Signs of a Toxic Relationship
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- Опубліковано 1 жов 2024
- Even though most of us think we’d easily be able to recognize the signs and leave a relationship that’s turned toxic, recent surveys actually report the opposite. Why? Because well, in the words of American author Bryant McGill, “Escaping a toxic relationship can feel like breaking off a piece of your heart. Leaving is never easy, but sometimes it is necessary to save yourself and others from dying inside.”
But knowing how to tell when things are starting to take a turn for the worse can save you a lot of heartache down the road, and may even help you save your relationship before it’s too late.
We also made a video on the EARLY signs a relationship is toxic: • 7 Early Signs of a Tox...
Also check out 5 Levels of a Relationship - Which One are you? • 5 Levels of a Relation...
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Rida Batool
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Hannah Roldan
UA-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
USA.gov. “Teen Dating Violence.” Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Accessed April 22, 2014.
Solferino, N., & Tessitore, M. E. (2019). Human networks and toxic relationships.
Houston, M. J. (2012). The Psychology of Abusive/Predatory Relationships: How to detach from and avoid these toxic relationships. iUniverse.
Schumm, W. R. (2004). Classifying Toxic Relationships. Journal of Psychology and Theology, 32(4), 349.
Is love a choice? Comment below your vote.
Idk but i love this channel
no
Nope
It isn't your choice whether to fall in love or not, but you can choose to act upon it or not
@@pixie5853 I like your philosophy.
Y'all deserve a relationship that allows you to sleep peacefully at night
This is beautiful
Agreed.
I wish I could find one
If you have a good relationship with Jesus, you will sleep well every night. ua-cam.com/video/MGqCrbjH0pA/v-deo.html
THISSSSS
i wasn't sleeping properly in the end of my toxic relationship because i knew he was cheating and i wanted him to go to sleep with me so i could make sure he wasn't up cheating. Didn't work, he just lied about going to sleep and then cheated when i thought he was asleep. But ultimately, I'm so so so glad he cheated, because within that week i met my soulmate, and now my ex cheating is the best thing that's ever happened to me.
1. You don't feel any support.
2. You don't communicate with each other.
3. There's a lot of jealousy.
4. There's built up resentment.
5. You feel disrespected.
6. You don't have time for other relationships.
Thx man, never gonna need this info cuz this boy is gonna be single lol. But who knows, someone might need this. So thx again 😁
Thank you. I didn’t want my boyfriend to hear me watching bc I don’t want him to feel bad lol
wow! 6 out of 6!!!! ................
You're welcome!
@@blazereho811 I'd do the same thing too if I had a boyfriend lol
And this can be friendships as well. Not just love relationships.
True
100% correct, never dated anyone but I still had a ton of Toxic Relationships
@@secretshadow9515 well i know that everyone would say online friends are very trustworthy but that still applies toxic relationships as well but alot harder to find.
Or family
Very true
Thank you for this,
I was in an 8 month sexually abusive relationship and after 2 years free from it I met the love of my life,
I sometimes get anxious that my new lover is copying my abusers behaviours and I need to level myself and realise that I’m safe now
I wish you all the best, you deserve love and happiness
@@itismetotori wow, thank you so much this made my whole year, you are so kind. You deserve the whole world
Hope you are doing fine and heal🙏🏼
@@scarletannelee2023 omg you're so sweet!!! see? you're awesome and deserve only the best
Wdym by "copying my abusers behavior"?
I hope you're safe now,I'm sorry about your situation. You're an amazing person and may your s/o cherish you for life
Hello future and past viewer
1.)you don’t feel any support-1:05
2.)you don’t communicate with each other-1:33
3.) there’s a lot of jealousy-2:24
4.)there’s built up resentment-2:52
5.) you feel disrespected-3:32
6.)you don’t have time for other relationships-4:14
Are you a time traveler? Video was only posted a few mins ago but this comment is literally 2 months ago-
@@AnAmazingAmazonAlexa it’s actually quite easy to be this time traveler and no you don’t need membership
"Stop setting yourself in fire to keep someone else warm." - a quote that came to my mind. Remember, you are never alone ❤️
I want to add to this great quote. Especially if the person will afterwards start complaining about the odour of your burning ashes. This odour is the one of all the sacrifices I did for you and all the negative feelings you caused in me piece of sh
That’s a great quote, love it 😩💕
Thank you, @The Man Whisperer
#1; you don't feel any support: 1:04
#2; you don't communicate with each other: 1:32
#3; there's a lot of jealousy: 2:23
#4; there's built up resentment: 2:51
#5; you feel disrespected: 3:31
#6; you don't have time for other relationships: 4:13
Thank you!! 💕
Thanks for putting this together!
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I can't find love
That was a jokes
Have a very merry Christmas
Had my ex cheat on me 20+ times and I went back to her because it was so toxic
@@Luci_elf my ex cheat on me 3 times
I'm happy that they show both sides. Not only one side is being toxic, that even the most good hearted person can commit mistakes and that everything has a solution. Is very sweet, thank you for this.
My heart goes out to those with toxic romantic relationships. I'm kinda scared of that since I've had unhealthy friendships where my boundaries were disrespected ,sometimes I was just straight up treated as if I was a toy to be fought over, I was body shamed for being thin all the freakin time and I just felt like I couldn't tell them my problems with them without being told "Yeah but I saw you die in my dreams" (which actually happened) all while dealing with a pathological liar who I thought was my friend. God I can't imagine that but in a worse way.
im glad you're out of it. you didn't deserve to feel and be treated that way.
same is happening with me right now, but i am trying to get out of it without hurting my 'friend' she is nice but yes she is noone the less :I
@MariaDreamed 这很酷 :3 thanks! but......she is kinda drama queen so im trying not to trigger her drama lever and get out in a peaceful way :)
I don't know why some people are like that.
I haven't been In a Relationship before So I'm here for future preparations. Just In case lol
Exactly
👀👀✨
Lets be in a relationship
Zero two and tanaka
i got a toxic bestie who stole my iphone 11 but i got it back thankfully but then she beated me up and stuff
same 🕺🏻
I made a girlfriend first time in life but I never thought it would go so toxic...and it wasn't my fault too 💔😴
Glad you got out of it
@@Psych2go can you make a video on “how to get over a rejection? My best friend just left me for another person.
"its difficult to accept when the people we love the most are actually the ones hurting us the worst"
That hits deep
So true I am Empath married 19 years 23 years together. It’s sad but I am married to a narcissist.
Of course there's always hope to a relationship! One of my friends was super jealous when I was hanging out with other people other than her and she became overly obsessive with me. But when we talked about it she understood what was happening and realised that she was going to lose both me and herself if this continues. Now, we are very good with each other, giving enough space but being close too. We are better than we have ever been and we both help each other to grow and become better people. Trust me, communication and being open about your feelings is always the key to fix or develop a relationship!
Please please leave the situation now I have spent so many years in a awful relationship i finally left someone who was emotionally, domestic, verbally financially he was a Narcissist and so was his parents.
It was 3 against me constantly.
The keeping score thing was huge for him , he always said for me to leave. If I didn't do want he wanted he would threaten to throw me out of the house. I got on a housing list, and used my friends address so he didn't know what I was doing. I also put my cat as a emotional support animal. Once I found a place I was able to afford the rent and have my cat. He was shocked that I had a plan in place. And I have been gone for 9 months now and loving every minute of it
I go through this now. It’s highs and lows with him. 😔 it’s been 14 years and I’m now waking up to his narcissistic ways. It’s hard to leave because I’m not financially ready to be on my own. Plus we have two kids together.
@@sweetaimee11 please if can get on a list for housing and get it started i could not agree more it is hard to leave and I was there 13 years . Its going to be hard but you are going to be soo much happier! Nothing is worth all the stress
FYI Have the HUD mail sent to a trusted person house so he doesn't know you are on a list. I had to do that. He was none the wiser.
I just was forced out of a toxic relationship by my ex who twisted himself into the victim position and said my anger towards his actions was "so unfair" towards him. Looking back, I gave him the world and did everything to improve myself so we could be happy and all he did was belittle me and tell me that I wasn't enough. Honestly I think this final round of abandonment is what broke the camel's back because I feel like I'll never be able to trust people again
@@edenperry1058 i get it, but I think in time we can go watch dr dr Ramani videos i swear by her
@@JJ-mh4xd I'll have to check it out!
Those statistics are kinda scary. Also hi from the past to all future viewers
how? 😱
@@_naneko the creator maybe unprivate it or AnimeFoeSeal is a member??
and everyone tell me to be myself
and i was like i'm so toxic why you want it
and now everyone hate me
You just need love. Just change the people who are arround you
@@andyc9902 nah just deep down i know i'm really bad person
i still try to reconnect with my friend that i too toxic with them i just want them to know i change but they never gave me a chance anymore
@@ShopperKungVtuber well self realization is the first step. Heal well good luck
@@andyc9902 Thank you
i'll do my best
@@ShopperKungVtuber 👍
I had a relationship that was like almost all of these points. They made me feel so much worse about myself then I already did. Made it seem like I was blaming others for my long times of sadness when it really was them. They really messed me up and I'm glad I got out of that toxic relationship. Now I'm just trying to learn how to love again, even though it's not easy at all.
Best wishes
It's really hurt when you are in a toxic relationship. But I also wondering if there's any signs of a toxic relationship between best friend or friendship?
Yes
Of course
mmhm
“Leaving a bad relationship can feel like ripping off a bandaid, but it’s worth it afterwards”
-something I thought of
This topic was like my relationships with my narcissistic parents nowadays
Yep! Especially the nowadays part.
This whole video really resonated within me. Especially the part about open communication. It just feels like we both weren't as open about our feelings about the relationship as we should've been. Neither of us took the time we needed to reflect on the whole thing. Both of us were toxic to an extent and this video has made me realise that I was the one who had more toxic habits than my partner. We never fought but there was definitely a cloud of resentment drifting between us, pushing us further apart. I wish I could take back some of the things I did but I can't do much now. I wish she told me sooner so I could've done something about this. My wishful thinking doesn't excuse that I should've realized my toxic habits too. I was blind I might still be. I can't do much now other than hopefully learn. I disrespected my partner on a lot of levels and I wish I was at least aware of this. In my next romantic relationship, I hope for more clear communication. I think that the lack of communication might have been rooted in my inability to commit to the relationship fully. I will hopefully do better in the future. Thank you for taking the time to read through my rant of a comment.
I immediately broke up as soon as I realized my girlfriend was becoming more and more toxic and every attempt to sort out things via communication seemed to be pointless. Definitely the right choice, even though the break-up was kinda cringe.
Thank you for the information. I just cried through the entire video. Yes, I'm struggling badly to get out and stay out
Hello Kim I recommend you to Dr James he helped me get over a toxic relationship and manifested my specific person within 2 days I advice you seek help from him..
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It hurts so much seeing someone else you care about in a toxic relationship. They trust the other person and every time their partner screws up she just makes excuses. I can’t imagine BEING in a relationship this toxic. I don’t know how to help or if it’s even my place to say anything.
I think in the end the only and maybe the best hing you can really do is stay by their side and support them. Because when they finally realize and leave that relationship they won't feel alone.
I was in a toxic/abusive relationship for 2 years and when it finally ended I was glad one of my friends stayed by my side. She is still to this day a part of my emotional support and helped me so much in healing.
Unfortunately I was blind to the toxic nature of my relationship, those rose coloured glasses, I only realised to my detriment when he was arrested and jailed. Ten years of lies that I thought was real, it takes a toll on the soul 😔 the signs were there but I naively ignored them and really shouldn't have, more fool me.
Here's the thing, me and my ex partner acknowledged these signs and tried to fix things 3 times, and it never worked. No one I've ever met who's been in a toxic relationship has been able to save it. You'll just end up hurting yourself more.
Me who doesn’t have a relationship and never will because I’m ugly: interesting (the Miranda Cosgrove meme)
God made everyone beautiful in their own original ways.
GOD LEFT ME UNFINISHED
God doesn't think you're ugly. He loves you just the way he made you. Please talk to him today. ua-cam.com/video/MGqCrbjH0pA/v-deo.html
Incredible person reading this, you have everything there is to succeed in life, whatever that is for you. Go after the life you truly want NOW! ✨
I believe in you! Love - Nat ❤️
Thanks nat ❤
Any relationship that makes you feel worse about yourself, rather than better, is toxic! When you are left feeling unloved, drained and have been attacked in any way, is a sure sign that you're in a toxic relationship. No one is worth staying in a relationship that causes you constant pain and heartache.💔
💙UA-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
It's like you just described my father daughter relationship with most of the signs, even though I knew it was getting toxic. It still hurt like a brick falling on your head.
Same!!!
That's why should cut toxic people outta your life.
Thanks for making this video. I shared it to my friend whom is in a toxic relationship right now.
Used to be in a toxic relationship a long time back. The best choice I could make was to let go of them and move on with my life. The longer you hold on, the more it hurts.
I’m grateful my girlfriend broke up with me. While we didn’t mean it, we were toxic for each other. I hope she’s better now, even if I miss her. Can people who were once toxic together get back together if they’ve healed?
I have the same question too
i just cut things off with my toxic "friend" and she literally said it was my fault lol, but i've never felt more free in my whole life then i do rn, at first i was kinda sad but now i'm fine, although she left me with a shit ton of problems :')
Hello fellow UA-camr I recommend you to Dr James he helped me get over a toxic relationship and manifested my specific person within 2 days I advice you seek help from him..
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Asap him for recommendation.
@@keiraadolph442 oh thanks i'll look into it :)
@@naivelittlgirl okay I advice you seek help from Dr James.
This is currently what's happening to me, I'm scared to loose her, Idk if it's me who's the problem or the fact that she doesn't really communicate with me. I just want her love :( She recently lost her online best friend, which had a huge impact on her, and I'm trying my best to help her get better, but it's just super hard when she doesn't want to talk with me about it that much... I feel ignored at forgotten, it feels like I'm not a part of her life anymore :( I just can't see myself breaking up with her, she's hurt already, and so am I. I can't do that towards her, I'd see myself as an absolute idiot. I just want our relationship to go back to when it started (1 month and 5 days ago), she used to almost be clingy and never let go of me, I felt like we loved eachother so much that we would never experience stuff like this. Currently I'm trying to give her space and time because of her best friend who isn't with us anymore :,( but I still want to be loved, and I still want to be there for her. This video explains alot and I want to fix it all somehow, but I can't do that myself. This shit sucks man :c - whoever experiences the same, talk to me fr... we maybe can help each other
I love the Stardew screen and music it is one of my favorite games and I find it calming.
My relationship, or what’s left of it, it definitely moving in a toxic direction. On a break now, but I don’t think all is lost. They have only just become noticeable, and can be worked through. Thank you for helping to clarify these behaviors
Wow! I love your videos! I’ve been subbed to you for years. They have so much information and I love how you talk about things most other ppl wouldn’t, and you animate it too! Keep up the great work!
Do not normalize toxic relationship! Love yourself first. -note to my self. Lol
Its been a reoccurring pattern my entire life, so much that I have been guilty of being toxic as well. I just want to remove myself from everyone so I can get mentally well and stable for myself. I feel I owe it too all those that I have hurt, neglected, and at times manipulated. I didn't realize I was doing that, but I can see that that was what I was doing. I an remorseful and well do all I can to repair my values and intentions.
I left a toxic relationship recently, I felt amazing after leaving it, and felt like the world has been lifted off of my shoulders. I told my friends that I left the relationship but they just glared at me and are mad at me. I don't know what to do.
Recently left a half-decade long toxic relationship. It's been happier since i left but, I'm ngl, It was a traumatizing break-up and I still get nightmares and cold sweats about that relationship.
But, im still happier tho 👌
VERY POWERFUL VIDEO!! it is good for people to recognize signs of toxicity to best protect their mental health
The highest vibrational thought which always keeps you strong is the energy of love. Accept yourself as it is and start loving yourself first.
I'm in a toxic situation, but there's so much we can do to make it less toxic. I'm not giving up, unless nothing changes or it gets worse.
I honestly don’t know if I was in a toxic relationship or not. It all felt like a blur. Even with this video I’m still left confused.
Reminds me a lot of my first relationship. It got pretty bad and it affected us both heavily. I used to be sad when we ended up stop talking with each other but I eventually saw that it was best this way.
You have accuratebly described, point by point, the relationship I had 7 years in the past. I couldn't avoid the bullet on time, but fortunately, the pain now is (almost) over.
Hi 😊 Just wondering, but does this also count as something that can be seen as a toxic relationship?:
In 2018, my ex's boyfriend said that he knows he's in a toxic relationship with my ex and awhile later, he confronted my ex saying; "You looked up my address, threatened to kill me, and always blame your mistakes on me"
Then, a week ago, my ex's boyfriend asked me how I found his profile on Twitter, I told him, then he blocked me. After that, I told my ex, and he said it was cuz of what I did in 2018. I told him people change and that I can help him convince his boyfriend to believe the actual truth (my ex blamed me for what he did in 2017 - 2018; after my ex's boyfriend got his phone taken away, my ex decided to date me without his boyfriend knowing about it. Then, as soon as his boyfriend came back, he broke up with me since he thought I didn't like him anymore. Instagram of him saying that, he just said that our relationship wasn't going how he wanted it to.) instead of just ignoring it.
... It's confusing, I know..
It feels like I am in toxic relationship with myself
Y'all need to just chill & just take it easy on yourself. And plus every single one of you guys shouldn't let anyone put you down or by taking away your joy of happiness. Just focus on yourself & those positive people that you have in your life in Jesus name ✝️🕍🙏🏾 Aman!
just realized I'm in a toxic relationship gonna break up with them to tomorrow......hopefully i can do this i will give you an update after we break up-
I am so glad I watched this. I am breaking up with my boy friend tomorrow, I relate to all of these 😢
Yeah, I recently broke up with mine and this just solidified the reasons behind my choice
Just a couple weeks ago I also exited a relationship of nearly 8 years and this video pretty much confirmed what I had been feeling for some time. Go with your gut feeling, do what feels right for you. Don't be like me and stay in a relationship for too long thinking hopefully it can all somehow become better. At some point you have to jump off a sinking ship...
@@michaelk4896 I agree with you. I thought the same. That it would get better but it never did. I had to let it go and be happy. I'm still friends with him though.
Thank you! That means a lot! I realize now that I’m a lot happier:)
I feel down about my current relationship status we got into a fight on Tuesday. And I feel like we lost are spark we had are breakup after but we still care and love each other and it's hard. I'm taking this video as a learning lessons of my mistakes on what I shouldn't do. Currently I just feel depressed about it because we weren't like this for the first year but then come around 2 are 2nd anniversary. I feel like we suffer a lot of loses in both of are families, and me not taking her serious hurts her and it hurts me for not picking that up. I treated her with disrespect mostly because she's scared to open up to really anyone I should've known that when she first told me. Honestly I'm taking this as a punch to the gut and just learning off my experience it's crazy I still love her and wanna do better and actually show that after this "break" is over. My jokes aren't cool me pushing things under the rug wasn't alright either. I just wanna re-spark what we had at the start.
Thank youuu I really needed this
I've been upset in my relationship recently and this made me realize the way it's going. I genuinely want us to work because i love him so much and have never felt this way about some one before
Hello kiraa I recommend you to Dr James he helped me get over a toxic relationship and manifested my specific person within 2 days I advice you seek help from him..
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Should I drop out of highschool to become the greatest artist alive? 😈🤷🏽♂️🎶🤓
Stay in school kid because you sound like you need to be.
Hell nah, stay in school.
This didn't happen to me with a significant other, but with a friend. I saw many of the signs that I could relate to. We're now over and treat each other as strangers.
Hope you can all recover from something like this, in my case the relationship was one like it came straight out of a fairy tale at first but it just turned out to be like all these points in the video, it fell apart. A really good step you can do when this is the case, it's just accept that maybe it just wasn't meant to be, when you've given everything you could and still, it won't feel the same way as it used to be or don't feel like there won't be any progression at all, we just gotta be strong and move on, this really hurts but time can cure the pain if we know how to love ourselves first, if you're reading this and experienced this too, you have all my support, stay strong and bring the light on your eyes back, we all deserve it. 💛
All of these signs were in my previous relationship. Recently broke it off and the toxicity had really messed me up mentally...
Me: *Finds out every signs fit me and my family members' relationship*
Me: 👁️👄👁️
I’ve never been in a relationship(teen) but *thanks* to your videos I think when I get in one it will be as *healthy* and *good* as a relationship can get 😊
I should be sleeping rn 😳
Great video as always! ❤💯
1000% right
Videos like this just show me how toxic my last relationship was. She was short adorable girl that no one would have suspected her to be the way she was but now I'm just glad I noticed when I did and ran.
Thanks, Psych2Go! I watch these types of videos not only to look out for myself but for my partner as well 🥺 I don't want to become toxic towards him, he deserves all the best this world!
Why do I feel like this is me? I'm not doing it on purpose .. please tell me how to not to be toxic? Or am I just insecure ?
These are all things that have happened or are happening in my relationship, but I feel like I can’t leave. It’s been 2 years and I’m drained and exhausted most days. Her family treats her like garbage so I know that everything she does is not her fault, it’s just responses and behaviours/habits to being abused by her two siblings and her parents her entire life. I know how she is on the inside better than anyone else so I know she’s a sweet, romantic, artsy, and happy girl but her depression makes it very hard for us to enjoy our time together. The problem is that if I leave she will most likely end her life. I’m the only person she has to call back on and in the only one who gives her time of day besides some of her work friends. We’re always together, not because that part is toxic, but because she can’t be at home, or then I have to deal with talking her out of a depressive episode because of the things her mom and her siblings say to her every time she’s at home. I don’t know what to do anymore. I feel like things would improve if I asked her to marry me and we just left, but I’m not sure I even have enough left in me to make that incredible effort. I love her to the moon and back but it’s getting harder and harder to call her in the mornings.
I used to have someone, she meant everything to me and I couldn't live without her. She was asexual and couldn't exactly love me back, but it didn't stop me from wanting to be with her. It broke my heart when I decided to end our friendship because leading up to it, I drained myself physically and emotionally to try to apologize for something I did, although we both knew that I couldn't be forgiven and our friendship turned toxic because everything I did was done for her when it was only hurting the both of us. I miss her so much and it sucks because we go to the same school, I wish I could say something, but it won't change anything.
I hate watching these videos when I'm in a relationship because I don't want some random telling me that my relationship is toxic, but honestly my girlfriend is amazing and we have zero of the problems in this video.
My ex-bff thinks we had a toxic relationship bc we don't talk very often and I was fine with it bc she said she still wants to be friends
I was living with an ex partner for business and work reasons. I knew that he has developed strong dependency on me like I did too, but the moment when I've been taunted about leaving that living place, I knew something is up in the air. sometimes I regretted to be too kind and understanding of his mental illness that didn't help him with controlling his behaviours, but I know I can't do otherwise because I'd be a walking contradiction. It then became emotionally and physically abusive because I keep wanting out of that house for my sanity sake and I felt like a mom or maid helping him with the simplest chores seeing how he struggled with even taking a shower or getting food. Part of it has to do with my guilt from our past relationship history, but it also has to do with severe attachment to each other out of emotional and financial reasons. Few weeks ago, a big argument blew up and I decided at that moment that is it, I'm done. I'm done being made to feel bad about wanting my own life outside of his place. The built up resentments I have carried spilled out to our dynamic previously. Right now, looking back, it is truly toxic and abusive. I feel glad that I finally found the courage.
To be honest, when you said jealousy comes from a place of attachment I was kinda called out. I'm really easily attached. I have monophobia, and a huge fear of abandonment. And when I find someone to be close with I get bad. I don't ignore others, I quite like my friend group and will spend days hanging with my friends and family while I was on the phone with my partner (when he wasn't sleeping from his night job) he'd go hang out with his friends and family, and often times called me, and I liked that. I wasn't the one needing to go 'hey, babe. Wanna call?' He was. It worked well with my attachment issues, and played out nicely for our relationship. Just chatting while we did our own thing.
However when I found out he was hanging out with an ex at one point I got really jealous. I wasn't sure who she was or anything. And I got a bit distant. I trusted him and I was sure they weren't going to do anything. But for a moment I felt threatened? I guess is how you could say that. Mainly cause his brother had mentioned his ass(I was on call with them) and they got into a brief conversation about it. And now, I do talk dirty minded things with all my friends, but at that time I was kinda like "really?" We got passed it and I promised him I wouldn't get distant again and that he can see his friends no matter what. I tried really hard to let him know he doesn't have to choose one or the other. I had an ex do that to me. And I let him separate me from everyone and so leaving him took so much time cause of my need to have someone. I can't possibly put anyone else through it.
Guy I was jealous with however, we had met on Halloween, that was going to be our official anniversary cause it was the day I got to physically meet him. We went to a haunted house. He let me cling to him at all times the entire weekend I was there with him. He looked at me with so much love. He touched my face with delicate fingers, and held me to him like I was the only person he wanted to hold. He told me he loved me. Gave me such a dumbass smile. Kissed me in such a sweet manner...
And then on the 4th, a couple days after I went back home, he broke up with me. Because he couldn't get over his ex(not the friend. But a different one)
It all fell apart, my depression, which I had been trying to cope with the entire relationship (which he knew about, cause he talked me out of suicide a couple weeks before we got together) collapsed. And my mental state came tumbling down. And I wanted to end my life, I couldn't cope with it. And it made me act out. And he hates me now. And I know he does, though he doesn't say it. And I deserve it.
I'm still not over him. I still struggle with everything. Wondering where I fucked up. Where I couldn't be better than his ex. Why he looked at me like he did, when his excuse for me wasn't just that he still loved his ex, but that the love he had for me was platonic. And now he's out of my life and I miss him more than the relationship. I miss our friendship before he even knew I had feelings for him.
I know I'm a bad person, but I'm not sure what I did to deserve this amount of pain. To be crying while typing this when I should be sleeping cause I just got out of my night shift at work.
Well I am in a toxic relationship with my best friend which makes sense :(
It’s hard to understand toxicity when you’re in it. Once you get out,it’s a game changer
Thank you for sharing! These videos always hit the spot when needed.
noo but i dont want to leave him i swear its just my adhd that makes me so impatient and that i have high expectation
I love that you guys acknowledged the fact that you can still talk and air things out and potentially salvage things. Some people do the whole “cut it off and walk off in silence” thing and often times I feel like that leaves people with a bitter perspective of friendship. And then when you run into these people they have trust issues that you don’t immediately see until you’ve been friends with them for a while. But again, conversation is key! It will let you know if you can talk things out or if the damage is too severe and you should move on.
Not just relationships, but it applies to everything relating to human relationships too. If you can’t see or feel you’re relaxed with the person or people, leave!
My relationship with my ex was so toxic. All the signs did happen
Thank you so much for this video! I showed me that I made the right choice
im currently with BPD girlfriend, i have autism and ADHD, even the tinniest mistake i make (not on purpose by forgetting things) she starts insulting me very badly and hurts me emotionally, then after couple of minutes she acts like nothing happens and everything is my fault, i wish i could leave but we have a 1 year old and im seriously thinking of my happiness, but im afraid of leaving him alone with her
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Sad to say that i was in a relationship with someone who was angry that i wasn't the jealous type, as well as having privacy.
Letting your partner control you turns into a toxic relationship lamo
Me who don't have a relationship
Interesting ...
If you actually look up for this video, that is totally a red flag
When helping someone with their jealousy, I believe that the main goal should be clarified and maintained (e.g. maintaining the relationship, rather than deciding it based on feelings of jealousy). It's fine to feel jealous or feel which ever way, but when it's to a distrustful/destructive degree, everything can get destroyed in the process and that'd not be preferable in my opinion.
What if your the victim that lives with toxic parents? How do break free from that? I don’t know what healthy love looks like.
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I’m in a toxic marriage
It's funny how I was curious on watching this
Like I'll be able to experience this shizz again XD
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Is it weird that I am jealous of my bf's cat 😅
I'm afraid that I'm in the middle of a toxic relationship..Thanks anyway bc now I know that it's not all my fault
Thanks for sharing. We hope this video helped you identify the signs. How many signs did you relate to?
I do like the videos that are uploaded to this channel. Im more of a visual and hands on learner. So most of these videos are helping me learn from past mistakes and understanding better on how to work on things with myself.
I haven't watched this yet but it's almost a year now being out of a 7 off and on toxic relationship with no apology or closure. The ending was horrible and traumatic for me. I've come to learn a lot about myself and him when I finally distanced myself for good. I worked on myself and continuing to grow.
There was many red flags but I later discovered I was codependent and be was a narc.
We deserve someone who realizes we are truly special. We deserve to be at peace and not in pieces.
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Beginning to believe that a healthy romantic relationship is all but a myth. If you’re lucky to find yourself a relatively healthy-minded person with little to no emotional, etc baggages, then it all comes down to tolerance, compromising, and acceptance.
16 SECONDS AGO!!! I DONT THINK IVE EVER BEEN THIS EARLY BEFORE
I was in a toxic relationship for four years. Both of us where responsible. And it was one of my hardest decisions I've ever made, but it definitely was needed. Even if it hurts the alot, time heals every wound.
In personal experience, I had a toxic relationship and it was hard to leave her. After that, when the shitshow ended, I had the chance to be with a lovely girl, but after almost a year, when I have felt I needed some time to be with myself and to heal because of my own depression, she slapped me when I was telling here I wanted to be better... And that broke me. All and everything I felt for here. I just leaved and that was it. Sometimes is even harder to see the signs... The last lesson she left me.