Are You Sabotaging Your Happiness? The Key Habits That Drive Success in Love & Life

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  • Опубліковано 17 тра 2024
  • Today, Jay welcomes back his good friend Lisa Bilyeu. Join them as they dive deep into the themes of building radical confidence and mastering emotional maturity. Lisa shares transformative insights on navigating relationships, redefining personal value systems, and the surprising impact of toxic gratitude.
    In this interview, we discuss:
    00:00 Intro
    00:59 How Do You Define Confidence?
    04:21 Believe You’re Capable
    07:21 Admitting You’re Unhappy
    13:40 The Frame of Reference
    17:03 Everything Is A Risk
    25:09 Non-Negotiables in A Relationship
    32:08 Conversations That Don’t Break Relationships
    38:57 Who Leads? Who Follows?
    46:53 Conflicting Value System
    52:24 Don’t Assume, Find a Compromise
    56:48 Growth Mindset With Your Partner
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 108

  • @JayShettyPodcast.
    @JayShettyPodcast.  14 днів тому +16

    Share something you learned from Lisa!
    I’d like to invite you to join this community and subscribe to the channel. By hitting the 'Subscribe' button, you're not just becoming a subscriber - you're choosing to make a positive difference in your life.

  • @junecarter9330
    @junecarter9330 14 днів тому +75

    Omg. As a single woman. It has been wild crossing paths with men who wants me to lead EVERYTHING! Conversations, date planning, the pace, the place, literally everything!!! I refuse to submit and lead a man!! I’m also experiencing the male perspective of women being a “helpmate” for a man’s stability!!! Like dude no, your stability is your individual responsibility, as well as my own. I’m not interested in raising my mate. I would rather he be emotionally, physically and financially stable, prior to the relationship. When I share my values, beliefs and perspectives on healthy, reciprocal relationships, I notice they’re being challenged, misunderstood and suppressed!! Omg I just ranted. 😅Thanks for this conversation. Pray for me! 😅

    • @Alexlittle9
      @Alexlittle9 13 днів тому +5

      Girl sending a big high five ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️rant heard, accepted, supported and recognized

    • @arndtlange9573
      @arndtlange9573 2 дні тому

      So obviously you ran into the same trap every time you chose your partner - perhaps you should check your mental patterns and look for a grown up male 🙋‍♂️👍

  • @user-sl3ow5ul8v
    @user-sl3ow5ul8v 14 днів тому +17

    It’s so easy to feel how genuine she is and how she lived every experience and advice she’s giving

  • @cathycurtis1218
    @cathycurtis1218 14 днів тому +17

    The toxic gratitude is a new concept to me and makes a lot of sense

  • @user-oo7vr8qq1v
    @user-oo7vr8qq1v 3 дні тому

    ❤Lisa Bilyeu is the smart, witt, open and brave to tell the truth from being without in the common circle, i agree.
    One need to love oneself and also being at home with one's own weakness and limitation before i can love others

  • @frunzevaleria8167
    @frunzevaleria8167 14 днів тому +15

    This woman is my row model... I am watching her husbands podcasts for the last 2 years. He mentioned several times that he is success thanks to his wife... It was so inspirational as I said to myself, wow I would like to know more and learn how can I be my partners muse. She is amazing.

  • @joanne808
    @joanne808 14 днів тому +6

    Adore Lisa ❤ we need women like her in our lives! Fantastic to see channel growth, it’ll hit over 3M this year 🎉

  • @ChrisNavarro323
    @ChrisNavarro323 8 днів тому +69

    Thank you Lord Jesus for the gift of life and blessings to me and my family $14,120.47 weekly profit Our lord Jesus have lifted up my Life!!!🙏❤❤❤

    • @jeremyramoshabaad782
      @jeremyramoshabaad782 8 днів тому +4

      I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??

    • @LaurenHopkins992
      @LaurenHopkins992 8 днів тому +3

      What a testimony!!! 🙏🙏🙏

    • @Luislense453
      @Luislense453 8 днів тому +3

      Isaiah 45:3 speaks of a transference of riches from the heathen to the righteous... I will give you the treasures of darkness and the riches hidden in secret... I receive this for my household in Jesus' name. Amen!

    • @RobG-K
      @RobG-K 8 днів тому +2

      I'm genuinely curious to know how you earn that much monthly

    • @ChrisNavarro323
      @ChrisNavarro323 8 днів тому +2

      Well, the investment-advisor that guides me is..

  • @robingraham7618
    @robingraham7618 14 днів тому +16

    The tennis analogy is brilliant! The goal is to keep the ball in play.

  • @pamotorsports763
    @pamotorsports763 14 днів тому +9

    These ppl are not doctors. They are ppl that made it in business and talk about what's worked for them. Period.

    • @KyleVertoch
      @KyleVertoch 14 днів тому

      Business influencer leader doctors LMAO

    • @nancysmith3400
      @nancysmith3400 14 днів тому +7

      🤗Yes and that’s the beauty of it, ordinary people becoming extraordinary people by seeing what works for them to bring on a successful happy life. Thanks!!!

    • @MsCristina38
      @MsCristina38 13 днів тому +2

      Exactly, all they do is share common sense. However we can still appreciate them as fellow human beings and enjoy listening to their lived experiences.

    • @user-xw2qp3rw1p
      @user-xw2qp3rw1p 13 днів тому

      I agree with you🎉🎉🎉​@@nancysmith3400

  • @junecarter9330
    @junecarter9330 14 днів тому +2

    Thank you for sharing this!! We love Lisa!!! She’s so fly and inspirational!!! ✨💖✨

  • @nathanleung5592
    @nathanleung5592 13 днів тому +1

    Refreshing podcast episode going to this May 2024! So much to learn the confidence & to prioritize the right things. Keep up the good work Jay

  • @tiny.giant1
    @tiny.giant1 13 днів тому +1

    I haven’t watched the video yet but this woman is my absolute favorite

  • @bheehive4497
    @bheehive4497 14 днів тому +7

    I love her. Thank you darling!!

  • @VikiKudko
    @VikiKudko 10 днів тому

    Thank you❤ this is so on time.
    I have similar story, religious upbringing, feeling that I’m not grateful etc. But luckily, I also started to hear MY voice that I’m not happy.

  • @antoniasachtleben
    @antoniasachtleben 14 днів тому +1

    Thank you, Lisa, I learn so much from you today.

  • @brianatexeira
    @brianatexeira 11 днів тому

    Love this!! This is not just for couple or potential couple, however for singles too. This expand’s one’s mindset and growth into further thinking and not always being emotional. Love you both! Can wait for the next one.

  • @eleonorarusso3481
    @eleonorarusso3481 8 днів тому +2

    If a man said to me my work is more important than my family, I would just leave him. He’s got his priorities all messed up.

  • @ilovekandii214
    @ilovekandii214 14 днів тому +1

    This was soooo good!! Thank you!

  • @elizabethmami7223
    @elizabethmami7223 14 днів тому

    This interview is one of your best @Jay

  • @boipelomotshoge4957
    @boipelomotshoge4957 14 днів тому +3

    You are doing an amazing job.❤

  • @mohamedhassan6968
    @mohamedhassan6968 14 днів тому +2

    amazing podcast keep up the good work i am fan.

  • @SR-708
    @SR-708 9 днів тому

    Thanks bro for sharing us valuable content ...i really enjoy your all podcast that are helpful for me ❤

  • @user-xw2qp3rw1p
    @user-xw2qp3rw1p 13 днів тому

    We need part2 please ❤❤❤loved this episode

  • @kaitlynduong8940
    @kaitlynduong8940 14 днів тому +1

    I love this episode!

  • @yvngmotion8307
    @yvngmotion8307 12 днів тому

    What an insightful conversation. Definitely learnt a lot 🎉❤

  • @VikiKudko
    @VikiKudko 7 днів тому

    ❤❤❤ I do love this episode, thank you for it

  • @chandankumarshaw2670
    @chandankumarshaw2670 14 днів тому +1

    She is really very strong 💪

  • @serratuzun9853
    @serratuzun9853 13 днів тому

    My favorite episode so far!

  • @4evaevolving
    @4evaevolving 13 днів тому

    Ooouuu this collab is awesome!!!!

  • @leslyguevara5153
    @leslyguevara5153 9 днів тому

    This one hit different I love this perspective completely ❤it

  • @acarttech
    @acarttech 14 днів тому +1

    Hello
    Jay Shetty thanks for this conversation... Thank you Lisa it's good to always risk 😂😂😂

  • @DominionAnako-bb7ry
    @DominionAnako-bb7ry 4 дні тому +1

    Motivation

  • @rosemaryd284
    @rosemaryd284 13 днів тому

    We’ll see where they are 5yrs..10 yrs. All the best.

  • @aas19205
    @aas19205 13 днів тому

    Love Lisa

  • @cheetifamily
    @cheetifamily 14 днів тому +3

    hi Hoomans it's me Cheeti with my two new born baby kittens and we want some love and support from you all ❤❤

  • @chandankumarshaw2670
    @chandankumarshaw2670 14 днів тому +1

    Nice conversation 👍👍👍👍👍. 💓

  • @KB-bx9ui
    @KB-bx9ui 12 днів тому +1

    FINALLY 🙌

  • @Nddad7777
    @Nddad7777 14 днів тому

    TRUTH ❤

  • @macthartcher4293
    @macthartcher4293 14 днів тому +2

    What a combination. 😲 😱

  • @chandankumarshaw2670
    @chandankumarshaw2670 14 днів тому

    56:55 true

  • @gayleblake4482
    @gayleblake4482 14 днів тому +1

    When we ask our other half for help do we have to tell them it's not their fault even though the conversation and everything in world isn't about them?Really enjoyed this episode.

  • @apatheticme7030
    @apatheticme7030 14 днів тому +1

    Who’s podcast is this

  • @chandankumarshaw2670
    @chandankumarshaw2670 14 днів тому

    58:01yes

  • @micaely880
    @micaely880 14 днів тому +1

    Where are the 5 questions at the end of the last videos?

  • @Fotballhome
    @Fotballhome 14 днів тому

    Thanks ❤️
    A single man pepper him self 😁

  • @beanburrito8903
    @beanburrito8903 14 днів тому

  • @Gaitini
    @Gaitini 4 дні тому

    Working 120h a week 😅😅😅😅 that leves you 7h a day for sleep eat shower is you work everyday day of the week 🤟

  • @dietante494
    @dietante494 13 днів тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @DaennaFilms
    @DaennaFilms 6 днів тому

    ❤❤🔥🔥

  • @evaormandyova
    @evaormandyova 11 днів тому

    Western world. 120 hours worked in a week. People are willing to give up everything for money. That's called greediness.
    On the other hand I have to admit that loosing yourself is the most unhappy thing we can do. But the balance is very important.

  • @JB89_
    @JB89_ 14 днів тому +8

    It’s one thing in being a housewife, it’s another thing to be someone’s Butler. I feel like she took it to the max when there was no need to go quite that far! He can fetch his own clothes.Mothering is never healthy.

    • @rachidaoumalek6425
      @rachidaoumalek6425 14 днів тому +1

      She's giving an extreme image of the housewife while reasonably helping your family to have a stable calm life is a success

  • @chandankumarshaw2670
    @chandankumarshaw2670 14 днів тому

    32:21 what is going on!

  • @chandankumarshaw2670
    @chandankumarshaw2670 14 днів тому +1

    55:32 👍🤍

    • @Alexlittle9
      @Alexlittle9 13 днів тому

      Loved and respected 🫡❤️

  • @muffindolphindaphnee
    @muffindolphindaphnee 14 днів тому +1

    In all these conversations, it sounds to me like the woman had to adjust for the man. I think that's kind of the life this lady wanted, to be led by her man. But is there a good relationship we can look up to where the woman didnt have to adjust or let go of her dream, of having children like for this lady for example, and instead both partners found a midpoint?

    • @MsCristina38
      @MsCristina38 13 днів тому

      Did she say she wanted kids? Some women have kids and really regret having the kids.

  • @vickil.1388
    @vickil.1388 14 днів тому

    I had the most delicious bacon, lettuce, and tomato sandwich that I couldn't swallow because it was burned, dry, shattered glass that turned saw dust in my mouth.😅

  • @user-lf1yi8tl5f
    @user-lf1yi8tl5f 14 днів тому

    Free 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 ❤❤❤ till kingdom come

  • @myhandle321
    @myhandle321 11 днів тому

    who is she?

  • @user-hi1ke5gp6n
    @user-hi1ke5gp6n 13 днів тому

    Я то счастлив это моя стихия со здоровьем проблемы и доставить меня надо именно в США

  • @sinistros6666
    @sinistros6666 14 днів тому +1

    Didn't she find a larger watch?

  • @tedwilson1477
    @tedwilson1477 13 днів тому

    The reason why she is happy to let Tom lead, is because he would be just as happy to let her lead. In most relationships, this is not the case.

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489
    @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489 14 днів тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @user-lf1yi8tl5f
    @user-lf1yi8tl5f 14 днів тому

    Free 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 till kingdom come

  • @user-wj3bn1yi8f
    @user-wj3bn1yi8f 13 днів тому

    I guarantee that Tom does not want Postmates. He wants you to cook for him.

  • @salyol7
    @salyol7 14 днів тому +1

    Please let your viewers chose to subscribe or not to your channel !

  • @Gaitini
    @Gaitini 4 дні тому

    Are we really making a big deal of a man that is not upset because his partner is not he’s maid anymore?! 😅

  • @henrikelanschuetzer4261
    @henrikelanschuetzer4261 14 днів тому

    Both of them pronouncing " needs" of Lost Generation.
    Luckily other examples out there.

  • @estherhamalka1669
    @estherhamalka1669 12 днів тому

    I get the feeling she has given up of new life, bb, because her husband is selfish and lazy. She wont be a single mom m-f, she is a single woman i guess. Dont give up your dreams, life bc of a man. 😮😢 i would rather stay and live single strong and honest😮😇

  • @mrsweet4955
    @mrsweet4955 7 днів тому

    Good for her but this episode was a waste of time.

  • @TheDarkerAges
    @TheDarkerAges 12 днів тому

    People still listen to this fraud?

  • @UmidaMamadiyorova-mj3tn
    @UmidaMamadiyorova-mj3tn 13 днів тому

    ❤️‍🔥