Am I WRONG To Show My Wife Online?! SHOCKING RESPONSE To Khalid Al Ameri + Salama Divorce Rumour

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  • @amala5099
    @amala5099 8 місяців тому +133

    I think you’re focusing solely on the extreme opinions. Whilst I agree that social media usually isn’t the sole reason why couples divorce, there is something to be said about the damage it can do. It’s not normal to have thousands if not millions having insight into your life or marriage and the affect that can have shouldn’t be underestimated

    • @einas1995
      @einas1995 8 місяців тому +6

      I agree!

    • @lilylovely007
      @lilylovely007 8 місяців тому +3

      The thing is, people only see and know what you put out in your context. As Salama stated in that now famous clip, she said that what you see is only about 1% of what goes on in their lives, that is to say that the 99% is inferred by the audience. So people speculating on anyones social media content is simply their own personal inferences and irrelevant to say the least. Islam teaches us to speak kindly, and if we cannot do that then we should refrain from saying anything at all. Sadly people lack that knowledge of what Islam teaches you. Unless we know these people personally only then we can speak of them or of their situation.

    • @berkamp9832
      @berkamp9832 8 місяців тому +7

      Yes I agree, some brothers may feel guilty as they, themselves, over share their Wives. Personally I wouldn't appreciate another man having a screenshot of my wife on his phone, and pausing her UA-cam videos to have a good look at every angle, fantasising all sorts of things. I live in the West and I appreciate it's the norm to show and bring your wife wherever you go even among male dominated spaces, but as Muslim we have our own standards. I'll follow the scholars insha'Allah not UA-camrs with their own motives.
      Ps Family is way to prescious to post online where so many weirdos reside

    • @shikorina2k
      @shikorina2k 8 місяців тому

      THIS!!!

    • @fahadmalik8862
      @fahadmalik8862 8 місяців тому +1

      @@lilylovely007 I am well adversed in all topics. Scholar or no scholar.
      Men - Men = Trust. Men hold trust as a major factor in relations between each other. Majority of reactions amongst men hold in superficial gains of interest {material based}.
      Men - Women = Reliance. In succeeded independence of activities around environment's that are dependent on singular strengths.
      Women - Women = acceptance from women is one thing women crave and it often comes from leveraging others.
      Women have said they thrive off third person perceptives in watching themselves hence majority of modeling agencies, beauty salons. Small percentage is their own interest the rest is the attention and conversations between other women. That's my view.

  • @iheartoppa
    @iheartoppa 8 місяців тому +49

    This was a much needed rant, can’t stand the online Muslim communities comments nowadays. It’s EXHAUSTING. People really have lost their minds

  • @Adam-fc2lf
    @Adam-fc2lf 8 місяців тому +24

    Experiencing divorce before social media doesn't diminish its role in divorces today, especially for those immersed in social media.

  • @viralhabibi-ru6bi
    @viralhabibi-ru6bi 8 місяців тому +31

    I think marriage should be private . It’s very personal . Also in Islamic point of view displaying your home and your family is basically inviting nazr and tribulations into your home . If you can’t see that , that’s because you are following decree of what’s happening in todays world - not sunnah or teachings of Islam

  • @Anonymous-qn6gn
    @Anonymous-qn6gn 8 місяців тому +18

    😂 “people have lost their faculties” had me in tears. May Allah swt give guidance to us all.

  • @shamimakhtar8979
    @shamimakhtar8979 8 місяців тому +10

    I don't know if they are or aren't.
    But You can't rule out that the pressure of being in the social media lime light doesn't put strain on any relationship.
    Creating new content for your fans week after week , or staying away from each other deffo will have some sort of effect on the relationship.

  • @lilylovely007
    @lilylovely007 8 місяців тому +9

    Salaams, love you guys!! I agree with you that the majority of people misappropriate the term “evil eye/najar”, however to my knowledge, in Islam a parent can give najjar to their child, so that speaks to the degree of which it can affect people. It’s a topic which many have very little understanding about: However, as you’ve stated, people no longer use their brains to think about things and they are following the majority who have no clue of what the religion actually states in regards to matters.

  • @FathimaOsman-m3t
    @FathimaOsman-m3t 8 місяців тому +11

    Marriage is a private and personal issue. Doesn't need yo be advertised on social media....this put pressure snd stress on their relationship. My opinion. South Africa.

  • @ssharzy5707
    @ssharzy5707 8 місяців тому +19

    Islamically you have to to keep your wife and your affairs private, not for the world to be watching, also, when this question has been asked to scholars etc they all say you shouldn’t, ALLAH knows best

    • @kingky2002
      @kingky2002 8 місяців тому

      Source?

    • @ssharzy5707
      @ssharzy5707 8 місяців тому

      @@kingky2002 ua-cam.com/video/hXuHklhUALU/v-deo.htmlsi=ZJH5vudqRWu2HpDY

  • @oxdavy3767
    @oxdavy3767 8 місяців тому +10

    This is an amazing video! Thank you for sharing this SOBER, INTELLIGENT, SANE, and most importantly, MODERATE perspective. “Everything is good in moderation”. As a revert, I can say that, all these couch warriors do is turn people away from Islam. Make the religion “difficult”, as the prophet saw, specifically instructed us NOT TO DO. Are they doing this in the cause of Allah or in the cause of…the whisperer? Audubillah. A question for them to ponder upon.

  • @senasezer422
    @senasezer422 8 місяців тому +9

    I love your channel, but the idea of strangers having access to my, my husband's, or especially my kids' pictures and videos does not sit right with me at all. There are all kinds of people out there. Especially now with the advance of AI, things are getting out of hand. May Allah protect you and your family.

  • @S4FX
    @S4FX 8 місяців тому +6

    Well done bro for opening many ignorant eyes with this video...I hope many will learn from your words of wisdom. Sometimes unknowingly we jump on the bad wagon and say these things just because someone else said it...a lesson for us all.

  • @fatimaahmed7249
    @fatimaahmed7249 8 місяців тому +8

    I am not a fan of content creators(or anyone for that matter), bringing their Private lives into S.Media because, doing so,puts them in positions where TOTAL, anonymous strangers can pass judgement on them at any given time (and some people can be very spiteful and hurtful)...I do not follow anyone and, if i had been on social media ,it would make me feel uneasy that people i dont personally know, are Stalking i mean "Following"me and my loved ones......But then "one man's meat....."

  • @hhhhh45543
    @hhhhh45543 7 місяців тому +4

    i can’t even lie this was a video coming from ignorance may Allah guide you and us all

  • @NavigateAviation
    @NavigateAviation 8 місяців тому +7

    “Tell the believing men to control their gazes and guard their private parts because that is purer for them. Verily, God is all-aware of what they are trying to do.
    And tell the believing women to control their gazes and guard their private parts. Tell them not to uncover their beauty except what is naturally seen. Tell them to put a part of their headscarves onto their chests and not display their beautiful parts except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands’ fathers, their sons, their husbands’ sons, their brothers, their brothers’ sons, their sisters’ sons, their women attendants, the captives who they are guardians of, the males that have no more sexual desire to women, or children who are not yet aware of the private aspects of women. Tell them not to stamp their feet on the ground for their beautiful parts to be noticed. Believers! Turn to God altogether so that you may attain what you hope for.” (an-Noor 24:30-31)

    • @fahadmalik8862
      @fahadmalik8862 8 місяців тому

      اتَّقُوا اللَّهَ فِي النِّسَاءِ، فَإِنَّكُمْ أَخَذْتُمُوهُنَّ بِأَمَانَةِ اللَّهِ، وَاسْتَحْلَلْتُمْ فُرُوجَهُنَّ بِكَلِمَةِ، اللَّهِ وَلَهُنَّ عَلَيْكُمْ رِزْقُهُنَّ وَكِسْوَتُهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ
      “Fear Allah with regard to women, for you have taken them as a trust from Allah, and intimacy with them has become permissible to you through Allah’s Word. Their rights over you are that you should provide for them and clothe them in a reasonable manner.”
      Narrated by al-Nasaie (9135)
      وَلَن تَسْتَطِيعُوا أَن تَعْدِلُوا بَيْنَ النِّسَاءِ وَلَوْ حَرَصْتُمْ ۖ فَلَا تَمِيلُوا كُلَّ الْمَيْلِ فَتَذَرُوهَا كَالْمُعَلَّقَةِ ۚ وَإِن تُصْلِحُوا وَتَتَّقُوا فَإِنَّ اللَّـهَ كَانَ غَفُورًا رَّحِيمًا
      “And you will never be able to be equal [in feeling] between wives, even if you should strive [to do so]. So do not incline completely [toward one] and leave another hanging. And if you amend [your affairs] and fear Allah - then indeed, Allah is ever Forgiving and Merciful.”
      Surah al-Nisaa’ (129)

  • @Citygirlinsuburbia
    @Citygirlinsuburbia 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for providing a thorough response of how Muslims' understanding of the evil eye has changed and been deliberately changed by many to confirm personal misunderstandings... at the end of the day we cannot judge on what we cannot see, such as marriage is which is the EPITOME of judging on what we cannot see and making assumptions. The reality is whoever is judging others to be "dayouth" or whatever is actually exposing their own insecurities regarding marriage and spouse relationships. We do sound stupid saying these things instead of focusing on the good, which Allah tells us to do-- He tells us to assume the best of our Muslim brothers and sisters and pray for the best. We should expect our husbands and wives to have respect, loyalty, and commitment towards and for each other, not control each other based on "protective jealousy" (which is an oxymoron by the way!) Sadly, we are doing exactly as Allah stated and our Prophet (pbuh) prophesized about us falling victim to cultural values over what Islam really tells us. And to comment about someone posting too much of their marriage or wife is so hypocritical as well, because why are they spending the time and effort focusing on someone else's life or critiquing? Let us focus on the good things that are being modeled and we can learn from them because that is how we beautify our religion and ourselves, not being rudely dismissive of the good of Islam that is being practiced to nitpick over things that could be improved. At the end of the day, following religion is an ongoing journey and we are imperfect, bound to sin, and learn and improve! May Allah help us all help each other.

  • @Islaam_isthewayof_life
    @Islaam_isthewayof_life 8 місяців тому +16

    Yes akhii but u shouldn't show your wife as well Bro don't follow the western ways Bro follow Islam(religion) not culture or tradition

    • @malikamohamadou8016
      @malikamohamadou8016 8 місяців тому +2

      Your the one saying bro and that’s what westerns say 😒

    • @ChiqueIndustries
      @ChiqueIndustries 8 місяців тому +5

      19:20
      Listen carefully and stop projecting cultural levels of conservatism onto other people

    • @lisagab
      @lisagab 8 місяців тому +4

      A man and his wife is one. So it's ok to wk as a team in any setting

  • @veramoore3955
    @veramoore3955 6 місяців тому +1

    I am not Muslim but I agree with you and love your content keep up the good work.

  • @marlonhosten4693
    @marlonhosten4693 8 місяців тому +4

    You are 100% correct ! You and your wife are together and that is Halal !

  • @FazlinAkiemdien-mf5il
    @FazlinAkiemdien-mf5il 8 місяців тому +2

    Alhamdulilah so true Sufiyan giving you 10 out of 10

  • @Mesmerising_Eyes
    @Mesmerising_Eyes 8 місяців тому +4

    The evil eye thing is just secondary! What's bothering me these days is that people have already concluded that they are divorced. They have speculated so many bogus things about their lives, for instance, Salama doesn't need a man in her life she has forgotten what Khalid did for her, Khalid is wrong, Salama is wrong, etc! I'm tired of these comments when they doesn't even concern me, imagine what it must be doing to them both!?
    Rather than poking nose in people's lives we must be worried about ourselves and our aakhirah. So many Muslims just wasting their precious Ramadan days commenting XYZ about Salama and Khalid. Sadly, most of these comments spread negativity and sends negative vibes. If you can't speak good for someone, wish good for somebody, just keep your mouth shut. No need to speculate and create a fuss outta nothing, something which is not even there to begin with!
    May Allah protect their marriage and guide us all, Ameen.
    Love and prayers from Europe. 🙏

  • @Me-vq7sy
    @Me-vq7sy 8 місяців тому +4

    Careful, careful.

  • @ifrazali2712
    @ifrazali2712 8 місяців тому +3

    Bro well said. U explained everything well. People are two quick to judge. Keyboard warriors. Saying to someone your not muslim is one of the biggest sinz. Kufr. Sad sad people.

  • @evelamming3857
    @evelamming3857 8 місяців тому +5

    People need to mind they own business. Couples have differences, and that is between them. Sad but people deivorce, that is they business Trust in Allah, he will guide and protect you🙏

  • @Inbria
    @Inbria 5 місяців тому +1

    We never know how people are behind closed doors. And their marriage or divorce is none of our business.

  • @shakiejanat3673
    @shakiejanat3673 8 місяців тому +6

    Don't feel so secure........evil eye knows no heroes

  • @miss42310
    @miss42310 5 місяців тому

    I agree with you!!! They have thought about divorce 2 times before.. so we don't know what their relationship was like.. people are crazy!

  • @lisagab
    @lisagab 8 місяців тому +3

    I love watching Khalid. Haven't seen Salama in awhile. Wonderful couple.

  • @mariedelarosa3686
    @mariedelarosa3686 4 місяці тому

    At the end of the day, only they knew why divorced. Its basically about them not other things. I watched Salama's videos and interviews, and I can feel her. It's always painful to wake up in the morning and the man you thought you will end up for the rest of your life, the father of your children is with another woman.

  • @sanamo86
    @sanamo86 8 місяців тому +6

    How many muslim celebrity divorces happen and we dont even know who the spouse or wife is. A couple will divorce if they are incompatible, instagram or no instagram

    • @ssharzy5707
      @ssharzy5707 8 місяців тому

      There’s another Muslim couple that have shockingly split up she goes by the name of Zeinah nur

  • @aliabereka9496
    @aliabereka9496 8 місяців тому

    We Need The Podcast ASAP!!!!

  • @Summermessa
    @Summermessa 8 місяців тому +1

    I am truly loving your deep dives lately. Something is seriously going on with our ummah. As I said in one of your previous video’s, it’s our own ummah that makes it bad for everyone else. I follow Quran and only the Quran, I don’t waste my time or energy on bullies that take pride in bringing down our ummah. It’s so much better to be kind and loving to one another instead of pointing fingers and judging. I absolutely adore you and your beautiful family! Your refreshing, funny and honestly so real. Pls don’t change or let these haters get to you❤❤❤🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽

    • @fahadmalik8862
      @fahadmalik8862 8 місяців тому

      your playlists. Thats all im saying.

    • @fahadmalik8862
      @fahadmalik8862 8 місяців тому

      only thing wrong with out Ummah is the manipulation of the words of Prophet Muhmmad (S.A.W) and Progressive Islam

    • @Summermessa
      @Summermessa 8 місяців тому

      @@fahadmalik8862 🤣🤣🤣gotta love it! There is no compulsion in Islam. Maybe if you focused on the Quran you would be a much better human. I will pray for you. You clearly need to be guided back to the Quran or is the holy book not enough for you? Allahs word and direction is all I follow. PERIOD!

    • @valhalla1792
      @valhalla1792 8 місяців тому

      ​@@SummermessaAs for the verse there's no compulsion in religion is used for the non muslims who aren't forced or obligated to accept islam , we as muslims can't use it for us , in islam when something is haram means it is haram

  • @Fashionmadebyhand
    @Fashionmadebyhand 7 місяців тому +3

    If evil eye existed then anything beautiful wouldn't exist! Use God given logic.

    • @1923b-y1l
      @1923b-y1l 5 місяців тому

      Are you saying evil eye is not real? Not sure if your Muslim but the prophet peace me upon him said “the evil is truth”

  • @Flourish_today
    @Flourish_today 5 місяців тому

    I just found out right now that they are not together. I always wish and hope for long lasting marriages. Social media or no social media.

  • @rozaliaslaboiu7810
    @rozaliaslaboiu7810 8 місяців тому +1

    I think that my opinion is an unadvised one, I am not a Muslim and I have no idea about what it means to have such a page on UA-cam and that what I would say should be interesting enough to be heard/listened to by someone else.
    But if I were you, if what I post is not respected, if the way of writing to me by those who follow my page would become rude, aggressive, and as you say nonsense because those people are "stupid" - after this video or even the one you plan to make with your wife, - I would do it without commenting on anything, only "cleaning" on my page...
    I wouldn't even take the time to write back, and I wouldn't even consume myself emotionally for their opinion, which is so irrelevant to my life. When I said the word "cleanliness" I meant "blocked"...
    My page like the house I live in, like my mind, like my thoughts, etc. must be regularly cleaned and kept perfectly clean so as not to get physically and emotionally sick.
    If every day we clean at home and in our mind and soul, on our page it is impossible to be affected physically and emotionally and this is all that matters.
    We cannot change the world - and even more so the world of our days - but we can act and try to live our lives so that the world does not leave its personal mess at our doors, at the door of our house at the door of our heart...
    Your videos are so beautiful, soothing, and joyful; each one leaves a theme that we can reflect on...
    This video does not match the beautiful world you want to create - and which you present to us so beautifully - for you and your family.
    If my opinion was rude, you can block me, too, please. What I wrote above applies to every person who enters your page.
    I wish you and your family only the best.

  • @fatimaibrahim5481
    @fatimaibrahim5481 8 місяців тому

    the way you're saying "where's your gayrah bro?"😂😂

  • @alienorbelesta4990
    @alienorbelesta4990 5 місяців тому +1

    Bad eyes 👀 not directly through picture or videos, but more insidious, through commentaries…

  • @meyriema.3672
    @meyriema.3672 8 місяців тому

    Hello it is true that personnally I am not the kind of person who likes to show my face and my family on social medias because unfortunately people are disgusting. But you do what you want it is your choice I like your videos. Just simple Muslim family life with the smiles in your faces it is so kind !! ❤

  • @valhalla1792
    @valhalla1792 8 місяців тому

    Great content brother

  • @cindyheeralal7521
    @cindyheeralal7521 6 місяців тому

    Well said!!!!

  • @lindayusof2107
    @lindayusof2107 5 місяців тому

    Evil eye is contributing. Its one of the factor.
    Hide our possessions. Marriage, wife , kids, are among those.

  • @OfficialMNIB
    @OfficialMNIB 8 місяців тому

    - We call that Spookeville - 😅 😂 🤣 😹

  • @mariaboyd7380
    @mariaboyd7380 8 місяців тому

    I thought they just had the renewal of vows last summer. How certain that they were divorced?

  • @rahmahomale5351
    @rahmahomale5351 8 місяців тому

    I personally live Khalid and salama. I think most of the time Muslims can be so harsh and backward in our manner of correction. I truly wish Khalid and salama the best.

  • @khantzaw5376
    @khantzaw5376 5 місяців тому

    Did he say "scholars did not understand"?

  • @ummabdillah26
    @ummabdillah26 8 місяців тому +4

    Evil eye is real. As the prophet stated in authentic hadith.
    Many people have lost blessing due to posting on social media their blessings.
    And as for your argument on your wife on UA-cam...maybe your argument would be valid if she was wearing a full proper hijab. Not pants andshirts with a scarf and makeup.

    • @valhalla1792
      @valhalla1792 8 місяців тому

      I do agree that social media shouldn't be used for marriage and children

  • @aliabereka9496
    @aliabereka9496 8 місяців тому

    100% agreed

  • @66xx66
    @66xx66 8 місяців тому

    Well said ! Hypocrites they & their wives can do anything but others can’t. It’s Haram 🙄

  • @heiresslaite2950
    @heiresslaite2950 8 місяців тому

    mmmm, opinions we all have. people used to believe the contrary ofthings until they found themselves there...
    it miight not be the absolute truth in their case, but i think their job oe social media might have played a role
    however, may Allah guide us

  • @patwalkins2061
    @patwalkins2061 3 місяці тому

    Couples just need to focus more on building their relationship than creating content for Social Media

  • @karlenebrown636
    @karlenebrown636 8 місяців тому

    Hi guys ❤

  • @Xx7anoonxX
    @Xx7anoonxX 5 місяців тому

    nazar on social media is a real thing

  • @Happyvideos2012
    @Happyvideos2012 5 місяців тому

    What is putting wife on social media? Is she an object. God gave her brains. She can decide what to do with her life.

  • @gurdipkassar8837
    @gurdipkassar8837 8 місяців тому

    Love your volgs lovely couple your little girl is so cute god bless you and your family.

  • @Aljamila90
    @Aljamila90 8 місяців тому

    So many people make podcasts content about salama marriage divorce. And so they can get so many views and likes for their podcast. First, who should you ask for advice? Has this person speaking on the podcast has acknowledged the psychological doctor or you, the mufti? Wallahi. what we all do this all commited to riba sinner wallahi

  • @1923b-y1l
    @1923b-y1l 5 місяців тому

    Putting aside everything else in this video (which I agree with mostly) I don’t think you know what evil eye is or how it works….

  • @MeredithBanc
    @MeredithBanc 6 місяців тому

    Is ghera an Arabic word? If not then pronounce it correctly: gherat.

  • @Hudasalim-fi3lz
    @Hudasalim-fi3lz 6 місяців тому

    Husband and wife in social media is hassad.

  • @express534
    @express534 7 місяців тому

    Aslaamwalikum bro you're doing the same think so don't be hypocritical not because your wife is next to you're still doing the same think !!!

  • @a.m204
    @a.m204 5 місяців тому

    Well done Khalid

  • @bahaaar1000
    @bahaaar1000 5 місяців тому

    Dude, go read Quran and Ahadiths and educate yourself islamicly. Women in Islam shoudnt be in social media showing their faces and beauty for whole wide world PERIOD.

  • @khodeejahidris135
    @khodeejahidris135 8 місяців тому

    U are doing it doesn't it right u social media muslims should fear Allah Azawonjall

  • @UmarHasan-rt4qe
    @UmarHasan-rt4qe 5 місяців тому

    bro you're also cooked

  • @ateeqahfrancisco4359
    @ateeqahfrancisco4359 8 місяців тому +3

    May Allaaah guide you to correct understaing of the deen Allahumma aameen.

  • @chailatecookies7341
    @chailatecookies7341 5 місяців тому

    People are idiots lol

  • @faay8912
    @faay8912 6 місяців тому

    The evil eye is a real thing and it has affected many people who present their life to the world, whether you believe it or not. I know you mean well but this is a very ignorant video that shows you lack deeper understanding of the deen. Literally educate yourself on how hassad/Ayn can affect you.

  • @TexasBoyDrew
    @TexasBoyDrew 8 місяців тому

    Your wife is niceeee

  • @ateeqahfrancisco4359
    @ateeqahfrancisco4359 8 місяців тому +4

    Brother you have NO real understanding of reality!!!

  • @levent5286
    @levent5286 8 місяців тому +1

    🇩🇿👍👍

  • @levent5286
    @levent5286 8 місяців тому +1

    🇩🇿👍👍🤝

  • @wyliecoyote1696
    @wyliecoyote1696 5 місяців тому

    Don't mock. They did have photographs/video during the time of the great scholars and they knew Allah better than all of us.
    The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said: “Verily, the evil eye might attach itself to a man by permission of Allah, until he climbs a tall mountain and then throws himself off it.” -Source: Musnad Aḥmad 21471
    The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said: “A great many from my nation who die, after the judgment, decree, and providence of Allah, die by the evil eye.” - Source: Musnad Abī Dāwūd al-Ṭayālisī 1868

  • @ethelbertblair580
    @ethelbertblair580 7 місяців тому

    You are coping dayooth

  • @inatesoultruefitra291
    @inatesoultruefitra291 8 місяців тому +1

    Evil eye can be from any angle social
    Media life eye or any where did you not know it could be from
    Jealousy don’t talk about what you don’t know
    You education
    Is very small just because they put out can tigger jealousy

  • @caregiver-69
    @caregiver-69 8 місяців тому

    There are ones in each/every culture on this earth gets very upset, feels threatened, and reacts like an act of violation has happened to their peoples if a person talks "in public" (social media) about a negative situation that happened in THEIR LIFE!!! Get a grip folks...

  • @Fs_theoneafg
    @Fs_theoneafg 5 місяців тому

    You are so lost wallahi.

  • @inatesoultruefitra291
    @inatesoultruefitra291 8 місяців тому

    They a divorce

  • @truthcomes1
    @truthcomes1 8 місяців тому +3

    Dayooth spotted