Am I WRONG To Show My Wife Online?! SHOCKING RESPONSE To Khalid Al Ameri + Salama Divorce Rumour
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- Опубліковано 27 чер 2024
- In this video, we discuss the topic of Muslim men showing their wives and families online. The discussion includes subjects such evil eye, jealousy, social media couples, divorce, and sexism.
Feel free to share your thoughts.
TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 - Intro
00:34 - Khalid Al Ameri & Salama divorce rumours and context
03:21 - Comments, response from Muslims and social media pages
04:53 - Is Evil Eye really affecting people’s relationships?
11:21 - Is Social Media the reason muslim couples are divorcing?
13:24 - Divorce statistics and resale value
16:57 - Response to having my wife online
21:32 - Collective consciousness of Muslims
23:24 - Shocking comments and my response
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I think you’re focusing solely on the extreme opinions. Whilst I agree that social media usually isn’t the sole reason why couples divorce, there is something to be said about the damage it can do. It’s not normal to have thousands if not millions having insight into your life or marriage and the affect that can have shouldn’t be underestimated
I agree!
The thing is, people only see and know what you put out in your context. As Salama stated in that now famous clip, she said that what you see is only about 1% of what goes on in their lives, that is to say that the 99% is inferred by the audience. So people speculating on anyones social media content is simply their own personal inferences and irrelevant to say the least. Islam teaches us to speak kindly, and if we cannot do that then we should refrain from saying anything at all. Sadly people lack that knowledge of what Islam teaches you. Unless we know these people personally only then we can speak of them or of their situation.
Yes I agree, some brothers may feel guilty as they, themselves, over share their Wives. Personally I wouldn't appreciate another man having a screenshot of my wife on his phone, and pausing her UA-cam videos to have a good look at every angle, fantasising all sorts of things. I live in the West and I appreciate it's the norm to show and bring your wife wherever you go even among male dominated spaces, but as Muslim we have our own standards. I'll follow the scholars insha'Allah not UA-camrs with their own motives.
Ps Family is way to prescious to post online where so many weirdos reside
THIS!!!
@@lilylovely007 I am well adversed in all topics. Scholar or no scholar.
Men - Men = Trust. Men hold trust as a major factor in relations between each other. Majority of reactions amongst men hold in superficial gains of interest {material based}.
Men - Women = Reliance. In succeeded independence of activities around environment's that are dependent on singular strengths.
Women - Women = acceptance from women is one thing women crave and it often comes from leveraging others.
Women have said they thrive off third person perceptives in watching themselves hence majority of modeling agencies, beauty salons. Small percentage is their own interest the rest is the attention and conversations between other women. That's my view.
I think marriage should be private . It’s very personal . Also in Islamic point of view displaying your home and your family is basically inviting nazr and tribulations into your home . If you can’t see that , that’s because you are following decree of what’s happening in todays world - not sunnah or teachings of Islam
Experiencing divorce before social media doesn't diminish its role in divorces today, especially for those immersed in social media.
😂 “people have lost their faculties” had me in tears. May Allah swt give guidance to us all.
This was a much needed rant, can’t stand the online Muslim communities comments nowadays. It’s EXHAUSTING. People really have lost their minds
I don't know if they are or aren't.
But You can't rule out that the pressure of being in the social media lime light doesn't put strain on any relationship.
Creating new content for your fans week after week , or staying away from each other deffo will have some sort of effect on the relationship.
Marriage is a private and personal issue. Doesn't need yo be advertised on social media....this put pressure snd stress on their relationship. My opinion. South Africa.
Islamically you have to to keep your wife and your affairs private, not for the world to be watching, also, when this question has been asked to scholars etc they all say you shouldn’t, ALLAH knows best
Source?
@@kingky2002 ua-cam.com/video/hXuHklhUALU/v-deo.htmlsi=ZJH5vudqRWu2HpDY
Salaams, love you guys!! I agree with you that the majority of people misappropriate the term “evil eye/najar”, however to my knowledge, in Islam a parent can give najjar to their child, so that speaks to the degree of which it can affect people. It’s a topic which many have very little understanding about: However, as you’ve stated, people no longer use their brains to think about things and they are following the majority who have no clue of what the religion actually states in regards to matters.
I love your channel, but the idea of strangers having access to my, my husband's, or especially my kids' pictures and videos does not sit right with me at all. There are all kinds of people out there. Especially now with the advance of AI, things are getting out of hand. May Allah protect you and your family.
i can’t even lie this was a video coming from ignorance may Allah guide you and us all
Well done bro for opening many ignorant eyes with this video...I hope many will learn from your words of wisdom. Sometimes unknowingly we jump on the bad wagon and say these things just because someone else said it...a lesson for us all.
I agree with you!!! They have thought about divorce 2 times before.. so we don't know what their relationship was like.. people are crazy!
Alhamdulilah so true Sufiyan giving you 10 out of 10
I am not a fan of content creators(or anyone for that matter), bringing their Private lives into S.Media because, doing so,puts them in positions where TOTAL, anonymous strangers can pass judgement on them at any given time (and some people can be very spiteful and hurtful)...I do not follow anyone and, if i had been on social media ,it would make me feel uneasy that people i dont personally know, are Stalking i mean "Following"me and my loved ones......But then "one man's meat....."
We never know how people are behind closed doors. And their marriage or divorce is none of our business.
If evil eye existed then anything beautiful wouldn't exist! Use God given logic.
You are 100% correct ! You and your wife are together and that is Halal !
We Need The Podcast ASAP!!!!
The evil eye thing is just secondary! What's bothering me these days is that people have already concluded that they are divorced. They have speculated so many bogus things about their lives, for instance, Salama doesn't need a man in her life she has forgotten what Khalid did for her, Khalid is wrong, Salama is wrong, etc! I'm tired of these comments when they doesn't even concern me, imagine what it must be doing to them both!?
Rather than poking nose in people's lives we must be worried about ourselves and our aakhirah. So many Muslims just wasting their precious Ramadan days commenting XYZ about Salama and Khalid. Sadly, most of these comments spread negativity and sends negative vibes. If you can't speak good for someone, wish good for somebody, just keep your mouth shut. No need to speculate and create a fuss outta nothing, something which is not even there to begin with!
May Allah protect their marriage and guide us all, Ameen.
Love and prayers from Europe. 🙏
Careful, careful.
Great content brother
Thank you for providing a thorough response of how Muslims' understanding of the evil eye has changed and been deliberately changed by many to confirm personal misunderstandings... at the end of the day we cannot judge on what we cannot see, such as marriage is which is the EPITOME of judging on what we cannot see and making assumptions. The reality is whoever is judging others to be "dayouth" or whatever is actually exposing their own insecurities regarding marriage and spouse relationships. We do sound stupid saying these things instead of focusing on the good, which Allah tells us to do-- He tells us to assume the best of our Muslim brothers and sisters and pray for the best. We should expect our husbands and wives to have respect, loyalty, and commitment towards and for each other, not control each other based on "protective jealousy" (which is an oxymoron by the way!) Sadly, we are doing exactly as Allah stated and our Prophet (pbuh) prophesized about us falling victim to cultural values over what Islam really tells us. And to comment about someone posting too much of their marriage or wife is so hypocritical as well, because why are they spending the time and effort focusing on someone else's life or critiquing? Let us focus on the good things that are being modeled and we can learn from them because that is how we beautify our religion and ourselves, not being rudely dismissive of the good of Islam that is being practiced to nitpick over things that could be improved. At the end of the day, following religion is an ongoing journey and we are imperfect, bound to sin, and learn and improve! May Allah help us all help each other.
This is an amazing video! Thank you for sharing this SOBER, INTELLIGENT, SANE, and most importantly, MODERATE perspective. “Everything is good in moderation”. As a revert, I can say that, all these couch warriors do is turn people away from Islam. Make the religion “difficult”, as the prophet saw, specifically instructed us NOT TO DO. Are they doing this in the cause of Allah or in the cause of…the whisperer? Audubillah. A question for them to ponder upon.
I love watching Khalid. Haven't seen Salama in awhile. Wonderful couple.
People need to mind they own business. Couples have differences, and that is between them. Sad but people deivorce, that is they business Trust in Allah, he will guide and protect you🙏
the way you're saying "where's your gayrah bro?"😂😂
100% agreed
“Tell the believing men to control their gazes and guard their private parts because that is purer for them. Verily, God is all-aware of what they are trying to do.
And tell the believing women to control their gazes and guard their private parts. Tell them not to uncover their beauty except what is naturally seen. Tell them to put a part of their headscarves onto their chests and not display their beautiful parts except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands’ fathers, their sons, their husbands’ sons, their brothers, their brothers’ sons, their sisters’ sons, their women attendants, the captives who they are guardians of, the males that have no more sexual desire to women, or children who are not yet aware of the private aspects of women. Tell them not to stamp their feet on the ground for their beautiful parts to be noticed. Believers! Turn to God altogether so that you may attain what you hope for.” (an-Noor 24:30-31)
اتَّقُوا اللَّهَ فِي النِّسَاءِ، فَإِنَّكُمْ أَخَذْتُمُوهُنَّ بِأَمَانَةِ اللَّهِ، وَاسْتَحْلَلْتُمْ فُرُوجَهُنَّ بِكَلِمَةِ، اللَّهِ وَلَهُنَّ عَلَيْكُمْ رِزْقُهُنَّ وَكِسْوَتُهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ
“Fear Allah with regard to women, for you have taken them as a trust from Allah, and intimacy with them has become permissible to you through Allah’s Word. Their rights over you are that you should provide for them and clothe them in a reasonable manner.”
Narrated by al-Nasaie (9135)
وَلَن تَسْتَطِيعُوا أَن تَعْدِلُوا بَيْنَ النِّسَاءِ وَلَوْ حَرَصْتُمْ ۖ فَلَا تَمِيلُوا كُلَّ الْمَيْلِ فَتَذَرُوهَا كَالْمُعَلَّقَةِ ۚ وَإِن تُصْلِحُوا وَتَتَّقُوا فَإِنَّ اللَّـهَ كَانَ غَفُورًا رَّحِيمًا
“And you will never be able to be equal [in feeling] between wives, even if you should strive [to do so]. So do not incline completely [toward one] and leave another hanging. And if you amend [your affairs] and fear Allah - then indeed, Allah is ever Forgiving and Merciful.”
Surah al-Nisaa’ (129)
Bro well said. U explained everything well. People are two quick to judge. Keyboard warriors. Saying to someone your not muslim is one of the biggest sinz. Kufr. Sad sad people.
I am truly loving your deep dives lately. Something is seriously going on with our ummah. As I said in one of your previous video’s, it’s our own ummah that makes it bad for everyone else. I follow Quran and only the Quran, I don’t waste my time or energy on bullies that take pride in bringing down our ummah. It’s so much better to be kind and loving to one another instead of pointing fingers and judging. I absolutely adore you and your beautiful family! Your refreshing, funny and honestly so real. Pls don’t change or let these haters get to you❤❤❤🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽
your playlists. Thats all im saying.
only thing wrong with out Ummah is the manipulation of the words of Prophet Muhmmad (S.A.W) and Progressive Islam
@@fahadmalik8862 🤣🤣🤣gotta love it! There is no compulsion in Islam. Maybe if you focused on the Quran you would be a much better human. I will pray for you. You clearly need to be guided back to the Quran or is the holy book not enough for you? Allahs word and direction is all I follow. PERIOD!
@@romessa6As for the verse there's no compulsion in religion is used for the non muslims who aren't forced or obligated to accept islam , we as muslims can't use it for us , in islam when something is haram means it is haram
Hi guys ❤
Well said!!!!
Yes akhii but u shouldn't show your wife as well Bro don't follow the western ways Bro follow Islam(religion) not culture or tradition
Your the one saying bro and that’s what westerns say 😒
19:20
Listen carefully and stop projecting cultural levels of conservatism onto other people
A man and his wife is one. So it's ok to wk as a team in any setting
- We call that Spookeville - 😅 😂 🤣 😹
I thought they just had the renewal of vows last summer. How certain that they were divorced?
I am not Muslim but I agree with you and love your content keep up the good work.
Hello it is true that personnally I am not the kind of person who likes to show my face and my family on social medias because unfortunately people are disgusting. But you do what you want it is your choice I like your videos. Just simple Muslim family life with the smiles in your faces it is so kind !! ❤
Don't feel so secure........evil eye knows no heroes
How many muslim celebrity divorces happen and we dont even know who the spouse or wife is. A couple will divorce if they are incompatible, instagram or no instagram
There’s another Muslim couple that have shockingly split up she goes by the name of Zeinah nur
Love your volgs lovely couple your little girl is so cute god bless you and your family.
I think that my opinion is an unadvised one, I am not a Muslim and I have no idea about what it means to have such a page on UA-cam and that what I would say should be interesting enough to be heard/listened to by someone else.
But if I were you, if what I post is not respected, if the way of writing to me by those who follow my page would become rude, aggressive, and as you say nonsense because those people are "stupid" - after this video or even the one you plan to make with your wife, - I would do it without commenting on anything, only "cleaning" on my page...
I wouldn't even take the time to write back, and I wouldn't even consume myself emotionally for their opinion, which is so irrelevant to my life. When I said the word "cleanliness" I meant "blocked"...
My page like the house I live in, like my mind, like my thoughts, etc. must be regularly cleaned and kept perfectly clean so as not to get physically and emotionally sick.
If every day we clean at home and in our mind and soul, on our page it is impossible to be affected physically and emotionally and this is all that matters.
We cannot change the world - and even more so the world of our days - but we can act and try to live our lives so that the world does not leave its personal mess at our doors, at the door of our house at the door of our heart...
Your videos are so beautiful, soothing, and joyful; each one leaves a theme that we can reflect on...
This video does not match the beautiful world you want to create - and which you present to us so beautifully - for you and your family.
If my opinion was rude, you can block me, too, please. What I wrote above applies to every person who enters your page.
I wish you and your family only the best.
Well said ! Hypocrites they & their wives can do anything but others can’t. It’s Haram 🙄
mmmm, opinions we all have. people used to believe the contrary ofthings until they found themselves there...
it miight not be the absolute truth in their case, but i think their job oe social media might have played a role
however, may Allah guide us
Did he say "scholars did not understand"?
قُلْ أَعُوذُ بِرَبِّ ٱلْفَلَقِ ١ مِن شَرِّ مَا خَلَقَ ٢ وَمِن شَرِّ غَاسِقٍ إِذَا وَقَبَ ٣ وَمِن شَرِّ ٱلنَّفَّـٰثَـٰتِ فِى ٱلْعُقَدِ ٤ وَمِن شَرِّ حَاسِدٍ إِذَا حَسَدَ ٥
113:1 - Say, "I seek refuge in the Lord of daybreak
113:2 - From the evil of that which He created
113:3 - And from the evil of darkness when it settles
113:4 - And from the evil of the blowers in knots
113:5 - And from the evil of an envier when he envies.
I personally live Khalid and salama. I think most of the time Muslims can be so harsh and backward in our manner of correction. I truly wish Khalid and salama the best.
Husband and wife in social media is hassad.
May Allaaah guide you to correct understaing of the deen Allahumma aameen.
So many people make podcasts content about salama marriage divorce. And so they can get so many views and likes for their podcast. First, who should you ask for advice? Has this person speaking on the podcast has acknowledged the psychological doctor or you, the mufti? Wallahi. what we all do this all commited to riba sinner wallahi
Evil eye is real. As the prophet stated in authentic hadith.
Many people have lost blessing due to posting on social media their blessings.
And as for your argument on your wife on UA-cam...maybe your argument would be valid if she was wearing a full proper hijab. Not pants andshirts with a scarf and makeup.
I do agree that social media shouldn't be used for marriage and children
Aslaamwalikum bro you're doing the same think so don't be hypocritical not because your wife is next to you're still doing the same think !!!
Is ghera an Arabic word? If not then pronounce it correctly: gherat.
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Your wife is niceeee
U are doing it doesn't it right u social media muslims should fear Allah Azawonjall
The evil eye is a real thing and it has affected many people who present their life to the world, whether you believe it or not. I know you mean well but this is a very ignorant video that shows you lack deeper understanding of the deen. Literally educate yourself on how hassad/Ayn can affect you.
Brother you have NO real understanding of reality!!!
You are coping dayooth
There are ones in each/every culture on this earth gets very upset, feels threatened, and reacts like an act of violation has happened to their peoples if a person talks "in public" (social media) about a negative situation that happened in THEIR LIFE!!! Get a grip folks...
Evil eye can be from any angle social
Media life eye or any where did you not know it could be from
Jealousy don’t talk about what you don’t know
You education
Is very small just because they put out can tigger jealousy
You are so lost wallahi.
They a divorce
Dayooth spotted