Dealing with Failure and Self-Love with Salama Mohamed

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  • Опубліковано 6 чер 2024
  • In this wonderful first episode of season 5, I welcome my friend Salama! We have such a good catch up on life, but also dive deeper into what it means to be successful, how to deal with emotional abuse and protect your boundaries. We also talk about the reality of being an entrepreneur and finding yourself and your passion. Tune in!
    🎬 Thank you to Poddster for their beautiful studio and team where this episode was recorded: dubai.poddster.com/
    💐 Shout out to Les Fleurs de Jojo for their gorgeous bouquet for our guest: / les.fleurs.de.jojo
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    💌 Come and say hi to me: / sheengurrib
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    📝 My blog and website - www.sheengurrib.com/blogs
    Who am I:
    I am Dr. Sheen Gurrib and I want to play my part in supporting the next generation of empowered women. I am an entrepreneur, ex-strategy consultant, adjunct lecturer and content creator and the first Mauritian girl to have gone to both Oxford and Cambridge universities.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 217

  • @dorcasruhamya9453
    @dorcasruhamya9453 Місяць тому +249

    “I wouldn’t trust someone that they haven’t failed in life. Cause life hasn’t slapped you enough.”

    • @daisymiano925
      @daisymiano925 29 днів тому +8

      @dorcas.... I'm with you on that. Failure, challenges and hardships build character and prepare one for life.
      Most sheltered people don't do well when they face real life unfortunately❤

    • @sara4hayati
      @sara4hayati 4 дні тому

      Don’t requote her making it seem like she came up with this from her head.

  • @larosenoirek2197
    @larosenoirek2197 19 днів тому +32

    Her beauty, strength, and resilience shines through. When she said she had no woman to look up to growing up, I felt it. I see so much of her in myself. She is the type that has so much love to give around, yet with a lonely path to protect her mental health at all cost. You are a true Gem and from a sister may Allah swt bless you for who you are and what you do for others.

    • @kingc4082
      @kingc4082 2 дні тому

      My mother never had a woman to up and my dad passed away when her 6 kids were all young and alhumdhulilah we are all grown owning our own businesses and her daughters are married to respectable men. As a mother she didn't go looking for another man when my dad died, she didn't bother crying about the things she never got to do, she never cried about her clothes or appointment at the hair salon, my mother sacrificed her happiness in order to pay all her time to her kids and alhumdhulilah now we give back to our mum her dreams. So when girls talk about my success and my this and that and my trauma believe me I come from a home of trauma but our guidance to trauma has been Allah this was taught by our mum. Please women stop complaining about independencey and success at the end of the day and I will say it know your role. My mum figured it out and alhumdhulilah she raised successfull kids that never cry about losing our dad and other things situations in our family because my mums happiness was only the children's happiness. Nowadays you got mums crying about how hard their single life is on tik tok live gaining gifts from it from random men and women while the sons walking around with his milk bottle in his mouth some guys are just randomly gifting the mum until Allah one day punishes you for it then all of a sudden you blame the baby dad for some reason lol not realising Allah punishes you for your accidents

  • @Wafafaisal78
    @Wafafaisal78 17 днів тому +16

    The begging is the hardest ' just know every situation you face in your life is reaches you something so lemme remind you a beatifull Ayah《every hardship there's comes easy 》 and accept the failure coz No-one tells you the best you're till you see and trust yourself💚

  • @charlie77577
    @charlie77577 17 днів тому +9

    Machallah..One of my favourite most influential real life women.. Your advice is always positively affective. I use it for reflection, careful consideration of certain avenues that will help me navigate and maintain a healthy way of moving toward completing goals without overwhelming myself with fear, but not completely ignoring it either.. Thank you beautiful Salama, may God protect you with peace and health🤍

  • @yasminpatel1708
    @yasminpatel1708 29 днів тому +79

    I'm with you Salama, cut the cord. I'm loyal as they get, if you mess with my mind and my heart, I'm sorry I'm gone.

  • @UU-vl2kn
    @UU-vl2kn 4 дні тому +3

    Gosh the deep pain she has in her eyes. As a woman, I know exactly the pain that she is going through. Only those who have been through that same pain can see it in a mothers eyes

  • @fatimahshd7012
    @fatimahshd7012 Місяць тому +34

    Salama is so real and knowledgeable. I love her❤

  • @rouksarjaufuraully7287
    @rouksarjaufuraully7287 Місяць тому +18

    Real! Authentic & the conversation made me realise to accept failures! Who are you without your success etc. Wow- this made me freeze for a moment.. Love it guys🙌🏻👏

  • @mariaboyd7380
    @mariaboyd7380 10 днів тому +12

    You can tell she's not happy. Learning to forgive will set you free and heal your broken heart and spirit.

  • @sandipagrawaltalks
    @sandipagrawaltalks 16 днів тому +4

    I learned so much from this video. Your ability to break down complex topics is impressive. Thanks!

  • @nh8624
    @nh8624 22 дні тому +4

    Such a great interview! Thank you for such wholesome words 🙏

  • @TheFaheem0707
    @TheFaheem0707 Місяць тому +68

    I was missing Salama on YT. Thank you Sheen for bringing her in.

  • @areebarahman8574
    @areebarahman8574 26 днів тому +9

    I love Salama so v much I'm taurus as well I see so much of myself in you..such and inspiration stay strong love from South Africa 🇿🇦

    • @talibatul-ilm
      @talibatul-ilm 14 днів тому

      It’s not in line with Islam to allude any significance to star signs or similar.

  • @bekind535
    @bekind535 27 днів тому +6

    People think building money together is actually that's what keep the relationship stable while is actually accepting each others flowes as long the both parts not hurting or suffering.
    A deep understanding and clear communication is what keep realtionships overcome any obstacles ❤❤.

  • @user-zi7zf8es7l
    @user-zi7zf8es7l Місяць тому +18

    Hey there, My name is Salma. I totally relate to the clip from 16:11 to 17:46. I felt like I was narrated by Salama here. So relatable except for entrepreneur & mom role of her.

  • @SabBliss
    @SabBliss 28 днів тому +15

    I love how good questions were posed and good answers came in return. Such a great session altogether!

  • @emiefarie1
    @emiefarie1 27 днів тому +4

    Salama, I see a lot of me in you❤ such inspiration

  • @Delightful_Gamer
    @Delightful_Gamer 24 дні тому +1

    I can't help but to pick up somewhat of a South African accent from Cape Town here and there. Interesting... I am happy to see strong women such as yourself. You sound and seem to be self actualised as a woman...way up there.🤗

  • @SaraAli-pu7vj
    @SaraAli-pu7vj Місяць тому +25

    I love the material that Salma's headscarf is made from, it is so pretty! And, so is Salma!

    • @lecahier
      @lecahier 28 днів тому

      her name is Salama

    • @Anoyartgur
      @Anoyartgur День тому

      It looks like it's either georgette or synthetic satin...

  • @hinayasir501
    @hinayasir501 19 днів тому +2

    I love you sheen, thankyou for bringing these wonderful convesations. You are amazing your guests are amazing. Way to go! More strength to you gal ❤

  • @fauzianaureen5584
    @fauzianaureen5584 14 днів тому +8

    People do not fake depression, but they fake smiles.

  • @richardmuntawbira3212
    @richardmuntawbira3212 29 днів тому +17

    its like therapy listening to her talk about her abuse and how to set boundaries. a lot of ppl need that. lots of girls in similar situation. she looks so fit im surprised she has health issues.

  • @ipelengnare2227
    @ipelengnare2227 Місяць тому +2

    Saw your small clips of podcast on instagram and I had to give you the follow. Such an inspiration interview so fulfilling. Thanks for this interview

  • @Soniaraovlogs
    @Soniaraovlogs 27 днів тому +71

    Just imagine how people are fooled by our social media activities they have no idea what we deal with. Its all good when we are on camera nobody shows what’s happening for real

    • @arnelabih1845
      @arnelabih1845 27 днів тому +7

      And they shouldn't problems your life should be private not for the world to know

    • @aj__love5919
      @aj__love5919 26 днів тому +2

      That is scary how some thing just because people show happy life online it’s real? Nope there are stories behind that picture so people just take care of yourself ♥️

    • @zimasubhan8116
      @zimasubhan8116 26 днів тому

      Well I mean she likes the attention n her life out there. Nobody put a gun to her head to b on UA-cam n model with a hijab on. Now playing the victim. A complete malignant narcissistic person. Playing the victim card.

    • @SA-xm8xk
      @SA-xm8xk 24 дні тому +2

      When you create a perception for others who is to blame? Fools leading fools.

    • @ankank2990
      @ankank2990 8 днів тому

      What happened to her

  • @qurandawahlive
    @qurandawahlive 15 днів тому +2

    She is so young mashAllah!! ❤❤❤

  • @ba-abada.1586
    @ba-abada.1586 9 днів тому +2

    Your courage is amazing. i dont know what happened to you and Khalid but this should not bring you down. pick the pieces and move on. you are lucky compared to most of people in U.A.E. that enough to make you happy. give yourself a break and move on.

  • @oromochic1993
    @oromochic1993 27 днів тому +32

    Everyone is on their own journey in life i wish her peace❤

  • @angieluna2415
    @angieluna2415 24 дні тому +1

    I love Salama personality!

  • @fatimahshd7012
    @fatimahshd7012 Місяць тому +28

    She’s so soft spoken 🥹

  • @violetayaneva8328
    @violetayaneva8328 15 днів тому +2

    Now this is a WOMAN that mzkes you proud even if you dont know her personaly.True, authentic, natural ....❤❤❤

  • @HelenWeldeslase
    @HelenWeldeslase 16 днів тому +2

    Waw I really loved it success is when a woman arrives without makeup ❤

  • @Saythe5951
    @Saythe5951 18 днів тому +1

    Lovely lady......God bless her❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏

  • @ZarAvril0823
    @ZarAvril0823 17 днів тому +1

    She has an aura that I like❤

  • @notrororo
    @notrororo Місяць тому +5

    Beautiful talk!

  • @sitteiaynaacmad3866
    @sitteiaynaacmad3866 25 днів тому +7

    My inner child is hunting me big time. It's sad when you're there for people and no one is there for you. 😭😭😭 #bighug

  • @bjmr1234
    @bjmr1234 27 днів тому +11

    I love her as she has a beautiful soul.

  • @user-xs7fz5ym3x
    @user-xs7fz5ym3x 22 дні тому +3

    LOVE THIS SHOW LOVE YOU SHEEN

  • @RA-tb4tr
    @RA-tb4tr Місяць тому +6

    It would be nice if you could link Salama’s socials and products to the description

  • @kamalahasanmoorthy2066
    @kamalahasanmoorthy2066 Місяць тому +5

    "*God Bless Everyone Take Care All Long Lives 100 years and above all*"

  • @DIP4K
    @DIP4K 16 днів тому +3

    she ooozes class
    tone of voice
    mannerism

  • @FacelessMommy
    @FacelessMommy 23 дні тому +2

    I wud love to be in her team... ❤ shes beautiful inside out mashaAllah ❤

  • @qurandawahlive
    @qurandawahlive 15 днів тому +1

    Wowww mashAllah very very nice broadcast

  • @DomDollx
    @DomDollx 21 день тому +11

    I loved this interview, Salama being permitted and being invited to speak w/o interruptions or being talked over.
    I loved having Salama in all the KA videos and they are not the same w/o you, Queen. I appteciate that you seem like a calm quiet person who finally leanred to bring your voice forward, to be heard, to be seen.
    Everything she speaks here reflects volumes about yhe importance of not being overpowered by the waves thrown by others and riding the wave for yourself while serving others w the skills God gave you to shine.
    I pray for success for you Salama and all the self appointed YT gurus soeculating about her marriage has no right. None of you know anything and esp brothers stating they should get back together lol please stop.
    Divorce is legal in Islam, it is permitted. They did not make a scene and they did not invite speculation. Leave them alone. Let them build their lives that is best for them.
    Yes social media is not where you put your business. The couple did everything on screen as respectfully as can be done. They are in a diff stage in life and may each be happy and successful.
    All the best to each of you. Ty for this podcast w Salama. I love her name and everything she has shown and represents on screen for other women to follow.
    Remember they're all human. Be your own guru and find guifance in God/your Creator.

    • @ScathednTorn
      @ScathednTorn 17 днів тому +1

      They have not announced divorce themselves

  • @amprabhleenkaur
    @amprabhleenkaur 28 днів тому +1

    Wonderful. Thank you ❤

  • @asmafassy4781
    @asmafassy4781 29 днів тому +3

    Such strong words to learn from you Salama.. 🫂 ! There was a time I wished Salama speak English but here you are as a master piece with so much of great thoughts to share ❤ Thank you Sheen for bringing her in

  • @jessesarmiento2675
    @jessesarmiento2675 15 днів тому

    A Taurus and a Sagittarius are a bad combination. Oil and water. Salama I'll give you endless Virgo hugs. She's so beautiful and her personality is great

  • @Veggivibes
    @Veggivibes 16 днів тому +1

    Adorable and inspirational lady ❤

  • @user-dm3ir3cl6t
    @user-dm3ir3cl6t Місяць тому +4

    Love it 🥰

  • @lifedchannel629
    @lifedchannel629 10 годин тому

    I love your work....

  • @zuleighaabderoef5094
    @zuleighaabderoef5094 23 дні тому

    Really lovely!

  • @Shilaxii
    @Shilaxii Місяць тому +4

    awww two fav person ❤

  • @Acnt12
    @Acnt12 15 днів тому +3

    Finally I found someone who thinks like me mentally 😪😪

  • @Thahaseen-kp3hv
    @Thahaseen-kp3hv 21 день тому +3

    Is it just me or is Salama the quickest in putting on a hijab beautifully 🎉

    • @Lulu646
      @Lulu646 20 днів тому +4

      It’s not a hijab 🧕🏻 btw her hair is showing in the front ( hijab is supposed to cover all the hair)

    • @MedinatSuleiman-lp2lz
      @MedinatSuleiman-lp2lz 14 днів тому +1

      ​@@Lulu646I wonder why she dose that. I rather not put on a hijab at all instead of covering half of the head

    • @bz2017
      @bz2017 13 днів тому

      That's not how u should wear the hijaab

    • @Lulu646
      @Lulu646 3 дні тому

      @@Blessed-Beautiful you cover how it should be covered my dear 🧕🏻, you would not be criticised.

  • @jessesarmiento2675
    @jessesarmiento2675 15 днів тому

    It's the fact that Taurus controls Sagittarius and once that happens Taurus will become frustrated and depressed. Taurus is an Earth sign that's deeply grounded. They need a partner which understands the fact that they're not social butterflies at all. Sagittarius is just the opposite. Salama it's in the starts. Flu and flu? Immune system or psychosomatic conversations. What does a flu offer your deeper self. Is it an escape mechanism?

  • @Iman_18
    @Iman_18 28 днів тому +13

    And then Allah will satisfy you as if you have never grieved ❤

  • @zakia_qamar29
    @zakia_qamar29 25 днів тому +14

    Don't post your relationship on social media. Nazar is real. You'll gonna break into pieces..........

  • @veenakhaleque8152
    @veenakhaleque8152 19 днів тому

    A strikingly beautiful and talented lady.

  • @tashyofficial
    @tashyofficial 7 днів тому

    I adore Salama❤

  • @izzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
    @izzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz 24 дні тому

    love from abudhabi

  • @FORHUMANITY.
    @FORHUMANITY. 23 дні тому +6

    Never judge something without hearing the other side there’s always 2 side of a story

    • @fathinuur4639
      @fathinuur4639 21 день тому +1

      What story? 😂 she never mentioned anyone or blamed anyone 🙄😂

  • @KeyaanAli
    @KeyaanAli 9 днів тому +6

    Is Salama divorced confirmed? Man they were a perfect couple but I guess what u see from outside isn’t how it is for real

    • @RinatRocks
      @RinatRocks 3 дні тому

      of course...take the on camera stuff with more than a pinch of salt... dont be in a rush to label people as perfect couple n what not... those things are not easy to achieve

  • @SallyMiso-wz8zi
    @SallyMiso-wz8zi Місяць тому +4

    I love you Salama.

  • @fiori_norit1991
    @fiori_norit1991 10 днів тому +1

    SALAMA beautiful quality person ❤

  • @HalimaEmam-mj4oz
    @HalimaEmam-mj4oz Місяць тому +6

    I LOVE SALAMA❤🎉❤🎁😍😘😚

  • @ishatariq9422
    @ishatariq9422 Місяць тому +8

    salama is just much a vibe mashalllah

  • @jumanahaseen8816
    @jumanahaseen8816 27 днів тому +1

    A real women talk..shows how similar our problems are

  • @ahmadzahra7018
    @ahmadzahra7018 20 днів тому +4

    Salama hugs

  • @djFire786
    @djFire786 27 днів тому +1

    Salama I love you

  • @raegitano6345
    @raegitano6345 19 днів тому

    Where is Salama from?

  • @faheema.daniels.2163
    @faheema.daniels.2163 15 днів тому +4

    Sephora is on the BDS list! Boycott Sephora❤🖤💚🍉🍉🍉🇿🇦‼️

  • @rahelztzion
    @rahelztzion 18 днів тому

    I think she is deeper...thats a problem by it self other than being good too...

  • @manno666
    @manno666 26 днів тому

    Great salama mam from Pakistan

  • @lindamartin2764
    @lindamartin2764 9 днів тому

    I agree 🎉 you are great

  • @nidashaikh8390
    @nidashaikh8390 23 дні тому +28

    It's called Nazar (Ayn). Prophet Muhammad (saws) clearly mentioned, do not display your blessings, too much admiration causes nazar. Nazar will destroy you completely.

    • @mkrao100
      @mkrao100 14 днів тому

      How is madness prophecy?!

    • @user-dt6re7hc5j
      @user-dt6re7hc5j 7 днів тому +1

      🍃⚘️Sallahllahu alayhi wa salam ❤️

    • @ameenaaneesh6862
      @ameenaaneesh6862 4 дні тому

      It has nothing to do with Hasad. They already were on the verge of divorce earlier, as they had mentioned in one their earlier videos. They were working on it. This proves it didn't work out anyway. Additionally, knowing her nature, the last prank Khaled pulled on her in a restaurant was too much, considering her autism issues. Not all that glitters is gold. It's incredible how people assume social media lives are honest and real.

  • @Loveforbeauty442
    @Loveforbeauty442 10 днів тому +1

    Why complain really? She is a native of EUA, have beautiful family and looks that beautiful. I just hate when everyone wants to complain about life..

  • @senioradministrator657
    @senioradministrator657 12 днів тому +1

    Salama my dear! There’s a noticeable sadness.
    Your humorous self is missing . Take care sweetheart . You matter . 🙏

  • @pumas2288
    @pumas2288 19 днів тому +3

    Did she get divorced?

  • @ashdesigns869
    @ashdesigns869 22 дні тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @imbisaatgeti-lu4sy
    @imbisaatgeti-lu4sy 17 днів тому +7

    Why she is silent on Palestine?

  • @bushradad2755
    @bushradad2755 24 дні тому

    ♥️

  • @ibnadam5789
    @ibnadam5789 24 дні тому +2

    Are they really divorced and why

  • @AyeZik_ail
    @AyeZik_ail 22 дні тому +5

    Why does everyone nowadays have same thoughts and same thing to say. It looks as if someone just put words in their mouth or they learn it by heart.

    • @MyTerraincognita1
      @MyTerraincognita1 22 дні тому +1

      Exactly. She comes across as if she received the same Media trainer as the Kardashians .... FAKE

  • @dialisa6137
    @dialisa6137 19 днів тому +1

    I, I, I, me, me, me, my this, my that …. 🙄 what a patient interviewer …

    • @dekaahmed3065
      @dekaahmed3065 10 днів тому +1

      It’s not about the interviewer it’s about salama stop ✋

  • @Maria-ol4rm
    @Maria-ol4rm 14 днів тому

    Does she talk about Khalid?

  • @aishatumusa420
    @aishatumusa420 20 днів тому +2

    I am in my 30s, a mom of two..full time housewife, an unemployed husband..I am stuck and I don't know who I really am..How can I discover my true self and become successful?

    • @serkserk8422
      @serkserk8422 19 днів тому +3

      You need a job

    • @aishatumusa420
      @aishatumusa420 19 днів тому

      @@serkserk8422 Thanks..you have no idea how many places i have drop my CV..i am still going out everyday...as a foreigner in another country it is hard to be hired

    • @shalonvhera199
      @shalonvhera199 16 днів тому

      Try to get a job first

  • @user-hx8mw7lg4c
    @user-hx8mw7lg4c 24 дні тому +1

    When you get too high lighted in the society specially women
    They are mostly like to complain about their immediate family
    Coz others become good and they can say any thing bad and the husband or parennt does it its bad
    Thinking one day there is a hero waiting in. Future .
    By that time you hVe missed the best part of your life and luving a lonely life with lots money

  • @barbaracanterbury8533
    @barbaracanterbury8533 19 днів тому +1

    👍👍👍

  • @rachidanait707
    @rachidanait707 9 днів тому

    Worldly things

  • @syedazhar4856
    @syedazhar4856 17 днів тому

    🌟

  • @amfhza
    @amfhza 11 днів тому

    Why they divorced ?

  • @Cookit_with_Bhoomi
    @Cookit_with_Bhoomi 23 дні тому +4

    Is it true they are divorced😢😢

  • @divyv20
    @divyv20 28 днів тому

    Hey sheen , very good video . I can do better editing in your videos which can help you to get more engagement in your videos . Pls lmk what do you think ?

  • @user-bt7jg7fg1s
    @user-bt7jg7fg1s 10 днів тому +2

    My whole heart loves Salama🥹🥹🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @jennyrayman2505
    @jennyrayman2505 9 днів тому

    So is she divorced or not?

  • @farzanakazmii
    @farzanakazmii 14 днів тому +6

    I dont find her truthful. Something is fishy about her. Doesnt feel the way she talk her words are against her personality

  • @granbelleza7875
    @granbelleza7875 17 днів тому +5

    Wait wait success of duniya is not as good as deen

  • @priusa8113
    @priusa8113 29 днів тому +10

    Where is Salama originally from?!❤

    • @hanah6431
      @hanah6431 29 днів тому

      UAE

    • @jannatul5208
      @jannatul5208 29 днів тому +1

      Somewhere from Africa.

    • @Cici_mimi
      @Cici_mimi 28 днів тому +6

      @@jannatul5208 She kinda look like Somali though. Very East African look she got.

    • @AB-lp8jd
      @AB-lp8jd 28 днів тому +9

      ​@@Cici_mimi she looks very gulf Arab

    • @yassualkathiri
      @yassualkathiri 26 днів тому +3

      She is Emirati

  • @bettyeshete7715
    @bettyeshete7715 14 днів тому +1

    What's the use of the hijab, can anyone explain ?

    • @asmr_iness
      @asmr_iness 9 днів тому

      Some type of hijab is part of culture, this one is

  • @user-to4xx3rj1m
    @user-to4xx3rj1m 18 днів тому

    People were hungry😅
    People were starving 😅
    People were hungry😅
    People were starving 😅
    Which pir😮po?

  • @TeluguConsultancyKumar
    @TeluguConsultancyKumar 15 днів тому +2

    Is this divorced or not?