My aunt reached out to the corner of room and said:" Mommy, wait for me, I'm coming." 1 hour later, she died. That gave me ultimate goosebumps, because my grandma and I were really close. It still give me goosebumps after all this years and I hope, when my time comes, they come to me to take me with them.
@@Lightofsoma They will 😉🙏♥️ This phenomenon is well know on hospices around the world, "the death bed reach" Right before people are dying they often see loved ones & are reaching out to em, yea even talking to em♥️ Seems like the angels (or the deceased loved ones) They're waiting to take the dying person further/help em pass over. Atleast that's the theory & i belive that for sure 😉 ♥️
My father passed a month ago- he had all the signs just be fore he passed, the reach, the breathing, the gurgle, he didn’t speak until I asked him if he was ok he said “I’m happy” a few hours later my mother said goodnight to him and he said “I love you sweetheart” and passed 10 minutes later. They were married for 66 years. Thank you Julie for helping us understand this beautiful ending to life.❤
My MIL was actively dying and did respond. She was trying to follow our dog. Unbeknownst to her, our dog passed away not long before she did. We never told her, but she told us she was trying to catch him.
I know in ICU Nurse. He said the most peaceful deaths he ever saw where the people that died instantly of cardiac arrest. I guess we can all hope to go so quickly.
My father also died suddenly from cardiac arrest at age 65. I have long wondered whether he suffered at all. It comforts me to think that he didn't, that it was over quickly. He was a doer of a person, always in motion, and I know that, given the choice, this is how he would have wanted to go.
True!!! I experienced that with my grandma.. she was 96 and took her 16 days. It was so so long. And I thought the same.. it's hard to die damnit. But she left this world in peace 😊
I nursed both of my parents through cancer (they died a year apart) and I was with them when they passed. My dad was unconscious for 5 days leading up to his death but had terminal lucidity just before he died. I thought he was "coming round"...silly really, but i didn't know. He opened his eyes, wide, and was looking behind me and pointing. I think his mum and brother came to get him. He kept saying "look! Look!" It was beautiful.....he then had the death rattle and passed. It all happened so quickly. With my mum it was completely different. She went downhill very quickly, and they couldn't manage her pain at home, so she went into hospice....we travelled with her in the ambulance.....it was so hard to see her in that amount of pain and they had to take her to A&E first until there was a bed for her at the hospice. Luckily it was sorted within 20 minutes and the second we got her to the hospice everything changed. The hospice staff were AMAZING....they prioritised her pain meds and she was immediately peaceful, and passed within a couple of hours. She just looked like she was sleeping...and passed that way. I couldn't get over how different their deaths were. They were awesome parents. They died 20 years ago and I think of them every single day.....with a smile on my face.. remembering how lucky I was to have them. 💙🩷
My husband died almost three months ago. While in the hospital, he became very agitated and I had no idea what was happening. We were all there at the end of his life and thanks to your videos I understand now that he was already seeing things that only he could see also. He actually had a feeling he was dying and had been watching your videos the last few months of his life so he knew what to expect. I was surprised because I have been watching your videos over the past year and never mentioned that to him. Thank you for what you do. It was still a hard thing to witness, but so glad we were there with him in the end. Thank you for your videos.
Thank you Julie for teaching us and letting us know what to expect. I really appreciate you so much . When my mom passed away she didn't look at us and now I understand why . It's great you are teaching us . Thank you.
This channel was a god send. When my mom was at the end of her life after a sudden but brief illness, I watched some of Julies videos while at the hospital and was educated on the "scary" but normal parts of actively dying. When my moms final moments came, i was able to be present for her, to comfort her, and sing her the lullabyes she sang to me as a child, rather than be scared or confused at what was happening.
I’m a hospice chaplain. Thank you for these wonderful video bites and education. You are spot on… most people have no clue what to expect at the end. Bless you ❤
A close relative of ours recorded video of their mother-in-law last breaths. After reviewing the video on slow motion they discovered tiny white glowing orbs leaving the deceased woman's body. This took place as prayers were offered for her to be taken to heaven. There is no death, only departure from out bodies.
My sister had a massive stroke three days ago and has been on life support since, today my brother, Mother, her husband, and her 12-year-old daughter and 13-year-old son will turn off all life support, that would have been what she wanted. Thank you for your videos, which have helped me with the loss of my father 11 months ago and are helping me now. you are an earthy Angel.
@@hospicenursejulie Thank you for showing this so I have another perspective on what to expect. I’ve witnessed similar situations with loved ones and want peace and dignity for my imminent departure. I’m chronic to terminal fading away taking very good care of myself alone after too many toxic hospital and doctor encounters besides their reliance on vagaries and ‘uncertainty’. -Best to you and so many facing their mortality.
My dad rationally talked and answered questions till about 2 hours before he passed. His whole dying phase was extraordinary to begin with. Thanks for sharing Julie ❤
In my culture ( which is New Mexico Hispanic) the whole family is there with our dying people, as soon as they die we tie a scarf around their jaw and head to close the mouth. Just something we have always done. Just an long life practice I have seen for many years. I am so glad I have found you and your wonderful insight. I have two of your wonderful books. Julie thank you for being you. You are an angel on earth, put here to help people not fear the end of life.
Julie I can't thank you enough for videos like this one. My Mom passed exactly one week ago and I had the wonderful gift of being by her side without anxiety and upset because I knew what I was seeing. I walked into her room and she was already unconscious with terminal secretions. She subsequently had Cheyne-Stokes breathing then, with a couple of soft breaths she departed. After suffering with dementia, I couldn't wish her to stay. It was the privilege of my life to get to tell her everything I needed to say and visualize my Dad swooping down to catch her in his arms again. The hardest part for me was leaving her for the last time. I kept going back to hug and kiss her saying, "I'm never going to see you again...".
I was there the day my mum died. I held her hand as she was dying. She did the death rattle then she passed. This was 4 weeks after my father died. Both from cancer. They died a year ago. Will never forget my parents death
I'm so sorry! A good friend of mine lost his parents close together, it's one of my biggest fears. Losing either parent ever is hard but to lose them both so close together must have been horrible. Prayers for you and virtual hugs!! ❤️🩹🙏🫂
I LOVE that the family during the "death reach" video asked who it was that she was reaching for. They were with her in that moment and validated what she was feeling and seeing. I can only imagine the peace that brought to their loved one. For 2 days before my mom died, she was seeing her brothers, father, and pets in the corner of her hospice room.... she would just stare at the corner and when we said our final good byes, we told her that it was ok to go to them and I believe that brought her peace. Thank you so much for sharing!!!
@hospicenursejulie : Hi Nurse Julie. I am 46 yrs old and have been freakin scared of dying for as long as I remembered, thinking about it every single day, more so since my dad died unexpectedly from a fatal heart attack and since my total car wreck accident 2yrs ago. BUT, after all I've tried, my curiosity for it has always been stronger than my fear of it. And thanful to you, dear Nurse Julie, I finally calmed myself down while educating myself, watching your videos. Ignorance drives the strongest of fears sometimes, and these videos just debunk it. You got to make me feel at least 70% less afraid of death. I will always be grateful to you in the most sincere way for this. Thank you ❤. A follower from Québec City, Canada.
It’s comforting to see someone else who watches her for similar reasons. I’ve been through a lot of abuse and trauma ever since I was a baby and I think that made an anxious child as some of my first memories are me laying in bed with a pit in my stomach thinking about how I’m going to die and seeing the St. Jude commercials and having medical anxiety as a toddler. I do not process death well. I have had a lot of animal companions die or be killed tragically due to the dysfunction of the family I was born into. I have attempted suicide multiple times over the past 2 yrs as recent as last August after my what I thought would be my forever dog, died unexpectedly and I had to watch and I could do nothing but scream and beg for her not to leave me alone here. There’s a lot of stressors in my home and I often think this is it I’m going to end my life I can’t handle the hurt and the pain, but in all honesty I am terrified of death!! After the most recent death of my dog my death and medical anxieties have peaked, becoming as intense as the anxieties and meltdowns I have as trauma responses. I’ve talked to my therapist about this lately and I’m terrified of not being here the unknown of it, because I love life I really do. I love the beauty of this world despite the bad things I love spending time with my animals and the little things being in nature creating art reading it’s all so great to me. When I feel suicidal it’s just wanting the overwhelming emotions to stop not my life. My last attempt i told someone because I had started feeling really funny and the reality of it all set in and I was beyond terrified of that being my final moments. And processing the deaths of others is so hard, my pup I mentioned before j sleep with her urn and I’ve taken her ashes out (they’re in a satin bag) only twice now but each time it is such a surreal feeling like my brain cannot process this is what’s left of the animal i love so dearly. My anxieties extend to my loved ones. Despite the bad things he has done I dread my father dying, I am terrified my bf is going to drink himself to death, I am terrified my baby sister will pass due to her medical conditions, and just knowing the mortality of it all in this cruel world is beyond scary to me. I too got in a very bad car accident two years ago I am blessed to have walked away everyone was beyond confused and so thankful I was okay after they seen the condition of my vehicle. I honestly think if my first car had been smaller I wouldn’t have made it as the whole frame was crushed into itself in the front the glass around the windshield was shattered and spiderwebbing but did not shatter onto me by the grace of the powers that be. In the moment of said car accident there was a bright light and then everything went black for me as my car spun out of the icy road I think my brain was just in such shock, because I was always a careful driver because I was and now even more so terrified of car accidents. I don’t remember a lot but in the moment it happened I remember the smell and after that incident I think was really the starting point of my increased anxiety about death, especially sudden death. I’m the type of person that wants to know the whys and hows of everything and with death we can believe and have faith in all the things we THINK we know but nobody really knows so it’s so scary for me. So I too, like with other things I do not understand, just feed myself this type of content of trying to understand it all to try to be more comfortable with the idea of it all. It’s very uncomfortable honestly get triggered but at the same time there is comfort in putting some sort of logic to have some sort of expectation or understanding of this experience we all inevitably will go through
But I also believe that what Buddha says is true, the cause of all suffering ultimately is attachment. I am not a very materialistic or needy person but I still have my attachments that make me suffer, including the attachments to people and my love for them, and to this life and experiencing life through my eyes. So I try to understand so I’m not as afraid as I am now, so that maybe one day I won’t be so attached to the this living world and can be more comfortable transitioning into whatever is next. It’s all a very surreal topic
I remember sitting by my mother's side as she passed away..now it's almost 4yrs later and I still miss her..I think you're doing a wonderful thing Julie,may God bless you
My dad has been in home hospice for about a month, and lately he's done everything seen in this video. I've spent hours with him talking and helping him with whatever he needs. Last night was a particularly bad night and my mom woke me up at 3AM to help get him properly situated in bed. He was mostly incoherent during this time. After everything properly positioned, I turned off the lights and parked myself in a nearby chair. An hour or so passed and he was mumbling a little, like he was dreaming. Then, all of a sudden, in a loud, clear voice he said, "I'm not going!" and went back to sleep. The next day he seemed to be a little more lucid and he hanging on. Thank you Julie and all of the Hospice nurses and staff for the work you do!
This is comforting- our beloved dog went through a hospice period- and suddenly transitioned to active dying over a 12 hour period just a few weeks ago. I knew he was dying, but did not attach all the changes in his body such as losing muscle control, eyes staying open and paradoxical breathing. He had kept eating which confused me. He died before our at home euthanasia vet visit by 6 hours. We questioned whether he was in distress during his final hours, he wasn't. Bye Rufus- see you later good boy. Thank you for teaching us important life lessons, even as you left.
Whenever you are ready, PLEASE adopt again - a shelter dog - I volunteer sometimes and it is soooo painful to see how many healthy, young dogs are being euthanized due to no space at shelters and imbecile humans shopping for dogs at puppy mills and breeder$. Terrible.
Ty everyone needs to be educated I wish I'd have had you when my mom and dad were passing. At 49 and 51 my parents passed. Dad of bladder cancer and mama 51 OF AML. I just wished I'd had some education
I was with my brother when he passed away on May 1st of this year on his 38th birthday. It was so unreal and wasn't expecting things to happen the way they happened. I made it there 10 minutes before he passed. He was bluish purple, eyes closed, and slow breathing. He was burning up. He had brain cancer. When he passed his color went back to normal after. It was very peaceful but so sad he passed so young. Love and miss him 💚
The only wish my Mother had for decades was to be at home. It was an honor to me when she said it was ok for me to take care of her to the end. The only thing Hospice could do according to her wishes was to bring pain meds. Forever will I love her and appreciate the opportunity to be there with her for the last months. All of your videos are wonderful, putting the actual way life happens helps so many people. Keep up the good work and loving care you provide, you truly are an Angel of mercy.
Dying is an active Process, like wise Birthing process. Normally our Bodies know how to execute those two functions - the day we receive our breath and the day we give it all up! Precious moments to sit with our actively dying loved ones, one last time, such a blessing 🙏🙌😇
We unfortunately lost a very special woman today due to leukemia. She fought so hard for 6 years to stay here. I may be sad and grieving but I know she is at peace now and not suffering anymore ❤
I live in Canada & I’m a palliative care nurse in a nursing home. You really put so much thought, care & compassion into your videos & I think these would be beneficial for families to see ahead so it’s not such a shock. It’s still sad & shocking to see a family member pass away but these videos are so beautifully done that I think knowing what you teach would be more comforting & less scary when the time comes! ❤
My sister passed August 29, 2024. She had Alzheimer’s, but she was otherwise healthy. Her kids ditched her 5 years ago when they found out that she didn’t have any money, so my brothers, their wives, and my husband and I looked after her. What did her in was her broken heart because of her kids. She asked every time we saw her if we knew what she did to her kids. We had to put her in a nursing home, and she just gave up on life. She had hospice, and they helped us to understand what was going on, as did your videos. She said that her knee hurt, and they sent her to the ER 3 times and there was nothing wrong with her knee. Then she refused to get out of bed, and she wouldn’t eat. She started actively dying, and she passed during the night when we weren’t there. I feel horrible that she was alone, but I know that my mom, dad, and my other sister were there to meet her. I do have some guilt about her being alone. Her mouth had been moving like she was quietly talking to someone when we left. Even though I know that she’s better off in Heaven, I miss her every day.🙏❤️😢
Darling I'm so sorry. I think boys are extra close to their mums. I have a grown son and I am a single parent. When I pass, I hope to be able to watch over him and I'll want to see him smiling. Sending love to you from the UK. 💜
My boyfriend was looking after an elderly friend that was at the end of life at her home one evening she was just acting normal like any other day eating talking then the evening help came were adjusting her in her bed then she just passed away no signs or nothing different
Your videos are so well done and educational. My friend's grandmother was dying and she told me her parents had never experienced losing someone. I suggested your videos, which they watched several of before seeing her for the last times, and they were very grateful for having watched them as it really helped them know what to expect. Thank you, you do a great service!
My mom WAS in extreme pain. She was screaming “help me, help me”…until she could only whisper it. It was like your one bad day when you said the man was suffocating and he had a DNR and DNI. You were crying in the video. That was the description of my mom’s death.
I wish I had found your videos before my mom died. I cared for her at the end of her life, alongside hospice, who came in several times a week to help, and I was terrified in her last days. I wasn't prepared. I didn't know what active dying was, despite googling a lot as it was happening. I felt traumatized. The sounds, the breathing, not knowing If I was doing the right things. I do remember sitting with my mother after she died and not calling hospice right away and they were pretty mad, which was disappointing to me. I was grieving. I wasn't thinking about the time. Overall, most of the hospice people were great.
My mom died 2 years ago and your videos helped me know what to expect. Now I am in nursing school planning on working in hospice when I graduate and pass my NCLEX
My sister just slept the last 3 days then suddenly she became very agitated. She sat up, gasped for breath, opened her eyes, tried to talk for about 30 seconds then passed !! Very traumatic zzz
As a retired long-term care nurse I have seen these things happen many times. I firmly believe that when a person is getting near death the veil between this life and the next becomes very thin and for some people the Lord allows the person to see across, and talk to their loved ones, or friends who have gone on ahead of them. I look forward to the day I can see my dad again. He was an accomplished organist. I know he's playing an organ in Heaven right now. An interesting side note. Here in the south when a person passed away, the family would sometimes open the window. The belief is that allows the spirit to leave. Maybe it's not just a southern thing, I don't know. I always thought it was interesting.
It’s been 30 days since my husband passed at home in hospice. They admitted him to at home August 12 and he died August 29 on his birthday and he did all of those things that you show in the videos and another thing I noticed that she had in her eyes and it’s something that he, had in his eyes was a cloudy look in the eyes. His eyes were no longer very clear, but I am so thankful for your videos, even though it was still hard I knew what was normal or what to expect, even though it was still hard to go through.
I love watching your channel. I have a friend who quotes her "old timey Tennessee preacher" as saying "It ain't the bein' dead that bothers me, it's the gettin' dead." I think that's probably true for a lot of us, but the information you've shared has cleared up a lot of misgivings, incorrect information and expectations of suffering. I have MS, and at 67 years old, I know it's time to start thinking of getting my poop together, making sure my family knows my wishes, and whether it's a day or a couple of decades from now, I plan on being ready to go Home. Thanks for all you do to inform us.
Thank you Julie I love you for what you do and what I've learned from you 🙏 I'm 50 years old and inspired by your work to just give everything I have and not worry about the future or the prospect of dying. You have helped me move forward with my life. Thank you again
Thanks to you Julie, I knew when my precious mam was passing and it enabled me to call my dad- so we could all be together as she departed this world. I cannot relay just how much that means to us all. Gid bless you 🙏 xxxxxxxxx
Even though i have seem this so many times working in end of life care.i am privaliged to be able to care for my mother for the last year of her life.these vidios remind me of the process of death and i am so glad to view these so that i can help my mum thoughout the whole process making it as peaceful as possible..thank you for these vidios.
Thank you for this video. This should be shown to everybody. Death is part of our live, and if we could not or would not die, we could not live. I worked in an old peoples home, where we accompanied people during their last journey, and it truly is a journey. We can help giving them the environment they need to prepare. When my dad died I was at his side and sadly the ladies from that old peoples home told, that it is very seldom the relatives join in to accompany them. They are simply left alone. One nurse was outstanding. She explained a lot as she was very experienced and in her sixties and it was exciting and a bliss, that I could talk to her. What amazed me most was how calm she was among all those people and how she could answer all questions. This knowledge should be thought to everyone. I asked her, why so many are in a "between the worlds state" quit long. And she told, they are cleaning up, organizing and assimilating to be able to go the next step. Amazing. Thank you again for your videos. They are very important and educational. Everyone should watch them.
I want to say thank you for all the videos you make, and the information that you put out there. My mother had dementia for about three years now and has been in a nursing facility. watching your videos educated me on what I could expect from mom throughout her dementia and also at her death which just happened on September 23, 2024. Keep making your videos because it prepared me for what was going to happen and I don’t want to say that it made it easier, but it was much more bearable.
Thank you Sister Julie I watched your videos since I've got the news my Mother got cancer she stayed with me she died on the 9th of June 2024 this helped me a lot thank you so much I'm from South Africa thank you again I was well prepared she died in her bed.
Thank you for sharing your knowledge and the videos that have been shared with you. My mother passed last week. Watching your videos helped me understand what was occurring.
I was afraid to watch the video but I'm so glad I did. I was imagining something much different, even after reading about death in college, I was still imagining emotions and experiences that aren't even close to what the process looks like in the videos that Julie shares. This has given me a more realistic understanding, and I feel like I'll actually be able to be there for my family when they are dying, without being traumatized by imagining what they are going through.
That terminal agitation is what my uncle would do as he was actively dying. I didn’t know that is what it was called. When that would happen he would look over at me make an eye movement like an eye brow movement) and I’d just make a “shhh” noise and say “you’re ok. Everything is ok” and he’d calm down and go back to sleep. Yea hospice was involved but not everything was explained. Again grateful for these videos to help me understand all I was seeing 2 yrs ago. And now I have the knowledge to understand as my father gets older and my family starts thinking about hospice for him. Thank you
My mother just passed away on August 11, 2024. Before I watched any of your videos, I didn't know what to expect, due to not knowing much about death stages. After, watching your videos, I was able to understand the death stages of my mother's death, which help me to be strong and accept death in a calmer way, instead of going crazy. Thanks to you, Julie, you helped me a lot with understanding. Thank you.
If your videos are still available when it's my time to go, I'm going to point my children here. I've been with loved ones when they've passed, and even though the nurse did her best to let me know what to expect, it would have been so much better if I'd been prepared with videos like yours. Thank you for your compassionate and important work.
Sorry if you've already covered this, but I haven't seen it in any of your videos. My husband died last year from AML. His hospice team was great, but there was one thing they didn't prepare us for. He started bleeding into his lungs - seeing so much blood suddenly coming up was unexpected and very disturbing. There was a delay in helping him to be more comfortable, because we had to get in touch with his nurse to find out what to do. It would have been better to know in advance that this could happen, and how to handle it.
Thank you. Three sisters in hospice (each of them out of state, 2021, 2022, 2023). Watched on zoom and was soooo mad that no one was doing anything, just waiting for them TO DIE! I hated Hospice!, worthless! I was still struggling to come to terms with it when my husband had bronchitis that turned to pneumonia. He was transferred from the hospital to hospice (my husband didn't have insurance and the bill was already at $300K, they also told us they needed the bed). I knew he was a dead man and sure enough, after 4 days in hospice, he was dead. This was a specialty hospital. None of what you talk about described what my husband went through. He was coherent, knew what was happening and was ready to come home. We watched TV until he fell asleep. 2 hours later, his blood pressure dropped and because he signed a DNR there was nothing more they could do. Eventually, his heart stopped and he was gone. BUT your explanation here gives me closure with my sisters because that is exactly how they departed this life. Thank you!
My father took 8 weeks to pass from end-stage cancer. Thankfully he didn't physically suffer any pain and his actual passing was quick in the end, very little in way of "symptoms" beyond discoloured fingers. We checked on him at 9.30pm that night and he was sleeping, we went back up at 11pm and he'd gone, as he wished, undisturbed in the comfort of his own bed at home. All we can assume is that his heart just stopped as a result of his slow wasting from the illness.
My grandma just died a week ago today. She did all these and in her last moments she was able to give my momma a smile. My mom asked her if she was ready and she also whispered yes.
May almighty God have mercy on the soul of this woman. I trust and believe she was surrounded by people who loved her and who she loved throughout her life's journey
My aunt reached out to the corner of room and said:" Mommy, wait for me, I'm coming." 1 hour later, she died.
That gave me ultimate goosebumps, because my grandma and I were really close. It still give me goosebumps after all this years and I hope, when my time comes, they come to me to take me with them.
@@Lightofsoma They will 😉🙏♥️
This phenomenon is well know on hospices around the world, "the death bed reach"
Right before people are dying they often see loved ones & are reaching out to em, yea even talking to em♥️
Seems like the angels (or the deceased loved ones)
They're waiting to take the dying person further/help em pass over. Atleast that's the theory & i belive that for sure 😉 ♥️
My father passed a month ago- he had all the signs just be fore he passed, the reach, the breathing, the gurgle, he didn’t speak until I asked him if he was ok he said “I’m happy” a few hours later my mother said goodnight to him and he said “I love you sweetheart” and passed 10 minutes later. They were married for 66 years. Thank you Julie for helping us understand this beautiful ending to life.❤
I'm sorry for your loss I lost my dad also on September 4th
My MIL was actively dying and did respond. She was trying to follow our dog. Unbeknownst to her, our dog passed away not long before she did. We never told her, but she told us she was trying to catch him.
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That's very interesting that she saw the dog that had died before her., wonderful that your dog came to welcome her to the other side.
That just gave me chills.
My husband died instantly in our bathroom. His heart just stopped and I'm glad he didn't suffer
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I know in ICU Nurse. He said the most peaceful deaths he ever saw where the people that died instantly of cardiac arrest. I guess we can all hope to go so quickly.
@@nanbarber6631 my Dad had a cardiac arrest on July 2nd. I've hoped he didn't know what was happening. I'd hate for him to have suffered.
My father also died suddenly from cardiac arrest at age 65. I have long wondered whether he suffered at all. It comforts me to think that he didn't, that it was over quickly. He was a doer of a person, always in motion, and I know that, given the choice, this is how he would have wanted to go.
My mother saw my father and brother just before her spirit left her body. When the body shuts down, the spirit and soul take over.
One of the things that one of my Dad's hospice nurses said to us, that really stuck with me was, "dying is hard work". She wasn't wrong 😢
@@archiemustachie3693 every cell in our bodies are hardwired to survive. That is wicked hard !
Yes, but the body knows how shut down to die@@kaylahall1219
True!!! I experienced that with my grandma.. she was 96 and took her 16 days. It was so so long. And I thought the same.. it's hard to die damnit. But she left this world in peace 😊
I nursed both of my parents through cancer (they died a year apart) and I was with them when they passed. My dad was unconscious for 5 days leading up to his death but had terminal lucidity just before he died. I thought he was "coming round"...silly really, but i didn't know. He opened his eyes, wide, and was looking behind me and pointing. I think his mum and brother came to get him. He kept saying "look! Look!" It was beautiful.....he then had the death rattle and passed. It all happened so quickly. With my mum it was completely different. She went downhill very quickly, and they couldn't manage her pain at home, so she went into hospice....we travelled with her in the ambulance.....it was so hard to see her in that amount of pain and they had to take her to A&E first until there was a bed for her at the hospice. Luckily it was sorted within 20 minutes and the second we got her to the hospice everything changed. The hospice staff were AMAZING....they prioritised her pain meds and she was immediately peaceful, and passed within a couple of hours. She just looked like she was sleeping...and passed that way. I couldn't get over how different their deaths were. They were awesome parents. They died 20 years ago and I think of them every single day.....with a smile on my face.. remembering how lucky I was to have them. 💙🩷
The last lady was beautiful. She went in peace knowing her family was letting her go with love.
My husband died almost three months ago. While in the hospital, he became very agitated and I had no idea what was happening. We were all there at the end of his life and thanks to your videos I understand now that he was already seeing things that only he could see also. He actually had a feeling he was dying and had been watching your videos the last few months of his life so he knew what to expect. I was surprised because I have been watching your videos over the past year and never mentioned that to him. Thank you for what you do. It was still a hard thing to witness, but so glad we were there with him in the end. Thank you for your videos.
Thank you Julie for teaching us and letting us know what to expect. I really appreciate you so much . When my mom passed away she didn't look at us and now I understand why . It's great you are teaching us . Thank you.
My prayers and condolences to you and your family. 🙏💕
I am so sorry for your loss ❤
This channel was a god send.
When my mom was at the end of her life after a sudden but brief illness, I watched some of Julies videos while at the hospital and was educated on the "scary" but normal parts of actively dying.
When my moms final moments came, i was able to be present for her, to comfort her, and sing her the lullabyes she sang to me as a child, rather than be scared or confused at what was happening.
I’m a hospice chaplain. Thank you for these wonderful video bites and education. You are spot on… most people have no clue what to expect at the end. Bless you ❤
I’m a hospice chaplain as well. What a ministry this is! God bless you in your hospice ministry!
@@jamesmatlock4280 God bless you, too! This is a wonderful ministry for sure!
A close relative of ours recorded video of their mother-in-law last breaths. After reviewing the video on slow motion they discovered tiny white glowing orbs leaving the deceased woman's body. This took place as prayers were offered for her to be taken to heaven. There is no death, only departure from out bodies.
My sister had a massive stroke three days ago and has been on life support since, today my brother, Mother, her husband, and her 12-year-old daughter and 13-year-old son will turn off all life support, that would have been what she wanted. Thank you for your videos, which have helped me with the loss of my father 11 months ago and are helping me now. you are an earthy Angel.
I am sorry for your loss
How was the turning off ceremony?
My Mom is in palliative care now. I appreciate all your videos.
I suspect, as the soul starts to depart, the person can see beyond the 4th dimension. It ain't no hallucination. Whatever she's seeing is real.
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@@hospicenursejulie Thank you for showing this so I have another perspective on what to expect. I’ve witnessed similar situations with loved ones and want peace and dignity for my imminent departure. I’m chronic to terminal fading away taking very good care of myself alone after too many toxic hospital and doctor encounters besides their reliance on vagaries and ‘uncertainty’.
-Best to you and so many facing their mortality.
Souls don’t exist
What is your proof they don't?@@EpiicxFuziion
@@EpiicxFuziion Yeah, keep tellin yourself that 🙄
Being a hospice RN caseworker, this is great reinforcement and education.
Isn't it? This channel is such a blessing, and I'm sure has helped countless people.
Thank you 💕💕💕💕
@@AmyraBatyahthank you 💕💕💕
My dad rationally talked and answered questions till about 2 hours before he passed. His whole dying phase was extraordinary to begin with.
Thanks for sharing Julie ❤
Extraordinary in which way, please, sorry just curious
In my culture ( which is New Mexico Hispanic) the whole family is there with our dying people, as soon as they die we tie a scarf around their jaw and head to close the mouth. Just something we have always done. Just an long life practice I have seen for many years. I am so glad I have found you and your wonderful insight. I have two of your wonderful books. Julie thank you for being you. You are an angel on earth, put here to help people not fear the end of life.
Julie I can't thank you enough for videos like this one. My Mom passed exactly one week ago and I had the wonderful gift of being by her side without anxiety and upset because I knew what I was seeing. I walked into her room and she was already unconscious with terminal secretions. She subsequently had Cheyne-Stokes breathing then, with a couple of soft breaths she departed. After suffering with dementia, I couldn't wish her to stay. It was the privilege of my life to get to tell her everything I needed to say and visualize my Dad swooping down to catch her in his arms again. The hardest part for me was leaving her for the last time. I kept going back to hug and kiss her saying, "I'm never going to see you again...".
She was waiting for you to say goodbye. ❤
I was there the day my mum died. I held her hand as she was dying. She did the death rattle then she passed. This was 4 weeks after my father died. Both from cancer. They died a year ago. Will never forget my parents death
Praying for your healing 🙏🥹😇
Thanks @@rencechannel2240
@@rencechannel2240 thank you
Oh dear poor thing. Hugs sent your way.
I'm so sorry! A good friend of mine lost his parents close together, it's one of my biggest fears. Losing either parent ever is hard but to lose them both so close together must have been horrible. Prayers for you and virtual hugs!! ❤️🩹🙏🫂
I LOVE that the family during the "death reach" video asked who it was that she was reaching for. They were with her in that moment and validated what she was feeling and seeing. I can only imagine the peace that brought to their loved one. For 2 days before my mom died, she was seeing her brothers, father, and pets in the corner of her hospice room.... she would just stare at the corner and when we said our final good byes, we told her that it was ok to go to them and I believe that brought her peace. Thank you so much for sharing!!!
@hospicenursejulie : Hi Nurse Julie. I am 46 yrs old and have been freakin scared of dying for as long as I remembered, thinking about it every single day, more so since my dad died unexpectedly from a fatal heart attack and since my total car wreck accident 2yrs ago. BUT, after all I've tried, my curiosity for it has always been stronger than my fear of it. And thanful to you, dear Nurse Julie, I finally calmed myself down while educating myself, watching your videos. Ignorance drives the strongest of fears sometimes, and these videos just debunk it. You got to make me feel at least 70% less afraid of death. I will always be grateful to you in the most sincere way for this. Thank you ❤. A follower from Québec City, Canada.
It’s comforting to see someone else who watches her for similar reasons. I’ve been through a lot of abuse and trauma ever since I was a baby and I think that made an anxious child as some of my first memories are me laying in bed with a pit in my stomach thinking about how I’m going to die and seeing the St. Jude commercials and having medical anxiety as a toddler. I do not process death well. I have had a lot of animal companions die or be killed tragically due to the dysfunction of the family I was born into. I have attempted suicide multiple times over the past 2 yrs as recent as last August after my what I thought would be my forever dog, died unexpectedly and I had to watch and I could do nothing but scream and beg for her not to leave me alone here. There’s a lot of stressors in my home and I often think this is it I’m going to end my life I can’t handle the hurt and the pain, but in all honesty I am terrified of death!! After the most recent death of my dog my death and medical anxieties have peaked, becoming as intense as the anxieties and meltdowns I have as trauma responses. I’ve talked to my therapist about this lately and I’m terrified of not being here the unknown of it, because I love life I really do. I love the beauty of this world despite the bad things I love spending time with my animals and the little things being in nature creating art reading it’s all so great to me. When I feel suicidal it’s just wanting the overwhelming emotions to stop not my life. My last attempt i told someone because I had started feeling really funny and the reality of it all set in and I was beyond terrified of that being my final moments. And processing the deaths of others is so hard, my pup I mentioned before j sleep with her urn and I’ve taken her ashes out (they’re in a satin bag) only twice now but each time it is such a surreal feeling like my brain cannot process this is what’s left of the animal i love so dearly. My anxieties extend to my loved ones. Despite the bad things he has done I dread my father dying, I am terrified my bf is going to drink himself to death, I am terrified my baby sister will pass due to her medical conditions, and just knowing the mortality of it all in this cruel world is beyond scary to me. I too got in a very bad car accident two years ago I am blessed to have walked away everyone was beyond confused and so thankful I was okay after they seen the condition of my vehicle. I honestly think if my first car had been smaller I wouldn’t have made it as the whole frame was crushed into itself in the front the glass around the windshield was shattered and spiderwebbing but did not shatter onto me by the grace of the powers that be. In the moment of said car accident there was a bright light and then everything went black for me as my car spun out of the icy road I think my brain was just in such shock, because I was always a careful driver because I was and now even more so terrified of car accidents. I don’t remember a lot but in the moment it happened I remember the smell and after that incident I think was really the starting point of my increased anxiety about death, especially sudden death. I’m the type of person that wants to know the whys and hows of everything and with death we can believe and have faith in all the things we THINK we know but nobody really knows so it’s so scary for me. So I too, like with other things I do not understand, just feed myself this type of content of trying to understand it all to try to be more comfortable with the idea of it all. It’s very uncomfortable honestly get triggered but at the same time there is comfort in putting some sort of logic to have some sort of expectation or understanding of this experience we all inevitably will go through
But I also believe that what Buddha says is true, the cause of all suffering ultimately is attachment. I am not a very materialistic or needy person but I still have my attachments that make me suffer, including the attachments to people and my love for them, and to this life and experiencing life through my eyes. So I try to understand so I’m not as afraid as I am now, so that maybe one day I won’t be so attached to the this living world and can be more comfortable transitioning into whatever is next. It’s all a very surreal topic
I remember sitting by my mother's side as she passed away..now it's almost 4yrs later and I still miss her..I think you're doing a wonderful thing Julie,may God bless you
My dad has been in home hospice for about a month, and lately he's done everything seen in this video. I've spent hours with him talking and helping him with whatever he needs. Last night was a particularly bad night and my mom woke me up at 3AM to help get him properly situated in bed. He was mostly incoherent during this time. After everything properly positioned, I turned off the lights and parked myself in a nearby chair. An hour or so passed and he was mumbling a little, like he was dreaming. Then, all of a sudden, in a loud, clear voice he said, "I'm not going!" and went back to sleep. The next day he seemed to be a little more lucid and he hanging on.
Thank you Julie and all of the Hospice nurses and staff for the work you do!
This is comforting- our beloved dog went through a hospice period- and suddenly transitioned to active dying over a 12 hour period just a few weeks ago. I knew he was dying, but did not attach all the changes in his body such as losing muscle control, eyes staying open and paradoxical breathing. He had kept eating which confused me. He died before our at home euthanasia vet visit by 6 hours. We questioned whether he was in distress during his final hours, he wasn't. Bye Rufus- see you later good boy. Thank you for teaching us important life lessons, even as you left.
Whenever you are ready, PLEASE adopt again - a shelter dog - I volunteer sometimes and it is soooo painful to see how many healthy, young dogs are being euthanized due to no space at shelters and imbecile humans shopping for dogs at puppy mills and breeder$. Terrible.
Ty everyone needs to be educated
I wish I'd have had you when my mom and dad were passing. At 49 and 51 my parents passed. Dad of bladder cancer and mama 51 OF AML. I just wished I'd had some education
Bless your heart.
Praying for your healing 🙏🥹😇
I was with my brother when he passed away on May 1st of this year on his 38th birthday. It was so unreal and wasn't expecting things to happen the way they happened. I made it there 10 minutes before he passed. He was bluish purple, eyes closed, and slow breathing. He was burning up. He had brain cancer. When he passed his color went back to normal after. It was very peaceful but so sad he passed so young. Love and miss him 💚
I lost my son at 38 this year to cancer. I feel for you too.
The only wish my Mother had for decades was to be at home. It was an honor to me when she said it was ok for me to take care of her to the end. The only thing Hospice could do according to her wishes was to bring pain meds. Forever will I love her and appreciate the opportunity to be there with her for the last months. All of your videos are wonderful, putting the actual way life happens helps so many people. Keep up the good work and loving care you provide, you truly are an Angel of mercy.
None of us is gonna get out alive from this life. Thank you for sharing awareness. These last moments can be precious.
Dying is an active Process, like wise Birthing process.
Normally our Bodies know how to execute those two functions - the day we receive our breath and the day we give it all up!
Precious moments to sit with our actively dying loved ones, one last time, such a blessing 🙏🙌😇
Thank you for sharing, Julie.🙏🏻👍
We unfortunately lost a very special woman today due to leukemia. She fought so hard for 6 years to stay here. I may be sad and grieving but I know she is at peace now and not suffering anymore ❤
Awww the lady who was able to speak bless her, gave me goosebumps 😢❤
This explained a lot with the details, great information to share with others!
Great to hear!
I live in Canada & I’m a palliative care nurse in a nursing home. You really put so much thought, care & compassion into your videos & I think these would be beneficial for families to see ahead so it’s not such a shock.
It’s still sad & shocking to see a family member pass away but these videos are so beautifully done that I think knowing what you teach would be more comforting & less scary when the time comes! ❤
Thank you for educating me on this side of life (or death) that never gets discussed in my circle of family and friends.
My sister passed August 29, 2024. She had Alzheimer’s, but she was otherwise healthy. Her kids ditched her 5 years ago when they found out that she didn’t have any money, so my brothers, their wives, and my husband and I looked after her. What did her in was her broken heart because of her kids. She asked every time we saw her if we knew what she did to her kids. We had to put her in a nursing home, and she just gave up on life. She had hospice, and they helped us to understand what was going on, as did your videos. She said that her knee hurt, and they sent her to the ER 3 times and there was nothing wrong with her knee. Then she refused to get out of bed, and she wouldn’t eat. She started actively dying, and she passed during the night when we weren’t there. I feel horrible that she was alone, but I know that my mom, dad, and my other sister were there to meet her. I do have some guilt about her being alone. Her mouth had been moving like she was quietly talking to someone when we left. Even though I know that she’s better off in Heaven, I miss her every day.🙏❤️😢
Very beautiful nurse just lost my mom😢 she had hospice care just passed 2 weeks ago 😢
My deepest Condolences😢🥀
@@schnurrecat ty so much
Darling I'm so sorry. I think boys are extra close to their mums. I have a grown son and I am a single parent. When I pass, I hope to be able to watch over him and I'll want to see him smiling. Sending love to you from the UK. 💜
@@violetmartha916 thank you
Sorry to get off topic but, you have a very cute doggie! Dog mom here. Love you and thank you!
I was gonna say the same thing❤
Me too!!
@vivianplumly8950 haha me too. love the pooch. She's kinda itchy check for allergies 🥰
My boyfriend was looking after an elderly friend that was at the end of life at her home one evening she was just acting normal like any other day eating talking then the evening help came were adjusting her in her bed then she just passed away no signs or nothing different
Thank You For All You Do & Share With Us...Also...Sweet & Cute Fur-Baby In The BackGround 😊
I knooowwwwww--- he was the main event 🥰😂
@@hospicenursejulie He was putting on a show!
Thank U . I saw my husband die a year ago in August . He die peacefully .
Your videos are so well done and educational.
My friend's grandmother was dying and she told me her parents had never experienced losing someone. I suggested your videos, which they watched several of before seeing her for the last times, and they were very grateful for having watched them as it really helped them know what to expect. Thank you, you do a great service!
My mom WAS in extreme pain. She was screaming “help me, help me”…until she could only whisper it. It was like your one bad day when you said the man was suffocating and he had a DNR and DNI. You were crying in the video. That was the description of my mom’s death.
Sad. When our love ones are transitioning and we don't understand there seeing the other side. ❤
I wish I had found your videos before my mom died. I cared for her at the end of her life, alongside hospice, who came in several times a week to help, and I was terrified in her last days. I wasn't prepared. I didn't know what active dying was, despite googling a lot as it was happening. I felt traumatized. The sounds, the breathing, not knowing If I was doing the right things. I do remember sitting with my mother after she died and not calling hospice right away and they were pretty mad, which was disappointing to me. I was grieving. I wasn't thinking about the time. Overall, most of the hospice people were great.
I thought i could watch this and be ok but it brought back the pain of losing my dad a month ago
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Hugs to you as you have begun this lifelong journey of grieving your father. I'm sorry for your loss. ❤ May you find comfort and peace in his memory.
Thank you Julie. You provide a tremendous service.
My mom died 2 years ago and your videos helped me know what to expect. Now I am in nursing school planning on working in hospice when I graduate and pass my NCLEX
My sister just slept the last 3 days then suddenly she became very agitated. She sat up, gasped for breath, opened her eyes, tried to talk for about 30 seconds then passed !! Very traumatic zzz
All comforting ❤️
As a retired long-term care nurse I have seen these things happen many times. I firmly believe that when a person is getting near death the veil between this life and the next becomes very thin and for some people the Lord allows the person to see across, and talk to their loved ones, or friends who have gone on ahead of them. I look forward to the day I can see my dad again. He was an accomplished organist. I know he's playing an organ in Heaven right now.
An interesting side note. Here in the south when a person passed away, the family would sometimes open the window. The belief is that allows the spirit to leave. Maybe it's not just a southern thing, I don't know. I always thought it was interesting.
It’s been 30 days since my husband passed at home in hospice. They admitted him to at home August 12 and he died August 29 on his birthday and he did all of those things that you show in the videos and another thing I noticed that she had in her eyes and it’s something that he, had in his eyes was a cloudy look in the eyes. His eyes were no longer very clear, but I am so thankful for your videos, even though it was still hard I knew what was normal or what to expect, even though it was still hard to go through.
I love watching your channel. I have a friend who quotes her "old timey Tennessee preacher" as saying "It ain't the bein' dead that bothers me, it's the gettin' dead." I think that's probably true for a lot of us, but the information you've shared has cleared up a lot of misgivings, incorrect information and expectations of suffering. I have MS, and at 67 years old, I know it's time to start thinking of getting my poop together, making sure my family knows my wishes, and whether it's a day or a couple of decades from now, I plan on being ready to go Home. Thanks for all you do to inform us.
Nurse Julie I would just like to offer you all the love in the world for your ministry here on earth. You truly are heaven sent 🙏
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Thank you Julie I love you for what you do and what I've learned from you 🙏 I'm 50 years old and inspired by your work to just give everything I have and not worry about the future or the prospect of dying. You have helped me move forward with my life. Thank you again
One of the best videos, Julie. Showed things very clearly.. thank you so much.
Thanks to you Julie, I knew when my precious mam was passing and it enabled me to call my dad- so we could all be together as she departed this world.
I cannot relay just how much that means to us all.
Gid bless you 🙏 xxxxxxxxx
Even though i have seem this so many times working in end of life care.i am privaliged to be able to care for my mother for the last year of her life.these vidios remind me of the process of death and i am so glad to view these so that i can help my mum thoughout the whole process making it as peaceful as possible..thank you for these vidios.
Thank you for this video. This should be shown to everybody. Death is part of our live, and if we could not or would not die, we could not live. I worked in an old peoples home, where we accompanied people during their last journey, and it truly is a journey. We can help giving them the environment they need to prepare. When my dad died I was at his side and sadly the ladies from that old peoples home told, that it is very seldom the relatives join in to accompany them. They are simply left alone. One nurse was outstanding. She explained a lot as she was very experienced and in her sixties and it was exciting and a bliss, that I could talk to her. What amazed me most was how calm she was among all those people and how she could answer all questions. This knowledge should be thought to everyone. I asked her, why so many are in a "between the worlds state" quit long. And she told, they are cleaning up, organizing and assimilating to be able to go the next step. Amazing.
Thank you again for your videos. They are very important and educational. Everyone should watch them.
Thank you for showing us. This information we need.
All your clips are good, Julie, but I think this one really takes the cake. Thank you
I want to say thank you for all the videos you make, and the information that you put out there. My mother had dementia for about three years now and has been in a nursing facility. watching your videos educated me on what I could expect from mom throughout her dementia and also at her death which just happened on September 23, 2024. Keep making your videos because it prepared me for what was going to happen and I don’t want to say that it made it easier, but it was much more bearable.
Thank you Sister Julie I watched your videos since I've got the news my Mother got cancer she stayed with me she died on the 9th of June 2024 this helped me a lot thank you so much I'm from South Africa thank you again I was well prepared she died in her bed.
Thank you for these videos, Nurse Julie.
They are precious! 🌻
Thank you for these videos. At 75 I know my time is limited and it comforts me to know what might happen. I feel ready and not afraid. 🎶🐦
Thanks for showing Julie. Idk how you do this everyday. God Bless You.
Thank you for all you do…and loved your doggie playing a part in this one too😊
Dealing with a few years of losing people I love, your content has been infinitely helpful in building my understanding. Thank you
Lost my mom april 14th and did exactly that. Lost my dad April 2010 and he was hallcucinating seeing people that were gone for years
The wave was indeed comforting. Thank you and all the families for allowing us to share these precious last moments.
Exactly when my mom died, a smile came on her face. I knew she was in a better place.
Julie, you are an EARTH ANGEL. Thank you for your work, your videos and your book. 💖
Thankyou Julie I wish I discovered before my hubby passed. Though he went peacefully. Cannot thank Hospice enough for their support. ❤
This is the first time I've noticed your little dog in the videos! Really enjoyed seeing that cutie!❤
Hank you Nurse Julie you are helping so many people🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank you for such compassionate, informative posts. Great information.
Thank you for sharing your knowledge and the videos that have been shared with you. My mother passed last week. Watching your videos helped me understand what was occurring.
I was afraid to watch the video but I'm so glad I did. I was imagining something much different, even after reading about death in college, I was still imagining emotions and experiences that aren't even close to what the process looks like in the videos that Julie shares. This has given me a more realistic understanding, and I feel like I'll actually be able to be there for my family when they are dying, without being traumatized by imagining what they are going through.
Hey thank you for the sharing with us ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for this video Nurse Julie. 🙏🏼❣️🍀
That terminal agitation is what my uncle would do as he was actively dying. I didn’t know that is what it was called. When that would happen he would look over at me make an eye movement like an eye brow movement) and I’d just make a “shhh” noise and say “you’re ok. Everything is ok” and he’d calm down and go back to sleep. Yea hospice was involved but not everything was explained. Again grateful for these videos to help me understand all I was seeing 2 yrs ago. And now I have the knowledge to understand as my father gets older and my family starts thinking about hospice for him. Thank you
My mother just passed away on August 11, 2024. Before I watched any of your videos, I didn't know what to expect, due to not knowing much about death stages. After, watching your videos, I was able to understand the death stages of my mother's death, which help me to be strong and accept death in a calmer way, instead of going crazy. Thanks to you, Julie, you helped me a lot with understanding. Thank you.
You will meet your family, passed on before you, when you die. Your spirit still goes on.
Thankyou Julie. A wonderful presentation of life at the end of life.
Excellent videos! Love that they are all in one video from you. ❤❤❤
If your videos are still available when it's my time to go, I'm going to point my children here. I've been with loved ones when they've passed, and even though the nurse did her best to let me know what to expect, it would have been so much better if I'd been prepared with videos like yours. Thank you for your compassionate and important work.
Thank you, you're such a blessing to so many of us 🎉
it's very moving and intimate but I'm grateful for the knowledge, thank you very much
Sorry if you've already covered this, but I haven't seen it in any of your videos. My husband died last year from AML. His hospice team was great, but there was one thing they didn't prepare us for. He started bleeding into his lungs - seeing so much blood suddenly coming up was unexpected and very disturbing. There was a delay in helping him to be more comfortable, because we had to get in touch with his nurse to find out what to do. It would have been better to know in advance that this could happen, and how to handle it.
You're videos make me less afraid of dying. Thank you❤
Thank you so much, Nurse Julie! I found this very helpful 🙏✨️💓
I couldn't agree w/ you more. It was the most daunting experience of my life.
Thank you.
Three sisters in hospice (each of them out of state, 2021, 2022, 2023). Watched on zoom and was soooo mad that no one was doing anything, just waiting for them TO DIE! I hated Hospice!, worthless!
I was still struggling to come to terms with it when my husband had bronchitis that turned to pneumonia. He was transferred from the hospital to hospice (my husband didn't have insurance and the bill was already at $300K, they also told us they needed the bed). I knew he was a dead man and sure enough, after 4 days in hospice, he was dead. This was a specialty hospital.
None of what you talk about described what my husband went through. He was coherent, knew what was happening and was ready to come home. We watched TV until he fell asleep. 2 hours later, his blood pressure dropped and because he signed a DNR there was nothing more they could do. Eventually, his heart stopped and he was gone.
BUT your explanation here gives me closure with my sisters because that is exactly how they departed this life. Thank you!
Thank you for what you do
Lovely fur baby in the background and another good video from you
My father took 8 weeks to pass from end-stage cancer. Thankfully he didn't physically suffer any pain and his actual passing was quick in the end, very little in way of "symptoms" beyond discoloured fingers. We checked on him at 9.30pm that night and he was sleeping, we went back up at 11pm and he'd gone, as he wished, undisturbed in the comfort of his own bed at home. All we can assume is that his heart just stopped as a result of his slow wasting from the illness.
thank you so much for your videos. So very helpful. Bless you.
My grandma just died a week ago today. She did all these and in her last moments she was able to give my momma a smile. My mom asked her if she was ready and she also whispered yes.
May almighty God have mercy on the soul of this woman. I trust and believe she was surrounded by people who loved her and who she loved throughout her life's journey