Brett Reacts To "If Teen GIRLS Were 100% Honest"
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Brett, I can tell you, turning on porn in the living room in front of the guys isn't a "guy thing to do", that's pretty damn weird.
LOL I remember a while back my husband and I were watching the movie Toy Soldiers (takes place in a boys' military style private school, very good movie btw) and there was a scene where a bunch of the boys were sitting around the room, some of them in nothing but their tighty whiteys. I was like, is that really something guys did when they were teenagers? Hubby said, not in my experience. 😂😂😂 I was so relieved. I can't imagine a bunch of young men actually watching PORN together. Gross.
I've heard guys joking about it but never heard about it actually happening 💀
I used to work on ships and my coworkers would watch porn in the break room. I would walk in and they would turn it off and if they didn’t I would. It was weird but in some groups it is a thing.
In the Marines some of the guys in my barracks had porn night every Friday. Every single Friday. And that porn was extra raunchy, two girls one cup era
Wasn’t that literally an episode plot for Friends?
There is 0% chance that all of these girls are being 100% honest.
like what?
Literally caught myself yelling cap every second. Even when they put behind a mask they still follow social trends or unsocial trends because they are social if that makes sense lol
@@jaylonwhocares7019 who cares
@@twentysecondcenturywoman Everyone who hopes to have an honest partner, which happens to be the majority of Earth's population
67.8% of statistics are made up
i wish the girls and the boys were asked the same questions so that we could have an honest comparison
yea with you on that
there is one
thats so true
sorry for necroing but i dont think them girls should be asked if they are insecure about their pp size lmao
I agree and in terms of equality… that would be it. Like ask the boys how many house tasks are pushed on them vs women. Ask the boys if they’re insecure about their body. Ask the ladies some of the male questions too
The red flags were there:
1) The shallow answers
2) The hypocritical attitude towards looks ("It's more what's underneath" yeah right 🙄)
3)The ignorance of male responsibilities.
4)The victim attitude.
We're dealing with a panel of narcissistic embryonic feminists. I don't like to blame others but I think it's women who are responsible for male/female relations going down the drain.
Edit: one of them was a genuine victim, nothing against her, her experience sounded horrible.
I think you're absolutely right
I’ve always kind of thought this. I tried to dabble with “the other side” and understand women, and I think I do to a degree, but I’ve always been convinced over and over again that collectively, women are acting more problematic than men when it comes to intersexual dynamics and relationships. Not saying anyone is perfect, but men are generally just so simple with what they want.
There are definitively a lot of problems going on both ends. I think women are more susceptible to adhere and accept those current ideas for superficial reasons or for social inclusion. Man tend to isolate themselves over time if they aren't fitting to their context. Both have their own set of issues, but share synergistic effects. All I can say from experience is, despite the woman you are with, questioning and not agreeing with those current social rhetorics are possibly the single best things you can do. Done with respect and calmness of course, which is the most difficult part when we've been fed some of this none-sense for years now. She will end up respecting you more, the same way we need them to put some of our ideas in check at times. The problem is that the people responsible to challenge these types of ideas haven't been doing their job if not promoting them for too long now. Hard to take 'no' as an answer, especially from the ones 'responsible' for your misery, when you've been told you were a victim all your life. Inversely, hard to stand up to a woman when you've been told you were inadequate and misogynistic by default all your life. It just foster resentment.
It’s very refreshing when someone actually calls out women for once.
Men get blamed for everything even when THEY are the victims, they’ve been used as a punching bag for feminists for far too long.
@elizabethbennett3930 When I say simple, I mean that it’s easier to give them what they want (relative to what women want from men), they’re straightforward about it, and they’re easy to please and don’t as expect much.
The girls: Yeah. My ex was toxic. I had no hand to play, lol.
The guys: There is a billion dollar porn industry that profits off of my loneliness and isolation and this is the first time I can actually talk about it without that industry telling the public to treat me as an outcast for doing so.
Best take. Honestly well done.
the girls talked about p0rn too, its not about loneliness, stop making excuses. And what the guys said sounds more like victim mentality. "I watch p0rn which I can control but I would blame It on my loneliness which again i am to be blamed for"
@@bruhno1545 lol youre coping on every comment 💀
@@bruhno1545 the guys sounded like victims because they actually are victims of the porn industry. And what are you even talking about the girls victimized themself the entire time. prestige master victims
@@bruhno1545 most people i have ever met have been much more trouble than there worth and i mean a lot more trouble. porn doesn't manipulate me or become vindictive because it didnt get its own way or i said something that insulted it somehow that i was unaware of porn is not oversensitive and have overreactions to things like most people seem to.
Yeah, I gotta agree. The boys one felt so genuine. This feels like they're saying what they're expected to say.
I felt like joseph jostar, you can predict everything they say, and we know why
Yeah
Well the reason you felt the boys were more genuine is bc they were ,the way they talked about it was like showing that they needed help ,or that they wanted help ,yes most guys watch porn ,and yes most guys talk about porn bc they think it’s cool ,they cover it up and hide behind that “look I’m cool” mask instead of showing that porn has messed up their perception of the world and of women mainly, and it completely ruins any kind of relationship you may have. They had the opportunity to talk about it and they completely opened up, and I could relate to them a lot bc I’ve never had the courage to talk about it bc I feel like ppl are either gonna judge me or laugh at me or think that I’m gay for talking about porn in a negative way, but porn is a disease and we need to stop promoting it as a normal thing to watch bc it’s not
Lol Women ☕️
(Except Brett) ☺️
@@Pack_Watch there teenagers not women
I think one of the reasons for the differences between the boys' conversation and the girls' is because the guys aren't typically "allowed" to voice their opinions/feelings on important topics, so they've actually thought deeply about all of these issues. Girls are supposedly free to speak their mind and share their feelings, and many of them do, but to the detriment of never actually doing any self-examination. In the end, they speak about these topics on a more shallow level because they've never had the need to do some serious thinking about any of it.
That being said, I also think it's very difficult for most women to be totally raw and real with each other, because if you have the "wrong" opinion, it's taken as a personal attack. Men tend to be much more open-minded and can disagree with each other and not have their whole friendship be threatened.
Yesh and that quickness to turn anyone and everyone into an enemy at the drop of a hat which, I've said for years, is why women have historically been kept out of major society decision making. It's not because "they were kept down just cuz," it's they tend to be incredibly irrational which is dangerous. As you can see by the imcreasd social turmoil the west is in.
The friendship isn't worth it. I'm also pretty sure guys do go through the same thing rejection wise, it's just in how women and men interact differently. But girls can be MEAN in a way men aren't. Yet I've seen a lot of trans males who are biologically women say they see how men are treated differently from women, and treated worse.
It’s also the way men and women speaks, men have tendency to go straight to the point, women more often than not loving going around.
Female hierarchy is built on social capital. If you have a competitor you tear them down via reputation destruction and ruin them on a personal level. The loser is left in ruins ostracised from the group, it's brutal, think Mean Girls. Guys its a quick competence show down, alpha is established, then everyone moves on.
Facts.
The girls weren't as honest as the boys. The girls almost immediately went into a social mode with each other.
Becuse girls are more social than boys. But their social skills doesn't make them more honest, instead it will rather be quite the opposite.
Brett, as a boy let me tell you, it is REALLY weird to turn on porn in the living room, most guys don’t do that
Thats definetly not normal man behavior. Normal man behavior is buying two rust bucket jeeps and combining them into one sort of functional jeep. Or doing the same thing but with a truck. Or only playing video games with cars, guns, or both.
Nah fr. Like we talk categories with freinds but we dont watch it together tf?
Idk, we used to do that in our early 20’s, but it was always when there were girls there TBH, and like a party vibe going on.
Yeah for real, maybe if your just discovering it and you and your dumb little friends google it for the first time. And still then it’s be all awkward lol.
My friends and I will admit we watch porn but i can confidently see it rarely comes up in conversation lol.
@@TheAnnoyingBoss as a guy, I can confirm, combining two rust bucket jeeps into one sounds like the most fun stuff ever.
The difference between this video and the teen boys video is crazy. The girls are caught up in playing the victim the way society has told them to, while the boys were starving for a chance to talk honestly and be understood. This is what our society is doing to its young people.
stfu, the boys were acting like victims too its just that people are more sympathetic when boys do it
💯
Even Brett realized this the moment they all gave the unanimous vote of not seeing hope for equality…. THEY ARE THAT HOPE… Children Are that Hope… if they can’t even see that they are the ones to hold accountability towards the future… it just shows how unaccountable the entire panel was…
I only wish they asked that same question to the boys.
I think the self victimization was mostly due to 90% being latino or muslim or any sort of brown/black. the "minority" in the US is encouraged to play the victim. I would have loved to see some white or "privileged" girl on the show, they're answers would have added variety.
@@rootedpen2 I don’t think we know. There could be one of them up there.
When she said that “now everyone just wants to be fat. I don’t know what’s gonna come next” I just started laughing.😂
People are insane.🤦♀️
Are you disagreeing
@@ciaphascain1252 Nope!
No one wants to be fat 🙄Media normalises an unhealthy diet but don't think behind the screen people are like "you know what I really want to be fat!!🤪🤪" Too many people (like Brett) see stuff on the internet and think everyone is like that. People who don't agree just don't bother voicing their opinions cause they're not internet freaks vying for atttention.
I kinda do agree like fat people are like “be proud of being fat!! It’s great to be us” I think there’s too much of that with the ‘minorities’ being so “proud” that people want to like join them even if it’s not the most healthy- like trans fat gay (it’s ok to be gay but some people forcefully make them gay) and ect
*Boys being brutally honest:* "I am terrified of death."
*Girls being brutally honest:* _(giggles)_
😂😂
A girl I dated for about a month broke up with me over text. She claimed I was toxic. I asked her what that even meant. She said I was too controlling. I asked her what that meant because I had never told her to do or not to do anything. She proceeded to tell me that when I asked her how her day was, that was me "checking up on her" and "pressuring" her to behave a certain way. I thought I was just being polite. But I guess that's toxic these days.
So I told her "Well I would say good luck and have a nice life, but I don't want to be toxic."
lmfao... what needs to happen in this country is nobody mess with the opposite sex until they're in their mid-20s and have their own life going for themselves so that when they are ready to date life isn't so in the way and they don't have so much to worry about and can focus on their pursuit of their mate rather than trying to fit it in in the middle of everything else
Yea there's something you're not saying, there's always something more.
Nah. Girl simply dumped you for an abusive dude and has reversed the definitions of controlling and polite
That bit about “checking up on her” by asking a simple thing like “how was your day” leads me to believe she isn’t a faithful girl lol
Same shit happened to me. I don’t understand it at all. How is asking how someone how they’re doing toxic?
I felt that the boys were more anonymous too. They were answering as individual boys. The women constantly were like “I’m gay, I’m Hispanic, I’m a minority”. Like needing people to know what label they fall under
Yeah the women like to categorise themselves then blame other people for categorising them
Wokeness has taught people that their problems are most valid if they are coupled with several other oppression identities. The decimation of sex-based rights due to the trans movement bolstered this for young women.
Yeah I agree
I would have left her on read. That would have drove them nuts
I think they hated the fact they hide their faces. It's like their moment of glory was stolen from them.
I think the reason why there is a difference in response depth between the teen males and teen women is, that the males do not have the ability to talk like this often, and took it very seriously and had 100% honesty
Most of the times guys put up multiple different fronts on what we feel. Sometimes you can get lost in who you actually are
It also takes some time or a certain calming environment for women to be able to disarm themselves and be ready to be truly vulnerable. I don’t think they created that environment for these girls on this set.
@@hhj186 REAL
I think girls feel way more comfortable and honest around their friends. Guys definitely take longer to trust their friends that deeply and maybe won't tell them stuff that deep at all.
"Women . . . are dependent, not upon strength, but upon craft; hence their instinctive capacity for cunning, and their ineradicable tendency to say what is not true. . . . Nature has equipped woman, for her defense and protection, with the arts of dissimulation; and all the power which nature has conferred upon man in the shape of physical strength and reason has been bestowed upon woman in this form. Hence dissimulation is innate in woman, and almost as much a quality of the st*_id as of the clever." -Arthur Schopenhauer
Even when they aren't in danger, most women can not help but rely on this to get by socially. It's why I stopped trusting them, at least fully, because they are almost never 100% honest.
I think they didn't open up is because they're scared of being judged by the girls around them. Although they were told that they were in a safe space, that could have kept them from really opening up. When I was a kid, I was going through a lot of stuff that no kid should have gone through and I was in group counseling. I was scared to open up in group because of being looked at weird or judged about what I went through. The only time I ever opened up was when I had one on one with the counselor.
The boys got asked pointed questions with mature responses, the girls got asked softball questions in the sense they catered to the woke victim mentality!
There's a reason why men are the ones who are supposed to take control and change these things, women are too easily controlled by these degenerate ideologies with wokeness being almost ultra feminine (Not saying all women are like this but most young ones today are unfortunately)
It's actually funny how women and girls are probably more open in other ways then this and the boys felt more willing to be open in that situation
Just goes to show how rare girls like brett are. Most of em believe in the ssme brainwash things
@@shanedaley6236 I think the guys were so open because it’s such a rare opportunity that they got presented. We don’t have enough chances to speak out about our feelings, but I reckon most guys have got plenty they could share.
@@rileyknox What do you mean? You can talk about your experiences wherever and whenever you want. What's stopping you? Is there a law?
The latina teen mentioning that “I have to do housework if my mom dies and my brother doesn’t” I’m pretty sure that the brother was told my the father that if the father passed away he’s responsible for putting food on the table and supporting his family through hard work
I was thinking the same thing. Yes, that still qualifies as being "treated differently", which was the question, but the girl failed to acknowledge (or didn't know) that the son had different expectations because he would be "man of the house" and that brings a different set of responsibilities in some cultures.
🤣 my dad telling the dog "ok, you're the man of the house" as he leaves for work came to mind (yes he literally does this)
It's still different treatment for them both though, so the answer she gave was still correct.
Exactly. She’s so incredibly thoughtless. And, as a Latino myself, I was extremely offended at the way she was blaming Latinos as a whole and our culture as opposed to maybe just her family or the way that she perceives things. I’ll tell you what, the ladies in my family would recount a very different tale of what it was, like, being raised in a Latino family in the United States. These bitches have no awareness of any kind, not of self or of others. Completely self-centered and lost in their own little lefty worlds.
@@cantin8697 yes different treatment but he’s talking about how she said her brother never had to have a responsibility from their parents like that or something.
Just based on the little things Brett says about her mom makes me think that she's a very wise person.
I'm Hispanic. Raised and living in Mexico till this day. I've always thought my parents raised equally my brother, 3 sisters and me (we've been on karate, hunting, camping, climbing, setting fires, fixing mechanical things) HOWEVER I just realized that my sister's and I were the ones to do the domestic chores with my mom... But then I remembered: wait a second ... My brother was the one to take out the garbage because it was the nasty choir, cut the grass (with scissors, not machine) in the sun at 86°f and other tough choirs so.. I think we the girls were the lucky ones.
Also... They always bought us more and nicest things than him. I guess we did have a difference in gender treatment after all haha
I am noticing how the teen boys seemed to have more mature responses to the questions. Also the girls are so much more affected by the woke.
I wish they’d do more homeschooled kids. I’m 15 and homeschooled, me and all the other girls I know don’t care for any of this. The girls in public school seem to just want to fit in, it’s sad.
If I were a young single teen I’d definitely have a better chance of meeting an intelligent well adjusted girl with self respect and values in a homeschooled population. I know a lot of those kids and almost all of them are top notch.
@@abjectmadness1111 AKA herd mentality.
Females are definitely more woke and much bigger supporters of the LGBTQIA+ community than males. Which is why I have no sympathy for these feminists that are now seeing the light and complaining about trans people taking over female spaces.
They're more hive minded. Go along to get along.
Pretty sure Brett shared more about her opinions and experiences than these girls did 😂
True, I was looking at the question and then skipping their response to see Bretts answer
Most men would appreciate women being as decisive as Brett. She seems to know exactly what she expects and says it directly. Mad respect for that.
Brett is rad.
weird thing im starting to notice with boys nowadays (outside of where im at), they sound more feminine, not sure if thats the filter or im trippin lmao somone correct me if im wrong please
Lol! 💯
What you said about the guys craving the chance to talk about this stuff openly is 100% accurate. Can speak for all of us but I’ve never been even close to 100% open and honest with anyone in my life. Have to keep at least the facade of looking strong and competent with people in our lives in case we need people to trust us in a time of crisis. We deal with our thoughts and emotions on our own and get back to our day.
So unfortunately real.
You are absolutely correct as a boy and now as a man I was definitely that way. I'm totally relied upon to be strong and in dependent and hold it together at all times for the family. Deep inside though there are many times where I want to run away and have alone time to myself. I dream about what it would be like to not have all these responsibilities.
I will always be trustworthy and reliable for others, but I struggle to trust and rely on others
Yeah, I can agree that this version for girls was much more shallower than the other one. The girls seemed to brush things off and laugh about the topics more than the boys who seemed to me as more serious. However this isn't just them, but their upbringings as boys and girls. I also observed that the girls seem to be much less open than the boys, and I think it is because they feel judged from the others even though they're anonymous. The boys seemed more relieved to verbally get weight off their chests because they're anonymous.
Also, I think that the questions provided by the channel were not as deep than what the boys had. This video discussed more about gender than the other, while the boys were discussing death and how porn links up to so many problems.
One more thing. Their attitude towards content of character and physical characteristics was hypocritical. They state that many view women as objects, and support one another about their personalities; however, the significance of physical traits to them is so large that there are many beauty standards in society and beauty industries that women follow or purchase. This may not apply to many, but this is something I observed.
" I also observed that the girls seem to be much less open than the boys, and I think it is because they feel judged from the others even though they're anonymous."
something I noticed that pertains to that. the boys were giving very honest answers about how they felt as individual despite them clearly not being homogeneous, but they all seemed to relate to each other. But the girls one of the first things they individually jumped into was their race, ethnicity, religion and sexuality. they ruined their anonymity by distinguishing themselves immediately... I am wondering if doing that biased who was responding and how. I imagine a white teenage rich girl with not a whole lot of pathos to talk about might have shut up immediately or gave answers that were safe to avoid being the 'privileged one.'
@@nigen exactly this omg. as soon as they start answering a question they attach an identity to themselves instead of talking solely about their experiences without ruining the point of the video (to be anonymous)
My god, hearing a girl as pretty as Brett saying she had insecurities about her looks to the point where she considered plastic surgery is horrible. Social media truly is destroying young women.
being insecure and wanting to change things about yourself has been a struggle a lot of people deal with since before social media.
@@sophieluna-murray8846 except social media is driving many girls literally off the edge.
Got kinda shocked cause her nose is one of the parts i find her cute, she tends to remind me of a Bunny.
@@morganpetersen she might not want to look like a bunny😂 but she does have a very normal looking nose to me
@@CreativeCache101 A cute nose forshure
I think the girls kinda came at this like an argument, like “I need to share what I feel so people can change their minds and be educated by my experience!” Whereas the boys were just like “Ya that hurt and I never get to talk like this.” And actually had a meaningful conversation.
Cus they’re fake
@@Sniperboy5551 who? the girls or boys?
I'm just gonna assume u meant the girls
I thought boys were fake too, maybe less but still. I’ve done it before in church. Feeling the need to say something deep.
Just stumbled upon this channel couple hours ago on the recommended section. And this has to be one of the very few channels that ive watched several 20min+ videos on. The videos ive watched so far so amazing and i agree with so much of it.
Omg Brett i was literally thinking that same thing right before you said it. "Toxic" gets thrown around so quick & easily. I don't even know what a "Toxic relationship" is anymore. For me it was getting threated to be "knocked TF out", actually slapped, be told I'm lying about something totally random everyday & above all... accepting that for myself & thinking he has the potential to shape up.
& then there's people in these days saying "He said he would never own a cat because they suck. He's so Toxic"
I am kinda bummed. I thought the panel of boys was extremely compelling, and the answers they gave were thoughtful and deeply personal. Also, they had a wide variety of experiences that gave different perspectives, and each of them seemed to have their head on straight. Not a single one of these girls said a damn thing that shows they are an individual person, or that they take any sort of responsibility for their own lives or experiences. They all, each of them, made themselves out to be this helpless victim of society and showed no awareness of the world they are living in.
Just goes to show the real prize is the man who busts his ass not the girl who is just like all the others
It's because the boys are the under served sex. Women are already being catered to and heard
@@Capt.SeaShanty naw u all just coping, non of those guys had individuality. If u all were the prize, woman would approach the man, but in reality men approach women
wide variety of experiences? what cap. Plus boys were also acting as victims
@@bruhno1545 lool women ☕️
I think the biggest problem with this one might just be that Jazmin was allowed to speak to literally every single question and occupy most of the allotted time despite having literally nothing to say.
So... Like...uhm... Like... I have... Uhm.. like... A latino upbringing... And like... Uhm.... Like...
Excactly thank god someone noticed!
Professional victim.
Woe is me!
Savage lol
The misuse of the word “like” by girls makes me want to cry, scream and scratch my eyes out
I love how honest you are. You are amazing!
I was born with Autism and every time I go to the doctors they even question my diagnosis process. Every time I take a mental health quizzes just so they feel confident with my Autism diagnosis. It’s so annoying how popular it is to have a mental disorder.. it like brings down the harsh aspects/reality of living with it everyday. It’s not cool but it’s who I am so I have learn to embrace it.
Ah yes the classic “I’m a lesbian and my brothers trans.” Tells me everything I need to know about her upbringing
I wonder what that person mean like trans women?or trans men ?
@@kingrp9587 my friend they probably couldn’t even define what a woman/man is. Not worth your time trust me
And my mother is a snow blower
@@senorpepper3405 sounds like a lovely lady ! May need to borrow her someday
@@senorpepper3405 😂😂😂
One thing I noticed is that the guys seemed so serious, almost like they wanted to get that off their chest, and the girls almost immediately start laughing about the porn question. Is it because of an embarrassment thing or not taking the question seriously?
Edit: Just got halfway through and Brett said basically exactly the same thing. Glad I’m not alone in seeing that.
I think people handle things differently. A coping mechanism for some is to laugh to kind of break the ice and tension but it depends on the people. I know someone who laughs when they get physically hurt, it can 100% throw you off if your not used to it.
@@youtubecommentator6023 That’s a fair point
I agree. I think the anonymous nature of the video helped the guys a lot, because when I am with other guys, we really don't address many serious topics like this. But by being anonymous, they were able to be truthful and honest. And they took that advantage wholeheartedly with a serious demeanor. I know a lot of guys who probably would love to get stuff off their chest like that but have very few (or zero) people in their lives that are willing to talk to them about topics like these. I know I've felt that.
For the guys, I think the anonymity is a reprieve from their burden of being strong in the face of everything.
That's just an American thing, most of your society is to brain-dead to think about serious topics
100% agree with what you said about mental health. Everyone has something. I was diagnosed with social anxiety, but if it didn’t affect my life I wouldn’t even bother getting diagnosed. Because then it wouldn’t matter. I’m on meds and it has helped. Luckily. But at a certain time I wasn’t sure if I’d be able to live anymore. Getting anxiety just thinking.about speaking to a person made me feel like I was embarrassing and weird and no one would ever want to be with me. And then now I see people saying “oh I think I have it because I’m afraid of presenting in class” like if you are struggling. Obviously the right thing is to get help. But don’t say you have something just for attention. No one outside TikTok or social media thinks it’s cool to be mentally I’ll.
I stopped going to normal class also, but o have my own 1 on 1 teachings with my teachers. Wich I’m so great full for. It has been feeling embarrassing for a while. No one who doesn’t have it exactly like me will understand. So please don’t judge. I’m really trying to get better.
I wish more women had the intellect that you have Brett. It is so refreshing and so attractive for someone to critically think, be able to talk about their feelings, and have a great outlook on life the way you do.
Yes, I treated my son and daughters differently to a degree. Mostly because of how sensitive my daughters were compared to my son. However, I made sure to have my daughters watch me when I was working on the car and building things (my son too of course). I also set a good example for my son by doing dishes and other chores as well a lot of the cooking (i was the better cook lol) so my son and daughters knew that sharing in chores in a two-income family is NOT just for women.
My daughter just texted me last night so proud of the shelving system she built for her garage... from raw components, not a kit. She said "thanks dad". Made me so proud and it's good to know some of my lessons stuck.
That's awesome to hear. No kids myself, as of yet, but hearing that was heartening.
Damn that last part made me tear up, nothing makes me do that I don't even have kids
I see you making sure to note a two-income household. 😉
I’m kidding of course. I’m the breadwinner and I still participate in household chores and household upkeep. It’s just not equal. My wife does more, and she does WAY more kid rearing.
Thank you for the example you've provided for you family's future! Good Man, Let nobody tell you otherwise!
Questions they should ask:
Do you get looked down on if you want a traditional family with traditional roles?
Do you get pressure to fit in with the latest trends?
Do people pressure you to change your sex/gender?
Have you ever considered harming yourself?
Do people ever look down on you for expressing conservative views or your faith?
Do you stay quiet to fit in with the crowd even though it goes against your beliefs?
Do you ever think that people are trying to control you by using your emotions against your best interests?
Yeah. See how many people on that panel were conservative. I doubt any of them were.
@FIDGET The CRAZY I agree most if not all are socialist. The only reason is that young girls are far more agreeable than boys, and they've been raised to believe that everything conservative is repressive and evil.
You can absolutely see a pattern that they follow and adhere to. It's as if they only know how to regurgitate the talking point of our times. They haven't been trained to be critical thinkers.
As a conservative Christian teen girl wow i could 100% answer those im definitely looked down on every time i say i believe in God everyone immediately decides they can make fun of me and if i say anything in the bad guy for shovibg my religion in their face
@Isa I feel for you and other young Christians. Jesus said we would be persecuted because of Him. It's something I have except as a sign that I'm being true to Jesus and a part of life. A badge of honor, one could say. Never give up on your faith. Don't let nay sayers drag you down nor rob you of your joy.
as a teen girl
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I like that Bret is giving her side of the question. And is being honest. And give if different facts in there
25:02 classic uncle moment
Nice comment
The boys questions probed subjects that guys don't normally talk about in public. The girls were asked to talk about the same subjects girls talk about all the time (other than the porn one). "Are You treated differently as a girl?" That's one of their favorite subjects.
Give a girl something to complain about, and she will complain about it at every chance she gets. I know this because my sister complains about everything, especially her school assignments (which aren't even hard)
I think the boys' questions were certainly framed to be things that boys/men don't often talk about. I think the boys video made more sense with the theme of the series, because the questions were things that the boys would be ashamed of saying without anonimity.
I concur.
They dont even say anything other than I'm oppressed, I agree with the others, I'm a victim, equality and opression of other minorities. And instead of questioning themselves or think about what they could do to change it their solution is always the same: All others have to change and accept me 100%.
You would think they have a bit more to say about subjects they are talking about on a daily basis.
Nah the porn one is brought up and is seriously worn out as a subject for women. A completely boring and obvious question.
Sometimes talking to my gen z friend feels like talking to an internet chat room. Everything she has to say is almost word-for-word something I've read a thousand times on the internet. That's why i make am effort to read classic old books and try to give myself a wide education. I'm terrified of sounding like these girls who can't have a thought other than one that was put into their heads
wise words, keep reading those classics
What kinda books you recommend?
🎉 yeees! You're right on the money with that. In addition your vocabulary won't be stunted!!
Does sheepish group think of a lot of young and then is absolutely astonishing and it is mine blowing how unaware of it they are. But they’re not even like human beings there like those creatures that all have a hive mind.
That's a solid plan! 👌🏻 Escape the echo chamber!
Also, thank you Brett Cooper. Almost fair and honest people I have ever met.
I’m glad you were set back by this too.
For guys, it's basically taboo to talk about your feelings and emotions, and trying to talk with other people about rough spots usually goes nowhere. Girls are always chatting about their emotions, and about what they're feeling and going through, so that's probably why the guys used their one opportunity to truly open up to actually do so. The girls felt it was another midnight group therapy with their friends.
Not really. Guys feel more comfortable talking about stuff with their male friends. But when a guy is too open, it's very weird. It's like a girl who sleeps with just anyone. Emotional and physical sanctity.
@@A_Random_Ghost I've always found most my friends get awkward and weirded out if we ever try going too "deep" in conversation, if you've got friends that you can be open and honest with, good for you, it's much healthier when we can let things out.
@@Manu__R It depends on how deep. There are some things we should learn to keep to ourselves. I would feel very weird if someone got too personal with me.
@@A_Random_Ghost That’s reductive. Maybe one guy who fits that description will look like that to you, but another guy who is emotionally intelligent and confident enough in himself to be real about his feelings will give you a different vibe. I agree we don’t always have to sharing our feelings though, male or female. Sanctity is important.
@@innermeetme I do not understand the reductive part.
as a teenage guy, I’m at the point where all this superficial talk has become the first thing to look for when dating. It’s so commonplace now and it’s incredibly frustrating because it generally means I can’t be genuine with you because you can’t be genuine with me. It also seems like they are the type of people who just regurgitate information without really inputting their own thoughts and beliefs which is another red flag
What sucks is that you’re in the minority, I mean I guess where you live too is an important factor…where I’m from everyone has WiFi, everyone has a phone and no one likes to be approached really, I mean the chances are higher and being ignored or just getting funny looks… people used to meet each other through public places, but I promise you the only friends anyone has are from school and from work
And to think people got offended when A/S/L was a thing...
Regurgitate information without any research or verification.
Blind brains
@@chief455 Yep, that's the goal of the leftist agendas. The less independent thought, and more brain-washed lemming thought they can institute into the public, gives society's elites and political leader more control they have over the public. Free thinkers, engaged in critical thought and logic, are the enemy, to leftists.
It might be shocking to realize that that’s literally all school and “education” has become. Regurgitating information without any personal thought or contemplation. Going to school doesn’t equal intelligent capable adults. It means you can vomit answers and forget them by the next test.
Brat is the coolest and chill person ever keep up the good work champ
Wow I'm so glad my friend told me about your channel. You have opened my eyes to a lot of concepts none of my friends even talk about. I feel like now I can understand how hard it can be for men today, in this climate. And I actually feel ten times more empowered watching your videos than watching a feminist video...
As a 15 year old boy I’m honestly impressed and surprised that the boy version of these videos was more genuine and in-depth than the girl version. In my opinion.
Same age and not so surprised it's just women socially don't wanna be realistic anonymous or not, unlike Brett 😭
@@Goketure true
I'm not surprised at all.
Media in general has built up a myth around the simplicity of boys and men, and feminism has largely leaned into that and built upon it in a parasitic fashion.
You have a lot to learn about women lad
As a 19 years old man, I’m anything but surprised.
I’m sad, even a little desperate considering this is the current situation of women in our generation.
But surprised?
Unfortunately, this was the most expected thing possible.
Brett saying girls are catty is a heavy understatement and plenty of them get increasingly catty with age.
Agreed. As a female, most of my friends are male. my female friendships dont last long due to them being so caddy and back stabbing.
@@medusacrow7486 yeah my mom used tell me how when she was in highschool and even into adult hood she would prefer to be friends with guys cause girls are super dramatic and gossipy, they will also backstab, be rude, pressure people to act like them, and just kinda be fake and talk about dum stuff. When I got older and went to junior high and highschool I realized what she meant. they just be so extra like they are all living they’re own Disney channel drama. But the guys are pretty cool they just do guy stuff and rarely get offended but sadly they're kinda getting indoctrinated and acting more feminine, I’ve had some good friends just stop talking to me directly because some stupid girl or his mother said some crap about me that wasn’t true and made them think less of me.
Exactly. When I heard the question, "Have you ever been in a toxic relationship?" I immediately thought absolutely yes... except no romantic relationship came to mind, what I instantly thought of were the toxic friends from highschool of other girls who were nice to your face but spread lies behind your back, or planted seeds of insecurities any opportunity they got, etc. The majority of "toxic" people I have run into are girls, and not all of them get over it when they become adults.
@@medusacrow7486caddy’s that are catty are the worst. When I’m golfing I don’t want to be worried that my caddy might stab me in the back at anytime. My slice is atrocious when I can’t relax or I’m distracted.
This guy deserves more subs, I respect the work ethic despite not many subs
I agree Brett, the word toxic has lost meaning because the person saying it is toxic never explains why they think it is toxic. I think it is used as an excuse to not deal with issues.
My girlfriend constantly stresses about how ugly she thinks she is compared to other girls and how she thinks I’m too good for her. I definitely believe social media and the internet has a huge part in that. Considering most girls now days all look identical, copy and pasted.
Same with my girl , very infuriating
Even just t.v. shows. Brett hit it on the nose when she talked about how only the most beautiful people are cast in shows, and even teenagers are cast with adults.
Then there's photoshop...
Stop watching anime and tell her she’s the only girl you want to see.
@@freddygraffam6463 Lol 😂
I would just ask her "then why am I still here?"
If I thought I was too good for someone, I wouldn't be there.
Coming from a Hispanic family, I always find it a little annoying how girls complain about having to do housework as if the guys are just living lavishly not doing anything. They never bring up how the boys are literally doing landscaping, car work, construction, plumbing and several other things from a very early age. My father used to wake my brother and I up on weekends at 5 am to do work around our house or property and we'd literally be working till the evening. We were jealous of our sisters because all they had to do was clean for an hour and then feed us a couple times a day. Would girls really rather carry 50 lb bags of concrete for hours on end to build a dang carport? I think not 😂😂😂
I can relate. Except my dad only did that to me lol My younger brother and all of my sisters never got that treatment… now I’m thankful for it because I have a strong work ethic thanks to my dad teaching me that. Plus my mom taught me how to cook as well so I a strong, independent man 🤣
Yup this exactly. This is because they're so pampered.
Really good point coming from a female
As a female my guy friends would tell how their dad's would wake them up before the rooster sang lol. I live in a household of all women me being the oldest, but I know that burden from my guys friends telling me how early they had to wake up to go to work, and it is even both ways you know. We all have responsibilities.
As a girl from a American family I would have killed to clean for an hour and to be done afterwards. Instead I was with my dad on that roof nailing down shingles from sun up to far past sun down because the headlights on his truck was 'practically like the sun but without the heat'. Afterwards I would go home to help with dishes and sometimes cook. Still years after all of that I appreciate my father who instilled a hard work ethic. The only problem is now I feel like nothing challenges me anymore. I almost long for the hard labor I experienced as a child. Still, I don't think your sisters know what they're asking for. My advice, put a bag of shingles in their hands, tell them to toss it over their shoulder and pull it up to the roof. If they make it through that remind them that one bag does not shingle a roof.
Ive been watching this channel for a while and i never thought anything about her nose i really love it 😊
I just found your channel and I’m so glad
"You're automatically like a housemaid or a cook" Sounds like someone doesn't want to do their chores and now sees it as the patriarchy.
She can get out there and start mowing the lawn. She doesn't think about the other stuff she doesn't have to do.
Yeah she was like “my brother never had to face something that hard” but her brother probably would have to go to work and pay the bills while she is just cleaning and angry cause she doesn’t want to do her part.
tbh that's how I felt as a teenager too, but now as a married adult cooking and cleaning the house are something I enjoy. It just feels more troublesome when it's your parents telling you to do it lol
I know right
No she doesn't want to do other people's chores her brother is in her 20's why can't he cook and clean for himself?
Yeah the questions they asked these girls weren’t as bad and embarrassing as the questions they asked the boys they went pretty easy on the girls with these questions that they asked them.
Like everything else in the world...
Bigotry! Blasphemous!
Social engineering hard at work, it’s unfortunately working for a large group of people. Exhibit A. These people need our prayers, and I don’t mean that sarcastically. They are a product of their environment and it’s partly not their fault.
Wasn't audience questions?
I'm shocked, SHOCKED, not really shocked....
I am so proud of the guys honestly
0:17 this has gotta be the smoothest transition i have ever seen
I think the questions they asked the girls in this video were so surface level and what women actually talk about all the time online. They asked if the girls like their appearance as if that isn't a question that ladies think about quite often and compare themselves to others. Even the equality question doesn't seem taboo or controversial because we see it all the time online. At least with the guys they asked them questions that aren't trending on social media
Another example of subtle sexism to give the women the more typical questions.
girls posts majority of their lives and troubles on social media while dudes tend to keep it to themselves. dudes don't trend on social media cause they ain't posting anything, and if they do most of the stuff you see is about gaming and nonsensical things. that's why topics like this about girls are not new to us.
So in other words... The end up being the sexist ones lol
And the toxic relationship question sucked too. Like they’re all teens, no one’s interested in high school relationships, they mean nothing 90% of the time. No ones having a actually toxic relationship as a teen. “He disrespected me”. Ok that can mean anything lol plus it’s only their side of the story. Almost everyone says their ex was in the wrong especially a teen. Most teens don’t know what a toxic relationship is and some of them may have never even been in a relationship before at all lmao
@@balitangkamatis yes but theres so many deeper troubles we experience and keep inside simply bc we are ashamed or afraid to share. I guess just no one ever talks abt it. those are the questions they shouldve asked
I agree, it seemed like these girls were so well rehearsed on the “social script” of how we are supposed to feel and how we are supposed to respond that they couldn’t be entirely truthful and didn’t even know that they weren’t being truthful. Honest and well intended disagreement is imperative to society and what the world needs in order to realign its self but everyone is so afraid to offend someone or be shouted down that they don’t even try to share or have a different thought. It’s why we are having the kinds of problems we are having today.
No cause actually the part where she was talking about the mental illness hit home becuase i struggle so much with mine because i’ve had a really rough childhood and haven’t even seen my parents in years and everyone my age always says “everyone’s depressed get over it” and it’s crazy cause they don’t get how trauma haunts you.
First time ever commenting on a video just wanted to say first of all you're doing some amazing video content keep it up your generation needs people like you and secondly I'm glad you didn't get a nose job whatever insecurities you might have had about yourself when you were younger you are a very entertaining confident and mature and attractive young woman and some guy is going to be very lucky to have somebody like you. keep doing what you're doing and best of luck to all your Ventures
Argument: “gender equality is possible in my lifetime”
“Alex”: *disagree*
Alex’s Answer: “when I have kids I am going to tell them to be anything, or anyone they want to me.”
Me: “What?!?! How is this relevant at all to the discussion?!?”
Producers: “Omg that was perrrfect”
-_- I’m just more disappointed that there was nothing thought provoking about the video itself… thank you for the reaction it made it worth while
Edit: I do want to mention if this comment were the get any kind of traction. I was not downplaying any of the horrible things that happened to these woman. However, when you have a chance to talk on a platform that you know while get attention. You would think this would make their answer have more thought out into them. However, I found that most of the answers were so general knowledge. I’m not sure but the males discussion was very mature and interesting. Thought provoking if you will.
Bro that is literally what we were told all the time when growing up, the boys and the girls.
I don’t see how she can say that that’s how we get gender equality while also saying that we don’t already have it
@@ineedanewname4844 I don't think there is systemic gender inequality anymore, except in the incarceration/Judicial system. The Civil Courts are the worst.
I don’t know if you knew this but women have nothing thought provoking to say
Alex is the perfect example of a pathological liar. It was interesting spotting them without BL for a change.
I think you hit the nail on the head: the boys were craving this space to talk about what's been weighing them down, while the girls were taking it lightly and didn't put as much weight on this opportunity. I think that's because girls are much more emotionally open with their friends/peers, and thus have that outlet, while a lot of boys don't feel comfortable sharing their vulnerabilities with their friends due to fear of judgement (have you heard how teen/young adult boys talk to each other? it's honestly shocking how mean/judgmental/etc. they can be, just casually, without meaning harm). Overall, I don't think boys/men get nearly the same emotional support from their peers as women do (mainly because they are afraid to open up because there is a high possibility of judgement/backlash).
People always say this, “boys can’t be vulnerable.” As a 9th grade boy, I don’t get this impression at all. I don’t really have anyone I can ask this to but please elaborate UA-cam stranger, how are boys not encouraged to be vulnerable? I live in a mostly blue state so idk if that has something to do with it but I would not even want to be “vulnerable” if the opportunity arose.
@E I think it's more of a wanting to not want to be vulnerable. The want to be this strong piller that people can rely on you if the time comes. That when stuff really hits the fan you can be looked at as someone who can hold strong and persever through it and help others through. I think it's not a society pushed thing but a primal thing. As much as people don't want to admit it now days but through the course of human nature it's been looked to men to put their lives on the line. At least this is how I have come to view it. Cause I don't think in this modern day media is pushing men to not be vulnerable but to be the opposite. @Melanie To the original comment you are partly wrong, we can be/are vulnerable to our closest mates probably more than anyone since yeah we joke about it but that's to get us through. At least for me that's the case. we stick together to get each other through this hard life. Yeah I don't want to look weak in front of my mates but I know that my mates that are true mates I can be totally honest with and they will have my back qnd they never used it against me in a malicious way
I also agree as I see very often safe spaces for girls and clubs for girls to discuss what they need to talk about and when I learned this as a guy I was just shocked as I had no idea such a thing could even exist and every male person I know never had the ability to go to or had an outlet like that that girls just have on a basis and it definitely just leads to the emotions just piling up and weighing you down.
Pretty much all my male classmates talk about is topics that have nothing to do with their personalities or when they do talk about life and personality it's just ironic-not-ironic half-assed memeing that doesn't leave room to be honest with each other. My female classmates talk to each other and even to me (random guy who just initiated conversation halfway through the year) about their personal stuff like it's nothing. They share intricate details about relationships and family while the boys don't share shit. I can't believe I spend 2x as much time with the guys and I still know more about the girls.
@@user-rk7rl7tm5w The meaning is that you don't get to be serious about personal stuff with friends.
Every time i watch your videos i feel like there is hope for our generation still.
Same she gives me hope, she's 21 but she acts way older than that
Is she from our generation, tho?
She seems quite a bit older.
Edit: Holy shit she’s 21? This woman is only 2 years older than me…?
The fuck?
@@LFanimes333 yeah i was so shocked too haha shes done like 10000x more things with her life than i have with mine when shes not even much older lmaoo
it's almost as if women are afraid to be honest around other women
Those girls were cherry-picked for their beliefs. That's why the conversation went the way it did. It was a joke.
yeah almost all of them are Latinas with their nonsense, non-American and awful culture. But they want everyone to believe that THIS is what teen girls think
It's more likely to do with a selection bias than cherry picking
@@xxxmelissatacionxxx Selection bias definitely was a part of it.
Fr why were there 8 gay latinas 😂
@@user-rk7rl7tm5w😂😂😂
Just discovered Brett a couple days ago and I'm already hooked. I love how sure she is of herself. She knows herself really well. Lots of energy and much to say.
Welcome!
Jesus loves you!!
Welcome to the Brettaverse. Happens to all of us. 😅
It’s cuz you like her lol
I usually hear the phrase “Sure of yourself” as an insult.
20:43 that “oh god, here we go” got me rolling on the floor 😂🤣💀
Yeah, that was a failure of a session. Glad you pointed that out
I feel like insulting a girls nose is just an easy insult even if it's not true. I literally don't see a problem with her nose
I never even noticed her nose until she mentioned it.
I notice bullies lie sometimes.
@@rainbow9987 bingo
Seriously, its so petty.
most people who are insecure themselves go there :|
Hi. Some (at times, brutally) honest answers from a 20 year old girl.
1. Every now and again I watch porn. Maybe a few times every other month. It really stems from wanting physical affection and it never satisfies me. I always end up exasperated and moderately disgusted lol. When I had a lot of girl friends, we would talk about it pretty frequently. We were just kind of boy crazy and wanted to share what we knew with each other. As I got older, I didn’t feel too comfortable talking about things like that with others.
2. In women, I just find it unfeminine. Similar to Brett, I have dark hair and quite a lot of it. I don’t like how my arm hair and maybe a few strands of hair around my face look but I really don’t care enough to shave it. As for everything else, more than anything I keep it shaved for comfort. In men, I quite like it.
3. I don’t like the way I look right now. When I weigh a bit less, I don’t think I look horrible but I’m also not particularly confident. My family has always told me I’m beautiful and so did my friends (when I had them) but….what else are they going to say?Being a sick kid most of my life, I wasn’t in school very often and so I’ve never really had a guy call me pretty or even really show interest in me and unfortunately that has effected my confidence quite a bit.
4. I’m sure in a way they do/did. When my father was alive, he was a lot more protective of me than my older brother (almost scarily so). I recall a time in which I was in the car with him and he just all the sudden got very angry and proclaimed, “If any boy ever hurts you, I will kill him and bury him six feet deep.” Or something like that. I got very uncomfortable and he looked at me and reiterated that he was dead serious. I honest to God don’t doubt that he was. But, we’re pretty sure he was also bipolar so….who knows? On the other end of the way my father treated me, he was (and I never use this word lightly) pretty sexist and kind of looked down upon my mother and I in a way that we were only good for the small things and couldn’t possibly have an opinion that mattered. I don’t like to talk about my father too much cuz he was a very complicated fellow so I’ll leave him at that. As for my mother, I’ve never noticed too much of a difference between the way she treats my brother and I.
5. I’ve never been in a relationship at all. The closest example of a yes I have for this was when I was super into multiplayer games. I had kind of gathered this group of guys that weren’t totally horrible to me and having them was better than playing with randoms. This was also shortly after my father had passed so I was rather lonely. They had always started out sort of flirtatious (as is par for the course when you’re a girl gamer lol) but as time went on they got increasingly more vulgar and flat out odd. Asking me questions out of the blue such as, “How tight is your pussy? Like, as tight as this doorway?”, or the ever entertaining, “If I drove 20 hours to come see you, would you have sex with me?” Really thought provoking stuff. And I always just kind of ignored it or laughed it off because I wanted to have friends. They also liked to make fun of every little aspect of me and demand that I play a certain way and then got angry when I did what they wanted. I suppose you could say that a lot of gamers are like this but nevertheless it hurt my feelings and I was in a fragile mental state at the time. Time passed on with more of the same and I grew tired of it, would get angry and then leave to play by myself. That was pretty much the end of that. Doesn’t quite fit into the brackets of the questions but oh well.
6. Gender equality is more than possible, as it already exists in the U.S. That’s all I have to say about that.
7. This is mostly wherein the brutal honesty mentioned at the start lies. I would love to be straight up fully honest with someone other than my family about who and how I am, but I’m afraid it would scare people off. Truth is, I’m a severely depressed, chronically ill 20 year old who has horrible daddy issues, childhood trauma and trust issues for days. Every normal question you would think to ask someone to get to know them is one that will make me anxiously scramble for a not horrible answer (which I suppose scramble implies anxiously but whatever). I’ve also had the pleasure of watching my father die, had my entire life and sense of being ripped away from me and been alone most of my life. So, I don’t know that I can be honest about who I am sometimes.
Anyways, that was the brutal honesty. I’m done now.
P.S. Thanks for all the nice comments. Reading this back, I can definitely sense my own exhaustion by the end of my answers. So, while I wouldn’t say it was necessarily difficult to write, it’s definitely a product of thoughts that I don’t unveil very often and it’s very reassuring to see people being so kind and relating. :)
good on ya for being so open - courage :)
Thanks for your courage!
Thanks for being honest! Btw I think the guys you played with were just awful not all guys are like that. I'm 21 I wouldn't recommend dating rn... the air is a bit weird rn lol... if you know you know
If you arent sick anymore try a simple sport to do outside or just take long walks. People are suprised what a huge differece being outside does for your mental being.
Thanks for sharing, I'm 28, male, struggled socially my entire life. One small comfort I've found in life is to continually introduce yourself to new things (within reason). Try out an instrument, find a weird genre of books, and give it a whirl(I'm currently reading Korean/Chinese light novels lol), visit new places, volunteer online, or in person in some way to help others, don't worry so much about what people are thinking and just be authentic. I know it's scary, and I struggle with it myself. I just encourage you to be confident in your unique individuality.
I'm the oldest sibling of six, the gap between the youngest and I is 13 years and I love, absolutely love helping with all of my siblings. Since I was able to walk I was just fetching a nappy for my mum or playing with a younger sibling and it is definitely something that I feel blessed to have experienced. Housework is fine, I love baking and cooking, doing the laundry is definitely enjoyable because it's very regular, and it's always warm, I just like it. On the other hand I'm studying Classics and Environmental Science (I'm home-educated) so in that way I'll probably have my own job and stuff like that but I am definitely looking to get settled down in my mid to late twenties. This is a very different outlook to most of my friends who are far more career-oriented but as long as I could maintain a warm and safe family environment I would want children and a husband.
I wouldn't want to focus on my career so much so that IF I get a husband or a boyfriend we would then grow old together because we missed the opportunity to have kids, I have seen this happen to some of my family, I would not like or feel entirely fulfilled ending my life without any children or grandchildren. Obviously there's nothing wrong with doing that, this only pertains to me personally.
It would be interesting to know if there are any like minded mid-teen girls out there who feel the same way though.
I honestly wish I was part of this conversation in the original video because I want to go in depth with these questions 😭
I've observed something similar with the girls not going as deep. At the Bible Camp I work at we have a night where we split up the guys and girls and let them ask questions anonymous. The guys ask really deep, seriously questions and you could here a pin drop in that room. From what I've heard from the girls side, they ask more superficial questions and half of them don't want to be there.
That's because men actually do want to talk, speak up, speak out. Women? Just want to be heard and no one else, or they get bored.
i kept seeing the so-called professionals breaking down how men and women's brain work differently, and saying that when men bring up a problem in a conversation their goal is to look for a solution, but when women bring up a problem their goal is to get sympathy. This should have something to do with it.
@@BrokensoulRider the questions are asked by the channel not the girls sitting there. Plus how tf u came up to that conclusion, there was nothing like that
@@dian277 non of the boys were giving solutions
@@bruhno1545 right, those boys were there to answer questions, possibly in an attempt to find a solution. They weren't there to answer each other's questions, and they might not find an answer through their own monologue, but the intention is on the same track.
Being a father I can only hope my daughter can turn out like you. Keep up the good work.
Don't worry man. Your daughter will be even better than Brett. In her own way:)
Do your best, but the fact that you care is already a point in the right direction of her being a great actualized person like Brett. 👍
Love the vid
yo, brett. heard you talking a lot about your insecurities. Just wanna let you know; your very beautiful, and incredibly funny. Always make me smile watching your videos.
Remember when we used to joke about girls growing up faster and being more mature than boys. Well if this video is anything to go off of, that's clearly not the case anymore. Pretty much every single guy, even the stupid ones, from the other video, were much more measured, reasonable and mature than the most reasonable girl in this video.
I think it means girls grow up physically faster than boys do, not mentally.
Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The guys were dealing with complications of reality while the girls were confused about reality.
Crazy how you explained the difference in videos in one sentence
IMHO that is because girls are constantly told what reality is through the 'teachings' of feminism while boys have to actually reason it out from scratch while also dealing with the effects of 3rd wave feminism that complicate our lives further still.
Why would you think that the girls weren’t dealing with complications of reality?
Your last few comments on this Bret were really interesting in regards to it being hard to find female friends. It's something I talk with about my husband often and something I'm insecure about, wondering, "am I doing something wrong?" All the while trying to find other women who actually want to have a real friendship, that isn't just this surface level nonsense. It's been a lifelong issue and for a while even if it seems like I FINALLY meet some; then somehow, I'm not worth it enough to be kept in a friend lineup. It's a question I pose often and regularly to my mom, and my husband, and other guy friends, just to make sure that I'm not excluding myself from the equation. That I'm not the problem too, and I'm at a loss. To put anything else in perspective: my oldest friend (a friendship of 20 years) is a guy, and most of the others are guys, he's basically my brother at this point. My HUSBAND, while we were dating was the first and only person to ever refer to me as his best friend FIRST. Which was something that still shocks and surprises me every day. Heck even in a different way, most of my friends being great guys (all single), I regularly keep on the lookout for any girl that would be good enough for them or would get along with them. I know no one to do even that. So regardless, I do find what you say very interesting, and encouraging to know: It's not just me~ :|
I was trying to think of who you reminded me of, and it finally hit me. Elisha Cuthbert when she was like 22.
It's hard to believe Brett would be insecure about her physical appearance in any way...she is extraordinarily beautiful.
For real, she's amazing and it's nice she's actually cool and doesn't just jump on a train about one thing that all her content becomes
I hate thirsty comments like mine but Brett is truly mega hot super wife material in my opinion.
down astronomical....but reasonable
All women and girls feel insecure about something. I'm sure men do too. But as a woman I can only give the female perspective.
@@Biiiiird Shes not fuckable she''s huggable
A good girl indeed
Because as Males, if we complain we are basically told to shut up and deal. No emotions can be shown and definitely no weakness. Women can say anything and they are comforted. Men crave to share our thoughts and emotions. Would love to see grown men do this, unedited. I am sure we would break a lot of people’s hearts just hearing everything we hold in
We always suffer in silence.
And yet when you do, you are either taken advantage of, insulted, abandoned or something like that. I can’t stand women anymore, what am I trying for??? No matter what, I am going to be used for something. And I am done. Welcome to the death of hopeless romantics everywhere
My wife and I actually discussed this very point watching this. Men just aren't supported in the same way women are in current year. We hear so much about how men need to learn to be more emotional or share our feelings, but when we try, we're immediately told our feelings aren't valid because critical theory and other bs.
We can only do it in very specific situations. Either the closest of our friends or a very strong relationship with a SO.
And requirements have to be met to share such feelings, such as a private place where we know we won’t be bothered and hit the deepest of emotional topics.
If you do actually open up plenty of the time the gf or society will laugh at you or be revolted/disgusted at you.
Remember some girl online said she would be supportive of her man and then he opened up and cried. She then says that she didn't mean that supportive.
In a situation like this every person should get separated like in a court room that way answers arent fed off of each other but since theyre all in a room everyone is afraid to be 100% honest this goes with the boys too.
They gotta redo this with the same questions 😂
It's so sad that these kids want to fit in so bad that they're willing to chop off body parts, inject substances, and other crazy things. I enjoyed being different and implore my kids to be that way. We homeschool, but their relatives are having a "woke" effect on them. I pray for all kids.
keep them TF away from those creepy relatives. Cut ties with them if you have to...
Keep them away from
Those relatives please. Protect them from that. As someone who had a similar experience don’t let it keep getting further I was very blessed to get out when I did.
The main difference I noticed between the boy episode and this episode: The guys came off as generally more accepting and vulnerable in their answers - I wouldn't be surprised if they became bros after, and the girls came of as somewhat guarded/judgy and "victimy." Like they probably talked shit about the others in the bathroom.
Boys here - self accountabliity
Girls here - blame game
probably the first person to tell you this..but boys are girls are not the same and we say things and handle things in different ways. if you ever told yourself you've never done or felt some of the things these girls have felt, your lying.
Why are you attacking women?? It’s just if it was the other way around and the boys were worse in some regard you wouldn’t care nor point it out.
I think maybe it's because as boys they know it's serious and nobody is gonna betray them, whereas it seems the girls are very in edge and scared to reveal anything damaged to their reputation
Brett Cooper YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS JUST THE WAY YOU ARE 🌻
I'm happy to see I'm not the only one with comin sence
Honestly, can't blame the girls. They just answer what they are asked. I went to see the comments section of the video and most people say that the questions for the girls are very different compared to the boys and yeah, I kinda agree. Like, they ask the boys about their opinion on feminism or if they fear death but ask the girls shallow topic like body hairs? I think they should have ask the same questions to see how different each gender answers
I agree with this. I think the questions led them in a certain direction.
At the same time i do think there wasn't a lot of openness.
EXACTLY! everyone was like omg theyre so shallow, like bro they were asked a bunch of stupid questions what do you expect
Did John Stewart ask republican guests and democrat guests the same questions on the Daily show? No. He had an agenda. Same here. Pelosi comes on and they make fun of republicans, republicans come on and they talk about golf, the weather and how they like their brisket cooked.
thank you. the girls were clearly set up and the boys in these comments are running with it to paint teen girls as shallow. 🤦♀️
I slightly disagree. No matter the question the girls were not very honest.
There have been studies that show that when given the chance to have a deep, vulnerable conversation teen boys will jump at the opportunity until they are told otherwise. While teen girls will blow it off, like they did here, because they -- and adult women -- have the chance to do it whenever we feel like it.
Yahtzee!
it makes sense but it was still dissappointing that none of the girls seemed interested and just answered in a very shallow way and sometimes "their" answers even seemed like ctrl+c from some main stream magazine. I mean why did they even participate?
@@pingu6028 because they have the chance to have those deep emotive conversations with their friends in more comfortable locations. So they're not going to put themselves out there like that boys, because they can do it later when they feel more comfortable. At least that's what I think.
These responses feel like something I would here on TIK TOK
We jus need too start showing Brett’a videos in school. Mf will teach us better in one vid than school will in years
I'm in gen z girl as well, and if there were any girls there with different opinions, I bet they didn't say them because they didn't want it to turn into a cat fight considering the types of people there. I would certainly feel that way.
Had I been asked that question about whether you feel like you can be yourself in society, I would talk about how hard it is to exist at the moment in our generation when your opinions and ideals differ from what is politically acceptable. We have to hide, and fear losing friends or being ostracised if we slip up and say the wrong thing or make the wrong joke. It's terrifying.
Homesteading is in most conservatives future. Cities will probably only get worse and worse in the next 10 years unfortunately.
i would've had such fun if they wanted to interview me 😂
To the girl who said her mother told her she would need to take care of the house if anything happened, I can promise that the father has had a similar conversation and expectation with the brother about paying the mortgage.
I agree, I've had this talking to a few times growing up. It was probably the manliest conversation I ever had with my dad
Yep.. just because you don't know what the other one's problems are, doesn't mean they don't exist.
My sister would always complain when my aunt suggest that she cooks for me once I'm back home.
I'd work from 6am to 9pm and pay half the bills at home, while she'd be at her phone all day.
Oh gosh I’m an only Child female I’m gonna get a double talk.
@@PhelZTrue, they think we guys are privileged but actually we have more responsibility just in different areas.
Nope. Just me. Bc im the eldest. All the pressures on me all the time
Also, your nose is frickin adorable! :D
As soon as you mentioned it I couldn’t stop staring at your nose