulthurson
    @paulthurson 4 місяці тому

    ive been an expat for 20 years now in Japan and South Korea .. everything you have advised Chad applies everywhere as an expat .. good solid advice 👍

  • @4GoHireAVet
    @4GoHireAVet 4 місяці тому

    Good stuff brother, you're definitely hitting your stride keep up the evolution I think you're helping a lot of people with the check up from the neck up so they don't crash & burn from their expectations not living up to their dreams if it turns out that way for them. 😇

  • @jasondempsey760
    @jasondempsey760 4 місяці тому +1

    Hey Chad! Loving your videos. Am giving much thought to taking a year or so and slow traveling through SE Asia and your videos have been great to get a feel for what’s up. Question, and I remember you mentioned it in a previous video but forgot which one, what shoes are those you liked for hiking around all those trails & waterways that are waterproof? Looks like a wise investment for one with an active outdoor lifestyle. Thanks man.

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  4 місяці тому +1

      Hey there glad you are enjoying and thank you for watching. They are Merrel shoes that I've been wearing they have an assortment of hiking water shoes I find them to be perfect for this kind of thing. Hang on I will find the link and I'll reply again to your comment with it

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  4 місяці тому +1

      amzn.to/43vOIch
      These are the shoes that I wear but they have others in that same category

    • @jasondempsey760
      @jasondempsey760 4 місяці тому

      Have any issues with support for medium length nature hikes w/elevation? Problems with dirt, debris or sand making its way through the webbing inside and irritating the feet? Thanks again!

    • @jasondempsey760
      @jasondempsey760 4 місяці тому

      Are they your day to day while touring around the Philippine Islands? Or just when your out on beaches, waterways, waterfalls and hiking?

  • @JimMillsCSLC
    @JimMillsCSLC 4 місяці тому

    Really good topic, Chad. The videoagraphy of your vlogs are very professional now. Well done my friend🇺🇸🙏🏼🇵🇭

  • @Electrichead64
    @Electrichead64 4 місяці тому

    Theres long time, then theres really long time 🤣

  • @jamescalifornia2964
    @jamescalifornia2964 4 місяці тому

    Good psychology from this video 👍

  • @smittylikesto
    @smittylikesto 4 місяці тому

    i love the stories, especially the messed up ones.

  • @wrafl
    @wrafl 4 місяці тому

    Coming back in just over 2 weeks. So excited to be with my ldr Filipina. Ill spend 3 months there to look for ideal place to retire before I begin my retirement life. Was there in January for a month and had a blast traveling the islands.

    • @dsrrellgriffith1161
      @dsrrellgriffith1161 4 місяці тому

      just a warning,,,,short term trips mean nothing, i lived in cebu for 7 years, after awhile island hoping is boring, and the same after awhile. I grew up at the beach in USA, so going to beaches in PI were not that exciting, the food sucks, medical care sucks, mosquitos suck,,,,But in the short term its fun, after awhile its boring and sucks,,,,goodluck,,,,u better have a nice chunk of money saved for medical emergencies or other emergencies....

  • @Re3iRtH
    @Re3iRtH 4 місяці тому

    Hey Chad. How much did you pay to transport a motorbike from Biliran to Maripipi? Can you tell me what ship you used, I appreciate it man

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  4 місяці тому

      Hey there it was kind of easy actually you go to the kawayan port and they will carry it onto a small boat, it cost me 200 for the scooter plus another 100 each time you get people to help carry it on/offso. Plus fair for yourself, that's another 200 each if the boat is filled

  • @xomox5316
    @xomox5316 4 місяці тому +1

    Wherever you go there you are.

  • @bradleymiller7375
    @bradleymiller7375 4 місяці тому

    CHAD ur becoming a favorite! Another video well done! All very good content!

  • @TDK67DK
    @TDK67DK 4 місяці тому

    Leyte is such an underated place :D
    1:59 made me laugh. Nice interaction.

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  4 місяці тому +1

      I agree! I did not expect some of the stuff I am seeing here in leyte it's an amazing island

  • @michaelpalosaari9460
    @michaelpalosaari9460 4 місяці тому

    Very good perspective to share for all of us! I really appreciate your realistic point of view!

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  4 місяці тому

      You're welcome! Thank you for watching I appreciate it

  • @gailmaplesden7380
    @gailmaplesden7380 4 місяці тому +2

    Many guys think that if they meet a Filipina online that they will be their liason to the philippines. Most Filipinas aren't that well traveled even in their own country, so don't be shocked if they get you lost somewhere. This girl may not be the one for you, so keep that in mind, and whatever you spend is an investment in your own future in the philippines. Doing recon missions is extremely important, and going several times at different times of the year and going to at least two or three different places is ideal. Most people will start out in an area that is more westernized and then branch out from there, depending upon their comfort level and needs . Really sit down and make a list of your wants and needs is important as it will help you target a place that will make you happy. A girl is going to want to direct you to what is comfortable for her which is close to her family but you need to remember that this is your retirement and not her welfare department so do what is best for yourself and if she isn't happy then astalavista baby.

  • @jaredolson6189
    @jaredolson6189 4 місяці тому

    How much money should i have saved before moving to the Philippines?

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  4 місяці тому +1

      That's kind of a tough one to answer everyone will have their own opinion but depending on your lifestyle expectations a monthly budget of $1500 is usually enough. Some can do it for around $1K and some will definitely spend more than that it just depends on your needs.

    • @jaredolson6189
      @jaredolson6189 4 місяці тому

      @@ChadFosterExplores yes I will have around 2k a month but I was wondering how much I should have saved up in savings account

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  4 місяці тому +3

      @@jaredolson6189 my personal thought on that would be to have at least $10,000 USD. There are many things to consider, health emergencies would be a big one. Some would probably move here with less in the bank and be OK with it and others would have much more. Also depends on what your financial goals are if you plan on making any bigger purchases. Start up costs can add up depending if you want to buy a scooter/motorcycle or even a vehicle that would have to be factored in. If you are renting a house and you need to furnish it that has to be factored in. So it really just depends

  • @glidden67
    @glidden67 4 місяці тому

    I love the guy with the jug of whiskey.

  • @michaelsetliff1276
    @michaelsetliff1276 4 місяці тому

    Great video …thank you for making informative and positive content.

  • @Muhamedhabeeb-om2iw
    @Muhamedhabeeb-om2iw 4 місяці тому +1

    i watch your videos then do the opposite, its been working

    • @bradleymiller7375
      @bradleymiller7375 4 місяці тому

      @Muhamedhabeeb, really??? Got any details??

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  4 місяці тому +1

      Haha well glad that is working for you 🤗

    • @RicHembree
      @RicHembree 4 місяці тому

      @Muhamedhabeeb-om2iw - what an idiot, you should go get a life!😂🤣

    • @kristapsjakusenoks8724
      @kristapsjakusenoks8724 4 місяці тому

      I'm guessing everything is working coz you are trending 😄

  • @marichuarmodia2375
    @marichuarmodia2375 4 місяці тому

    Wow how blessed the people in pilipino are so warm heart and kindly people and hospitality people
    Wow ❤

  • @henrikovratd9845
    @henrikovratd9845 4 місяці тому

    Great video as always Chad:)
    I have filipina gf now close to 3 yrs and I've been there and met her and we spent 2 wonderful months together. You touched lots of things in this video and I can relate . Being un the usa I've been miserable for I'd say the past 6 yrs there is nothing here but chaos and unhappiness for many here.
    I question myself why I want to come there and all I ever wanted was peace and a bit of serenity and its not achievable here for me. I've worked my whole life currently retiring and my finances after retirement will be approximately 3, 200.00 in usa and simply it doesn't go very far. My question for you is this a sustainable amount for a decent life in the Philippines?
    I'm ok with paying a rent for a decent place let's say 25k there and still even with the breakdown seems to be plenty leftover to live comfortably and be able to do the things I want to do there like go different islands etc I would really appreciate your opinion on this especially the amount I will be afforded as a retired person there.