Reesa TEESA: BIG BACK Behavior Or A helpless VICTIM?
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The Full Breakdown:
• Reesa Teesa “Who TF Di...
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Reverse the scenario and see if it makes sense though. If an obese guy met a woman who looked like miss universe and claimed to love him for who he is ended up sweet talking her way into scamming him, ppl would say how the heck did he get scammed cause clearly a woman like that is out of his league. Reesa should’ve known no true high earning and successful man is rushing to marry an obese woman within one month of meeting her. It’s sounds tough but it’s the truth. Even slim women would’ve second guessed his intentions. If a man wayyy out of your league approaches you ALWAYS question why ladies.
They look like they match each other, he's no prize either.
@@soniagarcia471 Thank you, he looks a mess!!
Correct!! Unfortunately men have more room to be unattractive if they have money . I don’t make the rules and it’s unfair but it’s the truth
@@soniagarcia471Exactly I think aesthetic wise they match each other
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Exactly. Imagine if he wasnt a liar and everything he did and said was true. They would have been a perfect match.
People forget that this was during the pandemic. We were all confused and unsure of the future. Loneliness was at its peak
True
Bingo
I was straight. Pandemic is not an excuse for desperation and foolishness.
Very good point
So what ? That’s not an excuse you lonely during lockdown read or get an indoor hobby don’t let a dude you barley know move in
Ladies stop putting your personal business on social media. Get a therapist and a journal.
Facts. Your vulnerability isn’t something to shared with strangers on the internet. People are cruel, and most enjoy people’s pain… it’s entertainment for them…. Unfortunately
Amen, trauma dumping
It's the loneliness epidemic. We used to tell crazy stories to our friends, not the world.
This!!! Cause I could never entertain y’all with any past foolery that I dealt with.
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Charlamagne was being mean. Low self-esteem, desperation, and loneliness can get anyone at any time, regardless of colour or size. I respect Reesa for holding herself accountable. She's blessed to make it out of that terrible situation with her mental health still in tact.
This is very true! ❤
So true
Exactly but when it happens to a pretty girl everyone will tell her your beautiful you don’t need that kind of guy or you can do better. When it’s a big women then she desperate smh. Same scenario, different perception
Her low self esteem may be a sign that her mental health wasn’t all there either. There is situational low self esteem that can happen when you experience loss or failure but then there is pathological low self esteem where you have a negative self image. This is usually the mind set of cluster C codependents and cluster B personality disorders except cluster B uses delusion to escape such low negative self perception. The Human mind is truly fascinating. Hopefully she’s done her shadow work and got down to the bottom of her low self worth. Thats why the love bombing worked on her.
Nah he was telling the truth.
As a plus size woman, this is not a plus-size issue. THIS IS A DESPERATION ISSUE. This has to do with low self-esteem & delusion. Skinny, fat, black, white or green it doesn’t matter when your living in a scarcity mindset and want to skip the feminine work.
Facts
Thank you!!!! I said this, I have pretty petite friends who have been DRAGGED as well due to desperation and lack of boundaries or standards
Exactly. He get on my nerves
Bs. Manipulative deceivers are good at what they do. You're all victim blaming.
Exactly. Not even to be that person but I’ve seen more skinny or “instagram thick baddies” be more delusional than fat folk. Hell I feel like plus sized people (some) may be more cautious even when desperate
Britney Spears is another example. When she married K-Fed, it looked like she was trying to prove something to everyone. Her fans we all saying, “don’t do it!” But she was only hearing the devil on her shoulder. We all saw how it ended. Britney was not ugly, nor fat, nor old back then. She didn’t have a big butt. She was one of the hottest celebrities of that day. It’s got nothing to do with having a big back. It’s about being ignorant to what games men are capable of.
Britney was and is desperate for men😂 she proposed to K fed. So embarrassing
Facts…..Perfect comment/example 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Ladies INVEST in a THERAPIST. Take your L’s in PRIVATE. Your grievances should never be on full display. Feminine women know this.
Hanging around asian women has taught me insecurities are loud like a bull horn and real confidence is silent like a feather hitting concrete.
@@duchessofautumn black baby boomers will teach you that too
@duchessofautumn Big facts!
@Denailacole Wow… I’m just glad we have this feminine platform so we can do better and move better
I needed to see your comment! Thank you ❤ Confirmation to stay silent and stay in prayer.
But when Cassie or Kimora Lee Simmons fall for a swindler, nobody calls them anything but a victim; but I digress...
He wasn’t a swindler y’all are giving him too much credit like her he was clearly lying he wasn’t a smart con artist he was clearly lying through his teeth
Okay….what’s your point? Pretty and thin privilege exists…that will probably never change. She seems like a very sweet and self aware woman. Hopefully she drops a ton of weight and finds a suitable partner.
@@antasiashaw8815 exactly! This man was clearly mentally ill and not all there. Most people have met someone like this and know there's something wrong with them and we don't engage. A swindler takes from their victims, what did Legion get from this situation?
Their husbands were actually rich. Maybe sick in other ways, but rich. No I don't see them as victims either. They willingly signed up for degenerates because the price tag was high enough. That's what Ressa thought she was doing, she just got got.
Unfortunately, society has more sympathy for attractive people.
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Facts
Not always, lots of people called Cassie a gold digger and fame chaser when she exposed Diddy.
@@conray1907 most people sided with her though
@sweetpeaj1952 yeah but there were rumors for years and years that Diddy was abusive
This story went VIRAL. But I haven’t bothered to tune in😅. . Didn’t have the time, and didn’t want to eat up that negativity- it’s bad for my mental.😂
All of this mess could of been avoided by doing a background check on a man
Exactly! Lol that’s what I was telling one of my sisters- too much negativity! Someone else’s nonsense isn’t good for the mental health of another.
Stay blessed ❤
You did the right thing. I listened to her story on UA-cam while I kept busy at home, but her story had me frustrated and DRAINED!
I didn’t even attempt to listen either.
Me either haven’t listened seems draining
I don’t really care for the “big back” we have seen some of the most beautiful women display “pick me” behavior. I didn’t follow the Reesa Teesa series, I saw HIM b4 I saw her. And I INSTANTLY KNEW from the tattered facial hair and the gap in his teeth that he was janky.
Like tinder swindler. All beautiful women
😂😂😂
Porsha Williams anyone???
The "big back" has me dying 🤣🤣🤣 but skinny or not it doesn't change how some women get treated it just changes the kind of man you get mistreated by. So either a dusty or a "high value" dusty.
@@Sweetheart0189 so if indeed big back is why then explain why it happens to all other women. The math ain’t mathing w/ your statement it happened to her because she IGNORED, the red flags, 🚩 something EVERY women is guilty of it young, old, black, white, big back, sway back, ignorant, educated, celebrity, the everyday woman, foreign domestic. Women are so disingenuous when talking about bigger girls as if men don’t take us ALL through it. No woman is exempt, when a man they find attractive is not who they pretend to be. So stop it your point makes no sense. The common denominator is not the looks of the woman it’s the fact that the wolves among the men in sheep’s clothing PREY ON WEAK MINDED WOMEN. THAT IS WHAT THEY ALL HAVE IN COMMON. big back was just one factor not the ENTIRE REASON. 🙄
That was so UGLY of him to say that. Just completely unnecessary and mean spirited. I hope Reesa Teesa learns from her situation and does better in her future 💗
Reesa was me, I never was taught about men and seeking love/validation outside of myself. Her story is a story most young women need to hear tbh. With healing comes clarity and different choices leading to a different life. Instead of throwing low blows this is opportunity for learning. Charlamange was never a real advocate for mental health.
No they don’t.
She didn’t teach her self about money n credit either at her age she didn’t seem to know basic things about money credit or anything she just moved and lived paycheck to pay
@@Arizona_lilly I know people like this and no matter how much money they have they will blow through it and will not pay their bills.
“Work on your discernment so you aren’t soothing yourself with delusional or magical thinking”
WHEW ❤️🔥 that’s it.
Bigger women are definitely not low hanging fruit! But they must recognize how society perceives them and do the inner work to truly create a reality that serves them with so much love and abundance. ❤
Well said!❤
@@Mary-rp2re stone cold truth
@@Mary-rp2respeak for yourself I dont have those problems, you can be fit and still get a dusty ass dude
@@Mary-rp2reYou just have more men approaching you to sleep with you.Let’s be honest!
@@kokowalkerIt’s literally all about not being desperate and knowing your worth.
The minute a woman decides to aknowledge her worth, the world becomes her runway🎉🎉🎉
WORD!! ❤️
There are many women of all shapes and sizes who have been duped by a toxic man. I, myself have had my fair share of dusties. I realized that the reason why I found myself involved with dusty men is because I had emotional wounds from my childhood which needed to be addressed. My father was a dusty, and my mother was an enabler. So, it's all learned behavior due to family trauma bonds which resulted in my low self-esteem.
Just because a woman is big doesn’t mean that she's low hanging fruit who will settle for a dusty. I have seen big, professional women who were happily married. I also knew this beautiful bi-racial woman who could not find a husband. Men would fall all over her. She would go out with a man and then it was over within a very short time. I come to notice that she was heavily acting in her masculine. She wanted her ass kissed but at the same time, she would emasculate that man. Then she would cry that she couldn't find a man. This woman was smoking hot in the looks department, smh 🤦♀️
Anyway, I finally got myself together and set some strong boundaries. So far, I have been dust free. Even better, I met a man that offered to pay for me to have my washer and dryer fixed or buy me brand new ones. I politely declined because I don't want to be obligated to take it to the next level. However, he does have great potential and who knows, maybe I will find a husband. 🤷♀️
Whether I find a husband or not, I am the prize. I have an amazing life . The best part is that I am dust free. It is better to be by yourself than it is to be with a damned dusty.
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A lot of women was fooled by this idiot. And they all looked different. It definitely wasnt a plus size girl thing.
I love it-I am dust free!
Look at all the gorgeous older woman or hott woman college educated girls who r pretty the twindler got them and Moka blast 💥
Big Back behaviour is a crazy term😂
Took me out 😂😂😂😂😂
My new lingo from now on. I don’t care 😂
I watched all parts! I was completely shocked when she moved that man in her home after 2 weeks! I hope women take heed of her story and learn lessons from her story!
That's where she messed up and letting her desperation ignore all the red flags.
Let’s blame covid lol
@@candyrowe6471 I agree, it’s covid’s fault!
THIS!!! WHY SHE MOVE THIS MAN IN HER HOME!?! IT SCREAM DESPERATE BEHAVIOR and not doing the proper work to vet!
The thing is, she continually kept stating how something was nagging her, but she ignored those feelings. So her intuition was kicking in.
Ressa held herself accountable while telling her story. I don’t understand why people feel the need to go back and kick her down yet again for sharing a time in her life when she was desperate and hopeful for love. We all know if she looked different then people would have more sympathy for her..
That was just a calculated move by a manipulative player that thought she found someone to buy her material things. He didn’t hurt her he disappointed her. She needs to move on and leave that sick man alone.
@@Pretti_Lucky I said what I said. I see through the B.S. i am no trauma bonder. This is exactly why black women are the least married race. I feel sorry for our black men trying to find a good wife. She ripped this man to shreds and had women talking about his appearance, but has the audacity to get made about a big back comment. Smh
Admitting something to shame someone else isnt being accountable
Big back behavior is not limited to big girls. I'm slim, trim, and fine and I STILL suffered for 15years & 3 kids. He might have been talking specifically about RT, but trust, it's not just her & it's not based (solely)on her weight
Never let them see you sweat, NEVER!
NEVER NEVER!
I think the age timelines we have placed on ourselves also played a part. She felt like she was alone at 38 and just wanted someone. She also made it sound like she’s never had a man provide for her so the little things made her feel like she mattered and he was doing “so much” for her but he was doing the bare minimum. 😢
I'm here for the Chloe cliff notes because no way am I going to listen to 6 hrs worth of the online drama. Women of all ages, sizes, and races are being scammed if not careful because we are being vulnerable and unfortunately, giving our trust to the wrong, undeserving men. I hope this lady finds true love and happiness.
The man at the end of this video told no lies… there are layers to this thing!
Yes!! He wss so on point.
Reesa Teesa is just as crazy as Legion. This has nothing to do with looks. And I don't think she was desperate, I think she was just living happily sharing Legion's delusional reality until it all fell apart
I kind of agree!
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I strongly disagree! She admitted that Legion showed up in ways for her that no other man had before. If a man stands out on that level for ANY woman, they are going to be reluctant to leave.
@@icycici6191 another trauma bonder. She has a lot of you fooled. She has bad credit and unpaid student loans that she cracks jokes about repaying. Bad credit is a reflection of your character
@naturelover2292 As Chloe said: Cheap cliché shots being thrown 🙄
Let's see YOUR credit report.
Let's see YOUR investment portfolio.
Let's see the deeds to YOUR properties.
You pick me trolls keep giving men the upper hand.
I made hasty decisions way before the pandemic. What's my excuse? I can't blame anyone but myself. Loneliness or no loneliness, when you are impatient, skinny or with weight, you will play yourself. Patience is important.
Jess has her second baby on the way by a bum …. I mean that’s not back behavior to me 😂
Oh wow! Who is he?
I didn’t even know she had a first child
Yes!! He made sure to knock her up when it seems like she was moving up. How stupid of her! But wasn’t CthaG charge (hence lesser charge) for R’n his wife and another with the same name?
That was my issue. Body noticed Jess was being messy as well? On some true Baltimore ishhh. Ugh didn’t like her adding to the bullying
What Charlamagne said was distasteful. What took me by surprise watching the clip was Jess Hilarious. Damn Jess didn’t even try to stand up for her a woman!! Maybe I was hoping for too much. Happy she was able to get out of the situation and child free!!!
It’s just that, a clip. Jess did stand up for her later
But Jess is male identified.
Desperation comes in all shapes and sizes. Women have different reasons for being desperate which is sad, and shouldn’t be taken lightly.
I watched all 19hrs (lol) and imo we can hold space and have empathy for her and the hell she went through while also acknowledging she was desperate, she was shallow in her pursuit of things ie house, car, trips, etc and that type of mindset will always lead to running into vile harmful people. I'm not convinced the story is 100% true but the lessons are.
I agree! She was enticed by the material things.
People also forget (or aren't aware because they didn't watch it) that he was paying her bills throughout the relationship. He was lying w/not much gain for himself except being emotionally cruel
@Donna_Darko I think he was paying her bills and "investing" on the front end to better control and manipulate her. If right out the gate he didn't pay anything she wouldn't believe he had the funds for a home.
Plus she said her bills weren't much and he definitely upgraded his housing by covering her bills. I suspect he paid her rent because he had lost his studio and wasn't going to be able to get a place on his own (my speculation). I totally agree every move he made was with the intention of cruelty. I've met a man like that and it's honestly so scary to look back and reflect on how their actions always lead back to cruelty but in the moment you can't see it
Right!!! You never win when you play dirty
I have yet to vest any time into the 24 hour story. Cuz I'm healing thru my own story. But I pray for her Healing in this and hope she is compensated accordingly. Size has nothing to do with Low Self Esteem.We are our own Enemies
Right!!!! I was like... I got my own bs to deal with.... I'm not about to soak up anyone's trauma...... I ain't got it like that.... the best I can do is hope that she grows and learns from it
@@WeGoJaiye and yet here y'all are 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
This viral story proves that people love to hear others' pain AND share it. If it was positive content, it wouldn't go viral.
To be fair, she has a soothing voice and is a great storyteller. 52 parts in small doses means ppl can jump in and easily digest the story...
@@Shay416 speak for yourself
A woman of any size can be desperate.
What I enjoyed most about Reesa and the other ex-wife is that they owned up to their part in their own demise…idk why Auntie Charla felt like he needed to shame Reesa like that.
That’s his thing. Remember how he did Gabby?? He hates women. He isn’t called ‘lesser charge’ for a reason.
Some Men don't realize that plus size women don't have any issues getting or keeping men.
This was a self esteem issue.
Dating coach Tony gaskins mentioned her weight too...but he is another shallow man that doesn't understand other folks preferences.
I am a fit woman because i like the gym. But not everyone needs to look like me in order to be in a relationship
People are missing the point of this, Reesa Teesa was able to leave that man unscathed with nothing but a good story that she was able to profit off of, not many women with similar stories can say the same…:
To answer your question, yes, bigger women are perceived to be low-hanging fruit because our society and culture puts women of a certain smaller size on pedestals as the standard of femininity when that isn't the case. Femininity isn't determined by one's weight or size.
But, at the same time, a lot of women fall prey to the toxic belief that one's weight determines one's beauty or value. As a heavier set woman myself, I too, have fallen prey to the belief that because I'm not a size 0 I'm not worthy of love. I still wrestle with it from time to time, but I know my worth and my value and refuse to settle for any man who is less than what I deserve.
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This is the key right here! I’m well aware that many people perceive me as “low hanging fruit” because I don’t fit the conventional beauty standard. That only matters, however, if I accept it and allow it to determine my self-worth. I can’t control how people approach me, but I can control what I’m willing to entertain. When you see yourself as worthy of love, regardless of whatever negative messages people sell you, it’s much easier to make good choices for yourself.
That’s a good point, blame the man that we know is lying. Why is it more focus on her than him. She accepted accountability. We need to raise our standards as a collective that this it not acceptable and put the focus on him.
She knew he was lying tho if a person shows who they are and you ignore it be prepared to get what comes with that. Fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me
Because she didn’t do her due diligence. She was gullible with low self esteem and he preyed and played on that.
I couldnt listen to her story like I wanted to My mental health wasn’t there. But, besides femininity I believe we have to verify with god first and have a trusting relationship with ourselves to use our decrement. However it is a must to extend grace to our fellow sister. I’m glad she is out of that situation and she is beautiful.
What he said is VERY true! Ppl do not like to hear the truth, bcuz they are big as well. Men tend to target big women when they need help bcuz they are perceived as easier targets. Their self esteem seems to be much lower and the desperation is very real. Yes, Halle Berry was swindled as well, HOWEVER…A man like legion would NEVER target Halle Berry. He would stand no chance.
I appreciate her telling her story. I wish her nothing but peace and blessings!
I wish Jerome nothing but good things with his mental health. Her only problem is he lied and didn’t buy her a BMW and a big house.
Jess Hilarious had some nerve to be co-signing Charlemagne on this… didn’t she just get “baby trapped” by her gambling addict, long term, long distance, low commitment, casual boyfriend Chris?!
I can’t believe she went for a guy named Legion. Legion? Biblical.
Been looking for this comment. That should've been her FIRST red flag!
Wendy Williams Protégé! 😂😂Damn! You tore Charlamagne up with that one! 🤣
I’m disgusted by Charlemagne saying that but unfortunately not surprised. Insecurity, lack of proper vetting and desperation comes in all forms, shapes & sizes.The exterior doesn’t have much to do with it, it’s all in the mindset. We can’t control the actions of men but we can take precautions to protect and love ourselves to ward off men like this.
I don't feel like bigger women are low hanging fruit. But she did ignore red flags and most black women do like to rush in terms of keeping a man. Me included.
It’s definitely more common in the big back community.
I just hope Reesa gets a movie deal and profits off her pain
Lol, a lifetime movie! 🍿
Tyler Perry is on it as we speak lol
@@bellebeautesays who? It amazes me how some of you start rumors with no receipts. You take snippets of peoples moves and start your own version of it. Her story has been in movies far too many times. It’s nothing that I haven’t seen before.
He should get DONKEY OF THE DAY FOR THOSE BIG BACK COMMENTS!!!!
I appreciated her teaching us and telling her story. Anybody can be treated this way. I know I have, and I was only 117 pounds wearing a size 3 jeans in juniors as an adult. You can't see it coming when your heart is open for companionship.
Listen I was not gonna sit n watch this mess in 50 parts. As a matter of fact my interest level was not with this one because it seemed so familiar and typical. It’s too much.
It was atypical though; he was paying her bills throughout the entire relationship and unusually cruel seemingly w/no gain
Even Jess with her small back has been made a baby mama - unwifed. She's on baby number 2, still unwifed. She has had an ex steal from her. She has been thirsty enough to announce on SM, that she is single She naively got involved with a man while he was still married😂😂😂😂. This also happened to the small back women on Tinder Swindler. It can happen to any woman
He was being mean spirited and is victim blaming. We always blame women for not being careful enough instead of holding men accountable and it’s exhausting. Ladies please teach your sons accountability to avoid this nonsense.
I don’t see her as a victim, she let him move in two weeks after knowing him, he lied multiple times and even after he let her go through her DNC alone and then married him and she knew he lied multiple times and she knew he was but continued on. She was desperate for a man and got what came with that. He lied about stupid things he didn’t scam her out of money so no she’s not a victim just a fool
“ Hurt people, hurt people”😢been too busy to listen nor watch.
She’s not a victim. She was a WILLING participant. I love what someone commented on TT, “if he continued to pay for things, would she have stayed?! The answer is yes. None of this was about discipline or discernment. She would do it again. The interesting is part is she consistently acknowledged a VERY present support system from her family and friends. Charlamene said what a lot of people were definitely thinking however, it could’ve been anyone
He ain't say not one thing wrong. I'm tired of women coddling other womens ignorance.
@@TheBluntGirlysame here! Its sad that we have so many women that can be easily persuaded. Smh
Honestly, this can happen to any woman with low self-esteem, no discernment, and desperation. I watched the whole series, and she gaslit herself most of the way. Even when she knew something wasn't right, she still married him. He literally dragged her around Atlanta looking at houses and cars he knew he wasn't going to buy. Over 20 houses, to be exact! It just amazed me how hard she fought to stay in a less than ideal situation. But what baffles me is the fact that therapy has not been mentioned at all! For Legion, yes! But not for her. Fact is something was wrong with her before Legion came into the picture. I am curious to know how far she is willing to go to hold herself FULLY accountable. Ijs
As the saying goes, "Hurt people hurt people." For some, this is a villain origin story.
When you do not feel yourself as being valuable, you will fall for anything that you 'believe' is valuable, be it shopping to excess, loving to excess, ....etc wothout thinking of the detriment it may cause. I can admit; I've been there.
See this is why I’m subscribed here. You truly give the real deal but you are so respectful.
As somebody who was married to the type of man this lady was married to, its very difficult not to recount the story to others as its so shocking that some people can have such a high level of commitment to evil that they would even sacrifice their own wellbeing for it. I didnt go to the internet to speak on it, but it really is tough not to share with others because man, the shear oddity and oddacity....is both shocking and laudable at the same time.
When I heard Charlemagne say "Big Back"...my mouth literally dropped...now his comment has spiraled into a bigger mess igniting a feud between Jess Hilarious and TS Madison...and now somehow the LGBTQ+ community has gotten involved...Charlemagne has definitely always been mean spirited and if he does not renew his heart soon...we will also be watching his downfall as we are currently witnessing the downfall of Wendy...the power of life and death are in the tongue 💋
I dont think this a plus size issue however i do think alot of men expect big women to have low self esteem because most men dont like big women in America all his exes are big and also all of them were desperate or not mentally in the right space he targets a certain type of woman i think reeesa was just extremely desperate i mean from the beginning the signs were there especially after he the whole house hunting issue and moving him into her house within 2 weeks
Not a plus sized thing… a few years ago… my lil ass was getting my skinny ass whooped and taken advantage of. Car used… house stayed in… rent Not being payed…. All at 110 pounds .. used and abused lol
She gave Sheila driving up the mountain 🤣🤣🤣!
I know many women of all sizes that have been in similar and worse situations.
People will do or say anything to make themselves seem better than others. This includes trying to humiliate strangers who are trying to help other women through their own stories. Im sick of women being blamed for everyone elses behaviour. He LIED and deceived her. He intentionally confused her. That being said, we need to have strong boundaries and recognisation of our worth as women to avoid this kind of thing.
Edit: I think it's also important to note that he had also deceived his entire family before even meeting her. Is that their fault too?🙄 Completely agree with the dude at the end.
Lol at the Cliff Notes. I made it to like Part 5. I was bored and although it's sad, i wasnt entertained by her pain. I pretty much knew the ending.
I don't know why they still have that show. What happened to her could happen to any woman. Size has nothing to do with it.
Another great video. I live for your commentary. Thank you.
Chloe, I have been patiently waiting for your commentary on this debacle. Thank you
Thank you so much for your commentary ❤❤❤❤❤
Yeah low self esteem comes in all shapes and sizes and colors. I do think managing your weight is still an important step in the right direction though. It’s not the only thing that matters.. but it helps
Your delivery Is always A1 👏🏾
My take on this is there is no way she could have any self love or high self esteem to let a man jade her so many times and not cut him loose. There were too many red flags thrown at her about this man but she still stayed to the point of her getting pregnant by him and marrying him. Listening to her story was mentally draining.
Thank you for this Chloe
I missed you, I was so excited for your take.
Thank you Chloe for sharing this message and I hope other women [Reesa Teesa] get this knowledge! 💅🏽
Love your truth and genuine desire to educate, empower, and most of all encourage women!!!
For a girl almost 40 😢she didn’t know how buying a house 🏡 or what was needed she was very naive for her age …..
I think she knew! That's why she didnt share the details with the women in her circle....she knew she was being duped!
If there’s one thing I’ve learned from rocking with Chloe_ for years it’s that compassion is free and priceless. 💄
What does it cost us to virtually hug our sisters when we can see they’re hurting?
To empathize with our sisters?
To love our sisters, even when we CANNOT publicly support a poor choice they may have made on their journey?
What does it cost us to give each other grace and space to grown and learn from perceived failure in one area or another?
Dont we all deserve that?
Let’s stay on code Beauties, let’s attribute our sister’s “failure” to a lack of feminine education versus stooping so low as to name call? That’s beneath us, we don’t abuse, we encourage healing.
Now I know my sisters here in the HIVE already know this but for those who still might feel the need to criticize Ms. ReesaTeesa, let’s instead show compassion and encourage community so this doesn’t happen to her or any woman ever again. ❤
Stay gracious, best revenge is your paper (success 😉)
The fact that we KNOW what “big back behavior” is means it’s a real thing though. Plus she got with a big back man 🤷🏾♀️
Legion… lol you got it right Chloe! And thank you for getting us all together. Most women have been through some sort of experience like hers. We must wise up ladies. Practice self love. Some of these guys are real slick.. practice boundaries ladies.
I’ve gained 40 lbs and my dating life has changed! This is as mean as it sounds big back behavior
The ending… Slurped up😂
I be lit 🔥every time you post 😂
I couldn't wait to hear your insight...thank you Chloe
I don’t think her behavior has anything to do with her weight. It has everything has to do with being desperate. Trust me I desire a mate but not that bad to marry someone I know is deceiving me. Js
Shirley Strawberry is exactly like her and she doesn’t have a “ Big Back”
Great example
11:06 People on the internet forget, everyone is going to have a opinion, everyone includes, people from all walks of life. Huh 🤔 mean there are going to be multiple different opinion, don’t blame it on a physical appearance. It’s the mental that causes this result, I agree. ❤
Ms Chloe, bless you first of all for your wisdom but second for your saintly extension of grace to both women and know-nothing ninjas like Charlamagne. YOU may not dislike him but goodness knows I do 😷 he’s among the biggest distributors of dust with a platform, and bad takes times infinity
It was mean-spirited but nevertheless what many were silently thinking.
As they say 2 things can be true at the same time.
Charlamagne was mean as h3ll. Anybody can fall victim to love bombing especially with the societal pressure (and added pressure from the church cause she said she was religious ) to get married and have kids ("the clock"). She's clearly trying to heal, take accountability and move forward and with Charlamagne insulting her on NATIONAL radio.. that WILL NOT help. I feel like we as a society gotta really learn to have empathy. There's ways to say something without being an a$$hole.
Agreed 👏🏾
It just seems like thats the best she could do. Thats what "she believed" because she could do better but she didnt. No sympathy for this woman. He didnt hold a gun to her head, didnt force. Im quite sure she had free will. Hope she finds peace and happiness and dont go backwards.
I do agree women of all shapes,sizes, and colors get messed over and lied too. But can we be honest about statistical truths? In this era, women are judged by looks first! There are exceptions of course i.e.halle berrys, mary j bliges, etc. But the truth of the matter is Women that are fitter(slim or thick), more feminine, "prettier", dainty are more susceptible to being looked at as the pick of the litter. These women dont arent looked at as being the victims in relationships. Women with "big backs" are looked at as victims. This is what it is! Charlemagne was doing his job because the numbers dont lie. This is a feminine platform. I've been subscribed to Chloe for over 4 years now, And what is the first thing I received here? Ladies make room for your feminine, be confident, AND IF YOU NEED TO DROP A FEW POUNDS, THEN DROP THOSE FEW POUNDS. It is just the truth. When you look good, you feel good about yourselves and men know that. Yes, some men will still try the con but again those are exceptions not the rule!
Love the man at the end of the video. What CTG did was despicable
I did not watch it , not valuable for my level up journey.
Well marrying someone who calls himself legion was her first mistake 🙄 that was red flag🚩🚩 number one because he's telling her he's devilish ijs😈👿
That's just her nickname for him since the divorce. She calls him that intentionally after the man with the legion of demons in the Bible.
I’m not kicking her bc someone who’s gone through the same thing and feels less alone. Someone got confirmation to leave a relationship. It’s served as a warning to not ignore red flags