When people say mean things to or about you, it’s not about you. It’s almost always about them and their insecurities. Sometimes we want to take things a little personally, because it means that we’re important. But truth be told, people are mostly thinking about themselves. And they don’t care about us as much as we’d like to think they do. For me, this was the best realization. People don’t remember what you wore or said nearly as much as you think about it. Let’s stop obsessing and taking ourselves so seriously.
2021 taught me to self invest in myself. Take risks and not be afraid. Didn't have no New Year Resoultions for 2021. It was the Year of self love for me overall. Continued therapy, started my podcast in April of 2021 called "Simply Nickie Podcast" on all podcasting platforms. It has skyrocketed ever since. That has been the highlight of my 2021. My 2022 main focus is being more intentional with my life. Not accepting the bare minimum no more. If it's not 50/50 reciprocal then I don't want it . Just get tired of always giving a 100 and getting less in return. Cause you can always tell if someone actually care about you based off their actions and not just their words. We just chose to ignore the signs because we want to believe they are good people. No there are too many red flags there we just have to stop and see it for what it is or we'll always be disappointed because we expect an "US" from "Them" and that's just not possible.
@@kubriela Tysm but any more tips? I feel demotivated and sick since a week already passed, I dont have my own room and my brother is literally crying in the bg its giving me a headache
When people say mean things to or about you, it’s not about you. It’s almost always about them and their insecurities. Sometimes we want to take things a little personally, because it means that we’re important. But truth be told, people are mostly thinking about themselves. And they don’t care about us as much as we’d like to think they do. For me, this was the best realization. People don’t remember what you wore or said nearly as much as you think about it. Let’s stop obsessing and taking ourselves so seriously.
Agree, thanks for this comment! 🌟
I love love this video! I watch and implemented it every Sundays to reset and get ready for a new week
ahh so happy for you Thuli,happy Sunday!!🌞
I love this video! I watched this before 2022, and it helped a lot and it is making me become a better person here is 2022!
yay!!
I really loved this vid! Hope we y'all have a great year of 2022!!! 💜
happy 2022 dear!!
Same!!!!! Wish you a happy new year.
Just what I needed 😌
Thank you so much, I love how you divide the categories🥰❤
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love this video, cant wait for 2022!!!
yayy me too!!
I really loved this video. Thank you for the work you’ve put in 😊🧡
you're quite welcome🌤
Omg! Great video! Keep going! Realy very helpfull 💋❤️you are great 🦋😍
thank you Lea!!
thank you for this inspiring video. :)
you're welcome!!
This is a great video. Great tips!
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Hi!
I cant believe how underrated you are! This video is just amazing!! Thank you so much, I hope you get famous soon!
aww thank you dear, glad you liked!
@@kubriela Wish you all the best.
Loved the video🤎
thank you!!
This is so helpful! Thank you so much🤗
you're welcome!!
very helpful! thank you😁❤
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I looooved it. Very inspiring and aesthetic 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💓💓💓
2021 taught me to self invest in myself. Take risks and not be afraid.
Didn't have no New Year Resoultions for 2021.
It was the Year of self love for me overall. Continued therapy, started my podcast in April of 2021 called "Simply Nickie Podcast" on all podcasting platforms. It has skyrocketed ever since. That has been the highlight of my 2021.
My 2022 main focus is being more intentional with my life. Not accepting the bare minimum no more. If it's not 50/50 reciprocal then I don't want it . Just get tired of always giving a 100 and getting less in return. Cause you can always tell if someone actually care about you based off their actions and not just their words. We just chose to ignore the signs because we want to believe they are good people. No there are too many red flags there we just have to stop and see it for what it is or we'll always be disappointed because we expect an "US" from "Them" and that's just not possible.
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I am really late but let's hope i reset before January 14
it's never too late to start fresh!✨
@@kubriela Tysm but any more tips? I feel demotivated and sick since a week already passed, I dont have my own room and my brother is literally crying in the bg its giving me a headache
Rooting on you, sis! Keep posting!!!
thanks a lot for your support❤️
this really healpful ! thank youuu
yayy so happy you liked it,let's crush 2022!!
"Ekonomi Fikrini" görünce Türkçe yorum var mı diye baktım ben de: Varmış:) İkincisi de benden olsun. Sevgiler 💞
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I loooooooved your video. It’s really inspiring and aesthetic 💓💓💓
thank you so much!!
cool video! thanks for sharing :)
you and your channel definitely have big things ahead! such an amazing video! :)
ah thank you Cassandra❤️
Thank you so much 😊
Great, simple and useful video!
you're welcome,Arnyka!
Ben de diyorum ki bu kız Türk mü Instagram sayfanı görünce anladım 😂😂😂😂😂😂
evet türküm:)
wow u eating grechka)))
I love love this video! I watch and implemented it every Sundays to reset and get ready for a new week