dodie - Hate Myself (Official Lyric Video)
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- Опубліковано 6 тра 2021
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Directed by
Jack Howard www.jackhoward.net
Produced by
Sophie Newton / sophiejnewt
Jack Howard
Director of Photography
Ciaran O’Brien / ciaranobriendop
Edited by
Jack Howard
Colour Grade
Ciaran O’Brien
Captions
Elliot Gough / elliotgough
Could it be different?
did I ruin the day?
oh, do you look angry?
oh, what did I say?
Filling in the gaps
build a problem that
neither of us need
something wrong with me.
I’m getting desperate
losing my mind
how do we get here
every time?
One will fold their arms
one will do the dance
really is no need
something wrong with me.
No, I don’t think I can help it
Oh so illogical, I’m not magical - I can’t read your mind!
but how can you not hear the whole conversation I have sitting still with a brain on fire?!
I know; it’s a me thing
eyes closed, isn’t helping
when you go quiet, I hate myself.
when you go quiet, I hate myself.
look at you sideways
playing a game
what if I laugh now?
I think I'm insane.
Filling in the gaps
build a problem that
neither of us need
something wrong with me.
Pushing a boundary
something to prove
strong expectation;
you already lose
oh, one will fold their arms
one will do the dance
really is no need
something wrong with me.
No, I don’t think I can help it
Oh so illogical, I’m not magical I can’t read your mind!
but how can you not hear the whole conversation I have sitting still with a brain on fire?!
I know; it’s a me thing
eyes closed, isn’t helping
when you go quiet, I hate myself.
when you go quiet, I hate myself.
Give me a mystery
maybe they'll bloom for me
it’s always the quiet ones
…oh something here must be done
I'm open and ready here
I don’t think they get me, dear
I'm only proving how
I'm only worth losing now
Give me a mystery
maybe they'll bloom for me
it’s always the quiet ones
something here must be done
I'm open and ready here
I don’t think they get me, dear
I don’t think they get me, dear
(No I don't think I can help it)
(When you go quiet I hate myself)
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she got to do the 'driving in a car and watching out of the window while pretending to be in a music video' while ACTUALLY BEING IN ONE
This comment 😂
Oh wow yes!! The dream:,D
THATS EXACTLY WHAT I WAS THINKING
that’s what i was thinking!! i was like ah the dream
She humble
Don't think I've ever been more happy for someone spreading out in the back of a car!! xxxx
Hahahah thank u Louise luv u
Xxxx
Xxxx
Xxxx on
SHE BASICALLY DID A VISUAL ALBUM IN A CAR AHHHHH
yes!!!
All Directed by Jack Howard, He did a wonderful job matching the videos to dodie's beautiful music! 🎶✨🎵🌟✨💖
IKR HUHU 😭💖
Class
i bet this comment is why they made it into one
That feeling when you accidentally pull someone’s arm off so you decide to throw them out of the car. Problem solved!
problem: unbuilt
@@ellispipermusic i love this comment so so much
Yeah happens all the time
Dodie got her money's worth out of driving around in the car and I love that for her.
I don't know if it's the "filling in the gaps, build a problem that neither of us needs, something wrong with me"
or the "oh so illogical, I'm not magical, I can't read your mind. But how can you not hear the whole conversation I have sitting still with a brain on fire"
or the "when you go quiet, I hate myself"
but somehow she managed to put into words the EXACT inner workings of an overthinker in a relationship
AND IM HERE FOR THE ATTACC
This feels like an abusive relationship I was in. Any little thing would become a big issue, I felt that I was always being scolded for something that I couldn't figure out. It lead me to feel like there was just something inherently wrong with me. They'd berate me and then go silent and I was left alone with my self blame.
Felt this. Are you away from them now? Cause I assure you, you deserve better than that in your life
Girl, same. I hope you're in a better place now.
This comment is what I was looking for, so glad someone else related in this way, I hope you’re out now 💕
I’m at the throwing out the mannequin part of my breakup right now can’t fucking wait to reach the last part when she’s smiling
Go you!!!
I'm at the verge of pulling an arm off, and it's not really a break-up because I'm not official with this guy, just getting real sick of mixed signals 😂
@@flameprincess7313 I honestly relate with this so much. It's so tough to rip off the arm, and I just sort of did it too. I too just stopped trying so hard for this girl that I'm unofficial with. We deserve better, but it still hurts to do so. One day, we'll be like dodie grinning in the back seat. But for now I'm still torn.... :')
I love that
Love the acting!
Also:
2:56 "Goodbye Daniel!"
2:59 "and your little arm, too"
Not a reference I expected to see here lol
she's living all of our dreams: look out the window in the car while in a music video
Legit
Slight Human music video vibes with dodie trying to get a guy she built/mannequin to fall in love with her 😂
I love how happy she is after literally throwing someone out of a moving car. I'm so here for it
this lyric video specifically feels like the biggest power move it's so silly but also have a pretty deep meaning this WHOLE ALBUM FEELS LIKE A MUSICAL AAAAAAAHHHA
This is the most authentic possible illustration of how it feels to lose a toxic partner.
As Meg says in Hercules "No man (or woman) is worth the aggravation"
Are you sure?
As catchy as ever, with lyrics that speak directly to my anxiety riddled brain.
The mannequin, for me, is the feel of talking to someone and just not all understanding what’s happening and maybe even getting frustrated because you feel like their not at all understanding or seeing you
the manequin gets to sit in a car with dodie and can't even at least smile? wow 🙄
It would be really scary if it smiles
this is complete art. i need the bloopers though !! skdkskjksdljskl
even ur lyric videos have to add so many layers of meaning huh dodes
This is so scarily relatable in a way I can't explain
Imagine driving down the road just to see Dodie fling the top of a mannequin out of her car and drive away lmao.
this is LITERALLY magnificent, what did we do to deserve a little series of lyric videos that are basically music videos in themselves ugh im so happy
I think I've anxiety (not been professionally diagnosed) and I relate to this song so freaking much. The line "When you go quiet, I hate myself" is so so simple and yet so fucking effective cause omg SAMEE 😭❤️❤️
This is exactly how it feels like when you offended someone and you don't even know the reason. They sit there doing nothing, saying nothing. Making you want to hate yourself.
god i can’t WAIT to hear this one live and jump around with everyone and scream the words, it’s gonna be so fun
the pained acceptance on her face in the first verse but also looking like if she goes a liiittle bit further she might cry,, WAHH THE ACTING TALENT
edit: omfg the smile when she leans into the now-empty space where the mannequin was, iCONIC
Why did I started sobbing when she spread out in the seat. This is too real
I love how all the music videos are in the car lul
the one dislike is the mannequin
How rude of it xd
there are eight mannequins now, not the vibe
As someone with intense rejection sensitive dysphoria, when someone does go quiet I do hate myself
OH GOSH I JUST REALIZED THE "HUMAN" CONNECTION! 😮 congrats dodie and jack and hazel and everybody involved in the making of these videos! this is a masterpiece!
This is basically an anxious/avoidant relationship. Yup i get it.
this song hits for me, I got ghosted by a guy I’ve been speaking to for 8 months and I still can’t seem to let him go or think of all the things I must of done or said wrong
Same girl! Just forget about him…you will be able to move on, I promise!
it´s so maddening to be ghosted... when you cant get an explanation and a satisfying ending. i feel like its one of the most difficult feelings to endure
I can imagine someone going for a walk and seeing the pieces of a manequin on the floor and go "it's dodie again isn't it?"
Never thought Id find a new favorite artist in a Bo Burnham comment section. Lovely music.
Omg dodie the actress these are AMAZING
Dodie spoiled us with these... they're beautiful
I love coming back to this and remembering how awful it is to be in a toxic relationship with no communication! So thankful I've moved on from that stage of my life.
Dodie's face is so amazingly expressive.
I love all the homages to dodie’s old songs and videos, the manikin her reminds me of the human music video, etc.
this song is every social interaction ever
YO THAT TWIST IN THE END IM LIVING FOR IT
This level of cuteness really makes me mad at the person who makes her hate herself.
I don't think I've ever heard a song that properly explains this kind of dynamic in a relationship and it's so painfully uplifting, I couldn't be more grateful that this exists now.
I definitely didn't think the lyric was "I know, it's amazing" instead of "I know, it's a me thing"... defo not...
Sameee
I thought it was “I know, it’s so easy” lol
I thought it was "I know it isn't easy" 😭😅
i thought it was "I know, it's so easy" lol
I thought it was “it’s uneasing”, cause i thought it fitted the song hahaha
I LOVE THESE SO MUCH
Awww dodie's smile after throwing out the mannequin is precious skdhskdhdk
i never knew you could use a car in so many ways to create beautiful music videos
filming these from the back of the car is SUCH a clever concept I love it
no im losing my mind thanks dodie x
The moment she puts her head on the lifeless mannequin's shoulder hit me like a ton of bricks. What powerful imagery.
This song describes such a specific emotion and yet it’s so incredibly understandable and relatable.
I literally feel like I’ve been waiting for this song to describe this emotion my entire life!
"But how can you not hear the whole conversation I have sitting still with a brain on fire" just hits home sooo much and it makes so much more sense now that I'm figuring out I probably have ADHD. Like that's literally what it feels like when there's an unexpected silence in a conversation.
I LAUGHED SO HARD I LOVE THIS
the mannequin is so inspired because like. it doesn't matter what someone says or does, if you're going to overthink something and create a whole problem in your head, you're gonna do it, regardless of reality. i do this all the time, haha, the person in the other seat just looks different time to time. i imagine they're mad at me, and it becomes true in my head, and then i get upset with them for no reason and throw the whole person out LOL
I relate to this so bad as someone who’s a horrible self critic and gets anxious people pleasing behaviors when people get mad at me or expect something of me without telling me. Just expecting me to cater or know what they need when they don’t communicate their needs. It feeds the cycle of self hatred and anxiety when you feel like a failure or that you should be some super human that never makes anyone mad ever. And when you’re Internally so afraid you hurt someone, bc you perceive them as being angry after sensing something is off but you can’t tell if it’s all in your head or not. The social anxiety and walking on eggshells gets so exhausting. Sometimes getting out of that place and realizing you’re only human is so freeing.
It's funny cause Dodie lyrics always blend into each other to me that I don't even know what's going on but I get all the feels and totally get it
So expressive. Captivating. Evocative. Especially the "talking" part and the part without the dummy. Love it.
She’s so creative 🤍
I love all of Dodie's expressions in this one!
Love how she's smiling and driving along at the end, like she's moving towards something better 😊 one of the best songs on the album!
The visual metaphor in this one-- I can't !!
THIS ONE. THIS CERTAINTY IN DODIE. YES.
I just wanna say... her hair is beautiful...
whenever I listen to this song, I don't think of this being about a lover. I just imagine dodie's character sitting at a dinner table with her parents and this song being about her relationship with them. especially the "when you go quiet, I hate myself" and "neither of us needs something wrong with me" and "strong expectation, already lose".
The acting is amazing, I could feel it when she kisses the mannequins cheek and turns back with the frustrated and sad face because it's not responding
Her voice is so calming, and the album is filled with straight bops! This one has to be one of my favorites ngl
dodie really went THROW THE WHOLE MAN OUT!!
what a treat
ALL OF THESE ARE SO GOOD ITS SO UNREAL...charming and funny and heartwrenching AH
dodie: put me in a car
jack: y e s
one of the best random songs i have come across in awhile.
this is so good WHAT
congrats dodie and jack
Two lyric videos in one day and an album release dodie ur spoiling us❤
i have chills
I giggled at her grin there at the end.
Your so wonderful, your so magical, you can read my mind!? Don't go quiet. I'll hate myself. Beautiful album dodie. Mad props and congrats you radiant human you. Thanks again for sharing 💕
this song always HITS.... all those relationships (and friendships ) that made me feel like perhaps i'd have more luck talking to a mannequin
This collection is like a lovely but intensely thought provoking road trip
Bought your album and loved it from start to finish! You're amazing!
3:04 that mood change was great!
Can we talk about Dodie's acting skills?! Love the visual concept here. Really adds to the lyrics.
this video spoke to me so deeply
I feel like this applies to so many different situations for introverts it’s magnificent
Thank you for writing the music that makes me feel less alone with my "constantly-on-fire-brain"
Imagine just chilling and then seeing dodie interacting with a mannequin in her car
and then being like
ugh.... she’s at it again 🙄
🤣 THIS WAS BY FAR MY FAVORITE MUSIC VIDEO!!
I love her smile.
This is awesome, didn't realize this the first time.
love this one’s message
oh my gosh dodie's acting is incredible.
Queen ♥️
And this one's just a BOP
the vibe of the music video is kinda similar to Human and im here for it
i love how both this lyric video and the normal music video gives the same idea but uses different metaphors like dodie is smart with her music videos.
This song hits me hard i cry so much and the ending to the video was amazing thank you hun
Damn this song and mv almost made me cry I love it so much
Such a talent!!! 🔥🔥🔥 This is such a wonderful and powerful video. A++++
The pan over to the mannequin had me cracking up
:)
its not right how much i can relate to every word of this song just WOW
I have never related to a song more in my life wow