This Is How You Love Yourself | Radhi Devlukia Shetty on Women of Impact
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On Today's Episode:
Radhi Devlukia Shetty sits down with Lisa to discuss how to cultivate self-love, why you need it, and the importance of breaking down your fears.
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SHOW NOTES
Emotional struggles of growing up overweight [01:55]
Why basing your self-worth on external validation never works [04:49]
How to develop a relationship with yourself [05:49]
Why self-criticism isn’t always healthy [08:00]
Tactical steps to changing your perspective [09:38]
Balancing self-doubt and self-trust [13:17]
Why we focus on physical appearance over internal strength [15:34]
Stop hiding your emotions [17:11]
How to embrace your emotions without being overly-emotional [18:07]
Why having a safety net is ok [26:38]
Learning to spend time with yourself [28:27]
Recognizing and changing your negative qualities through observation [30:12]
How to break down your fears [32:30]
Developing the courage to step out of your comfort zone [34:28]
The differences between men and women in the workplace [36:00]
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Luv you Girlie, girl! Thank you, Lisa for bringing this content!
Thanks for keeping it Real🔥💕🙏
Amen Amen Amen!)In Jesus Name. Thank you!)*
Lisa is the most loving person I have never seen -- I hope and wish the best for her......The only person in the world..
Thank you, likewise
To the 1% reading this... I wish nothing but genuine prosperity and success
Thank you !! 🤗🤗
I wish the same for you !! 🙏🙏🤗🤗
THANK YOU. you too, you will attract the same goodness to you! God Bless!
THanku so much
Thank you and the very same for you ♥️
Oh thank you the same to you beautifull soul!🙏
Three things I learned:
- Love yourself
- Stop self criticism
- Overcome your fears.
Amazing talk show. Thanks a lot ladies.
Sudeep Shrestha Happy to be of service! So glad you’re enjoying the show 🙏🏻👏🏻🙌🏻
Amen and Amen !!!!
But it might take time , might not be done in a straight line, done probably in trials and errors , takes a lot prayers and humbling oneself , a lot of forgiveness ( of oneself and of others ),
a lot of reflection/ analysis and courage. How does one love herself/hiself? How to overcome our fears ?
She worked a lot on herself but she also had a lot of love and support from her husband and family .
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100% Confirmed, Jay and Radhi are soul mates. They look alike, uphold the same values, share in the same belief of helping people....the list of similarities goes on an on and one. May God continue to Bless this awesome , kind and loving couple.
I AGREE!!!..Beautiful Inspiring Couple!..Hes a Lucky Man Jay Sheddy!!!
Jay Shetty not Sheddy 😂@sherylhokianga3
When she cried I cried. I’ve felt the same for such a long time. What a beautiful, vulnerable, gentle soul ❤️ ✨
Roshni and Jay are going to have some amazing babies with those eyes of theirs! What a beautiful couple both inside and out. He couldn't have found a better match and same for her. All the best to both of them.
I think it's not important to think about Babies wrt the Couple.... they should be talked about their Service
RADHI and Jay, Roshni is Radhi's sister
You mean contacts 😂
@@saralin2820 no she inherited her grandmother's eyes they're not contacts I've been following her for long
@@Michelle-lu7yt lol they are the same person Radhi is Roshni's nickname
Radhi actually means Beauty in Tamil.. and she is such a beauty inside out!...I'm a fan of Jay Shetty but now even more of a fan of his wife...God bless this beautiful couple!
Jaya Maruthan Aww 🥰 That’s so lovely 🙏🏻
Same here 💫
Tamil ? Is she tamil ? What do you mean ?
@@babysaantonrajah3464 Radhi is from Indian origin maybe belongs to Tamil family
@@shubham943 how come she never spoke in Tamil . Or she never said tamil . I don’t think she is Tamil .
I never want to be that girl again. Sacrificing myself for a man before I’ve even discovered myself.
I can recall a moment when my ex and I were together and someone asked who I was. My response was [insert ex’s name] girlfriend. The person then said, and what’s your NAME. I of course then gave them my name, but It was in that moment that I realized I had become his shadow. I had nothing for myself to the point where I literally lost my identity.
l3l3Cakes wow! Thank you for sharing that. Felt it 💗 #DoYou! Always 💗
I love hearing her speak. She’s so authentic, intelligent, beautiful, and down to earth! I love that she has a little more grit or more “real” personality then Jay. She really is vulnerable with her imperfections but strong in speaking about them. It must not be easy being under the pressure of being Jay’s wife and who “she needs to be.” But she is so beautiful, articulate, and real! I love her!
Lauren Silva this is so beautifully put! She is all of those things. Her vulnerability just makes her more relatable and her authenticity is magnetic 🧲 So glad you enjoyed the episode! ❤️
Nicely said!
I have the same feeling, I'm so grateful for the opportunity to watch this, Lisa and Radhi enlightened my day today
When she started crying I felt that
We are all here to be a better version of ourselves:)
Yes we all have flaws and our beauty lies in our ability to accept ourselves - flaws and all 😀
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Namaste 💕🙏🏻💕
I thought i am the only one who feels like that, like i don't know what i am here for or what is it i have to offer to the world? she just made me feel more human and feel like it's ok
Lisa, I love the way you asked your questions without interrupting but pushing her to think more about the reasons of why she was thinking or reacting in that situation. I think that's a real skill you have. You are both very sweet and educated.
Thank you so much for this ❤️
Amen !
Exactly I admire this about Lisa so much the way she is able to stimulate and try to get more sensible output of the conversation by asking super smart questions and the fact that she gets such questions states she is so smart..
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SHOW NOTES
Emotional struggles of growing up overweight [01:55]
Why basing your self-worth on external validation never works [04:49]
How to develop a relationship with yourself [05:49]
Why self-criticism isn’t always healthy [08:00]
Tactical steps to changing your perspective [09:38]
Balancing self-doubt and self-trust [13:17]
Why we focus on physical appearance over internal strength [15:34]
Stop hiding your emotions [17:11]
How to embrace your emotions without being overly-emotional [18:07]
Why having a safety net is ok [26:38]
Learning to spend time with yourself [28:27]
Recognizing and changing your negative qualities through observation [30:12]
How to break down your fears [32:30]
Developing the courage to step out of your comfort zone [34:28]
The differences between men and women in the workplace [36:00]
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Wooouuu..You have a gift to put things into a structure,is great center points for self guidance... Thank you so much for sharing your strengths..! 🙏🙏🙏💠💚😘
I love her omg
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I know, right? ❤️🌻🌈🌹
Why have you stopped making your blogs brown girl?
I miss it so much
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Me too💜
Damnnnn she should be top 10 most beautiful woman in the world
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Soul mates. Waaw. Destiny Faith
I agree😍😍😍😍
@@LisaBilyeu to
and then you look at her husband and they look like the super hot twinsie couple. lol
I love that she got emotional with speaking about feeling not good enough and not knowing your own strengths. Those are my own struggles and it made me relate so much more, seeing her vulnerability.
I love how transparent she is. That's a powerful woman!
shawna Wallace 🙏🏻
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She is the most beautiful person I have ever seen. It's her humility and natural beauty in a world plastered with makeup.
In my late 20’s after a bad breakup, I began a path of self destruction and loathing. Self criticism and hatred can happen at any age. What’s important is learning from it and moving forward by putting your needs and self care first.
Radhi is such a beautiful soul and shines from the inside out.She has such humility and her honesty is truly refreshing. Tears are usually release of inner tension and healthy.
“TO FALLL IN LOVE WITH
YOURSELF IS THE FIRST
SECRET TO HAPPINESS.”
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Lisa, I came here for Radhi, but I am blown away by how authentic you are as an interviewer, and, by extension, as a person. Thank you for this series.
I was already in love with Radhi. But hell the interviewer is unbelivable. Lisa, you have a new fan! You ask the most intelligent and interesting questions and really listen. Both of you are great and I've learned some things through the interview. Thank you♥
Das Herzchen That’s so lovely! Thank you 🙏🏻 Feeling the love and sending it right back 💜
"I created a relationship with myself" this is so BIG. We go after anyone and anything for validation, while we don't even know who we are ... amazing 💓
I can relate so much to her. I feel like I dont know what my purpose is so I always try to look my best on the outside and in reality I'm struggling to find myself spiritually.
You will get there, love!♥
Sending in high wavelengths and power to you💐
same
Me too x
Many of us do the same 😣🤔
😕 It ALL REALLY STARTS INSIDE!! However we feel inside, unconsciously, we reflected 😕
That's better than anything
Anyone else relate to Radhi on so many levels? I've been struggling with my weight for some years, and although I know that physical appearance doesn't define a person, like Radhi says, you can tell people treat others based on appearance at school. I'm embarking on a self-love journey, it's going to be slow and difficult, but I know I can do it, because many strong girls have perservered through.
I'm 26 and still struggling with it. Like you said, I do know that our appearance doesn't define our worth but it's difficult drilling that into my mind. I'm trying to.
Wow what a woman. She's so lovely, intelligent, self-aware, authentic and beautiful on top of it all. I took away so much from this conversation!
Self awareness=self confidence, self confidence=internal beauty, internal beauty=radiates a bright light. She is a wonderful example of a beautiful human in so many ways!!
Self confidence is not always enough internal beauty. Have you NOT seen the MANY obnoxious loud disgusting ppl who think they are confident but disrespect others boundaries are uncomfortably loud gossip and are mean?
When she said “I broke somebody to Jay ‘I don’t know what I’m good at, I don’t know what I have to offer the world” I truly felt that.
She’s honest and pure. I am aspired to become like her one day. During this period of confinement, it has been hard for me to process things. I have panic attacks and high anxiety but these videos helped me a lot. Thank you for helping people every day. I couldn't be more grateful.
I am sorry to hear you are having a hard time during this confinement. Why are you anxious and having panic attacks?
You are not alone ! These are extremely harsh times for so many of us. We must take courage and try to find best solutions . Sure not easy but this the battle we have been put in . I pray you get out of it soon ! .
She's incredibly angelic, beautiful and a breath of fresh air... 💜
7saany 🙏🏻💕
"How can you love yourself without knowing who you are"❤❤❤
This really resonated with me too. I want to know myself.
If you just start loving yourself just because , you want to know more about yourself
This was raw! I felt her on so many levels
So glad it resonate with you! 💜
I'm almost 37 - and I feel like my my entire life I've been searching what am I good at? What service can I provide to people. And I go blank. It's really soul wrenching 😔
Try the home for unwanted babies near your area. I know this is not for all people but those babies needs cuddling. Just volunteer and start from there.
@@livinglifeinaluggage home for unwanted babies ?? Do you mean in the hospital or after ?
@@jomcenroe7538 after..there are some babies that are being left behind and they need cuddling..
Start over never late sweetie
Lisa, you’re the perfect interviewer; and this conversation was completely badass. Can’t wait to see/learn more!
Wow, thank you Sasha!
What is badass meaning I really don't know
As a heterosexual woman, I think I just fell out of love with Jay and in love with her.
Haha!! LOVE THIS!!!! 🙌🏻💜💜
I love Jay like a brother so of course I love her too! What a beautiful spirit!
Same feels.
Ditto ❤
I sooo understand how that happened 😂😂😂
This talk cleared so much of my personal dilemma. Heartfelt thanks.
Rhadi's Instagram videos during covid were 100% the most uplifting, joyfull and encouraging in my life. There was nothing better
You owe yourself the love that you so freely give to other people!!
FLY!! - First Love Yourself
Loving yourself is the most powerful thing!
"How can you love yourself if you don’t know who you are?" - Roshni Devlukia
That question! I have been working hard on loving myself, and hearing this question... Just gave me one more on how to do it!!
This show is amazing. I absolutely adore the feminine energy, and the vulnerability and authenticity.
Thank you Lisa for sharing those insightful talks you're having with all of us. I can't wait for more episodes!
That's awesome!! It's an honor! glad to know that this episode impacted your life in some way!!
You should meet her husband , Jay Shetty.
The moment she started crying I balled my eyes out because she explained my entire life in 2 minutes! I am so grateful I came across this at this time. Love both of you ladies on the show!
Truth, if we don't love ourselves and are always critical and have low self esteem, we tend to emit that negative energy and start to criticize others as well. Doing so is just gonna circulate that negativity and it brings us down in the spirit, we get irritable etc. I wake up thanking Jesus for a wonderful day and ask Him to help me love myself so I could reach out to those that are hurting.
Savithri Venu Gopal Beautiful ❤️💜
Whatever you have said is lovely
Lovely story
She is the epitome of the word Gorgeous.
Love her mind, but right now I want to talk about her outer beauty: Omg such a refreshing beauty! Natural beauty! Natural thick curly wavy soft long hair! Beautiful eyes that are not layered in thick loud makeup and fake lashes etc. Even her lips seems like just in lip balm at most. Her clothes are so simple YET!
She's just so naturally effortlessly breath takingly beautiful! 😍❣️
I will write down "This is what you thought and this is "What i wished you thought" I love this
Lisa Bilyeu is a brilliant interviewer, she has such great energy that makes her guest and audience feel so at ease. I love this talk, such enlightening wisdom in it. Credit to Radhy Shetty, such a beautiful human being to share her vulnerabilities with such openness.
Diana Adhiambo agreed on all levels. Thank you! So glad you enjoyed the episode 💜
Beautiful minds, beautiful souls, beautiful human beings... ❤
Roshni and Jay Shetty are such an inspiration. They are such a lovely couple and such genuine people.
Same goes for Tom and Lisa Bilyeu.. Lets make the world a more positive place..
Aww. That's so lovely. Thank you for taking the time to comment 🙏🏻💜
As a woman, I really enjoy listening to these conversations between women because this day in age we are being pushed to compete with each other. In the old days, women would come together and make huge changes in their lives❤️👌🏽
I feel me in her....I have faced everything the way she explained ..one difference is I was ugly thin enough... ..
Now I am Changed externally...bt internal pain is still there...
Thank you so much....I could connect to her... I will follow the way she did everything.....♥️🌸
smrity Sarma So glad you could relate 💜 #DoYou
Lisa, when you said “do you need a tissue” and then with a pause “can you explain to me why you are emotional” is one of the most sweetest most heartfelt profound concerning and loving statements…that moment was so personal between you two…thank you both for showing you vulnerability in your emotions…I’m still in tears🫶
Hardly 😂 she's interviewing her
Radhi, much love for u, you are emotional like me. And i have heard such people are pure hearted
i cried with her when she started crying because that is exactly how i feel.
I am 29 years old and I can completely relate to it. This brought tears to me. Thankyou so much for sharing your journey with us. You made me braver today!
OMG! Its Jay Shetty's wife!! Now I'm gonna watch the video! 😁
You bet it is ;) She's phenomenal!!
Radhi is the Perfect example of a "hightly sensitive" person 😊
Totally! 💛🎯
ok, let's take note that, when she mentions her breakdown (15:14) she told her husband "I don't know what I can serve to other people/ offer the world". it's so rare for people to think that way cause in today's society people are so conditioned to worry about money (survival of self) before anything, or what they can do to stand out for FAME or something; its the fact that she asked the most selfless question, and she ended up getting her answer. the external is a reflection of the internal as she mentioned before, ex: about criticizing. when you criticize yourself all the time, you critic everything in your life, so when you reflect love inward in the sense of service for the external, everything begins to fall into place. love it
You two! I hope you read this. Thank you from my heart. This is my first comment ever, but I felt to thank you for your conversation, being feminine the way you are and show what it means and takes to be a woman. With emotions with brilliance. Blessings!
I love this... women of impact (of mega strength). What I have found; in the 40 yrs of life, becoming a wife & a parent; is that strong, accomplished women say "I've struggled " or "the struggle is real". None of them explain the struggles they had or express what the struggles really are (ie: putting off having kids to reach a financial/success goal or trading sleep/sanity to maintain presence with spouce/kids and still reach financial/success goals). WOI(T) & IT brings just that. Thank you. The guests have definitely impacted my mind positively. Being a Mom, just now getting out into (& learning) the hustle after a decade of being only a Mom, I need all the mental/emotional help I can get. The last thing I want is for my kids & husband to feel neglected, but I am not just a Mom/Wife. I am ME. Those that want to manage a home/family like a bad ass- good for them. I want to as well, but I also have a need to do more. I want to give more. I loved the Mel Robbins episode. I wish I was a fly on her walls through all of the struggles. So inspirational. Thank you from the bottom of my ♥️, soul, and mind.
I looove Radhi soo much!! She’s a little ball of sunshine!! 😭😍
This is the best interview to date !!!! So proud of you ladies ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I just recently found you on here Lisa and want to share that your intro’s are truly so amazing! The effort and energy you put into understanding your guests and sharing their light with us is outstanding and you do such a great job with that!!
I Loved listening to Radhi. She seems very authentic and self aware.
J K Agreed! She’s a special soul 💕
Nice
Wow this interview looks so casual but its actually very in dept and meaningful.. thank you radhi for being so transparent and genuine.. you are amazingly beautiful inside out 💓 i can feel ur aura .. kudos to lisa for being such an incredible interviewer, ur biceps is killing it girl! 💪🏼
This interview really hit home with me. I have been wallowing because I didn't know what to do. I did know what to do but was being lazy...meditate and journal. It's easier but more painful to stay stuck. Thank you for this episode. Needed a kick in the butt!
Wow, I love all the honesty in this video.. so unscripted and flowing. Much needed on the internet!
I resonate so deeply with Radhi’s message. I also struggled greatly with body image, and it took me years to build self love which primarily began, uncannily enough, moving abroad and living on my own!
Thank you Radhi for being beautifully vulnerable, and Lisa for being so authentic at the end of the video. I loved how you completely flipped that situation around to show everyone that no one has it perfect. There is no perfection, only progress-that of which goes far only with the ever expanding energy of (self) love and authenticity.
Wow now that part "....THERE IS NO PERFECTION ONLY PROGRESS...." I love it so much, lately I stopped saying the infamous line "the struggle is real" I say "THE PROGRESS IS REAL" instead coz definitely ain't no struggling here no more, it's only progress and progress doesn't mean u have arrived it just means you are W-I-P i.e WORK IN PROGRESS!!!!!!
I can relate to Radhi so much . I'm exactly like her and I have just started working on myself and listening to her gives me hope that I can find myself too, even though I'm lost now , I don't know where I belong, but I will figure it out eventually . I'm so thankful for this episode.
Omg she is AMAZING I hadn’t no idea I can’t so relate what a beautiful soul she’s is !!! I am definitely inspired 💞💞💞
Honestly, I just discovered this channel 3 days ago, but I'm so in love with it.
I love how the women take time to talk about their lows and how to overcome them.
I'm so glad this channel is here for us women.
Thank you so much Lisa for this, and may we all be women of impact❤
Thank you so much for these videos and this channel. Struggling through mental health problems, spiritual transitioning, and re learning independence after countless toxic relationship and finally beginning to take responsibility. There is a lot to balance in this life and these videos are amazing to relate to. Thank you so much Lisa and all these beautiful strong women
Thank you for sharing your story Radhi, I found so much of comfort in your advice. You are inspirational
I discovered you simply because I just discovered Jay and Radhi, I immediately subscribed to their channels and this video popped up in my feed. I love the idea of your channel being Women of Impact. I am now a new subscriber here. Thank you for what you do!
I don't know why this had popped up in my recommendations but I am, so glad that this video did. Other than the obvious (how amazing she is etc) I must say, this interviewer is amazing. She is observant and empathic. I love her. Golden work 😘😍😻
I see me in her in so many ways..starting from the laughter..so freaking similar..I'm so empowered after watching this❤️❤️
What amazing people she and Jay are. The insights they share are so important and shared in such a beautiful, honest way. It leaves me with a feeling like they share because they really care about helping everyone they can. And they are beautiful together!
This was essential for me to hear at this very moment! Thank you both!
You are an amazing interviewer. Your introductions for each of your guests are so wonderful.
I loved this Lisa! You are so sweet and introspective. You always leave me with a new thought or question. Loved loved loved this episode and loved the way you resolved the issue at the end. It almost made the episode even better. So encouraging! So excited to see where this channel goes!
That's so amazing to hear! We're so glad you liked the ending too. Thank you for the support, girl!
Writing is so powerful. Journaling has helped me so much on my journey. It's really key to introspection and personal development. 😊
She is so raw and honest. So pure, just coming from the heart 💜
I love how you explain we all are humans and being a woman is a challenge every day and with a lot of emotions. Thank you for sharing. I now on, avoid hiding my feelings, I recognize that I was well thought how to avoid any feeling or opinion and need to remove it from my life!!!
What a beautiful conversation
Radhi has such a beautiful heart and soul. I'm taking this all in, and can't wait to incorporate some of her teachings.
I don't know how much i missed if this channel is never made. I am slowly become more creative by inspired by each woman and Lisa herself. I LOVE LOVE this channel!
Dear Lisa, I love your message at the end! That was so funny and so inspiring, that you decided not to cover up that the video/audio stopped. Thanks for being such a light to the world ❤️🙏🌷🌿
I love Jay Shetty :)
Thank you Lisa for this sweet interview :)
This was a really insightful interview to watch. I always assumed that Radhi was extraordinarily ‘perfect’ until I this. It feels like an assurance that she too has imperfections and is real about sharing them, about dealing with them. This is even more respect and love to this beautiful lady.
I'm going through what you explained when you got emotional Radhi. I was crying with you.
Love this interview, thank you
I feel uplifted every time I visit your channel, Lisa! Thank you for being you, and inspiring the rest of us to find the confidence to do the same💙
Omg, I'm finally seeing Tom Bilyeu's wife 😍 I heard so much about you. You are even lovelier than I thought you must be 💓 Thank you for this show!! It makes a difference to watch a female host interviewing other women to help and inspire people to reach more success in their lives. This presence of women here really is the magic touch of this program. Love this so much. You are do loving and kind, and that end of the video clip made me love you even more! Your husband's speeches touch my heart, and now I get to hear great quality from another woman too. Powerful. And this is my first video here!
Ive never been so glad to have watched something. Wow this literally feels like it helped me so much I really want to sort myself out, such an amazing conversation, so many issues addressed in so much detail thank you so much.
Aww, LOVE this. SO glad you enjoyed the episode!! 🙌🏻💜
I am following Jay and his inspirational videos , I loved him straight away. And now this raw interview of his wife's experiences, so genuine and gentle human being! Bless this couple
Thank you Lisa for what you do! It’s empowering me to get through challenging times and reaffirms that we’re not alone. 🙏
Lisa! Youre like the woman version of tom bilyeau! Thank you so much for this 🙏🏼 for inspiration and everything else! More power to you and tom! You guys are amazing ❤️
I absolutely love her! Radhi is such an inspiration. ❤️
I love that she read about the things she broke down that she didn’t like about her behavior!! ❤️
I was hating myself for breaking down yesterday after I had built up the frustration for a long time with a friend and this podcast made me feel better and made me feel okay to cry out. Thank you❤
Good grief, That resonated strongly!
Thanks to both of you for articulating these thoughts so beautifully. Glad I found this!
Vivek Dubey So glad you found us too! ❤️And that our content resonated 🙏🏻🙌🏻
Beautifully explained , how to be honest with ourself and genuinely accepting and working on it . Radhi you are simply the most beautiful , gorgeous soul , so genuine and felt instant connect . Love you ! Wish you success and happiness 😘❤️
Thanks 🙏
I'm halfway through this and I already feel the genuine sincerity of Ms Shetty's words and want to reflect on them as I am overwhelmed by the honesty of how similar our childhoods were, but 30 years apart and geographically far apart.