It’s so important to see these red flags as early as possible. We tend to be blinded by the idea of love with that person in the beginning that it can be hard to notice these bad habits but staying clear headed (as much as you can) when getting into a new relationship can save you a lot of heartache and trauma. Please be safe!
ugh, I agree and always come back to that, and again, in my case, there was no sign in the beginning, not in her actions anyway... she had two sides and I really discover the second one way too late
I was in a controlling relationship for about 2 years. It took some time to get over it but I was able to finally find peace and freedom now that I am away from it. For whoever is going through any of these toxic relationships, save yourself from the pain and leave while you still have the chance
The fear of codependency makes me terrified of asking for anything ever, especially from my boyfriend because I was told all during my childhood that I was too reliant on my parents by my mother & her family. If I ask for help figuring out what to wear or assistance in doing something to make it easier for me to help myself I feel like I’m burdening him unnecessarily. & I can’t tell if that’s the case or not
I think it's good to introspect about this one. When it comes to figuring out what to wear, is it because you're used to having someone do it for you? Is it because you like your boyfriends feedback? Do you ask him often? Get to the root of it and understand it. it'll set you free. Once you understand this deeper part of yourself you'll see if asking for help with picking out clothes is a dependency thing or if it's something else
@@sarahvasquez6494 I’m Schizotypal, we struggle to dress ourselves. I always need help He’s my ex now, he abused me. My new partner is really amazing though. Thank you for being kind enough to respond to me♥️
Tip: if you're having doubts about your relationship but hold back from telling your partner about it, the relationship will just get worse and worse. It's better to tell your partner the truth (even if it's not what they want to hear) than letting your feelings fester.
I’ve had close calls with all of these types of relationships. When it ended I felt like I was in the wrong or unlovable. After doing work in therapy, I understand that those relationships were just not healthy and not meant for me. I’m at a much healthier and happier point in my life and I am actively working on becoming a good partner for my future spouse. Thank you for these informative videos 💗
*I'd love to see a video on: how to have a fight without hurting eachother and how to tell what is frustrating you without telling it frustrated.* Because I'm not able to become mad until the pile of frustration is falling over and now I'm rude person towards the person I actually love and he deserves love but due my old home situation I have these bad habits :/
You need to work on yourself first, always. You can’t love and respect others if you don’t love and respect yourself first. An inability to articulate your emotions until they’ve reached a breaking point is not well adapted and unless you address the root cause, you’ll always find yourself struggling to express your feelings without turmoil.
It helps to use "I" statements so it communicates how *you* feel without having it sound like the other person is being blamed. For example, you could say something like "I feel hurt that you didn't listen to what I said" instead of something like "You never listen to what I say!" If you ever catch yourself feeling frustrated or being rude to your significant other, it might help to take a step back, let him know you need a bit of time and space to calm down/think through things, and take a walk or do whatever might help you calm down. That way, after you've calmed down, you can think through what you say better and not act on anger. Personally, I find that writing down my thoughts helps me calm down, rationalize, and realize that oh, I'm not being the nicest right now and this could hurt my partner. Then I like to reword my thoughts so that it doesn't sound like I'm blaming him and then share them with him so my thoughts are heard. Other than these, you can check out Kyle Lee's (www.tiktok.com/@kyleleejenner) tips on relationships, he has a few videos where he gives tips on how to communicate your feelings more effectively. I found them very helpful! Hope that helps!
“5 types of Toxic Relationships you should avoid at all costs” Ah yes: 1.) Pollution and everything 2.) Chemicals 3.) An average CoD chat in 2010 4.) Chernobyl and Pripyat 5.) A normal day in Twitter/Reddit
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This gave me an idea where I’d love if you guys made another video on why some of us attract nothing but toxic, unhealthy relationships. And seem to never attract anything healthy. It’s like a cycle of meeting the same people, in different bodies
I think this is kind of a weird one because most people don't willingly get into toxic relationships and avoiding them immeadiately isn't always possible Some either don't know or realize later that their relationship isn't healthy but I do still like this video for its animation and the topic in itself is great to be educated about :D
Sadly, first impressions nor personality mean everything. Most of the time people start off being nice and/or possess an electric personality, but it's only gradually that people's true character shows. I don't know anybody who chooses to be in a toxic relationship, unless that person is toxic themselves, like if they see the person as some charity case and want to change them, otherwise nobody willing gets themselves into these detrimental relationship. Plus, some of us seem to just attract the most chaotic people for no apparent reason. This applies to friendships, too. Everybody is cordial when we meet them, of course, and is great for a little while, so it's easy to be duped, until not too long later they start mistreating us, and do it in such subtle ways that we can't see it until a certain amount of time, and we're so drained by that point.
The explanation to as to why most people do not willfully place themselves in the hands of a toxic relationship lies in the fact that, at the beginning, the symptoms of the disease are invisible to the eye, which thus makes the person seem normal and promising on the surface. And that may be so for a timespan of some days, weeks or months before the symptoms finally begin to manifest gradually one after another, and grow stronger also.
@h0r1z0nt4l I never said spreading awareness is weird, Do you have reading comprehension problems? You correct me, saying literally the exact same thing I just said acting like you did something. Lol
One thing I can say is this, never ever try to sacrifice your emotional, physical and mental health for a toxic family in the name of a trauma bond and not love. That's the worst thing one can do
Hi I know were talking about the contents of the video in the comment section, but can everyone just stop and stare at the visuals??? ITS SO BEAUTIFUL. Ive seen them animate before in some videos AND THEY REALLY BLOSSOMED. IF YOU CAN SEE THIS ARTIST/S AND EDITORS I LOVE YOUR ARTTT💗💗💗
Please do one on why it's so hard to get out and how to do it. I already know that I am in a toxic relationship but it's strangely difficult to get out
I LOVE the animation in this video and really this channel in general. I would love to watch a show with this soft childbook type artstyle. Thank you animators and everyone working on the vids!
I was in a controlling and emotional abusive relationship. After more than two years it's still hard for me to date someone new because I can't trust anyone entirely.
I was just in a codependent relationship where I definitely was taking care of her ( in all ways) but she was incapable of being there emotionally, so then I did the scorecard cause it really felt like she never made any effort. and by neglecting me emotionally it felt like abuse....
A good video idea I think of is how to be there, how to be supportive, to a partner that is going through something of great difficulty. An example is if your partner is depressed, they will get better, but it will take some time. So what could you do for your partner while also being resilient enough not to become depressed yourself? Just that kind of thing, I hope it makes sense :P
I do not have a partner but all of these describe my mother's actions towards me I think the next video should be on ways to stay away and keep happy though these relationships Because in my case... I can't get rid of my mother
In my case he was always saying he was confused , that one day he loved me other day he didn't. This created a huge insecurity in me, I was always doubt. So I was doing everything to support him, even thought I was giving him financial help, upgraded his boat to go for his work, bought him a car but nothing was enough. He was using silent treatment a lot if I was trying to talk with with him how I was felling it was my fault. Now he left me pregnant and I really believe everything is my fault. Is terrible how I lost myself and I feel guilty he said everything is my fault after all! And a lot of gaslight too..
I think I had a codependent and scorecard friendship. It didn't feel like an healthy friendship anymore. It hurts to let go, but it hurts more to stay in an unhealthy friendship for me.
Try talking. If you feel that’s not possible, than slowly fade them out and tell them you no longer want to be friends. Being as direct as possible is usually the best, hold your ground and keep your boundaries.
@@Ejazzz Yes I tried to talk to my friend and It didn't end well, plus my friend is not in the same city as me so we can only talk through text/phone calls and it made everything more complicated... Thank you for your reply! :)
I wasn't giving that much credit to videos about relationships, but if you want a healthy and lasting one this kind of infos are super valuable and can save your time energy and health. Btw the animation is refreshing funny and creative as usual. Love y'all ❤️
My (late 30s male) three toxic relationships (two narcissistic and one controlling) all ended the same way. I eventually got bored of their shenanigans, lulled them into a false sense of security, promised them everything they wanted, made them think they had me wrapped around their finger(s), and then simply ghosted them. Each time I wasn't even angry, just disappointed. For some reason, I was able to clearly see their toxicity shortly after each relationship began, as if they weren't even trying to be subtle while attempting to manipulate me. Funny enough, I even felt a little bit insulted that they didn't bring their "A" game to the table.
I have a weird relationship and feel like I’m the one being toxic but it feels like I’m more of a parent in my relationship. There is a lot of behaviour from my fiancé that most would deem childish like being unable to maintain personal hygiene and if not told to specifically do a chore in an exact way he will act like a teenager and half arse it e.g. just throwing the towels in the cupboard or leaving clean stuff in the machines and rerunning them so he doesn’t have to do anything. I feel like my exasperation with this is toxic cause I feel like something else is going on but can’t seem to get to the bottom of it, he’s been in therapy so many times and I think I’m being harsh on him trying to make him with a lack of a better word “adult” and everything always ends up on me to do
Well imagine do you want to spend your life with someone like this? It will turn into a co-dependent relationship. Where he relies on you to do the brunt of the work. How is his relationship with his parents? Did his mom baby him most of his life? If he doesn’t know how to do something and is shown how and still doesn’t do it right it could be a sign of “weaponized incompetence”. It means that he uses this incompetence as a way to get out of pulling his weight.
Communicate well and openly but also compromise, is he open to changing some things with the way he does chores? Maybe there are some chores that he does that bother you more than the other chores, so you can talk about changes for that, then maybe other stuff you can leave out. My husband does laundry differently than I do, like how he puts the cup in the washer and I just suddenly told him not to do that and took the cup out, and he was kinda upset and told me to just let him do it the way he does it (this was already after we had talks about me getting bothered by the way he does things), and thinking about it he lets me do laundry the way I do it too. I realize there are some things I would still like him to tweak to make it easier for both of us, but things like these aren’t that worth it to protest about and change. We choose our battles indeed in a relationship and we don’t always have to do it our way. Again, this should come from both sides and come from a place of openness, respect, and love, not with anger and frustration because you two will go through frustration just talking about it but if it’s from a place of love, your goal is to still to help ease each other out. I wish for the best for your relationship.
Thank you both for the responses :) yes his mother babied him but also abused him when he lived with his parents and brother their house was an absolute tip and before we moved in I said I wouldn’t accept the same in our own. I have had an open discussion with him about this before and he’s been to therapy so many times but doesn’t seem to help him :( hope you both have lovely days
@@TheAngelChaz it’s tough. I encourage you to be more patient with him if he’s willing to put in the work with his therapy and changing his attitude towards chores a little bit and making a manageable chore routine with you. Check if his therapist is really helping him too, otherwise get a different one. I’m not good with chores either, and have been really depressed ever since my parents divorced 4 years ago, but my husband has been so patient with me and has given me so much grace with it because I wouldn’t even touch the dishes on the sink for several days and he would end up cleaning a big pile of it, as well as other chores. He does mention it sometimes when he wants me to take charge more of the dishes or other things just to help out, but I really appreciate his patience because some days I’d rather just sleep through my depression and only wake up when I need to go to work. That said, in return I have decided to go to therapy to better myself with my mental health issues and better our relationship, and I put effort in doing laundry more and more everyday, and sometimes even washing the dishes (that’s my least favorite chore). But it’s also up to you then what you would like to do.
@@pandascoops its less the chores i care about its more the hygeine, I have crohns diesease and have a suppressed immune system as a result so i have to be careful with germs
I seriously gotta respect psych2go for honestly helping us all out. Thank u so much for the hard work u guys put in. And as always, I'm loving the new kinds of animation styles
Issues may not cease upon exiting a toxic relationship. Extreme example , couples on skid Row with addiction in tow. They're obviously not in healthy relationship, but they want the same security a relationship brings, but their issues outside of relationships don't instantly disappear if they leave the toxic relationship. Please seek help if you are in a situation, but be aware solving one issue may not solve them all. So please talk to people you can trust, & don't rely on Internet video's or chat, posts (like me) before you act.
Actually because I was so emotional that I used to get made fun of by my own friends and relatives now I am emotionless but if I cry those tears will be so painful I became aggressive because of holding them for too long I am aggressive now rather then the happy nature the old me is dead
Same here. All of these apply with my relationship with my own parents. I wish my parents would be "normal," people I can actually talk to and who could give me words of advice. But, no surprise, their marriage has always been a codependent/controlling one, with my mother also being image-oriented, and she keeps a mental "scoreboard" to keep track of all of the "good" things she thinks she does for him to remind him of what he "owes" her, which she'll use against him and abuse over "infractions," and she does the same exact thing with us kids, too. Toxic relationships are the only thing we know as a result, and even though we, obviously, never intentionally choose these sort of relationships with people (non-romantic relationships count, too), my sister and I, for no particular reason, attract the most dysfunctional people. Literally all of my sister's relationships with her boyfriends have been codependent and borderline abusive with all of the shouting matches and insults flying about when her standards aren't met, and constantly rebounds from one bad relationship to the next because she keeps attracting the same type of men, which is why she's still single at her age. Because I fare worse (terrible social skills, very gullible, etc.) and am pretty much dependent on other people with basic adult responsibilities, I can't even attract anybody who I wouldn't be too embarrassed to bring home, no matter how nice I try to be. I crushed on decent people, but none of those were ever requited, while attracting low-quality dregs I wouldn't give the time of day bcause nobody who has their life in control would ever be attracted to a dependent from a dysfunctional background. We have no idea what a healthy relationship is supposed to look like. We've only ever witnessed our parents'.
Thanks psycch2go, I deeply appreciate your work & I like the combo of the older and newer animation together. Best of both worlds to me. I was in a decades-long relationship with a partner who exhibited all 5 traits. I was a kind compassionate person and he saw the opportunity to charm me into taking care of him. From the outside, everyone believed it was a good partnership because he always put on a good persona for them and told half-truths and outright lies. All those folks discouraged me from leaving him. Sadly, the way I got away from him was that he passed away. Even lawyers couldn't get him out - my last resort was to sell my home but he saved me from that, he is in a better place and at peace.
Welp, some people may find me toxic peron bc of how clingy and not rly positive I am... I have two friends tho, one of them is the best one and don't anyone dare question these relationships >:( we are happy together
I have a really high anxiety level, and therefore gets scared about everything really easily. I'm really scared to be too controlling, and as such, toxic. Ive told my partner about this and they told me it wasnt the case and i wasnt doing anything bad. (I dont control them at all, i just tend to be scared easily if they dont respond in a while etc). I dont think i am a toxic person but can i really know? How to know if i am or not? And how to change if i am? I trust my lover when they tell me im not being toxic, but even so im still scared- Thanks in advance
Actually I can relate. My friends keeps telling me I'm good person, but I have constant feeling other people judging me as toxic one, and it makes overthinking if they're right or not. One thing I know for real: no one's really perfect. And I think ur good person ^^. We are angels with severed wing, as I like to say
It’s always hard you want to love you want to understand another person but only thing is that it’s always complicated. Frankly it’s better to not love them love at all because it doesn’t make any sense anymore
I have a question about depression. I have a friend who was depressed and he was suicidal a year ago and he said it must be extreme depression to have some personality disorders. He even mentioned that I’m just depressed so I’m okay. I’m very confused when I heard that. I feel depression is a very strong and dangerous emotions because I think of negative thoughts for more than 1 hour. When I feel other emotions like anger, happiness, anxious, they last shorter than my depression. I also have a very rich imagination (my opinion) and I always think how people would feel and I could go too far and I began to overthink I found myself crying. I also can cry in unexpected timings. Is it an outburst because sometimes I cannot understand why I cry.
Second question: does hiding too much emotions harm myself? Because I’m always unable to show depression to anyone. I only mention it to some of my friends but they said I’m okay just need to think positively. Sometimes when I hear that, I would unexpectedly cry again 😔 what does it mean?
@@baeldaikokuten_yj6792 Yeah hiding your emotions for too long will harm you in the long run. Eventually someone or something will set you off resulting in you blowing up. Your friends aren't really helping if their only advice is to be positive cuz even that doesn't work.
Well one thing that I can say is that my second son's mom hates my guts and she probably thinks that I'm not going to change I can only hope that she's moved on cause God's given me confirmation after confirmation about my God ordained spouse the other day. So anyways God bless you big sis and you're beautiful family 👨👩👦👦 keep up the great work that you're doing for mental health 🎚️🔥🕊️🛐
How do I deal with feeling guilty or like a burden because of chronic disease and disability as a young adult? Everyone tells me I have nothing to feel guilty about and though I know thats true, but I can't help it. I'm 21, in an e-wheelchair or my bed, I need diapers and help getting dressed. But my mind functions as good as ever. (Long text, only read if you want to give advice) Because of the disability I am in a very co-dependent relationship with my mother. It's very difficult, I guess for both of us, (although she says she doesn't mind still having to basically take care of me as if I was still [in the body of] a toddler) cause that's what moms are there for. Still I can't help but feel guilty and weird when she has to take so many sacrifices for me, cancel or make all of her plans around me, still be admitted into the hospital (often suddenly) alongside me because she's the one that knows my needs and condition best... If she wants to go somewhere over the weekend that has to be planned meticulously. Somebody has to watch me, my pills need to be prepared, an emergency plan made. I feel like her life is so (and getting more and more) stressful because of me, instead of getting quieter, as it usually would. If I wasn't sick, I would have moved out by now, gone off on my own way. Instead I am finishing school remotely from home now, after finally having achieved the rights and finances to do that (in germany) after a (years) long fight with loads of government offices and restrictions. A fight that again, my mother fought for me. For years. Because I was too sick, too weak, or undergoing testing in some clinic. And she drove back and forth between clinics, lawyers office and whatever government was mocking up this time. And yet she was there in the clinic with me, every day. (I got really sick when I was 11, but doctors couldn't find out what I had until I was 19) because I have a really rare form of MS (juvenile MS). Usually MS starts around the 40s, in my case it began when I was 10. I've been through so much with my mum, which is why our relationship is so co-dependent. And I'm torn about that, now that I'm an adult. Her whole life revolves around me, I'm her constant worry. It's not supposed to be that way. Children are supposed to leave the nest and the parents are supposed to. If anything, the child should take care of the parent later on. But my mum continues to care for me, with all the energy it takes. And that is a lot. I'm so thankful for her, but I just can not shake this guilty feeling in the back of my head that says I'm holding her back and she'd have a much easier life if she didn't have to take care of me that much.
Awe I am so sorry for the both of you, it' s not your fault you are sick and your mom Loves you, she sounds great, just let her know how much you Love her ( which i' m sure she knows) how grateful you are and IF you can do little extra things for her sometimes. I send lots of Love to you and your mom 🩷❤️💗
This video is obviously made with good intensions, but people should have caution before labelling their partner ”toxic”. I mean, is your partner automatically controlling if he/she tells his/her opinion on what you should wear? I think it depends on how often these situation occur and how forcefully these situations happen. Also, if both participants are toxic in different situations and different ways, isn’t it possible that it all balances out overall? Not the greatest relationship, sure, but it can still work out. According to the examples given of all the dozens relationships in my family and friends, there is only one where neither person has never said or done any of these things (and I don’t know that one perfect couple that well to be honest). So what do you do? Stop having partners and starting families because no-one is perfect? Everyone has to decide where the other person crosses the line, that’s all. I ain’t perfect but probably neither are you.
I feel like I need them and can't leave them even thought they control and does not want me to be with anyone else but when I try to leave I always come back and there mom texted my mom and her mom gets mad at me.
I fell like im in a toxic relationship. I dont know if im controlling but asking my partner to stop spending all thier money on thenselves then askjng me for all mine on them isnt controlling is it? If they are doing things are hurt themselves and both of us and they get angry that im trying to control them, what is that?
The only relationship you don't occasionally expirience some of this things both sides is with an alien or if you never touch,go out or talk to your partner...C'mon man,no body is perfect...
You say 5 types of toxic relationships you should avoid.I say avoid falling in relationship. First you will fall for them and then when they leave you'll have to apply balm on your head. So simple.
I don't know if I'm in an unhealthy relationship. One of my BSF calls me a monkey and a pig as a joke and I just laugh it off. I want to tell her but I'm to anxious. Sometimes she makes joke that make me feel uncomfortable and shit. I just don't know what to do.
Say something in a polite tactful way, do you know if they are joking or being serious? either way if it bothers you let them know, if they are your friend they will care and stop. My friends and I bug each other and we say things like hey s!@t , hey b!@ch but we know it' s not in maliciousness. That' s my advice. Good luck 🙂❤️
Should I go to therapy i like watching things that make me sad/cry like i watch sad relatable videos for fun or like when im feeling meh and i have adhd autism anxiety and im scared to ask my parents for therapy cause they might be like why your fine or whats wrong you can tell me you don't need therapy and i have social anxiety so ya psych2go what should I do and do i need therapy
I recently submitted a post in the Facebook group that was declined. The reason was "idk what this is but it has nothing to do with psychology." I don't know who declined the post, but I thought the response was kind of rude. I don't so much have an issue with the post being declined, but more so the response. I thought we were supposed to be supporting each other. I have twice messaged four different admins, e-mailed and left a comment on a community post. You respended to the latter by asking me to post it in the comments, but I can't since it's a screenshot. Sorry for being an ass about this, but I don't like being left in the dark and I would like an explanation. I'm just tired of being ignored by everyone and I hoped this would be a safe space to discuss my mental health issues but I guess I was wrong. It looks like you have now lost a supporter.
the psych2go facebook group you mean? Often times posts get declined beause they are violating one of the rules. Most admins are good at highlighting which rule was violated so you could edit the post and re submit it.
It’s so important to see these red flags as early as possible. We tend to be blinded by the idea of love with that person in the beginning that it can be hard to notice these bad habits but staying clear headed (as much as you can) when getting into a new relationship can save you a lot of heartache and trauma. Please be safe!
Yes you're right, although I'm a bit too late to see it most of the time, this is why i just want to be alone
@@overlordplayz7647 Aw 🥺
@h0r1z0nt4l i forgot about that thanks for the advice 👍
ugh, I agree and always come back to that, and again, in my case, there was no sign in the beginning, not in her actions anyway... she had two sides and I really discover the second one way too late
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I was in a controlling relationship for about 2 years. It took some time to get over it but I was able to finally find peace and freedom now that I am away from it. For whoever is going through any of these toxic relationships, save yourself from the pain and leave while you still have the chance
Signs of a toxic relationship:
1. Narcissistic Relationships 0:30
2. Controlling Relationships 1:13
3. Codependent Relationships 2:12
4. Scorecard Relationships 3:17
5. Abusive Relationships 4:29
The fear of codependency makes me terrified of asking for anything ever, especially from my boyfriend because I was told all during my childhood that I was too reliant on my parents by my mother & her family. If I ask for help figuring out what to wear or assistance in doing something to make it easier for me to help myself I feel like I’m burdening him unnecessarily. & I can’t tell if that’s the case or not
You should talk openly abt these things to him it won’t be easy. I’ve been in this situation but if he really cares for u then he’ll understand
I think it's good to introspect about this one. When it comes to figuring out what to wear, is it because you're used to having someone do it for you? Is it because you like your boyfriends feedback? Do you ask him often? Get to the root of it and understand it. it'll set you free. Once you understand this deeper part of yourself you'll see if asking for help with picking out clothes is a dependency thing or if it's something else
@@sarahvasquez6494 I’m Schizotypal, we struggle to dress ourselves. I always need help
He’s my ex now, he abused me. My new partner is really amazing though. Thank you for being kind enough to respond to me♥️
Tip: if you're having doubts about your relationship but hold back from telling your partner about it, the relationship will just get worse and worse. It's better to tell your partner the truth (even if it's not what they want to hear) than letting your feelings fester.
I’ve had close calls with all of these types of relationships. When it ended I felt like I was in the wrong or unlovable. After doing work in therapy, I understand that those relationships were just not healthy and not meant for me. I’m at a much healthier and happier point in my life and I am actively working on becoming a good partner for my future spouse.
Thank you for these informative videos 💗
*I'd love to see a video on: how to have a fight without hurting eachother and how to tell what is frustrating you without telling it frustrated.* Because I'm not able to become mad until the pile of frustration is falling over and now I'm rude person towards the person I actually love and he deserves love but due my old home situation I have these bad habits :/
You need to work on yourself first, always. You can’t love and respect others if you don’t love and respect yourself first. An inability to articulate your emotions until they’ve reached a breaking point is not well adapted and unless you address the root cause, you’ll always find yourself struggling to express your feelings without turmoil.
It helps to use "I" statements so it communicates how *you* feel without having it sound like the other person is being blamed. For example, you could say something like "I feel hurt that you didn't listen to what I said" instead of something like "You never listen to what I say!"
If you ever catch yourself feeling frustrated or being rude to your significant other, it might help to take a step back, let him know you need a bit of time and space to calm down/think through things, and take a walk or do whatever might help you calm down. That way, after you've calmed down, you can think through what you say better and not act on anger.
Personally, I find that writing down my thoughts helps me calm down, rationalize, and realize that oh, I'm not being the nicest right now and this could hurt my partner. Then I like to reword my thoughts so that it doesn't sound like I'm blaming him and then share them with him so my thoughts are heard.
Other than these, you can check out Kyle Lee's (www.tiktok.com/@kyleleejenner) tips on relationships, he has a few videos where he gives tips on how to communicate your feelings more effectively. I found them very helpful!
Hope that helps!
“5 types of Toxic Relationships you should avoid at all costs”
Ah yes:
1.) Pollution and everything
2.) Chemicals
3.) An average CoD chat in 2010
4.) Chernobyl and Pripyat
5.) A normal day in Twitter/Reddit
But that’s not all… 🤣🤣🤣
Honorable mention: League of Legende and Chat
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I started this channel 2020 but it got to a point i got tired and quit because I thought growing Channel would be so easy but now i realized i need to keep onto it and to create a very good CONTENT that you will benefited from and i also realized that *SUCCESS TAKE TIME and to NEVER GIVER UP ON THE PURSUIT OF ONES DREAM* so am back fully now with high determination, persistence and relentlessness.
So my aim of telling you this story is to let you know that *SUCCESS TAKE TIME AND TO NEVER GIVE UP ON THE PURSUIT OF YOUR DREAM*
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This gave me an idea where I’d love if you guys made another video on why some of us attract nothing but toxic, unhealthy relationships. And seem to never attract anything healthy. It’s like a cycle of meeting the same people, in different bodies
I think this is kind of a weird one because most people don't willingly get into toxic relationships and avoiding them immeadiately isn't always possible
Some either don't know or realize later that their relationship isn't healthy but I do still like this video for its animation and the topic in itself is great to be educated about :D
Sadly, first impressions nor personality mean everything. Most of the time people start off being nice and/or possess an electric personality, but it's only gradually that people's true character shows. I don't know anybody who chooses to be in a toxic relationship, unless that person is toxic themselves, like if they see the person as some charity case and want to change them, otherwise nobody willing gets themselves into these detrimental relationship.
Plus, some of us seem to just attract the most chaotic people for no apparent reason. This applies to friendships, too. Everybody is cordial when we meet them, of course, and is great for a little while, so it's easy to be duped, until not too long later they start mistreating us, and do it in such subtle ways that we can't see it until a certain amount of time, and we're so drained by that point.
The explanation to as to why most people do not willfully place themselves in the hands of a toxic relationship lies in the fact that, at the beginning, the symptoms of the disease are invisible to the eye, which thus makes the person seem normal and promising on the surface. And that may be so for a timespan of some days, weeks or months before the symptoms finally begin to manifest gradually one after another, and grow stronger also.
@h0r1z0nt4l I never said spreading awareness is weird, Do you have reading comprehension problems?
You correct me, saying literally the exact same thing I just said acting like you did something. Lol
@h0r1z0nt4l I literally said being educated is good
So I don't know what you are on about except repeating what I already said.
To the person reading this: even tho I don’t know you, I wish you the best of what life has to offer
One thing I can say is this, never ever try to sacrifice your emotional, physical and mental health for a toxic family in the name of a trauma bond and not love. That's the worst thing one can do
Hi I know were talking about the contents of the video in the comment section, but can everyone just stop and stare at the visuals??? ITS SO BEAUTIFUL. Ive seen them animate before in some videos AND THEY REALLY BLOSSOMED. IF YOU CAN SEE THIS ARTIST/S AND EDITORS I LOVE YOUR ARTTT💗💗💗
i love this voice actor!! so soothing and relaxing and feminine and beautiful! keep going amanda!
Psych, thank you so much for making these videos, they have really helped me and everyone understand everything from mental health to relationships :)
No problem :) Glad this helped. Did any of these types remind you of someone?
@@Psych2go yes, they did
@@Psych2go thankfully I broke up with them
Please do one on why it's so hard to get out and how to do it. I already know that I am in a toxic relationship but it's strangely difficult to get out
I LOVE the animation in this video and really this channel in general. I would love to watch a show with this soft childbook type artstyle. Thank you animators and everyone working on the vids!
I was in a controlling and emotional abusive relationship. After more than two years it's still hard for me to date someone new because I can't trust anyone entirely.
This is so true observe don't absorb and once you know you go you get out and you stay out for life 👍
I was in a narcissistic and abusive relationship and she was my first ‘love’
Thanks for sharing and sorry to hear that :( How are you coping with the aftermath?
same...
0:43 imagine them as a narcissistic person confidently asks you if they’re awsome and better and you answer no. They would loose their mind
These videos are really helpful through the aspects of our lives thanks for it
You are so welcome! Do any of these types rings a bell?
@@Psych2go I thought this was friendships for a moment not relationships I should pay attention more but I think it will make sense when I get older
I was just in a codependent relationship where I definitely was taking care of her ( in all ways) but she was incapable of being there emotionally, so then I did the scorecard cause it really felt like she never made any effort. and by neglecting me emotionally it felt like abuse....
I agree with the emotional neglect as abuse
A good video idea I think of is how to be there, how to be supportive, to a partner that is going through something of great difficulty. An example is if your partner is depressed, they will get better, but it will take some time. So what could you do for your partner while also being resilient enough not to become depressed yourself?
Just that kind of thing, I hope it makes sense :P
I do not have a partner but all of these describe my mother's actions towards me
I think the next video should be on ways to stay away and keep happy though these relationships
Because in my case... I can't get rid of my mother
I wish everyone here a healthy relationship 💗
In my case he was always saying he was confused , that one day he loved me other day he didn't. This created a huge insecurity in me, I was always doubt. So I was doing everything to support him, even thought I was giving him financial help, upgraded his boat to go for his work, bought him a car but nothing was enough. He was using silent treatment a lot if I was trying to talk with with him how I was felling it was my fault. Now he left me pregnant and I really believe everything is my fault. Is terrible how I lost myself and I feel guilty he said everything is my fault after all! And a lot of gaslight too..
This is the worst feeling ever. ☹️💔💀☠️ This is what happens when your around toxic people.
I think I had a codependent and scorecard friendship. It didn't feel like an healthy friendship anymore. It hurts to let go, but it hurts more to stay in an unhealthy friendship for me.
Try talking. If you feel that’s not possible, than slowly fade them out and tell them you no longer want to be friends. Being as direct as possible is usually the best, hold your ground and keep your boundaries.
@@Ejazzz Yes I tried to talk to my friend and It didn't end well, plus my friend is not in the same city as me so we can only talk through text/phone calls and it made everything more complicated... Thank you for your reply! :)
@@Viky_00Ahh, must be hard. Best of luck
I wasn't giving that much credit to videos about relationships, but if you want a healthy and lasting one this kind of infos are super valuable and can save your time energy and health. Btw the animation is refreshing funny and creative as usual. Love y'all ❤️
I loved the video montage and the design is amazing 😩❤️🔥✨
Glad you liked it!! :)
@@Psych2go I love your art too
My (late 30s male) three toxic relationships (two narcissistic and one controlling) all ended the same way. I eventually got bored of their shenanigans, lulled them into a false sense of security, promised them everything they wanted, made them think they had me wrapped around their finger(s), and then simply ghosted them.
Each time I wasn't even angry, just disappointed. For some reason, I was able to clearly see their toxicity shortly after each relationship began, as if they weren't even trying to be subtle while attempting to manipulate me. Funny enough, I even felt a little bit insulted that they didn't bring their "A" game to the table.
I have a weird relationship and feel like I’m the one being toxic but it feels like
I’m more of a parent in my relationship. There is a lot of behaviour from my fiancé that most would deem childish like being unable to maintain personal hygiene and if not told to specifically do a chore in an exact way he will act like a teenager and half arse it e.g. just throwing the towels in the cupboard or leaving clean stuff in the machines and rerunning them so he doesn’t have to do anything. I feel like my exasperation with this is toxic cause I feel like something else is going on but can’t seem to get to the bottom of it, he’s been in therapy so many times and I think I’m being harsh on him trying to make him with a lack of a better word “adult” and everything always ends up on me to do
Well imagine do you want to spend your life with someone like this? It will turn into a co-dependent relationship. Where he relies on you to do the brunt of the work. How is his relationship with his parents? Did his mom baby him most of his life? If he doesn’t know how to do something and is shown how and still doesn’t do it right it could be a sign of “weaponized incompetence”. It means that he uses this incompetence as a way to get out of pulling his weight.
Communicate well and openly but also compromise, is he open to changing some things with the way he does chores? Maybe there are some chores that he does that bother you more than the other chores, so you can talk about changes for that, then maybe other stuff you can leave out. My husband does laundry differently than I do, like how he puts the cup in the washer and I just suddenly told him not to do that and took the cup out, and he was kinda upset and told me to just let him do it the way he does it (this was already after we had talks about me getting bothered by the way he does things), and thinking about it he lets me do laundry the way I do it too. I realize there are some things I would still like him to tweak to make it easier for both of us, but things like these aren’t that worth it to protest about and change. We choose our battles indeed in a relationship and we don’t always have to do it our way. Again, this should come from both sides and come from a place of openness, respect, and love, not with anger and frustration because you two will go through frustration just talking about it but if it’s from a place of love, your goal is to still to help ease each other out. I wish for the best for your relationship.
Thank you both for the responses :) yes his mother babied him but also abused him when he lived with his parents and brother their house was an absolute tip and before we moved in I said I wouldn’t accept the same in our own. I have had an open discussion with him about this before and he’s been to therapy so many times but doesn’t seem to help him :( hope you both have lovely days
@@TheAngelChaz it’s tough. I encourage you to be more patient with him if he’s willing to put in the work with his therapy and changing his attitude towards chores a little bit and making a manageable chore routine with you. Check if his therapist is really helping him too, otherwise get a different one. I’m not good with chores either, and have been really depressed ever since my parents divorced 4 years ago, but my husband has been so patient with me and has given me so much grace with it because I wouldn’t even touch the dishes on the sink for several days and he would end up cleaning a big pile of it, as well as other chores. He does mention it sometimes when he wants me to take charge more of the dishes or other things just to help out, but I really appreciate his patience because some days I’d rather just sleep through my depression and only wake up when I need to go to work. That said, in return I have decided to go to therapy to better myself with my mental health issues and better our relationship, and I put effort in doing laundry more and more everyday, and sometimes even washing the dishes (that’s my least favorite chore). But it’s also up to you then what you would like to do.
@@pandascoops its less the chores i care about its more the hygeine, I have crohns diesease and have a suppressed immune system as a result so i have to be careful with germs
I seriously gotta respect psych2go for honestly helping us all out. Thank u so much for the hard work u guys put in. And as always, I'm loving the new kinds of animation styles
When the person abusing you is someone you've known for years those signs become even more invisible 😞🚩💔
~Jesse
Absolutely. Especially if you respected them as a person and it happens gradually.
Issues may not cease upon exiting a toxic relationship.
Extreme example , couples on skid Row with addiction in tow. They're obviously not in healthy relationship, but they want the same security a relationship brings, but their issues outside of relationships don't instantly disappear if they leave the toxic relationship.
Please seek help if you are in a situation, but be aware solving one issue may not solve them all. So please talk to people you can trust, & don't rely on Internet video's or chat, posts (like me) before you act.
Great Examples, Amazing Info.
Actually because I was so emotional that I used to get made fun of by my own friends and relatives now I am emotionless but if I cry those tears will be so painful I became aggressive because of holding them for too long I am aggressive now rather then the happy nature the old me is dead
A great video as always!
And your voice mesmerize me each and every time....it's soo enchanting ❤️❤️
Wish you Great Health!!
This really hits home for me.
This goes along with the relationship with my parents 😞
That's true. This video applies to any relationships in general
Emma, same here 😔 so much of this applies to my dad which is why I've had to go NC, I don't have it in me to be around him any more.
Same here. All of these apply with my relationship with my own parents. I wish my parents would be "normal," people I can actually talk to and who could give me words of advice.
But, no surprise, their marriage has always been a codependent/controlling one, with my mother also being image-oriented, and she keeps a mental "scoreboard" to keep track of all of the "good" things she thinks she does for him to remind him of what he "owes" her, which she'll use against him and abuse over "infractions," and she does the same exact thing with us kids, too.
Toxic relationships are the only thing we know as a result, and even though we, obviously, never intentionally choose these sort of relationships with people (non-romantic relationships count, too), my sister and I, for no particular reason, attract the most dysfunctional people. Literally all of my sister's relationships with her boyfriends have been codependent and borderline abusive with all of the shouting matches and insults flying about when her standards aren't met, and constantly rebounds from one bad relationship to the next because she keeps attracting the same type of men, which is why she's still single at her age. Because I fare worse (terrible social skills, very gullible, etc.) and am pretty much dependent on other people with basic adult responsibilities, I can't even attract anybody who I wouldn't be too embarrassed to bring home, no matter how nice I try to be. I crushed on decent people, but none of those were ever requited, while attracting low-quality dregs I wouldn't give the time of day bcause nobody who has their life in control would ever be attracted to a dependent from a dysfunctional background. We have no idea what a healthy relationship is supposed to look like. We've only ever witnessed our parents'.
Great video ! I love today's art style ^^
Thank you! Cheers! Is this your favorite one so far?
Thanks psycch2go, I deeply appreciate your work & I like the combo of the older and newer animation together. Best of both worlds to me.
I was in a decades-long relationship with a partner who exhibited all 5 traits. I was a kind compassionate person and he saw the opportunity to charm me into taking care of him. From the outside, everyone believed it was a good partnership because he always put on a good persona for them and told half-truths and outright lies. All those folks discouraged me from leaving him. Sadly, the way I got away from him was that he passed away. Even lawyers couldn't get him out - my last resort was to sell my home but he saved me from that, he is in a better place and at peace.
Thank you for your work and help 🙏❤️☀️🌙
Please make a video on what to do when your crush finds out about your feelings for them!
Welp, some people may find me toxic peron bc of how clingy and not rly positive I am... I have two friends tho, one of them is the best one and don't anyone dare question these relationships >:( we are happy together
1. I love your videos
2. I have a request; do you think you could do a video about what it means if the same boy/guy is looking at you?
I'm in a scorecard relationship with my family. It is very frustrating.
What’s worse than narcissism is vulnerable narcissism. It’s so sneaky.
I hate the fact that i am watching this to make me a bit happier
Never have been in a relationship before but still good information for the future if I ever get into one
Hope this helps. Does this video remind you of someone in your life in general?
@@Psych2go Yes but I'm not really ready to go into the dating scene just yet 😅 Just need some more time for myself before going into a relationship
@@macho8240 I see! This video applies to non-romantic relationships too
I have a really high anxiety level, and therefore gets scared about everything really easily. I'm really scared to be too controlling, and as such, toxic. Ive told my partner about this and they told me it wasnt the case and i wasnt doing anything bad. (I dont control them at all, i just tend to be scared easily if they dont respond in a while etc). I dont think i am a toxic person but can i really know? How to know if i am or not? And how to change if i am?
I trust my lover when they tell me im not being toxic, but even so im still scared-
Thanks in advance
Actually I can relate. My friends keeps telling me I'm good person, but I have constant feeling other people judging me as toxic one, and it makes overthinking if they're right or not. One thing I know for real: no one's really perfect. And I think ur good person ^^. We are angels with severed wing, as I like to say
@@phrei9 this is honeslty a beautiful thing to say
It’s always hard you want to love you want to understand another person but only thing is that it’s always complicated.
Frankly it’s better to not love them love at all because it doesn’t make any sense anymore
I have a question about depression. I have a friend who was depressed and he was suicidal a year ago and he said it must be extreme depression to have some personality disorders. He even mentioned that I’m just depressed so I’m okay. I’m very confused when I heard that. I feel depression is a very strong and dangerous emotions because I think of negative thoughts for more than 1 hour. When I feel other emotions like anger, happiness, anxious, they last shorter than my depression. I also have a very rich imagination (my opinion) and I always think how people would feel and I could go too far and I began to overthink I found myself crying. I also can cry in unexpected timings. Is it an outburst because sometimes I cannot understand why I cry.
Second question: does hiding too much emotions harm myself? Because I’m always unable to show depression to anyone. I only mention it to some of my friends but they said I’m okay just need to think positively. Sometimes when I hear that, I would unexpectedly cry again 😔 what does it mean?
@@baeldaikokuten_yj6792 Yeah hiding your emotions for too long will harm you in the long run. Eventually someone or something will set you off resulting in you blowing up. Your friends aren't really helping if their only advice is to be positive cuz even that doesn't work.
@@godofwar234regi5 oh. Thx I get it. Is there a way to stop it? Instead of going Counseling? My parents won’t allow me to get counselled.
@@baeldaikokuten_yj6792 Is there anyone you trust with your life that you can speak to?
@@godofwar234regi5 a few
Well one thing that I can say is that my second son's mom hates my guts and she probably thinks that I'm not going to change I can only hope that she's moved on cause God's given me confirmation after confirmation about my God ordained spouse the other day.
So anyways God bless you big sis and you're beautiful family 👨👩👦👦 keep up the great work that you're doing for mental health 🎚️🔥🕊️🛐
How do I deal with feeling guilty or like a burden because of chronic disease and disability as a young adult? Everyone tells me I have nothing to feel guilty about and though I know thats true, but I can't help it. I'm 21, in an e-wheelchair or my bed, I need diapers and help getting dressed. But my mind functions as good as ever. (Long text, only read if you want to give advice)
Because of the disability I am in a very co-dependent relationship with my mother. It's very difficult, I guess for both of us, (although she says she doesn't mind still having to basically take care of me as if I was still [in the body of] a toddler) cause that's what moms are there for.
Still I can't help but feel guilty and weird when she has to take so many sacrifices for me, cancel or make all of her plans around me, still be admitted into the hospital (often suddenly) alongside me because she's the one that knows my needs and condition best...
If she wants to go somewhere over the weekend that has to be planned meticulously. Somebody has to watch me, my pills need to be prepared, an emergency plan made.
I feel like her life is so (and getting more and more) stressful because of me, instead of getting quieter, as it usually would.
If I wasn't sick, I would have moved out by now, gone off on my own way.
Instead I am finishing school remotely from home now, after finally having achieved the rights and finances to do that (in germany) after a (years) long fight with loads of government offices and restrictions. A fight that again, my mother fought for me. For years. Because I was too sick, too weak, or undergoing testing in some clinic. And she drove back and forth between clinics, lawyers office and whatever government was mocking up this time.
And yet she was there in the clinic with me, every day. (I got really sick when I was 11, but doctors couldn't find out what I had until I was 19) because I have a really rare form of MS (juvenile MS). Usually MS starts around the 40s, in my case it began when I was 10. I've been through so much with my mum, which is why our relationship is so co-dependent. And I'm torn about that, now that I'm an adult.
Her whole life revolves around me, I'm her constant worry.
It's not supposed to be that way. Children are supposed to leave the nest and the parents are supposed to. If anything, the child should take care of the parent later on. But my mum continues to care for me, with all the energy it takes. And that is a lot.
I'm so thankful for her, but I just can not shake this guilty feeling in the back of my head that says I'm holding her back and she'd have a much easier life if she didn't have to take care of me that much.
Awe I am so sorry for the both of you, it' s not your fault you are sick and your mom Loves you, she sounds great, just let her know how much you Love her ( which i' m sure she knows) how grateful you are and IF you can do little extra things for her sometimes. I send lots of Love to you and your mom 🩷❤️💗
I don't want a toxic relation. I wanna happy 1🤗🤭 i don't have time for bad toxic & abusive men in ma life! Keep it moving sir🚪🏃💨
@Donald Maggie if it's meant to be the person you want will come into your life. Who's this mr . ose you speak of by the way?👀
Can you do how to not fall in love again maybe in the future bc I always get played and used for temporary happiness
Can this also be for friendships as well too to be considered as relationships or totally different from the two?
no it can definitely be the same in friendship
It can definitely be the same for friendships
Yep, I was friends with someone who became very controlling. When he didn't change I stopped talking to him.
Why does all of these are relatable to my previous relationship ?
It's messed up on how there's so many types of depression but not enough types of happiness
This video is obviously made with good intensions, but people should have caution before labelling their partner ”toxic”. I mean, is your partner automatically controlling if he/she tells his/her opinion on what you should wear? I think it depends on how often these situation occur and how forcefully these situations happen. Also, if both participants are toxic in different situations and different ways, isn’t it possible that it all balances out overall? Not the greatest relationship, sure, but it can still work out. According to the examples given of all the dozens relationships in my family and friends, there is only one where neither person has never said or done any of these things (and I don’t know that one perfect couple that well to be honest). So what do you do? Stop having partners and starting families because no-one is perfect? Everyone has to decide where the other person crosses the line, that’s all. I ain’t perfect but probably neither are you.
I like your videos I relate to some and stuff keep it up
Glad you like them! :) Did you relate to this video?
Nope I don't have a relationship lol
I’ve been in all these type of relationships
My ex was a narcissist, he abused me and only cared about himself. I was codependent on him at the time which was not okay
My family showing all the signs:
Damn, where are you from?
Oh no! What do you plan to do after this realization?
I feel like I need them and can't leave them even thought they control and does not want me to be with anyone else but when I try to leave I always come back and there mom texted my mom and her mom gets mad at me.
I dont know if its me or him in the wrong. But I have a lump of anxiety in my stomack all the time since dating him.
Does that include marriage as well?
I fell like im in a toxic relationship. I dont know if im controlling but asking my partner to stop spending all thier money on thenselves then askjng me for all mine on them isnt controlling is it? If they are doing things are hurt themselves and both of us and they get angry that im trying to control them, what is that?
Yay! I’m really earlyyy and maybe one of the 5th comments! And thank you for this information
Welcome!! Did any of these points remind you of someone?
@@Psych2go some was a reminder of my past best friend
I know it's not really your area but can you make a video about misophia please.
I would really help me.
Thank you.
Do a video on "of being not approachable to others"...
@Donald Maggie where are you from dear?
@Donald Maggie Pakistan
I've been in toxic relationships my entire life.
The only relationship you don't occasionally expirience some of this things both sides is with an alien or if you never touch,go out or talk to your partner...C'mon man,no body is perfect...
I Have Crush On My 12 Year Old Cousin We Met Each Other 1 Week Per Year And When I Get Far From Her I Get Depressed.
Help Me
Its tough.
these relationships also apply to friends, just wondering
Most definitely
You say 5 types of toxic relationships you should avoid.I say avoid falling in relationship.
First you will fall for them and then when they leave you'll have to apply balm on your head.
So simple.
This video applies to non-romantic relationships too
That sounds like Klaus mikaelson with his siblings to me(even obviously is a not romantic relationship).
You can have toxic friendships too
Me and my gf are both codependent of each other. Is that a problem?
I don't know if I'm in an unhealthy relationship. One of my BSF calls me a monkey and a pig as a joke and I just laugh it off. I want to tell her but I'm to anxious. Sometimes she makes joke that make me feel uncomfortable and shit. I just don't know what to do.
Say something in a polite tactful way, do you know if they are joking or being serious? either way if it bothers you let them know, if they are your friend they will care and stop. My friends and I bug each other and we say things like hey s!@t , hey b!@ch but we know it' s not in maliciousness. That' s my advice. Good luck 🙂❤️
Why do the visuals of Controlling relationships remind me of Edward Cullen and Twilight?😅
Should I go to therapy i like watching things that make me sad/cry like i watch sad relatable videos for fun or like when im feeling meh and i have adhd autism anxiety and im scared to ask my parents for therapy cause they might be like why your fine or whats wrong you can tell me you don't need therapy and i have social anxiety so ya psych2go what should I do and do i need therapy
Ex dont want you until you start to smile...
Claim your “here within an hour” ticket right here❤️
Here within 10 minutes
The last one...
is that liam from monster prom?
Here before 20 minutes!!
My mother is a mix of all of them ._.
So true
Does this go with friendships as well?
Yep, it does. Do you know anyone like that?
@@Psych2go besides me? Yes I do
I recently submitted a post in the Facebook group that was declined. The reason was "idk what this is but it has nothing to do with psychology." I don't know who declined the post, but I thought the response was kind of rude. I don't so much have an issue with the post being declined, but more so the response. I thought we were supposed to be supporting each other.
I have twice messaged four different admins, e-mailed and left a comment on a community post. You respended to the latter by asking me to post it in the comments, but I can't since it's a screenshot.
Sorry for being an ass about this, but I don't like being left in the dark and I would like an explanation. I'm just tired of being ignored by everyone and I hoped this would be a safe space to discuss my mental health issues but I guess I was wrong. It looks like you have now lost a supporter.
the psych2go facebook group you mean? Often times posts get declined beause they are violating one of the rules. Most admins are good at highlighting which rule was violated so you could edit the post and re submit it.
@@etherealbeautee This one wasn't.
Me* Watching this video: I wish I wasn’t alone. ‘•~•’
The fact that you are in one to begin with. Just leave and problem solved.
I don't trust any relationship full stop that's why i dont bother with any kind of relationship
Thanks for sharing :(
@@Psych2go love your videos
YEP!
me and my gal dont rly do much all we do is just say bad jokes (sans moment)