Why Do Men Hate Condoms l 2021 Friendsgiving Special
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Simple, unprotected sex should only be for marriage! Period.
I agree but they’ll be sure to let you know it’s not the 1950s and 60s no more etc.
Tell emmmm
No, for marriage too. There are couples who arent ready to have children as well.
Agreed
Facts
People think marriage is too big of a commitment but having a child is not? lol
RIGHT!
So please make it make sense lol
Thats why these kids out here are reading at a 4 grade level, 90 percent of prisoners dont have fathers in they life.
I’m 21 an my intelligence compaired to sum of y’all at this table whew chile 😰
Yeah this generation is stupid
Having a child is a big deal. Why are we just having unprotected sex and casually having children? This concept is mind blowing.
Right! Im like they are acting like it isnt a whole human being and is effect by your choices
what we?who is we?i think people must speak for themself and their own situation and seperate themselves and stop being in groups we all dont fit.so its more like are you personally having unprotected sex and do you have children?because if not then u cant even relate yet you trying to put yourself or everyone else in that trick bag and we all dont fit.no smoke ijs.i dont have unprotected sex or have kids etc so its not all or we all. peace
Because people are idiots who believe sex has no consequences.
@@erablaktv you slow as hell, we talking about the he majority that’s how statistics work
Watching how these women argue about this is mind bugging, not wearing a condom how does that mean I want a baby 😱
If a woman does choose to have a baby knowing that the father does not want to be involved, she has to deal with the consequences. “My body my choice,” but also “My choice my consequence.” Not saying a woman should abort, but realize that there probably won’t be a white picket fence in her near future.
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If you actually believed in personal accountability you would see that men are responsible for their own body and what they do with it. Their body their choice. If they have sex without a condom or without a vasectomy they are liable for long term obligations. It’s very easy for men not to become fathers. If men don’t want to be fathers it is their job to make sure that does not happen. It’s not womens job to realize mens dreams and goals. Mens penis, mens sperms mens, mens choice. Mens responsibility. Mothers and fathers should be reinforcing this fact with their sons instead of promoting sexual irresponsibility with their sons which is what parents typically do with their sons.
@@smpiano6605 wow placing all responsibility on women only. Both parties know the consequences. I don’t understand how people sleep around and not expect someone to end up pregnant.
@@smpiano6605 But what about the guy? He’s fully aware that having unprotected sex leads to be a baby and he still proceeded. Why should the person holding the baby have to get rid of it and struggle to raise the kid because of a decision she made with ANOTHER person?
@@MsCouve But the woman knows her body/cycle more.
The man can only have sex if she agrees
A baby can only be born if she agrees.
If the man had the right not to be a father and there was no child benefits, how many less children would be born?
Baby mama mindset 😂😂😂😂
Boi I thought this was a text from my babymama on a msg I sent!!!! I was bout to go Ape shit like 1400 miles away....🤐🤬👿
Rico and Oliver really gotta get the last word every time 🤣🤣🤣. At the end of the day, if you fucking raw, you’re taking a chance whether you want to or not. You can’t debate that simple fact.
Not once have I ever seen on this show Rico shut up and let someone have a different perspective that conflicts with his own self-centered view. Folks see stuff differently especially Black women. Rico seems to have no empathy or compassion for what these Black & LatinX sisters have to deal with and it's disappointing. I sincerely hope he matures up soon and this is only an example of his onscreen ego.
You know you can fuck raw and still not end up pregnant...right?! Withdrawal is a form of safe sex/ pregnancy prevention as well. Might not be 100% but condoms aren't either....so it really comes down to after care/ techniques of any intimate gathering
@@Suziee_Suee a lot of that is like playing Russian roulette. It's not a guarantee that it'll stop you from getting pregnant. Bottom line is if you don't see yourself having a baby by a dude you let go raw in you, don't do it...
@@YaItsJP biiiiiiiiiig facts!
@@reimourrpower9357 agreed!
They shot this episode in LIDS
Look at all this CAP
“I’m not going raw with somebody I don’t want a kid with”😂😂😂😂
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Right the cap is crazy. Why come on the show if your not gonna be honest
Lmboooo.
These girls need therapy. I heard so much bs from them. Respect for these guys listening to all that bs.
There are dead beat moms and dead beat dads . If you know more dads that are dead beat that’s your experience but not a fact. Great topics.
Sex on the first date is risky business because you’re going to be in a trance and missing all those red lights,stop signs, and red flags. Can’t be out here having sex recklessly.
Anyway…
Once you have a child with someone you’re tied to that person for life.
Soul-ties😊💛
Soul ties don’t exist through sex. Y’all need to stop with this soul ties crap.
Periodtt
Metaphorically you get points on your license forever. It can make a you a better driver for life or selfish and reckless, earning more point and damage to your vehicle. You shouldn't speed (reckless unprotected sex) just because you have a license, you're risking your life & those of others.
I never understood that. It’s a high chance that you can get somebody pregnant if you having sex without a condom. If you don’t want her to be pregnant use a condom. She shouldn’t have to kill a life and live with the regret just because the guy don’t want it.
You know they make female condoms too, right?
She shouldn't be having sex at all then. Be a virgin but nope, females trying to fit into the wrong places.
@@reknowvator11 it goes both ways women cnt not be on bc and act like they don’t know how they got pregnant. But women are the ones that’s stepping up for these kids not the men
@@reknowvator11 you really wanna go that route bc I promise you won't feel a thing lol
How about u take birth control...the reason why women have high standards and cautious,you have the biggest liability when comes to sex & rship...women tooo dont like condoms...
At the end of the day, men take.more risks in life in general,reality is you if u allow me take control of your reproductive system..u wilk get pregnant at some point during coitus
I really like Erin. She is so level headed, practical, and logical. She always zeros in on the core issues.
I don’t even need to watch the whole video to answer the title’s question. Because that 😻 feels so damn good! 😍😂
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Shout out 2 Donna for her hustle ....starting from Cleveland to today.
I see the grind!! Salute!!!💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
This Got heated...Great Convo!...Ladies you held it Down and Was Very Well Spoken and Explanatory 💪🏼👏🏼🙌🏼💯
“Life is unfair, make better decisions “
Ricco hit the mark. Why do woman keep kids when the guy says they won’t be in the child’s life. When that kid grows up they will resent the father and have daddy issues. You can’t force a guy to be a father when he wasn’t ready. And a lot of woman have sex with dudes who are no good just because the sex is good then cry when dude bounce when she comes up pregnant
Why do men have unprotected sex when they're not ready for a child? Accountability should go both ways.
Rico is ridiculous. The man made his choice when he had unprotected sex.
And I wish this show was on Kevin Samuels Shw he would definitely School modern ass women if you choose to keep the baby it's not the man's fault stop trying to put the blame on men ; women you pick you get to choose who you allow access to your body & birth a child for; a man determine Relationships; Marriage You ladies need to be held accountable for your actions and stop trying to make/blame a man‼️
@@summerrain6125 why can’t woman take the morning after pill? Men only have one form on contraceptive “condoms” while woman can demand a man to put on a condom or take the morning after pill or get an abortion . Woman choose how a man hits it. You choose if the man gets the box, you choose what man gets the box, you choose to let him hit raw or not. Men have no choice. If a man says give me the box and you say no then he ain’t getting it. But let a man say no to a woman then he is labeled as gay. Woman take ownership
@@orian3131 You're trying to make the creation of a child the sole responsibility of a woman. That is not factually based or scientifically sound. So it must be based in emotion. It literally takes both man & woman to make a baby so therefore both are responsible to prevent if they don't want that to occur. And to say men have no choice is silly. Men certainly don't have to give in to the demands of a woman.
When I became a Man self Love Self Discipline and Principles two things after having two kids when I was young and dumb paying child support for which ended this year I. made it a law I always travel with a condom in my wallet plus have condoms at home to prevent two things 1. Childsupport making a mistake and getting someone pregnant also as long as I am in a relationship even if I was to get marry again 2. DISEASE,
And if women tell me she is allergic to condoms I will turn her down because these are my principles
Bro, what’s all that shot on her face? I was whipping my screen thinking it was dust🤣🤣🤣
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Not wearing a condom does not mean you wanted a baby. BUT as a MAN you have to understand a baby can be made.
That's if you forgot to put the morning after pill in her breakfast OJ! 🤦🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
They need somebody with more life experience on the panel. Everything discussed is usually about Sex, threesomes, body count etc. It gets hella repetitive and makes young black individuals look like sex addicts.
Also I’m happy that Rico called out Danny on that selfish comment about having a baby because SHE wants to without taking in the kids mental health into consideration. There are too many black women that make this decision and blame society/baby father for their tough lives. Abort the baby, and conceive when you’re ready. If not that don’t cry wolf about how hard it is. The poorest demographic in society is the single black mother.
All facts! 💯💯💯 Black people gotta stop thinking with their emotions and more with their heads…the one up top!
Exactly I said the same thing. The_need to get these little girls off this show
Nobody ever thinks about the kids or their future anymore.....its all me me me me..smh
It's UA-cam, it's entertainment. They're going to make videos on what they think people are going to watch. And you watched it
I feel the same way. The show has potential. They need a more variety of topics
Love this show!!!
I actually agree with Rico 🤦🏾♀️! Men stepping up women saying FOH is not cool because if he said abort and she said keep oh he ain’t shyt! Keep the same energy!
Ohh god. Everyone at this table please get your stuff fixed, ya don’t deserve kids. All but one here actually understands the impact to a child that that grows up in a broken family. Rico is an idiot if he thinks you can properly raise a kid out of state. Kids need both a men and women role models to develop properly. Talking about future dinners and events where both parents are present, but not even in talking terms is simply their own fault and just selfish pettiness. If you don’t want kids or if your partner is not right for the role, then simply take yourself out of the situation, glove up or get out. Also the dudes logic on condoms is dumb as hell. It takes 2, don’t be a weak man and blame it on moment, the only role for sex is to produce. Nothing else, only humans decided it’s for recreation.
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So the line to give her is: you not gon see if I’m too easy tonight or you gon go home and be bored for the rest of the night without a man holding you.
🗣 get on they heads Rico! 💯
2 ppl make the baby. 2 ppl should make the decision on that baby. If not then the child support courts need to changed. It takes 2 to make a baby but it's "my body my choice" if the woman wants to get rid of the baby.
HAPPY THANKSGIVING 🦃 👑🥶🔥💯
I love seeing them like this every one cool calm collected just vibin the men also
That turkey looks splendiferous...
most men dont want the baby if you arent together
From my experience a lot of women will try to just put it in as well, this isn’t a one sided thing at all. Men and women are moving like this
So y'all finally got a damn table. But was on the couch
The blind leading the blind.. I can’t
Rico contradicted Himself. Or maybe it’s more so toxic masculinity. First it’s selfish on the mother to keep a baby that she wants, but the baby’s father doesn’t.. but if the man wants to keep the child and the mother doesn’t, she’s selfish. To men, the woman will always be the one to blame.
Bruh she shouldn't of had sex by her logic. Oh he didn't wear a condom like come on she can say no sex then take responsibility. U on about men blaming women u dumb g we saying take responsibility women are just as responsible for the kid as a man
what was the name of that movie? i’m not finding it
Yeah me and my baby mom's said the same thing as far as co parenting, but once things wasn't going her way she act as if we never spoke about it at all
Newsflash: Most women hate condoms too!
Bru
It's the women that say "take that off", "put it in me raw", or "you gonna wear a rubber next time?" dudes aint trying to have kids like that, and for the record, i know way more single mothers with multiple children than i do dads with multiple kids from different women. we aint out here like that just spewing our seed.
The thing is, we have sex with people these days for pleasure and not for procreation for which we were intended. So if a woman gets pregnant, since both partners played a game out of an act in which they were solely supposed to do in order to bring live into this world, the least they can do is do their best to love and take care of it. Yes Amanda was right (in my opinion...clearly not Rico's) if you have unprotected sex, you should assume pregnancy to follow. Like Amanda I too have not had sex with anyone that I could not see myself having a child with. I was just raised to think like that. Not all people are as loose and reckless as the the person speaking. Just saying.
See i understand what you were getting at. But that's the thing if two people agree to just have sex for pleasure [ Raw, protected, etc] . not for love, not for l relationship building, not for structure or building a legacy. Then why as soon as the pleasure turns into a pregnancy your saying "oh look like we have to he parents" when that's not what y'all agreed on in the beginning. If y'all knew the plan was just pleasure. Having a kid together shouldn't even be possibility.
These men ain’t real men no cap 💯💯💯💯💯💯
The question you have to ask yourself is whatever you are doing to a female in your life, will you want another man to do to your daughter.
If you can honestly live with that then that’s up too you.
Real men is suppose to lead with integrity, these bums 💯💯💯💯
I was not expecting Donna to be at the table
Wish this was longer
Yoooo, the way she flipped that car cash analogy smh wow 😲
The way these folks talk...i am always waiting on someone to pop out and say it was a prank...we pranking you ....but nope thats how these folks actually think....its pretty scary....and telling ...wow
Raw dawg feels better. Simple as that 😂
The bus thing compared to raw sex 😂 crazy.
Rico MVP
I feel the girl on the @1:00 mark I feel weird bring a girl to meet the family in Thanksgiving. My family is funny and too judgmental for me to feel comfortable bringing them around especially when I haven’t done that in so long. I will eventually have to bring someone back to get into the grove again. But one thing I do know, make sure you sleep with that person a few times before you bring them to meet your family. Certify the relationship by sleeping with each other a lot before you bring them around to your family. Trust me it will work out better. If you bring her around without sleeping with them. Most likely you might lose them because of the interaction with each other’s families.
I would love to be in this panel
I get what you're saying brother. Remember you're at the table with a lot of women. They changed the scenario you were trying to put out.
This whole group is disappointingly bad at decision making. The only one that was average at decision making was at the far left
We at least now know that it’s bullsh*t when a woman says that a baby just happened and they didn’t mean for it to
Why do so many B women look like street walkers with these crazy nails and wild tattoos that look like Jackson Pollock paintings.🤦🏽♂️
Music industry , movies, media and reality TV, tv shows most westindian cultures cause this that they made it think it's the norm and glamorize it
No one says that about Indian women with all their make up dots on forehead, gaudy gold jewelry etc or the Mayans with tribal tattoos wikd head pieces nose rings etc! Stfu and enjoy. It’s called culture get into it
All that stuff originated in Africa.. and streetwalkers just peacock it to get the attention of men.
Lol love that you know Jackson Pollock. That's a hilarious comparison.
@@szasremmurd8002 Interesting. Never thought about it that way. That's a good point too.
Yo Rico you need your boy Eso when you have these kinds of conversations
I agree with the women today
babygirl with the piercings had me scared
Oh y'all got home gurl from black inc nice 👌🏽
Whatsup with the sound quality?
Donna!!!!!
Why aren't woman protecting themselves many different forms of birth control
“Sniper” out now on all digital platforms, brav. 😎
Why do men hate using condoms 🤔 I think I have had more women trying to talk me out of using them than me trying to con them into going raw 🤨🤨🤨🤨
You must be bluffing 😕
Ricooooooo 🤣
Lawd have mercy. The Logic of these women................. woosahhhhhhhhhhhh JESUS take the wheel!!
I used that analogy at the end that Rico used to a woman I’m cool with…she had no empathy towards the hypothetical guy in the situation lol I understand…
Selfish I agree
They ganged up on Rico on this one
8:40 he said some real shit....🤟🏽
Men don’t hate condoms catchy topic it worked
These men show the close minded perceptions that a lot of men have. I have to honestly say I only listen to keep myself educated on the outside world views of some men, understanding that this is not the mindset of all men or even the majority. But it is the perception of enough men, especially minority men, which keep our communities down. How can any adult man believe that having raw sex with a woman, does not give him a large chance of conceiving a child or catching an std. That's literally like sticking your hand in fire and not expecting to be burned. Then to say well I did it knowing I could be burned, but just not expecting to. WTF. The problem is that we all as adult people think we are invincible and when shit happens we don't want to take responsibility for our actions. But in cases like these most times the women generally are the ones left holding the bag, having to make the life altering decision and being ridiculed and called selfish no matter what choice she makes. I thank God I am cut from a different cloth and could give 2 flying because being vulnerable and dating in today's society would literally make you catch a case. Y'all be safe out there.💯✌🏽
Amennn
lol you souhd slow... all these shows display how these women are 403s and get prego inentionally to get child support from mulyiple baby daddys
Luv the channel 🔥. But the 2 woman are 🧢. I guarantee they let sum1 hit raw without wanting that man to b the father of her child.
Of course! Did you hear the one say she got drunk and woke saying "oh we had sex" 🤷🏾♀️ then a few months later she realised he was the devil. Smh
Did she say "I was nice enough to give him joint custody"??? 🤦🏾♂️
He abandoned her with the child. That was actually nice of her.
Me and my sons mother co parent.
While they talking I’m Just thinking how All that Spit hitting that turkey 💦🚿🦃
Danny it's a Westindian and African, Spanish, Middle Eastern think if it's not years or we have a ring or married not bringing the guy to meet my Family yet tillI know it's right
What?
Huh?
@@eve3363 lol, glad I wasn't the only one.
Lol I believe she’s saying it’s a non-western ideal to not bring a partner over until it’s super serious, like engaged or discussing marriage. You don’t bring home any old boyfriend or girlfriend to meet the family
@@johnjacob688 People loves stereotypes when they think it benefits them because that's a danb lie. It depends in your family background, not your ethnicity
Rico you and O definitely outnumbered my guy lol, and raw
sex is definitely undefeated. Why isn't ever 8 at the table tho🤔 plus ole girl with the gray dress on was big mad at the end and the audio diminishes onnahood #bigfax 💯💙💪✌
naw thats like both yall in the car speeding and get pulled over and the girl says... i didnt have anything to do witht he crash
I sped 4 a long time before I crashed...VS
Great content but the audio quality is always trash 🗑
The same reason some women hate NOT wearing makeup.... because they are spoiled
"Life is unfair, make better decisions." Facts, but when it comes to wage inequality, will you still stand on that point, or will you want fairness?
How often do women request no condoms?
woman are not honest when u ask a question....She know damn well everyone she sleeps with is father potential
Wow , as a man I have been rejected kicked out of bed because I wanted to use a condom. I can thank my high school football coach and parents. A lot of women dislike men using condoms.
Unfortunately, the only two guys on this panel made the most sense but were downed out by the women that don't want to listen. The questions are a lot about thoughts and actions of men, but the women didn't want to hear the answers from men, they wanted to TELL MEN they were wrong in what men thought and decided they would do better tell men what men thought.
But I also want to say though that is the finest that Danny has been looking to me in a minute. I don't know if it's just like because she got like the short hair going on but it's working for her man. She looking bad with that. You know. Keep that up
HAPPY THANKSGIVING EVERYONE!
Question to the men: if a woman you was getting ready to have sex with stopped you and required you to put a condom on would you respect the request? Try to negotiate the alternatives? Not go thru with it all together? and would the request ruin the moment?
This is not a good faith question since it assumes most of us aren't trying to use condoms when 50% of us are childless (including myself and I'm an 80s baby) and outside of marriage less than 20% of us is making kids.
If anything I had women not wanting the condom because claims of latex allergies or wanting to "feel" of going raw which does make things awkward, since contrary to popular belief most of us isn't trying to be Dwight Howards n DMXs n Futures in these streets.
@@mdotbeedotI dont assume all men don't want to use condoms i was just curious bc it really does seem like alot of men aren't into using them and I've been in situations where I asked men to put a condom on (he agreed) and then during hes trying to rip the condom off and I have to shut everything down, and yes im well aware of the bs women do with not wanting a man to wear condoms also I ask these questions not to bash the men who do I just want to understand from the ones who don't and sometimes even the ones who do at one point in their life they didn't. I just want the perspective and want to understand with all we know about life and how bad things is out here with(men and women) why are we still taking these chances
@lacey denise I feel ya, it's hard to not make general statements/assumptions off of anecdotal experiences. In general being able to more so associate with non-ratchet ppl and only dealing with ppl with long term marriage intentions helps.
Else the stealthy fuck boys you unfortunately ran into and the "plz go raw fo me daddy" thoties I had dealt with are of the same ilk and should be met with extreme precautions if not avoided altogether & let them find each other.
@@mdotbeedot yeah you definitely right but unfortunately thoties and fuckboys run into each other all the time they can't manage to be with each other, I try my hardest to filter out the bs and (keep body count low) I dont have any kids, keep standards and work on myself so that if I actually find someone who character and mindset is alike I can fall into or step up to their standards but out here at least in my area , if I go out on a date I either make sure I pay for myself or try to steer the date into something simple like a park or walk id rather do more getting to actually know the individual with the initial meeting rather than him spending money . I would've thought that at least takes sex off the table but it doesn't they push up the same either way. What do you (personally and as a gender collectively) seek in a woman? What attributes can a woman bring to the table that you feel would compliment your life/lifestyle to where it becomes reasonable to decide to build with that individual
Their isn't very many pros to the bio parents not being together other if the situation in general was toxic AF. Their are TONS of negatives though: daddy issues, mommy issues, higher chance of abuse I could go on but this would be so long..
If someone is not in a financial, emotional, and mental position and is not responsible, mature, and healthy, they should NOT be having unprotected sex. A child deserves to have two parents who love and value them. Stop being sexually selfish while ignoring the possibility that you may bring a child into this world that you are not prepared to raise. Raw sex = baby 🤰🧑🍼.
Keep Donna
Rico hell 😭
Disclaimer We need more families. Real families...
I don't think Im laying down with no 5304 so what would I need a condom for ?? Ain't like she would tell me she a 304 then I'd gladly slip on a hat ..
U wanted a man's thoughts ..
We do need more families but condoms are needed bc she doesn't need to be a ho for you guys to have an unwanted pregnancy. Nor does she need to be a ho for either of you to pass an STD to one another.
@@summerrain6125 shouldn't be having sex if u need condoms ... why lay up with somebody you would not want to get pregnant or be pregnant by?? Folks being nasty just to be nasty 😄
@@no1_raisondetre542 I agree but that's not how most people have sex or choose their partners. And you might be with someone you'd like to have a baby with one day but now is a bad time (for example if you're in school).
@@summerrain6125 if you're that focused i.e. school etc then you wouldn't have time for casual sex , family ... Why drop a monkey wrench in your own program ??? ijs .. we can agree to disagree on this .. Condoms ain't natural and it's against my nature .... I ain't trying to eff just to eff , I'm effing for all that comes with it .... ALL THAT COMES WIT IT ...
I won’t even listen to this video but I bet it is about a bunch of broads saying “WHY DIDNT HE PUT A CONDOM ON WHEN HE DUG ME OUT, HE KNEW TOO WE JUST MET 30 MINS AGO” Accountability is one of their worst abilities!!!
Unprotected sex falls upon both parties... women on this oanel dont want to take the responsibility of the potential consequences smfh
They wanna get as close to heaven as they can
Clicked the video 57 seconds in I’m clicking out because I don’t care
These 🐦 out here given it up raw and whole time ain't thinking ahead and when it's time to make decisions be it right or wrong a bird makes the choice and the man will always be judged and held accountable for HER choice!!! Thus men value your sex because your seed is priceless and not every women deserves the D take this shit back to the 90's in my Era " Wrap it up!!!"
So only men like unprotected sex? 😂😂😂😂
Those women are so beautiful,& i feel sorry for that guy’s BM smh