Trust: How to Give It, Earn It, and Knowing When to Withhold It | Over 50 & Flourishing

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  • Do you have trust issues? Have you been betrayed in the past and struggle with trusting again? Our guest today is an expert on the issue. Dr. Henry Cloud is a distinguished clinical psychologist and acclaimed New York Times bestselling author. Today, we are diving into the profound insights of his latest book, 'Trust: Knowing When to Give It, When to Withhold It, How to Earn It, and How to Fix It When It Gets Broken.
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  • @elizabethscott3048
    @elizabethscott3048 2 місяці тому +3

    Dr. Cloud is a gift.
    His insight, research, counseling, teaching, writing, speaking, ministry, and outreach removes misinformation & brings healing. Please have him on regularly, Dominique. Please review his other books & interview him. As a therapist, I point my clients to his resources every week.

  • @Dkb522
    @Dkb522 2 місяці тому +22

    I finally got divorced 7 years ago after my husband kept firing his own counselor and our marriage counselor. After many years of having issues I finally filed for divorce…he didn’t want to even recognize that he could be part of the problems. At the end of the day, I couldn’t trust him at all. I’m only half way through and this is such a great podcast, thanks Dominique!❤

  • @jannielea9762
    @jannielea9762 2 місяці тому +12

    I trust in God’s written Word. Proverbs 3:5 “ Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.”
    We are living in a much broken world! God is Sovereign in all things! Trust Him!

  • @suepussilano1069
    @suepussilano1069 2 місяці тому +9

    This was so informative. I listen to Dr. Cloud often. His approach to explaining anything and everything is done with such ease, patience and genuine concern. He’s the kind of person you can trust!
    Thanks Dominique for having him as your guest.

  • @patwilkinson2182
    @patwilkinson2182 2 місяці тому +14

    I agree! I could listen to Dr. Cloud all day. One of your best podcasts! ❤

  • @irsqpets
    @irsqpets 2 місяці тому +15

    This was one of your best pod cast.😊

  • @thereluctantretiree4372
    @thereluctantretiree4372 2 місяці тому +10

    What a great show today! Dr. Cloud is wonderful and I think, I to, could listen to him all day. Thanks for sharing this hour with us.

    • @AMDG_-nk2dp
      @AMDG_-nk2dp 2 місяці тому +1

      Just an FYI, I think it's Centreville VA. My brother lives there. It's such a beautiful area. As is Fairfax and Chantilly VA. 🌞

  • @heathergasol569
    @heathergasol569 2 місяці тому +5

    What a great show!!! I could listen to Dr. Cloud all day as well. Such an important topic. If you don’t have trust in a relationship you don’t have anything. Thank you both. 👏👏👏🙌🙌🙌💜

  • @rebeccafrye4332
    @rebeccafrye4332 2 місяці тому +8

    So glad you featured Dr. Cloud. I love his books, testimony, and podcasts.

  • @elizabethglenbentley7882
    @elizabethglenbentley7882 2 місяці тому +8

    What an extremely well developed, thought out answers to those legitimate issues. Just brilliant 👏

  • @sheralynskaar5710
    @sheralynskaar5710 2 місяці тому +2

    You knocked it out of the park with this interview! You knew what viewers wanted to know and asked Dr. Cloud on our behalf. Extremely well done!

  • @reej2023
    @reej2023 2 місяці тому +3

    I love Dr. Cloud, been listening watching him for 20 years. His book Boundaries has helped me.

  • @debraybarra5669
    @debraybarra5669 2 місяці тому

    Wow; I’ve never heard Trust described on such a human and non accusatory level. I can see my own life intertwined and it brings comfort knowing all sides. Thank you Dominique for sharing such a life impacting topic we don’t usually dissect in an impartial manner.

  • @peggyduncanbaggenstoss5380
    @peggyduncanbaggenstoss5380 2 місяці тому +11

    As a Behavioral Health Professional I love Dr. Cloud’s work… especially Boundaries.
    When working
    with “ troubled “ youth the staff had a saying to the patients,
    “trust is like your virginity, once lost it is never regained but can be restored”.

  • @rosaline8601
    @rosaline8601 2 місяці тому +5

    Best Podcast EVER!

  • @sheilatruesdale1536
    @sheilatruesdale1536 2 місяці тому +5

    Hi Dominque thank you for bringing Dr. Cloud on your podcast..He has helped me a lot. I have had relationships in the past that have hurt me a lot and now I find it hard to have a new man in my life. After hearing Dr. Cloud it has given me hope. xxxxx 😊

  • @barbj9785
    @barbj9785 2 місяці тому +7

    A much needed video to help us know when to "withdraw" our trust. Thank you, this is an important topic.

  • @marialalla492
    @marialalla492 2 місяці тому +4

    Thank you Dominque and Dr Cloud very informative and helpful. May God continue to bless you both.

  • @LR-dm8wp
    @LR-dm8wp 2 місяці тому

    YOU HAVE THE BEST GUESTS ! And you always ask questions that are so well thought out! You are such a BLESSING to us all !!!🎉KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK !

  • @andiirish4723
    @andiirish4723 2 місяці тому +4

    This hour was incredible!! I'm really thinking about some things differently & I'm "chewing" on others ! Thank you!!

  • @jmor8435
    @jmor8435 2 місяці тому +5

    Great Topic and Interview! Thank you! ❤

  • @carolewatkins1171
    @carolewatkins1171 2 місяці тому +3

    Wonderful video!!!
    I took so many notes,
    fuel for my personal journal writing.
    Thank you for caring about us.🌸

  • @hillaryroberts3623
    @hillaryroberts3623 2 місяці тому +2

    Having grown up around skeptical ppl, I spent decades trying to push against immediate assumptions but man in this current global climate of mistrustful discussions/arguments, on many important subjects, its hard to believe basic trust will re establish a stronger foothold in our daily lives. This discussion is so important.

  • @e.s.flower3801
    @e.s.flower3801 2 місяці тому +6

    Great talk ! Thank you ❤

  • @teresewilson2819
    @teresewilson2819 2 місяці тому +2

    Dr Cloud was awesome! One of the best podcast's you have done! Thank you and I hope you do have him back!!

  • @liana2136
    @liana2136 2 місяці тому +5

    Excellent topic and discussion! Thank you.

  • @christinenguyen2530
    @christinenguyen2530 2 місяці тому +2

    Excellent information. Thank you Dominique and Dr. Cloud.

  • @sunflowers6172
    @sunflowers6172 2 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for bringing this guest on your show

  • @Deder111
    @Deder111 2 місяці тому +5

    Thank you Domonique great info from Dr Cloud , God bless .

  • @kathywith_a_ka8886
    @kathywith_a_ka8886 2 місяці тому +5

    Fabulous show! Thank you!!

  • @lidiamarcogliese979
    @lidiamarcogliese979 2 місяці тому +6

    Excellent interview, not fluff.

  • @yolandasantanasantillan3177
    @yolandasantanasantillan3177 2 місяці тому +5

    Great interview! Thank you

  • @sueplatt8899
    @sueplatt8899 2 місяці тому +3

    A GREAT podcast!

  • @kimberlynlee1300
    @kimberlynlee1300 2 місяці тому +1

    Dominique and Dr. Cloud, thank you. Your video on "trust" was very informative and helpful. I am hopeful Dr. Cloud is a regular guest, how about once a week? Learning lessons like today are so important to the world we live in.

  • @janetgile6499
    @janetgile6499 2 місяці тому +5

    I enjoyed this podcast topic , much needed advice on how to navigate the future . Thank you.

  • @leoramessinger6795
    @leoramessinger6795 2 місяці тому +4

    Thank you Both! What a reasuring interview. The Trust consept brought so clear. Leora a wife, mom and a Social worker Israel.

  • @user-fq8hy3by8k
    @user-fq8hy3by8k 2 місяці тому +1

    Oh my gosh… this was your finest hour!! Thank you so very much. And my sincere thanks to Dr Cloud.

  • @lesliecomstock-day419
    @lesliecomstock-day419 2 місяці тому +4

    Awesome podcast!!!

  • @AMDG_-nk2dp
    @AMDG_-nk2dp 2 місяці тому +3

    Trust seems to be so complex, but is actually so fundamentally rudimentary of a basic instinct, but can be difficult to obtain in order to feel satisfied and our own desires and needs to be met. 🙂

  • @trinawitte8625
    @trinawitte8625 2 місяці тому +5

    ❤ Dr Cloud!!!

  • @janefoust2785
    @janefoust2785 2 місяці тому +2

    I listened, but be listening again. Thanks!

  • @joyceromer4856
    @joyceromer4856 2 місяці тому +4

    Congratulations Dominique with ur new job..what a blessing & upgrade..😊

  • @cynthiagheorghiu2459
    @cynthiagheorghiu2459 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for this interview. Dr. Cloud's books are so insightful.

  • @laurabarker2233
    @laurabarker2233 2 місяці тому

    GE Dominique - Hope this note finds you in good spirits. Thank you so much for having Dr. Cloud on your channel. I truly feel a lot better about myself after listening to him. Thank you again.

  • @galaxy_mosaic3587
    @galaxy_mosaic3587 2 місяці тому +2

    thank you for covering this topic. I might not finish it in a single sitting but this is a timely and profound topic to me. I guess I am lucky with the timing of the book. thank you again.

  • @jenniferortiz9553
    @jenniferortiz9553 2 місяці тому +4

    Good stuff Dom♥️ thank you

  • @PS-qn4oz
    @PS-qn4oz 2 місяці тому +1

    I really appreciate this interview, two lovely people giving us clarity about trust issues. Thank you very much.

  • @micheleborromeo7516
    @micheleborromeo7516 2 місяці тому +4

    Loved this!!! Thank you

  • @rhonda5608
    @rhonda5608 2 місяці тому

    This was a wonderful episode Dominique! Thank you for having Dr. Cloud as a guest on your podcast!

  • @lilianamercedes8408
    @lilianamercedes8408 2 місяці тому

    Probably one of the most important and impactful videos you have put forward for us.. thank you very much for bringing this topic to the platform

  • @brendahogue1225
    @brendahogue1225 2 місяці тому

    Wonderful interview with Dr. Cloud! Enjoyed it very much!

  • @ladyesther
    @ladyesther 2 місяці тому +2

    This was interesting. I can definitely use some trust help. I might get the audio book.

  • @evedutton3583
    @evedutton3583 2 місяці тому

    What an amazing man, he is so informative and he hit so many buttons and made me think, "oh yes that's so right." Please bring Dr Cloud back soon Dominique. I think he is one of the best people you have interviewed, thank you. I'm going to buy his book. Great podcast, have a good week Dominique.

  • @user-fx3kl7dv7q
    @user-fx3kl7dv7q 2 місяці тому

    Really enjoyed the numerous real life examples that helped better explain what the dr was trying to get across. Enjoyed this very much.

  • @julhovorak
    @julhovorak 2 місяці тому +1

    Great interview. Very informative, I will let this info percolate and then listen again. Thank you both 👏

  • @carolehellmann1068
    @carolehellmann1068 2 місяці тому

    CONGRATULATIONS on your first show today, you are such a pro, I really enjoyed watching you all, great topics!

  • @CJ-tf5yd
    @CJ-tf5yd 2 місяці тому +3

    I used to listen to him on New Life Live with Steve Arterburn. Thanks to you both!

  • @judytherrien4394
    @judytherrien4394 Місяць тому

    This is so powerful love his sense of humor

  • @theatester8092
    @theatester8092 2 місяці тому

    This is perfectly timed for me as I'm going through some tough times about something that happened years ago in my life and I'm only just discovering the truth about it now. My trust had been completely shattered, both with those around me but also in myself. I'm trying to understand everything, the situation, the circumstances and how/ why it all happened. I want to learn how to tell the truth from fiction, how to trust my own judgement, and to tell if those who have hurt me are being honest. I now know to look for them owning their actions, and what I need to look for to see if mistakes were made or if it was selfishness and disregard for my needs.
    I've ordered the book, because I can tell there's more I need to learn, but this has already been very informative. Thank you. ❤

  • @linasassi9694
    @linasassi9694 2 місяці тому

    Loved this … so insightful, I have 2 friends that totally need this , can’t wait to share this with them!!!

  • @tinaallen8846
    @tinaallen8846 2 місяці тому

    Phenomenal Dr Cloud!! I am thrilled you are local to me in LA.
    God Bless You Both!!

  • @elizabethengland3197
    @elizabethengland3197 2 місяці тому

    the very best, most valuable and most insightful interview I have ever experienced on your channel. thank you.

  • @kayburris8464
    @kayburris8464 2 місяці тому +1

    Great podcast.. thank you both.

  • @marcyfalconer1275
    @marcyfalconer1275 2 місяці тому +1

    Interesting conversation. Thank you

  • @olgazuniga3091
    @olgazuniga3091 2 місяці тому

    Enjoyed this week's podcast. A topic we can all relate to.

  • @kristapreston6153
    @kristapreston6153 2 місяці тому

    Very thought provoking and has given me a great deal of information while I struggle with some difficult life situations. Thank you.

  • @jane63
    @jane63 2 місяці тому

    Wow! This was such a timely, relevant podcast for me to watch. Lots of great useful information!

  • @SheliaHarvey-qr7zn
    @SheliaHarvey-qr7zn 2 місяці тому

    Love this type of a podcast!

  • @gailwentzky8944
    @gailwentzky8944 2 місяці тому

    I haven't had a chance to watch this video yet -- but I will. Just wanted to jump on and tell you how great Merit Street Morning was today. I was determined to watch your first show and I was so proud of you. I could just imagine how happy Audrey would have been. Great job and I am so excited to hear an unbiased news program tonight. Go Merit Street & go Dominique!

  • @oanabrown2490
    @oanabrown2490 2 місяці тому +1

    Wow that was so good. Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @sussannekeith5676
    @sussannekeith5676 2 місяці тому

    Loved this Podcast… I have many of Dr. Cloud’s books …. awesome interview Dominique ❤🤗

  • @carlabinnix8802
    @carlabinnix8802 2 місяці тому

    Loved this one! Thank you for sharing this with us! God is so good. Love your hair style too!

  • @jeannettefeliciano4047
    @jeannettefeliciano4047 2 місяці тому

    Thanks for this, it was awesome. So informative.

  • @sharonbrinders1224
    @sharonbrinders1224 2 місяці тому

    Great interview thank you both. God bless 🙌

  • @dawnbrock7137
    @dawnbrock7137 2 місяці тому

    Awesome interview!

  • @margaret-ellenadams5536
    @margaret-ellenadams5536 2 місяці тому +2

    Good to see you!

  • @sandragarwood1948
    @sandragarwood1948 2 місяці тому

    Great info!!

  • @linneasimchah1621
    @linneasimchah1621 2 місяці тому +2

    TRUST is one of my all-time favorite books! And lately Dr. Ramani (youtube) is the queen of deciphering the narcissism gradient. She is exceedingly insightful and helpful. Preserving my sanity for sure.

  • @Annie-qu9ik
    @Annie-qu9ik 2 місяці тому +1

    Henry Cloud id a very easy person to talk to hope to get his book perhaps at the library? But I have had many trust issues for good reason due to past experiences and it is very hard to judge a person when we first meet them often we can be too trusting too soon and that takes us back again to trusting etc It gets to be like a gamble knowing the right thing to do to stay safe etc.

  • @danalawrencelohn
    @danalawrencelohn 2 місяці тому +1

    Great one. Is tomorrow the big day for Merit Street? I want to watch!!!

  • @jessg5286
    @jessg5286 2 місяці тому

    Great podcast

  • @jamiepatton9334
    @jamiepatton9334 2 місяці тому

    They are allowing you to use the studio to film your podcasts? Wow! Thats support for your podcast for sure ❤🎉

  • @carolablue5293
    @carolablue5293 2 місяці тому +2

    Trust is the firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability, or strength of someone or something and not to be given lightly.

  • @kimt8162
    @kimt8162 2 місяці тому

    So helpful. My daughter had a class with a professor and he keeps bringing up OTHER topics. He claims he's being more personable but in each situation she ends up in a "confrontation/or negativity". When I heard all this, we need to stay out of his class. It's actually when you add it up: derogatory towards women. With one comment you don't notice but as it continues: it starts to paint a picture. He wanted more validation from her than she was giving him. I finally said, he needs to teach, not try to be your friend. She ended up feeling so bad she pulled out and he gave her an F. She now has to retake the class. the first sign of one of these: he'll take an action of yours/or something you say: and reiterate it back to you in a totally different way than what you did or said. It was a music class, it should have just been about music.

  • @jennylane2498
    @jennylane2498 2 місяці тому

    I get it! I have been being stalked for 5 years and I no longer want to date or trust

  • @Andiamo825
    @Andiamo825 2 місяці тому +1

    PREACH

  • @dianeanderson607
    @dianeanderson607 2 місяці тому +1

    It is exhausting, with knowledge comes change but made me very skeptical of everyone motives. 😥

  • @bredaodwyer2150
    @bredaodwyer2150 2 місяці тому +1

    Henry vv noble guy
    Mee lovv him

  • @Charlie-of4jb
    @Charlie-of4jb 2 місяці тому +2

    Love this episode, but narcissism is not fixable….

  • @deniseneppl3655
    @deniseneppl3655 2 місяці тому

    Love him he’s so calming and seems like a gentle caring Dr . Great podcast Dominque !!!!! Thank you for always sharing great guests ! Love you Ms . D🩵🪻🩷🩵🪻🩵all the best on merit street

  • @judytherrien4394
    @judytherrien4394 Місяць тому

    Isn't there a saying people who say I trust no one cannot be trusted themselves

  • @bilabong1946
    @bilabong1946 Місяць тому

    The cross scares me. I’m a vampire. But I love the smell of …

  • @jacquelines7071
    @jacquelines7071 2 місяці тому

    Oh wow never thought of that way just thougt you need comfort food diaper warmth

  • @barbarafranklin3441
    @barbarafranklin3441 2 місяці тому

    As far as Lume, many of us bought it when it smelled bad and they never even offered it to us again at a good discount. Not buying again, sorry

  • @AMDG_-nk2dp
    @AMDG_-nk2dp 2 місяці тому +1

    I noticed that this interview repeated itself a few times during the duration. Not sure what happened. It definitely wasn't a glitch in the recording. It was this doctor sometimes repeating himself in the same thing he said earlier. 🤔

  • @sarahmarti141
    @sarahmarti141 2 місяці тому +2

    It’s weird to see you reading a script. Can’t you get a Teleprompter?

  • @Jenny-dh9lq
    @Jenny-dh9lq 2 місяці тому +1

    Dominique, the filter you are using looks like you are using AI. Its a bit too much. You don't even need it. The podcast on the other hand is very good.

  • @lindagates9426
    @lindagates9426 2 місяці тому +1

    I Love you and your channel, but absolutely despise and do not care about the commercials. For me, they are such a turn off & are so so distracting from your content.
    I come here to listen to you and your guests not to be sold anything.

  • @user-ck9ng8tp4l
    @user-ck9ng8tp4l 2 місяці тому +1

    Narcissistic people do not change. You have some boring people on these podcasts. Obsession with Therapists in USA

    • @user-ho4vq9ki2v
      @user-ho4vq9ki2v 2 місяці тому

      Dr. Cloud is right. People have to want to change, and recognize they need to. That’s what makes it challenging, but not impossible.

  • @odettebechard1808
    @odettebechard1808 2 місяці тому +3

    Are you going to tell us to trust the Government ?

    • @susan8471
      @susan8471 2 місяці тому +4

      YEA, NOT GOING TO HAPPEN.

    • @rayleneveloz296
      @rayleneveloz296 2 місяці тому +2

      I didn't hear anything on that?