Pickmeisha Recovery Bootcamp: how to stop wanting to be picked.

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 24 сер 2024

КОМЕНТАРІ • 21

  • @tullemoon
    @tullemoon Місяць тому +3

    The first time I was rejected was in middle school at age 11. it was brutal and I internalized way more than I even realized-that was the canon event to my pickmeisha arc. It wasn’t until last year when I discovered Manifestelle that my brain was totally rewired. I broke up with my below bare minimum low effort ex, got into therapy, met a good man who gives me princess treatment, and I’m moving different with this new mindset! 🩷 my life literally has 2 parts : before manifestelle & after manifestelle ✨

    • @sheilaajjie
      @sheilaajjie  Місяць тому +1

      Omg I love this for youuuu!!!! And yeah you don’t realize how much you internalized something until you think about how you’ve been acting since the incident happened. I’ll definitely check Manifestelle out. For me it was a lot of therapy and self-help books 🩷🩷

  • @ivy_smiles
    @ivy_smiles Місяць тому +7

    Yoo…. The trauma I had from boys in school 💀🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @sheilaajjie
      @sheilaajjie  Місяць тому

      Same 😭 but look at you now!

  • @MerlyneAkwir
    @MerlyneAkwir 25 днів тому +1

    The only person who needs to pick you, choose you, love you is YOURSELF. The way you made people feel is what we will outlive us, character over reputation, all day any day 🩷🩷. My favourite part of all your videos is the, "Okay, bye 🥹🥹".

    • @sheilaajjie
      @sheilaajjie  19 днів тому

      Thank you so much for watching!!! 💕💕

  • @nayaclerva9891
    @nayaclerva9891 Місяць тому

    Thank you so much for this guidance. 🙏🏽🙏🏽 Have definitely been struggling with this lately; it's powerful to be reminded that I don't have to choose this victim mentality, especially from a fellow Black woman. 💗💗 Thank you.

    • @sheilaajjie
      @sheilaajjie  Місяць тому +1

      Awwww I’m so glad this video resonated with you!!! And yesss as black women we need this reminder even more because somehow we have been conditioned to think we’re not the ones that get picked 🩷

  • @raevision8060
    @raevision8060 Місяць тому +1

    You look so beautiful with the flowers behind you ❤

    • @sheilaajjie
      @sheilaajjie  Місяць тому

      Thank you so much!! 🥰🥰🥰

  • @shineyvibess
    @shineyvibess Місяць тому +1

    that was so fun to watch and also i need to here this every now and then haha

    • @sheilaajjie
      @sheilaajjie  Місяць тому

      Thank you for watching 🩷🩷🩷🩷

  • @SherleensAlchemy
    @SherleensAlchemy Місяць тому +2

    The accent !!! Had to subscribe ❤️😭

  • @nternetrat
    @nternetrat Місяць тому +1

    11/10 visuals.
    11. /10.

    • @sheilaajjie
      @sheilaajjie  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you so much 🥹🩷 and thank you for watching!!

    • @nternetrat
      @nternetrat Місяць тому

      @@sheilaajjie big love !!

  • @The_socialinsider
    @The_socialinsider Місяць тому

    First😜

    • @sheilaajjie
      @sheilaajjie  Місяць тому

      You’re the best 😭😭😭

  • @shila98-nr
    @shila98-nr Місяць тому

    ❤❤❤