“Someone despises me. That’s their problem.” | How to Build Stoic Fortitude

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  • @Einzelgänger
    @Einzelgänger  3 роки тому +50

    Check out Einzelgänger's book 'Stoicism for Inner Peace' here: einzelganger.co/innerpeace

    • @zakzack2222
      @zakzack2222 2 роки тому +1

      I just bought the book, I'll be starting to read it from today. My wife is also excited about it.

    • @starseed45
      @starseed45 Рік тому +1

      Reading this book now and loving it 💖

  • @diclonius7
    @diclonius7 Рік тому +91

    As someone born with Autism growing up bullied and abused by all around me, I find Stoicism fascinating in how it deals with suffering and external things holding control over you. I always felt trapped by how others saw, treated and ostracized me and felt I had no future.

    • @nsmilitia
      @nsmilitia Рік тому +4

      Isn’t it weird that we can control how critical we think of others and turn it off at any moment but when it comes to self critical thoughts it’s very difficult to control?

    • @Mannsy83
      @Mannsy83 Рік тому +2

      ​@@nsmilitia absolutely..we are our own worst enemies..I used to need approval so badly until I realised I only need my own approval

    • @Sparta1993
      @Sparta1993 Рік тому

      You need to lift weights. Stop letting whatever your mom and some dumb ass doctor told you.

    • @Solomon-il7yc
      @Solomon-il7yc Рік тому +1

      Man this resonated with me hard

  • @jenna2431
    @jenna2431 4 роки тому +489

    Best retort to anyone who says something stupid to you: "You could be right." There IS no answer to that and the person usually just starts to sputter. In any case, if you concede that they "could" be right, then it can't touch you. It's a friggin' force-field.

    • @SC-gw8np
      @SC-gw8np 4 роки тому +16

      Jenna Caruthers I’m saving this tip. 😅

    • @balto8111
      @balto8111 4 роки тому +68

      I did that not so long ago (I even said "Yeah, you're right"), the guy still came round hitting me with insulting insinuations three more times. Some people just have an endless drive of envy and spite.

    • @gabrielgogan2979
      @gabrielgogan2979 4 роки тому +44

      You could be right

    • @mikepierce2824
      @mikepierce2824 4 роки тому +3

      I friggin love this !

    • @catalyst3713
      @catalyst3713 4 роки тому +52

      This is great if you wish to keep the engagement short. But if you have the time and the person in question is willing, I think it's best to start a Socratic dialogue, starting with the question, "What makes you think that?" This fosters introspection, and may not only help them re-evaluate their "stupid" way of thinking, but help correct errors in your thinking as well. After all, you've already admitted that they "could be right."

  • @DeyvsonMoutinhoCaliman
    @DeyvsonMoutinhoCaliman 4 роки тому +85

    My favorite quote from Marcus Aurelius: "Is it endurable? So endure it!".

  • @Internatica
    @Internatica 4 роки тому +102

    “Evil only comes hard upon those who have lived without giving it a thought and whose attention has been exclusively directed to happiness.” -Seneca

  • @slasaus1
    @slasaus1 4 роки тому +73

    You got to face ur anxieties, dont fight, freeze or flee from it. "You will never do anything in this world without courage, it is the greatest quality of the mind next to honor." Aristotle

    • @bryanbarrera1561
      @bryanbarrera1561 4 роки тому

      So I asked a girl out and she said she don’t wanna go out cause of corona, now I’m kinda sad cause who knows when corona gonna end, I still wanna talk to her but I don’t know what to text her? What should I do? Just wait till corona is over or text her but I’m scared she won’t reply or the text is boring

    • @katherineg9396
      @katherineg9396 3 роки тому

      @@bryanbarrera1561 text her about non-stressful things or things you have in common; no pressure. Corona is a legitimate concern. If she doesn't respond it may be because of what's going on in her life or where she is in her life and nothing to do with you. This is a good chance to practice some stoic principles. Good luck to you!

  • @yana_desu
    @yana_desu 2 роки тому +18

    Being alone is actually more fun than being in a crowd making you feel lonely. I've been suffering from people outcasting me because of my interest so I just immerses myself with hobbies and studying. I expect less from people and only have few close friends.

  • @nayborwill3453
    @nayborwill3453 4 роки тому +14

    As the Buddhist says "NOTHING LAST FOREVER. We have to manage our expectations. The less we crave the less we suffer. In this way we awaken the right understanding, thought, speech, action, livelihood, effort, mindfulness, and focus". Thank u Einzelganger u are appreciated. I will continue to soak up this precious game (uncommon info).

  • @HostileLemons
    @HostileLemons 4 роки тому +1059

    As someone with social anxiety the stoic Philosophy is my cure.

    • @philosophycoaching8002
      @philosophycoaching8002 4 роки тому +3

      Why

    • @abdallahnajjar9525
      @abdallahnajjar9525 4 роки тому +33

      Ethan Anderson why not?

    • @doomdayish
      @doomdayish 4 роки тому +46

      It seems everyone in the world suffers from social anxiety...😒

    • @rynoid1318
      @rynoid1318 4 роки тому +27

      Ethan Anderson through the stoic philosophy and ways he is able to implement the rudiments of stoicism into his own life, allowing him to overcome his social anxiety

    • @ivonator123
      @ivonator123 4 роки тому +55

      "Stoicism, understood properly, is a cure for a disease. The disease in question is the anxiety, grief, fear, and various other negative emotions that plague humans and prevent them from experiencing a joyful existence." William B. Irvine

  • @RoninZulu
    @RoninZulu 4 роки тому +32

    If there ever was a way to create the perfect human being, free from self-sabotage, Stoicism is it. Thanks for another great commentary.

  • @emm8114
    @emm8114 4 роки тому +20

    You are quite skilled at turning heavy philosophy into tiny, meaningful chunks. Thank you for doing so!!

  • @cee8226
    @cee8226 4 роки тому +40

    *700 books and none of it survives.*
    _No cheatcodes. Enjoy the game of life._
    -_The Universe_

  • @7aluv4me
    @7aluv4me 4 роки тому +3

    Im very grateful for these videos!

  • @alphamoonman
    @alphamoonman 4 роки тому +4

    This video answers a lot of my inner demons. I will reflect on this video every chance I get.

  • @geonite2072
    @geonite2072 4 роки тому +2

    In order to bring someone down you must first be beneath them.💪⚡🌋

  • @GustavoSilva-ny8jc
    @GustavoSilva-ny8jc 2 роки тому +7

    Your videos are a blessing, thank you for literally saving me from losing my mind. You're just as important as the books are for me in my quest for self control and inner peace. Your channel is one of the best gifts the internet gave me.

  • @josephdeleon3716
    @josephdeleon3716 4 роки тому +4

    I just started listening to stoic philosophy and videos in the last month. It has really relaxed me, and made me think a lot different than I used too. I'm going to practice this mindset everyday and try to be the best I can be. Thank you for this inspiring video keep up the good work.

  • @KBonilla
    @KBonilla 4 роки тому +2

    Ignore anything that doesn’t serve you

  • @annabellacrewe8858
    @annabellacrewe8858 4 роки тому +2

    Listened to Your excellent lecture some time ago. Just this evening I realise how well put it is according to my own adversities/believed adversities. From my heart: Thank You for Your help ❤

  • @kekero540
    @kekero540 4 роки тому +2

    It is strange how being autistic has let me discover these lessons at a much younger age. I am a naturally defiant person so when my mom said not to do something I always asked why I could not understand why I should care about what random strangers thought about me. maybe it's more something taught generationally maybe all children were like me and I just resisted the culture. I was a pretty defiant kid either way tough getting a medical diagnosis for being defiant even. I'm actually quite proud of it.

  • @sayoni_m
    @sayoni_m 4 роки тому +4

    I find that Stoic philosophy shares some of its tenets with Absurdism. So grateful for your content!

  • @nisargsukhadeve7800
    @nisargsukhadeve7800 4 роки тому +5

    I loved this type of approach. Compilation of various philosophers with the wrap up is very helping. Just a small suggestion that you should explore more philosophers like Cicero, Socrates, Plato, Diogenes, aristotle. I know they're well known but their thoughts are worth exploring. I loved knowing about chrysippus. Great video.
    Recently finished unoffendable and it helped change my perspective. Always loved your references to guys like David Goggins and Jordan Peterson.

    • @christiantaylor1495
      @christiantaylor1495 4 роки тому

      This is a stoicism channel, so he references stoic philosophers.

  • @nabilaalbab
    @nabilaalbab 4 роки тому +3

    Dear Einzelganger, It’s being a long time I’ve been a soulful fan of your contents! Its being a constant treat to remind your conscious-self, your inner soul! Thanks a lot, Einzel! Be blessed!

  • @strengthwithpurpose6147
    @strengthwithpurpose6147 4 роки тому +4

    Your content is amazing! I love listening to your videos while working out. I just got Meditations in the mail and am excited to read it! :)

  • @CorinneA3
    @CorinneA3 4 роки тому

    I could listen to your voice all day.

  • @chuckysmom4142
    @chuckysmom4142 4 роки тому +2

    Yes, let your virtue guide your decisions.

  • @weltschmertzz
    @weltschmertzz 4 роки тому +1

    I spend about 80% of the time in a room by myself because when people are rude and abuse me, I go quiet and just accept it (conditioned by my parents to take negative treatment without a fight because then they'd hit me. Been trying to get over it but failing consistently). I eventually punish myself for not doing anything to defend myself even if it's not my fault.

    • @tinas2857
      @tinas2857 3 роки тому

      @bugerpatty. Other people who are rude towards you, and are abusive towards you, are projecting the hatred of themselves, onto you. Defending yourself can be done by not reacting to the others abuse towards you, but also involves learning to speak up/act in response to their ill behaviour; it’s a balancing act, for sure.
      What I’ve discovered for myself is that there is a ‘gap’ between stimulus and response. So, when someone is rude/abusive, etc, towards you, the initial physiological feeling is the stimulus. Learn to pause, then respond. It takes practice. You’ll get there. It’s constant learning.

  • @noteimporta2880
    @noteimporta2880 4 роки тому +1

    the last sentence in the video is how i live my life, not bragging about things that don't matter... not desiring those things, not trying to look like something other than what and who i am. Not trying to act a certain way to portray a masculine male in front of women, women see who is the man by how they are not what they have, on the other hand immature girls look for wealth and material on a man. Never try to be who you aren't, instead follow your passions and make a career out of it and women will come your way, friends will come your way, be a good person and save your money forget about looking rich. You'll get rich by trying to.. not looking like it, you'll just go poor that way. Care only for things that are real and living, things that have a soul and emotions and energy.
    Care for people, animals, plants, planets, galaxies, the universe. Watch all those things care for you in return.

  • @mesunekonyan
    @mesunekonyan 4 роки тому +8

    I always say to others that how other people see me in any negative way is no longer my problem. Lol. I have a coworker said to me "fix ur hair, u look crazy." and i said "well, thats not my problem." where deep inside i dont really have the energy to do so because i was going through something.

    • @mesunekonyan
      @mesunekonyan 3 роки тому

      @bruce banner easy for u to say.

  • @stephenhubbard739
    @stephenhubbard739 Рік тому

    " a healthy contempt for things out of our control " well said sir!

  • @stardust-rebel
    @stardust-rebel 4 роки тому +3

    More good stuff. Your interpretations deliver a view into quiet clarity 🧠

  • @truthabouttheworld3186
    @truthabouttheworld3186 4 роки тому +2

    Excellent.

  • @robertb.seddon1687
    @robertb.seddon1687 4 роки тому +1

    Very timely contemplation...now to have it infiltrate the consciences of my fellow citizens and return to work ...fearlessly, stoically, and with perseverance!😎🤙

  • @sauravnanda8725
    @sauravnanda8725 4 роки тому

    Listening to you give me chills and I don't care

  • @luisterrust
    @luisterrust 4 роки тому +6

    A winners mindset is everything. Lots of love to the people who can relate ❤️

  • @TheGoddon
    @TheGoddon 4 роки тому

    Dude how I don't know how these recommendations work but it feels like the arrived at the right time.

  • @nikolaarandjelovic1930
    @nikolaarandjelovic1930 Рік тому

    Other people’s opinions and outlooks are theirs alone. You craft your reality through your reaction to life and outlook upon the universe

  • @octopusfly
    @octopusfly 4 роки тому +2

    This is one of your best ones!
    Bravo!

  • @reshumanglik7707
    @reshumanglik7707 4 роки тому

    Einzelganger, you changed my life

  • @fisher3123
    @fisher3123 4 роки тому +3

    Amazing insight and laid out amazing for the average person, thank you.

  • @iSuretha
    @iSuretha 4 роки тому +1

    Amazing. I needed to hear all of this. Going to delve into stoicism

  • @mansi7784
    @mansi7784 4 роки тому +4

    Your channel is amazing and it's helping me so much 🙌❤

  • @30ra
    @30ra 4 роки тому

    Thanks for all the great videos!

  • @wowwowwow185
    @wowwowwow185 4 роки тому +3

    Love the stoics

  • @waelfaraj6705
    @waelfaraj6705 4 роки тому +19

    God protect and guide us to goodness and love forever ...

    • @afreen5058
      @afreen5058 6 місяців тому

      There is no goodness and love forever lol

    • @waelfaraj6705
      @waelfaraj6705 6 місяців тому

      With God and infinite consciousness , everything is possible ...

  • @mr.carlson8739
    @mr.carlson8739 4 роки тому +2

    Excellent

  • @benjaminchance3311
    @benjaminchance3311 4 роки тому +2

    always expect the worst, because when things are better than the worst, they will exceed your expectations. always expect plagues and disasters and murder hornets, and nothing can really be as bad as you expect it to be.

  • @NelsonMandela961
    @NelsonMandela961 4 роки тому +11

    How is it possible to respond with indifference when we see evil being perpetrated on our fellow humans? I find this to be upmost challenging.

    • @christiantaylor1495
      @christiantaylor1495 4 роки тому

      You should take action and be aggressive, but internally be tranquil, or at least always able to become tranquil at will at the appropriate time.
      For example, a stoic UFC fighter should feel very aggressive while fighting, but - win or lose - should become calm after a fight.
      Marcus Aurelius was at war for 10 years fighting off invading foreign Germanic tribes, so he wasn't idle.
      Stoicism teaches you to try fulfill your duties, and it teaches you the mental techniques to be better at doing that. Part of that is conditioning you to not be demotivated when you "fail" because externals aren't really under your control, but it still says you should try.

  • @ryokaelr6697
    @ryokaelr6697 2 роки тому +6

    “Someone despises me. That’s their problem.”
    I have a problem with overly apologizing with conflicts and encounters to an unnecessary amount. Over apologizing made me feel like I don't deserve to be anywhere, and I shouldn't even exist. Thank you @Einzelgänger for teaching me how to stand up for myself. I hope to achieve moderation someday. For now, I am progressing =)

    • @amethystsc1056
      @amethystsc1056 2 роки тому +1

      Same with me, I apologize to anyone I feel like I've offended. Even to rude people I've argued with. After watching this video, I just realized how those people affected my mentality and disturbed my inner peace. I'll be trying to change this mindset from now on.

  • @yvesgingras1475
    @yvesgingras1475 Рік тому +2

    I needed that

  • @GooseTheFlick
    @GooseTheFlick 4 роки тому +1

    Buddhism takes a similar take, but further: nothing is within our control, not even our own experience, and so we cannot base our happiness on experiences at all. That is why they aim for nirvana, cessation of causes.

  • @donaldgarver6594
    @donaldgarver6594 4 роки тому +2

    The question for me is who are these ones that exist in anger strength and why do they want to conquer whatever trivial venue or gathering why the need to impress / control / achieve / deconstruct /recreate and then booast, self aggrandizing their egos stay out of my way if you aren't helping me, this arrogant behavior only serves to lesson my interest but I digress because there seems to be a need for thesa aggressors

  • @unavlble
    @unavlble 4 роки тому +2

    Leuke channel man, ga zo door

  • @TripleRoux
    @TripleRoux 4 роки тому

    People that isolate aren't weak ... they have been too strong for far too long until they can't take it anymore.

    • @christiantaylor1495
      @christiantaylor1495 4 роки тому

      Alexander the Great didn't self isolate. Marcus Aurelius didn't self isolate. Epictetus didn't self isolate.
      Epictetus was born a slave and sexually abused by his master. Marcus Aurelius was at war for 10 years on the battlefield. Alexander the Great: you know what trials he faced.

  • @onelieisenoughtoquestional5437
    @onelieisenoughtoquestional5437 4 роки тому

    Great video as always!

  • @annenymety209
    @annenymety209 4 роки тому

    “Cowardice is a vice.” Wow, that resonates.

  • @enoonmai5071
    @enoonmai5071 4 роки тому

    Changed mindset. 👌🥰

  • @Cinconegativoprimeiro
    @Cinconegativoprimeiro 4 роки тому

    As always perfect!

  • @LucieSalat
    @LucieSalat 4 роки тому

    I love you, Man.

  • @scarletshield009
    @scarletshield009 4 роки тому +6

    "If someone despises you. That's their problem." Well what if you are a problem and it's a valid reason. That quote does not apply for certain problems.

    • @khatunsmusic8143
      @khatunsmusic8143 4 роки тому

      scarletshield009 ..... if you quote something it's usually best to quote the entirety of what they said not just one part of it. Cutting his quote short ignores the fact that he answered your argument in the second half of what he was saying. Read it again in its entirety and you should see the answer to your question as actually having been clearly addressed.

  • @SuperGrinch123
    @SuperGrinch123 4 роки тому

    Great vid.. Powerful stuff.. 💥

  • @StaceyCochran
    @StaceyCochran 4 роки тому +2

    I would encourage folks who find this approach to life compelling to seek out Kristin Neff’s Mindful Self-Compassion Training. Practical and easy to follow program to develop this kind of mental fortitude. Good luck. And be well, all.

  • @HippieP629
    @HippieP629 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you for sharing this. I'm curious; were there philosophers or stoics in other parts of the world other than Greece?

  • @rayday4644
    @rayday4644 4 роки тому +2

    I have nobody so stoicism is all I have

  • @floridakingali5748
    @floridakingali5748 Рік тому +2

    I love you're channel friend 😺 good amazing insight on everything in life ☺️ wish we could have a conversation

  • @lionthereader
    @lionthereader 4 роки тому +10

    As Osho beautifully said "Courage is a love affair with the unknown."

    • @Esmeralda-gt6uf
      @Esmeralda-gt6uf 3 роки тому +1

      Courage is not the absence of fear, it is the mastery of fear.

  • @heavymeddle28
    @heavymeddle28 4 роки тому

    I wish that they would teach the stoic philosophy from day 1 in school

  • @beyoutifier6548
    @beyoutifier6548 4 роки тому

    THANK YOU FOR SHARING

  • @shahzeelhassan2992
    @shahzeelhassan2992 Рік тому

    Thank you for being watched.

  • @pysocal7834
    @pysocal7834 4 роки тому +8

    Are you my FBI agent because you upload yet again a video related to my real life situation

    • @DCamp1271
      @DCamp1271 4 роки тому

      Same here! There's got to be something to it, he's timing his releases and subject matter too perfectly. Always gets a laugh from me before I dive in to learn. Hope you got as much from this as I did, if not more. Cheers!

    • @christiantaylor1495
      @christiantaylor1495 4 роки тому

      Because all stoicism is relevant all of the time

  • @n_aaal
    @n_aaal 4 роки тому +1

    1:06 that place looks straight outta skyrim

  • @terencewinters2154
    @terencewinters2154 3 роки тому

    You know what's good about selfish critical people they could be right about your flaws or they may be revealing their own either way you learn something.

  • @commandery3574
    @commandery3574 4 роки тому

    hold up, let me run this back and turn it up

  • @sheron_kitchilan
    @sheron_kitchilan 4 роки тому +3

    ♥️

  • @DrDream27
    @DrDream27 4 роки тому +1

    - What is death ? Either a transition or an end. I am not afraid of coming to and, this being the same as never having begun, nor the transition, for shall never be in confinement quite so cramped anywhere else as i am here.
    Can anyone explain the meaning of “this being the same as never having begun “ ?

    • @DrDream27
      @DrDream27 4 роки тому

      It is from SENECA : letters of a stoic

    • @erickehr4475
      @erickehr4475 4 роки тому +3

      He is saying that the situation you are in after you have died is exactly the same as the situation you were in before you were born - that of non-existence. And since the period of non-existence before you were born doesn’t scare you, neither should the period of non-existence after you die.

    • @DrDream27
      @DrDream27 4 роки тому

      Eric Kehr thanks man!!

  • @nicolemichel7423
    @nicolemichel7423 3 роки тому

    Only on this channel only.

  • @alessandrofrioli6978
    @alessandrofrioli6978 Рік тому

    That is medicin for the soul

  • @kishorkumar7652
    @kishorkumar7652 4 роки тому +300

    Be mentally strong, so that nothing can spoil your peace of mind 😇😇

    • @kishorkumar7652
      @kishorkumar7652 4 роки тому +1

      @@varna8918 🥰🥰
      Much love ❤ 2 u 2....

    • @johns7272
      @johns7272 4 роки тому +5

      yeah except when a cop bundles you to the floor cos youre not wearing a face mask eh?

    • @castigousmetamageus8356
      @castigousmetamageus8356 4 роки тому +7

      Or soft like water and no object can obstruct you.

    • @kishorkumar7652
      @kishorkumar7652 4 роки тому

      @@johns7272 true.. Means they wear masks 😷on masks😅

    • @johns7272
      @johns7272 4 роки тому +1

      @Use Your Brain They Live Huh? dont get how that works. By wearing a mask you are just playing into their hands. Everyone should stoicly REFUSE to wear a mask

  • @mimiashford5544
    @mimiashford5544 4 роки тому +760

    "A wise man can always be found alone. A weak man can always be found in a crowd." ~Bruce Lee

    • @franksimmons9242
      @franksimmons9242 3 роки тому +2

      @@Vagabonds_Bootitch
      Silly 😃

    • @NickNicometi
      @NickNicometi 3 роки тому +40

      @@franksimmons9242 Not silly at all, that is why the term 'sheople' exists - the sheep follow the herd.
      Now get in line and follow along.
      💪😝👍

    • @holysaintknight343
      @holysaintknight343 3 роки тому +8

      Bruce Lee epicness

    • @AsylumPirate
      @AsylumPirate 3 роки тому +19

      @@NickNicometi tell em bro, the only reason they think it's silly is because they're one of em

    • @SUD7117
      @SUD7117 3 роки тому +11

      @@NickNicometi I think his reply was directed towards someone who has deleted their initial reply.

  • @anitacarter8060
    @anitacarter8060 4 роки тому +135

    ..... how others treat you, is their path… How you react, is yours… 😬 ✌🏻

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 4 роки тому +244

    It also is important that people act stoic from a place of wisdom.
    Not ignorance, lack of self awareness, unwilling to evolve for the better.

    • @skywalker6648
      @skywalker6648 4 роки тому +8

      True. Otherwise, you are not going to have many friends or be successful with your career, building support base, etc....

    • @IvVicious
      @IvVicious 4 роки тому +4

      Wisdom is one of the cardinal stoic virtues as well!

    • @christiantaylor1495
      @christiantaylor1495 4 роки тому +2

      Actually it's only necessary to improve in order to meet moral obligations in soticism

  • @Harryjay6
    @Harryjay6 4 роки тому +582

    I'm a serial isolationist but not because of fear or powerlessness but rather it's just so much simpler. Tranquil.

    • @smoothie3376
      @smoothie3376 4 роки тому +10

      Me too. ☺

    • @j.m.s_3285
      @j.m.s_3285 4 роки тому +72

      I know my limitations. I don't have the patience or tools to deal with society.

    • @RoninZulu
      @RoninZulu 4 роки тому +6

      Right on!

    • @tnt01
      @tnt01 4 роки тому +72

      Inner peace is everything but so is human connection. Balance is key.

    • @skywalker6648
      @skywalker6648 4 роки тому +48

      @@tnt01 True, I love my alone time, but frankly, humans are not meant to try and survive alone on this earth. Can it be done? Sure. But it does nothing to enhance your experience on earth. Nor, is it healthy.

  • @completewellness5738
    @completewellness5738 4 роки тому +59

    I simply don't believe in forcing anything. If it flows then great but if I feel myself trying to paddle upstream I stop and visualize letting go of the paddles, then the kayak naturally turns itself back into flow. Making myself actually visualize this really helps bring me back to the present moment. This also extends to people and things outside of my control in that, since I know I can't control them, then I redirect my focus back to how I can best manage myself in the situation to achieve the most peaceful outcome. This helps me ensure that those things don't push or pull me out of my calm because I remember that they aren't my source of it in the first place.

    • @katherineg9396
      @katherineg9396 3 роки тому +5

      I like your imagery of the kayak in the water. I think I'll try that. Thank you.

  • @anitacarter8060
    @anitacarter8060 4 роки тому +760

    There’s a quote…” your job on this earth is not to make people love you… Your job on this earth is to love yourself” 😉👌🏻

    • @christiantaylor1495
      @christiantaylor1495 4 роки тому +16

      Yet bullies are found to have the highest self-esteem.

    • @dipthongthathongthongthong9691
      @dipthongthathongthongthong9691 4 роки тому +12

      And by perfecting (as much as it is possible) a healthy self-love- measured, humble, self-reflective-you inevitably attract others and are thus often loved.

    • @jonathanbaker7854
      @jonathanbaker7854 4 роки тому +2

      Anita Carter you’re right.ℹ️💯✅❤️✝️🙏🏿👌🏿👍🏿☯️😎

    • @thormanfield1305
      @thormanfield1305 4 роки тому +3

      Why?

    • @christiantaylor1495
      @christiantaylor1495 4 роки тому +10

      @@thormanfield1305 Narcissists love themselves

  • @janebyrd8347
    @janebyrd8347 4 роки тому +571

    I am pure cosmic consciousness moving and grooving with the universe.

  • @PowerMatrixAnime
    @PowerMatrixAnime 4 роки тому +267

    Imagine writing 700 volumes of insight and none of it survives.

    • @janw6750
      @janw6750 4 роки тому +68

      I would argue nothing survives. It's just a matter of how long it will take until everything and everyone will be forgotten.

    • @wimvanleuven8992
      @wimvanleuven8992 4 роки тому +39

      A beautiful example of Memento Mori.

    • @verdahl253
      @verdahl253 4 роки тому +25

      It's perfect that it happened that way. 700 volumes may have been lost, but 700,000 volumes have been created in the vein of rediscovering the meaning of those original volumes.

    • @TrekCompsport
      @TrekCompsport 4 роки тому +6

      Imagine being a presidential candidate and not having 35,000 emails survive

    • @ps2604
      @ps2604 4 роки тому +7

      @@TrekCompsport how you ended up on a stoic principle video is beyond me

  • @Automedon2
    @Automedon2 4 роки тому +36

    My isolation comes from, yes, a desire to separate from the evil world, but also because I have never felt a part of the world anyway. At 63 I am tired of partaking in something that I see no purpose in fitting into. As far as a happy life - I honestly don't know what that means. I have had periods of excitement and anticipation, but for the most part I have endured life. I am in the middle of purchasing a remote, small house to live out the balance of my life, confronting only what I absolutely have to, which will be minimal. I will not have Internet or phone access and my vision is to fill my days with taking care of what I need to survive and filling my mind with positivity. I want watching a bee to be as interesting as watching a video. I am building a small library of the best things to fill my mind with and a music collection that I will never get tired of. Nothing to do with the topic at hand, I suppose, but I started typing and began rambling.

    • @bakedcrystal915
      @bakedcrystal915 Рік тому +2

      Did you ever do this? Can you tell me how it went if you ever read this?

  • @omkarunde2040
    @omkarunde2040 4 роки тому +153

    Just as Lord Tywin once said, " A lion doesn't concerns himself with the opinions of the sheep."

    • @Kcali111
      @Kcali111 4 роки тому +1

      💝

    • @JLchevz
      @JLchevz 4 роки тому +5

      you don't have to wish to be the lion

    • @omkarunde2040
      @omkarunde2040 4 роки тому +1

      @@JLchevz we are😎.

    • @ivaerak
      @ivaerak 4 роки тому +7

      It's a dumb quote. Since, you know, a lion certainly concerns himself with what other LIONS in the pack think.

    • @JLchevz
      @JLchevz 4 роки тому +18

      @@omkarunde2040 no you're not, it's okay to not care what people think, but you don't care not because you're better, but because what they say geniuinely has no power over your state of mind, that's not being better than them, it's just a good mindset to have.

  • @zianawind2970
    @zianawind2970 4 роки тому +65

    I am surprised you haven’t had more views. As far as I am concerned this is a very beautiful and well done video, it has helped me a lot. Thank you so much for taking the effort of making it. Sometimes they say.. if you can do but one right thing and touch another person it was well worth it. As for me brother yes your video has helped me a lot thank you and to all who helped you.

  • @alphasulapas7224
    @alphasulapas7224 4 роки тому +48

    I’m currently reading Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. It’s changing my life. Ultimately, ”the material world doesn’t have a hold on the soul”.

  • @learningisliving9420
    @learningisliving9420 4 роки тому +36

    Focus on yourself and set up a stong structure within yourself, by doing that the ever changing world won't throw you around

  • @truenorthaffirmations7049
    @truenorthaffirmations7049 4 роки тому +65

    Theirs no need to face someone elses fears when youve conquered them within...big love from another youtuber 🔥🤘🔥🤘 ALWAYS PROGRESSING

    • @Einzelgänger
      @Einzelgänger  4 роки тому +8

      Love back to you!

    • @azadprasad856
      @azadprasad856 4 роки тому +1

      @@Einzelgänger what Einzelgänger means??

    • @abadsiddiqui8303
      @abadsiddiqui8303 3 роки тому

      @@azadprasad856 it means a person who follows independent thoughts and different approach from the herd mentality

  • @cadillacdebois
    @cadillacdebois 4 роки тому +7

    In 13 years as a gravedigger and 9 years as a crematory operator I've learned no one is too young to die, there are many ways to die, everyone dies- it's just a matter of time. People say tomorrow is not guaranteed, I say today is not guaranteed.

    • @Esmeralda-gt6uf
      @Esmeralda-gt6uf 3 роки тому

      Absolutely! We are all only one breath away from death.

  • @smoothie3376
    @smoothie3376 4 роки тому +86

    I think it's a genuine sickness to be that bothered about someone, when you literally have the option to just disengage. 😩

    • @skywalker6648
      @skywalker6648 4 роки тому +8

      Especially, on UA-cam. People let the slightest comment that just states their opinion actually bother them!

    • @mightyobserver12
      @mightyobserver12 4 роки тому

      How about it is a noisy neighbor singing in the morning?

    • @skywalker6648
      @skywalker6648 4 роки тому +1

      @@mightyobserver12 Just buy a white noise machine or earplugs!

    • @smoothie3376
      @smoothie3376 4 роки тому +8

      @Summerhd420 There's obviously context to everything. I'm speaking more to jealous people... or hateful people who spread rumours about you etc. N it's usually people who don't even know you. N I don't engage in that bullshit! At all. 😝

    • @skywalker6648
      @skywalker6648 4 роки тому +2

      @Summerhd420 But even then, you have to agree on which God or no God for Atheists, lol. So there goes that theory.

  • @indridcold8433
    @indridcold8433 4 роки тому +8

    I do not care who likes me, who loves me, who hates me, who does not know me, who wants to know me. As long as people do not touch me nor interact with me, I do not care who feels what about me.

    • @gaminartube
      @gaminartube 3 роки тому

      Lmao, why even bother writing this then?

  • @thiefx100
    @thiefx100 4 роки тому +5

    I can't even have pictures of myself displayed on facebook or mention my successes because I expect and know that people, even those closest to me, grow envious in an instant and contemptuous at the first sign of failure. Idiots and lunatics are not beyond bludgeoning you to death simply because you possess something they would want for themselves. And the more attention you draw to yourself, the more at risk you are.
    Invisibility is the way. Why make great efforts to relate and associate with disgusting people who care not for your best interest and would slander you with any and all information you provide? Consider isolation and privacy just another sacrifice for the greater good.
    Our business is with things that really matter.

  • @liafuentes326
    @liafuentes326 4 роки тому +70

    I stopped focusing on external things and everything has become so full of peace. The Enchiridion is so amazing!

    • @courage_living
      @courage_living 4 роки тому +1

      Can u quote some example?

    • @liafuentes326
      @liafuentes326 4 роки тому +7

      @@courage_living I used to be blinded by Marketing. Women suffer a lot under this system, being told what to wear, what to say, what to eat. I don't care anymore I've found peace in stoicism.

    • @True38
      @True38 3 роки тому

      @@liafuentes326 Good for you. I love Stoicism as well. It's the best philosophy to live by imo.

  • @unknownsoul7122
    @unknownsoul7122 2 роки тому +7

    Socrate is says : The great wisdom is when you know you know nothing
    Simple
    ❤️

  • @SilviuSDJ
    @SilviuSDJ 4 роки тому +21

    Thank you so much for the videos you upload, the work and wisdom you put into them, they honestly are changing my life for the better.

  • @cookingGuitarist
    @cookingGuitarist 4 роки тому +3

    I'm an introvert so I 'm usually at home and alone. But do I feel lonely? No, not since I studied Stoic philosophy. Now people can yell insults at me and I will carry on mindless of they're assault.