How covert narcissists become narcissists
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- Опубліковано 4 жов 2024
- Covert narcissists lie starting in childhood #narcissism #narcissist #narcissistic
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Dam sick bastards is what they are, run from those monsters.🏃🏃♂🏃♀
The narcissist lies even when they're given every opportunity to tell the truth. They lie through* their teeth when you are literally on your knees begging for the truth, all ready to forgive them no matter how big the lie is.
They're just evil.
Either that or they point-blank refuse to tell the truth because it would put them in a bad light. The narcissist only cares for themselves, they have ZERO concern for you, your feelings or your pain. This realization is eye-opening and can help the victim to move-on and go no-contact with the narcissist.
These creeps are too dumb to realize it. And are too shallow to admit it
Don’t know how you make so much content and you are so correct in what you say!.
You are a gem Danielle!
They are narcissistically abusing me
90% are born from childhood trauma.
i want to go into neuropsych and find out why some of us become empaths and others become predators
I till don't feel bad for them at all.
@@Khaegch-favh they choose to be the way they are. 0 sympathy.
They're no longer a frightened kid. They are an adult now. There is a difference between having to lie as a child and lying to impress or hurt people as an adult narcissist. Although I get how it would have started.
There is a saying in my neck of the woods - A liar is a thief and a thief is a liar.
you are 100% correct. its a choice as a adult, not a survival tactic. liar n thief go hand in hand for sure.
i call them wastes of perfectly good human beings, by choice.
*_Those "Not All the Time's" are the classic born and bred Co-Pilots for the Hobgoblin B-17 Flying Fortress. Complete with Chief Enablers as Bombardier and Navigator and the Flying Monkeys at the Gun Turrets. At 1 time in history, Covert Narcissists were everywhere and were allocated and appointed as Enablers who wouldn't divorce the Overt Narcissists for any reason ever. But those days are long gone now. Chief Enablers are rare and getting harder and harder to find. The Hobgoblin Draft Board has requested strictly only Lone Wolf Fighter Pilot Type Narcissists in abundance that's why the divorce rate has skyrocketed._*
I recently commented on Elizabeth's Shaw's UA-cam channel a similar statement.
But you Danielle are the expert, thank you.
Thank you for the analysis, and you are pretty! God Bless you Danielle
Thank you for your brilliant explanation. It says it all.
Nasty ex father in law caused most of the problem. His weak Mom facilitated it. Took me years to figure this mess out.
Exact Same Thing With My Husband’s Father, Too!! 😦😦😦😦😦😢😢😢😢😢🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️💔💔💔💔💔 I Have Been With My Husband For 11 Years, And One Toddler Later, And I Am Just Barely Figuring This Out At 41 Years Old With!! 😦😦😦😦😦😢😢😢😢😢🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️💔💔💔💔💔 Narcissists Really Love To Make People’s Lives A Living Hell!! 😦😦😦😦😦😢😢😢😢😢🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️💔💔💔💔💔 Narcissists Really Love To Make People’s Lives A Living Hell!! 😦😦😦😦😦😢😢😢😢😢🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️💔💔💔💔💔 - Natasha
yep
You seriously post videos of what exactly I'm going through. 🤔 like I was thinking about this with my narc
These creeps got us in this mess
I love the disclaimer in the beginning. I deal with this a lot in my mind. I married my covert narcissist 40 years ago, and at the age of 19 I had no idea that there was even a thing of narcissism. I had no idea how bad it was. Now I’m stuck with a vow of staying with someone in sickness and in health. I’m misled by all the years that we had together and believing that I need to stick with the vow through thick and thin. I had no idea until the monster came out in these latter years and showed me all the evil they have laid on me over our time. How far does a vow go? I will find out.
Leave. I took a vow, too, but he was so abusive I felt like ending it all. I had to get out. I'm not Christian anymore, but I believe somewhere in the bible, it says you don't need to stay if you're not being treated with respect. He's not fulfilling his vow, so the contract is already broken? Hope you're ok
@@worldpilgrim4638 yes, I’m great now, thanks for your hope. I also was brought to a point that I wanted dearly for it all to go away while being tortured in isolation during Covid lockdown. That brought me to realization that something was seriously wrong & I enquired about the types of attacks I had endured over the many years. Everything finally added up & what a relief to be told it wasn’t our faults.😮💨 It never was. My narcissist was diagnosed 10 years prior but I didn’t understand the extent of it (still under the spell). Now I feel as if nothing can hurt me in this life. I have learned so much & haven’t uttered a word to them in over 2 months. They are trapped, they can do no harm. Anything they do will only convict them. Knowledge has allowed me to see their motives & I won’t play. I’m thankful that you also have resolved your issue. Fair well.
They lied to you. You don't have to stay with a liar!
💯💯💯Thanks Danielle…
Sometimes we cannot go no contact or gray rock (we have to work with them). Can you address how to work with narcissists in future videos?
The thing is. I've met plenty of people who didn't come from great backgrounds. But they still went on to carve a life and would behave in a fairly balanced way.
All religious teachings talk about Good and Evil.
Do you live in Florida? Love the scenery. The Palm Trees look nice there.
It's all bs