Women love messy relationships full with drama and unprotected $3x from dudes who won't judge their ratchet behavior.
💯 definitely. At the end of the day they find Pookie and Ray Ray to be
More fun lol
You can tell these females on this panel gave up the cheeks to broke ninjas stop acting like you didn’t.
Men don't have to lie, women will lie to themselves about the dude!!!!
Men still lie. I'm not denying some women do that but plenty of men say they're single or are out of their homes so much you would think they were.
Rich Guys get Women, Broke Guys with charisma and swag get Women, but a Good Man with Christian Values rich or broke rarely get Women.
lol Christian in the hood? getting nothing but punked and ass beat
That’s actually a good thing, spares you from all the trash that’s out here. Leave them pookie loving type of women alone. Still good ones out here just not many
People forget Women are about how men make them feel. Rich man gets them excited because of the money. Dudes with Swag make them feel Special. A nice guy doesnt impress them. Because he doesnt make them feel anything. Thats why they call him boring and corny.
And that Christian guy will win in the end because of two reasons.
Rich guys can only attract because of their wealth.
Broke ass hood dudes gonna take all the toxic girls that have daddy issues with them, and the real healthy women will stay with the Christian guy.
Keisha only wants Pookie.
Good Men get Used.
That's the truth.
So why do want a Keisha? Suckers get used. One has to wise and honest with themselves to avoid getting played.
Wrong good guys use themselves. And they're too prideful to take some tactics from Pookie and Ray Ray while remaining a nice guy
@@marvelousmarvin4thIf they had pride, they wouldn't be getting used, bruh. That ain't being "prideful", homie, it's simping.
It's called swagger. Swagger however doesn't necessarily translate to fatherhood traits like integrity and responsibility. These chicks get pregnant by swagger and then expect swagger to become integrity and responsibility.
Profound statement..I'd replace swagger with control..but i like how you put it
👍🏿 i’m 70 years old you’re exactly right. Take it from a broke Nigga all my life. I have a good mouthpiece, and they bought it. Hook line and sinker. Didn’t even care later if my ass was broke by then it was too late.
😂🤣 they right. Dusty Pookie be getting mad vajayjay. The broke speech she gave is reserved for tax paying, law abiding brothers. The thugs/ scammers get a pass for being broke, but be a regular dude making $60k gets clowned.
Latinas also do this loving the thugs or fake ones that live with mom's or broke.
The difference is the nigha whose making the 60k ain’t moving like the nigha whose just getting by … example the dude whose doing the 9 to 5 is more likely to go to sleep by 10 ..The scammer just getting started .. Mr. 9 to 5 barely post on social media & staying out the way . Meanwhile the other find that boring because they is finding ways to stay relevant .. Most females lives already boring they need excitement to compensate & the 60k nigha ain’t gonna provide that
Women always “never heard of that” or “never seen that” when it comes to certain shxt that more than likely is pertaining to them.
Women like being entertained. Women have eyes. If he’s attractive and entertaining, he probably in there.
They missed the point it’s not always about money some times they just fall for the guy his swag and charisma
That cool if she wants that but don't come crying to successfully BM afters, we not saving her or little pookie jr.
It’s the money plenty dudes with charisma and swag and not have a female
Do women even like rich dudes fr? Women dont respect rich dudes. All that " i need a man with 6 figures" is cap. No matter how much you make always act broke
I agree
I think once they know you are rich, it becomes about what you can do for them
Lol women like and respect rich dudes. Just don't be a simp and a pigeon.
They like rich dudes who they can't control, and hate the ones they can control.
@@kenyattathompson6685 More so it comes with expectations and accountability, which they do not want.
They want rich dudes because they want a lifestyle on someone else’s dime. They wanna be put up in luxurious surroundings where they don’t have to do anything but be present and cute and get waited on hand and foot. Save their money and spend yours. And then when they get bored or think they can upgrade to a better situation, they’ll bounce and try and take what’s left of your money with them on their way out the door.
Because when the relationship fails, they have the built-in excuse of "men ain't ish" and also because they understand that's who they qualify for.
One thing about women on shows like this they know how to pretend VERY well until you ask them about their past experiences
She saying she can’t be finessed cuz she been finessed already a bunch of times
She can be finessed. Still being finessed. She just old enough to hold out here and there
If the dude is 6'5, tall dark and handsome many women will give him a chance no matter how much he makes.
No they won’t. Most of them want a man they can control and they can’t control a man with all of that. Speaking from experience because I have all of that.
@@ratswagger they won’t. They want weak men. A 6’5 man that looks good has too many options, that’s before you get into money, personality traits, physical and mental ability, etc. They want a man they can discard and complain about, not build up or work with.
fellas don't let them change the topic, yall know they are broke and choose them
Chic be messing with broke dudes intentionally to control them.as long as he hitting it right they like that.
I been sayin that for the longest. Shit aint even about the money, its about control. Especially if she knows that she cant control u and YOU KNO she cant control u
She been ran through already, that’s why she can see a finesse.
They understand broke dudes. They do what they "FEEL". Anything that makes decisions based on feelings they gravitate towards.
The black community takes two steps back everytime podcast like this hit the media. I thought they were going to have insights, instead I realized wouldn't associate with anyone who thinks like any of these people.
Is broke the same as poor to black women? I’m worth a lot but I don’t spend frivolously or take lavish vacations. I would be considered “broke” to these girls. Meanwhile my brother goes on vacations regularly, eats out nightly, drives a foreign car makes decent money but ultimately he’s in debt, he’s poor. To these girls he’s the catch. This is what’s wrong in our community. Doing it right is too slow and boring.
Foolishly yes. Too many have no grasp of reality. Often it is the right now that is considered and not the future to come.
It might be but it ain't on you to fix it, even if she was fucking with you her mindset crazy, focus on women that moving correct don't get caught up in looks trust me happiness and peace of mind are all that matter.
Bruh you have to own shit none of us are touching the real import and export of things 😂smdh these people have no idea
You are frugal sir. Stack your bread and don't change for any of these heifers
"I cannot be finessed" 😂😂😂😂 sweetheart, there are real sharks out here. Bless her heart, though! 5:44
Women never said “they won’t sleep with broke people” they said “they not gonna settle for one “
these women on 8 at the table are incorrigible. Thats very disappointing.
They love them till the baby comes and there is no money for pampers😂😂😂😂
Facts this is true then they want the lame who they curved with the good job and stability
I can confirm this I got a lot of women as a former hood dude.
Coming from a rich 🥷Y’all do realize we all going to not be here one day. Don’t waste your life on little Shit. Deaf is going to finesse us all. Stay up✊🏿
Lady with the short blonde hair thinks she's all of that and she's not. 😅
These women boy i tell ya
It’s not about money. The point is there are men, good men, with money who can’t get girls, then there is pookie who can grab 2,3,4 men worth of girls and when will chant “ain’t no good men left” or “broke boys don’t deserve 🐈 “.
3:45 I saw this in the army as well, guys that have poor hygiene getting women, and i'm dumbfounded
@@rickeymayo4289 I just got out so I could have never understand it. But i'm just glad i'm away from all that foolishness
@rickeymayo4289 In my opinion, them woman got yeast infection or something
Hell a lot of these women have the same bad hygiene. I was a delivery man in college and you wouldn’t believe how nasty some of the finest women’s houses are.
Title should be ........ Why women are Broke Hood Dudes 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It’s also bcuz most women don’t like to come out of their comfort zone,,,,and that’s why they don’t like the good dudes,,,and also most of them never seen a decent relationship!!
RIP Kevin Samuels..
Many Women don't understand, this world is full of potholes, and we all, even billionaires, will need alignment sometimes. If you can't or won't shorty... But still want to get paid, we'll take our business elsewhere.
Everybody chasing money instead of connections
@@perennialviralbasketball24 the fact that you said that is sad, I hope your a young man that hasn't really experienced much life yet but alot of people now are missing out on a human experience because they need to unplug.
Sometimes yes ladies you will have to inspire your man to make more money. If you inspire us money flows from that. Respect flows, generosity, kindness and support for your endeavors flows from your inspiration.
Broke is a relative term. Don't too many black men or women got more than the next. We just value how we spend money differently. No disrespect to anyone on the panel but the framework for most of these conversations online about relationships and money pertaining to the black collective don't have much intellectual merit. The entertainment value may be high though. Most social media content is a finesse in and of itself when dismantled psychologically.
It's really not relative. Literal broke dudes who have to bounce from woman to woman just for a place to lay their head and de pend on that woman to drive them around and don't work are definitely out there and they are definitely smashing women. There are more then plenty of ain't shit dudes out there that really have nothing to offer but Heavy Dick.😂
The same reason why Master loves his slaves...she maintains status above him that makes him, not her, disposable!
When she reaches for the educated, she's in the vulnerable spot, and woman hate that men always put them there!
I think more videos with this topic is needed in the black community, not to put down the black woman, but to force her to understand how damaging this is to not only herself, but to other black women to make them realize why as a community as a race we are always at the bottom
@@kenyattathompson6685 facts but when she get🤰 by a bum don’t complain 😆 because that what it was from the start
This isnt needed lol..yall already know what to do..mf just want to complain and talk about the same thing..sitting up there voicing these crazy opinions hoping the ONE that played them is WATCHING LOL
No one asked the question…. How can she see the guy fronting if she never seen it before? Most women that can recognize a man playing is because they been played before and not falling for it again
Sitting on the internet wearing lingerie and leopard boots, speaking broken english and trying to act as if they actually have class 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It literally comes down to control. Women like to be in control. “Broke hood dudes” are the only types they could pull that with.
Its the control factor for them, its like having a two-legged pet...
A rich man has TIME on his hands because he has money.
A broke man has TIME on his hand because he has nothing for himself.
But a man working 50 to 60 hours a week DOESNT have TIME on his side. Therefore women overlook this type of man unless she works with him.
I know I don’t got it like that financially but I def done had and still meet and smash quote on quote bad woman !!!
When I was broke, I got the most women, because I had time. When I'm on my grind, I don't have the time.
Money can't bet D and A! Nuff Said.
What happen if the girl really loves you and don’t care about you being broke
that's just it...every chick THINKSt hey aint the ONE who does this--and then ALL DO. Even the ones on this panel have...especially if they got high body counts, you know full well they had AT LEAST SEVEN POOKIES, IF NOT MORE
Davante Adams with the Gilbert Arenas manneurisms and Jay Electronica as podcasters from an alternate universe.
Also women who have a career don't seem to care about how much a man makes vs women who are lazy and don't want to work are the ones who say they want a provider
as a chronic broke dude most broke dudes is known for either lookin good or havin good pipe...but the broke part makes these bittys feel like they got the upperhand and the ability to nurture 😏
The saddest reality is the Broke Hood dudes got more swag, rawness, Charisma and personality that attracts these women time and time again. So it shows you don't have to have the most money in the world to obtain a fine chick just maintaining might be hard for them
For her to ask that question and the other female laugh shows how BW feel about BM😩7:56
it's funny cuz when they was laughing I was saying to myself "go ahead and laugh it up, but this mentality is 1 of the reasons they are the least married..... just goldiggers who only care abt a man's money
Its about living dangerous not in peace
Ima be honest i think they fuck wit them type dudes soo much bc thats all they can get let's be real about it
No matter what you say to most women they will always think what they feel and do what they feel. It’s time to let these Unstable Creatures drown and get rid of the toxic ones. Stay focused and on your purpose
The question; define broke? Instead of it being defined in financial terms it was stated in intellectual, mental, gifts and skills. However, the ladies were offended. Why, because the majority of the times, men have historically come with a larger bag ($), then women, therefore that places women in a position to be builders, to inspire, motivate and be a catalyst to her partner (husband).
I think its not just that but a difference in values between the men and women in the video.
Broke to a dude is either, you don't have anything to your name to take care of yourself, or have nothing to offer as these guys stated - you aren't elevated and can't elevate. Dudes rather be enhanced, teach them how to make or get 'the bag', that's richness and value.
Meanwhile, to the women in the vid, broke to them is, you can't give me 'the bag'
Stereotypically, a dad spoils his daughter, gives her some tough love too.
Stereotypically, a dad teaches his son to make, get, do for himself.
But he wants them both to be safe and cared for so, moreso in todays world, daughter is going to get taught how to get.
Look at consumer statistics.
Majority of buyers and those who are pulled by advertising are women. pre 2020 digital marketing statistics were maybe 80/20% women vs men respond to ads and buy, whether its luxory the household or whatever.
Men, classically, are producing (or taking credit for women who are producing). We have historical predispositions that are certainly changing, but, there's precident in ... a guy makes his value, appreciates what can enhance his game and build vs a gal receives her value.
This was very much some in progress thoughts.
3:04 so when rappers do it, ahm... what she talking about!!! no one flash money on social media more than rappers!!! AND CHICS ARE FIGHTING EACH OTHER TO GET WITH HIM. Listen, DO NOT LISTEN TO WOMEN, pay attention to their ACTIONS.
And the money being flashed on social media probably is fake. (esp the jewelry) 💯
It’s really because you can be broke but you can put on an image until she realizes what it is. Now she in too deep 😂😂
This is the 1st video I've ever seen from this channel. My mans on the left told nothing but #Facts from start to finish.
The female that said "we have to inspire you to get more money" is a prime example of " it ain't me so it ain't real" she missing the whole point the fact the only thing she got from that was inspiring him to make more money is wild I could have sworn what a relationship was supposed to be was to people coming together to better both their positions in most cases financial is one of the best ways and how is you giving me someone a guide inspiring them the guy clearly said come in with some to help make money aka a guide, hack, tip, little loop hole, finesse, or some other type of "put on" just cause you give a person info does not mean you inspired them it means you gave them info.
A high value man will have expectations..a criteria and an extremely high standard.. quiet money
The only thing that come out of these 304s mouth is money money money money money. The difference is, when a man got money, he don't look for a woman with money but when a woman got money, she looking for a man with money but if the man with money don't want her long-term then she's going to be assed out and be passed around
1 word : Control
These people sit around talking about scammers like black men don’t do anything else.
Brooklyn stand up 😂
I say pick who u want to be with. Forget social media. If u happy with that person than be with person. Dont let the world choose who you love rather male or female. Its about listening to your inner voice💪
Get ya passports fellas!
You have to understand when you come from the hood and use to hood dudes that’s your type. It isn’t about money all the time. Sometimes it could be because a female see he with another female and they see he’s treating her right. They want a piece. Until we’re introduced to something else. That’s when some of us want better.
We as a people are at the bottom of the economic pyramid in this country and world as a whole, conversations like this keep us in that position. Most money in our community is new money not wealth it hasn't been building over generations. In the grand scheme of things we are all BROKE! Funny as soon as most of us get a little money we seem to give it right back to the oppressors.We need to bring back the nuclear family enjoy the moment, the beauty of nature, the company of friends and family and stop worshipping materialism! Our community is in shambles are youth are degenerates and we're discussing these trivial topics for views and likes with no real substance.
Keep preaching brother 💯 her laugh was fake af too.. she a vic 😂
It's bc alot women like to feel like they in the Driver seat. Often when that man start to come up and get his self together the women get insecure
2 5s make a 10 everytime 😂
I can name multiple famous rich women that take care of men Erica badu Nicki Minaj ect female's don't know what they want 😭🤣😆😂🤫😫🧠🤦🏽💯
The thing is most really rich or wealthy dudes won't be interested about getting serious with Erykah Badu or Nicki Minaj.
They try not to be masculine so bad 😂😂😂😂
Erin is truly shocked and that’s hilarious.
People forget that women are about how a man makes them Feel. A rich man gets them excited because of the money. A broke Thug gets them excited because of his Strength and Swag. A nice Guy doesnt make them Feel anything. Thats why they get called Boring and Corny.
Meagan = Torrie Lanes. (2 weird energys) ~ 🍻
He’s EXACTLY Right! A finessed woman is only finessed upon discovery of the finesse. Otherwise she don’t know she’s finessed.
These women nowadays aren’t worth the cost of two Big Macs!
Broke is easy to define. If you can't support yourself in the manner that you wish. For example, if you have a champagne taste and beer money, you are broke. Lastly, when when women offer the intangibles such as peace and motivation it’s gospel, but when men say it its poetic. Stop it on both!
I grew up as a handsome brotha who was a foster child. The brokest of them all but sistas had no problem hooking up with me.not even a loud dude also🤷🏿. Look matter most
And these are the slim and fit women too. Usually its the big girls who are accused of not having any self worth.
It’s because they know how to talk to women…
What women like are men with “fast” money! The problem with fast money is easy come, easy go. So while he may have it today, tomorrow, next month, next year, there’s going to come a point in time when he is unable to continue keep pace.
Nothing sadder than an old hustler/scammer……
The first brother definitely ran the hood
All the women talk about is money. SMH!!! That's crazy!! My man spit some real shit if you paid attention to it. I'll hold my money!!! I'll spend it if you deserve it, because 🐈⬛ not going to be enough at this stage of life.
The same 2 ways men sitting here have been done this way. You can see it in their faces, as soon as they heard the scam.
I love white women.
It’s a blessing to have money but the strongest relationships hold value in other attributes and aspects. Dating in this era is crazy
Women like broke dudes because the broke dude doesn't require them to live up to an expectation.
Bingo
Exactly…. Pookie & Pookeisha are both irresponsible, so they made for each other.
Yeah, they preferred broke dudes because she knows he looks up to her, like a security blanket, or just an insecurity complex ..
EXACTLY!!! As much as they say “men are intimidated” they put themselves on the broke side or high value side, because the men ACTUALLY in their lane are too challenging to their accountability
Now that's some truth for you right there.