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00:49 1. You worry about everything 01:15 2. You hold on grudges 01:45 3. You compare yourself with others 02:19 4. You have forgotten to be grateful 02:53 5. You have a pessimistic way of thinking 03:22 6. You are surrounded by negative people 03:53 7. You have given up control in your life 04:23 8. You gravitate to people who are bad for you and my 9. You just don't try to be happy because you don't believe you can. Well, you can!
Pajamas Same here. I think of how people think of me every night. And then by the time I wake up, I felt that it wasn’t too bad and the person probably forgot about it.
Personally I feel like I'll never be able to be truly happy, I'm quite pessimistic, reserved, lonely and on top of that, I have severe social anxiety. The only thing I feel like I can achieve at this point is learning to be grateful, grateful for the few people who love me and care for me.
Annelore, partly true. Understand or try to, the random luck, that most people experience. It is normal to feel sad if bad things happen to you. So, the small things and an element of chance or luck, will maybe happen. 🍀
hey, i’m a girl who’s going into high school soon. but i’m going to be alone and unhappy. i’ll be surrounded by strangers and the people i do know i’ve fallen out of touch with because we don’t click as much anymore. every year gets worse for me. i actually didn’t want to go to this high school. i applied for this fine arts school in their arts and creative writing programs and felt confident i would get in because everyone told me my art was this school level. it wasn’t. i got on the waiting list. but my best friend, who only applied to come with me, was accepted into the writing program. and now she’s going. and i know i should be proud of her but i want to scream at her for stealing my dream, what i’ve worked so hard for. i wanted to do it for myself, for the people who said i should go to this school, and for my parents to finally be proud of someone like me. but i couldn’t. i can’t. i just want to quit. i just want something that isn’t “it gets better” or “you’ll find new friends”.
Why decide in advance that you'll be unhappy and alone? I loved high school and started not knowing many people there but there were so many opportunities to meet new people and make new friends. There were also a billion ways to get involved in clubs, sports, theater, etc. Great ways to get involved and get to know people and maybe get to know yourself better too. ☺️
Hey,I too feel depressed because of the decisions I made in the past and of the reason when my mother died six years ago when I was only 9 years old.I can forget about my wrong decisions but the dead of my mother still making me unhappy over time. I'd just have to say that we should try one more time in our lives because we have only one.My mother's dream is to make me a good engineer,I wish if she could watch over me but I know it can't be possible.I still miss her.😭😭
I can relate to u , I know the situation u r in coz i was going through the same thing , it hurts like hell when ur dreams are shattered but it hurts more when u see someone else get something u always wanted . I won't tell u that it would get better but trust me everything happens for a reason and perhaps something even better than this is waiting for you and remember darkness of night precedes the morning light and this too shall pass. The experience that u have gained through this is going to make u stronger , so keep going on to become a stronger and better version of urself coz it is on you to decide whether u want to control ur situation or let the situation control you.
8 reasons why you may be unhappy- 1. You worry about everything. 2. You hold on to your grudges. 3. You compare yourself to others. 4. You've forgotten how to be grateful. 5. You have a pessimist way of thinking. 6. You're surrounded by negative people. 7. You've given up your control of life. 8. You gravitate towards people who are bad for you. I recommend watching for more.
@@magentaMegi I agree, from what ive been seeing with other commenters too, these videos are starting to make me feel worse about myself. Its like listening to that type of person that always has to point out flaws in someone else. Perhaps adding ways to fix these issues would make them more useful.
I always feel unhappy, but I just keep telling myself: "Stop being a fake sad kid you're embarrassing yourself" "There are people experiencing worse things than you" "Why are you like this? You are not suicidal, you're just loosing interest in life"
Same😞i think ..we are doubtful to evrything confused to everything ....we debate inside from both the sides and when it comes to conclusion it is nothing...
I was literally crying five seconds ago because I rewatched the ending of steven universe future, and school is hard and I'm scared because it turns out I went on a trip with a friend of mine and now her dad has covid. I could've been exposed! It wasn't even that long ago, like, maybe less than two weeks! I haven't felt a tiny bit sick, but I'm scared of being a carrier. I don't have a fever or anything. It just doesn't help that I didn't know her dad was sick until I went to school today! Who knows, if I'm a carrier, I could've exposed my friends!
I struggle with anxiety, I stay up late overthinking. No one ever understands. They say “I understand” but they don’t! I feel alone... all my happiness is my dog, he’s my best friend, he fills my heart. I can’t imagine not having him. I lost a big part of my life. I’m alone.. I have my family, they understand but they don’t.
You are not alone!! Sometimes people just can't understand what you're going through, but it doesn't mean they don't care. But know that there are lots of people struggling - look for some support groups with people who get what you're dealing with!
1- you worry about everything 2- you hold onto grudges 3- you compare yourself to others 4- youve forgotten how to be grateful 5- you and a pessimistic way of thinking 6- you’re surrounded by negative people 7- youve given up control of your life 8- you gravitate to people who are bad for you
i have this one friend and she is extremely negative. the most negative person i have met, actually. i try to comfort her but she wont listen unless its her crush. her talking about negative things is kind of making me negative as well. im too scared of letting her go though. she’s my only friend and we’re really close. she just wont listen when i try to help her out. she makes fun of other girls for no reason and i think its just wrong but when i tell her to stop, she says that im attacking her. i’ve gained tons of insecurities because of her but its just hard to let go
You actually should be kinda grateful, in our country, school isn't close AT ALL, which means while you guys are taking online classes we actually have to walk to school and have a shit tons of homework
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Sometimes im unhappy about myself, being stubborn around peeps,not in a mood, and lack of confidence to socialize with my family. I dont know why... is it cause its hard to forget? Cuz of this vid i understand why
1. You worry about everything. 2. You hold on to grudges. 3. You always compare yourself with others. 4. You forget to be grateful. 5. You have a pessimistic way of thinking. 6. You are surrounded by negative people. 7. You give up control on Life. 8. You gravitate towards people bad for you. All of these is what I have experienced. I must say that I am working on these aspects one by one and the way I think has changed a lot since a year. Stay blessed everyone.
No one can know me better then this channel..🙃 Yes I'm always unhappy cuz I don't have anything that would make me happy...🙂 Every night I feel like the next day is mountain heavy....🙂
I’m always unhappy around others. I always change my behaviour because I lack confidence and feel like I’m just annoying them :/ Does anyone have tips for my problem?
I guess you could start by looking at your good things and strengths, so you get to know you are worthy and you are not the annoying person you may think you are. Even carrying the possibility for that to be real means that you know you are better than you think. Go treasure hunting with that, it'll help you improve your self confidence.
They read my mind.........again I mean I have a passion for when I’m older and it’s to make games but I’m low key kinda depressed so idk if I’ll ever accomplish that😭 Edit- playing horror games makes me happy and playing with my dolls but only temporarily
That makes sense. I want to go to college for psychology, but I'm worried about my grades even though I get great grades. I also want to be a singer, but I'm having so much trouble getting ideas to stay. I can think of them but I can't remember them. I also have some trouble with low motivation because I'm always tired no matter how much sleep I get.
“You may be accepting the love you think you deserve, but the truth is, you deserve much better” this is a great quote, people usually stay in toxic relationships/friendships because they think thats what they deserve, but they deserve a better lifestyle and people surrounding them.
1. You worry about everything. 2. You hold on your grudges. 3. You compare yourself to others. 4. You've forgotton how to feel grateful 5. You have a passimistic way of thinking. 6. You're surrounded by negative people. 7. You've given up control of your life. 8. You gravitate to people who're bad for you.
Yes, but depression is more clinical.. as in you can't really control it. In this case, you can learn the things that are making you unhappy and change those things. Whether that be an unhealthy environment or habit that you have. What do you think?
I'm not always unhappy; I'd even say I'm not unhappy most of the time. But I often slip into bouts of existential angst, self-loathing and an inability to let go and forgive myself. I've been through depression before, and depressive tendencies never entirely vanish. I honestly don't know if there's something wrong with me, or if I'm only as mixed-up as anyone else. Am I doing the right thing for myself and the world around me? There are so many messages out there saying this, that, the other, that it often feels like you're damned if you do, damned if you don't! It can all just be too much sometimes...
In my case? It’s sleeping alone, knowing I don’t have that special someone, suffering in silence, can’t get over my terrible childhood, thoughts of betrayal (or worse), the list goes on.
I just want to tell you something psych2go, before i had my first real girlfriend (still together) i watched all of your videos religiously. Ever since I've been with her I've looked at your videos as a way to see how much I've grown. I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart and keep doing what you're doing :)
Wow, I thought I'd relate to most of these and I barely even relate to the grudges one because the longest I keep a grudge usually is around a day in a half, and that's rare on its own but I am extremely forgiving, at least the way I see it. I also relate to the worrying about everything, except not entirely. I worry about the people I care about, and because of this worry, lots of the time I put them before myself because I want them to be happy, but sometimes I forget about my own happiness.
You guys helped me a lot from get over from my initial depression......I'm living a very happy life now I learned self love is how much important and neccessary in your life.....🙏🙏🙏thank you so much once again hope you guys live long 🙏🙏🙏
@:Anonymous : wow you said it right. Thank you. I have moments like this. I wonder how could it be possible? To get tired of living and existing and depressed for years but also scared to die.. sometimes? Isn't it if i'm tired i shouldn't be scared? But yeah sometimes i'm scared sometimes i'm not especially when you feel you'd burst you don't care if you die.
I Feel Like I Can Relate Too Much... Sometimes I Feel Like "If I Can't Be Happy, What's The Purpose Of Living..? Maybe If I'm Dead.. I'll Be Finally Happy...?" But The Thoughts Of "I Have So Much I Wanna Do In This ONE Life God Has Given Me.." And "I Promised To Never Leave My Bestfriends Behind.." Holds Me Back From Killing Myself, It Makes Me Scared..
just took an assessment test for my mental health today and the results were not that good😔 and this video came in the perfect timing💗 ur videos give me so much comfort and made me further understand how important mental health is especially growing up in a place where mental health isn’t commonly talked about (unfortunately) and I can’t thank u enough for that🥰❤️
I always love watching your videos. They always help me understand something's that im going through. And I'm glad you guys take the time to share knowledge with people around the world who need it. Thank you and keep up the good work :3
notes for myself: 1.) yes i do. i overthink way too much about what people think about me. it’s so tiring. 2.) occasionally. but not really. i try not to, and i’ve learned to leave and let go. 3.) i constantly compare myself to others lmao. it’s a problem. i know i shouldn’t constantly worry about that cuz i’m amazing as i am. 4.) i actually count my blessings a lot, but i do agree that i often forget about the little things. 5.) oh i am soooo pessimistic. crazy. i wish i could stop. 6.) i have amazing friends imo, and they’re always there for me. 7.) nah. i just blame myself. i know i have problems and need to fix them, even if it’s so difficult to. 8.) honestly, sometimes i want to be around toxic people to feel... worth it for once. because i only feel worthy to toxic people. and that i deserve that. wild.
Thank you for this. To think that last week I was in a bright mood and focused but now I feel so lethargic because my hard work was not valued and appreciated as much as I thought it would be. I need to be more grateful for what I have and what I can do - not what I don’t have and cannot do yet.
My problem is that, I can't forget people of what they have done to me. Like, in elementary, some boys would bully me a lot. And it just seems like I can't forgive them, and I blame them for me being unhappy.
Lately I'm working hard on learning to think and feel positively of myself and others. Even though I'm just at the start of that journey, I can already tell it has a *huge* impact on my happiness.
There’s also this weird thing that happens sometimes when someone’s elevated themselves, they gravitate towards people on the same wavelength. It’s almost like finding and moving on to partners who build each other up
1. you worry about everything 2. you hold on to grudges 3. you compare yourself to others 4. you've forgotten how to be grateful 5. you have a pessimistic way of thinking 6. you're surrounded by negative people 7. you've given up control of your life 8. you gravitate to people who are bad for you
I have the no.1 problem, I don't wanna worry but I become worried about everything most of the time. But now I'm trying to be careless about what people think about me and trying to get better.Also, I had no.2 problem but I think I'm now becoming calm slowly. No.3 problem I have but now even if I compare with others,I don't insult for my difference. No. 6 problem is still I have but it's getting less. 😊 But al'hamdulillah, I am surrounded with positive people. No. 8 didn't match with me. So I'm getting better because I've got my best friends. I had a bit negativity in the past but now I'm growing up with positivity.😍 I hear positive songs like 'try everything' and 'battle scars',these really helps.I try to pray 5 times a day and I trust in Allah. Really friends,my brothers and sisters,don't lose hope. Your confidence and belief can make you a good person.What makes you calm? Who are you really? What do you want in life? How your friends are? Are they good for you or bad? Are they causing harm to you or you feel calm when you stay with them? Think about these,please don't think about what people think about you. This is toxic and it bothers so much. Think that you are you,never expect that everyone will love you. Sorry for my long comment I'm a talktive person.😛 Another good thing you can do is please watch Psych2go videos it really helps you to know more about you. 😍 I'm giving you all a huge hug and lots of love.
8 years I lived between toxic people always telling me I'm weird and crazy. I feel like only mom loves me anymore. I got used to doing everything my friends ask me to do and then I don't expect the same. It's better than loosing everyone. I stayed in quarantine for almost 6 months now and I really miss school. It's not a heaven, but there are worse things than that.
well, at the start of this year i have gone downhill. depressing feelings and social anxiety. quarantine has been ruining my family's relationship. i have almost no *real* friends and i am just there, not significant. life is horrible
This is doesn't happen to me often but sometimes it does because memories my family make I never care about and I get mad at myself for not taking it seriously or caring at all I'm trying to control it which is helping but that doesn't stop my family from making good,sad or and memories and the thing is that my mom will make me sit down with my family if I start to act up which just makes me even more angry and stressed out. And sometimes I think about what would happen if something very bad would happen in my family and the I realised that I think very bad about them like saying "I wish I never was in a family, I wish I could live alone forever.." I'm trying to control it myself since no one wants to help me and my mom won't believe me and even tho I trust my dad he would say I'm too "young" to know about that.little do they know I know everything wether good or bad I know. I have gotten over it but still come back sometimes but I have to control it my self cause who else is gonna do it.know one. Just me...
Praise God for life today! Hallelujah Amen 🙏 ❤ To God be the Glory! Be happy...you are living! Let go and let God! People don't create your siuations you 💯 do. We all have to make better choices for our lives by trusting God for his will for our life! Hallelujah Amen 🙏 ❤
I am so sad about the world now...I feel the world is full of prejudice and hatred even if you do nothing. People always only want to believe what they want to believe and tend to ignore the truth. Even though it happens, at least respect others but many still cannot even respect. I am so easily affected by others’ words. Yeah I should learn to be grateful...how can I make my heart more stronger... Edit：your voice is very healing, thank you for sharing.
Another reason for unhappiness: lack of bodily care. It definitely falls under subset of other things listed here, ex. giving up control over your life, but when you focus entirely on the body, there are some relatively straightforward fixes. Examples: I need to get into meditation, yesterday I had my first successful session and it really kept up my mood after a workout. And sleep! If you watched this video past 10 pm, you are like me: struggling to put devices away before bed. It's tough to accept but many studies are saying you may need to turn off screens as early as 9 pm, which is a CRAZY idea to my Gen Z just-out-of-high school self. Anyways, this was a great list Psych2Go, I will comment on your videos more often since I just realized, my friends aren't picking up on my depressed mood even though I'm trying to "subtly make it obvious." And this is probably because the education system never taught them mental health stuff, so the next best alternative is platforms like UA-cam. I feel like depression rates would drop way down if people (particularly in my country, the U.S) were properly educated at a younger age. Instead, the high school attitude was "You can anonymously recommend someone for counseling if you feel they are struggling." But somehow they don't realize that in high school, even if it is anonymous, there is still a sensation of guilt and fear in submitting such a request, since if you are wrong about your friend's depressed state, you could get them in unnecessary complications, and it would be your fault. And the perceived chance of you accurately identifying their mood is really low, since there is no formal education on what a depressed person acts like, looks like, talks like. Sorry for rant but tldr I want people to see this awesome, professional, and life changing channel.
this video made me think how I suck because of the people around me, unfortunately I can’t do anything to keep them away or avoid them because they are my parents. they make me feel bad about myself, throwing my defects in my face and saying that I'm a disappointment, I'm tired of this routine, but there's nothing I can do, all this makes me lose hope and motivation, if i were who i really am, show them who i am, i wouldnt receive any support ya know ,, my dad already said he wont accept me if I were such a thing and it made me sick and hopeless for the future.
I just feel like too sad when I see Ppl r having things sooo easily ..which I wanted the most and I am the one is working hard... I also want peace.. I want happiness.. I want rest...I deserve to be happy... ... But all I get is just hard work,no enjoyment, no one even thinking abt me.... ..... It just tears me in pieces ...... 😔😔😔😔😔 .... I just hope that ... This too shall pass... .. I shall prevail
Me: "skinny" Other kids and adults : haha gain weight skeleton My teacher: I'm going to forcefeed you vending machine snacks, chicken arms (bullying isn't fun. I gained 20 pounds in months because everybody made fun of my weight, so I'd make myself eat until I got sick eat more, and I started stress eating and getting all of my energy from eating. Then there was my stupid teacher casually telling me she was going to FORCE FEED me all the snacks in the vending machine because I have bony arms. Fun times.)
Hello,if you somehow read this Miss.Narrator your voice made me comfortable. I know I am unhappy and depressed but you make me happy ,never have a chance to see you. I believe that you can heal me from all the miseries in my life. Love dose it better than any medicines.
Optimists are happier. Pessimists are usually right. -Martin Seligman Ph.D. Whenever I get optimistic, life always - without fail - kicks me in the balls. Optimism just leads to depression.
When I first started to watching your videos am like you know everything is ok and fine . Now you helped me to find out what's the problem . Thanks for helping.
I am unhappy, but I do feel grateful for what I have... I feel frustrated, like I know I can do more but *no-one* will give me a chance! I have given up my control of my life for that reason. I don’t have any friends & lack confidence, which maybe causes me to make a bad impression. I don’t hold grudges, life is too short for that.
1, 3 (compare myself to bestie), 4 (it’s hard to be thankful when my parents yell at your sister, get fast food more times then cooking, and just don’t pay attention), 6, 7 (due to me having heavy dependency) And an extra one if not having the will to do anything..life right now is a cycle of sadness, dependence, and possible depression
I used to be less pessimistic but that was before I started constantly failing at everything. I don’t know how to get better so I just bring myself down to avoid being more hurt by failure
I struggle with overcoming my negative thinking, because it has gotten so normal for me, that I don't really realize it. And when I do, I can sometimes switch it up to thinking positively, but just after a few seconds I gravitate back to my negative-thinking-loops, again without realizing.
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I'm not always unhappy, I'm always sad with for no reason, because I have no reason to be sad but I'm haha it's weird. I think I'm getting depressed because I've been in the house so long without any freedom.
How do I stop worrying though? That's my main problem, worrying to much and self doubt. Though I try to keep an optimistic attitude and push those thoughts away they always come back.
Thank you so much for posting this video its been a very long time since ive been always so unhappy, almost everyday, i just felt like my life is just an endless loop, i always wanted something to accomplish everyday because if i cant i wont feel fulfilled, and i always spent so much time helping lots of people, but never helped myself, i do feel happiness, but just a few times, especially when i try to distract myself with entertainment, but when i stop that i go back to being sad and overthinking again, so i try tp forget my problems by doing tasks which doesnt even help as well, right now im trying ti fix my mental health.
…1… You worry about everything. I have no worries on the things I can control as I have applied myself and am healthy, wealthy, and a wise azz. +++ …2… You hold on to grudges. Old grudges are put away like old paperwork. I don’t review them over and over, but they are accessible. The problem is that new grudges occur whenever I see someone proudly displaying the prejudice of heightism. +++ …3… You compare yourself to others. It is not I that compares myself to anyone. It is those that say a man is not a man if he is not “this” tall. They are the ones doing the comparison. +++ …4… You’ve forgotten how to be grateful. I have never forgotten how to be grateful. However, In a world that promotes the idea that a short man is unworthy there are constant reminders that something that was “given” to you, you cannot remove. Tell me how I need to be “grateful”. +++ …5… You have a pessimistic way of thinking. I am always optimistic that the world will stop the prejudice. What I see is a lot of people virtue signaling about “black lives matter”, while short men are mocked. I am never pessimistic when it comes to things I have control over, or where I have an even chance like everyone else. Then, my efforts will make the difference. +++ …6… You’re surrounded by negative people. Well, practically anyone that needs to use debunked excuses like, “its natural instinct”, or, “I don’t want to tower over someone else (even though they are shorter to begin with) are very negative people… well are we all not constantly surrounded by them? +++ …7… You’ve given up control of your life. I control what I can control. People who are a problem, I have either endured (hey, you can’t leave an abusive home when you’re a kid ------ at least not in my time), or ejected from my life. +++ …8… You gravitate to people who are bad for you. Well, it seems that most women have some form of “height” prejudice. I gravitate towards women when it comes to romance. Should I just become a monk? No. The world needs to change. If people can jump on board with BLM, they can fight heightism too. Otherwise the world, in general is NOT worthy. +++
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Psych2go can you please make a video about the technology around us?
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I have never been this early
It’s like I always get these notifications at the best of times/when I need it the most😭
I know right
same
So glad to hear! Hopefully, this video can help you in some way.
Same
Right ?
00:49 1. You worry about everything
01:15 2. You hold on grudges
01:45 3. You compare yourself with others
02:19 4. You have forgotten to be grateful
02:53 5. You have a pessimistic way of thinking
03:22 6. You are surrounded by negative people
03:53 7. You have given up control in your life
04:23 8. You gravitate to people who are bad for you
and my 9. You just don't try to be happy because you don't believe you can.
Well, you can!
Thanks for putting this together Ken! Does anyone else have any others to add?
10. I miss my family
@Genesis Remedy Awww, buddy!.. If I could id flick a magic wand and unite you
Thank you for this I’ve been going trough a tuff time and sometimes I don’t think I can keep going
@@yukisakura-nl8ro I'll give you a virtual hug
Me: “Am I happy?”
Also me: "... Maybe not."
Me: “Am I unhappy?”
Also me: "... Maybe not."
You're my soulmate now 😔✊❤️
AHHH YES THIS IS MEEEEEE-
Edit:ummm HOW YOU DO THAT THIS VID WAS POSTED A FEW MINUTES AGO HOW YOUR COMMENT SAY ONE WEEK AGO TELL MEEEEEEE-
1 WEEK AGO?
TIME TRAVELER AAAAAA
@@notbeds bruh
Alternate title: how to figure out why you cry everyday at 3am
Yes, that would be a good title! We are thinking of a new narrative form of story sharing. Any topic suggestions?
Why do I overthink during the night?
@@Psych2go like someone telling a story or story's that could Happen?
Pajamas Same here. I think of how people think of me every night. And then by the time I wake up, I felt that it wasn’t too bad and the person probably forgot about it.
Pajamas I agree I spend hours over hours overthinking about everything during the no
Personally I feel like I'll never be able to be truly happy, I'm quite pessimistic, reserved, lonely and on top of that, I have severe social anxiety. The only thing I feel like I can achieve at this point is learning to be grateful, grateful for the few people who love me and care for me.
Same
And what if no one cares u
Annelore, partly true. Understand or try to, the random luck, that most people experience. It is normal to feel sad if bad things happen to you. So, the small things and an element of chance or luck, will maybe happen. 🍀
Magenta Megi horseshit. You want good things to happen to you? Work for it. Otherwise only misfortune will come your way. Sorry to burst your bubble
I can feel what you said, hold on and slowly try the other options
Me in my current stage of life: **Unhappy**
Psych2go: Hey
i had achieved 69 likes...
*but then someone HAD to like it-*
@@GHOUSTTM some people 🙄
Plus another 200 people smh
Let's just try 420 likes then
Me in my current state of life : feels like has depression
hey, i’m a girl who’s going into high school soon. but i’m going to be alone and unhappy. i’ll be surrounded by strangers and the people i do know i’ve fallen out of touch with because we don’t click as much anymore. every year gets worse for me. i actually didn’t want to go to this high school. i applied for this fine arts school in their arts and creative writing programs and felt confident i would get in because everyone told me my art was this school level. it wasn’t. i got on the waiting list. but my best friend, who only applied to come with me, was accepted into the writing program. and now she’s going. and i know i should be proud of her but i want to scream at her for stealing my dream, what i’ve worked so hard for. i wanted to do it for myself, for the people who said i should go to this school, and for my parents to finally be proud of someone like me. but i couldn’t. i can’t. i just want to quit. i just want something that isn’t “it gets better” or “you’ll find new friends”.
You have to keep pushing on..
Why decide in advance that you'll be unhappy and alone? I loved high school and started not knowing many people there but there were so many opportunities to meet new people and make new friends. There were also a billion ways to get involved in clubs, sports, theater, etc. Great ways to get involved and get to know people and maybe get to know yourself better too. ☺️
Hey,I too feel depressed because of the decisions I made in the past and of the reason when my mother died six years ago when I was only 9 years old.I can forget about my wrong decisions but the dead of my mother still making me unhappy over time. I'd just have to say that we should try one more time in our lives because we have only one.My mother's dream is to make me a good engineer,I wish if she could watch over me but I know it can't be possible.I still miss her.😭😭
I can relate to u , I know the situation u r in coz i was going through the same thing , it hurts like hell when ur dreams are shattered but it hurts more when u see someone else get something u always wanted . I won't tell u that it would get better but trust me everything happens for a reason and perhaps something even better than this is waiting for you and remember darkness of night precedes the morning light and this too shall pass. The experience that u have gained through this is going to make u stronger , so keep going on to become a stronger and better version of urself coz it is on you to decide whether u want to control ur situation or let the situation control you.
Same here
1. people
2. people
3. people
4. people
5. people
6. people
7. people
and lastly,
8. people.
Hahaha
True 😌
😂😂😂😂
Haha sometimes relatable for me too xd
Facts 💯💯💯
8 reasons why you may be unhappy-
1. You worry about everything.
2. You hold on to your grudges.
3. You compare yourself to others.
4. You've forgotten how to be grateful.
5. You have a pessimist way of thinking.
6. You're surrounded by negative people.
7. You've given up your control of life.
8. You gravitate towards people who are bad for you.
I recommend watching for more.
All reasons are relatable on my case ☹️
No, nove of the above. These videos are getting more ridiculous as I can't see they are helpful to any human being.
@@magentaMegi I agree, from what ive been seeing with other commenters too, these videos are starting to make me feel worse about myself. Its like listening to that type of person that always has to point out flaws in someone else. Perhaps adding ways to fix these issues would make them more useful.
@@boboddy6270 yes a bigger picture could help, esp since we are in this same mess with varying conditions.
I always feel unhappy, but I just keep telling myself:
"Stop being a fake sad kid you're embarrassing yourself"
"There are people experiencing worse things than you"
"Why are you like this? You are not suicidal, you're just loosing interest in life"
This sounds like something an entitled parent would say on r/insaneparents
Like yeah people are suffering but let me vibe
@@drifterduckygaming4646 Maybe I am an entitled parent myself lol 😀
@@zyen0308 lmao
Same😞i think ..we are doubtful to evrything confused to everything ....we debate inside from both the sides and when it comes to conclusion it is nothing...
Me: *crying*
The notification for this video:
why are you unhappy?
Me: good timing.😆
Feel better pumpkin༼ つ ◕◡◕ ༽つ
@@isimpformice9009 aww thank you.
I was literally crying five seconds ago because I rewatched the ending of steven universe future, and school is hard and I'm scared because it turns out I went on a trip with a friend of mine and now her dad has covid. I could've been exposed! It wasn't even that long ago, like, maybe less than two weeks! I haven't felt a tiny bit sick, but I'm scared of being a carrier. I don't have a fever or anything. It just doesn't help that I didn't know her dad was sick until I went to school today! Who knows, if I'm a carrier, I could've exposed my friends!
I felt that
@@isimpformice9009 let me get some of that
⊂(･ω･⊂)
I struggle with anxiety, I stay up late overthinking. No one ever understands. They say “I understand” but they don’t! I feel alone... all my happiness is my dog, he’s my best friend, he fills my heart. I can’t imagine not having him. I lost a big part of my life. I’m alone.. I have my family, they understand but they don’t.
I’m going through the samething .your not alone my friend
You are not alone!! Sometimes people just can't understand what you're going through, but it doesn't mean they don't care. But know that there are lots of people struggling - look for some support groups with people who get what you're dealing with!
2:41
"I'm grateful she's here with me..."
The girl: 👁👄👁
She legit got bimbo lips.
This Cheered Me Up ^-^
More like
💗👁 👄👁💗
@@Matthew-vs8iz yay ^3^
I’d smash ngl
1- you worry about everything
2- you hold onto grudges
3- you compare yourself to others
4- youve forgotten how to be grateful
5- you and a pessimistic way of thinking
6- you’re surrounded by negative people
7- youve given up control of your life
8- you gravitate to people who are bad for you
i have this one friend and she is extremely negative. the most negative person i have met, actually. i try to comfort her but she wont listen unless its her crush. her talking about negative things is kind of making me negative as well. im too scared of letting her go though. she’s my only friend and we’re really close. she just wont listen when i try to help her out. she makes fun of other girls for no reason and i think its just wrong but when i tell her to stop, she says that im attacking her. i’ve gained tons of insecurities because of her but its just hard to let go
Could you please stop exposing me? 🤣
I love this video 😘😘
9th reason as to why I’m always unhappy:
•Covid-19
Yes that's how I feel
It’s the opposite for me 😂
We’ll get through it. Weather the storm
@@littlea420 Right? 😁
You actually should be kinda grateful, in our country, school isn't close AT ALL, which means while you guys are taking online classes we actually have to walk to school and have a shit tons of homework
You always upload on the way I’m feeling at the time and appreciate that
How strange! But hope that they help!
I’ll never be truly happy, but that’s okay. I’m getting use to it.
You just broke the point
Dont be a pessimist.
there is no such thing as “truly happy” and that’s for all us but YOU have to create it!!! 😘😘
I needed to hear this today I had to share on fb. I hope it helped someone else too. Thanks Psych2go ur saving my life! I love ya'll!
We're happy to hear that it has helped you and now you're paying it forward by sharing it with others! Thank you for those words and hope you have a wonderful week ahead!
Sometimes im unhappy about myself, being stubborn around peeps,not in a mood, and lack of confidence to socialize with my family. I dont know why... is it cause its hard to forget?
Cuz of this vid i understand why
That's good that you gain insights!
1. You worry about everything.
2. You hold on to grudges.
3. You always compare yourself with others.
4. You forget to be grateful.
5. You have a pessimistic way of thinking.
6. You are surrounded by negative people.
7. You give up control on Life.
8. You gravitate towards people bad for you.
All of these is what I have experienced.
I must say that I am working on these aspects one by one and the way I think has changed a lot since a year.
Stay blessed everyone.
I love how they thank their viewers for supporting them at the beginning of every video...
No one can know me better then this channel..🙃 Yes I'm always unhappy cuz I don't have anything that would make me happy...🙂 Every night I feel like the next day is mountain heavy....🙂
I’m always unhappy around others.
I always change my behaviour because I lack confidence and feel like I’m just annoying them :/
Does anyone have tips for my problem?
I guess you could start by looking at your good things and strengths, so you get to know you are worthy and you are not the annoying person you may think you are.
Even carrying the possibility for that to be real means that you know you are better than you think.
Go treasure hunting with that, it'll help you improve your self confidence.
Tablet Thank you! ☺️
Wait how is this comment 1 week old???
how did you guys comment from a week ago-?
Shonko Mio Maybe they shared it to these viewers
I love the cat in the thumbnail. His/her owner is feeling unhappy but does his/her best to comfort him/her!
They read my mind.........again
I mean I have a passion for when I’m older and it’s to make games but I’m low key kinda depressed so idk if I’ll ever accomplish that😭
Edit- playing horror games makes me happy and playing with my dolls but only temporarily
You can use your depression to fuel your passion. What do you think?
@@Psych2go that's what I did awhile back and it made me realize lots of things...you do email, if we ever need to just talk?
Psych2Go wow you replied to me your like my second therapist😔
@@Psych2go I don't know if that's good advice. Care to elaborate ?
That makes sense. I want to go to college for psychology, but I'm worried about my grades even though I get great grades. I also want to be a singer, but I'm having so much trouble getting ideas to stay. I can think of them but I can't remember them. I also have some trouble with low motivation because I'm always tired no matter how much sleep I get.
“You may be accepting the love you think you deserve, but the truth is, you deserve much better” this is a great quote, people usually stay in toxic relationships/friendships because they think thats what they deserve, but they deserve a better lifestyle and people surrounding them.
1. You worry about everything.
2. You hold on your grudges.
3. You compare yourself to others.
4. You've forgotton how to feel grateful
5. You have a passimistic way of thinking.
6. You're surrounded by negative people.
7. You've given up control of your life.
8. You gravitate to people who're bad for you.
Me and my Younger Sibling have these kinds of Problems sometimes! And we're still lonely even when we live with other People !
I am worried that if I'm not happy maybe they'll feel down too.
If I'm going down, I don't wanna drag others into this
Same I feel the same way
Me: *sees title*
Me: “Isn’t that called being _depressed_ ?”
Yes, but depression is more clinical.. as in you can't really control it. In this case, you can learn the things that are making you unhappy and change those things. Whether that be an unhealthy environment or habit that you have. What do you think?
@Psych2Go oh ok that makes more sense thank you for explaining 😊
I'm not always unhappy; I'd even say I'm not unhappy most of the time. But I often slip into bouts of existential angst, self-loathing and an inability to let go and forgive myself. I've been through depression before, and depressive tendencies never entirely vanish. I honestly don't know if there's something wrong with me, or if I'm only as mixed-up as anyone else. Am I doing the right thing for myself and the world around me? There are so many messages out there saying this, that, the other, that it often feels like you're damned if you do, damned if you don't!
It can all just be too much sometimes...
In my case? It’s sleeping alone, knowing I don’t have that special someone, suffering in silence, can’t get over my terrible childhood, thoughts of betrayal (or worse), the list goes on.
I just want to tell you something psych2go, before i had my first real girlfriend (still together) i watched all of your videos religiously. Ever since I've been with her I've looked at your videos as a way to see how much I've grown. I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart and keep doing what you're doing :)
Wow, I thought I'd relate to most of these and I barely even relate to the grudges one because the longest I keep a grudge usually is around a day in a half, and that's rare on its own but I am extremely forgiving, at least the way I see it. I also relate to the worrying about everything, except not entirely. I worry about the people I care about, and because of this worry, lots of the time I put them before myself because I want them to be happy, but sometimes I forget about my own happiness.
ua-cam.com/video/KbTC-6ZtqXc/v-deo.html
You guys helped me a lot from get over from my initial depression......I'm living a very happy life now I learned self love is how much important and neccessary in your life.....🙏🙏🙏thank you so much once again hope you guys live long 🙏🙏🙏
My mind: do it
Also my mind: do you even have the guts?
Also my mind: people will miss you
Me: You just need a tub of ice cream and hot Cheetos
i can relate
."....the saddest food known to mankind..... Icecream."
-Captain Holt
@:Anonymous : wow you said it right. Thank you. I have moments like this. I wonder how could it be possible? To get tired of living and existing and depressed for years but also scared to die.. sometimes? Isn't it if i'm tired i shouldn't be scared? But yeah sometimes i'm scared sometimes i'm not especially when you feel you'd burst you don't care if you die.
don’t do it
I Feel Like I Can Relate Too Much...
Sometimes I Feel Like "If I Can't Be Happy, What's The Purpose Of Living..? Maybe If I'm Dead.. I'll Be Finally Happy...?"
But The Thoughts Of "I Have So Much I Wanna Do In This ONE Life God Has Given Me.." And "I Promised To Never Leave My Bestfriends Behind.."
Holds Me Back From Killing Myself, It Makes Me Scared..
just took an assessment test for my mental health today and the results were not that good😔 and this video came in the perfect timing💗 ur videos give me so much comfort and made me further understand how important mental health is especially growing up in a place where mental health isn’t commonly talked about (unfortunately) and I can’t thank u enough for that🥰❤️
I always love watching your videos.
They always help me understand something's that im going through.
And I'm glad you guys take the time to share knowledge with people around the world who need it.
Thank you and keep up the good work :3
notes for myself:
1.) yes i do. i overthink way too much about what people think about me. it’s so tiring.
2.) occasionally. but not really. i try not to, and i’ve learned to leave and let go.
3.) i constantly compare myself to others lmao. it’s a problem. i know i shouldn’t constantly worry about that cuz i’m amazing as i am.
4.) i actually count my blessings a lot, but i do agree that i often forget about the little things.
5.) oh i am soooo pessimistic. crazy. i wish i could stop.
6.) i have amazing friends imo, and they’re always there for me.
7.) nah. i just blame myself. i know i have problems and need to fix them, even if it’s so difficult to.
8.) honestly, sometimes i want to be around toxic people to feel... worth it for once. because i only feel worthy to toxic people. and that i deserve that. wild.
just at the perfect time too
Hello
Thank you for this. To think that last week I was in a bright mood and focused but now I feel so lethargic because my hard work was not valued and appreciated as much as I thought it would be. I need to be more grateful for what I have and what I can do - not what I don’t have and cannot do yet.
"You expecting the love u deserve, but the truth is You deserve Better"❤
My problem is that, I can't forget people of what they have done to me. Like, in elementary, some boys would bully me a lot. And it just seems like I can't forgive them, and I blame them for me being unhappy.
Me: D E P R E S S I O N
Yes. That's a big one :'(
Same over here 🤧
Same :((
Same😢
So many replies within a couple of minutes lol
Lately I'm working hard on learning to think and feel positively of myself and others. Even though I'm just at the start of that journey, I can already tell it has a *huge* impact on my happiness.
There’s also this weird thing that happens sometimes when someone’s elevated themselves, they gravitate towards people on the same wavelength. It’s almost like finding and moving on to partners who build each other up
It made me sad knowing so many people are unhappy. I hope you be happy today. Smile ☺
Me: Relates to three things
Me: *You have explained my life*
1. you worry about everything
2. you hold on to grudges
3. you compare yourself to others
4. you've forgotten how to be grateful
5. you have a pessimistic way of thinking
6. you're surrounded by negative people
7. you've given up control of your life
8. you gravitate to people who are bad for you
I have never had control over my life to give up in the first place, I am a minor. That makes me sad.
I have the no.1 problem, I don't wanna worry but I become worried about everything most of the time. But now I'm trying to be careless about what people think about me and trying to get better.Also, I had no.2 problem but I think I'm now becoming calm slowly. No.3 problem I have but now even if I compare with others,I don't insult for my difference. No. 6 problem is still I have but it's getting less. 😊 But al'hamdulillah, I am surrounded with positive people. No. 8 didn't match with me. So I'm getting better because I've got my best friends. I had a bit negativity in the past but now I'm growing up with positivity.😍 I hear positive songs like 'try everything' and 'battle scars',these really helps.I try to pray 5 times a day and I trust in Allah. Really friends,my brothers and sisters,don't lose hope. Your confidence and belief can make you a good person.What makes you calm? Who are you really? What do you want in life? How your friends are? Are they good for you or bad? Are they causing harm to you or you feel calm when you stay with them? Think about these,please don't think about what people think about you. This is toxic and it bothers so much. Think that you are you,never expect that everyone will love you. Sorry for my long comment I'm a talktive person.😛 Another good thing you can do is please watch Psych2go videos it really helps you to know more about you. 😍 I'm giving you all a huge hug and lots of love.
If you reading this, have a nice day! You got this ❤
8 years I lived between toxic people always telling me I'm weird and crazy. I feel like only mom loves me anymore. I got used to doing everything my friends ask me to do and then I don't expect the same. It's better than loosing everyone. I stayed in quarantine for almost 6 months now and I really miss school. It's not a heaven, but there are worse things than that.
Everything about the last point made me feel creeped out for some reason
I really needed someone to show me this reasons of being unhappy. And this video came at the grate time I'm lost in the most. Thank you 💔
2:45 my parent usually say that thing when I'm making a mistakes..... Even when I accidentally slipped the ceramic mug, plates and glasses......
well, at the start of this year i have gone downhill. depressing feelings and social anxiety. quarantine has been ruining my family's relationship. i have almost no *real* friends and i am just there, not significant. life is horrible
This is doesn't happen to me often but sometimes it does because memories my family make I never care about and I get mad at myself for not taking it seriously or caring at all I'm trying to control it which is helping but that doesn't stop my family from making good,sad or and memories and the thing is that my mom will make me sit down with my family if I start to act up which just makes me even more angry and stressed out. And sometimes I think about what would happen if something very bad would happen in my family and the I realised that I think very bad about them like saying "I wish I never was in a family, I wish I could live alone forever.." I'm trying to control it myself since no one wants to help me and my mom won't believe me and even tho I trust my dad he would say I'm too "young" to know about that.little do they know I know everything wether good or bad I know. I have gotten over it but still come back sometimes but I have to control it my self cause who else is gonna do it.know one. Just me...
I hold every emotion to me, because if i let them out other people will know my weaknesses. And I don't trust anyone.
Everyone else: identifies their emotions
My mind: *confused confusing confusion*
Praise God for life today! Hallelujah Amen 🙏 ❤ To God be the Glory! Be happy...you are living! Let go and let God! People don't create your siuations you 💯 do. We all have to make better choices for our lives by trusting God for his will for our life! Hallelujah Amen 🙏 ❤
Spoiled rich kids: *I don't have such weakness*
Omg true lol
Your comment and profile pic made me smile lol
They are narks
I am so sad about the world now...I feel the world is full of prejudice and hatred even if you do nothing. People always only want to believe what they want to believe and tend to ignore the truth. Even though it happens, at least respect others but many still cannot even respect. I am so easily affected by others’ words. Yeah I should learn to be grateful...how can I make my heart more stronger...
Edit：your voice is very healing, thank you for sharing.
"if you aint happy, you are just ungreatful" (litterally most of the people i meet and still have to meet/talk to)
Another reason for unhappiness: lack of bodily care. It definitely falls under subset of other things listed here, ex. giving up control over your life, but when you focus entirely on the body, there are some relatively straightforward fixes. Examples: I need to get into meditation, yesterday I had my first successful session and it really kept up my mood after a workout. And sleep! If you watched this video past 10 pm, you are like me: struggling to put devices away before bed. It's tough to accept but many studies are saying you may need to turn off screens as early as 9 pm, which is a CRAZY idea to my Gen Z just-out-of-high school self.
Anyways, this was a great list Psych2Go, I will comment on your videos more often since I just realized, my friends aren't picking up on my depressed mood even though I'm trying to "subtly make it obvious." And this is probably because the education system never taught them mental health stuff, so the next best alternative is platforms like UA-cam. I feel like depression rates would drop way down if people (particularly in my country, the U.S) were properly educated at a younger age. Instead, the high school attitude was "You can anonymously recommend someone for counseling if you feel they are struggling." But somehow they don't realize that in high school, even if it is anonymous, there is still a sensation of guilt and fear in submitting such a request, since if you are wrong about your friend's depressed state, you could get them in unnecessary complications, and it would be your fault. And the perceived chance of you accurately identifying their mood is really low, since there is no formal education on what a depressed person acts like, looks like, talks like. Sorry for rant but tldr I want people to see this awesome, professional, and life changing channel.
Sad smile:sad ayes but still have a slight smile on the face
Anyone related to this expression?no?ok
this video made me think how I suck because of the people around me, unfortunately I can’t do anything to keep them away or avoid them because they are my parents.
they make me feel bad about myself, throwing my defects in my face and saying that I'm a disappointment, I'm tired of this routine, but there's nothing I can do, all this makes me lose hope and motivation, if i were who i really am, show them who i am, i wouldnt receive any support ya know ,, my dad already said he wont accept me if I were such a thing and it made me sick and hopeless for the future.
This is exactly how I'm feeling rn.
This channel is basically my therapist 😭😭❤️
Facts fam
ua-cam.com/video/KbTC-6ZtqXc/v-deo.html
Frrr sameeee
True dat!
I just feel like too sad when I see
Ppl r having things sooo easily ..which I wanted the most and I am the one is working hard...
I also want peace.. I want happiness.. I want rest...I deserve to be happy...
...
But all I get is just hard work,no enjoyment, no one even thinking abt me....
.....
It just tears me in pieces
......
😔😔😔😔😔
....
I just hope that ...
This too shall pass...
..
I shall prevail
Me: **chubby**
Other people: _fit_
Me: *:(*
Chubby 🥰
Me: "skinny"
Other kids and adults : haha gain weight skeleton
My teacher: I'm going to forcefeed you vending machine snacks, chicken arms
(bullying isn't fun. I gained 20 pounds in months because everybody made fun of my weight, so I'd make myself eat until I got sick eat more, and I started stress eating and getting all of my energy from eating. Then there was my stupid teacher casually telling me she was going to FORCE FEED me all the snacks in the vending machine because I have bony arms. Fun times.)
@@carnage2967 _yes_ 👁️💧👄💧👁️
Chubby yr cute
relatable qwq
Hello,if you somehow read this Miss.Narrator your voice made me comfortable. I know I am unhappy and depressed but you make me happy ,never have a chance to see you. I believe that you can heal me from all the miseries in my life. Love dose it better than any medicines.
Optimists are happier.
Pessimists are usually right.
-Martin Seligman Ph.D.
Whenever I get optimistic, life always - without fail - kicks me in the balls. Optimism just leads to depression.
Exactly, to be optimistic you need to selfdecept you
When I first started to watching your videos am like you know everything is ok and fine . Now you helped me to find out what's the problem . Thanks for helping.
Depressed me "I'm stuck in life"
Step brother from porn "finally a worthy opponent!"
What...in the actual...fuck (haha)
I've been waiting for a video like this for months! Super excited to watch it!
How about "Effects of hiding emotions"?, just giving suggestions
I am unhappy, but I do feel grateful for what I have... I feel frustrated, like I know I can do more but *no-one* will give me a chance! I have given up my control of my life for that reason. I don’t have any friends & lack confidence, which maybe causes me to make a bad impression. I don’t hold grudges, life is too short for that.
0:30 that mans in the bottom right looks like he’s blazin lol
lol.
😂😂
1, 3 (compare myself to bestie), 4 (it’s hard to be thankful when my parents yell at your sister, get fast food more times then cooking, and just don’t pay attention), 6, 7 (due to me having heavy dependency)
And an extra one if not having the will to do anything..life right now is a cycle of sadness, dependence, and possible depression
😭
"Hey Psych2Go fam"
*Psych2Go was raised on the streets*
Your voice is so calm, which I’m sure helps alot of people. Your videos really have helped me, and because of you, I’m getting the help I need.
Ah yes this explains my emotions thank you so much!
Me at the corner: *Cri*
Yes yes *big cri*
GIANT CRI
I used to be less pessimistic but that was before I started constantly failing at everything. I don’t know how to get better so I just bring myself down to avoid being more hurt by failure
I got cheated on today and even before I always would cry myself to bed and this is why
So sorry to hear! You deserve better! Crying is a good way to release your bottled up emotions!
I struggle with overcoming my negative thinking, because it has gotten so normal for me, that I don't really realize it. And when I do, I can sometimes switch it up to thinking positively, but just after a few seconds I gravitate back to my negative-thinking-loops, again without realizing.
Video posted 1 hour ago
Me 1 hour before: sleeping in online class
Notification : kwaii (sound 😂)
Me : ah a video !!
Miss : asks a question
Me : tells wrong answer and disconnects call and come to see this video
Network : how dare u skipped your class no network for u 👿
Me : 😭I'll complain about u in comments section 😭
Network : who is gonna read your comments 🤣-👽
Me : right now u r reading
I am so grateful for living in a time where Psych2Go excists. Youve helped me through so much, thank you.
I'm not always unhappy, I'm always sad with for no reason, because I have no reason to be sad but I'm haha it's weird. I think I'm getting depressed because I've been in the house so long without any freedom.
*im feeling it..the sadness always hurting my heart till my heart breaks [ it already breaks :)]*
Me: All yes, another day, another sadness!
Psych2Go: *Here are 8 reasons why you’re not happy*
Me: *DEEP BREATHE* Here we go again!
@RayBan yea truee
How do I stop worrying though? That's my main problem, worrying to much and self doubt. Though I try to keep an optimistic attitude and push those thoughts away they always come back.
Me: Hey....I am ACTUALLY happy right now!!
Me: 2 seconds later crying in the restroom until my head starts pounding ☺️🙃.
Thank you so much for posting this video its been a very long time since ive been always so unhappy, almost everyday, i just felt like my life is just an endless loop, i always wanted something to accomplish everyday because if i cant i wont feel fulfilled, and i always spent so much time helping lots of people, but never helped myself, i do feel happiness, but just a few times, especially when i try to distract myself with entertainment, but when i stop that i go back to being sad and overthinking again, so i try tp forget my problems by doing tasks which doesnt even help as well, right now im trying ti fix my mental health.
I've scored the highest, NICE... oh wait, this isn't the right test to score D:
I worry about everything, I compare myself to the others and I have a pessimistic way of thinking, I relate to those. I am glad that this video exists
I'm all these things during covid 19
…1… You worry about everything.
I have no worries on the things I can control as I have applied myself and am healthy, wealthy, and a wise azz.
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…2… You hold on to grudges.
Old grudges are put away like old paperwork. I don’t review them over and over, but they are accessible. The problem is that new grudges occur whenever I see someone proudly displaying the prejudice of heightism.
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…3… You compare yourself to others.
It is not I that compares myself to anyone. It is those that say a man is not a man if he is not “this” tall. They are the ones doing the comparison.
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…4… You’ve forgotten how to be grateful.
I have never forgotten how to be grateful. However, In a world that promotes the idea that a short man is unworthy there are constant reminders that something that was “given” to you, you cannot remove. Tell me how I need to be “grateful”.
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…5… You have a pessimistic way of thinking.
I am always optimistic that the world will stop the prejudice. What I see is a lot of people virtue signaling about “black lives matter”, while short men are mocked. I am never pessimistic when it comes to things I have control over, or where I have an even chance like everyone else. Then, my efforts will make the difference.
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…6… You’re surrounded by negative people.
Well, practically anyone that needs to use debunked excuses like, “its natural instinct”, or, “I don’t want to tower over someone else (even though they are shorter to begin with) are very negative people… well are we all not constantly surrounded by them?
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…7… You’ve given up control of your life.
I control what I can control. People who are a problem, I have either endured (hey, you can’t leave an abusive home when you’re a kid ------ at least not in my time), or ejected from my life.
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…8… You gravitate to people who are bad for you.
Well, it seems that most women have some form of “height” prejudice. I gravitate towards women when it comes to romance. Should I just become a monk? No. The world needs to change. If people can jump on board with BLM, they can fight heightism too. Otherwise the world, in general is NOT worthy.
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